Sach Ka Saamna 18th September 18 Part 6 2009 [48th Episode] www.SachKaSaamna.in

[hashmi253]

o not

[hunkysociologist]

Omg - what the hell does someones personal affairs such as extra-marital relationships have anything to do with anything??? Is this show really this reliant on sensationalism? There's so much more - prying - stuff one can inquire about without scraping the bottom as with such questions.

[karanwaterstar00]

i love u .. u r just beautiful soul... gOD BLESS U

[redsavageful]

And one more thing...she says she loves her husband..but also had an extra-marital affair?? ha ha..fooling us huh!!

[redsavageful]

all due respect to her honesty and beauty..but having an extra-marital affair is not acceptable..she deserved a divorce for this one.

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful How quickly you judge without even having an iota of knowledge on whether her husband was faithful as well. Fidelity is usually a two-way street my friend. Very easy to chastise and judge the woman. If it were a man, in her shoes, you'd probably be writing excuses up here for him.

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist :first of all , lets say for sure that this woman here has been having extra marital affair.( its not only me, but her as well admitting it), you being a sociologist is obvious to take her side, i never denied the fact that her husband may be unfaithful too,and will lash out on him as well if he ever appears on such reality show, and no my best friend, unfaithfulness most majorly is one sided,i am here commenting on what i listen, i am not commenting on guesses!!

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful Oh yes you've made plenty of guesses - you've guessed that their divorce was a result of her affair alone - and that he was probably a saint. You've also guessed that her remark that she loves her ex-husband despite the affair is not possible - while human emotions are so vast, they allow for layering of affections. You've also stated boldly that she 'deserved' the divorce - therefore passing a huge judgement. You'd judge the man the same? I really doubt it.

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist :please doubt your doubts if you at all wanna doubt anyone, because i am clear in what i previously said, i commented on what i listened, so if you say i was guessing? well even the guilty one here is the one guessing too according to you...! i am not really investigating the reasons behind her unfaithfulness, but yes, i have my judgement if that makes me a judge here. as of you, you need to start changing your name from sociologist to socio-investigator.

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful Well for starters, investigator is a synonym for what all sociologists do. So no name-changes needed there. And secondly, no need to get so riled up because someone questions your patterns of thought. Intellectual maturity comes from exploring alternative ways of thinking upon being questioned. Slashing away mindlessly at criticism is futile for one's personal growth. Clearly you see the rationale in my remarks - hopefully it helps you broaden your thinking too.

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist :The biggest joke here is you speaking of maturity!! you being a sociologist must know that we live in a democratic counntry and so we have a right to express ourselves and you judging my comments is absolutely a deed of idiocracy...narrow minded people like you talking about rationalism!! haha what a joke!...you are no sociologist because you try to force your "seemingly irrelevant " opinions ion others like me..Grow up boy, Be a Man.

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful Your ranting has departed from rational and is now bordering on just that - empty rantings. Clearly someone who cannot handle a challenge of any sort. In my experience, people asking others to "grow up" - have the most growing up to do themselves. And oh yes, it is at this point that I stop wasting my time entertaining a wailing kids need for validation and ignore you.

[hunkysociologist]

Also - the biggest guess of them all - cheating is usually one-sided. Such a generalized overstatement that is backed by absolutely no research on monogamy and marriage. Statistics state that approximately 40% of women and 60% of men cheat in a marriage. Each couple is different - sometimes one spouse's neglectful and hurtful behavior actually instigates the seeking of fulfillment elsewhere. Point fingers, sure, but after knowing the full story. Not just one side of it.

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist : you talk about research as if you are the one going around house to house cheking people's marital status and the reason(or the person ) responsible for the split!! and yes i believe this woman here was among the 40% women you mentioned!! so according to my statement done here previously( which you seem to be conveniently ignoring), i am commenting on what she said!! so i would also comment if her husband is at all among the 60%. and how far do you know the story?

