When i hit 40 i thought feck it i've had enough of been responsible and hit the bottle and started going to fesivals and loads of gigs and had and still do lead a fantastic life a few years later doing the same things.
The old saying is 'Life Begings at 40' and i couldnt agree more with it.
As joyful as it was bringing up my kids and i wouldnt change my past for anything - but now is my time and love it or lump it i am and do make the most of it :)
Women go through a "Is this all there is?" thing, too. They should not be calling it "male menopause." it is a realization of mortality. At this time many women do the opposite of what many men, typically, do. Women, often, grow up and men regress.
Hi, my name is Kermit, founder and president of 4060men.com. I know a bit about that struggle.
I’ve been single since late 2006 after 30+ years of marriage. Like you, I’d made a number of significant transitions in life already but few can compare to the stress, and yes, at times, bewilderment, this particular transition brought.
There is no male menopause, testosterone lowers with age naturally:
"Unlike "menopause", the word "andropause" is not currently recognized by the World Health Organization. This is likely because "andropause" is a term of convenience describing the stage of life when symptoms of aging appear in men. While the words are sometimes used interchangeably, hypogonadism is a deficiency state in which the hormone testosterone goes below the normal range for even an aging male."
Hi I am a woman and going through the same symptons in that I lost my mum 4 months ago and I have changed and am irractic and want to break free and experience more or what I want rather than what my husband wants for us. This has made me less tolerant and more demanding. My husband though usually understanding doesn't understand the situation. I feel our marriage has come to a real difficult standstill and I see no future becuase neither one of us will compromise.
i guess all one can do is try to find a purpose in life that does not involve, necessarily, blatant youth. there's always wisdom, intelligence, insight, wit, humor...things that one keeps in tact pretty late into life. at 50 i'm thinking i'm not sure i'd want my youth back-unless i had the foreknowledge of middle age. so, it's a dilemma.
my moms going through a mid life crisis and its fucking up everything. it started with facebook. she started facebooking, then started reading twilight, then started listening to punk bands like muse n shit, then started texting, and now shes getting a boob job(which she doesnt have the money for). she doesnt care about anybody but herself. all she does is listen to muse, text and go on youtube all day. i hate her now. i would actually like for my parents to get a divorce =[
my bloke is going through some major changes right now, he has just turned forty, lost his mum few days before christmas, and since then has completely changed with me. i looked up mid life crisis and found this could explain whats happening. i was browsing youtube for support for my guy and came up with you :) any advice you could offer would be cool. ty for this vid
Fasten your seatbelt. He's dealing with 2 huge losses - the loss of his mother and the loss of his youth(as he sees it). He may try to compensate by reincarnating so to speak - by becoming a different person. Hang in there and encourage him to see a therapist or consider couple's therapy with you. There may be an underlying depression. Of course, don't neglect yourself . Rely a bit more on friends. Try to be somewhat tolerant and patient but don't hesitate to draw the line when you need to.
u shouldnt hurry,girly,your gonna go old fast.The clocks already ticken.:(
What could the mate do?Take her man on safari,change her brainwash power trip and start grinden with him,role play,fetish,everything or go fuk yourself ya old hag.
I agree that the wife should make it known that she is still there for him and encourage a return to the happiness they may have known in their early years of marriage. With the empty nest syndrome, they can renew their passion and special times together. It can all be part of the "happiness solution."
She would make me have a mid age life crisis at the age of 3.
mobiline 1 month ago
is that the windows xp background?
luciphoenix 3 months ago
When i hit 40 i thought feck it i've had enough of been responsible and hit the bottle and started going to fesivals and loads of gigs and had and still do lead a fantastic life a few years later doing the same things.
The old saying is 'Life Begings at 40' and i couldnt agree more with it.
As joyful as it was bringing up my kids and i wouldnt change my past for anything - but now is my time and love it or lump it i am and do make the most of it :)
Peace
RumbleGuts2112 4 months ago
Glad I'll never be married
nuttalexx 7 months ago
Women go through a "Is this all there is?" thing, too. They should not be calling it "male menopause." it is a realization of mortality. At this time many women do the opposite of what many men, typically, do. Women, often, grow up and men regress.
hannahunney 8 months ago
male menopause .... what do you know about me bitch ....
