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  • @TBaker1964 No he doesnt. Go away and stop being dumb

  • dear buck ur gay r u

  • @M1A1assassin yeah he is

  • Dear buck, I have a good friend who I would I want to ask out soon and Im not sure if he's gay, I'm sure he is though because he finds women gross and he walks close to me a lot and tends to brush me as I walk I am not out to my entire school only to friends and family and his family is accepting of me (except for his mother). I feel as though he's coming on to me and I like it. I plan to just say I have a boyfriend to my family. This would be my first out relationship. Is that a smart approach?

  • @TheClanDistRezZ I'm guessing you're also a boy. I would first see if he really IS gay! Then, if he is, ask him out and say you really like him and that you've been feeling as if he's coming onto you, whatever whatever. I'm bisexual and I'm a girl but I haven't told my family, only a few friends who are also bisexual and 1 is lesbian. I plan to just tell my parents I have a girlfriend when I get one as a form of "coming out", so if that also works for you, go for it! Hope I helped! :) <3

  • I LOVE your shirt! ;D

  • dear buck,

    i went out with this guy for 4 months we broke up got back together and that continued for numerous months but bc of family reason we can not be together but he also when we broke up went out with my best friend me and her are no longer friends. like i am in love with him so right now we are together without titles like friends with benefits but not to the sex extent and he tells me he loves me and such and i really want to move on how to i move on buck help!! p.s im 14 and hes 15

  • Dear Buck, I think i might be moving across the country, i would have to go to a new school. This is really going to suck, I'm known as the "goth" chick around my school right now. I really don't care what people think of me, but i'm really scared to go. Please, do you have any advice? -Hailey

  • Buck LOVE THE SHIRT!!!

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  • loving the shirt Buck!! smexy !!

  • Dear buck,

    I don't know if I like this boy or not I would go out with him if he asks he is usually flirty with me but I don't know if that's just him it's been like this for a month now should I ask him out?

    Ps anyone can answer this if they can I need help

  • @klaine369 Ask some of his friends to ask him if he likes you. Then stay away for about a week. If he ever stares at you then ask him out. But if he says no, then get to be friends with him.

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  • buck LOVE the shirt <3

    

  • Dear Buck,

    I have been on and off with my boyfriend for over two years now. We really do love each other it's just that when we get into fights we tend to break up instead of confronting the problem. We have recently gotten back together, and due to trust issues stemmed from the fact that I have cheated on him once before, I have caught him going through my phone & facebook account. I understand why he doesn't trust me, but I'm not sure how to gain back respect from him. Please help! -Tessa

  • @Mondaxelnive

    I'm going thru the same thing. but my girlfriend cheated on me and i tend to want to go thru her facebook er phone to make sure shes not cheating. i wanna gain trust back as well..

  • @Mondaxelnive

    i'm going thru the same thing with my girlfriend. except she cheated on me and i tend to want to go thru her facebook and phone to make sure shes not doing it again. i want to know how to trust again.

    also you should know that he does that because he cares and loves you.

  • @xHiFlyx And we love him for it!

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  • @bigfoot69 how do you do the sq's

  • @fallouthreerocks It's a fancy font

  • Your a fag

  • @iRECOV3RY haha lol its NOT FUNNY you're just jealous of his success....

  • dear buck,

    my name is jessica im 14 years old and im bisexual but my parents are very homophopic my moms always making fun of gays and lesbians and she says bisexuals are the worst and that its a sin to be bisexual! i would be okay with not telling my parents but i have a horrible feeling that they are going to find out. please help me!

    P.S. i think your super awesome!

  • Dear buck

    Im am very confused. Im 15 and i might be lesbian I have had 2-3 boyfriends but didnt feel anything. Im attracted girls but i dont kmow how to tell people. I cant talk to my parents or teachers because its very akward and if i talk to my friends im scared they will laugh. I also have lots of bad things (not like gross things juat things that make me upset)happening in my family to me. Sometimes i just feel like i want to end it all. Please help i dont know what to do!!!

    :( love

  • @bobWuzHere100 well, i think this video would help:

    step 1. type in "Should I Come Out? BrettTheiPhone"

    step 2. the 17th one. it should say the user name is BrettTheiPhone soo.... hope this helps (:

  • @InkAndFeather thanks it did :)

  • @bobWuzHere100 your welcome :) i just really love brett and i came here and so....i thought of his video :)

  • Dear buck or anyone. I really want to start making videos in english. Though my native tounge is Spanish. I want to do some funny sketches. Though I'm worried what people in my community are going to say. Should I?

