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  • OH MY GOD YOU HAVE SO MANY SUN GLASSES :D

  • @croox97akaaustin Stalker!

  • i like ur lips

  • So, what if I'm a really shy girl? Me and the guy I like are really close. But when I'm alone with him, I get nervous and talk really soft. I don't want him to think I don't like him. But he makes me so nervous, I don't know what to do. :|

  • How do I get a guy I have known for a while

  • I love Your Dating Tips !

    So i have a friend and i think about him at times.

    i dont know if im starting to fall for him.

    but when i see him talking to some others girls i kinda get jealous.

    Can u make a video on "how do u know when ur falling for a guy" Please? (:

  • There is this boy i really really like.heres the problem i havent spoken to him in like two years! he was my friends friend and i kind of talked to him then but now we dont even say hi to each other,i mean we all hang out in the same group but he just ignores all of the girls.i really wanna talk to him but i dont know how help??

  • omg , wish i watched this like, 3 weeks ago

  • @50fail try being a bit mysterious maybe. Be like, "Oh we're fine. Ya know, a few things here and there. Nothing much." or bring up something funny that has happened recently, like "My brother sat on his birthday cake last week!" do not bring up any family drama whatsoever like in this video, don't turn into a drama queen. Hope this helps!!

  • OMG!!! you amazing! :) thank you so much! so far i know the guy likes me and he knows I like him BUT HOW do i get over my shyness.....i just am too afraif to talk to him! PLEAE HELP!

  • one time my guy neighbor found a paper cut self-designed cartoon given to me by my crush, then he wrote ON IT then riped it. IT MADE ME SO MAD !!!

  • The guy I like he always says ( like once a week) so, hows the fam? And idk what to say!!!! Like " oh, good! How bout ur family?" or go on about them!!!! PLZ HELP MEH!

  • or get him drunk at let him look at ur boobs,then your settled!

  • How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to melt a ring pop..

  • Your advise is awesome!!! Thx :) :)

  • Yuh know girl!!!!!!

  • wow that is allot of sunglasses you have in the background lol

  • Ur advise is so helpful!(; thanks:D

  • you have very good edvice thank you

  • Thank you so much for you advice. I will keep this in mind!

  • What if the two people are both VERY religious? Would it be alright?

  • @GeiserAlexis If they are sure about what the other person's religion is, I guess. If you're meeting someone for the first time, do not, you're very likely to end up vagina blocking yourself.

  • I like this(:

  • my name is rachael lol

  • I'm in school, and this boy in my class is my total crush. The only times he talks to me are when I ask him what the time is, or if he's trying to steer me in the wrong direction (playfully) during sports games (I'm terrible at them). But I always see him staring at me even when he's in front of me. Literally his entire torso would turn during some class. And he only laughs at my jokes when I'm talking to someone else, not him. So does this guy like me or not (also, I've only known him for 3 mo

  • help!!!!!! so i realllllly like this guy and i think he likes me back, we have been on break so i haven't seen him in person for a couple weeks but before that we were talking a lot at school, i am confused because first of all, he likes and comments o everyone of my status' but when we facebook chat we can go on for hours but when we text he randomly stops replying and i feel annoying when i have to text him first, what do you think?

  • Boy:How much does a polar bear weigh?

    Girl:I don't know

    Boy:Enough to break the ice, hi my name is bill!

    Hahaha

  • @jump12man

    I'd marry Bill.

  • @SojournToPerfection

    Back off hun, Bill is married. to me

  • Lol look at 6:10 of the video:) Its funny when the little words came up like Save The Drama Fo' Yo' Mama!!

  • Lol:) Save the drama fo' yo' mama!!

  • can you make a video on what to talk about with a guy youve been online chatting with for a while and are just meeting for the first time in real life?

  • Just how do u know if a guy likes u. I have had a crush on this on guy and we talk and walk together around school but I don't know if he likes me

  • "FAT PENGUIN!" (what?) "I just wanted to say something that would break the ice..."

