OK ARE YOU ALL STILL TOGETHER? I HOPE SO LOVE YOUR VIDS... I ONLY ASK BECUZ U SAID IF U SEE HIM ASK HIM OUT.. OK I ASKED THAT QUESTION TO SOON. U JUST SAID THAT YOUR TRYIN TO GET HIM OFF YOUR PLATE. IM WIT YOU MO. KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON!!!!
OK ARE YOU ALL STILL TOGETHER? I HOPE SO LOVE YOUR VIDS... I ONLY ASK BECUZ U SAID IF U SEE HIM ASK HIM OUT.. OK I ASKED THAT QUESTION TO SOON. U JUST SAID THAT YOUR TRYIN TO GET HIM OFF YOUR PLATE.
ok.. I'm proud of you guys! you hit the nail exactly on the head..who ever ask pays..but when does it really stop? Some guys take advantage as if your Suppose to shell out for there asses the entire relationship if it does go further beyond that date. If it goes beyond that date, then everything SUPPOSE to become 50/50...lol
ive noticed that all the black gay bloggers seem to know each other...is ther like a forum where they all meet?..i watche 3lw and scorpion and all know each other...im like loving it...the bald guy with red wife beater shirt ive seen hime in his own blog somwhere.......
I'm old fashion as well! and i think we miss the small things about ppl that breaks hearts in the end.. How a person come at you is a great example of what to expect! FYI I aquate sex with emotions. Always have... no one night stands cutting .. oooh no.. I don't wanna be sampled, i wanted to be comsumed!
whomever asks should pay. the nature of the relationship can also be a factor. I do believe that if the date has multiple parts to it like dinner to movie to coffee joint then the other person should offer to pick something up just as a display of good manners.
Okay I might be late but is Maurice the same dude who model in that one now defunct magazine...Cliq I think the name was it...I am so glad he isn't so butch, he is so sexy to me as you are of course!
I'm glad yall did a video together;it has been a minute; but Im grateful; I hope yall do more vids together;its a treat;but don't wait to long...lol :)
whats upper, im your 1,448 member to join your page.
NOW on too my comment.
im a strick top and for lack of better words, im a real top. if i ask or if im asked i pay. it keeps me balanced and that keeps me doing the right thing in the relationship. besides i have never had anybody pay for anything for me, i wasn't raised like that.
I believe in the you ask you pay philosophy..... But the way to make it fair is to do dinner and some other activity so it is a joint effort from the wallet one pay for dinner the other pay for the other activity
Why adopt the most superficial trappings of heterosexual courting? Being gay is in many ways by definition a transcending of what is conventionally expected. Let the particular connection define the protocol. The minute you let the morays of outsiders seep into your relationships, you are doomed.
well ive always been old fashion....they'll never be a time i go on a date if i dont have money i just think thats retarted....and ive never had a problem
Throw the "Straight Rule Book" out! That's why so many gay men are alone! Maurice, your height is fine, it is ok to go up to "anyone" that strikes your fancy! That's tall guy maybe into short guys! I'm a 6' 3"( total bottom). A old women once told me, "It all meets up at the same place"! LOL Jared, many bottom gay men equate sex with love just as women do. The difference is, we pick up faster when a man is full of shit and move on to the next! Just letting you know this!
Nope, the top should pay, always! Unless the bottom wants to go dutch, or an agreement is made otherwise before hand. Versatiles need to discuss payment details before hand.
Whoever invited should pay. In a boy-girl situation it would look more manly/generous if the guy paid. In a girl-girl its whoever invited the other person. Boy-boy whoever invited the other person should pay. If you guys keep arguing about who pays... just split it. If one person insist on NOT PAYING AT ALL put money on the table and walk off. Dont talk to that deadbeat.
Look you should date someone with money the same or better money then you . hold your on and naken pic f#$k that sent me your bank note that what up !!!
I always have enough for me to do what I'd like to do, like I never assume anything, but the thought for me is that the guy who asks me out should pay
I'm with Maurice. If someone ask you. They pay no if ands or buts about it. I'm old fashion too. Whom ever ask pays for the DATE which includes the movie and dinner or whatever they pay.. Even better cook for your date. That's one way to get the person heart.
Its funny you guys brought that up, I've heard people say something all the time like..."If a guy spends his money on you then that means that you owe him something back in return" no matter what it is he's paying for wether its lunch, dinner or whatever else, he's gonna expect that certain "Something" back from you...if you know what I mean. What about that?