  • @DisIsAlli hmm I think those books are your level. I'm fourteen and I read all those to. If u do have a high reading level, you should try beautiful creatures, uglies, crank, go ask Alice, and maybe the 13th reality. They seem your taste

  • @DisIsAlli Hi Alli. I would like to recommend the Everworld series of books by K.A. Applegate. They came out about a decade ago, so I read them when I was around your age, and they enthralled me so much that I got most of the people I knew into reading them--adults included--and I've re-read them numerous times over the years. You might even be able to find them for super-cheap at a used bookstore or on ebay. I hope you love them if you decide to try them. :)

  • @GuildOfWhores Hey, I like your username (and totally the Everworld series was awesome! did you like animorphs too)

  • DEAR BUCK OR ANYONE!!!

    My friends never wanna hang out with me, when I invite them they say there busy but I can seee there FB Messages saying stuff that shows there not busy! And I always see them hanging out without me! Also I want to have a party but cannot have it at a friends house or my house, where do I have it?

  • @ladidididiididi Have your party at a park, resturaunt, or other public but fun place. Did you ask your friends if they are angry at you? and if so, why they are?

  • DEAR BUCK OR ANYONE!!!

    My friends never wanna hang out with me, when I invite them they say there busy but I can seee there FB Messages saying stuff that shows there not busy! And I always see them hanging out without me! Also I want to have a party but cannot have it at a friends house or my house, where do I have it?

  • Dear Buck,

    I'm 17 and i just recently starting coming out to my family and friends. My family accepts me except for my mom who wants to send me to a shrink. There is this boy in my Physics class who I have really liked for awhile now, but I don't even know if he is gay, bi, or even interested. In class we have moments where we stare at each other. He also puts his head on my shoulder. But i don't think I can even ask him without coming out completely to my small rural town of homophobes.

  • @TheTy5050t Make a strong friendship with him and see if he comes out to you or at least signals he is curious

  • @ladidididiididi I'm trying, but i don't know what to say to him. He is sort of a jock, but a sensitive jock, you know? I want to get to know him more, but we never get the chance to talk outside of class.

  • Dear buck,

    My friend's sister's best friend asked me out but i declined saying i only think of her as friend.For a while sfter that she kept on telling me that she wanted to get with me because she thought i was cute and funny.she texted me alot and even told one of my friends to try to get me with her.One night i finally started replying to her as if her message couldn't go through and finally stopped texting me but i think i hurt her and i think it's awkward between us.PLEASE HELP!

  • @olympian00 Walk up to her when your sister is not around and ask that person if they are upset, apoligize sincerley if they are

  • @SexIsNotLove Who knows? You probably like boys and girls, just do whatever feels good and right for you, if you like a boy, fine, and if you like a girl then go with it, it doesn't matter, as long as you're happy and the person you're with is happy.

  • @1767taylor I been through the same thing tell an adult or stand up for your self

  • Dear Buck, I have a bully at school she's influenced my friends to completely abandon me during a very rough period in my life, she insults me behind my back and to my face, and she starts rumors about me, she used to aim and hit me during volleyball practice. This has gone on for 4 or 5 years now. I can't take this anymore, but I don't know what to do. Can you please help me?

  • @1767taylor you should definitely tell an adult as Chancewilson20 said. as for your "friends" if they left you because of what your bully said they weren't true friends to you anyway! MAYBE (not sure), she doesnt know what shes doing is effecting you this way. Point blank its NOT acceptable and you should not tolerate what she's doing anymore than you have. Im rooting for you and hope everything gets better!

  • @BellaApelila Ive put up with this girl because we play on the same volleyball team and because we had mutual friends But now shes turned my friends and our entire volleyball team against me and they all make fun of me on twitter And our coach wont do anything about it Ive told my mom when it started happening and she hasnt done anything either Ive never given her a reason to hate me but she hates me and every person i talk to Im not very quiet but now i have to be because no one will talk to me

  • @1767taylor TAKE IT TO THE NEWS! THEN PEOPLE WILL START DOING SOMETHING

  • @1767taylor i too have been bullied and lost friends because of him. but i went to the principle and she helped me through it. i even started a anti bullying capaign and almost the whole school signed it!!! the bully had to transfer because everybody hated him and honestly i hope he doesnt bully no more. good luck sweety

  • @aaroncraskeofficial our principal won't do anything, he doesn't care and if i take it to the teachers they wont do anything either. My school is very drama oriented even the teacher get involved in students private affairs and pick sides when people fight. Teachers like me because I'm studious and witty, but they like her because shes loud sarcastic and funny. I can't find help from anyone anywhere and i don't know what to do.

  • @1767taylor Go to the police. maybe they can help if no one else will

  • @1767taylor i have thirty people agreeing with me, go to your local police station they will help you :-)

  • @1767taylor Here's what you do: Make sure there's enough people around to see this. Then, without warning, charge her and beat her up in front of everyone. Or if you're not confident that you can take her, then get someone big to beat her up. You may get detention or whatever lameo crap, but she'll be so embarrased and humiliated, she'll never bother you again. Trust me, it's totally worth it! :)

  • @CuttieBlonde I live out of district at my high school, if I fight I get expelled. And the school i go to has very good academics so its important that i stay there. Besides shes got a good 50 pounds on me i couldn't take her.

