Re Jake's painful masturbation incident, it sounds like he tore his frenulum a little bit. I did this three times when I was ~20 years old. This is pretty common--kind of a male version of "popping one's cherry"--and nothing to worry about, it's really just a "growing pain" of the frenulum. Re circumcision, most guys I know who got cut as adults say "I had no idea how much sensitivity I would lose!", so hopefully Jake will never do that to himself!
@glencallender I'm sure you are right about Jake's masturbation problem. I wish I would have been able to explain that to him. I wish someone could have explained that to him after it happened so he wouldn't have to be afraid of his foreskin!
Re Jake's painful masturbation incident, it sounds like he tore his frenulum a little bit. I did this three times when I was ~20 years old. This is pretty common--kind of a male version of "popping one's cherry"--and nothing to worry about, it's really just a "growing pain" of the frenulum. Re circumcision, most guys I know who got cut as adults say "I had no idea how much sensitivity I would lose!", so hopefully Jake will never do that to himself!
glencallender 1 month ago
@glencallender I'm sure you are right about Jake's masturbation problem. I wish I would have been able to explain that to him. I wish someone could have explained that to him after it happened so he wouldn't have to be afraid of his foreskin!
FanForeskin 1 month ago