i love what this guy has to say in the video and soo true to life, i say be your natural self, dont kowtow to people and dont be what others want you to be. nice v bad boy, genuine nice and walk over are 2 different things, being nice to get a cream pie session is fake lol
Nice guy (definition) - a guy that has manners and has respect for women. He thinks that pursuing a woman with flowers, dinners, trips, etc will work since that was what he was told to do or thinks that is the way to go. The really nice guys might be a bit manipulative in terms of trying to "buy" the woman by doing her favors. Generally the nice guy is educated, has a job, is responsible and maybe a bit naive about human nature. His role in society is to clean up the messes made by the bad boys.
Good vid. You do have dudes who pretend to be nice guys in order to get in those ****. But then you have the dudes who really are nice guys by heart. The same could apply for the women too. But sadly there's no love for REAL nice guys and girls lol.
Don't feel bad brotha... I'm a Recovering Nice Guy and I still Relapse from time to time but as I've grown older I had to realize the Chivalry is only for the Deserving women not the typical broads that causes Migranes and Ulsers...
I don't dog them out but I'm definitely not their "Knight in Shining Armor"
Stop listening to these women's sob stories about they're boyfriends. Don't be a shoulder to cry on. Don't do any favors for them that the boyfriend is capable of doing. Fuck all that shit. Don't be on the phone chatting for hours on end asking about their day. I could give a fuck about their day. Unless she's giving it up, I'm not interested. If she wants a conversation, she can call her brother. When it comes to me, she needs to shut her mouth & back that ass up!
@YoungGrizzly82 and yet all these TFL videos are about men whining about how they cant get laid. which somehow make all women bad.....hmmm hypocrisy much. though this guy is less infuriating
@akiramitsuragi people who are nicer in nature, as for me im just an ordinary person now. i actually advocate marc rudov's way far more thats tough but fair and has control but is honest. always go 50-50 and reciprocate is my way now.
@UnionMetalhead some women tend to end up with the men that are the worst for them.why, ill never know,but these women are not the norm.just like some guys i know tend to go for two-faced girls when there are plenty of honest ,strong ,independant women around them. some people are just very bad at choosing. for some it takes a goo many tries to realize exactly what they do and do not want out out of a partner. i had to go through a few before i got it right. jerks are easier to find it seems.
@UnionMetalhead oh and thank you for responding in a civil way. someone else responded to my dissagreement by calling me a "lowlife femenazi bitch" and said my "pussy smelled".
thank you for responding with intelligence,consideration and i do see where youre coming from :)
I completely concur about the pussy beggars type of guy, they bring it onto themselves and those guys who feel desperate enough to go for the slutty type who turned them away for the real scum when they were younger but come running to those guys when their body clock and looks have long ticked by. I dont sympathise for them. Also guys who will go for girls who judged them badly in the 1st place. There are 2 types of "nice guy" the "kayfabed" guy and the genuine guy who is good natured to many.
Listening to the crying girl with the bad boy, really in a sense is like an enabler of the poor choices of the woman. Consoling her allows her to further chose the bad boy over you. If you just said, "GROW THE F$%K UP." and then left her sitting there. In that instant, you'd hold her liable for her stupid actions. She's lazy. She knows this. That's why she wants the bad boy, almost like a punishment. Don't enable it. She might change.
Being nice does not mean being a stepping stone. I have female friends who have done the "waa waa waa men use us" and the only..and I mean ONLY... female that I didn't say "get the fuck over it" was when the girl threatened to commit suicide. Honestly, if she had killed herself and NOT told me, I probably wouldn't care less. But the fact that I had become part of it... life is not to be wasted over someone not worth the time.
This is a very good video. thugtician assumes that real nice guys don't exist. Those men who are inherently kind and generous people. Men who were raised to be nice and as adults, have adapted that identity. Pussy beggers are manipulators who use the nice technique, which is a flawed technique, to attract women. Men who are afraid to be themselves because they believe that it will hinder their chances at pussy. Nice guys are men of good character and they do exist. Great response.
We must differentiate between a guy that is nice and a "nice-guy". As there are people out there that are LEGITIMATELY cruel mined and hateful, there will almost certainly be those that are nice. Not all people like drama.
Well, in his defense both of you have the same definition of nice guys. He clearly mentioned that those guys who pretended to be nice are not really nice. They do it to just receive in the long run. He also explained how these guys are ruining the name "nice guy". In reality, you actually agree with him.
As far as the rest of the video goes, you are on point. My friend is one of those real nice guys. He is just a good guy overall and it rarely pays off in this world.