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful As a thinking individual, yes, I do give vastly conducted research (which takes times, money, intellectual commitment - as I'm hoping you know) deep credibility. They are not just empty numbers - but are present to induce rational thinking and questioning. I dont need to go knocking on doors personally - but maybe it would assist you to talk to couples and attempt to understand the more "real" side of relationships (and not one presented in bad 90s hindi movies) - Lol

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist : you talk as if you know the whole two sides of the story here with proofs and standing by the woman here( of whom i am a very big fan of) but wrong is wrong and no sociologist can cover it!

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful He he. Wrong is wrong? If I am investigator - what does your remarks make you? Janta ki adalat? The one who calls 'em as he/she sees them and decides the punishment? Well, also it isnt only about Rupa Ganguli - I'm talking about women and infidelity in marriage generally. As a culture - we are more forgiving if a man is at fault - but when a woman shows any signs of being human - we start looking for those stones to hurl at her. Character is a perogative of both sexes

[redsavageful]

@hunkysociologist : talking of character, it is not guided by situations alone, character is shaped by principles, and you efforts( all in vain), to say that her huusband also might be ike this and all are utter baseless and useless. this cant be an excuse for her behaving the same with him(if at all what you say makes sense). so do not stop others from expressing their opinions, because that wont make you an "intellectual sociologist" but it would make an "idea foolish" sociologist out of you.

[hunkysociologist]

@redsavageful You don't even make any sense anymore Take a pause, breathe, and read what you just wrote again. Maybe its time to go to another video and make an empty, baseless, judgmental remark there?

[drUMFaizCMC]

graceful personality! Superb! I do share the same thought about marraige! 

[Kingmanification]

purna kholun thevali!!!

[nidisctr]

Paison ke liye kis tarah izzat kaa sauda hota hai dekh lo dunya walo

teri beti bhi teri line par chlegi

[nidisctr]

Paison ke liye kis tarah izzat kaa sauda hota hai dekh lo dunya walo

[nidisctr]

Randi to khul kar samne aagai hai lekin aur bhi sawal puchne the dusron se to bahot gande gande sawal puchte ho rupa se bhi puchho ?

[nikkyk100]

I have been thru a similar situation,was married for 13 years and have 2 kids.Was in a very abusive relationship,both physically and mentally.The torture I went thru was unbearable and during that time when I was so vulnerable,I had an affair outside my marriage.My husband came to know of this,and I got what I deserved-a divorce.I didnt get married again,hes not married either but I love him and hope he forgives me one day.Guys please dont judge me,I feel awful specially for my children...

[Jun9363]

very very polite...wonderful women ever....

[sahnawaz]

when a man cheats..its mostly physical...easy to recover from it...BUT when a woman cheats...its mostly emotional...both are absolutely bad...but later one is even worse...bcoz its hard to get over since mostly women get emotionally attached first with the other man before cheating...dats my 2 cents...

[tdotgyal4166]

Just b/c she had an affair, doesn't mean she had sex with him. It could be an emotional thing too. Also, her family seems so simple yet she's openly talking about her boyfriend and living together. Strange yaar.

[nahid223]

door rahyi ? for how long a month or more then that

if it was more then a month it was your fault i think

[manmohaniitd]

I found Rupa Ji's confession very sincere. The way she answered the questions is miraculous. I still see Mahabharat episodes regularly and saw her acting brilliantly there. After this programme, i have more respect for her.After Mahabharat acting, may be lot of women wanted to be like her and choose her as their role model, but after her personal revelations, she lost that stature.

[karthige79]

What the fuck is this programme ??? Dragging one's personal life in public for money ???  Shit, Damn, Fuck !!

A bunch of cheap bastards are aping the west to play with human emotions. You guys should be burnt alive. Filhos da putas !!

[neo1mil2]

She should thank her husband for being liberal,allowed her to kiss and fuck guys in movies

[EternalLoveism]

@ neo1mil2

Haha Hahah !! Agree wid u.

[dol345]

This women is something else!! Her thoughts abt her marriage are so true. It's too sad that after 14 yers her husband divorced her. We all have to realize that nobody is perfect. If you find something missing in your spouse today, tomorrow you will find something else wrong with the next one!! So it's better to stick with the same one and make it work.

