I figured there was a cultural difference so I looked up your profile. You're Puerto Rican, you're trying to kill yourself to be the perfect BMI. You need a new man. And a new family. That ain't love. I just don't feel the love. I hope your man hasn't been sleeping around on you, just so disrespectful. I hope things have gotten better since this video, for you and those you love, because right now I'd be worried about you all.
Wow u did very good :) When im older im hoping to have 2 children. Im was pretty nervous about it but now that i have watched this i am inspired by u. Haha but i wont have to worry about having kids soon bcuz im only 13 right now x)
This video makes me really sad. This woman is doing an amazing job birthing her baby. I find it really hard to believe no on encouraged her or touched her but rather they made fun of her and laughed at her. What amazing strength that she was able to endure that behavior and get through her labor unmedicated.
omg.. i want to have my baby without epidural since my boyfriend told me it will give u back problems with ur spine.. but im soo scared i wont b able to take the pain
both of those men are such jerks, I'd like to see them give birth without drugs, if i were that woman i would have kicked both of their pathetic asses out!
pls tell me you left that yerk and hes not with you still? I would totally kick the crap out my husband if he makes fun of me. Thank God everything go well.
that guy is a dick ! hes makin a joke out of it, he should be over there rubbing her and helping her get through this thats what real men do he should feel bad for her!!!!!
Why in the hell would you do that to yourself? Not being mean or anything. But didn't that hurt? This makes me want to never ever have sex. EVER! Thank god I'm still a virgin. I'm only 16 1/2 anyways. It all looks too painful. Even getting a epidural. Too much pain.
Still virgin until you find the right guy pls. 2. Epidural is good cos takes some pain away but the drugs can go to your baby and you cant move as much cos your body is numb, and some women that had the epidural needs oxigen.. Pain free is the natural way, yes it is painful but is a choice that you made. You will have sex and you will get pregnant some day. but remeber every pregnancy and labor are diffrent. So dont freak out hun. mom had my sister in 30 minutes. see all diffrents. :)
Wow, I am so impressed with this video. I am sorry you had to put up with being a show for the people in that room, but you really made natural childbirth seem possible, which is really hard to do especially w/ people like that in the room!
@angelica97007 :) thank you, I'm pregnant again, and planning on going natural again, this time I'm engaged to the most amazing man, not the a-hole in the vid and I know it'll be great!
My favorite part of this video is when the men shut the hell up & the country song plays (the lyrics are so much more loving their words) This beautiful woman is doing a superhuman job giving her baby the best natural start in life & suffers for it while these jack-asses are in the room gawking and mocking. Thank you for helping me decide to go natural AND to keep annoying people OUT OF THE ROOM. You are an amazing woman!
@seestarrs I had begged them to leave, for my mom (the one that was pacing) to stay and everyone else get the heck out, it didn't happen and I didn't want my labor to be so open with them there. I didn't even want the father there. This time around I'm excited to be going natural again and this time I have an amazing man by my side and it'll be just us in the room :) Thank you sooooo much for your words :)
@wendypadro Congratulations! I am so inspired...I am 15 weeks and your video helped me cement in my mind to go natural. Especially hearing that you'll do it again. Thanks for the inspiration & I hope you will post your new birth, along with your new sweet man there to support you!
@Animatorbluesky because the dumb-a wouldn't leave! I didnt' want them there and there they were, he even took the baby away when I was trying to breast feed, worst delivery ever! Luckily my son was healthy and perfect!
I'm shocked at the lack of respect for your wife and daughter. Put down the *&^%$(*& Camera and comfort your wife loser! OMG did Grandma just plug her ear and walk away? Your husband and family win the worst birth support person of the century! I'm sick.
You deserve to be honored for your natural child birth not mocked. I'm so sorry your birth was treated with such disrespect.
I am due in about 14 weeks and want a natural birth but i am scared of the pain i will have to go through.I am so small that even when the baby moves my stomach begins to ache horribly.I am having worse chest pains now and i almost fainted once.I once decided on an epidural but i am terrified of needles.I see a needle and i immediately begin to freak out.Either way i do not think i can survive this pregnancy
@angel703888 - you might change your mind when you experience contractions, the worst pain ever, i was like you didnt want any epidural, but then requested it in the end coz of pain. Worst thing is, its too late for them to give me epidural. anyway im lucky to have my 3 weeks old son now, after 19 hours of labor. Also i dont have enough sleep for 3 weeks now hehehe. not compalining I LOVE IT!! u know a mother will do anything for her child.
AMAZing. Im going to be 19 weeks, and im planning on a healthy natural delivery, My mom had 4 natural deliveries. A little scared after seeing this now. If you have any tips please share! babies are a natural thing and they deserve to com into this worl drug free.. This is the way it usto be back in the day. CONGRATS!!!
aww! i was due may 17th 2009 she was born may 22nd 2009 . . i wanted a natural birth but i was so scared. I got an epidural and it wore off when i started to push. . . I FELT EVERYTHING! . . i even felt the contractions . . PAIN!! lol
i completley dissagree with misslori66 & @sailorralphy. I admire your dicision! Im due in May with my first + i plan on having a drug free labour. Wether i can go through it without an epidural we'll soon find out. Congratulations + good job :)
You could have been relaxed and talking with your family if you had an epidural. Epidurals are not the worst thing in the world. You CAN still feel the baby and the contractions. Also, epidurals do not stop you from breastfeeding. I had epidurals with both my kids and my experience was much better. Breathing exercises only help in the first stages of labour by the way. If people think suffering will give you some type of metal, then go for it suffer.