Girls have told me to my face "you're too nice... this won't work out" "you're too nice, I don't trust you" "your too nice.. you deserve some one better" (REAL REAL QUOTES 100%) and so I realized I have 3 choices. A:stay single B: change into what a specific girl wants. C: Change to a new field of women. I'm picking A until I can get to C ... But it takes a lot of patience lol ..lol .this is not how my mom made women look I felt let down for a while by my own expectations.
amen, i picked column A till i have the resources to get me into column C a long time ago. yeah its tough (especially when every guy around you is either getting or getting anything at all and there all looking at you wondering whats up) but the amount of peace and quiet you get when single (im beginning to believe) is too good to be true. then the women that column C will bring is good too once we get to it. the main point is dont give up
The world is not made for nice people, I will continue to be nice! Understand there is a difference between being nice or being a pushover. I personally choose positive then negative any day!
i need answer to one question! why pretend to be nice say i love you treat one so real special only for sex why lie for sex? they lie when they have lets say one then they will go with another and lie to her to. If you have one woman why lie to the next one you don't love just for sex if you are getting sex from the one you have? is it coz u men cannot be with one woman by nature?
the answer is going to be different for each guy you ask (i could (and have) ask the same question to you women). i dont do that (maybe i should start considering it happened to me with all but 1 GF i had) so i wouldnt know, but maybe the guy isnt getting sex, maybe the girl is driving him crazy, maybe he hasto do too much work for sex when she dosnt haveto do anything, there could be an infinate number of reasons
1 question i have is why ppl cheat with someone thats uglier than what they have
ok but why not solve his relationship issue with the woman he is with ! if he is not getting sex with the one he is why not tell the one he is his feeling if she says no dump her then be honest for the next one. why hold on to the one he has? why not solve his issue or leave first before lying to the woman who will be his victim
I haven't been here over 8 months.. I remember I run into you from I hate men video.. hahahaha that year was crazy for me u and I met in the I hate men video... Well I don't hate anymore
I am now talking with someone... Well he is in this situation he told me he is tired of being the nice guy
The truth is though the nice guys are too nice.. they lack backbone I think...
'Well I don't hate anymore I am now talking with someone'
ah see i told you, all you need is some dick (i explained this in one of my videos about feminists)
'Well he is in this situation he told me he is tired of being the nice guy'
you finally it, i was tellin the truth.
'The truth is though the nice guys are too nice'
and thats the shit that gets everyone fucked up. how can anyone be 'too nice'. thats like saying you have too much money, you look too sexy, etc. there is no such thing
@Astwa2 i dont think so. i think there needs to be more gentlemen. im sorry but i never liked bad boys,and i never will. its funny though how many people think that bad boy and nice guy are the only two things a man can be. nothing is that black and white folks.
"is it coz u men cannot be with one woman by nature?"
lol, this is far from the answer.
1. Men are always condemned for just wanting sex without commitment. People are constantly bashing men on this regardless of how honest they are. The same goes for women. If all she wants is sex, then people call her a hoe.
2. A lot of men are in relationships based solely on sex and end up cheating because the woman sometimes doesn't offer relationship-worthy material. No, it's not right -> cont.
In short. Even when you want something ahead of sex. the general expectation of women is that you DO want sex first and, as a result, they will bullshit test you. The bullshit test is not only to test to see if you are a man, but to test if they and their friends are right about you. Its a predictability test.
and Im not saying that all men are relationship worthy, but men sometimes feel pressured to be in relationships (not by women but by society). Otherwise, we are judged as assholes who just want sex. Then word gets around and our reputation is ruined.
So, your theory of men are not faithful by nature is as flawed as it can be
Men and women both have a biological desire for sex. It's just that the parameters for those desires are different. The reason girls go for the thuggish guys is because *trumpets playing* they find them to be sexually attractive. While men find women with curvacious bodies to be attractive sexually.
That is why i love to see women get abused by thugs when they are the way they are. it is judgement on them. I myself, I'm niether a nice guy or a scumbag. Another thing, feminists should definately be thrown to the gutter, because all they spew is manhate and you cant help but laugh when they hang themselves by going for the scummy men everytime. They have no right to blame men, but then I can say that I do blame the men who do kowtow to women too. Have u see marc rudov's website? i recommend
You are not understanding the lady in the tape. She is not saying he is nice she said he is nice only up to one thing to get something. i understand her! i was like her too. But i do not understand women that keep going over and over to the same type of guy. that is stupid i think. I would never do that. It happened to me once i will never let it happen to me again.
you are also in the wrong direction! Not all are looking for bad boy!