Also, in today's economic times, here in PHX, sometimes if a person is experiencing a financial hardship that will occasionally over-ride routine social rules. Like Joe Schmoe may invite me out but I make it "going Dutch" because I know he's having rough times. Good vid. I love your spontaneity Jared. And your friend seems real sweet. ~Calvin
OMG I loved this video. Your mate, Maurice, looks like he's a lot of fun, and should have no concerns to approach people. Heck, I'd be swept off if he came to me.
I WISH I was there - it was so much fun to watch!
I answered your question directly in Facebook. The person asking, unless I know that they're not well-off... then it's up to them to make up for it in company!
Oh U kidz of today. I would most definitely agree with the standard that if a dude invites me out to eat to my acceptance, then he pays - and of course vice versa, especially if it's a first date. I thought this was recognized by all, as I've never had a problem regarding this subject.
Jared Is Soo Kute-3
MsSwagga111 2 months ago
if you guys weren't gay I'd so do you!
rosanalgstavares 6 months ago
good points!!
kappone7 6 months ago
I started tearing up when I thought about Maurice. :(
Also, I think the top should pay for the bill.
55555jtube 7 months ago
@55555jtube so what happens when you are both bottoms, or both tops, or verse, lol.
eethry 6 months ago
I'm completely devastated - I love you Maurice with all my heart! My deepest sympathies are with you, Jared.
RazorfishPride 9 months ago
OK ARE YOU ALL STILL TOGETHER? I HOPE SO LOVE YOUR VIDS... I ONLY ASK BECUZ U SAID IF U SEE HIM ASK HIM OUT.. OK I ASKED THAT QUESTION TO SOON. U JUST SAID THAT YOUR TRYIN TO GET HIM OFF YOUR PLATE. IM WIT YOU MO. KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON!!!!
1911beauty 1 year ago
OK ARE YOU ALL STILL TOGETHER? I HOPE SO LOVE YOUR VIDS... I ONLY ASK BECUZ U SAID IF U SEE HIM ASK HIM OUT.. OK I ASKED THAT QUESTION TO SOON. U JUST SAID THAT YOUR TRYIN TO GET HIM OFF YOUR PLATE.
1911beauty 1 year ago
OK ARE YOU ALL STILL TOGETHER? I HOPE SO LOVE YOUR VIDS... I ONLY ASK BECUZ U SAID IF U SEE HIM ASK HIM OUT
1911beauty 1 year ago
i think the person youre ONE DATE SHOULD PAY ON THE FIRST TIME.
THE SECOND TIME THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH SHOULD PAY
spokenwordable 1 year ago
ok.. I'm proud of you guys! you hit the nail exactly on the head..who ever ask pays..but when does it really stop? Some guys take advantage as if your Suppose to shell out for there asses the entire relationship if it does go further beyond that date. If it goes beyond that date, then everything SUPPOSE to become 50/50...lol
Bryan5288 1 year ago
i"ve just dicovered your blogs...thank you so much...you are a blessing!!
fabmthomas 1 year ago
Hey do you have a Facebook? If so add me Gregory Dior Johnson
bad4u2night 1 year ago
ive noticed that all the black gay bloggers seem to know each other...is ther like a forum where they all meet?..i watche 3lw and scorpion and all know each other...im like loving it...the bald guy with red wife beater shirt ive seen hime in his own blog somwhere.......
onedominicanfellow 1 year ago
I'm old fashion as well! and i think we miss the small things about ppl that breaks hearts in the end.. How a person come at you is a great example of what to expect! FYI I aquate sex with emotions. Always have... no one night stands cutting .. oooh no.. I don't wanna be sampled, i wanted to be comsumed!
chickwheat 1 year ago
j why u keep lookin up 2 the ceiling?... lol....
keep the videos coming!!
dar3al3stgirl 1 year ago
he/ she who asks pays
zvip5 1 year ago
whomever asks should pay. the nature of the relationship can also be a factor. I do believe that if the date has multiple parts to it like dinner to movie to coffee joint then the other person should offer to pick something up just as a display of good manners.
desertflow3r 1 year ago
whats yall facebook?
24claudius 1 year ago
Okay I might be late but is Maurice the same dude who model in that one now defunct magazine...Cliq I think the name was it...I am so glad he isn't so butch, he is so sexy to me as you are of course!
Luckey2007 1 year ago
I'm glad yall did a video together;it has been a minute; but Im grateful; I hope yall do more vids together;its a treat;but don't wait to long...lol :)
newcreature222 1 year ago
LOVE LOVE LOVE UR VIDEOS JARED!!
ludaboi19 1 year ago
whats upper, im your 1,448 member to join your page.
