women in their late 30's & 40's still looking for mr perfect

[telemanque]

Nice...American women delusional, fantasy worshippers, wtf, I will never date another Black American woman...You dont beleive in me...until I got the shit YOU want me to have....My mother stuck it out with my pops especially on the come up....You women want everything to be perfect off the bat--no struggle, no mutual learning...just selfishness,me me me me me got news for you honey....its over ..... good men are tired of your shit regarding this fact...good luck with your illusion,LOL

[snowandcinnamon]

I know I can do a hell of a lot better than your sorry married azz. I'm in the mirror every day, and I LOVE AND RESPECT WHAT I SEE. Fuk you and your demeaning bullsht.

[sandeezy17]

@snowandcinnamon Haaa! Angry lonely BLACK WOMAN!!!! The emphasis on lonely. ;) Like I stated loosen up, lower your over the top standards & you might get lucky. Smirk oh yeah you probably look like hell too. Smirk again.

[andicatz]

Good advice! I've lowered my standards. Just want someone slightly sane :) I attract maniacs 4 sum reason!

[sandeezy17]

@andicatz it's up to you, who you attract. Think about it. ;) Enjoy urself.

[mansuka1]

Right on point, my boss is 37-39yrs old obesse, spent a long time feeling lonely etc, now she's dating a 25yr old 6f2-6f4 kickboxer, and everyother time she talks about him she's complaining, it's not constant, but enough to think, "You got the kinda guy every woman wants, when is it enough for you?" but on the other hand I think "are you honestly telling me, that I'm never gonna have a wife and kids, because wemen even at this age are still holding out for in his prime MR perfect?!?

[mansuka1]

@mansuka1 WTF is wrong with you?!?" Well thankfully I've gotten used to it and frankly don't care to much anymore, it's just annoying to see wemen do this, and bitch about it when they do have what they wanted.

[therater2008]

Most women at that age group are delusional.

[telemanque]

A lot of men scared to hold these women accountable.I'm not. Fuck Black women. Guess I'm a fag now.lol

[sandeezy17]

@telemanque no just rational. 

[commonman80]

Here's and Old, but true Joke. Why would a 40 year old Man want a 40 year old woman when he can go out and get TWO 20 year women for the same cost.

WITH OUT BAGGAGE.!!

[MrVeesworld]

@commonman80 That was a good one. It put a grin on my mug. Really did.

[MrJohnboy006]

@commonman80 Take a hike you hasbin picky and tainted overweight and low self esteem unsexy over 40 divorced women. No man wants the baggage of 80% of these women who give up on themselves.

[sandeezy17]

@commonman80 truth hurts may as well laugh. :)

[commonman80]

@sandeezy17, Thanks. You see I look at women over 30 with High standards for finding a Life Long Mate, The same way I look at Women's Professional Basketball. You cheer them on out of pity because we as men, know the bottom line is Any State Level High School Male Basketball Team could play them and WIN by 70 points if The Women's team was to challenge them. In other words It's a Mans World. We share it with Women because we love them. But, if they try and screw us we'll always win in the end.

[andicatz]

@commonman80 We women pity your "dropped balls" after you reach a certain age and don't forget without women men would not exist..she gives birth to both sexes.

[sandeezy17]

@CarolinaMaya1977 I hear about my wifes dumb ass friends & their bad choices. Its a dam epidemic! Leaving the good ones for the dumb ass. Well maybe they are with their match, I guess. Act like a lady get treated like a lady. Thats what I say. Shrug

[ANOTHERHOLEINYOHEAD]

I agree with the comments made in this video.

[MegaAnointedone]

bullshit- 

[sandeezy17]

@MegaAnointedone who shit?

[onlyjoetee]

its always when you're NOT looking,when you're NOT focused on it...

[sarahjf2007]

Im not looking for someone rich or conventionally gorgeous. just a guy who isnt obese, unemployed, addicted to anything, temperamental, cheating, an arrogant jerk, or trying to fuck me the first time I go out with him...

if you think there are many available men who dont fall into the above categories you're wayyyyy off. there are a lot of women out there who put up with this shit just so they arent alone.