I agree whole-heartedly. I did and done the same things. Hard to be nice to somebody who's gonna keep making the same mistakes. At my age (42) I just ain't got the patience no more.
omg this video is making sense! the other video about black women can't keep man around made me so mad i was arguing about real man. I admit i have no clue what man is! sorry men i said i hate you all i appologize. i hate the one that lies and does something then in the end it it didn't turn out the way he wanted he will be so bad in many ways. that's why i said real man is one that never lies ! but i still have no clue! is not easy to tell which is bad which is nice it is chance !
he heh heh well thats one, hopefully the blood hounds you turned to (such as 'bugattigirl, atlantasista, etc) can also see it.
well at least you finally admit that you where wrong, but i will say this ANY AND EVERY human on this planet is capable of lying, just cause he/she is a 'real' nice person dosnt mean they will be the perfect 24/7 like god, it just means they wont falsely appear to be a good person just to change when they dont get what they want
i did stop watching but a lady reply to me she is 49 very intellegent or something was her name. i came to reply to her ! i reply to her in her own channel and i noticed this nice guy picture i was curious to see it.
The problem with women is they have interior motives so they will "assume" a nice guy does as well therefore she will run a game on him,
The other problem is that nice guys havent figured out women, women go by a "spark" with a guy so she accepts any type of behavior from this guy due to the spark since women go by hormonal urges first, second, third and last
These so-called guys arent bad boys they are just guys who dont want her or figured out her game
@UnionMetalhead You should keep on being nice. The "bad" types of guys are whores and it's the girl's own fault for getting with them. And then they say "I wish my boyfriend was nice like you" wtf?
Women turn guys into assholes, because they LIKE assholes, and then complain about it!
@akiramitsuragi U would actually be wrong about never being a nice guy, i might of been alittle too soft years ago and i was nice aswell so i cant say that i totally concur with you but i dont disreguard part of the statement either, but alot of men who are just genuine and not walk overs (i agree that being a door-mat is a bad option too)are getting reamed too (i dnt mean in bed either), but u also have to understand that what i wrote was well over a year ago and im laid back now but im more
@akiramitsuragi U would actually be wrong about never being a nice guy, i might of been alittle too soft years ago and i was nice aswell so i cant say that i totally concur with you but i dont disreguard part of the statement either, but alot of men who are just genuine and not walk overs (i agree that being a door-mat is a bad option too)are getting reamed too and not in a good way, but u also have to understand that what i wrote was well over a year ago and im laid back now but im more
@akiramitsuragi content on being single. but dont disreguard the fact that there are alot of women who are constantly chasing bad boys because i see it all the time and hear of it all the time, i have been alive long enough to see it. im glad u have replied though because I have now eradicated that comment i previously put up as it was abit extreme. anyway, steve moxon the woman racket tends to be more revealing about the differences between men&women in essence, and, but nature does manipulate
There are very few people who do good things just for the sake of doing good or altruistic reasons.
Most people have an agenda regardless of having a 'nice guy' or 'asshole' label.
With very few exceptions, the vast majority of 'nice men' that I have known put an enormous amount of effort into helping women THAT they were PHYSICALLY attracted to.
Whether they wanted to admit it or NOT, initially, on some conscious or subconscious level there was a sexually component involved.
None of the men, I am referring TO would put 1% of the effort into helping ANY man, or for THAT matter, any woman THAT they did NOT have a certain level of attraction to.
While there are 'nice men' who do NOT do things strictly for a reward; these 'nice men' are cognizant of the rewards other men are given and quite naturally want their due diligence at some POINT.
I use to be friends with a girl who would constanlty talk to me about her bad boy boyfriends. I liked her and wanted to go out with her myself but never said anything. I found it more intersting to see how she handled relationships with other men before I tell her how I feel. around the 5th or 6th boyfriend I was no longer attracted to her I said "Go complain to you boyfriend see if he gives a shit." after that she said I wasnt a "nice guy" Im a nice guy I just didnt care anymore.
Ok your stretching the nice guy thing too far with that burning building analogy. Nice guys do not turn women on period. I am sorry to tell you this.
Either get over it or deal with it. You can change yourself and let your balls drop a bit fellas.
I used to be one of you creepy nice guys 30 years ago. That was then and this is now.
Nice guys do act nice in hopes of women liking them. Not realizing that whole lack of manhood is a total turn off to women.
and here you have it people, a perfect example of what im talkin about, (i didnt think one of them would pull off the sheeps clothing, instead of getting it pulled off)
your right nice guys dont turn women down, REAL nice guys do.