[randominitializer]

there is everything wrong with a spouse if she/he cheats. there is nothing else to lose in the next one. it's sad how someone can blame the husband to divorce the wife when the husband is the victim of cheating. this world is full of people with disgusting mind.

[yasmeen104]

She doesn't look like the type of person that would have an affair.

[randominitializer]

are you saying cheaters would have certain physical features?, yasmeen?

[yasmeen104]

I'm not talking about physical features.I mean personality wise.She seems to be a sensible person.Someone who would know better!!

[randominitializer]

in the lifestyle she used to lead, it's hard to avoid what she had done.

[manmohaniitd]

I found Rupa Ji's confession very sincere. The way she answered the questions is miraculous. I still see Mahabharat episodes regularly and saw her acting brilliantly there. After this programme, i have more respect for her.After Mahabharat acting, may be lot of women wanted to be like her and choose her as their role model, but after her personal revelations, she lost that stature.

[mamabilloo]

nusrat u r sick

[victorrjc]

..we love U Roopa unconditionally!

[usmani127]

bitch... jo apnay shohar ki nahi wo kisi ki b nai

[Nusrat5791]

usmani - what if your mother remains with your dad, but fucks every dude she comes across, what's the point of remaining with her shohar?

[mamabilloo]

nusrat u just have shame , evrybody mom dznt like yours, hunh , by a name u seem a muslim wman, tell y she livz wth her husband if she likes to fuck wd hz boyfrend ...

[daksh711]

Her husband should have forgive her for adultary, as it sounds like she really loves her.

[sunstorm30]

Poor thing? She was screwing around and having an affair ... You morons

[powermad81]

She said such truth about marriage and relationships 3:41; shows she has a lot of experience of life

[nehaandgauravtandon]

i agree tht having relationship out of marrige is wrong...but ....if either patner walks out of relationship or hav reltionship wid other men or women..thn its also the fault of her husband...

[laleenadurrani]

i am muslim but i respect all religion, i think hindumat is also against illegal relations between male and female like other all religion, but dont know why people are very free now days in india to tell about their such sort of relations. this is dirty and wrong. and keeping in view these limitations rupa is a dirty woman. his husband left her becaouse of her bad charecter and he is a ghairatmand mard not like otheres who accept their wives along with these things.

[cafecorridor1]

This is the problem with rigid and narrow-minded people like you.She made a bad choice in her life for which she is paying the price.Just because someone commits a mistake doesn't make the person bad.Everyone has different circumstances.People who have been brought up very well probably would not need to indulge in an extra-marital affair.They would have had great parenting and would have learnt how to have a successful marriage.Someone else may be very insecure because of certain events in lyf.

[Nusrat5791]

i am muslim, and in know for sure that, all religions produce people who lie, cheat, kill and behave badly, including us muslims.

we all are assholes.

[mamabilloo]

im also a muslim but u nusrat u r really an asshole, i admit all religions produce ppl of all kinds but v as a muslim by following HAZRAT MUHAMMAD (S.A.W) deeds nd followings can change into good human beings ... the beasts of MAKKA changd is example....whch religion tells that liv with hzband and fuck with bfrnd??

[Nusrat5791]

mambilloo - if you wish to follow hazrat muhammad then, you will have to marry more than one woman, which would make you a very bad human being, no?

so, let's all stop following people who lived a long time ago, be it ram, muhammad or jesus, instead, we should try being good to each other, help each other and use the temples, churches and mosques to house the poor of society.

[mamabilloo]

nusrat we can marry more than one woman if i v can do just with them if no then there is no need to marry more... y r u making Muhammad (S.A.W) equl with them i agree that they would be good ppl but his (S.A.W) teachings teach us how to make enviroment to live good ... SEE DOCTORS NAIK lectures

[miiikaal]

who awr yow

[rakeshbiku]

good

[Charu783]

sabse acha rupaji ka episode acha laga. uski bate man ko chuu lene wali thi.

[manish41711]

whats she said was so touching ,

[cmjproductions1986]

@manish41711

ya it's like a dialogue for a film...She did want to be an actress u know... great dialogue delivery

[07ecani]

she is beautiful

[superMKcool]

poor thing! words frm her heart

[hanifakhan]

poor thing ...