@misslori66 What an evil, nasty thing to say. I thought Women's Liberation Movement was about uplifting and encouraing women to make decsions that are best for each individual woman, instead of meekly doing what Male Dominated Society thinks is best.
I gave birth to my son with just a pethidine injection and a bit of gas and air- it's such a shame they didn't teach you the birth song and breathing techniques- they work. We were told never to grip hold tight on anything as that makes things worse because you tense all your muscles- bad idea- makes me glad I had my baby under the British National Health system
@sailorralphy this woman is so happy about her birth then you just came in and had to critisize her every move.... maybe you could show a little joy for her and congrats to her instead of telling her everything she did wrong....
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i hate it when ppl say "oh i never had any pain relief during my labour " what do u want a medal!!?? im sorry but why be in so much pain when you dont need to be ?
@Katlyne0918 -- same here, I was kept in bed, I asked to get up and use my birthing ball and they wouldn't let me up, I was furious. This time around I'm hoping to be able to move, dif hospital of course :)
I am due in less than two weeks and am preparing to go without the epdiural. If you can do it with not only zero support but with people gawking at you and making fun while your are in pain, then I can too. You have inspired me to committ 100% to natural child birth. You did a great job but I was sick to my stomach listening to those men mocking you. It really was cruel of them, but you have inspired me.
dutch women do this all the time unless you have a csection no epidurals here, it is typical america to give birth in hospitals wit epidurals, here we give birth at home I am glad I live here
OMG I just read what that low life good for nothing did to you!!! You definately are a strong woman and I know that only good things will come for you and your precious lil angel. Huge hug to you both <3
to latina3434arabe, you feel that way towards men, because you are probably one ugly ass stocky looking lesbian with facial hair and a fade! plus you mad cause guys diss you all the time too. It sucks to be you doesn't it?
Poor you! I cant believe those men were trying to make a song while you were moaning in pain. What those men did was immature and un-called for. But anyway, props for having a natural, drug-free childbirth. I plan on doing the same when my baby is due :)
I can't believe how unsupportive and lame those men were behind the camera. I was offended even watching I can't imagine how you must have felt. Yuck.
I'd have told your husband and especially his dad to get the hell out. Totally taking the piss. He should be right next to you suporting you. Hope you gave him hell when you watched this back - you were really amazing
i tried, no one listend. the experience sucked, but thank goodness I have a beautiful and very active 2 year old. Yes, I gave him hell many times over for this, and then it all came clear as to why he didnt even care...
Those men sound like idiots! Im sure she didn't really hear them while being in the pain but what dicks! I would have told them both to get the hell out!
honestly, I barely heard them, but I did a few times and asked them to leave or stfu, they never did. im just happy my lil guy is a healthy 2 year old now =) thank you hon!
Congrats! You had a natural birth while strapped on your back, the most painful position possible for birth. You're a rock star! Next time try a home birth or a birthing center birth, and you will see that if you are up moving around, it is WAY less painful. But now that you've done this, you know you can do anything!
I totally agree. I went through 8 hours of hard labor (30 second pushes every 3 minutes) ENTIRELY on my back...and once the drugs used to induce labor set in, there was no time to get an epidural.
This guy makes me sick. Instead of acting like a child how about you go support your wife or leave her alone. Poor woman, I would be so upset if people were acting like that while I was in labor.
I'm sorry, but if my husband was whistling and the father in law was clapping his hands and making music while I was moaning in pain...I would divorce him and tell him to leave the room. A women in labor deserves more respect for what she goes through to give birth. I don't mean any disrespect, but this really upset me to see them acting the way they were.
I know! unbelievable lol. If my husband had've been filming from the other end of the room instead of giving me support where i needed him, there would have been words, I can tell you!
I recently had my son med and epidural free also after 24.5 hours of all bakc labor lol. We women are strong and there needs to be more like us. Good job!
Do you mean though that you were on your back all this time? Was that your or someone else's choice? Why didn't you move around into different positions? Try it if there is a next time!
I moved around a lot yes but the pain was in my lower lumbar spine mostly and that is called back labor. It is the most painful labor you can have because the baby was in a Posterior position. My midwife had to turn him anterior before he came out.
I had 20 hours of back labour...I had a homebirth... i did get quite a bit of relief while on my hands and knees with someone pushing on either side of my pelvis... if you move and sway your hips and squat it opens the pelvis so much... on your back our pelvis actually closes 27%... makes labour and pushing ALOT more difficult.
not to be an ass, but your not going to keep the wt down if your popping out kids. girls do the p90x thing and then start poping out the kids and then wonder why there fat again
Natural childbirth is more than just the absence of drugs. Do some reading on how to work with your body. She was making really deep sounds, which is perfect. Read Ina May's Guide to Childbirth and good luck with your birth!