  • I've known this guy gfor 4 years and we once both had huge crushes on each other, but now i don't know if he's still into me.....

  • How do u get a guy to like u if he just wants to be friends?

  • :)

  • There is this boy and i no his sister and have known them for 6 years never got the nerve to talk to him but i was over at their house and I think he was flirting with me but he flirts with every girl and he's a major cutie but it's the first time he has flirted with me. I've liked him since I first met him. how do I get him to think of me in a girlfriend type of way when I'm way nervous with him and 14 when he's 16, i don't have good body but I'm skinny and in not very pretty either so no real

  • As a guy, I really just want girls to SHOW A SIGN THAT THEY ARE INTERESTED! it's almost impossible for us guys to know if you want to date us;) show the guy you are interested in a sign!

  • @CrimzoneJade Call the cops

  • Is there a way to get a boy at school?

  • i luv this,thanks(:

  • thnx :) u got me a bf

  • From a mans point of view, I want a woman who will be honest and direct in all areas from the start if I go on a date with her. Good video but I don't agree that spiritual issues, nor politics should be avoided. If you avoid it and it's important to you then you need to be honest and open. As you said in a comment above, don't sugar coat anything. I'd rather a woman tells me from the get go where she stands on those topics then to avoid it for fear of finding out that we are not a match.

  • definately! i agree!

  • Me and my friend both think this guy is cute and we try to talk to him by saying hi ... and he always doesn't say hi back but he talks to other girls (only little tho) and when we are near him , he jus won't talk ! Like even if he has too cuz he knows we're there ! HELP ! and Im pretty sure he thinks we're weird -_-

  • Can you make a video on topics you should focus on?

  • Thank you soooooo much!

  • Thank you soooooo much!

  • What if you are too nervous to even make an icebreaker

  • u have A LOT of sunglasses :0)

  • @SojournToPerfection

    I get 13-15 is young, and I wouldn't make a video that age either. But 16 is THE year, I think it would be nice with someone of your wisdom, to help understanding this stuff in our teenage years. So were not setting our selves up for failure. I know that when i was 16, your tips would've helped.

  • we DO appreciate it if you help us :)

  • love it

  • i give one line answers. the guy i like gives one line answers. it makes usboth nervous-_-

  • as a college guy who stumbled onto these videos this is hysterical. more guys should watch these to understand what's going on in a girls head- by the way the LSD video you put up is a winner. throw a guy a sexy look and smile and its over, make the first move and its definitely over

  • every time i try to talk i feel all nervous and make a mistake

  • what happens if he asks out all the things that you said not to talk bout?

  • Hey Rachel can u tell me how to tell if a guy just wants to be your friend or wants to be your boyfriend

  • You sound like you know what your talking about and I love the fact that you dont sound like a bimbo by using words with more than 4 syllables unlike some women on this topic.<3

  • geezzzz miss SUNGLSSESSSSSSSSSSSS

  • this really helped..and i am only 13...good job!!!

  • Can you give me some advice ? So a guy in my class likes I no cuz his dad told me and his dad also said that he's shy and doesn't handle girls very well and he's sweet and the best guy u could imagine but he wont ask me out and in my school the girls don't ask the guy out and he knows I like him too plz help me !!!

  • @likewoe101 Um...make the first move then strike a convo -_-...its the 21 century

  • Theres a guy ive been trying to talk to we are in the same class. we sit at the same table but my guy friend sits between us. v.v I have no clue how to talk to him. i know how to but im kinda flirting over my friend and its just weird

  • a guy likes me, he told me so. he walks by me all the time and sometimes pushes people out of the way so he can walk with me. he doesn`t always talk to me but it seems like he wants to. he is normally very outgoing. is he nervous when he tries to talk to me?

  • @Hippohzz Does he usally not make eye contact??? that means hes nervous

  • ice breakers are also candy

  • i hv this prob.

    he likes me too

    but like i get nervous and idk what to say

    it can get akward only becuz the covo. dies out

    i hardly see him at school but when i do i sure have this

    Big kool-aide smile:D~!

    any more advice? :/

    lol i need to know.