  • @1767taylor Ok, then do it outside of school and sneak up on her with a bat, or like i said earlier, get someone else to do it for you. :)

  • @Coppercabisafraud like you know anything about me. and faggot is a degrading word to gay people and my mum's going to die anyway so my mum wont need looking after dumbass !

  • Dear Buck, wanted to know if you can give advice about the 8th grade I allready started school about 5 or 6 weeks ago!!!!! So I still want to know anyways!!!!!!!

  • @DisIsAlli Have you tried reading "The Shadow of the Wind" by Carlos Ruiz Zafón? Fantastic realism, great novel. :-)

  • Dear Buck.

    I was 'friends with benefits' with a boy 3 years younger than me. I think he was in love with me, complementing me and asking me out. Sadly I never admitted that I had feelings for him as well, cuz of agedifference. Yesterday he wrote that he wanted a girlfriend and that us having sex wasn't a good idea no more. It hurt me and I'm heartbroken. I went out clubbing and found someone new and sweet but it doesn't help me cuz I can'f forget that boy. Do I move on or try to get him back?<3

  • @Phanaoshot Okay, I really like it when people write into Buck with these kind of questions because I feel like I can relate to them and help people out! People say "Ages is just a number" but from what you said I think its clear that you don't think that. You met a guy at a club which is really sweet? You think he is sweet you don't want to just go straight into a relationship. You need to talk to them both and start to gg to know them both. The other guy wants a girlfriend, that might be you.

  • @Phanaoshot move to china

  • @Phanaoshot I don't think age difference should keep you apart and you should tell him that you actually have feelings for him and that to you he's more than just a friend with benefits

  • @Phanaoshot NOOOOOOOO, he asked you out, but you THOUGHT he liked you.

    Of course he liked you, you dumb cow.

  • Meanwhile, I'm in high school, the same one he went to. They have a little garden dedicated to him. I have to ride the bus-that very same bus- every single day. The terror has won- I am in constant fear. In fact, due to the stress of moving back my hair has been falling out and I've lost appetite. How do I cope with the situation, knowing I can't change it?

  • When I was in elementary school, me and my brother were really close- in result, I was fairly close to his best friend. When they went to high school. They had to take the bus- bus 37, to be exact. My family and I spent a few years in the US- meanwhile, in Israel, bus 37 feel victim to a terrorist attack. Ten people were killed, among them my brother's best friend. I can't help thinking that if we weren't in the US, my brother would have been sitting next to him.

    Meanwhile, I'm in high school,

  • hey im starting advice videos com to my channel and ask me sum questions

  • you look sexy in pink ;)

  • Dear buck or any one,

    have got question about my boyfriend, iam in concerned about my relationship. Before he stared high school we use to do everything together, he use to call me every day see me every day kiss me hug me and hold hands with me no matter who see's . But since he stared high school and moved all that as changed he only call me like once a month and doesn’t answer my calls.

  • @linda123199 And when i do see him he gives me a hug and then doesn’t touch me after that. And now she's hanging arrowed all these high school girls and ignoring all his other friends excepted his best friend who also has a big crush on me.Can some one plzz tell me what going on iam really confused and worried . And also iam thinking about breaking up with him and getting to know his friend Trevor . Is that a good idea

    With love Hailey xoxox

  • Dear Buck my name is Nikolai im 13,my fathers job makes me go to spain for a year each four years,and the last time i did this i lost all my best friends because of no contact,later i got new ¨gamer¨friends that i play computer games with,so now i can stay in touch with them over the internet,however,i live outside the city in spain so none of my spainfriends live close to me so all i do is sit on the computer talking with my 8 friends from norway and my mom wont stop yelling at me to go outside

  • BUCK I LOVE YOUR SHIRT!!!!!!!!

  • Dear buck, all of jr high i felt like total crap, i nvred smiled. i didnt hav the rite clothes, didnt wear makeup wasnt "popular". now im in high school and i've really changed my style, hair, allowed to wear makeup, nd recently got my braces. homecoming is close and i want a date. but 4, 3 years i had no confidence, and lower self-esteem. how can i become the person who i've been dying to be 4, 3 years, in high school, also get a date :)

    many thxs ashlin!

