Should You Dump Your Cheating Boyfriend?

[TheBanjo557]

I'm a guy and I really don't get why men cheat??

[velvet273]

If your boyfriend cheats on you....Kick that mother fucker out!!...He doesn' t care about you, and he definitely doesn't deserve you...you cant trust that jerk anymore...Drop him!!!!

[XxsushiscutexX]

Yesterday me and my boyfriend were cuddling and his phone vibrated. It was a text from his ex gf. I asked him why she was texting him and he said that she was jealous of me. I asked what that had to do with anything and he said that she was upset that he was going out with me. I still didnt understand. He then told me that he had been going out with her, the same time period he was going out with me and she thought I was just his bestfriend. Ive never felt so depressed in my life.

[Wildcat5181]

"Men cheat for sex, women cheat for emotional upifting." Bullshit! They cheat because they are low life sociopaths who don't care about anyone but themselves. They certainly don't care about their partners. They are the same ones asking, "Where are all the good men?", or "Where are all the decent women? You killed them all, their trust, their hearts, rendered them numb for the real person in their life. You hooked up with a whore( yes, men are whores too). A whore deserves a whore.

[fancykerri83]

@Wildcat5181 nothing but the truth

[devilshomie]

I'm the type of person where if you cheat on me once the relationship is over, no apologizing, no "Jerry Springer" fight, just cut off all contact and move on

[kin2424]

If someone cheats on u they r not worth your time! Dump them!!!!

[HollarPeenYo]

Wow... just looking at your body language in this video you can tell that Jennifer there is completely the alpha dog. And she just looks like she can be one raging bitch when she gets pissed!

Poor Dan... I bet she makes him sit down when he pee's so that it doesn't get on the seat... Dan - grow some nuts and tell that bitch to go make you a sammich!

[mdeathangel]

funny im not a cheater and im very vocal about it lol

[XshonadX]

men cheat because they are dogs - no excuse - they get a rush from breaking a heart - i have no sympathy for a cheater - bunch of bullshit

[FitnessGuru1988]

@XshonadX projecting?

[XshonadX]

some men r just dogs - they cheat because they dont give a shit about any1 else - no excuse just bullshit

[RockinFifiLaFume]

No wait Midori? Hmmm

[RockinFifiLaFume]

What the fuck, are they drinking Absinthe? LOL! So goth...

[schmokes1]

i bet she's cheating on his ugly ass.

[ThaHippy4Peace]

YES! HELLZ YEAH ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER

[ThaHippy4Peace]

yes! once a cheater always a cheater. if he cheated on you,that just show a lack of love he has.he or she should of that about you when they did that.

[readi13]

my boyfriend was cheating on me once and i found out by going to krazyjamz. com.

that scumbag

[casey9681]

Being cheated on hurts, i remember when my boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me with my bestfriend...now he wants me back but once someone cheats its hard to trust them again

[RYANSGiRL6]

i just found out 3 months ago that my bf has been cheating on me for the past year with a 16 year old girl...and hes 26....weve been together for 4 years....and i just dont know what to do. hes done this to me before we got together so it wasnt a deal breaker for me but then i found out from his friends facebook...he posted all the pics of them two together.... :(

[jitterbug121]

and don't ever trust him again! Au Revoir! 

[eltardo20]

i found out today that my boyfriend cheated on me 2 years ago with 2 different girls via un-deleted emails.  i agree - they want to have their cake & eat it too. he treats me amazingly in other aspects of our relationship but his infidelity is pretty much a deal breaker for me ;( even 2 years later....how would i know he wouldn't do this to me again, you know? i invested four years of my time & effort too.

[Eveon10]

OMG!!! i got to get my mom to see this video. sometimes i just dont get girls. her boyfriend cheats on her, admits to it, still doing it and she still likes him? wtf and hes still sleeping with her. dude sometimes i feel like my mom's extra azn or something cause thats fuckin rediculous. coming from a 15 year old i can still say thats fucking rediclous.