[sandeezy17]

@sarahjf2007 Look Ive said it 1000s of times. Get yourself together before you start thinking you need to get a man. The self worth is low if you allow yourself to put up with the shit. You put up with the shit you keep getting the shit, simple. These men either dont want you, dont care, or arent ready so fuck em & leave.

[sarahjf2007]

@sandeezy17 lol did I SAY I put up with any of it? NO! I was stating that a lot of women put up with the garbage because its hard to find guys who are decent so they SETTLE & contrary to what you claim in your vid, most of us arent looking for "prince charming", we just want a guy who isnt falling into one of the categories I stated in my 1st post. please, Im young & have my life together- last thing I'll do is let some loser mess my life up.

[sandeezy17]

@sarahjf2007 Look Ive said it 1000s of times. Get yourself together before you start thinking you need to get a man. The self worth is low if you allow yourself to put up with the shit. You put up with the shit you keep getting the shit, simple. These men either dont want you, dont care, or arent ready so fuck em & leave. Oh ya most women cant fuck em & leave.

[MrJohnboy006]

@sarahjf2007 Let me ask you this, do you meet all these qualifications?Most women want or attract the adventurous bad boy who like you keep falling in that trap.

[jab7168]

@sarahjf2007 there are plenty of nice guys, but hot women in their twenties don't want anything to do with them while they are getting there life together. when they make it, do you honestly think they want the women in the 40's after they had all their fun and they ready to settle down with the nice guy? Pay back is a bitch, just like they were in their youth.

[sarahjf2007]

@jab7168 "making it" does not absolve males from the criteria I listed in my post- clearly you did not retain the concept. I have males from their twenties into their fifties interested in me. I've given many a chance, hence my point of view.... & please don't contact me again. you're a perfect example of an angry, spiteful male.

[jab7168]

@sarahjf2007 ...and you are a perfect example of a delusional woman.......somehow I see an aprtment full of cats. lol

[110301839]

@meg2393 darling I have a Masters degree in Engineering from Harvard School of Engineering, and am currently pursuing a PHD at the University of Oxford in England, something you can never have. I would rather grow old and die alone than ever date an American woman like you. You American women have become so worthless coz this feminist bullshit that even more men are not willing to even date you. You only think about yourselves you fucking selfish savages. why would I marry u and lose my wealth

[jab7168]

@110301839 Bingo..............

[sandeezy17]

@110301839 & that's the name of that tune! :)

[MrWongTight]

At this present time the US has the highest rate of single woman in their mid to late 30s in history, who will probably never marry. The UK is following this trend. I've noticed younger woman have chose to ignore their older peers predicament or are also falling for the same BS and waiting for ' Mr Perfect'. Oh dear, looks like a repeat for the next generation. Get ready to bump into a whole bunch of bitter woman in the next few years!

[110301839]

@meg2393 No one's forcing you to date anyone if u don't want to. We men have figured out the solution, whenever we want sex, we just get our passports and take a trip overseas for about a month, get all the sex we want and come back happy. Why suffer with selfish American women who put u men thru all this crap just to date them when foreign women are much more easier and cheaper to date. I never hassle with you Americunts anymore, I just get my passport and fly out, get all the fun.

[sandeezy17]

That is a totally new perspective. Well you have figured out what works for you & that is ultimatelly all that matters. No complaining just enjoying your life. That is it.

[MrJohnboy006]

@110301839 Your so right i was one of those sailors with a GF in each port. More a few GF in each port..what can I say.. never been happier...American women are not worth the time or money and I am american.

[ApollosInsight]

What I noticed about women who're younger is that they go for the wildboys until they get pregnant by these guys, then they realize that these guys aren't suited for being responsible for their children. The "nice guy" doesn't get noticed @ all until he has his career going and is earning a nice, stable paycheck. Then, he's bombarded by all of these women who're single moms b/c now he's their ideal of a man, but it's too late for them to settle down.

