Austin and Autism Part Three

[Lola3907]

To the Mommy of this little boy.... Well done you honey for being such a wonderful,loving and dedicated Mommy ! (-_-) I have high functioning autism,and as a child,I never got the help that I need,or any help at all. My mother knew that there was something wrong with me,but,my father refused to accept it.I can remember them having an argument about it,and my father said to my mother,"No daughter of mine is disabled! I never got any help with my autism until I was 18,by reading autism book's.

[marbletablet]

Who would dislike this and why?! Idiots!!!!!!!

I was just doing some research because our son does 1 odd thing at 9 months old so your video has been extremely helpful and I cannot help but cry when I think of what it must have been like to have such an unresponsive baby. I am so sorry. Disabilities are such a struggle but I think we learn to appreciate life more because of our struggles. Thanks for the information :)

[Dawoudkhalifa]

After watching the three videos, I feel really happy for you and your loving family. you have a beautiful son who will be able to do everything he needs, and then he'll go to school and will be the most bright child in his class just because of your care and support. God bless you all.

[kramerkozmo]

Austin, you're the luckiest guy in the world for having Kathalene as a mommy. you don't know it yet, but one day, hopefully you'll get it!

Kathalene, you're amazing!

May god be with you.

[lilmarque1]

aww give it to God nothing is too powerful for Him to fix

[MiaRose914]

I love watching these vids because it shows me other ways to go about teaching my daughter who also is autistic and start therapy.

[katherinegonzales82]

he really seems brilliant and maybe misunderstood... i hope that he keeps reaching out and never gives up! :) yall are in my thoughts and prayers! your story is fascinating.

[katherinegonzales82]

my sis in law didn't start walking until 16 months... never crawled. be careful with these brilliant children who grow up so smart that they just do what they have to, and don't have to work very hard to move to the next step. they might expect all of life to come so easily... i was that way, also. he seems absolutely brilliant... maybe the next test i'd give him is an IQ test. get him in some gifted programs. walking after 3 days?! smaaart cookie.

[katherinegonzales82]

austin seems really freakin' smart. my baby has the same attitude. really quiet... didn't like cuddling too much until my sitter started rocking him to sleep... i guess I feel like i know how he feels. maybe i'm a little off, too. he's 10 months and doesn't drink from a sippy cup. which isn't a big deal. i call him a challenge. :) he likes to skip right to the big-boy cup. my sis in law didn't crawl. just starting walking i think at about 16 months? i'd maybe be careful.

[purplegulab]

God bless Austin and slaute to the strong mom.

[nycrickette]

Kathalene, your videos help me more than you know. There is a 9 month old in my care at a large child care center. She's 9 months old, but we know there is something not right. No eye contact, doesn't recognize her name, doesn't engage, arm flapping, difficult to feed. Takes her bottle but flaps and hits me. Flaps during diaper changes, pinches. Thankfully her dr saw something, and she saw a neurologist yesterday. I'm waiting for diagnosis. Proactive parents instead of denial. YAY!

[TheBrowning12]

I don't think he needs to be "fixed"....I think he just has a different way of thinking...

[Yukiechan89]

@TheBrowning12 Agreed. You probably didn't mean to say it that way but it sounds badly... I know you love your son but he was put on earth just for you. I don't think there is anything that needs to be "fixed". Just try your best. Autism can't be fixed, but you can support it. Good Luck. You're doing a great job.

[lightbulbsmile]

Wishing you peace, strength and hope for your beautiful son's future. I have worked with autistic children for many years. Your son's path will be different and at times dark, but he WILL find his place in the sunshine. I don't mean this in any religious way, but more that with your help he will grow to be all that he can.

[Bodoke26]

Hi Kathalene, I can't tell you how much I cried with your video, you are such a strong woman! I was watching funny cat's videos and somehow your video came up and caught my attention, cause I have a nephew with Autism too and it's been really hard for my aunt and cousins to deal with it and learn about it, they live in Mexico and is not so easy. I have a 3 and half years old son, I am single mom and I just want to tell you that God blessed you with your son and he blessed him with a mom like you

[zerosister]

u should have talked instead of us having to read .other than that,great job.

[scbydooo]

These made me cry!! You are an amazingly strong woman! Your son is so beautiful! Nothing can beat the will of a strong mother!

[hidetolove]

Has he had any of the anger issues?

I took care of a 4 year old with pretty severe autism for about a year and he would beat me up pretty bad for not letting him have candy, or certain other things.