  • Lol your cool and help alot(:

  • verbal diarrheaa.

  • You should do one on How To Act Hard To Get.

  • I said no to a guy that I now like and we have eachothers phone #s. He doesn't know that I like him & I don't know if he still likes me. I catch him staring at me all the time in math (the only class he's in of mine). Should I wait for him to ask me, or ask him.

  • So I talked with the guy I like about the weather, and his dog got sick and died... Because of the current weather. The day I spoke about weather with him.

  • I love you!Ur so honest and truthful.

  • HOW DO I MAKE HIM LIKE ME BACK DO I COMPEMENT HIM OR WHAT!!!

  • do you like sunglasses?

  • So basically all I should talk about with him is the weather. ;)

  • Rachel, how to look clam in front of a guy who I have crush ? I always fail that :(

  • 13-16 isn't children, it's teens. And we have the same exact problem.

  • holy shit. thats a damn load of sunglasses!!!

  • Your comment replies make you sound really mean.....

  • @rachak123

    I don't sugar-coat it. I keep it real.

  • @SojournToPerfection I respect you for that. x3

  • Good luck gettin chicks to follow this stuff...

  • "no one wants to hear it, keep your mouth shut." HAHAH

  • for some reason her voice remindes me of meg off of family guys

  • Haha OMG! Why are there fifth graders and sixth graders watching this? That's pretty rediculous. People shouldn't start dating until thier at LEAST in thier teens.

  • Those were fantastic tips thank you! Now... Tips for a love triangle?

  • Usually I don't know when girls are hitting on me when the Icebreakers are so short and sweet even with a big smile. Also normal guys don't like to give out information. I personally like girl ramblers and noticed most of my friend long term GF are Ramblers. If you're a Rambler then just ramble...nothing wrong being yourself.

    Peace Tyrone

  • you have so many sunglasses !:D

  • hey when did u make this video? ice breaker right there.

  • What if you know him?

  • love the sunglasses colection! lol

  • I have a question: I have liked this guy from 1st year, im now in 4th year, and he knows i used to like him but im not sure he knows now i still like him. but i always catch him looking at me and my friends have seen him looking at me too, but i dont know how to find out if he likes me or what to talk to him about without it being awkward :/ he's in a couple of my classes. please reply :) xxxx

  • iLoveeee Your Ear Rings (:

  • This was awesome! :)

  • (Im a guy) If some girl came up to me and said "Hi my name is ____, whats yours?" that would tell me shes interested in me, and I would most likely want to talk to her. Just saying. :)

  • Hey I really need some advice. Last year near the end of school, I had this HUGE crush on this boy named Christian. We hanged out a lot. We were in the same classes, we talked a lot, played xbox live together. He told me that he liked me and I told him I've had a crush on him for a long time and we said that we would go out in middle school and i agreed. Now were in middle school and were in the same classes again. I'm scared to ask him if he still likes me. Please help!

  • wat if u already know the guy just cant get him to rlly notice u n talk with u more???

  • Ughh... I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend, but he likes my bestfriend and I want to get over him but I can't ! I dint know what to do ! Ahh please please in begging ... HELP me !! (:

  • i want my ex boyfriend back.. but there is this girl that likes him and she invites him to places to hand out with him and she txt him alot.. that makes me sooo jelous please help me!!... i dont wanna lose him :(

  • thanks.. that was soo helpfull!! my name is veronica and i have a question.. so please ..please help me! i want my x- boy friend back.. but there is a girl that likes him and shes way prettier than me!! i dont know what to do!.. she's been flirting with him and invite him into places and that make's me soo jealous :( ...........tell me what to do!!

  • Uh this guy I really like is always making me laugh. Does that mean he likes me?