Karma bites back.

[jtheice]

@ApollosInsight well said!!

[ApollosInsight]

@jtheice Thanks bro. Here's some advice for you if you're considered to be the "nice guy" type: Avoid women in America, Canada, the UK and Australia. Go to Central and South America, Russia, and SouthEast Asia. You'll notice the diferences in women in non-westernized countries.

[Kilox1000]

@ApollosInsight maybe some people don't want to settle, and live a boring "stable life"

[ApollosInsight]

@Kilox1000 Who says that a stable life has to be "boring"?

[Kilox1000]

@ApollosInsight cause thats what "stabling and settling" is. staying in one spot with a steady income just like daddy wants you to. boring.

[ApollosInsight]

@Kilox1000 Again, who says anything about being in one spot for an income? There are plenty of couples who earn their living by traveling the roads. & even if there are couples who prefer to stay in one spot, that doesn't mean that they're bored. People make their lives out the way they want. It seems to me though that you haven't lived much on this planet yet.

[Kilox1000]

@ApollosInsight nevermind. your to dumb, you wouldn't understand

[ApollosInsight]

@Kilox1000 It's quite ironic that you're calling me dumb, yet you don't know how to use proper grammar. Even worse, it'll take you longer to even learn it. You have my pity.

[Kilox1000]

@ApollosInsight lol yeah you can bitch about my grammar all you want. you think I care? your still a weirdo reverse feminist who hates woman. thats right i saw your channel fag. go to your we hate women club and suck some cock while I go out and enjoy my life getting the girls you can't because your to busy "settling down" ur whole life.

[JaesinJei]

@ApollosInsight I agree with everything you say, my sister is a living example of stupid women that you talk about.

[ApollosInsight]

@JaesinJei I have 2 sisters AND my mom living the exact same way that I described. All of them have children out of wedlock, making them community hoes, yet they don't want to admit it. Then they want a man who can meet standards 1-100, as if he's just going to show out of the blue for them in an instant.

[MrJohnboy006]

@ApollosInsight Yep and most resonable men who have it together wont touch them.

[MrJohnboy006]

@ApollosInsight So true mens revenge at its best, The nice guy who makes 6 figures says no to older single women looking at them now. Fuck them

[ApollosInsight]

@MrJohnboy006 Oh yeah, there's a saying about that: "Living well is the best revenge". I just love it how these same idiotic women resort to listening to Oprah or Tyra Banks when they're so-called "trying to understand men & the world around them" when they KNOW EXACTLY that they're past their prime & over the hill.

[telemanque]

@MrJohnboy006 I like that...SALUTE

[fredstime]

This video is true.

Too many women from 18 - 35 use their looks for all it's worth, and then something strange happens. The things that use to point north, are starting to sag south. A few of the women see the light, and will find a guy. The other use-to-be hotties are still holding out for Brad Pitt. It is funny... when they were perky and perfect they couldn't get Mr. Cool, but near 40 they think they will suddenly snatch him.

After their looks are gone, then they will settle.

[Wytchfinde]

@fredstime" After their looks are gone, then they will settle."

That's exactly when they deserve to be shunned for all the crap they have put men through.

[jab7168]

@Wytchfinde ...bingo

[MrJohnboy006]

@fredstime settle for what? Most men will just pump and dump them. There no reason for a LTR or marriage its a bad deal all the way around. They the middle age women think they have it all and men are at there becken call but they are in fantasyland because most men are just getting sweet revenge and are just playing the game.

[RetroJenny]

I blame Hollywood and the fashion industry for brainwashing people. I think the constant exposure to these so called perfect individuals are causing people to live in a fantasy world. No woman or man lives up to this perfect image of a mate they have created in their minds.

[missmorgiepooh18]

i totally agree with you on this subject. i myself have standards about what kind of man i want but sometimes you have to give and take

[SuzSeptember]

Its all fine in telling women to lower their standards ..why not tell men to lower their standards and find a good woman instead to the hottest woman, and then not complain when that hot woman he chose screwed him over.