He couldn't talk then, and I'm not sure how much progress he's made in the 4 years since I've seen him. I hope he's doing better, though

[juicystarsuperfan]

you are a very strong woman and i respect you. i wish every woman were like you, strong and willing to be the best mother possible. I may not know what you go through, but i pray that you and your child (along with the many others) to be able to be happy and like a healthy like. God bless : )

[MtHiker4]

What an amazing story. Austin is an adorable little boy. I cried for you at the thought of your little boy not wanting you to hold him. I would be crushed if my little boy did this. I am so happy things are looking up. I hope progress continues and my prayers go out ot all of you. Austin has a very special persistant Mommy who loves him very much!

[michellen2008]

Sounds like my baby girl. She has come far, these last few months... She has in home services with a therapist that does like play therapy with her as well as speech therapy.

[abiezapanta]

Thank you for that. I cried my eyes out. I wish you and your family all the best.

[tilcon22]

Amazing watching this. He is exactly like my son Leo. You're doing fantastic work and your attitude is perfect. You sound just like a son rise mum, which is, I'm guessing, the program you're following.

[TheSuperApril]

I babysit a 19 month old boy who does not speak, has little to no eye contact, and focuses on parts of a toy, not the whole toy. I'm thinking he may be autistic...your videos were not only a beautiful tribute to your most adorable son, but an eye opener for me. Any suggestions on how to speak to his mother about this? Did anyone you know speak up to you, before you began to notcie something?  Thank you for posting these videos! God Bless you and Austin!!!

[OS253]

@TheSuperApril ,

Let me tell you my story. My daughter didn't start babling and talking until she was 4 years old. She turn out okay. Now she's 13 years old and she talks too much on her cell phone with her friends. Every child is different. Some develop faster or slower than other kids. It doesn't mean they're going to be autistic. Autism is a genetic disorder. Normal kids don't have these problems if they're healthy.

[84hazzard]

@TheSuperApril if they have internet ask them if you can show them a video find an autism video most like what the boy does and show them ask if this is something their son does with them as its soemthing you see when you look after him. they may not be aware of what it is or may just be in denial doont push it but get the idea their

[moyer62784]

I admire your strength and courage. Austin is lucky to have a family as wonderful as he does and thank you for sharing this with us. He will always be in my prayers along with you and your family. I used to babysit a boy with austism and his family didn't know right away he was a smart boy just lost it felt like. They moved to get him help and they came to visit me Halloween of 97 and I answered the door and he said trick or treat I cried tears of joy. 1st words he ever spoke to me. i was happy

[websmile2003]

wow,i am happy i saw part 3.I was very sad and even cried after part 1 & 2 but thank God it came to happy ending. I hope all mothers have your courage and love. I also hope that Austin would grow into a great man.

[fireflymelissa1981]

I admire your courage ! I'm so happy your little boy is coming back to you. I don't know where you got the faith, but a miracle happened ! (With alot of work ;-) Thank you for these videos and for giving others hope and strength to never give up !

[SaintRiddle]

be strong, My little brother was diagnosed with Autism when he was a todler also, He is now in 2nd grade in a classroom with all the other children with a little help from an Aid. With help Your little boy will deffanitly live and grow to be a happy healthy child :)

[ScotlandSerenity]

autism is not truly a disease i have it it has its pros and cons but if you are strong willed enough you can beat the cons plus it does improve certain aspects of thinking

[ScotlandSerenity]

mine is asperger syndrome i also had adhd yet i beat them both though there are varying levels of autism but you are in charge of your own destiny you just have to stay strong

[tiffyme]

I wonder if this is caused by a protein buildup or the body's inability to filter out certain toxins that natually build up in the system after several months of life. I hope they find the genetic factor(s) soon and can treat or cure it. Too many children suffering from this to not know more about possible cause. Hang in there and know that these vids are really helping people.

[babydublin01]

I havent cryed so much in a long time.I commend you.You are a amazing mother.

Austen is a very lucky boy to hven been chosen to have you as his mother.

Best wishes

Robin

[CanadaLarry]

Mother,

Please list,,,, the age and all the shots Austin was given.

It will help us to understand more about the history of this little bay.

We need to know this to find out more abount this

terriable condition.

[dangerlurk]

This final part made me cry a lot. I pray for cure.

My son has communication problem and I was so concerned and think could be autism. He is 1yr11m now. He is socially interactive and very very stubborn. He will make a fuss if he doesnt get what he wants. Thanks for sharing the knowledge and making such a huge effort to help others.

[mrsanneliska77]

I have a 6 month baby girl who i think is showing signs of Autism. But noone will beleive me. So thankyou for these videos they made me cry so much. And give me hope if i need to go on this journey as well.

[sarachapman]

That was absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much for sharing your story! Austin is lucky to have such an intelligent, resourceful, patient and loving mommy!