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    im 14 year old girl. Everytime a boy likes me i end up losing him to another girl. it gets so annoying because i honestly think that i could be in a relationship with them. I am really self concious and when other girls outshine me it really gets me down. Its happened at least 3 times. I feel like love will never come my way, as a freshman ive never had a boyfriend and i have never kissed anyone. Please help, how do i get a boy to like me and how do i keep him? xoxo

  • Dear Buck, I have been friends with a boy for ages and we flirt with each other constantly, I really like him and I don't know If I should tell him as it might affect our friendship. I don't know if he likes me back and I'm scared about asking him, what should I do? <3 oxoxoxox

  • Dear Buck or anyone, i am a 13 year old girl, i "suffer" from a muscular desease called muscular dystrophy... it makes my muscles sore almost every minute of everyday and the right side of my face is paralyzed, so i cannot move it.. and it was SO hard to make friends the first 12 years of my life, i met 3 amazing friends who love me for who i am but i recently moved last year away from my friends who i barely see now.. and i miss them so much, and in this new school i try to stay away from

  • @MissyMarie101 talking to people because that is when you can see how my face tilts to the only side i can move.. but sometimes i do talk because im a niec person and the people who speak to me at my school seem pretty nice... but at lunch if they sit with me (which i try to sit alone often)i sometimes see them whispering and though i am partially deaf, i try to listen to them.. but when i do that, they just nod and smile at me... so i know they are talking about me, plus i have heard my name a

  • @MissyMarie101 few times... and in my last school i was bullied enough and i cant talk to my mom at home becuase she is always sick and i do not want to worry her more.. she has stomach cancer so at home i worry so muh about her and help out alot at home so sometimes i dont sleep until very late and in the mornings i have to be fast so i dont dress to nice for school, i mean in my mind i am ugly already so it doesnt matter... i feel like i am getting bullied again sort of, but its worse now in

  • @MissyMarie101 a way becuase this is behind my back... and i dont know i feel its worse that way because at least other people had the guts to say to my face... anyways.. i love your work you do so well with advice and, at such a young age.. i have thought of suicide SO many times and u really helpped me... and i just dont know what to do now... its hard to ignore these things because its happened so much in the past...

    -Gina

  • (continued) were rally mad at her cuz she promised us she would not tell anyone, we can no longer trust her with anything! my friends dad said it was very important no one finds out for our safty we stopped talk to our other friend should i apologize to her for getting angry and be friends again? i dont know what to do please please thumbs up so buck can see!!!

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  • Dear Buck, i really really really need your help my name is meghan and im 13 me and my friends went a website called omegle we were video chatting with this guy our age we didnt do anything wrong we were just trying to make him laugh he was really nice so we made a fake email so we could still talk to him and be safe but my friends dad found the emails ( he works in the army) and he asked the army to track him down cuz he might kiddanp us we told our friend not to tell anyone but she told 5 ppl

  • dear buck:

    i get picked on in my class and i dont know wat to do b/c i would tell them to stop and they would just keep doing it and everytime i am walking in the halls ppl would walk up

    hit my book so they fall out of my hands. they keep bothering me and they tell me to let the copy my hw or they will do something.so last week i went to the vp and asked for help but they tried a billon times and FAILD.so if u or some1 give me some edvice i would be happy... thx :( ... ps u r awsome!!!!

  • Dear buck :

    a few days ago i went to a concert with one of my friends in our hometown. im 16 and just had my first kiss year. i ended up grinding on a guy behind me for about 1:30hrs and i allowed him to hold my boobs for a while and slightly put his hand down my pants. i had lost my friend in the crowd and i was so into the music that i didnt care. my best friend now thinks that i wa molested but i dont think it was that serious. how serious should i be taking this? fwi asked and he was 23.

  • Dear buck or any1

    1 of my bestfriends slapped me 2 day she said u wouldn't win in a fight I jokingly said Yh I could she slapped me and it got way 2 serious 'bitch fight' problem is she acted normal after when she really hurt me and this is not the first time this has happened

    Wot do I do to not get pushed around but still b friends x

  • Dear buck or anyone,

    The other day at a party i started kissing this boy i like (We were both drunk) and now we've been talking alot and i want to go out with him but by doing this i'm going to hurt soo many people and i dont like hurting my friends and i dont know what to do!! Please please please help me, before i go crazy xoxo

    Keeley

  • Dear Buck,

    I'm best friends with my ex-boyfriend. We dated for half a year and finally split, but made a point of staying really close.

    My problem is that no matter what I do I can't help still having feelings for him. I try to meet other people but no one can seem to strike my interest. :( What's worse is that he's now in another relationship and admitted to me that he loves her. Please, please help me Buck! I can't talk with anyone about my feelings and every time we talk I feel like a knife

  • Dear Buck. I'm 23 years old, bisexual, and I want to pursue a relationship with a female. I have no trouble being making friends with girls, but when I become attracted to them and want to pursue something further I choke up completely. It often seems bisexuality is something girls aren't looking for. I tell them that I can't change who I am, but that doesn't seem to sway them. I often feel hopeless when looking for future relationships. What should I do to find a fulfilling relationship?

  • Dear buck I am 15 and gay but I have not cone out yet. I would like a boy friend and tried different ways to get one but it just dose not work and I do not know any one my age in my area who is gay. Plus a girl likes me more than a friend but she dose not know I am gay and my mum went throw my things and found gay porn in my history what van I do. Help please buck

    Josh Kent

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  • Dear Buck or Anyone Im 14 and i recently got into a argument with my sister shes 23 and i just cant take it anymore every single time when she gets mad at something she always take stuff from the past that i did wrong and hits me with it! My mom isn't here to deal with it shes currently working in a different state but even if shes here she wouldn't care. I just feel like killing myself D: help me buck!