1 maybe you act nice just to get women but i dont. if im not going to be nice i wont be nice, no matter how much pussy is at stake
2 do i sound like i give a fuck whats a turn off to women, when they start caring whats a turn off to me then ill give a shit about them
I consider myself by-definition a "good man", however that's because I have a very strong sense of moral conviction.
Because of this, not only does my sense of moral obligation compel me to help others in genuine need, but it also compels me to chastise and punish those who deceive, intimidate and cheat others.
Pussy beggars do no such thing, their end goal is satisfaction, and they'll sink to any belly-scraping-low to accomplish that.
Being nice,isn't exactly being a push over,I'm a good guy. But I know how to spot women like that,its about doing whats right. And not caring what others,think of you. I consider my self,a good guy & that means,I'll stand for whats right.
There are at least two different kinds of "nice" guys. Both kinds get crapped on from time to time, but the "good" kind lives, learns, and adjusts. The "bad" kind gets all bitter and talks a lot about how awful women are for not liking them.
"I'm nice to you, and therefore, you're supposed to fall in love with me." They complain that women like jerks, but they only go after women who are jerks themselves.
That's real talk... a genuine good person does something for someone else because they treat people the way they want to be treated because it's from the heart and its positive - plain & simple. No deception... no games. If a woman can't respond or reciprocate to that then move on. Real good men don't have time for the foolishness of little girls who don't know how to be real women who can't appreciate genuine good qualities in a man. If they find bad boys more appealing then it's their problem.
If a person is nice then that's has nothing to do with how he treats women it's to do with how he treats people. Anyone who defines niceness solely in terms of how he relates to a woman exposes himself as someone who is not nice at all. Nice people can be both men and women are rarely ever call themselves nice their niceness is evident to others and the rest of don't need to have it pointed out to us. I say with respect.
yeah, thats what people (mainly girls) have called me. so thats why i say im a nice (or former nice) guy
PS funny thing is people still say im a nice guy (meaning REAL nice guy) even though ive pretty much said FUCK OFF to any and every one who wont at least let me be, much less make my life better with there existence, so i dont know.
What I got from her comments is that she doesn't know how to tell a true nice guy apart from a guy who acts nice but has a hidden motive. I've seen the real nice guys who get walked over and don't snap or lash out when they get burned as the woman said they do. On the flip side I've seen guys go from being a nice guy to a jerk after getting walked on numerous times. Maybe she feels that a woman should be free to walk all over a nice guy and he should just sit back and take it. I'm not sure.
So ultimately when the true nice guy gets feed up with this and stops dealing with the woman, she accuses him of just being a fake nice guy.
It seems that even some of our best and brightest are believing this nonsense. It goes back to the philosophy that many women seem to have now which is "the woman is never wrong when it comes to matters of the heart, dating and relationships."
tried of listening to fucken girls crying, fuck it
MrJemSpot 6 months ago
i love what this guy has to say in the video and soo true to life, i say be your natural self, dont kowtow to people and dont be what others want you to be. nice v bad boy, genuine nice and walk over are 2 different things, being nice to get a cream pie session is fake lol
UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
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UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
Nice guy (definition) - a guy that has manners and has respect for women. He thinks that pursuing a woman with flowers, dinners, trips, etc will work since that was what he was told to do or thinks that is the way to go. The really nice guys might be a bit manipulative in terms of trying to "buy" the woman by doing her favors. Generally the nice guy is educated, has a job, is responsible and maybe a bit naive about human nature. His role in society is to clean up the messes made by the bad boys.
sieracki001 1 year ago
@sieracki001
that sounds about right. except the buyin part
TENNSUMITSUMA 1 year ago 3
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RenaSandrac 1 year ago
Good vid. You do have dudes who pretend to be nice guys in order to get in those ****. But then you have the dudes who really are nice guys by heart. The same could apply for the women too. But sadly there's no love for REAL nice guys and girls lol.
The10men 1 year ago
Don't feel bad brotha... I'm a Recovering Nice Guy and I still Relapse from time to time but as I've grown older I had to realize the Chivalry is only for the Deserving women not the typical broads that causes Migranes and Ulsers...
I don't dog them out but I'm definitely not their "Knight in Shining Armor"
Good vid Bruh...
Lilart1981 2 years ago
@Lilart1981 what makes a woman"deserving" ?