[Babymonkey09quentin]

Well I am sorry to hear about that, I've notice the date, last year, How is he doing now...??? Cute little boy.. I hope everything is fine with him..

[batigol47]

Because vaccination doesn't cause autism. The evidence simply isn't there and it is taking valuable research time, press attention and money away from science looking into other scientifically plausible causes and the already proven value of behavioral and cognitive therapy.

[eyebeeablessing2u]

Thank you so much for your story

My daughter 11 months old now shows many unusual behaviours as it relates to having PDD . I will advocate for her. God made her . She is perfect just the way that she is. I need to explaination as to why it happened.. just need the answer the question and cry of a moms heart LORD what can i do now .... ? XXOO

the behaviours on its own are nothing.. but when you put them all together it definately points us to PDD.

[lydiapandora]

Good job! Your videos made me cry, and I'm glad your son is doing better. I am sure he will keep improving.

[kara20]

I work with people with "disabilities". I have trouble even using that word, simply because ALL of us have our own abilities and DISabilities. He is an amazing little boy, in every sense of the word. You are an amazing mother. God bless!

[mcbuddy]

God bless you for these videos and God bless Austin. You are in my heart and prayers

[THEtinybrat24]

awh, he is so cute:)

[abrown82]

What a beautiful boy! I watched 12&3, it made me cry. I work with a boy who has autism and down syndrome and I know they can touch the deepest parts of your heart. G-d bless you and your beautiful family.

[vec2302]

i am so touched... i even cried... i watched part1,2&3.... keep it up... May God bless you and your family always... hope you'll keep us updated on austin's recovery...

[boomba1]

I was wondering if you have thought of biomedical help for your son? DAN! (defeat autism now) doctors can test them for metals, yeast, and other bacterial, viral, and GI issues. My first thought in watching this, was what immunizatons did he get before 6 months old when he started to regress into Autism. My son was 18 m when he recieved 5 vaccines at once and started to lose language,and huge gut issues, he was poisoned. Many are injured in ways we don't even realize. Best wishes on recovery!

[grace07055]

Absolutely beautiful and inspirational! I am a special needs teacher currently working with little guys just like your Austin aged 3-5. I am ecstatic that you have done all that you can do to get your son all the help he needs. Keep it up! Austin has a beautiful family and so much to be thankful for!!!

[dionne9876]

I just watched all three of your videos and I cryed my eyes out. I have a baby girl who is going through the same situation and I am constantly worried about her; the doctors keep saying "she's just a little behind" she's 1 year behind now. Your story is our story. You gave me hope for the future, for her future. God bless you and your family. I hope that little boy of yours is doing great, don't give up.

[wotmeworry333123456]

I used to work with children who have these challenges.

Your lovely lad will not be fixed, he will live this for the rest of his life.

HOWEVER, You and Your Family are doing everything possible to make Austin have a productive LIFE!

Keep doing what you are doing!

One day at a time!! And remember, you wee little lad is BEAUTIFUL, with LOTS of LIFE in him!!

[kissanya]

I've worked with many Autistic children and I also believe if there is a will from you and them...there is away to change and transaform. I am also a huge believer in diet and it's effects on the sutistic child particularly dairy and gluton...best of luck Austin!

[Rannie77]

I've just watched all 3 videos, which brought tears to my eyes. He is such a beautiful little boy, and you are such a WONDERFUL mum. Your whole family is loving and supportive, it's lovely to see such dedication and love. Even though I don't have an autistic child, I believe that one of them was close to autism. I have a deep empathy for these special children, and I will pray that one day, Austin will recover completely... xxx

[FrancieMarsh]

You have the right attitude and lots of love and support. Austin is a very lucky little boy to have a family like yours and a mom like you. Autism does not have to determine who Austin is, it does not have to define him. He will achieve so much with encouragement, care, love and firm, repition and of course patience and love, which you've already displayed. God bless you all and I know Austin is on the road to the best he can be!

[emeraldbluesky]

Beautiful, inspirational story...thanks for sharing this with everyone..:)

[JobsDotter]

kudos to an amazing Mommy. What a joy indeed to see our child smile at us. hugs to Austin

[abbysanchez1]

I am a teacher and was doing some research on this, in order not to ask invasive questions to my student's families. You have been through a lot and I appreciate these videos. I am praying that God will continue to bless your family.

[shabina828]

Your Video is Very touching...I actually want to go into helping children with autism and your video inspired me to keep on that track. Made me believe that there IS a way i can help and it may not be too late....i wish you and austin Lots of Love! Keep Smiling 8-)

[Kathalene1983]

I'm so happy to see that my videos are giving people hope. Thank you all for your wonderful comments. When I read them it brings tears to my eyes knowing there are so many people out there who really care. Austin has come so far. He is starting to talk. He can say mommy now and count 1-10 along with many other words. :) Also if anyone would like any advise, support or even just needs someone to talk to thats going through the same thing just send me a message and I'll gladly reply, God bless!