  • the guy i liked went to live to in the country we come from so the only way i can see him is if i go on skyp fb...... or go there again but other then that how do i communicatwith him because he knows i like him but i dont know if he likes me??

    can u plz help me :)

  • the boy i really liked went to live overseas and is never comming back but i still hav things like fb and skype to communicate to him.

    how am i suppose to use ur tips??

    do u think u can help me??

  • This really helped! I'm really shy so I didn't know how to talk to boys until I saw this!

  • u kno ur really helpful

  • how do i talk to a guy a grade above me at recess while he is surrounded by his friends. we have texted and talked on facebook before but i want to get to know him in person.

  • I like this guy and he is in a grade older than me. He is always with his friends at break and i know that i'll look stupid if I go up and start a conversation with him. we texted for a while but then my phone broke, and we are never on fb at the same time. How do i start talking to him? our school has only 400 kids in it.

  • Thank you soo much for ur wise useful tips.. ;)

  • I like a guy in my town, but since I'm homeschooled I don't go to school with him. I would if I went to school but I don't. This helped me alot, I'm always seeing him at random places (bookstores, grocery store, ect) since our town is so small. I've always wanted to start a conversation with him., but didnt know how or come off weird. This helped alot, so thanks!:)))

  • Tanx but every time I like a guy I get to scared to talk to him or I push him away help me my email is kiradawkins@yahoo.com

  • like if there are boys watching this video :)

  • how'd u do ur makeup???

  • wow thanks for the advice.also u have a lot of cute sunglasses in the backround :)

  • thanks for the vids they are so helpful and i found a guy the funny thing is i am just like you in ever way love ya x)

  • Thx sooo!! Much !!

  • Wish i seen these a long time ago. thanks for keeping these vedios on your page.

  • tis so work my bf and i r so happy together ty!

  • like when u said bring the conversation back to him it will kinda sound like ur desprete like

    boy: do u like music?

    girl: yeah i love music what about u?

    boy: yeah i do too have u ever read the book _____

    girl: yeah i have its really good what about u

    wont it keep sounding weird if u bring it back to him??

  • @101hottopic1

    Not if you do it correctly. Don't do it after one freakin' sentence. Talk about yourself a bit, but don't ramble and then steer it back to him. People love to talk about themselves, so he won't mind. It'll keep you from talking his ear off and it'll allow you to find out more about him. If done with tact, it's an extremely useful tool :) Everyone loves a good listener. ♥

  • hi im in grade 5 and i have a crush this really cute guy and im not sure if he likes me or not. he does ALL the things that u say r good but my bff asked him if he likes me and he said no but all his friends said he likes me 2 but im not sure wat 2 do plz help me! xoxxo brickbuilders sis <3

  • omg that really works! cause i was at mountain bike summer camp i sat down at this guys table and asked if he is renting a bike or if he has his own... blah blah blah he continued the convo from there and now we are best of friends and we hang out all the time (and yes im a girl) and rumor has it hes gonna ask me out! thx so much!

  • Im in Middle School and since its summer im not in school right now so this guy started talking to me and I tend to Introvert. Sooo no Im pissed about school starting and if he tries to talk to me. -________- FML.

  • @NinjaMuffins4Life Tell him how you feel and to leave you alone. If he makes you uncomfortable then he's obviously not for you. He probably won't stop until he's sure that he doesn't have a chance.

  • MY NAME IS RACHEL :D

  • Hi great video! I have a little question? Do you have any ideas how to talk to a guy when your only 11 or 12? Thanks please answer I need lots of help(;

  • hi great video! I just have a quick question. I work at a grocery store and i find it hard to just go up to random guys in other departments and say hello. I'm kind of getting frustrated with myself because their are a few and one in perticular that i'd like to get to talk to. I'm trying to think of a few icebreakers but I can't come up with any. Do you know of any icebreakers I could use? plus i'm kind of shy at first too -.-

  • Do u think this and your other videos would work for people around 7 grade

  • the thing is that here everyone knows each other so if i want to talk to him that means i know him....quite well sometimes!!!!! my problem is that im really shy and i dont know about what to talk.....i dont know what to say and i am too shy to start conversation or something!!!!!! Anything to help????