[erazo29]

my boyfriend told me but 2 years later :(

[MegaDove123]

@erazo29 UGH!!! I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL I JUST FOUND OUT YESTERDAY THAT MY BOYFRIEND CHEATED ON ME AROUND OCTOBER 8 MTHS AGO!!!! IT HURTS DUDE IT REALLY DOES!!!!

[M5L0ver]

@MegaDove123 you should forgive him

[Jordan92028]

fuck him, then dump him

[BettorOffSingle]

I bet Dan or Jen would leave the other if someonej BETTER came along.

No one stays with an inferior partne out of loyaltyr. EVER.

[3krazykatz]

Why do people cheat? Why not just break up and then have all the fun that you want to? The answer, People want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to stay in the relationship because they are comfortable, but yet they also need to feel naughty. A lot of times, it's the people that are so vocal against cheating, are the hypocrites that do the cheating.

[kathryn8169]

@3krazykatz either that or they just speak the truth

[ADELECG85]

@3krazykatz my boyfriend is cheating on me but he wont admit it, with a girl 10 years older than me and nowhere near as hot lol what a bastard! weve been together since we were kids and it hurts alot

[schmokes1]

@3krazykatz thus is life.

[schmokes1]

@3krazykatz thus is life. 

[datingwomensex]

DanAndJenn, keep these coming into youtube.

[esona1]

Dump him

[Critchy39]

Take him for a lie detector on Jeremy Kyle, tell him you aint having no shite!

I only say that because my obsessive ex girlfriend said that to me.

She had trust issues and demanded i got on the Jeremy Kyle show with her. I said "fuck off" and ran before she could kick me in the bollocks again. She was an absolute psycho.

[jkspringer]

Is Dan gay?

[dananorsk]

i found out two days ago that my bf cheated on me with other two girls(at the same time:@) he was a virgin and he had told me that he would wait for me but he did that and didnt even tell me... now i cant leave him i love him too much but it hurts too bad and i dont think i can look at him again...its too painful...what should i do? i dont have the strength to break up

[sarahdarlinglovely]

my boyfriend cheated on me 2 months ago and just found out about it yesteday. I feel like shit. We have been together for almost 4 years and I can't just leave him. I live with him and he said he felt so guilty afterwards. I really just don't know what to do. I say I'll give him a week and if he doesn't start acting like a real boyfriend then he is gone. But I don't know if I am strong enough to actually leave him since it was just one time. 2 months ago. Help!

[GilesArmstrong]

change. drink what these guys are drinking ure boring

[sarahdarlinglovely]

fuck you dude.

[urineTroubleBOY]

its difficult to just dump someone who you love and have been with for several years... i've forgiven my fiance 4 times for it now. as far as i know, he's not out physically cheating on me, but he's taking/making naughty pics/videos and exchanging them with these two women he talks to mostly on the phone and over msn... or talking to them in a way he should only talk to me i've caught him and he just keeps trying to hide it better. i know, i'm stupid. thats still considered cheating in my books.

[SarraSpeaksOUTT]

its over, if hes not honest and he cheats, not cool!

if he did it once he'll do it again

[CALICOTV301]

Not the "If he do it once he'll do it again."

So if someone does CRACK they'll do it again? If someone buy a Mercede's they'll do it again? Where are mostly females getting this logic from? Because he cheated on you "AGAIN" doesn't mean he'll cheat on the next woman AGAIN.

You are not the next person. Some people cheat because they like the idea, but some cheat because they are not getting something from the relationship. Once they get it, doesn't mean they'll cheat. Just on you "AGAIN"

[LaurineTaurine]

Most of my friends are guys. Girls are too dramatic. However, if he is creating an ONLINE profile...that's a red flag to me.

If you have female friends that your girlfriend knows about and you're pretty open about that is one thing...what benefit would you have of making female friends online through a profile?

And no, I did not make your comment negative.

[LaurineTaurine]

And if he were just interested in making friends...he wouldn't label himself single.