[ljn568]

@Kathalene1983 Wow!!! You are pretty amazing, i respect you so much. That's the true and strong love of a mother for their child. You're seriously an Amazing person and i wish you and Austin the best!

[pokemonheartless]

I watched all three of your videos with my Grandmother. I have a two year old brother. He is not autistic, but he can be "trying". I love him so much. I am amazed at your story. We were so touched to see how much faith and patience that you have had in reaching your son. He has a wonderful mommy and family. I know that you will keep up the good work and that he will be completely normal in every way. You all are truly blessed!

[boricuadeojosverdes]

WOW...Austin's Story is so touching and amazing!! I would like to tell you that you are a WONDERFUL mother. You and your family is the reason why he has gotten better so quickly. Thank you for sharing Austin's story with the world...Austin gives others hope!!! God Bless YOU and all your loved ones...specially that little angel that you call Austin!!! GOD BLESS!!!

[Worshiphead]

What a fantastic job you have done with your beautiful son! It's so exciting and so encouraging... my son has just been diagnosed with Asperger's and will start receiving "help" in Sept in a special preschool. While he speaks pretty well, is there any advice you can offer about the eye contact, initiated hugs, and kisses? Although we've shown him many times, he has only reciprocated 2x in 3 years. Any tips you can offer would mean a lot, you are doing such a great job! Thanks & God bless you!!!

[infaMOUSEproject]

thank you for the video.

[rysmomanddad5]

I watched all 3 of your videos, you are an amazing person! Your son is beatiful, your support and love to him, has made him come so far so quick! God Bless you both!

[Kathalene1983]

I really hope that my videos helps people who are just finding out that their child has Autism. Please believe me, your baby and you will be okay. They are wonderful and I'm learning so much from Austin. He is 3 and is making tools with his toys to help him do things. He is finally starting to say words and use the fork and spoon! I'm so proud of my little angel. Don't lose hope because weather or weather not you can bring them out of this, they will always be your blessing.

[amymegsmom]

What is happening to our kids? I want someone to answer that question. How do "NORMAL" children develop autism? I feel for your family SO MUCH! I would love to be able to be able to talk with families of young children with autism for support & encouragement!! Just keep up your determination! I'm doing everything I can for my little Derek! OUR KIDS ARE WORTH IT & THEY CAN COME BACK!!

[amymegsmom]

Hang in there, MOMMY! I'm a mommy of a 25month old with autism. YOU ARE RIGHT!!! IT CAN AND DOES GET BETTER! We were lucky enough to bypass the doctor-denial crap. I was blessed to get a diagnosis literally 4 days after I suspected a problem. Diagnosed w/autism at 13 months old. Now, 25 months, has NO gross/fine motor delay. NO receptive language delay. Has 75 word expressive language!!! HE'S BACK IN OUR WORLD! He actually plays with his toys. And, I am now "Momba" (Mama!) I'm there with you!

[alepazzi]

i know it's very hard, but i really think we're lucky to have these wonderful babies....you're doing a great job with austin, the same we're doing with andrea... good luck and love, love, love and kisses for you!!!!=)

[Kathalene1983]

Thank you everyone. Austin is starting to say a few things now even in sign language! He loves to give everyone he sees hugs. He makes an adorable happy squeak sound when he grabs ahold of you. He can also feed himself with a spoon. He had fun on easter, loved opening the plastic eggs. He danced for us I'll post the video of that up soon. Over all he's doing great and were so proud of him.

[Bobbymdz34]

your story made me cry. im so happy for you. you deserved that hug, your a great mother :)and your son is very cute. god bless you and your family

[MuslemahForEver]

great mother

[Genni4308]

Kat, Hey it's Virginia, Sue's step daughter. I just wanted to say I'm so proud of you. I know that I couldn't do it. No matter how hard I tried. I miss you guys so much.

[notrustinpeople]

Kat, BELIVE IN THE POWER OF BELIEVING!

Keep on doing your stuff. What kind of intervention are you doing? Well, keep it up!

[btriplel22]

Its beautiful Kat :) Not sure how you do it, but you are one of the strongest people I know. Its almost unbelievable how far Austin's come since the diagnosis. I guess it runs in the family. ;)

-Bill

[ladywolf32433]

Bill, thanks so much. You see, Kat is my daughter. I know that if anyone can help Austin, it will be Kat with the support of her family and encouraging words from people like you.

Sheila