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WTF, "Video honey, no cursing", no offense, I'm sure your husband meant well but you're preparing to have a baby be naturally pushed out of your body, if you want to ******* curse & scream, you have all right to lol Screw the camera!
i had none, my mom was a wreck, and my sons father and his father were making fun of me most of the time, and when they weren't ... THEY WERE SLEEPING!!! yah! they left me alone to go home and 10 minutes l8r my water broke!
Well done, dont know how you did it with husband and father in law just sitting there laughing and whistling when your lying in pain, felt awful watching it.
That's why an ncreasing number of women opt for home births. Some of them even ot for an unassisted birth - no midwife - they deliver the baby themselves. A few even go for outdoor births, e.g. in the ocean!
"In the ocean? That seems a bit too natural (and especially dangerous"
I think it's ok, but I would make sure that the water is warm and that htere are no sharks which could get attracted by the blood. In one case a mother who gave birth in the ocean had a doctor waiting behind a rock in case she needed one.
Wild animals all give birth outdoors and don't seem to have any problems.
I imagine that there are probably more animals that die at birth than there are humans, in terms of ratio. But I don't really know. Either way, if someone can have a baby safely in the ocean, go for it. I never would!
It sounds cool to me! - literally and figuratively. I guess that if I was a woman, I would have a homebirth first, then an unassisted homebirth, then have my third in the ocean, or somewhere else out in nature, even if it's only out in the garden.
For sure. In my case, being male, it's a choice I'll never have to make. In some ways I feel deprived for never being able to give birth, but really I'm quite happy to leave the childbirth thing up to you ladies!
"there are probably more animals that die at birth than humans,"
Maybe, but I doubt it. I assume that in wild animals, it's such a natural event that rarely anything would go wrong. It's different with domestic animals like cows, or with people.
Well done!!! However, lying on one's back is by far the worst birthing position. Lying on one's side is better, but crouching on hands and knees, squatting, and standing are even better positions to give birth in, as the baby's descent is assisted by gravity. Water birth is excellent as it allows freedom of movement.
LOL! that's me too. i'm due any day with my fifth child.....did not have an epidural w/ any of them except one pregnancy where I was having a lot of health issues that resulted in a thyroidectomy when i was 7 months preggo. by the time it was time for me to have her i just did not want to feel any more pain. I hated the epidural and I plan to go natural again this time...... epidurals just scare me.
Sorry, I would of cussed him out (both of them) and kicked the father-in-law out...but still, you have a wonderful and beautiful baby...men will never know what we have to endure with childbirth.
you did awesome but it broke my heart to see that you had NO support. everybody was just watching you like a piece of meat, making jokes, laughing. aweful! you should have been supported and celebrated cause you are a birth warrior! your son is supersupercute! you did awesome and can be proud of yourself! Iris
Sweet video. But your husband and his father have no idea how painful labor really is. It's not funny.Anyway the baby is beautiful like his mommy. God Bless!
I can't get over all the vids of people laying flat on their backs for labor. No wonder it hurts so bad! If you'd had a doula, she would have been able to help you get into positions to make it less painful. Even lying on your side or sitting on a ball would really help. Next time tell your DH to actually HELP YOU instead of directing you in a video!!! Better yet, get a doula, and leave your DH in the hallway. I'm sorry, but him laughing makes me sick. Congrats on your baby, though!
I figured there was a cultural difference so I looked up your profile. You're Puerto Rican, you're trying to kill yourself to be the perfect BMI. You need a new man. And a new family. That ain't love. I just don't feel the love. I hope your man hasn't been sleeping around on you, just so disrespectful. I hope things have gotten better since this video, for you and those you love, because right now I'd be worried about you all.
AnoukaKC 4 months ago
Wow u did very good :) When im older im hoping to have 2 children. Im was pretty nervous about it but now that i have watched this i am inspired by u. Haha but i wont have to worry about having kids soon bcuz im only 13 right now x)
DarkFrostxX 8 months ago
Made me think of the one true god and do u cuss cause he said honey don't cuss it's a video
lillian5671 9 months ago
Happy Birthday Mr.Jaden
hikerdude4000 9 months ago
This video makes me really sad. This woman is doing an amazing job birthing her baby. I find it really hard to believe no on encouraged her or touched her but rather they made fun of her and laughed at her. What amazing strength that she was able to endure that behavior and get through her labor unmedicated.
deanm99 11 months ago 4
two not too lol
66devil55 11 months ago
You zoned in to ur baby and did soooo well, splinters wud bring those too males to their knees just pathetic
66devil55 11 months ago
Wow, what a jerk!
thavynator 11 months ago
omg.. i want to have my baby without epidural since my boyfriend told me it will give u back problems with ur spine.. but im soo scared i wont b able to take the pain
brendiroxs1 1 year ago
both of those men are such jerks, I'd like to see them give birth without drugs, if i were that woman i would have kicked both of their pathetic asses out!
littlepole14 1 year ago 2
great jo sucks about no1 helpin u my wife had two of our three with out the drugs the last one she had to have epi cuz of a c section
norselord20001 1 year ago
so sorry u had to endure those creeps.i hope u r free from them now!!!you deserve better.
forthewildthings 1 year ago
pls tell me you left that yerk and hes not with you still? I would totally kick the crap out my husband if he makes fun of me. Thank God everything go well.