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
Stop listening to these women's sob stories about they're boyfriends. Don't be a shoulder to cry on. Don't do any favors for them that the boyfriend is capable of doing. Fuck all that shit. Don't be on the phone chatting for hours on end asking about their day. I could give a fuck about their day. Unless she's giving it up, I'm not interested. If she wants a conversation, she can call her brother. When it comes to me, she needs to shut her mouth & back that ass up!
YoungGrizzly82 2 years ago 12
@YoungGrizzly82 and yet all these TFL videos are about men whining about how they cant get laid. which somehow make all women bad.....hmmm hypocrisy much. though this guy is less infuriating
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
@akiramitsuragi people who are nicer in nature, as for me im just an ordinary person now. i actually advocate marc rudov's way far more thats tough but fair and has control but is honest. always go 50-50 and reciprocate is my way now.
UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
@UnionMetalhead some women tend to end up with the men that are the worst for them.why, ill never know,but these women are not the norm.just like some guys i know tend to go for two-faced girls when there are plenty of honest ,strong ,independant women around them. some people are just very bad at choosing. for some it takes a goo many tries to realize exactly what they do and do not want out out of a partner. i had to go through a few before i got it right. jerks are easier to find it seems.
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
@UnionMetalhead oh and thank you for responding in a civil way. someone else responded to my dissagreement by calling me a "lowlife femenazi bitch" and said my "pussy smelled".
thank you for responding with intelligence,consideration and i do see where youre coming from :)
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
I completely concur about the pussy beggars type of guy, they bring it onto themselves and those guys who feel desperate enough to go for the slutty type who turned them away for the real scum when they were younger but come running to those guys when their body clock and looks have long ticked by. I dont sympathise for them. Also guys who will go for girls who judged them badly in the 1st place. There are 2 types of "nice guy" the "kayfabed" guy and the genuine guy who is good natured to many.
UnionMetalhead 2 years ago 3
Listening to the crying girl with the bad boy, really in a sense is like an enabler of the poor choices of the woman. Consoling her allows her to further chose the bad boy over you. If you just said, "GROW THE F$%K UP." and then left her sitting there. In that instant, you'd hold her liable for her stupid actions. She's lazy. She knows this. That's why she wants the bad boy, almost like a punishment. Don't enable it. She might change.
neonegyptian 2 years ago 6
Women know who the wolves are! They spent their teenage years listening to all the relationship gossip. They know. Only YHWH can correct us all!
Yahokhanan 2 years ago
A mother of a former classmate told me that "They don't want a good man..I know, I was one of (those women)"..
Yahokhanan 2 years ago
Women, especially Black Women, detest perceived innocence and "meekness" in men. lolol.
Eve (Khawah) was the first one.
Yahokhanan 2 years ago
Being nice does not mean being a stepping stone. I have female friends who have done the "waa waa waa men use us" and the only..and I mean ONLY... female that I didn't say "get the fuck over it" was when the girl threatened to commit suicide. Honestly, if she had killed herself and NOT told me, I probably wouldn't care less. But the fact that I had become part of it... life is not to be wasted over someone not worth the time.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
This is a very good video. thugtician assumes that real nice guys don't exist. Those men who are inherently kind and generous people. Men who were raised to be nice and as adults, have adapted that identity. Pussy beggers are manipulators who use the nice technique, which is a flawed technique, to attract women. Men who are afraid to be themselves because they believe that it will hinder their chances at pussy. Nice guys are men of good character and they do exist. Great response.
ColonelChoppa 2 years ago
We must differentiate between a guy that is nice and a "nice-guy". As there are people out there that are LEGITIMATELY cruel mined and hateful, there will almost certainly be those that are nice. Not all people like drama.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
Good video. I've believed for a while that the 'Nice Guy' is an evolutionary anomaly created by women themselves.
TheBrutalReality 2 years ago
Well, in his defense both of you have the same definition of nice guys. He clearly mentioned that those guys who pretended to be nice are not really nice. They do it to just receive in the long run. He also explained how these guys are ruining the name "nice guy". In reality, you actually agree with him.
As far as the rest of the video goes, you are on point. My friend is one of those real nice guys. He is just a good guy overall and it rarely pays off in this world.
silverdragon1979 2 years ago
bevon17 2 years ago 6
amen, i picked column A till i have the resources to get me into column C a long time ago. yeah its tough (especially when every guy around you is either getting or getting anything at all and there all looking at you wondering whats up) but the amount of peace and quiet you get when single (im beginning to believe) is too good to be true. then the women that column C will bring is good too once we get to it. the main point is dont give up
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
@bevon17 those women are stupid bitches and they deserve whatever happens to them.