  • .... i know he doesnt like me but i wanted to know if it would be a good idea to pursue this and talk to him through fb and txt and stuff and like get to know eachother and make him like me... i'm not 100% into him cuz its only been one day but hes realy cute and im kind of interessted :P (btw im 15)

    anyways wat do u think i should do?

  • dear rachel,

    ok so i usually know wat to do whentalking to guys and stuff but i need alittle guidance..i met this guy yesturday throught a friend and i find we hit it off :) we were jokey and he kept looking at me and smiling as well as hanging around and talking to me:) anyways we dnt go to the same school and live pretty far from eachother..

  • i have a crush on this senior guy in my school. I really want him to notice me so i watched your video. I'm only a sophomore that's why i can only see him during recess, lunch, dismissal and during pep rallies because he's a football player.I have a crush for him for over 2 years and he still doesn't even know someone like me exist, and it hurts me whenever he just passes past me, not even noticing me. =(

  • Hi! Im a 15 year old girl. Im currently going to an awesome summer camp. There are a lot of cute guys there! My group is the oldest girl group, and im the oldest girl...and apparently the prettiest one ( ive been told by my co-campers). There is a rlly rlly cute guy who always is starring at me, and im always starring at him. Everyone say he likes me, butvis to shy to talk to me. I really wanna break the ice by talking to him, but im waay to scared! Im scared he doesnt wanna talk to me.

    What s

  • Hey, so where I live it's kind of a community all the western teenagers know each other. Cause I live in China, so basically if I meet a guy at the bar chances are 5 of my ex boyfriends are there too. And it will most probably come up 'hey aren't you this persons ex?' and it happens alot then they are like oh yeah didnt you sleep with this person, how could I avoid that or make it less of an off putting answer?

    x

  • thanks :)

  • What if the guy asks you about religion, sexual history, past relationships, etc ? /:

    How do I answer ?

  • another great thing about icebreakers is there yummy! :)

  • OK thers this guy tht livs near me but im scared to tlk to him...wuld this icebreaker work cuz i lov his style and i hav like the same style and anyways the icebreaker is, "I like your shoes! Where did you get those!?"

  • im in a small school where gossip travles like swine flu. i like a guy and i want him to knwo but i dont wanna walk up to him and be like "hii like you. k bye" should i ask one of my frends to start a rumor about that? because the the guy i like would ehar about it and he mite be like "cool beans". ...... shud i try it?

  • Hey i have a qeustion, Ok so whenever, you know you watch a movie or something, therse always a scene when the guy glances at the girls and says " Wow!" And everything, i watched your how to get noticed, but is there a specific trick that you should do?? Hair? Smile? Haha . thanks hope you reply;)

  • @juicytips123

    What in the world makes you think that movies are anything remotely like reality?

  • What do you do if they ask you about one of the steer clear topics?

  • @TheJazz3698 Haha I was about to ask the same question, but I think I would just answer him and keep it short. That's my guess

  • please answer but what do you do if they ask you about one of the steer clear topics?

  • Your so pretty.♥

  • i never talk to guys before when i see your video i try it and its work ... :) but the thing is i want to know him better ..

  • Heyy i love your vid :D OKAY now i like this guy typical huh ? so his name is kevin and the one person i told (Charie) told him (kevin) that i liked him although i told her not to when she told him his response was a smile then he walked away, next sign he gave was when i was walking to class w/Charie and he was standing in front of his class which was next door i smiled and kept walking Charie told him to go and say hi too me and he was going to but the bell rang. So does he like me or not?

  • Dear Rachel, I really like this guy, but we have kinda established this relationship where it's like he keeps on insulting me in front of his friends. The thing is sometimes I get to spend time with him alone or in smaller groups and he is really nice! The other problem is that we have a weird family friend relationship that can make it kinda awkward!!!! I am really confused on what to do!! Please help me!!!