[CALICOTV301]

Maybe the girl is hard to get rid of. She is searching his stuff. That would get annoying. But sometimes you are scared to tell people that have to go because they get crazy. So maybe he was just playing safe. im wa

[LaurineTaurine]

Well maybe they should just be a man and tell them the relationship has ran its course. I don't care how crazy things get. Man up. Don't be a coward.

I've never snooped personally. If you feel a reason to snoop then there's enough lack of trust to break up. But perhaps the man had done a damn good job of making the girl paranoid by cheating. Don't get annoyed about somebody searching your stuff if you've given her a reason to be paranoid enough to do it.

Even though they should just leave.

[CALICOTV301]

Well, everyone doesn't handle things that way. Some rather leave calmly without bs, drama, tire slashing, car keying and so forth.

If someone is liable to snoop, they may be that type of person. OR...he probably told her it was over and she refuses that it is. Never know the situation. In an ideal world. yes, tell them. But with people that are willing to go to the extreme to keep you, it may not be. No doesn't work in 2009.

I feel what u r saying, but it's different situations.

[LaurineTaurine]

lol I am sorry, but I would think you'd notice the red flags in somebody's personality when you first know somebody enough to avoid the tire slashing, car keying type. If not...wow. Can't say you didn't have it coming. j/k

[CALICOTV301]

Yeah... I did.

It ended up in a house on fire...

two deaths, lots of injuries. Displacement of homes. And the female ended up getting 40 years after the families kept pushing the death penalty.

Back in the day, life was simpler. No meant no. These days, no still means no to you, but it holds not much weight in someone elses mind.

Not saying that this is always the case, but there's never a "RED FLAG." Usually people play the saint but all along are the sinner.

[LaurineTaurine]

Wow. This happened to you? I am sorry that you had to experience that in your life.

That's exactly why I despise dating. The first intial dates are usually two people being half themselves and half pretend in order to impress the other person. God forbid people be upfront from the get go. You're going to find out the real persona eventually.

[CALICOTV301]

Yeah, agreed. It's very hard to foresee unfortunately.

Yeah, many people wear a mask until they get you where they want. Some after a few dates. Some remain composed until after you've moved in, and others after you've married.

It's something really hard to be cognizant of. I've seen some of the best actors not in hollywood right before me, and Im sure you have too.

But...that's the way it goes.

That's why it's cheaper to keep her haha

[LaurineTaurine]

It is pretty sad to the point that I've actually lost almost all faith in dating entirely lol and I've actually dated mostly good guys.

[CALICOTV301]

Hence the cliche' "You can't live with them, you can't live without them."

It's human nature. Cats will fight and scratch each other in the morning, but sleep with each other at night. We all need someone

[BettorOffSingle]

Dating was for an era where men and women didn't hang out alone together UNLESS they were courting.

Today it's not necessary. If she doesn't want you before the date, she won't want you afterk, and is therefore using you.

[twibblejazz]

Dump your guy if he cheats on you. duh

[oxsgirl81]

ive cheated before..but i didn't do it again..i did confess, was forgiven..n regret it...so i don't believe the lady that said "Once he's cheated it is very likely he'll do it again".

[DrSlideit]

I agree. I'm feeling really guilty about cheating on my girl. I did it when we first got together. Drunk and Horny. Made a mistake with a girl that i had hooked up with before. Now I'm deeply in love and the guilt gets heavier everyday. I want to come clean. What do i do?

[LaurineTaurine]

You are a rarity. Nine times out of ten if someone cheats they are much more likely to do it again. A small percentage actually do change.

[CALICOTV301]

Wrong. Because they cheated on you, maybe it's because your ugly, you nag too much, you don't have a job, your lazy and so forth.

The next woman may not be.

Just an example.

There's no "CHANGE." Cheating is an option. People cheat for different reasons. There's something missing, something that they are being deprived of. Whether it's time, love, sex, peace or so forth. Because it's done to you, doesn't mean they will do it to everybody.

[LaurineTaurine]

They cheat because you're ugly? If they were that damned concerned with that in the first place they wouldn't be with you.

There ARE a lot of reasons why people cheat, but cheating on somebody is one of the worst things you can do to another human being. It really isn't that damn hard to leave first if you're that unhappy.