TICABELLA23 1 year ago
that guy is a dick ! hes makin a joke out of it, he should be over there rubbing her and helping her get through this thats what real men do he should feel bad for her!!!!!
pumpkin1925 1 year ago 5
Gosh I don't know how you did it flat on your back.... why werent you moving around ?it would have helped!!
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They were laughing at her the whole time....men are so damn stupid! Glad I'm single
dscookrph 1 year ago
They were laughing at her the whole time....men are so damn stupid! Glad I'm single.
dscookrph 1 year ago 3
men like them. My men wont make fun of me , trust me he knows better, but this fuckers are so stupid for doing that.
TICABELLA23 1 year ago
What is it like to give birth naturally?
lusterwings 1 year ago
good job may god bless u
lindseywendy 1 year ago
good job
lindseywendy 1 year ago
Why in the hell would you do that to yourself? Not being mean or anything. But didn't that hurt? This makes me want to never ever have sex. EVER! Thank god I'm still a virgin. I'm only 16 1/2 anyways. It all looks too painful. Even getting a epidural. Too much pain.
puppieeyes223 1 year ago
Still virgin until you find the right guy pls. 2. Epidural is good cos takes some pain away but the drugs can go to your baby and you cant move as much cos your body is numb, and some women that had the epidural needs oxigen.. Pain free is the natural way, yes it is painful but is a choice that you made. You will have sex and you will get pregnant some day. but remeber every pregnancy and labor are diffrent. So dont freak out hun. mom had my sister in 30 minutes. see all diffrents. :)
TICABELLA23 1 year ago
I bet he was just jealous because she didn't moan like that while actually making the baby.
TheBaronessIsAwesome 1 year ago 2
@TheBaronessIsAwesome You got that right, I sure as heck never did lol
wendypadro 1 year ago
Wow, I am so impressed with this video. I am sorry you had to put up with being a show for the people in that room, but you really made natural childbirth seem possible, which is really hard to do especially w/ people like that in the room!
ericajamie08 1 year ago
@ericajamie08 aww thanks hon :) you're very sweet!
wendypadro 1 year ago
GREAT JOB handling the contractions! I did that once unintentally without anything whatsoever and wouldn't ever again. Too painful! Congrats!
angelica97007 1 year ago
@angelica97007 :) thank you, I'm pregnant again, and planning on going natural again, this time I'm engaged to the most amazing man, not the a-hole in the vid and I know it'll be great!
wendypadro 1 year ago
@wendypadro So am I..congrats! When are u due?
angelica97007 1 year ago
My favorite part of this video is when the men shut the hell up & the country song plays (the lyrics are so much more loving their words) This beautiful woman is doing a superhuman job giving her baby the best natural start in life & suffers for it while these jack-asses are in the room gawking and mocking. Thank you for helping me decide to go natural AND to keep annoying people OUT OF THE ROOM. You are an amazing woman!
seestarrs 1 year ago 2
@seestarrs I had begged them to leave, for my mom (the one that was pacing) to stay and everyone else get the heck out, it didn't happen and I didn't want my labor to be so open with them there. I didn't even want the father there. This time around I'm excited to be going natural again and this time I have an amazing man by my side and it'll be just us in the room :) Thank you sooooo much for your words :)
wendypadro 1 year ago
@wendypadro Congratulations! I am so inspired...I am 15 weeks and your video helped me cement in my mind to go natural. Especially hearing that you'll do it again. Thanks for the inspiration & I hope you will post your new birth, along with your new sweet man there to support you!
seestarrs 1 year ago
Why that old guy is in the labor?
Animatorbluesky 1 year ago
@Animatorbluesky because the dumb-a wouldn't leave! I didnt' want them there and there they were, he even took the baby away when I was trying to breast feed, worst delivery ever! Luckily my son was healthy and perfect!
wendypadro 1 year ago
they should kick them out if you didnt want them there. youre the mom.I want my husband and mom if someone gets in. Im so calling the cops. lol :)
TICABELLA23 1 year ago
How the family sat around making rude comments disgusted me.
koniantic2 1 year ago
aww.....hes very handsome :-)
i still remember holding my son for the first time
they truely are a gift from god and an amazing blessing :-)
nailsbyas89 1 year ago
@nailsbyas89 Thank you!!! :) yes you never forget those moments!
wendypadro 1 year ago
what a fuken asshole dat jackass dnt even know the pain we go through wat a jerk...
RUBYGONZAlEZ9269 1 year ago 5
@RUBYGONZAlEZ9269 you said it!!! :)
wendypadro 1 year ago
aww, touching video :) I'm 39 weeks and am also wanting to go epidural and drug free. but this video scares me a little... lol
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why u such a fat whore though?
Gracefulskull 1 year ago
I'm so sorry your family disrespected your natural birth this way.
SurroMomUS 1 year ago
I'm shocked at the lack of respect for your wife and daughter. Put down the *&^%$(*& Camera and comfort your wife loser! OMG did Grandma just plug her ear and walk away? Your husband and family win the worst birth support person of the century! I'm sick.