    -Johnny

    Spartan69fuck (sry for the username cant think of anything at the time)

  • @SpArTaN69Fuck my sister does that to me to but if u want her to stop just dont talk to her for awhile and if she come in and says "sorry" then u can start talking to her agin... this has worked for me and if that does not work and if u have a laptop just play on that for some amount of days this one has worked for many ppl.  from angelofdarkness23fyi

  • get romantically involved again, he had told her he still liked her and fed her a load of bull about he was unhappy in his marriage but couldn't leave her because he would lose his business, she started screaming at me about how i never want her to fall in love with anyone and that im trying to control her life. I don't know what to do :/ i worry like mad about her because i don't want to see her cry like that again but if i say anything she takes it out on me, help? -Nicole, 16

  • who is married, she was with him for a month then he broke her heart and fired her, I sat with her while she cried like i did when the other guy hurt her aswell, the other night she went out with her old boss promising me that they are "just friends" and asked if i had a problem with it which i told her i didn't. She came back at 3am and she was really happy and i told her i was glad she had a nice time then came the sh*t storm, just because i told her i didnt like him and she shouldnt -cont...

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    My mum was "with" this person for 4 years and he was a scumbag the whole time, recently he started being nice and has met someone new now my mother is jealous but she isn't in love with him so I have told her just to be nice but she flirts with the guy even though she doesn't want him then says she would never get back with him because I don't like him and he's too old for her (he is 71 and she's 45), some months back she dated her old boss -continuing next post- ...

  • Dear buck or anyone,

    So I dated my first boyfriend (first love) in freshman year. But I broke with him because I thought thing were going a little to fast. But since then he has changed and so have i. Someone told me that he likes me again and I kinda sorta like him, but he's my first love. Do I give him another chance? Please help. Any advice would be appreciated!!:)

  • @evp0217 i am having almost the same problem! if u really do like him, then u should of course give him another chance. if he says no then theres nothing u can really do. hope this helps!

  • Dear Buck or anyone, i like this boy and he likes me to but he had a girlfreind however the other day he broke up with her and came to my house and told me we could now be together! hes 17 and im 16. He kissed me and i felt fireworks!! some other stuff happened that wasnt just kissing after he left my house he text me telling me he felt bad and got back with his girlfriend who he was unhappy with :( i feel like crying all the time he tells me he still likes me please can i have some advice! :(

  • Dear buck, or anyone im 12 and my life is already prety crappy. I have a freind that, well, she is very lonly. And im right next to her when she is. it depresses me. I also am very made fun of at school. SOmeone said that i pull a pocket knife around blacks. I dont know where this started. I get called fat, or a smart ass. im in sail, which is an advanced program scince im gifted aparently. the work is really hard, and i dont under stand a lot of it My grades are very very low. please help!

  • Dear Buck or Anyone,

    I'm 14 and my grandfather was recently diagnosed with lung cancer, my parent's are divorced and he's one of the only people I can talk to about that kind of thing without people looking at me like there's something wrong with me because I have divorced parents. My mom even said, that my grandfather has only months left. How do I cope with that when he's finally gone?

  • Dear Buck/Anybody,

    I have 2 friends Hilda & Liam who just met when we started high school at the beginning of the month. Hilda told me she liked Liam and I pretended to be happy. I'm worried Liam will like her cause she PERFECT! she has clear tanned skin, Gourgeus hair and she's shorter than him even though he's really short! I made myself get over him because he'd never date a girl like me but I would die inside if they dated! I feel like a terriable friend! What should I do??

  • @eeveeheart the heart. See if other friends have dealt with this. Don't think of the last day you had with him but also the good times! If you have stories tell them to someone one! A friend, family, or message me if you don't feel odd about it. Through that you will keep pumpkins memory alive and one day you will be able to move on from the sadness.

    Hope I helped and as I said feel free to message me!

  • @eeveeheart you have time to recover. But if you do get another one know it won't replace pumpkin. Pets in my opinion are like family members and you wouldn't replace a beloved family member! This cat will shine in it's own ways though :) but your dad may say no for the moment because of what's happened. Just love it as much as you love pumpkin if you do get another cat.

    Now for the moment what I'd suggest you do is grieve. Cry if you feel like it don't bottle it up because that's poison to

  • @eeveeheart

    buried him and I never got to say goodbye.

    Your not pathetic so don't think that. I was 15 years old and I'm a boy and cried my eyes out and ate very little for a while. Now 20 years old I still remember my dog because he left an impact on me. He was family and I'd swear he was a human at times. Right now your memories will make you sad. But in time you will remember pumpkin and will smile. This I can almost assure you!