[CALICOTV301]

Well...it happens afterwards sometimes. People let go of themselves.

I do agree with you otherwise

[LaurineTaurine]

I'm not saying I don't have my superficial moments, I have to be attracted to somebody, but you're in for a lonely life if the only thing you base it on is cosmetic.

People rarely look as good as they used to the older they get. Thank God I'm still young :)

[CALICOTV301]

Not that Im justifying anything, but you've only heard her side, "The Snooper." Maybe she gave HIM a reason to hop online. Then perhaps even though she's saying "I Apologize and I won't do it again," he doesn't believe it. Maybe she's a flirt but hasn't cheated. Maybe she dresses freaky in public. I mean, different things ya know.

Everyone is superficial in that case. When u see someone in public, you base off of looks. That's what initially compels you to even spark up the convo.

[LaurineTaurine]

Correct. That is what initially compels you to that spark. I am just saying that you're going to be very lonely if you put importance on that completely. I've dated men that were very easy on the eyes but arrogant and dumber than a box of rocks. Can't hold a conversation? Then I'm gone.

SOME men/women cheat because things are missing in the relationship. But I still just think it is cowardly that instead of dealing with it, fixing it or bowing out they choose to hurt and scar people.

[CALICOTV301]

I couldn't agree more.

I wish that wasn't the case. Like the guy - I don't watch Opera, but I happened to be flipping the channel and she was on there.

It happened here...when I heard about I didn't know the result.

The woman said she was going to break up with the guy, he went to her job and doused gasoline on her...as her employees "basically" watched. She had 1st degree burns and her face was basically gone.

Ideally, yes, it should work...but not always. So yes, I agree

[LaurineTaurine]

True. There have been situations where even restraining orders don't work. Crazy people.

I am still up in the air if monogomy is more of a socially implied thing. Though I am all for it, I kind of wonder if it is unnatural but then will power and self control is what seperates human from animal...most of the time lol

[LaurineTaurine]

and I do have a good job that I work hard for, thanks :)

[EekZombies]

Ive dumped guys for much less...

[myswaggisoffical]

wat should my bro do he cheated but he told her about it but then she act like it waz nun so then just forgot about it but the gurl he cheated with love him then his gf got all mad after that but she never told my bro that she cheated with a GIRL!! so wat should they do?

[Docklandjackass]

all these 2 do is look at each other like they wanna fuck

[MasterDwath]

with a donkey.

[butterfly9255]

very true. now its my turn to cheat on him. fun fun fun

[badboyjames29]

she said that if a boy cheated on a girl before theres a possibility that a boy will cheat again !

some dikheads lads maybe but most of the lads are decent ! if they done it before they wont do it agen unless they dont have feelings for the gal at all !

[idgafcauseimabamf]

advise needed

ok so my bf had a sex dream about one of his friends and he sent her a msg through myspace telling her about it.

i know this cause since he was at my house on myspace and left without singing out

should i be worried?

i mean he told her but not me

should i break up?

[lenarainbow1233]

he has feelings 4 her , but he mite have feelings 4 u but the questions u should ask is am i ok with this>? will he cheat? i hope i helped

[melissamaygibaud]

ok well i think u should ask him bout it and see what he tells u but dont be like hey y did u dream about u having sex wid her ?

say like have u eva dreamed about u having sex with a girl?

and if he says no dump him and if he says yea say when was the last time ?

ok i think tht should do the job

gud luck !! <3

[5sizes2big]

yes. break up. he's not even thinking about you anymore.

[annabazzo11]

i found my boyfriends dating profile online, saying he was single and looking to meet new women in the new city (we just moved to toronto together.. so that means the profile was recently updated). i hacked into his account :) and found messages from all sorts of women, with him telling them how hot they are n such. i confronted him and he told me i was overreacting huge and called me a creeper (but im so glad i creeped!).

[CALICOTV301]

Never do that.

Saying a girl is ATTRACTIVE is not cheating.