  • Hi Rachel I really like this guy he's In my classes we talk we even make jokes. U know that thing were it's like if u found me in your bed what would u do? Well he picked #9 it's like have hot sex with a little 69 and I'm just wondering does he like me?

  • 100th like!

  • Hi Rachel, I'm 14 years old and i really like this guy. We were talking on FB and he was calling me beautiful and it felt great. But just last week i found out he asked out a girl and now they're GF&BF what do i do??? i can't stop thinking about him! Plez help!!

  • Hey great video I'm going to high school in a few months and I'm nit realit good at flirting so could you do a video on flirting tips for high schoolers;)!?! Please Andd Thanxx;)!!

  • Haha sorry my comment got cut off! but ill keep going. as i was saying, we dnt tlk 2 each other, but our glances last longer than normal. are tuere any hints i can drop from a distance? ~Cassandra ^_^ we can also talk by email: confetticasey@gmail.com

  • Rachel, Im only thirteen so i was wondering if you could give any advice to a middle-schooler! Ok, so i like this boy, John. And im not sure if he likes me back. But every day after recess when we stand in our lines, I turn around to find him staring at me... right into my sparkling blue-green eyes. Looking back into his, my sparkling eyes can keep a glance with him for a few long seconds, before one of us looks away. He's really loud when he's with his friends, but he's really quiet

  • Rachel, Im only thirteen so i was wondering if you could give any advice to a middle-schooler! Ok, so i like this boy, John. And im not sure if he likes me back. But every day after recess when we stand in our lines, I turn around to find him staring at me... right into my sparkling blue-green eyes. Looking back into his, my sparkling eyes can keep a glance with him for a few long seconds, before one of us looks away. He's really loud when he's with his friends, but he's really quiet

  • Rachel, I'm only thirteen, so i was wondering if you can give me a few middle school-aged tips...if you can! :) Ok, so I like this boy John, and after recess when were standing in with our classes, he looks at me, and when I look back at him, my shiny eyes can get him to hold a glance with me for a few long seconds before one of us loik away. He has a girlfriend, but it seems hes starting to lose interest in her (you wouldnt believe their going out, acctually)! We dont talk to each o

  • >3 LUV THIS!

  • @Jazminlovesyou101

    Watch my "Wishful Thinking" video.

  • @rashley50 dont be nervouse approche its like the best thingg u can really do guys like it if girls makes the first more

  • I'm a guy and this is basically all true. Except I'm kinda open to listening to drama lol.

  • plz make a video on this topic! " Wat and How to talk to the guy u like with out showing needy signs and how do we control that funny, tense, nervousness when were around our crush! sometimes i dunno what to talk to him about! and i dont want him to think im boring! :/

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  • ok so this boy from school likes me and i like him 2 and we was talkin about it thru text and i havnt seen him for a few weeks but im seein him in a couple of days but i dont have a clue what 2 say 2 him i mean every time im round him i sort of go all shy and tense. help plz? and ur really pretty by the way xx

  • So I ike this guy right? Well the good part about is he sends signals that he MIGHT like me back, also my sister says when I look away he's always looking at me. Yet the bad part is that for starters he's 4 1/2 years older than me and he's always hitting on my MARRIED sister and I don't know what his deal is.

  • SO i am kind of tell this guy that i have a crush on him then couple day later he blocked me on facebook and stop talking to me. what should i do to make him talk to me against. or i just give up and move on?

  • @jaylieable

    Yikes! Move on!

    Don't chase after people for attention or affection. You're better than that.

  • @jaylieable i think next time u must play hard to get with guys.. One way to get a man's attention is to do

    LESS, not more. and never chase them okay.. let them chase u.. men like to women who are hard to get they find it challenging.. i've tried it before and i can see the difference.. try to be cold and try to ignore him.. and that will make him wants u :) forget about him if u will see him, ignore him as if u dont have crush on him anymore.. ;)

  • I'm so in love and i just can't help it, and he says he likes me and he asks me out and i say yes but we we c each other we just don't talk, how do i pick up convo cos i'm really stuck :(

  • that was really helpful :)