    As for getting another cat I would wait a bit. Just so yo

  • @eeveeheart

    This will be kind of long so my apologies.

    I'm sorry about your cat pumpkin. I know nothing I say will fix the pain but I'll try to help. I had a dog named jewels who despite being the family pet was MY dog. He slept in my bed, followed me around and had the best sad puppy eyes for begging (and knew it) got him as a puppy and he lived for 3 years.

    One night he got out because our door didn't close right (cheap trailer go figure) and he was hit by a car and my mothers current bf

  • Dear Buck, or anyone,

    You probably won't respond to this, I hope you will but I don't know, I'm fifteen years old and I really don't know how to put this... I'm lonely I guess I could say. I'm slowly but surely being pushed away and I don't know how to stop it. I want to make more friends but I don't know how. I'm so confused! Nothing is working I'm trying to change myself but someone told me they were disgusted by me for doing that but I know my "Normal" self disgusts people more! Please Help!

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    I'm 16 years old and right now I have two guys who have huge crushes on me. I've known both for 2 years and one is a year younger than me. The younger one has spontaneously came to my house and asked to hang out and when I said no he insisted and made me (ugh!). And he keeps asking me to hang out and I'm like "umm I don't think I can...". I kinda feel bad about that, but not really. I kinda like the other guy but I feel bad since the other guy likes me to. I need help!!!

  • Dear Buck or Anyone,

    Please look at this. I need help Im in the 7th grade and 13. I hate my body and everything about me. Im in love with this guy. He is a 8th grader. He called me goregous today. Im nervous though. He is older and has failed n he is almost 15 and keeps pressuring me. Im only 12 and dont want to have my first till I have a diamond on my finger! I want him to stop but he wont.

  • @Shortychychy411 If he's making you uncomfortable the best thing to do is tell an adult you trust like a teacher, guidance counselor, parent, or a friend. Try to avoid him if he keeps doing this. I know you're in love with him but if he keeps doing this to you he's not the one. Trust me. If you need any help, just message me. Best of luck! <3

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    been a bi girl, reconte out of the closet, still not sure how to handle it very well. i was kind beeing with a guy but when he found out i was bi he cuted the relationship n told me he was grossed out by it. im from brasil n ppl here r very close minded about the whole gay/bi thing n i get often comments on how gross i am for beeing bi. what i do to make ppl understand this does not change my valleu as a person?

    hope u answer !

  • @lilianperes97 Hi, I'm a pansexual girl (if you know what that means) And when I came out of the closet, my family was disgusted, most of my friends were disgusted too. I was lucky to find friends that accepted me and in your case, I'd say maybe try to find a friend or person like that. I'm not sure if in Brazil they have GSA but if they do that is a great thing to get into um... I hope this helps to know you're not alone!

  • @nikidashadow i think they do but just in sao paulo n i live in a town 300 kilometers from it ... i kno what pansexual is lol n i dont think is disgusting at all.. is not like we have a choice we're just into what we're into... thank you for making me feel not so alone xx

  • @lilianperes97 You're very welcome! Feel free to message me any time to talk! <3

  • @nikidashadow thanks u sound really friendly ! do u have msn or skype ?

  • @nikidashadow I have a skype! nikkisensei

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    I'm 15 and have recently come out as a bi-sexual. I really want to tell my parents but I have no idea when I should, as I remember discussing homosexuality with my mum before and my mum seemed very uncomfortable about it and seemed almost concerned that I might be bi. My dad on the other hand doesn’t seem to mind gay/bi people, however I am still worried about how they both will react when I tell them. How and when shall I do it?

    Thanks a lot, I love your show!

    Vicky

  • @mochriestilescarey im going throw the same thing though for me is the total opposite with my parents ... i came out to my mom n she was ok with it, n it just made me feel realived that someone knew n supported me ! i think u should just sit with then in some quite place or during dinner or something n just tell then openlly n straitgh to the subject n do it when u feel u have too

    i hope i helped !

  • @mochriestilescarey Hello! I went through the same thing coming out to my parents. Trust me, it's (usually) not as hard as you think. Your mom might be uncomfortable about it when you talk about it but if you come out to her her views will change JUST because it's you. Your mom may not like gays/lesbians/bisexuals/pansex­uals whatever but it's totally different when it's their child. Trust me. My transgender friend and I went through the same thing. Best of luck! I hope this helps!

  • Dear buck, im 12 and my life is already prety crappy. I have a freind that, well, she is very lonly. And im right next to her when she is. it depresses me. I also am very made fun of at school. SOmeone said that i pull a pocket knife around blacks. I dont know where this started. I get called fat, or a smart ass. im in sail, which is an advanced program scince im gifted aparently. the work is really hard, and i dont under stand a lot of it. My grades are very very low. please help!