Joeyal123 10 months ago 4
You Summed it up Well!
The world is not made for nice people, I will continue to be nice! Understand there is a difference between being nice or being a pushover. I personally choose positive then negative any day!
lilcoco77007 2 years ago
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crh2010 2 years ago
i need answer to one question! why pretend to be nice say i love you treat one so real special only for sex why lie for sex? they lie when they have lets say one then they will go with another and lie to her to. If you have one woman why lie to the next one you don't love just for sex if you are getting sex from the one you have? is it coz u men cannot be with one woman by nature?
Astwa2 2 years ago
the answer is going to be different for each guy you ask (i could (and have) ask the same question to you women). i dont do that (maybe i should start considering it happened to me with all but 1 GF i had) so i wouldnt know, but maybe the guy isnt getting sex, maybe the girl is driving him crazy, maybe he hasto do too much work for sex when she dosnt haveto do anything, there could be an infinate number of reasons
1 question i have is why ppl cheat with someone thats uglier than what they have
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
ok but why not solve his relationship issue with the woman he is with ! if he is not getting sex with the one he is why not tell the one he is his feeling if she says no dump her then be honest for the next one. why hold on to the one he has? why not solve his issue or leave first before lying to the woman who will be his victim
Astwa2 2 years ago
ok...its obvious these questions are coming from some past experience so ill give you the answer....in person.
so if u want to know the answer so bad were gonna haveto meet up
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
@TENNSUMITSUMA
I haven't been here over 8 months.. I remember I run into you from I hate men video.. hahahaha that year was crazy for me u and I met in the I hate men video... Well I don't hate anymore
I am now talking with someone... Well he is in this situation he told me he is tired of being the nice guy
The truth is though the nice guys are too nice.. they lack backbone I think...
Astwa2 2 years ago
'Well I don't hate anymore I am now talking with someone'
ah see i told you, all you need is some dick (i explained this in one of my videos about feminists)
'Well he is in this situation he told me he is tired of being the nice guy'
you finally it, i was tellin the truth.
'The truth is though the nice guys are too nice'
and thats the shit that gets everyone fucked up. how can anyone be 'too nice'. thats like saying you have too much money, you look too sexy, etc. there is no such thing
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
@Astwa2 i dont think so. i think there needs to be more gentlemen. im sorry but i never liked bad boys,and i never will. its funny though how many people think that bad boy and nice guy are the only two things a man can be. nothing is that black and white folks.
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
"is it coz u men cannot be with one woman by nature?"
lol, this is far from the answer.
1. Men are always condemned for just wanting sex without commitment. People are constantly bashing men on this regardless of how honest they are. The same goes for women. If all she wants is sex, then people call her a hoe.
2. A lot of men are in relationships based solely on sex and end up cheating because the woman sometimes doesn't offer relationship-worthy material. No, it's not right -> cont.
silverdragon1979 2 years ago
In short. Even when you want something ahead of sex. the general expectation of women is that you DO want sex first and, as a result, they will bullshit test you. The bullshit test is not only to test to see if you are a man, but to test if they and their friends are right about you. Its a predictability test.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
The testinig thing proves that women have absolutely no respect for men. Throw them all to the gutter is what I say!
UnionMetalhead 2 years ago
and Im not saying that all men are relationship worthy, but men sometimes feel pressured to be in relationships (not by women but by society). Otherwise, we are judged as assholes who just want sex. Then word gets around and our reputation is ruined.
So, your theory of men are not faithful by nature is as flawed as it can be
silverdragon1979 2 years ago
Men and women both have a biological desire for sex. It's just that the parameters for those desires are different. The reason girls go for the thuggish guys is because *trumpets playing* they find them to be sexually attractive. While men find women with curvacious bodies to be attractive sexually.
c00lwatter 2 years ago
That is why i love to see women get abused by thugs when they are the way they are. it is judgement on them. I myself, I'm niether a nice guy or a scumbag. Another thing, feminists should definately be thrown to the gutter, because all they spew is manhate and you cant help but laugh when they hang themselves by going for the scummy men everytime. They have no right to blame men, but then I can say that I do blame the men who do kowtow to women too. Have u see marc rudov's website? i recommend
UnionMetalhead 2 years ago
You are not understanding the lady in the tape. She is not saying he is nice she said he is nice only up to one thing to get something. i understand her! i was like her too. But i do not understand women that keep going over and over to the same type of guy. that is stupid i think. I would never do that. It happened to me once i will never let it happen to me again.
you are also in the wrong direction! Not all are looking for bad boy!
