There are countless reasons why women lose interest in sex. A lot are from hormonal changes. Most are 100% out of her control. She can seek treatment for this, but it can be costly and have side effects. It also might not work. This is a part of life. If she's wonderful and your marriage is good in other aspects and you're still considering divorce over the lack of sex, perhaps you should re-examine your ability to be a husband.
I see it like this: If the main part of your relationship is sex, you won't last. Same thing if your relationship doesn't have enough sex ("enough" is determined by the individuals). It's all about balance.
Combined with the fact that men have the most to lose in a divorce and the average wife gains nearly 40 pounds a few years after her first bite of wedding cake we have the "sexless marriage".... What another AWESOME reason for single men to stay single indefinitely!
@VRJensen.....get in line ....haven't had sex in 6 months....wife just not into it anymore....no interest in sex...no sex drive. ...so if she ain't getting any I ain't either. You don't have to shoot me....just point the gun in my direction I'll pull the fucking trigger.
Somebody gets it 10 times a year!!! that lucky schmuch! her libido was great when we were dating and then when we go t married she went on the pill for six months and ppppbpppbbbbpppbbbb nothing...and for the 7 years since once every couple of months....SHOOT ME PLEASE!!!
Heres a tip to all of those young ladies out there who are into older men...DONT DO IT! At first its great, give it a year and youll be putting why wont he have sex with me in your search engine. Go out with someone your own age or you will severly regret your desicion!
@cvzdez - I'm in a similar situation, I'm 35, we've been married for 41/2 years. My husband is a full-time student, I'm a teacher. He is sooo busy, and tired, stressed, etc. I am too, but on a more minor scale. We have it from time to time, but I miss it if we go too long. Nobody on TV and in society wants to talk about this - men not wanting or seeking it. Because men, of course, are supposed to be animals. Not true. Here's a tip, catch him in the morning, after a good sleep.
and it is so hard for me. I am a sexual person I like that intimacy. it is what keeps my connection. sometimes men have a hormonal issues too. I cry about it sometimes it hurts me alot.
@cvzdez Girl you are preaching to the chior! Im just so frustraited...Its not fair and makes me feel like its my fault, I did something to turn him off...Im just so sad, so I feel for you.
Ok it starts with women using sex to control the guy (Im upset so no sex, why dont you stay home, if you go i will be mad= no sex etc) So the Guy has needs so the logical conter is to Masturbate or cheat shrinking the womens control over him. Womens counter is to with hold sex longer until he begs. His move is to rely on other options more, the results is NO SEX.
Women aren't the same as men. We don't like to be touched when we're pissed off. Is that too hard to understand?
I swear most womens' vaginas are connected to their heart. If you don't please the heart, you ain't getting none. And pleasing a woman is soo simple you'd be surprised (especially a married woman). Just make sure she doesn't feel like your mom and you're golden.
@myalisa78 why do people need a form of control, why not submit equally and try to take care of each others needs when timing is right? im curious what your opinion is..
@genericmeatunit I honestly didn't know that married parents with teenage children were meant to have sex. I'm 15 and my parents have a great (from what I see) relationship but never a single day in my life as long as I can remember have they closed their room door or indicated in any way a need for "private time". Must just be an American thing to have sex all the time :P
17, 18, 20 years... I know Sherri (the world is flat) Sheppard is stupid, but come on, what happened to 19?
etondirt 1 week ago
How do you stop woman from having sex? Marry her. CHEAT ON THE FRIGID BITCH!
BiggerFatterBlog 3 weeks ago
There are countless reasons why women lose interest in sex. A lot are from hormonal changes. Most are 100% out of her control. She can seek treatment for this, but it can be costly and have side effects. It also might not work. This is a part of life. If she's wonderful and your marriage is good in other aspects and you're still considering divorce over the lack of sex, perhaps you should re-examine your ability to be a husband.
EllaKathryn 1 month ago
I see it like this: If the main part of your relationship is sex, you won't last. Same thing if your relationship doesn't have enough sex ("enough" is determined by the individuals). It's all about balance.
EllaKathryn 1 month ago
NO NO NO Elizabeth !!!
You are a law abiding , republican christian who ONLY, ONLY, ONLY, ONLY has sex for reproductive reasons, NEVER EVER for pleasure.
DON'T TRY TO CHANGE CHRISTIAN VALUES TO SUIT YOUR OWN NEEDS, Elizabeth.
That would be sacrilegious and WRONG .
Can't belive, "CHRISTIANS" these days. Speaking about sex between a husband and wife in the open.
What is this world-a-come'N too?
