NLP: Getting What You Want

[steshere07]

This is bollocks. You can do the same to someone stood at a bus queue. Can't see the difference between this and cold reading 'psychics'. This is not Jedi.

[magdalenaferu]

1.What about her state of health?Hormone imbalance,anemia's etc.?

2.What about her genetic predisposition of the brain to produce neurotransmitters(serotonin,do­pamine,etc.)

3.What about her size of amygdala and the activity in her cerebellum?

4.What about her past experience and traumas that can evolve in mental disorders?

5.What about her diet and life style(caffeine,sugar,sedentary­)?

6.What about teaching her to organize,plan,delegate responsibilities and have solid boundaries?

[oneirism247]

this nlp stuff is very disappointing, i see no value or substantive qualities

[KingJamesai3]

did he say becoming patient? or become IMpatient

[Cardywhite111]

Unfortunately for me when Annie says I dont know in the tone she seems to use all the time....I feel very impatient with her....oh dear maybe I too need the treatment.

[more2debra]

Was that a Freudian slip at the beginning!

[TheSpottyShorts]

i Like This video, so i thought i'd Comment

[Slossius1983]

That's pretty unhelpful counselling! I'd expect nothing less from NLP, which is nothing more than pseudoscience.

[TheDescentJatt]

For those who have good knowledge of NLP, where did you learned it from?

By just watching youtube videos? randomly or by some particular user?

Any courses?

Any books?

Please let me know how can I learn NLP.I look forward to your guidance :)

You message me or reply me here itself.

[ieBrazil]

I hope that what those m.fkrs from "Church" of Scientololy, named auditors/hearers, use would be only NLP techniques. But they do not. They brainwashing people, taking them to a lower level of criticism and perception of empirical reality.

Get lost is what I say to this "Church".

[gillianorley]

What do you want? I want patience.

Really?

You don't want $10,000,000 or something like that?

[stee1face]

I want to stop watching pointless videos, go outside and get some air.

[250Yogi]

fucking hell that narrator woman has the most mechanical voice i've ever heard

[rebeltrucker50]

If you were a snooker table....would you put a ham sandwich on it?? If you would ,why?

[hongkongfooyHAZE]

seems pretty patient 2 me....she needs 2 chill......stop wasting her time...take ur kids swimming......nice day out........long walk in the country...pick'a'nick..booboo

water mellon....mmmmmm

[Samadhiatman500]

Great

[smoothfishy]

I have being doing this exercise with many issues, anger, opinion, raising my voice, arguing, listening, and many other behaviors and it is really great stuff. I do have to go back and work on the same issues over and over, but it seems to get easier and easier to implement in real time as the feeling and tendencies start to occur.

[IdaSputum]

Poor woman needs a NEW husband and some more helpful kids.

Good God she does ALL the WORK yet still blames herself for losing it!

Typical woman.

[TheSim666]

@IdaSputum LoLL!!!

they say a woman's work is never done... probably why they get paid less.

[IdaSputum]

@TheSim666 - Ha haaaa. Bernard Manning would be proud of you. Funny though.

[Timpossible999]

oh my god fuck this I'm getting a taco.

[DrQmal]

I am so falling asleep from their talk.

[Chuichupachichi]

Please, DrQmal, call 911 immediately & tell them you've been subjected to extremely dangerous, 3rd party viewer, indirect, second hand, NLP Hypnosis

Dammit, I warned YouTube that this kind of thing was likely to occur from having these kinds of videos made readily accessible. But they wouldn't listen. Now look what happened... and the worst thing is that the victim never becomes aware of what occurs almost nightly

Until his flatulence gets wildly out of control, that is

[DrQmal]

@Chuichupachichi haha :D

[Chuichupachichi]

glad you liked it

[funguy29]

what regional accent is this ?

[IdaSputum]

Yorkshire?

[yankorusev]

annie wants patience. would need a lot of patience to listen to that moron

[yankorusev]

ere's how you sort yourself out. 1] dont listen to this crap. 2] get up of your ass and exercise. 3]. stop eating crap

[BellaaMarlene]

highly doubt serious emotional issues are as easy to fix as "1, 2, 3.."

ridiculous how many 1000s of therapies.....is there any one that actually works?

[bellehaup]

BellaaMarlene, I did'nt think emotional issues were easy to fix as 1,2,3, but I was wrong. Do you have a situation or problem you'd like to change? Find a quiet place and just for 3 or so minutes just accept (better yet love) your illness, financial problem, ex-husband, job, life...and email me back to thank you. Yeah, 3 minutes of love or acceptance will do it!