Astwa2 2 years ago
i didnt see the video directly, i was going off what thugtician said from the video
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
I agree whole-heartedly. I did and done the same things. Hard to be nice to somebody who's gonna keep making the same mistakes. At my age (42) I just ain't got the patience no more.
cjjaxxon 2 years ago
omg this video is making sense! the other video about black women can't keep man around made me so mad i was arguing about real man. I admit i have no clue what man is! sorry men i said i hate you all i appologize. i hate the one that lies and does something then in the end it it didn't turn out the way he wanted he will be so bad in many ways. that's why i said real man is one that never lies ! but i still have no clue! is not easy to tell which is bad which is nice it is chance !
Astwa2 2 years ago
he heh heh well thats one, hopefully the blood hounds you turned to (such as 'bugattigirl, atlantasista, etc) can also see it.
well at least you finally admit that you where wrong, but i will say this ANY AND EVERY human on this planet is capable of lying, just cause he/she is a 'real' nice person dosnt mean they will be the perfect 24/7 like god, it just means they wont falsely appear to be a good person just to change when they dont get what they want
ps i thought u stopped watchin my vids
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
i did stop watching but a lady reply to me she is 49 very intellegent or something was her name. i came to reply to her ! i reply to her in her own channel and i noticed this nice guy picture i was curious to see it.
Astwa2 2 years ago
heh
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
The problem with women is they have interior motives so they will "assume" a nice guy does as well therefore she will run a game on him,
The other problem is that nice guys havent figured out women, women go by a "spark" with a guy so she accepts any type of behavior from this guy due to the spark since women go by hormonal urges first, second, third and last
These so-called guys arent bad boys they are just guys who dont want her or figured out her game
crh2010 2 years ago
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UnionMetalhead 2 years ago 6
@UnionMetalhead You should keep on being nice. The "bad" types of guys are whores and it's the girl's own fault for getting with them. And then they say "I wish my boyfriend was nice like you" wtf?
Women turn guys into assholes, because they LIKE assholes, and then complain about it!
So complicated..
SuperGrinningIdiot 1 year ago 2
@SuperGrinningIdiot look at you! you understand all the inner workings dont you?
if you understand women so well then why cant you get one. or am i wrong and someone actually puts up with you?
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
@UnionMetalhead i dont think you were ever a nice guy. just my opinion though. "doormat" and "nice" are not synonomous
akiramitsuragi 11 months ago
@akiramitsuragi U would actually be wrong about never being a nice guy, i might of been alittle too soft years ago and i was nice aswell so i cant say that i totally concur with you but i dont disreguard part of the statement either, but alot of men who are just genuine and not walk overs (i agree that being a door-mat is a bad option too)are getting reamed too (i dnt mean in bed either), but u also have to understand that what i wrote was well over a year ago and im laid back now but im more
UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
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@akiramitsuragi U would actually be wrong about never being a nice guy, i might of been alittle too soft years ago and i was nice aswell so i cant say that i totally concur with you but i dont disreguard part of the statement either, but alot of men who are just genuine and not walk overs (i agree that being a door-mat is a bad option too)are getting reamed too and not in a good way, but u also have to understand that what i wrote was well over a year ago and im laid back now but im more
UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
@akiramitsuragi content on being single. but dont disreguard the fact that there are alot of women who are constantly chasing bad boys because i see it all the time and hear of it all the time, i have been alive long enough to see it. im glad u have replied though because I have now eradicated that comment i previously put up as it was abit extreme. anyway, steve moxon the woman racket tends to be more revealing about the differences between men&women in essence, and, but nature does manipulate
UnionMetalhead 11 months ago
There are very few people who do good things just for the sake of doing good or altruistic reasons.
Most people have an agenda regardless of having a 'nice guy' or 'asshole' label.
With very few exceptions, the vast majority of 'nice men' that I have known put an enormous amount of effort into helping women THAT they were PHYSICALLY attracted to.
Whether they wanted to admit it or NOT, initially, on some conscious or subconscious level there was a sexually component involved.
FreedomBlaque 2 years ago
continue
None of the men, I am referring TO would put 1% of the effort into helping ANY man, or for THAT matter, any woman THAT they did NOT have a certain level of attraction to.
While there are 'nice men' who do NOT do things strictly for a reward; these 'nice men' are cognizant of the rewards other men are given and quite naturally want their due diligence at some POINT.
