How to gain confidence with girls - FOR GUYS ONLY!

[davidgem]

I never understood how men are expected to grow confidence out of nowhere.

[vitalcoaching]

@davidgem good point! growing confidence out of nowhere? you actually do it by watching your posture, the tone of your voice, what you say, etc. In other terms, confidence is an ATTITUDE you train!

[ACfireandiceDC]

Just the THOUGHT of talking with a cute girl sends a cold chill up my spine.

[dviator86]

They need a guide for how to talk to PITTSBURGH girls lol

[Enigmonkey]

"Go dance with other women to get our attention", "we laugh at guys who approach us", "small talk is uninteresting"

Not my type, though more than likely flaming hot.

[u2hubbard]

My confidence is based on my results. If I have a hot chick and I'm happy with her my confidence is up. And what is strange girls approach me when I'm in a relationship and I'm happy. Notice I said when I'm in a relationship and happy with the one I'm with. Being in a unhappy relationship is worse than being single. But when I'm single like I am now I have a hard time finding a girl. And when I travel outside of the country my confidence with women is up. Can anyone explain this.

[Thraxz666]

i can say the same thing about aproaching girls, you gain their intrest and ... i'v finished sentences for them, ofcourse now that they hav made themselves available how dare i deverge from this gift they have bestowed upon me!! no imagination, no passion and not even a raw animal lust - so a male must show them the way? and yet somehow being a male makes my only goal to be spreading her legs!? i predict a great shift in womens opinions and coaching just as there is for men now. Bigots!

[MrLloyd321]

Very good advice im going to try this with my gf as im not very confident :D

[inforest777]

Im a woman. It is very true when the women says that we are all not the same and that one manuel of techniques works for all of us. Exactly what I think when I have heard a lot of these techniques in the past

[inforest777]

I suppose it is because of the demographic that needs this kind of help.

[inforest777]

The comments section of these tips with women videos always contain bitching about females. Wonder why? :/

[giveusascream]

'pull a bird' so english lol

[brann133]

im screwd!! I wanna ask her, but she will reject me, i just know it... Thers no point. But who cares jacking off is awesome!!!!

[hopelessthug]

womens are stupid retards , why the hell i need them other than bed ?

do i want to spend on someone? no

do i want to hear crap? no

[stephgohard]

@hopelessthug lol

[inforest777]

@hopelessthug and thats why they dont like you.

[Ladygagsalot]

Woman are crazy. Here's a tip: don't treat them nice instead treat them like shit and they will be all over you.

[inforest777]

@Ladygagsalot Only a certain type of woman.

[mrtundra45]

women like to be treated like slut .....

[velveteyes79]

This made me Laugh.......i'm male by the way!

[troydeancarpenter]

I think the problem is men are approaching women so much that they're taking them for granted. If ANY woman approached me, I would feel very honored. It doesn't matter how she makes the attempt. I would appreciate the simple fact that she approached me at all. I think what SOME women need is to NOT be approached at all. Let them approach the men. Once they find out how difficult it is, they might appreciate it more.

[matt2house]

@troydeancarpenter ah but not all women will do that, some like to flirt with you and start playing mind games.

[troydeancarpenter]

@matt2house - We can tell them the same thing they tell us. Say, "Oh well, if you don't step up to the plate, it's your loss." We will tell them all about how much we like to be approached because we like aggressive women and meanwhile we will subject them to rejection etc. In short we will act selfish to their feeling and then have the nerve to tell them what WE want. Okay, maybe I wouldn't go quite that far.We don't need to treat as we are treated, but I still say men should chill some.

[matt2house]

@troydeancarpenter I think that works both ways, a lot of women does liked to be approached by men and men likes to be approached by women. But it depends on how it's done. In truth both of them can be quite picky. 

[troydeancarpenter]

@matt2house - You're right but I'm not so sure things are balanced.

[troydeancarpenter]

@matt2house Your thoughts are good but at the same time you're making things sounds more balanced than the way they really are in my opinion.Don't misunderstand,I agree that it should work both ways,but the problem is it's NOT working both way.Take 5 average looking guys & tell them to sit in a bar with their arms crossed & see how many women they meet that night.Have 5 average women do the same exact thing.Record your results & tell me what you find & then ask yourself why women complain.

[troydeancarpenter]

@matt2house Your thoughts are good but at the same time you're making things sounds more balanced than the way they really are in my opinion.Don't misunderstand,I agree that it should work both ways,but the problem is it's NOT working both ways.Take 5 average looking guys & tell them to sit in a bar with their arms crossed & see how many women they meet that night.Have 5 average women do the same exact thing.Record your results & tell me what you find & then ask yourself why women complain.

[Andrewz05]

@troydeancarpenter You sir have hit the nail on the head! Well put! I've felt that way for years. Some women are so uptight and snooty, and bitch about dating, when they actually have it way easier, I mean there's obviously different bullshit they have to deal with, but still most of them just sit on their high-horse and accept or decline men's offers. If the roles were reversed, they'd be shocked on how daunting approaching women really is.

[troydeancarpenter]

@Andrewz05 I agree, you also hit the nail right on the head.

[5709843]

Yeah, when a bloke sees a gorgeous girl he wants to fuck her. Thats that.

Who is the bitch talking? I bet she has sucked so much cock that she cant help but puke. She's a nigga bitch.