NOW on too my comment.
im a strick top and for lack of better words, im a real top. if i ask or if im asked i pay. it keeps me balanced and that keeps me doing the right thing in the relationship. besides i have never had anybody pay for anything for me, i wasn't raised like that.
LUV YA PAGE, KEEP IT CUTE!!!
chrisontop1 1 year ago
I believe in the you ask you pay philosophy..... But the way to make it fair is to do dinner and some other activity so it is a joint effort from the wallet one pay for dinner the other pay for the other activity
SevereFrawst 1 year ago
u 2 r so cute when u do the videos together. i wonder what type of guy maurice will eventually end up with......
maughk 1 year ago
I liked Maurice in FINDING ME...great job...
david2407 1 year ago
Why adopt the most superficial trappings of heterosexual courting? Being gay is in many ways by definition a transcending of what is conventionally expected. Let the particular connection define the protocol. The minute you let the morays of outsiders seep into your relationships, you are doomed.
oriac1212 1 year ago
well ive always been old fashion....they'll never be a time i go on a date if i dont have money i just think thats retarted....and ive never had a problem
itsbambam2201 1 year ago
Throw the "Straight Rule Book" out! That's why so many gay men are alone! Maurice, your height is fine, it is ok to go up to "anyone" that strikes your fancy! That's tall guy maybe into short guys! I'm a 6' 3"( total bottom). A old women once told me, "It all meets up at the same place"! LOL Jared, many bottom gay men equate sex with love just as women do. The difference is, we pick up faster when a man is full of shit and move on to the next! Just letting you know this!
Hightea22 1 year ago
Nope, the top should pay, always! Unless the bottom wants to go dutch, or an agreement is made otherwise before hand. Versatiles need to discuss payment details before hand.
atomicsexxxkitten 1 year ago
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staplemode 1 year ago
Whoever invited should pay. In a boy-girl situation it would look more manly/generous if the guy paid. In a girl-girl its whoever invited the other person. Boy-boy whoever invited the other person should pay. If you guys keep arguing about who pays... just split it. If one person insist on NOT PAYING AT ALL put money on the table and walk off. Dont talk to that deadbeat.
sakeena17 1 year ago
can i come to the sleepover??
sakeena17 1 year ago
You guys need to do more response questions together. Very informative topic. :)
ZingyZang 1 year ago
I totally agree... With you Maurice
ej4life22 1 year ago
Look you should date someone with money the same or better money then you . hold your on and naken pic f#$k that sent me your bank note that what up !!!
williamsd23 1 year ago
I always have enough for me to do what I'd like to do, like I never assume anything, but the thought for me is that the guy who asks me out should pay
truthBtold9109 1 year ago
I like Maurice. We've got that "old school" way of thinking in common. I think we'd be compatible. And if you say yes........I got you boo!
luckeeleeyeo 1 year ago
JARED PAUL SHULLER?!? LMAO!
unbreakablekat 1 year ago
dont talk about newark punk... jk lol.. lpcg ( luv , peace and chicken grease )
br03 1 year ago
I'm with Maurice. If someone ask you. They pay no if ands or buts about it. I'm old fashion too. Whom ever ask pays for the DATE which includes the movie and dinner or whatever they pay.. Even better cook for your date. That's one way to get the person heart.
popkats 1 year ago
Its funny you guys brought that up, I've heard people say something all the time like..."If a guy spends his money on you then that means that you owe him something back in return" no matter what it is he's paying for wether its lunch, dinner or whatever else, he's gonna expect that certain "Something" back from you...if you know what I mean. What about that?
Jouri21 1 year ago
Also, in today's economic times, here in PHX, sometimes if a person is experiencing a financial hardship that will occasionally over-ride routine social rules. Like Joe Schmoe may invite me out but I make it "going Dutch" because I know he's having rough times. Good vid. I love your spontaneity Jared. And your friend seems real sweet. ~Calvin
sfcalvinaz 1 year ago
OMG I loved this video. Your mate, Maurice, looks like he's a lot of fun, and should have no concerns to approach people. Heck, I'd be swept off if he came to me.
I WISH I was there - it was so much fun to watch!
I answered your question directly in Facebook. The person asking, unless I know that they're not well-off... then it's up to them to make up for it in company!
AceII 1 year ago
@AceII Roger that.......!!
sfcalvinaz 1 year ago
Oh U kidz of today. I would most definitely agree with the standard that if a dude invites me out to eat to my acceptance, then he pays - and of course vice versa, especially if it's a first date. I thought this was recognized by all, as I've never had a problem regarding this subject.
H8RbyN8URE 1 year ago
@H8RbyN8URE I concur. +grin+
sfcalvinaz 1 year ago
1st
iktlwmaw 1 year ago