Seyahhsod 6 months ago
Combined with the fact that men have the most to lose in a divorce and the average wife gains nearly 40 pounds a few years after her first bite of wedding cake we have the "sexless marriage".... What another AWESOME reason for single men to stay single indefinitely!
THAAAAAAANK YOU!
embracingreality 7 months ago
@VRJensen.....get in line ....haven't had sex in 6 months....wife just not into it anymore....no interest in sex...no sex drive. ...so if she ain't getting any I ain't either. You don't have to shoot me....just point the gun in my direction I'll pull the fucking trigger.
jfsttp 1 year ago 4
Somebody gets it 10 times a year!!! that lucky schmuch! her libido was great when we were dating and then when we go t married she went on the pill for six months and ppppbpppbbbbpppbbbb nothing...and for the 7 years since once every couple of months....SHOOT ME PLEASE!!!
VRJensen1 1 year ago
What! Some women actually like sex - with men!
twolunches 1 year ago
Heres a tip to all of those young ladies out there who are into older men...DONT DO IT! At first its great, give it a year and youll be putting why wont he have sex with me in your search engine. Go out with someone your own age or you will severly regret your desicion!
myalisa78 1 year ago
@cvzdez - I'm in a similar situation, I'm 35, we've been married for 41/2 years. My husband is a full-time student, I'm a teacher. He is sooo busy, and tired, stressed, etc. I am too, but on a more minor scale. We have it from time to time, but I miss it if we go too long. Nobody on TV and in society wants to talk about this - men not wanting or seeking it. Because men, of course, are supposed to be animals. Not true. Here's a tip, catch him in the morning, after a good sleep.
sueaegijimmy 1 year ago
I am 32 and my husband doesn't want sex
and it is so hard for me. I am a sexual person I like that intimacy. it is what keeps my connection. sometimes men have a hormonal issues too. I cry about it sometimes it hurts me alot.
cvzdez 1 year ago 4
@cvzdez Girl you are preaching to the chior! Im just so frustraited...Its not fair and makes me feel like its my fault, I did something to turn him off...Im just so sad, so I feel for you.
myalisa78 1 year ago
Ok it starts with women using sex to control the guy (Im upset so no sex, why dont you stay home, if you go i will be mad= no sex etc) So the Guy has needs so the logical conter is to Masturbate or cheat shrinking the womens control over him. Womens counter is to with hold sex longer until he begs. His move is to rely on other options more, the results is NO SEX.
GZ1LH2 1 year ago
@GZ1LH2
Women aren't the same as men. We don't like to be touched when we're pissed off. Is that too hard to understand?
I swear most womens' vaginas are connected to their heart. If you don't please the heart, you ain't getting none. And pleasing a woman is soo simple you'd be surprised (especially a married woman). Just make sure she doesn't feel like your mom and you're golden.
lavinder11 1 year ago
@lavinder11 for some yes. Women are like a lock. One key doesnt fit all. Men and women are different hence the reason why women like homos.
YiuTeub 1 year ago
@YiuTeub
No we aren't like locks. Most women will settle for damn near anything.
lavinder11 1 year ago
@GZ1LH2 Oh yaa My husband does exactly that...that is not just a woman thing. Male or Female its a form of control!
myalisa78 1 year ago
@myalisa78 why do people need a form of control, why not submit equally and try to take care of each others needs when timing is right? im curious what your opinion is..
legalman07 2 months ago
What? There's supposed to be hot sex at some point in marriage..?!? Why didn't somebody tell me?!
genericmeatunit 1 year ago 8
@genericmeatunit Yaa no one told me that...hmmm thinks Im missing something here.
myalisa78 1 year ago
@genericmeatunit I honestly didn't know that married parents with teenage children were meant to have sex. I'm 15 and my parents have a great (from what I see) relationship but never a single day in my life as long as I can remember have they closed their room door or indicated in any way a need for "private time". Must just be an American thing to have sex all the time :P
JadenTheCoolGuy 1 year ago
whaaaaaaaaaaat OMG
Nisasa83 2 years ago
whoopi-it's just like damn!
darphbobo90 2 years ago 7
is this what they talk about on here???...sheeesh...
samnyc2 2 years ago
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it's a big mistake having a pretty blonde on this show. It makes the other ladies look even more hideous by comparison.
MountAthos 2 years ago
I like joy behar. She's like the fat, funny italian aunt that I never had
thegov08 2 years ago
LOL
toogoody01 2 years ago
@thegov08 haha thats how I look at her.
neerrg 1 year ago
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maybe if you fat cows would lose some weight you'd want to do it more often too!
foresterated 2 years ago
how rude
KDubinthehouse 2 years ago