You deserve to be honored for your natural child birth not mocked. I'm so sorry your birth was treated with such disrespect.
Congrats on your very sweet baby.
SurroMomUS 1 year ago
moaning is good :)
keep moaning, it helps!
sorry but your husband should respect your bubble and keep it quiet...
tangomontreal 1 year ago
Wtf he is like laughing at her pain wot kinda support is that , loser
paortiz98 1 year ago
i can guarentee you the moment you started whistling and started rapping and what not.. she wanted you dead.
nuklear7 1 year ago
haha i see the person recording u was having a blasttt in min 3:40 whistling awayyyyy haha bless
MsDiazable 1 year ago
LABOR SUCKS!!!! too bad imma have to go thru it one more time.....im scared....cause i know what to expect now....
mylove121 1 year ago
I am due in about 14 weeks and want a natural birth but i am scared of the pain i will have to go through.I am so small that even when the baby moves my stomach begins to ache horribly.I am having worse chest pains now and i almost fainted once.I once decided on an epidural but i am terrified of needles.I see a needle and i immediately begin to freak out.Either way i do not think i can survive this pregnancy
angel703888 1 year ago
@angel703888 - you might change your mind when you experience contractions, the worst pain ever, i was like you didnt want any epidural, but then requested it in the end coz of pain. Worst thing is, its too late for them to give me epidural. anyway im lucky to have my 3 weeks old son now, after 19 hours of labor. Also i dont have enough sleep for 3 weeks now hehehe. not compalining I LOVE IT!! u know a mother will do anything for her child.
jaymemia 1 year ago
Those men are bastards!!! I don't find this funny at all! I'd like to see men go through that pain. Dickheads!!
angerogers 1 year ago
my mother did it natural. im 21 weeks now & im for sure getting the epidural, but shes brave for pushing me out with no medication!
exohANNE 1 year ago
While I admire you there was no way in hell I wasn't having an epidural. I'm to big a chicken.
Plus it ended up being a moot point cause my duaghter was in distress and I had to have a section.
kwatson813 1 year ago
AMAZing. Im going to be 19 weeks, and im planning on a healthy natural delivery, My mom had 4 natural deliveries. A little scared after seeing this now. If you have any tips please share! babies are a natural thing and they deserve to com into this worl drug free.. This is the way it usto be back in the day. CONGRATS!!!
nessaacakess 1 year ago
beautiful video!
33Muslimah 1 year ago
Poor girl I am 34w 1d what your doing is amazoning... I want to do the natural too. Congrats.
micalikepurple 1 year ago
aww! i was due may 17th 2009 she was born may 22nd 2009 . . i wanted a natural birth but i was so scared. I got an epidural and it wore off when i started to push. . . I FELT EVERYTHING! . . i even felt the contractions . . PAIN!! lol
KIMBURLEExMAHREE 1 year ago
i completley dissagree with misslori66 & @sailorralphy. I admire your dicision! Im due in May with my first + i plan on having a drug free labour. Wether i can go through it without an epidural we'll soon find out. Congratulations + good job :)
amandacoglan 1 year ago
You could have been relaxed and talking with your family if you had an epidural. Epidurals are not the worst thing in the world. You CAN still feel the baby and the contractions. Also, epidurals do not stop you from breastfeeding. I had epidurals with both my kids and my experience was much better. Breathing exercises only help in the first stages of labour by the way. If people think suffering will give you some type of metal, then go for it suffer.
misslori66 2 years ago
No No misslori66 con la Epidural NO se siente las contracciones ni al bebe, es una anestesia que hace que no sientas nada del proceso del parto.
CruelaMimines 2 years ago
@misslori66
In the other words - epidural IS a Thing for Modern INDEPENTANT AND Relesed women! :-))))))) ahahahahahahaaaaa!
fitnessmaster 2 years ago
@misslori66 What an evil, nasty thing to say. I thought Women's Liberation Movement was about uplifting and encouraing women to make decsions that are best for each individual woman, instead of meekly doing what Male Dominated Society thinks is best.
AlbertaRose94 1 year ago
Don't knock her for wanting to go natural. I think she was very brave!
33Muslimah 1 year ago
I gave birth to my son with just a pethidine injection and a bit of gas and air- it's such a shame they didn't teach you the birth song and breathing techniques- they work. We were told never to grip hold tight on anything as that makes things worse because you tense all your muscles- bad idea- makes me glad I had my baby under the British National Health system
sailorralphy 2 years ago
@sailorralphy this woman is so happy about her birth then you just came in and had to critisize her every move.... maybe you could show a little joy for her and congrats to her instead of telling her everything she did wrong....
fuzzypeach5 2 years ago 2
its by lonestar
ilovelex96 2 years ago
the song is amazed by you. forgot who by though aha:)) look it up on google xx
ILikePinapple 2 years ago
what song is this???? plz reply :D
theseb170 2 years ago
Well, women did it for 1000's of years with no pain meds. But, I agree, your Hubby is making fun of you. Not nice at alll!