[Chuichupachichi]

So basically what you're saying is that the solution occurs, not from eliminating problems. But rather, from coming to love problems

Now there's one more problem in addition to the ones already existent. It's not difficult to see how it could become extremely problematic to love anything that is undesirable due to it's incorrectness, wrongfulness or defectiveness, no matter what it is... psychological issues or otherwise

Nobody loves getting hit by a train, but even if the event were to become

[Chuichupachichi]

absolutely adored, still, the effects from getting hit by a train would remain an obvious problem in ones life

Or think of it this way - One, being a tremendous baseball fanatic, may love the event of a hard hit baseball hitting one's head before bouncing into one's own mitt... due to gaining possession of the baseball which was, although incompetently, hit by one's hero

However, impossible would it be to ever come to love it's imbecilic effect... unscrupulously imposed upon one's noggin

[1984noway]

voodoo bullshit

[clintonskakun]

voodoo? LOL

[drewd1987]

All that happened was she traded one coping mechanism for another!!

[drewd1987]

So she's been programmed with an obsessive compulsion. LOL

Way to "cure" her.

[TheMeta1]

voice over sounds like a bag woman reading a cue card (no offence to the lady in question, i am sure she is a wonderful person)......come on, we are trying to get the world to recognise NLP as a legitimate science, so i think a bit more effort in video production wouldn't go amiss

[remyrulez]

nice yes ladder

[yankorusev]

annie. u r fine the way you are. just go out for a walk and listen to the birds sing.

[amjPeace]

Poor Annie is still going to be counting to ten. I think what she was hoping for was to not have to experience the impatience in the first place. I think she needs to listen to what her impatience is telling her, and make some needed changes in her life.

[yankorusev]

I would like a new snooker table and another ham sandwich

[Midgit291]

what images, sounds can you see and hear when you are wanting a new snooker table and ham sandwich?

[jumpoutatree]

@yankorusev I want you to go behind your eyes and tell me what your snooker table looks like internally.

[yankorusev]

i think he needs NLP himself. What a load of dross. "tell me what you want Annie??" LMAO

[emerson24]

I have watched two other videos on NLP and I thought this one was not only boring , but pointless.

[yankorusev]

wtf?

[xygius1]

So she says, well I do try to count to 10 she laughs nervously and her body language screams I have no idea, youve given me nothing to work withwatch her eyes when he first asks the question, micro-expression of surprise mixed with doubt. This is a good video of what not to do. You cant just read a script and expect this to work. The presenter needs to learn the craft before professing to have NLP skills.

[xygius1]

This is not an example of NLP at all, its just a questioning session. He completely missed that she is kinesthetic; he uses no meta language patterns, no mirroring, anchoring, etc. He asks at first what she does to try and be patient, she says "I have tried to count to 10" indicating that hasn't worked. He gives her no technique to work with and at end asks, what will be your first step to become patient - she has no idea...

[capricious71]

Good stuff. Personally, I'd prefer a textual commentary on the screen, rather than a voice.

[amjPeace]

Normally I'm a visual learner as well, but for me the off camera narration was less distracting for some reason.

[batterseaspark]

uhm....i dont think he is much good at it.

[Captainships]

what a load of crap

[gargos25]

actually, it's not... this is just basic NLP (which was used by clever people before NLP, may be even before people could say halleluyah :o))

He uses questions which make her think herself, he forms them in a way which make her commit to do something and he taught her a simple yet very powerful method to grow patience...

I don't care how it looks, I care for results... from my experience, I can imagine her being much better off now then she was before

[alextasker]

i want to learn NLP training but now watching these videos and ones of Dr dan its really weird i don't know if i feel comfortable with it anymore

[Vexx1978]

I'm pretty sure that when you start something new it seems odd and wierd at first but when you really desire to make lasting changes in your life and the life of love ones around you the uncomfortable feeling will dissolve and it will feel natural and good. Just learn more and see for yourself. NLP has helped me to be more calm and also helped me to quit smoking.

[johnnytheprick]

lolololololo.........i think alex is torking about the "presentation" rather than the message.........and i tend 2 agree.

[capricious71]

johnnytheprick - what's wrong with the presentation? Seems pretty good.

[johnnytheprick]

CAPRICIOUS71,

im assuming youre female.

the presentation sucked because:

a) the environment, very unprofessional

b) his tone

c) "....im going to use NLP which is neuro linguistic progamming....." gr8 xplantion if u ask me.

d) "ok, tell me what you want".......omg

e) i cant stand the inglish accent

f) the presenter is very "dull".

g) how old r u and wot kind of kinky sex r u in2?

[NickaPleeze1]

lol

[Ams11121]

and whats the difference of it with psychotherapy here?

[Fryitonapanandstuff]

Good... may also wish to check out dynamics of LEP, or life energy philosphy - viewable worldwide. (^?^)

[cekso]

very good! it healps alot!

[SlappTaskeN]

Great stuff.

[anneessene]

Use this process for any therapy.