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  • This would have been a number 1 single had it not been for the idiotic Peter Andre re-releasing 'Mysterious Girl' - Jamelia was robbed!

  • Rihanna SOOOOOOO copies the Jamelia "growl". Rihanna has fuck all creative flair of her own!

  • such a good song

  • i was at the bowling yesterday an she was there jus as nice in real life ohhhh i would

    

  • Such a powerful song

  • To Firestar1231.... I hear ya sista....

  • dang this songs takes me way back<3

  • for my ex.. 5 years of s**t...the grass is defo greener on the other side

  • 'So young so dumb', 4 every last bruise u gave me, I always made excuse 4u. For the million ways u hurt me, u made it hard for me to trust.U tried to messed up my dreams. but THANK YOU, for making me stronger. Congrats by da way, isnt this your 7th child & am I really hearing right, all different mothers & still no boys.It seems like karma is trying 2 tell u something. PS,your 1st born just watch this.I suggest u call her & tell her your side, wat ever that is? I pray her mistakes r different..

  • 5 years later found this again! <3

  • To my EX husband,

    For bouncing into my life, For loving me in your vile way, For the beatings the abuse and the destruction. For abandoning me with your 3 week old daughter. For forcing me to forget everything about myself and have to start over again, alone and scared. For 4 years of trampling on my heart and pissing on my life. Thank You. Truly, Thank you. I now feel like a Phoenix.

    Karma will knock, I wish that it brings you all you deserve.

    Your Stronger, Better than ever, EX wife.

  • @red8879 - If Karma doesn't, then God will in time.

  • Nice tune. The ending is really nice.

  • Thank you for giving this to us in HD :D

  • Guys are such assholes...this song was one of the only reasons my mum came back from the lowest she's ever been...when my dad cheated on her...he's a joke to all of us...

  • big men hit girls like me!!! who cares when they cry? they love my big jewish penis......im an asshole i think, what do you guys think?

  • 8 Footballers... lol

  • 277 viewers? ARE YOU SERIOUSLY KIDDIN ME?

  • I'ts such a shame girls suffer like this.... i would like to take the time to say that their are guys that care for girls respect and will love them for who they are,Unfortunatly because i'm a nice guy i always finish last. I'm sick of girls telling me that they get hurt all the time but never give me a chance.I'm not going to change though.

  • 8 months of being with an abusive bastard...left my heart scarred and not forgetting the physical scars that have healed since then. I am just happy that it has been 7 months now and I am never going back to that life

  • @charlenekimara1 well you haven't met me yet sweetheart ;)

  • used to LOVE this song!!

  • Dear Jamelia,

    listening to this after putting up with two years of lies, cheating, hitting me, putting me down, using me and an endless list of other things you made me realise that i need to thank him for making me the stronger person that I am now. You made me realise I'm worth much more then him and tbh I feel sorry for the next girl, and the girl after and so on.

    Dear ex-boyfriend,

    Thankyou for everything you did to me. You made me Stronger

  • Thank you for making me strong.

  • My ex. Hates me for 7 months/says shit. Now he wants to be friends, an he starts calling me hot, an of course I fall for it cause I'm still in love with him. But I don't reckon he means it, so I ask. But it wasn't that, he admitted he was paid to say it though.

    Now I'm crying, an I feel as pathetic as I sound - for the past 2 months, all my love for him has come back, only to get my heart played again. But I'm healing, all thanks to this song & I'm not giving up on forgetting about him!

  • Fantastic example of British r&b

  • They don't make them like they used too

  • I used to sing this song over and over when I was about 9!! ..so glad I found it again

  • I tell myself not to cry anymore, but reading these comments I can't help it. I wish I was as strong as you guys. This is so my song right now, and I hope tonight I have the strength and courage to get rid of him and be happy. No more trying to cover up the cuts and bruises he gave me, no more shaking and paranoia after how much he cheated on me, no more hating myself coz he told me I'm so ugly and shit. I hope karma bites him hard on the arse. All my love to all you strong people out there x

  • to the 7 idiots that dislike this song i only have one question for you..SERIOUSLY??/

  • This is my mams song for my dad and i hate him for all he did to her, but i just wanna say one thing you lost the 2 best things in the world her and me your daughter. Thumbs up this comment for anyone who is suffering abuse from a bf/husband you dont have to put up with it leave like my mam eventually had the strength to<3

  • @NuttyMcNutFace dry your eyes you ponce

  • "But I understand, to make yourself feel like a man" ;)

  • i hope boys listen to this and realise how they treat some girls! but this song is powerful!!!