Opoefiets 8 months ago
Hi, my name is Kermit, founder and president of 4060men.com. I know a bit about that struggle.
I’ve been single since late 2006 after 30+ years of marriage. Like you, I’d made a number of significant transitions in life already but few can compare to the stress, and yes, at times, bewilderment, this particular transition brought.
4060men 9 months ago
There is no male menopause, testosterone lowers with age naturally:
"Unlike "menopause", the word "andropause" is not currently recognized by the World Health Organization. This is likely because "andropause" is a term of convenience describing the stage of life when symptoms of aging appear in men. While the words are sometimes used interchangeably, hypogonadism is a deficiency state in which the hormone testosterone goes below the normal range for even an aging male."
MrBobTD 10 months ago
Hi I am a woman and going through the same symptons in that I lost my mum 4 months ago and I have changed and am irractic and want to break free and experience more or what I want rather than what my husband wants for us. This has made me less tolerant and more demanding. My husband though usually understanding doesn't understand the situation. I feel our marriage has come to a real difficult standstill and I see no future becuase neither one of us will compromise.
knatintheoil 1 year ago
That women is just like "Hm, Yes. Oh right! Uh-Huh, Okay, Right! Uh-Huh-Huh, hmm!" to every sentence.
Someone take out her batteries!
AstraVex 1 year ago 2
If she would just shut up, this would be a good clip.
doyouhearmeihearyou 1 year ago 8
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MoonAharshMistress 2 years ago
theres a very natural cure for this.....swop the old woman in your life for a younger model.....cured !
imanglo 2 years ago 5
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MoonAharshMistress 2 years ago
@imanglo Oh you old man you are everywhere..that young woman is going to swap your hairy back for a hot 30 something guy...Karma sweetness.
cymbeli 1 year ago
i guess all one can do is try to find a purpose in life that does not involve, necessarily, blatant youth. there's always wisdom, intelligence, insight, wit, humor...things that one keeps in tact pretty late into life. at 50 i'm thinking i'm not sure i'd want my youth back-unless i had the foreknowledge of middle age. so, it's a dilemma.
deemilieu 2 years ago
I am having one at 23
lti12 2 years ago
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MoonAharshMistress 2 years ago
my moms going through a mid life crisis and its fucking up everything. it started with facebook. she started facebooking, then started reading twilight, then started listening to punk bands like muse n shit, then started texting, and now shes getting a boob job(which she doesnt have the money for). she doesnt care about anybody but herself. all she does is listen to muse, text and go on youtube all day. i hate her now. i would actually like for my parents to get a divorce =[
Brien182 2 years ago
Thankyou for your vital information in your videos.
ric24actor 2 years ago
my bloke is going through some major changes right now, he has just turned forty, lost his mum few days before christmas, and since then has completely changed with me. i looked up mid life crisis and found this could explain whats happening. i was browsing youtube for support for my guy and came up with you :) any advice you could offer would be cool. ty for this vid
IvieWolfe 2 years ago
Fasten your seatbelt. He's dealing with 2 huge losses - the loss of his mother and the loss of his youth(as he sees it). He may try to compensate by reincarnating so to speak - by becoming a different person. Hang in there and encourage him to see a therapist or consider couple's therapy with you. There may be an underlying depression. Of course, don't neglect yourself . Rely a bit more on friends. Try to be somewhat tolerant and patient but don't hesitate to draw the line when you need to.
alangettis 2 years ago
u shouldnt hurry,girly,your gonna go old fast.The clocks already ticken.:(
What could the mate do?Take her man on safari,change her brainwash power trip and start grinden with him,role play,fetish,everything or go fuk yourself ya old hag.
creten69 3 years ago
I agree that the wife should make it known that she is still there for him and encourage a return to the happiness they may have known in their early years of marriage. With the empty nest syndrome, they can renew their passion and special times together. It can all be part of the "happiness solution."
Pashadog2 3 years ago