Angelhaven95 2 years ago
Im sorry to say but i dont like the way ur huzzy is making fun of you.... ur in pain, and him makin fun of just well out out order...
zarabow 2 years ago 8
i know i wanted to kill that bastard! lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
wow that is so crazy because i was gonna name my son jayden michael, but i just changed it back to justin lol
prettymulatto1 2 years ago
your husband cheated on you? and he was such a dick he made fun of u in labor?! what a fucking ass!
EasyBakeSmiles 2 years ago
Wow, shes in pain and her husband is laughing.. what an asshole!
grecojas 2 years ago 2
thank God he's not my hubby lol but yeah i completely agree, a totall A-hole!
wendypadro 2 years ago 2
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i hate it when ppl say "oh i never had any pain relief during my labour " what do u want a medal!!?? im sorry but why be in so much pain when you dont need to be ?
becksta2206 2 years ago
You people have no idea if she was able to get up and move around.. With my son they broke my water and they wouldnt let me out of bed.
Katlyne0918 2 years ago 3
Katlyne0918 ...true! I forget how often American OB's confine women to the bed for various reasons. Thank you for reminding me! :)
NordicMother 2 years ago
same here, it sucks! =)
wendypadro 2 years ago
what song is this?
theseb170 2 years ago
@Katlyne0918 -- same here, I was kept in bed, I asked to get up and use my birthing ball and they wouldn't let me up, I was furious. This time around I'm hoping to be able to move, dif hospital of course :)
wendypadro 1 year ago
I am due in less than two weeks and am preparing to go without the epdiural. If you can do it with not only zero support but with people gawking at you and making fun while your are in pain, then I can too. You have inspired me to committ 100% to natural child birth. You did a great job but I was sick to my stomach listening to those men mocking you. It really was cruel of them, but you have inspired me.
tooadiez 2 years ago 14
Why is she labouring on her back? GET UP AND MOVE AROUND!!
MsHs88 2 years ago
My thoughts exactly!! GET UP and OUT OF BED and birthing will be less painful and more effective... UP UP UP ... gravity is your friend.
NordicMother 2 years ago
how do you know that they would let her get up??
Katlyne0918 2 years ago
they didnt and it sucked, i wanted to walk, move, anything! lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
She's in agony and he's laughing? What a jerk. Norman men hate to see their wives suffering.
Diana5230 2 years ago 3
OMG! theres a girl in my school and shes got the EXCACT same name. Surame and everything:L.x
tez655 2 years ago
You look like the exorcist.. IM GETTING AND EPIDURAL!!
totohoe 2 years ago
If I was this woman I would immidiately leave this insensible husband. I would never forgive that he had such a goo mood while watching this.
Koenigskind23 2 years ago 2
dutch women do this all the time unless you have a csection no epidurals here, it is typical america to give birth in hospitals wit epidurals, here we give birth at home I am glad I live here
hillena 2 years ago
I have had one crappy (unmedicated but crappy) hospital birth and one gorgeous homebirth. There is no going back from that awesome experience.
edaj84 2 years ago
OMG I just read what that low life good for nothing did to you!!! You definately are a strong woman and I know that only good things will come for you and your precious lil angel. Huge hug to you both <3
mariafernandarod 2 years ago
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latina3434arabe 2 years ago
that's cause you a lesbian that's why..yup
REALSTRENGTH78 2 years ago
to latina3434arabe, you feel that way towards men, because you are probably one ugly ass stocky looking lesbian with facial hair and a fade! plus you mad cause guys diss you all the time too. It sucks to be you doesn't it?
REALSTRENGTH78 2 years ago
Poor you! I cant believe those men were trying to make a song while you were moaning in pain. What those men did was immature and un-called for. But anyway, props for having a natural, drug-free childbirth. I plan on doing the same when my baby is due :)
jrml98 2 years ago
wow what a loser. Good for you for leaving. I was just hoping you are the older lady would come over and bitch slap that idiot. Best of luck
devanflores 2 years ago
If my husband does that to me when I go into labor next month... I'll kick him out of the room and kick his butt afterwards!!!!
mariafernandarod 2 years ago 3
i soooo totally agree!!! ... I'm sure yours wont be horrible =) Congratulations and good luck!!! =)
wendypadro 2 years ago
You are so brave. You've inspired me to go drug free on my labor as well. Give you even more props for putting up with those two!!
Thanks for posting this video. Congratulations and thanks for your good wishes... only 7 weeks to go!!!
mariafernandarod 2 years ago
I can't believe how unsupportive and lame those men were behind the camera. I was offended even watching I can't imagine how you must have felt. Yuck.
sedelman2 2 years ago 2
очень красивый и нежный ролик) это семья) настоящая)
Gaidka 2 years ago
I'd have told your husband and especially his dad to get the hell out. Totally taking the piss. He should be right next to you suporting you. Hope you gave him hell when you watched this back - you were really amazing
floweu 2 years ago 3
i tried, no one listend. the experience sucked, but thank goodness I have a beautiful and very active 2 year old. Yes, I gave him hell many times over for this, and then it all came clear as to why he didnt even care...
wendypadro 2 years ago
she sounds like an air raid siren :)
wirklichdoof 2 years ago
lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
Those men sound like idiots! Im sure she didn't really hear them while being in the pain but what dicks! I would have told them both to get the hell out!