[jonathanparis1988]

@SuzSeptember

that's because women's standards tend to be far higher than men's.

Most men just want a woman who is attractive (not supermodel but someone who takes care of herself and dresses well enough for her man) and someone who treats a man well.

-someone who takes care of herself to look attractive

-someone who treats him well and is pleasant

Hell, American men don't even know what femininity is, so women are "off the hook" in the States. How sad.

I'm going abroad!

[SuzSeptember]

@jonathanparis1988..Lol Good luck abroad. But I still think men are more obsessed with looks than women, more women will settle for the plain guy. But not many men will do that, they like having the trophy so they dont look bad infront of other men. How many nice looking men do you see with an over weight or ugly women, Slim to NONE! But you look around, lots of pretty women with not so good looking men or they are over weight. Women dont care about looks as much as men do.

[MissKimber01]

I think this is the most ridiculous video, not in the opinion, completely open to that, in the gum chewing/smacking tone of your view. Your dialogue and mannerism reminds me of a surfer dude teen, its disturbing maaan. Later!

[theherdmentality]

@MissKimber01 lol...yup

[blackspace007]

You made a good point. Yes we do whine at times, and being in the upper 30's (looking more like mid 20's I might add) it is hard to find men in our age group. Most men in this age group are already married or is single but for good reason. The pool is smaller for available men for women in general, but as we get older it gets smaller and smaller. We want to have high standards because that's what we had from the beginning. Who wants to lower their standards just because they're getting older?

[Mr84Baby]

annoyin speech ibarely diciphered what he said

[sandeezy17]

@Mr84Baby I hear ya. I can't really read a word you wrote. Im glad you took the time to sit there blankly as you watched my video & tried to write a comment though. ;) Smirk

[cilwaycofe]

@sandeezy17 Example "Chilli" from TLC.Shes gonna be lonely for life if she doesn't cometo her senses!!

[sandeezy17]

@cilwaycofe Right!!!

[lamentate07]

After the age of 40+, women still looking for the same kind of man they wanted at the age of 25 except richer are kidding themselves. You need to lower your standards because you are DONE! yesterday's news. Rich, handsome, successful men don't want an old woman unless they have low self esteem. Most rich guys i know in their 40's refuse to date women their own age, and i don't blame them. no woman that age can afford to have those demands.

sorry.

[7575047]

@lamentate07 Damn straight!

[jab7168]

@lamentate07 I fit the bill, I'll be damed if I go out with a women who would have rejected me when I was working my way up to where I am today.

[andicatz]

@lamentate07 You're right. Toyboys in their twenties are much better than rich whiney played out 40+ year old men. How stupid are you? Age is not an affliction. Sex gets better with age..for women according to statistics. Then there is other factors for same age relationship ie they are mature and have things in common.

[TheAfroQween]

Women in amerikkka have been trained and brainwashed to believe that having babies 'young' and the 'biological clock running out' is something they should live by,having a man 'to take good care of them like daddy' is a way to maintain a male dominated supported society for one & put more pressure on ppl to marry &procreate & fall into debt vs develop meaningful relationships, establish family units and creating whole well adjusted children.

[TheAfroQween]

I prefer 'older' men & women anyway bc MOST are already emotionally and sexually settled in what they want in a mate and know who they are for the most part- and that 30 or 40+ man or woman makes better decisions & judgments on personality and character, like Francis Cress Welsing said- the thing of running to get married so young & have babies before educating yourself is preposterous - you should look to settle down AFTER you educate SELF, life experience & establish your career.

[TheAfroQween]

Its not only what 30+ women can bring to the table its also about IF the men she's 'looking' for are able and WILLING to provide what she needs/wants in HIM & the man being WILLING to maintain it as well as what 'she brings to the table'.