FreedomBlaque
FreedomBlaque 2 years ago 2
I use to be friends with a girl who would constanlty talk to me about her bad boy boyfriends. I liked her and wanted to go out with her myself but never said anything. I found it more intersting to see how she handled relationships with other men before I tell her how I feel. around the 5th or 6th boyfriend I was no longer attracted to her I said "Go complain to you boyfriend see if he gives a shit." after that she said I wasnt a "nice guy" Im a nice guy I just didnt care anymore.
whenitsrightitswong 2 years ago
Ok your stretching the nice guy thing too far with that burning building analogy. Nice guys do not turn women on period. I am sorry to tell you this.
Either get over it or deal with it. You can change yourself and let your balls drop a bit fellas.
I used to be one of you creepy nice guys 30 years ago. That was then and this is now.
Nice guys do act nice in hopes of women liking them. Not realizing that whole lack of manhood is a total turn off to women.
SpeakerOfOurTruth 2 years ago
and here you have it people, a perfect example of what im talkin about, (i didnt think one of them would pull off the sheeps clothing, instead of getting it pulled off)
your right nice guys dont turn women down, REAL nice guys do.
1 maybe you act nice just to get women but i dont. if im not going to be nice i wont be nice, no matter how much pussy is at stake
2 do i sound like i give a fuck whats a turn off to women, when they start caring whats a turn off to me then ill give a shit about them
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
I consider myself by-definition a "good man", however that's because I have a very strong sense of moral conviction.
Because of this, not only does my sense of moral obligation compel me to help others in genuine need, but it also compels me to chastise and punish those who deceive, intimidate and cheat others.
Pussy beggars do no such thing, their end goal is satisfaction, and they'll sink to any belly-scraping-low to accomplish that.
Including "looking" like a nice guy.
Yourebuying 2 years ago
Being nice,isn't exactly being a push over,I'm a good guy. But I know how to spot women like that,its about doing whats right. And not caring what others,think of you. I consider my self,a good guy & that means,I'll stand for whats right.
crypter27 2 years ago
There are at least two different kinds of "nice" guys. Both kinds get crapped on from time to time, but the "good" kind lives, learns, and adjusts. The "bad" kind gets all bitter and talks a lot about how awful women are for not liking them.
"I'm nice to you, and therefore, you're supposed to fall in love with me." They complain that women like jerks, but they only go after women who are jerks themselves.
nickless1980 2 years ago 3
That's real talk... a genuine good person does something for someone else because they treat people the way they want to be treated because it's from the heart and its positive - plain & simple. No deception... no games. If a woman can't respond or reciprocate to that then move on. Real good men don't have time for the foolishness of little girls who don't know how to be real women who can't appreciate genuine good qualities in a man. If they find bad boys more appealing then it's their problem.
cwjazz43 2 years ago 3
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If a person is nice then that's has nothing to do with how he treats women it's to do with how he treats people. Anyone who defines niceness solely in terms of how he relates to a woman exposes himself as someone who is not nice at all. Nice people can be both men and women are rarely ever call themselves nice their niceness is evident to others and the rest of don't need to have it pointed out to us. I say with respect.
Thugt1cian 2 years ago
yeah, thats what people (mainly girls) have called me. so thats why i say im a nice (or former nice) guy
PS funny thing is people still say im a nice guy (meaning REAL nice guy) even though ive pretty much said FUCK OFF to any and every one who wont at least let me be, much less make my life better with there existence, so i dont know.
TENNSUMITSUMA 2 years ago
There is a link to what she says, it's on my DailyMotion account.
Thugt1cian 2 years ago
What I got from her comments is that she doesn't know how to tell a true nice guy apart from a guy who acts nice but has a hidden motive. I've seen the real nice guys who get walked over and don't snap or lash out when they get burned as the woman said they do. On the flip side I've seen guys go from being a nice guy to a jerk after getting walked on numerous times. Maybe she feels that a woman should be free to walk all over a nice guy and he should just sit back and take it. I'm not sure.
kuunami 2 years ago
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So ultimately when the true nice guy gets feed up with this and stops dealing with the woman, she accuses him of just being a fake nice guy.
It seems that even some of our best and brightest are believing this nonsense. It goes back to the philosophy that many women seem to have now which is "the woman is never wrong when it comes to matters of the heart, dating and relationships."
kuunami 2 years ago
There is a difference between a person with principles, and an opportunistic manipulator.
I have to agree with you on this one.
Yourebuying 2 years ago
u hit the nail on the head, 5 stars
rickey2b4 2 years ago
We are dominated under Euro Culture; that is the problem.
ProverbialHammer 2 years ago