madmesh1 2 years ago 2
honestly, I barely heard them, but I did a few times and asked them to leave or stfu, they never did. im just happy my lil guy is a healthy 2 year old now =) thank you hon!
wendypadro 2 years ago
Did you get rid of this man? Your BF or husband? He is a jerk you would be much better off without him. I am very impressed with your strength!!
obamassocialismsucks 2 years ago
i did actually... turns out he'd been cheating on me since i was just shy of 3 months pregnant.
wendypadro 2 years ago
Congrats! You had a natural birth while strapped on your back, the most painful position possible for birth. You're a rock star! Next time try a home birth or a birthing center birth, and you will see that if you are up moving around, it is WAY less painful. But now that you've done this, you know you can do anything!
yoginialison 2 years ago
I totally agree. I went through 8 hours of hard labor (30 second pushes every 3 minutes) ENTIRELY on my back...and once the drugs used to induce labor set in, there was no time to get an epidural.
theroadnottaken1978 2 years ago
kakšen kreten od dedca. namesto, da bi jo za roko držal, budalo. jaz bi mojemu jajca odtrgala, če bi mi to delal.
tikrglej 2 years ago
This guy makes me sick. Instead of acting like a child how about you go support your wife or leave her alone. Poor woman, I would be so upset if people were acting like that while I was in labor.
befany14 2 years ago
I'm sorry, but if my husband was whistling and the father in law was clapping his hands and making music while I was moaning in pain...I would divorce him and tell him to leave the room. A women in labor deserves more respect for what she goes through to give birth. I don't mean any disrespect, but this really upset me to see them acting the way they were.
amandawonderboy 2 years ago 21
Distractions help when those contractions come!
newburns 2 years ago
@amandawonderboy I agree with you, made me sick to my stomach
koniantic2 1 year ago
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drugs r bad, m'kay?
BowToMySkill 2 years ago
I had natural childbirth with all 4 of my kids,I remember making the same moaning sounds,you should be proud to deliver drug free!
RecessionRecipes 2 years ago 2
smile hunny! hahahaha
HussyK 2 years ago
I know! unbelievable lol. If my husband had've been filming from the other end of the room instead of giving me support where i needed him, there would have been words, I can tell you!
GreenHairedGirlie 2 years ago
Im nervous this is my 1st baby and im due in 6 weeks !!
nira742 2 years ago
I think you did an amazing job...
My son is almost ten now, and I just found out I'm expecting... I'm a little scared but I know I can do it ;)
You motivated me to go drug free again!!
Great job...
I was wondering who sings the song @the beging of the video??
lisaher21 2 years ago
I recently had my son med and epidural free also after 24.5 hours of all bakc labor lol. We women are strong and there needs to be more like us. Good job!
PeaceLoveEternity 2 years ago
"all back labor lol"
Well done, congratulations!
Do you mean though that you were on your back all this time? Was that your or someone else's choice? Why didn't you move around into different positions? Try it if there is a next time!
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
I moved around a lot yes but the pain was in my lower lumbar spine mostly and that is called back labor. It is the most painful labor you can have because the baby was in a Posterior position. My midwife had to turn him anterior before he came out.
PeaceLoveEternity 2 years ago
I had 20 hours of back labour...I had a homebirth... i did get quite a bit of relief while on my hands and knees with someone pushing on either side of my pelvis... if you move and sway your hips and squat it opens the pelvis so much... on your back our pelvis actually closes 27%... makes labour and pushing ALOT more difficult.
joropov 2 years ago
not to be an ass, but your not going to keep the wt down if your popping out kids. girls do the p90x thing and then start poping out the kids and then wonder why there fat again
josh111274 2 years ago
duh! this was back in 07, im done having children
wendypadro 2 years ago
just wanted to let u know that your video has inspired me to have a natural birth, im due june 4th and this is my first child!!!
KandaceRosemary88 2 years ago
Natural childbirth is more than just the absence of drugs. Do some reading on how to work with your body. She was making really deep sounds, which is perfect. Read Ina May's Guide to Childbirth and good luck with your birth!
brialyon 2 years ago
"im due june 4th and this is my first child!!!"
Congratulations!
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All the best! :)
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
OMG im due june 4th too!!
filthylove 2 years ago
WTF, "Video honey, no cursing", no offense, I'm sure your husband meant well but you're preparing to have a baby be naturally pushed out of your body, if you want to ******* curse & scream, you have all right to lol Screw the camera!
Gracefulskull 2 years ago 3
trust me i know, and thankfully not hubby just daddy lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
those two fools needed to get the hell out. where was the support?
spiderlegs2008 2 years ago 4
i had none, my mom was a wreck, and my sons father and his father were making fun of me most of the time, and when they weren't ... THEY WERE SLEEPING!!! yah! they left me alone to go home and 10 minutes l8r my water broke!
wendypadro 2 years ago
r u still in a relationship with the unsupportive father? sorry if im being personal..
spiderlegs2008 2 years ago
no... lol nope
wendypadro 2 years ago
Well done, dont know how you did it with husband and father in law just sitting there laughing and whistling when your lying in pain, felt awful watching it.
danielledonaghey19 2 years ago 3
i swear i wanted to kill them, thank you! =)
wendypadro 2 years ago
Squatting would have been more effective but congrats on the natural birth you are an inspiration to many women on here. God bless.