[sandeezy17]

Valid points. My big point is no one is perfect & to stick to tough to some list of standards can see the right one gone. There has to be a give & take. Also if ladies are doing their thing, hell ya do it! But all to often those emotions get involved & you ladies want to be with just him & that is when they end up in the wrong situation. Men can have sex & say bye bye a lot easier than women. Fact.

Thanks for the comments.

[TheAfroQween]

@sandeezy17 Regarding your fact: I am a woman & before I married, I had NO PROBLEM having sex and saying 'bye bye' to a man ESPECIALLY if he didn't have in common with me other elements out side the bedroom. ALL women aren't the same. Women invented the 'game'- ;) If a woman knows she is ready to settle down and the man isn't she needs to say bye bye ANY way, vice versa for the man. I know some men that DO NOT know how to let go just bc they got some cookies- so that's not totally true.

[TheAfroQween]

@sandeezy17 I'd rather meet a dude with high standards ie my husband than NO standards & by the way he's TEN years older than me, or see a Queen have too HIGH standards and by pass the fake one that is pretending to be what he's not JUST BC he wants that woman for a 'challenge' to get the goods etc. vs watching a woman who will drag home anything just like men do---

[TheAfroQween]

For one I do agree with you that BOTH MEN AND WOMEN should look for what each can offer the other on an emotional/spiritual vibration. Secondly I am a MARRIED woman in my late thirties & STILL are approached by men MUCH younger with wants & needs and have nothing of substance ie personality wise to offer or 'bring to the table'. I also have women friends that are very happy being single, aren't 'looking' for a mate & are approached by older & younger men ALL the time. 

[memyself2k]

It's not only "High Standards", it's more so about REALISTIC STANDARDS. How many men are ever gonna make six figures?

[MrJohnboy006]

@memyself2k Its more common then you think. Six fig is a requirement for some areas.

[juneride]

Wemen DON't look for a PERFECT man!!! It's just an excuse for not being able to find even an AVERAGE guy.

[sandeezy17]

My only comment is that the most important thing for any women is to be self sufficient. Get your life going on & put the vibe out (positive) that you want a relationship & know this in your head. Be smart about dates obviously someone with a life. After about 2 dates you should have a good idea yay or nay.

[mcgregwood7]

A man will keep you in a relationship forever then he will decide that "it's not right." Then what do you do? Your in your 30s and aren't married yet, then you must start over...but men prefer younger chics so now at age 35 till the day you die you must compete with younger women. In terms of fussiness, WHITE MEN are the worst. Most of them aren't even that good looking but they want a hot chic with big boobs and 5-10 years younger. 

[sandeezy17]

@mcgregwood7 Valid points. Coming from my perspective as a woman you shouldnt ever move in with a guy & if its not goin in the direction you want by the 2 yr mark you need to bounce. As a woman you of course need 2 know what you want but the outlandish expectations & list r crazy. If it works it works. The best thing to do is b a woman who is self reliant ,active & has hobbies. Most man are attractted 2 these women who seem disinterested or bluntly not desperate.

[7575047]

@mcgregwood7 Total BS. I have been online dating and met many women single, divorced and single moms. Their profile reads like a want ad rather than a resume/CV. There are SOOOOOOOO many decent guys but women want perfection that they'll NEVER find. Women have been brainwashed by their friends and media. They hold the key to the prison they THINK they are in. The most important concept they have forgotten is COMPROMISE. Men compromise everyday but women feel they deserve it all. Yeah, right.

[mcgregwood7]

The problem is mostly men. Men want everything, hot body, intelligence, good career, good cook, willing to deal with their laziness and bull shit. I am a white woman and I know too well. The problem is these fussy men don't have a lot to offer. The ones that have a lot to offer are untouchable. Not all women have high standards but they still can't find a man bc men put themselves on pedestals. Men get worse every generation, I swear.

[MrJohnboy006]

@mcgregwood7 Why should I settle for less when I am fit athelic with hair and successful middle age man. I see the women over 40 who dont take care for themselves, overweight, unfit, depressed, and tainted from past relationships. You bet I will be fussy most middle age women have no will to better themselves so they can feel better about themselves. I am not wasting my time for those.