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  • i love this song and her kids and i watched her progam

  • She is beautiful.

  • Love this song makes me feel stonger! 10 years of abuse from a man,every last bruise you gave me -u made me stronger!!!

    Thankyou!!

  • 2011

  • MISS THIS SONG & JAMELIA

  • A real man doesn't need to probve that he's a man by dating 10 girls in the same time, so show how great he is... this is bullshit,

  • Oh my bleating heart , get the violin out. Whinging whining women feeling sorry for herself again. Build a bridge and get over it women.

  • @famileri but you have to admit it makes for great music! XD

  • @mrRSdaily Yeah I guess you've got a good point! Dam it!

  • i LOVE jamelia, just seen her on loose women, she is so pretty and she is such an inspiration for black women . we need more black women like her on british tv

  • My favourite of Jamelia's songs.

  • nice

    

  • i was learning about her in school and basicly, she made a song expressing her feeling over her boyfriend who had abused her so badly that she didnt like the way she looked and she is so hurt trust me!!!!!

  • You coulda had it all babe

    It coulda been so right

    I woulda given you everything

    Morning through night

    Yeah, you taught me some lessons

    Those are my blessings

    That won't happen again

    ....THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

  • i used to love this song so much!

  • tune

  • What happened to her?! I used to adore her :( </3

  • @thomasoracle She's going to release a new album this year ;D

  • I HAVE HER CD I REMEMBER SHE WAS MY FAVOURITE SINGER WHEN I WAS A KID :D

  • Women feeling sorry for themselves as usual....

  • init

  • 2011 and i still like this song, she's so talented

  • So beautiful...

  • you taught me some lessons..those are my blessings - gotta turn my ex boyfriends shit he did to me into a positive

  • THIS SONG MAKES ME STRONG :0)

  • This song amke me want a peanut butter sandwich becasue the first time I saw it I was eating that :)

  • i love this one !!! girl power!!!

  • gotta be honest i love this song and sums up my 14 years of living with the man that used abuse me but guese what im stronger now so thank you

  • @dan96doel no one cares

  • @f2thes i care

  • @dan96doel dont live with the man, stop talking shit

  • @Yunghustlagl6 thats the whole point of this video ,that she's no longer with him ,but he made her stronger damn!

  • Dear ex-boyfriend.

    Our fights every day for 9 months. Your shit. Your lies. Your cheating. I don't know why I stayed after the first week when I caught you with another woman. You made me strong each time you forced tears from my eyes. Never to repeat this mistake again. Don't call me, apologizing, saying she meant nothing. You're done playing your stupid game with me. As for the bruises, you're lucky they healed!

    Love, your ex-girlfriend.

  • @rainbowsmiles07 why would you even write that? no one ACTUALLY cares?

  • @rainbowsmiles07 I know why you stayed 9 months with him.Coz you are fat and (or) ugly and you are afraid that nobody else will want you.Am i right?No wonder he cheated on you.

    <3 not your future boyfriend fo sho.PEACE OFF!

  • @AnimusPipboy You're a gem! P.S: it's PISS off! fo sho

  • @MyBoobear16 No i mean it PEACE OFF!I don't want to piss on you.You don't deserve my pee.

  • @rainbowsmiles07 same case scenario...Only that mine was 8 months. And imagine I caught him on the first week. I should have left then. But I am still happy that I eventually did.

  • Thought this would have alot more views :O

  • come back jamelia!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • all the single ladies yay

  • Physical bruises heal but Emotions scars stay with you for life

  • love this song,,remember it from a long time ago..