  • Dear Buck or Anyone

    I have spent almost 6 years trying to figure out my sexuality, and now I want to come out to my parents. I've already told a few of my friends, but I have no idea how to even start a conversation to come out. My parents (I think) will be ok with it, but I'm still super scared.

    Thanks so much

  • Dear Buck,

    I have a friend who kind of annoys me. I don't think it is her fault and I know she is a nice person but she seems to be missing the part of her brain that thinks about saying or doing something before you actually say or do it. For example when I borrowed a pad from her when I had my period she told all my friends I was on my period including the guys. I don't know what to do because I feel bad for her cause she has no friends and want to be her friend but she is annoying me!

  • Dear Buck or Anyone My uncle malested me when i was 10 nobody in my family know only my girlfriend know about this (i'm gay) i try to forget but the picture and the feeling keep coming to my head 24/7 it make me feel disgusting myself and i can't make out with my girlfriend cause it make me disgust it so horrible to feel something like that to the person that i love what should i do? p.s. do you understand me my english very horrible
  • Dear Buck or Anyone,

    One of my FAVORITE pets died. He was the sweetest cat in the world. He would crawl under the sheets at night, and sleep right next to my tummy. His name was Pumpkin. His death has taken a huge toll on me. I can't sleep without him there. It's sad. My father "took care of him" before I could even say I wanted to bury him. I can't bring myself to tell my father I want another cat. He died of my dogs attacking him. It's really sad, and pathetic of me. Please help. :'(

  • dear buck or anyone,

    last friday night i went to a football game and all my friends made friends with these guys who were really perverted and I really didnt like that. So me and my best friend walked away. Well this saturday im going to a dance at the school and my friend was joking that we were going to go with them, now im really nervous because i was really grossed out last time. Ok so if i am set up with one of them what should i do...should i leave????

  • @Actressintraining994 If they make you uncomfortable you need to walk away. Trust your gut and don't hang out with them if you find them disgusting cause there are people who do disgusting things.

  • Darling Buck, the first thing I thought when I started playing this video was how much I loved that pink shirt, and how great your hair looks. So you should totally wear that shirt in public, that colour is fantastic on you.

  • dear buck or anyone,

    There is this girl i like, but she i one grade older then i am, and in my school, most of the time, the guy is older. I had a sorta crush on this girl for a while, and to make things worse, i'm not sure if she's in a relationship already or not. Please help.

    Thanks, MrWTF2112

  • Dear Buck or anyone willing to help,

    I'm a 17 year old boy and I usually am not very emotional

    But I met a girl, she was my first girlfriend.

    I found out that we didn't have as much in common as I thought, she didn't seem to understand my sense of humor. I broke up with her, but we still talk, and she told me recently that we would have never worked together because my penis was too small.

    It's something that I'm very insecure about, and now I cry daily.

    How can I get over what she said?

  • @shutupsamandseth I think personally she is a bitch. Someone like that doesn't deserve a boyfriend because if all they care about is the size of a guys penis then they have some issues and are not seriously looking for a relationship they are looking for sex. I am practically flat chested and I don't give a crap if a guy tells me. That is a sign that all they care about is how you look. Trust me you will find someone who loves you for you and not for the size of your penis so ignore her.

  • Buck, I think you're so amazing. I wish you were my best friend... lol. :)

  • I think these kids "hacking" are actually just figuring out the passwords... that's not hacking... >_>

  • Dear Buck/anyone,

    My parents split up in May. My mom has this "friend" who works with her but he lives in Seattle. She went to visit him, he texts her all the time, and has invited her to go to California in October. she tells us not to tell dad when she goes places with him so he won't "take it the wrong way" I'm almost sure they're dating and am kind of hurt she wouldn't tell me honestly. However, I also am not sure I want to know, so I can pretend she's not dating anyone. What should i do?

  • @darkphantom269 If your parents are split up, they're entitled to date anyone they want without consent..

  • @Bluetiger06 I'm not upset that she is dating somebody. I'm mostly upset because she hasn't told me. I'm 15 and I deserve to know if my mother is in a relationship. I also am still a little new to the idea of my parents not being together so it's a bit upsetting.

  • Dear Buck/anyone,

    My parents split up in May. My mom has this "friend" who works with her but he lives in Seattle. She went to visit him, he texts her all the time, and has invited her to go to California in October. she tells us not to tell dad when she goes places with him so he won't "take it the wrong way" I'm almost sure they're dating and am kind of hurt she wouldn't tell me honestly. However, I also am not sure I want to know, so I can pretend she's not dating anyone. What should i do?

  • Dear Buck/anyone,

    I am 15 & I have been dating a 17 year old boy for about half a year now and it's been going really well. He has always been really romantic, but I saw some messages on his phone of him sexting another girl. I confronted him about it but he said he had never met this girl so nothing had happened in person. I didn't get mad at him because I didn't want to make a fuss but I am really upset about it and don't really know what I should do about it, or if I should just leave it.