[eastwood2414]

This is really funny, b/c he's reall talking about his wifes single friends..haha. But he says it in a sarcastic way...."I mean....good luck..."

[cmt51597]

Well said, bro! Happy you had the balls to say this! So, so Fing true and these women need to hear this more often!!! Yes, what the heck are they "bringing to the table!" Wake up and smell the coffee ladies....you don't have an eternity to find a guy!

[sandeezy17]

Thanks for your well stated feedback!! ;)

[ZZOni]

lol @ (presumably) your daughter closing the door.

[sandeezy17]

It's no wander? Nice comment coming from a guy going by dickbiter! Enough said!

[dickbiter22]

you look like a big compromise so it's no wander you think all women should follow your wife

[sandeezy17]

Oh, Im sorry you re actually a little angry man hater. Dickbiter! Dont worry youll be right in the lonely category in your 40s wondering where he is! ;)

[LincolnOnTheWeb]

I read of 30 odd year old single women who cant find Mr. Right, freeze their eggs. I hope that one day a the perfect man will come along and approach her, wine and dine and woo her, pay for her dinners, beg and plead with her to give him a chance. If she then considers him worthy enough, she may allow him the privilege to unbuckle his belt, pull down his trousers, bend down and jerk off in a petri dish at a fertility center in an attempt to fertilize those rotting eggs.

[sandeezy17]

Thats is a hilarious way of puttin it! This certainly happens though. Thanks

[josecitomadera]

I agree. Their problem is that they believe they will never grow old and die.

[EvenStupider]

I agree with you 100%. I know alot of older women that are still looking for doctors and someone of such an apsiring career,meanwhile they're plain janes.Females that honestly have nothing to offer yet believe they're worthy of meeting someone that is so extravagant.I think there comes a time in any individuals life where they gotta stop worrying about looks, seeing as they eventually die off, and instead look for someone who can compliment them and their lifestyle.

[sandeezy17]

Thank you for your your 100% right comment.:)

[soulcolletor]

LOL, some one is getting upset....

[soulcolletor]

Maybe women are woundering what you bring to the table....

Try a save, get your eyebrows waxed and maybe a facial.

[sandeezy17]

Hey u truck driver go try & b funny somewhere else! First of all if u listened I don't need to worry about women just a woman Because I'm MARRIED. So she doesn't like gurly men thats y shes with me, yeah a real man. Oh im sorry ur probably not very bright now r u MR. MACHO TRUCK DRIVER who does pedi & manicures. Hey mayb the groomin isn't workin, it's highly unlikely u get much action anyway. Go drive ur truck somewhere!

[sexyelyssa]

Oops, my fault, meant he wasn't good looking at all and shallow.

[sexyelyssa]

I understand where he's coming from. He's not saying anything wrong, but if your looking for the best then you have to offer good quality.  Like for instance, I dated a not so great looking guy (kinda chubby) and he wasn't satisfied with me. He didn't have much to offer me in reality. His expectation was a model like. He's right, some people are living on the other side of the planet. To top it off the guy I dated was no my type at all, I thought he was cool at first (but shadow).

[sandeezy17]

Thank you for your comment. I think your feeling me. I hope things are all you expect them to be.

[emkate71]

Is it women who need to lower their expectations - or men who need to up their game???

[sandeezy17]

Well u tell me it seems that the ones cryin da blues r da women!! There the single lonely ones gettin no love becuz of their ridiculous expectations. Like I said in my video these r my experiences. Thanks for the comment.

[chains8]

yup, the standards for women wanting mr.perfect need to come down especially when a lot of the girls who want everything are not really that attractive. I'm 20 and I dated a 32 year old (not really a good idea) but they want everything and have nothing offer.

[sandeezy17]

Yeah, they need to be more reallistic! thanks for ur comment.

[chains8]

You are speaking the truth!!!

[sandeezy17]

thanks for the feedback!

[tanya312]

right on!

[sandeezy17]

thanks for the comment!