PeaceLoveEternity 2 years ago 3
i soooooo wanted to get up and move and the nurses wouldn't let me move, i was soooooooooooooooo mad
wendypadro 2 years ago
"the nurses wouldn't let me move"
That's why an ncreasing number of women opt for home births. Some of them even ot for an unassisted birth - no midwife - they deliver the baby themselves. A few even go for outdoor births, e.g. in the ocean!
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
Really? In the ocean? That seems a bit too natural (and especially dangerous) to me... I believe it though.
allergymonk 2 years ago
"In the ocean? That seems a bit too natural (and especially dangerous"
I think it's ok, but I would make sure that the water is warm and that htere are no sharks which could get attracted by the blood. In one case a mother who gave birth in the ocean had a doctor waiting behind a rock in case she needed one.
Wild animals all give birth outdoors and don't seem to have any problems.
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
I imagine that there are probably more animals that die at birth than there are humans, in terms of ratio. But I don't really know. Either way, if someone can have a baby safely in the ocean, go for it. I never would!
allergymonk 2 years ago
"I never would!"
It sounds cool to me! - literally and figuratively. I guess that if I was a woman, I would have a homebirth first, then an unassisted homebirth, then have my third in the ocean, or somewhere else out in nature, even if it's only out in the garden.
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
To each his own!
allergymonk 2 years ago
"To each his own!"
For sure. In my case, being male, it's a choice I'll never have to make. In some ways I feel deprived for never being able to give birth, but really I'm quite happy to leave the childbirth thing up to you ladies!
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago 2
"there are probably more animals that die at birth than humans,"
Maybe, but I doubt it. I assume that in wild animals, it's such a natural event that rarely anything would go wrong. It's different with domestic animals like cows, or with people.
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago
Well done!!! However, lying on one's back is by far the worst birthing position. Lying on one's side is better, but crouching on hands and knees, squatting, and standing are even better positions to give birth in, as the baby's descent is assisted by gravity. Water birth is excellent as it allows freedom of movement.
vaccineshurtbabies 2 years ago 3
yeah this hospital was just like my first, they practically tied me down... bleh
wendypadro 2 years ago
damn he's a big one
sk8rguy4life1123 2 years ago
lol he was tiny lol he's huge now tho lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
You are a stronger woman than me. Once I hit 4 cm I was so ready for the epidural.
angeleyes35586 2 years ago
lol i used to think that maybe i shouldve opted for it, im scared of drugs ( alergic to acetaminophen ) so everything scares me lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
LOL! that's me too. i'm due any day with my fifth child.....did not have an epidural w/ any of them except one pregnancy where I was having a lot of health issues that resulted in a thyroidectomy when i was 7 months preggo. by the time it was time for me to have her i just did not want to feel any more pain. I hated the epidural and I plan to go natural again this time...... epidurals just scare me.
nfide 2 years ago
Sorry, I would of cussed him out (both of them) and kicked the father-in-law out...but still, you have a wonderful and beautiful baby...men will never know what we have to endure with childbirth.
melissatx75 2 years ago 2
thank you and yeah i did cuss them out, then when baby was born father in law wanted to hold baby like immediately... i about killed him!!!
wendypadro 2 years ago
you did awesome but it broke my heart to see that you had NO support. everybody was just watching you like a piece of meat, making jokes, laughing. aweful! you should have been supported and celebrated cause you are a birth warrior! your son is supersupercute! you did awesome and can be proud of yourself! Iris
fcarroll1 2 years ago 5
aww hes so cute!
gorgeousvlm 2 years ago
=) thank you!!!
wendypadro 2 years ago
I would have SLAPPED my husband and father in law if they acted like that....
TabMcgee 2 years ago 3
i wanted to, luckily, we were never married lol
wendypadro 2 years ago
what a supportive dad and husbald!! He is just laughing and doesn' t help her to go through the pain....
anitaprendushi 2 years ago
i know he totally sucked
wendypadro 2 years ago
Sweet video. But your husband and his father have no idea how painful labor really is. It's not funny.Anyway the baby is beautiful like his mommy. God Bless!
wst72 3 years ago 2
yeah, it really sucked, he did anyway, if i could do it over, he wouldn't be there
wendypadro 2 years ago
dumb stupid jk excited i bet good luck
hiuoutthere 3 years ago
Awee that was beautiful
curiositymedia 3 years ago
thank you
wendypadro 2 years ago
Your children are beautiful! Congratulations!
JeniProkop 3 years ago
thank you
wendypadro 2 years ago
I can't get over all the vids of people laying flat on their backs for labor. No wonder it hurts so bad! If you'd had a doula, she would have been able to help you get into positions to make it less painful. Even lying on your side or sitting on a ball would really help. Next time tell your DH to actually HELP YOU instead of directing you in a video!!! Better yet, get a doula, and leave your DH in the hallway. I'm sorry, but him laughing makes me sick. Congrats on your baby, though!
3timesmama 3 years ago