  • @HannarXx I have a few friends that do that too & don't think there's anything wrong with it even if they r dating some1 else. I find it disgusting, myself. A couple of them were dating each other &, even when they were hanging out together, were always on their cell/comp sexing or having sexual roleplays with multiple other ppl at the same time. What kinda relationship is that? I know a lot of ppl who r fine with it cause it's not real. If it rly upsets u, tell him, & dump him if it continues..

  • Dear Buck or anyone,

    I am 15 & I have been dating a 17 year old boy for about half a year now and it's been going really well. He has always been really romantic, but I saw some messages on his phone of him sexting another girl. I confronted him about it but he said he had never met this girl so nothing had happened in person. I didn't get mad at him because I didn't want to make a fuss but I am really upset about it and don't really know what I should do about it, or if I should just leave it.

  • Dear Buck or Anyone,

    I am 12 and I have a friend who I normally go home with and I decided I want to do After-school things but she hasn't taken it well she's cold with me and if I say I'm bot coming out after school she be off with me until I cone out- she also tries to get me and other friends to quit like everything else we do- I really like her and I couldn't loose her but I'd don't know what to do she's always really mean and icy if something doesn't happen her way she complains about me g

  • what is a cwt?

  • LOVE the shirt!!!

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  • Dear Buck or anyone, I'm an 18 year old girl named Lily, I moved out of my family's house the day after my birthday and then didn't talk to them for a month. Now that i'm talking to them again My mom is asking to pay her back for the last 18 years. Even though i can afford it i don't want to because she wasn't good to me and doesn't deserve it. What should i do?

  • Dear Anyone,

    Freaking out because I went from an A to a B from two grades I thought I did amazing on feel like crying my eyes out the teacher doesn't give extra credit none of them do the transition to high school is hard grades are slipping in all honors need good college so sad just feel like crying but no tears are coming to my eyes its from a test and participation which i think is stupid because i can not participate if i do not know the answer .How do I feel better?

    Thanks Sorry for rant

  • Dear Buck,

    I'm a 13 year-old girl, and recently I have had a crush on this boy who sits next to me in math. My new friend just broke up with him since he cheated on her with another girl. She has diabetes and has problems with her mom and has been cutting. I feel like if I tell her, it'll make things even harder on her. I've kept my feelings from her, but lately I've seen her with him as if they're friends. Then I asked her about him and she and our other friend said he was seriously gay...

  • Dear Buck,

    I'm a 13 year-old girl, and recently I have had a crush on this boy who sits next to me in math. My new friend just broke up with him since he cheated on her with another girl. She has diabetes and has problems with her mom and has been cutting. I feel like if I tell her, it'll make things even harder on her. I've kept my feelings from her, but lately I've seen her with him as if they're friends. Then I asked her about him and she and our other friend said he was seriously gay...

  • hey buck!

    im from england and my mum has a serious cancer. im coping horribly and have contemplated comiting suicide. i tryed to get councilling but no-one seems to understand me. so dear buck how should i cope with my 'depression' because i know someday she will die and i dont know if ill stop myself from killing myself. what should i do?xxx

  • @mojojojoshan I am sorry about your mom but right now the best thing you can do is be there for here so please, whatever you do, dont commit suicide! Your mom needs you. I wish you and your mom the best :)

  • Dear Buck or Anyone,

    Over the summer I started liking a family friend who is 2 years older. We talked, and he said he liked me too. The only problem is he goes to a boarding school. We both agreed that we should wait until his first break back before deciding if we should date and become bf, gf. He told me that we would still talk on the phone and on Fb while he is gone. today i saw his profile picture is now an old picture of him and his ex gf. i don't know how to ask him about it. Help!

  • Dear Buck

    All my life I’ve struggled against bullies & most of my family & I've got issues. My friends know but very few know why because I'm not really comfortable talking about it with anyone other than my sister who was there when it happened. Those who dont know say i need to sort myself out, get into therapy before i screw myself up. I intend to go someday but I don't feel ready to talk about what happened yet. I dont know how to explain this without breaking down. What can I say to them?

  • Dear Buck or ANYONE,

    There's this guy who've I had a crush on since 3rd grade. I mean,I write songs bout him,I sat next to him in class,in middle school, we were friends,not best friends,but like really good friends. I mean like,I could talk to him and joke around w/ him. We just started high school together, and now he doesn't talk to me or even look at me. Its kida like hes distant,like he's grown apart soo much!My friends say I should move on but i cant.Honenestly I love him.My other (C)

  • Dear Buck,

    I am having a really hard time trying to come out to my mother that I am a lesbian. She's very christian, and she usualy turns to her older sister for advice and stuff. Her sister is even more christian, and I'm afraid that she might tell my mother something that I also don't wanna hear (she's done it before, I told my mother I was bi around 13 and her sister told her to take me to church because it isn't normal) What can I do?