Funny thing is. I see girls looking at TV all the time "Oh my, LL Cool J is fine!"

But when their boyfriend say that someone a mile from him is fine, it's a problem.

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with a compliment.

I personally don't do it, because there's no need for me too...but compliment is natural.

Guys compliment guys, girls compliment girls. As long as it's friendly.

[LaurineTaurine]

He is crossing the line by making a profile, labeling himsef single, and looking to meet women.

BIG difference between that and just saying "Yeah, she's attractive."

What he's doing isn't just giving a woman a simple compliment he is crossing a boundary that seems safer on not getting caught because it is through a computer. The internet has increasingly ruined marriages and relationships...

[CALICOTV301]

Let me guess...you made my comment negative.

[CALICOTV301]

Not only that. We were discussing "Cheating" I thought.

Yes. He's meeting new women. It depends on the situation. My old female friend use to say "I don't hang around with women, they talk too much, I only hang with guys."

Well...maybe his intentions were dishonest, but maybe he was looking to meet friends.

NOW...Im not encouraging that...again, I wouldn't do it because it's not my style. But, I've seen women do it. Maybe he wants to hang out but not with guys. Or maybe he's creeping.

[annabazzo11]

as for you, confront him. u didnt hack like i did, he left his thing signed on. dont be mad, just ask him whats up. then work from there

[kassandrakassan]

Thank you very much for being objectif. I am going to be listening to you a lot.

[mogul1265]

Girls hardly ever dump when they get cheated on. They hate and love it at the same time.Dumbasses, good way to catch an STD.

[97and98]

didnt help at all but i went my own wayz and not yours and juss dumped his ass

[itsmereee93]

wow that didnt help me at all.

[l0udcheese]

oiyoiyoi it sucks for me cuz i am a cheating boyfriend but have no clue how to tell my gf the truth even though i want to

[b0nedaddyb0ne]

om ya it totally sucks FOR YOU, you stupid bitch....keep it in your pants asshole

[littlebecomesmuch]

that's the mistake I made he cheated on me before we got married and he is still cheating on me and I think it is totally unfair because children are involved now and it's not fair to them i'm so lost right now what should I do i'm so tired!

[Maha87]

you should. if i were you, its best to be honest to your guy. if something he's doing is bothering you a lot and even hurting you, i think if he truly liked you, he will reconsidering doing it. but ofcourse, this is more of a committed relationship.. if your relationship is supposed to be committed, then i believe you should do it. confront him..better to know the truth, than live a lie :) Just my opinion ^^

[Maha87]

this goes to Ment2BeLoved ^^ sorry about that.

[reggie15norman]

moral of the story is dont meet on websites

[kitkatbar110]

hey Dan and Jennifer i have a problem my ex dumped me like 2 weeks ago and i was really upset but now that i feel better i kinda like him again even though he lied to me, his brother-in-law and my friends and i'm really confused what should i do?

[bfflilly66]

well avochel if your boyfriend is cheteting on you you should dump him or its goning t gep haping

[yourtango]

Good advice.

[taxs2000]

ok im a giy and i like my x agin but her cerint boyfriend cheated on her three times so i want her back her best friends and her both know im a way better giy then him but she just wont leave him i need some help please send me a message to help me out thank you for reading

[taxs2000]

ok im a giy and i like my x agin but her cerint boyfriend cheated on her three times so i want her back her best friends and her both know im a way better giy then him but she just wont leave him i need some help please send me a message to help me out thank you for reading

[EmOsKiNNiiJ3aNs]

same thing happened to me. i dumped him.

[ShinKariya]

Dump, because you will never again have the trust in the guy/girl you had, and trust is a very important foundation in any relationship. And as mentioned, cheaters often repeat. Be smart with your heart

[ProductPlacer]

Dump a cheating boyfriend? My advice is that she should cheat back. Let me know if I can help! haha.

[gandalf117]

I absolutelly agree. When my girlfriend cheats on me a cheat back and feel 100 times better!

[cervantes555]

this is how people spread chlamydia

[wheateater]

Safe sex.