  • Emotional bruises... do they ever fade and heal like physical ones? I hope so

  • @4yearsnotenuftime

    fraid not there allways there in the back of your mind even wen u move on xx

  • i think i broke the replay button... o.O

    ♥ this song SO much

  • WOW i bought this single when i was about 12...was lookin thru a box of old CDs today and found this! i didnt know the meaning back then but now? perfectly do.

  • any whos been thogh abuse its not nice at all i jyst goout of 5 years of abuse just get out of it

  • I havn't heard this song in 5 years, and i still know the lyrics by heart =')

  • this is a good song it remindes me of a stuped boy who i hate

  • I feel this song :( for every time i sit in tears, for the million ways you hurt me :(

  • i feel the guy i'm with is a manipulative jerk, a liar & is so wrong for me. & when i heard this song, it kinda got to me.. i hope i'll be strong when he really is all those =/

  • this is to the father of my unborn child. who treated me like crap, than left me shortly after finding out about our baby. 9 years older than me, who is now making my pregnancy a night mare and talking about court battles as soon as bubs is born. jerk, thanks for making me strong. i hope you feel as good as you're pretending. fuck rhys.

  • This song is for every woman in an abusive relationship. Rise against the brutality!!!

  • Epic Song. I love it & it's one I remember. Used to sing so much. Singstarr.

  • Can Never Forget this Song. It's epic.

  • Can Never Forget this Song.

  • This Is The Last Song I Listened To With My Bestfriend,<3

    I Miss You Baby Girl.

    I Will Love You Forever..

    Forever Loved, Forever Missed, Forever Remembered.

    R.I.P baby girl. i love you. x

  • This is a terrible version of the song. Though it is a brilliant song

  • thumbs up if this makes you think of your ex

  • @Qtkitty36 idiot

  • @khp247 Well, arent you lovely.. You dont even know me?

  • This song is so perfect I have been abused all ly life by my family and I am only 18 years old but at least I have my friends to protect me from all of this thank you all XD

  • @GirlsAloud01Fan2009 music that can relate to your feelings is a god send when you don't know how to deal with stuff.

    Be a survior like me and strong to show them that what they did won't break you and they lost!

    All the best i hope you have a very happy life keep strong x

  • Thnk you mr Grem! For hitting, spitting, stealing, breaking and the million ways you hurt me for 5 years long!

  • This is for my husband who broke my nose and hurt me every day for 2 years. Thankyou for making me see you are not the one for me.

  • so what happened to her? She used to be big in the netherlands.. back in the days!

  • Love the responses all the women who are thanking the men for making them stronger. Great song !

  • this is for every male that hurt me THANK YOU

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  • This is for you Mr R M Nelson for the 3 yrs of hell and violence...Thankyou moved on.

  • This is tooo Nathan who I was with for 8 months , whoo I gavee my world up for , yu are an manipulative asshole , and a liar , and you'll never find a girl like me , i gaurentee it , I treated yu so right , and yu did the opposite for me ..

    That is all ..

  • Thank you Dan, you put me through hell but I'll never fall for your type again. Seemed so nice and charming but underneath a vile manipulative liar who only cared about yourself. Enjoy lonliness as more people get wise to the sort of person you really are and walk out of your life.

  • daym i met this girl at tesco and i chatted her up and i dont care if any1 believes me but it happend.i was working at tesco at the time and i said 'next please' and she came to me and i was like 'daym u jamelia! so what u up 2? making another album? we laffed and joked and i was sooooooo close to getting her number.

  • this song brings out alot in people!!

  • Man, I forgot about this song! Really nice :)

  • This song is for my mum and dad who put me, my young bro and sis into foster care when I was three. And charlie, you were never my dad but F U for beating us. Better off without you both.

  • @TheNabster23 well said :)

  • For every time I sat in tears Darren. Our son is great by the way... Not that you asked.

  • jamelia is beautiful, AMAZING SONG BTW! <3

  • to that C*** that i was with when i was 17 and left when i was 21 this song is for you

    thanks for making me a stronger person

  • Where did she get her genes?

  • this song made me realise i was better of without a certain bastad in my life!!!

  • She is beautiful. LOL ;-)

  • I love the start on 0:00 to 0:9

  • @GirlsAloud01Fan2009 this is a led zeppelin cover????

  • i listened to this so often with my ex husband!!!

  • strong enough to control the elements apparently.

  • tune i love this it reminds me so much of a situation i grew up in my mum was being abused 4 so long but she came back fighting and stronger and with so much dignity, xx

  • couldnt agree with this song more, what doesnt kill you makes you stronger...

  • second vid i ever watched on youtube. always have loved the song and vid ♥

  • I wish I could say I have no idea what an abusive relationship is like... It's not so much the physical stuff [although that's bloody terrifying] it's more the mind games and confidence shattering that leads to self hatred. I hate you D, thank you for making me strong enough to fight back!

  • such a true song

  • Me and my friend just broke up. this song reminds me of him.

  • Thank yu Viliami!!!!!!!!!

  • I LOVED THIS SONG WHEN IT CAME OUT...Jamelia was like one of my favourite artists.

  • Black lipstick doesnt look good on her. Brings back memories :)

  • hahahhahahah she didnt die u knoob :L

  • 4 u corey.... thank u ..xox

  • @JANOUUUUU y would u say something like that..did u kill her??? u r the idiot

  • You made me strong...THANK YOOUU!!yeah!

  • i sooo relate to this @the min &can'tt wait to be able to look back @whats happening &feel this way

  • this song helped me through everything, she needs to make soo much more music thank HER for making this song if it wasnt thisi wouldnt have thought of things in this context<3

  • this song got me thru soo much shit its untru"

  • i think of my school teachers when i here this song as they put u down telling u that u shouldnt sit an exam and this made me come out fighting to prove them wrong so THANK YOU!!

  • she said why when she was on nevermind the buzzcocks ill try and find the episode

  • WHERE DID SHE GO?

    SHE IS SO TALENTED!!!

  • @crtnymay She's on 8 out of 10 cats shown on channel 4.

  • @crtnymay just watching her now on" sing if u can" forgot how great this song is an how deep the words r true talent , i beleave she busy raising a family :)

  • this video is so budget haha. it could have been an awesome vid cause of the subject content.

  • shit video.superb song.

  • The splashing she does in the water... just like rihanna - umbrella. jamelia did it first ;) love this song STILLL!!!

  • Amazing and inspirational song... Bidget video :S Still love this tho'

  • Why in the hell did she stayed with this jerk in the first place?

  • this is to that fag who promised me we were gonna be and said he wasnt playing me but who left to lakes and came back goin out with a chick from there and expected me to be fine with it.

    I SPIT IN YOUR FACE TRENT!

  • @TheKlb1990 o jeeze punch him down spit in hes face!

  • @TheKlb1990 ouch xD

  • @TheKlb1990 Any boy called Trent is bound to be a prick, please think next time

  • @TheKlb1990 sounds like he spat on your face

  • bellissima sia la canzone che il video

  • she lookspregnant at 2:58 or 2:59 but its just the dress

  • dedicate this song to my ex too :) !!!! made me open my eyes and heart to people who truly love and deserve ! me ! :) feels great :) !!! thanks :))

  • For those who have been in abusive relatiuonships this song is amazingly powerful . It helped me gain strength to walk away from exactly what she sings about!!! Thankyou Jamelia!!!

  • her make-up is amazin

  • OmiiGosh... i miss this song... luv it too bitssss... u go JAMELIA <3

  • So effective. How can anybody do this to a person?

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  • I bloody love this song ! <3

  • I've never had any experiences like lots of people who love this song or like Jamelia herself, I just love this song so much :) So uplifting, catchy and with stunning lyrics. Amazing tune.

  • shes beautiful...:-)

  • Hi SoftTacoTV! Jamelia's biggest hit was 'Superstar' so you might like to listen to that, if you haven't already. We were dancing to that all over Britain and Europe! I also like 'Stop'. Bye!

  • wow amazing. just saw this for the first time and im blown away. only other song by her ive heard is something about you

  • i love this song.listened to it all the time when i spilt up from my ex.

  • i love this song <3

  • ok song

  • Beautiful black women