[mrlonerme]

The only reason i watched this video is because of the 5 hottie

[bleroblerimi]

i just see all girls as targets.. and i wanna get all of em. just fuck em and leave em they boring as fuck.. the only thing i like is the sex with them.. and after fucking them i cant wait to get em off my bed and send em home lol

[schneidy81]

@bleroblerimi Dude you need to grow up. You are not going to find happiness this way. In fact you will find yourself alone. Women are not objects to be used for your selfish gratification

[bleroblerimi]

@schneidy81 i cant help it man...

[bleroblerimi]

@schneidy81 i cant help it man... when i see a woman all i see is SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX... FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK.. im serious

[DaRealistKilla]

"If you were yourself than maybe I might be interested"? Ummm I don't believe in that.. Because even been yourself, you're still in that luck of draw due to the fact that that particular girl you choose to talk to and be yourself to, might be looking for a particular type of guy. The process goes for the opposite sex too. The only difference is that, majority of the time, unless you can literally talk in a interesting manner and keep it up, your chances are high. If u can't speak, then good luck

[YellowMan3r]

wow lol it actualy worked



[MutilateYOU]

Shit, I know what to do. I'm just to shy :( This helped though :P

[firefei87]

Men and women are all people. The game is simple if you are a child like adult then you will get a child like response. If you like getting your emotions raped and never called again after that first nightcap then thats on you. Deal with your issues and understand what you like to do. The main thing is to get out of your house and not for the sake of someone else. If are having trouble with getting girls or getting guys then your having trouble loving and liking yourself.

[stellarshore]

wow, you would think nature would have sorted this conumdrum of men trying to get women by now. when a guy gets rejected he wants to die, u can even taste it. when a guy is walkin up to a girl trust me, hes not treating it like a hobby, most men have their hearts on a target and women turn them down for some of the most bizare reasons -"he showed no confidence", this is why our species is fucked up, women choosing men who are arrogant, lying, self important cunts. bad seeds for the wombs.

[cisco6789]

actually this is probably the best advice for any guy I ended up here for the guys only part very interesting like girls would click it ha. But yeah I just talk to them like a human being and flirt with one with them all. Like that they don't think I like them. I like having fun with them, teasing them but my intent is never to sleep with them or even get their number. I just like that innocent feeling of turning a boring area whether waiting in line or in class into a fun environment.

[lemurlover71]

The only reason I clicked on this vid is because it told me not to (for GUYS only).

[vitalcoaching]

@lemurlover71 it worked! haha!

[lemurlover71]

@vitalcoaching Yeah, I love reverse psychology , even if it doesn't work in my favor.

[thegoochieguy]

i don't want confidence with girls i want confidence with getting other men[ to get all hot and sweaty with me...]

[wiitarded23]

Thanks for the tips, but was this recorded in a fallout shelter?

[84slugz]

why does it have to be so fuckin technical, either u like me or u don't...who gives a muthafuck

[LaKatieDear]

oh boys you dont need this, pretty much just smile and crack a joke or two dont be up her ass all the time and GIVE HER YOUR NUMBER! if she texts or calls youve got it in the bag

[siliconsurf]

first tip, speak fucken english!

[ajmalnrc]

useful tips...

[ajmalnrc]

useful tips...

[SirHappyThe1st]

Just have fun ........simply really.

[two6c4you]

listen to the way the lady is talking and u will understand how ladyz r.. the key is no matter wht u talking about it has to intrest her or change to the next topic n dnt start showing intrest until u knw its hookd. lights out! BRAVO!

[1973metalmaster]

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[DisturbinglyAmazing]

bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks

[ACTM90]

@DisturbinglyAmazing

lick on these nuts and suck the dick

[Carly808080]

wow thats so disrespectful even if it is true,thats just retarded

[azzleeka]

audio sux anus

[Zigguret]

Audio Sucks

[ANDREW26101]

pretty much this bitch is saying come up to her say a few words and walk away tell her you see her around its game and chase women are like childern you got to be agressive with them the bad boy gets there attention pretty much they want a man who treats them like a dog when they call dont answer call them back an hour later lol it works then they say i been tryna to call you then you say ya i been busy doing somthings they get butterfly wtf lol i think there stupid and have no clue abou

[kimranahmed]

SirHappyThe1st you have to agree women don't know what they want but guys konw. Even if a guy acts like all others and picks up cheese line it doesnt mean he is not real or he will not love you. You also have to help him and take the things forward but you stupid girls just keeps rejecting and findally end up will someone bougs or unreal who never call you back after having sex

[GriffinWRC]

I agree... No help whatsoever with some girls... :(

[handy207]

y doesnt the women by the FUCKING drink ahaha!

[bushinguy87]

dumb bitch!

[bfrye1990]

no wonder she dnt get laid lol.

[1971daddy]

she sounds like a scotish old woman

[amidzajebekozu]

fuck this bitch basically she's saying we r not good enough for them it's bad enough that we gotta make a first move but w gotta be charming treat like princeses we gotta be sucesfull funny entertaining fuck that shit i'd rather turn gay

[ANDREW26101]

I feel you bro but dont think that way i understand what you meen the reason why most women are single is because they allow it to be women are very confussing at times and you dont know what they want and they quick to reject you i been there best thing is to have fun read them by the eyes man the eyes dont lie you can tell if she wants you that way and your chances of getting reject will be slim

[nickymaroun]

So basically she is saying, she wants to be treated like a dog by guys. She's 1 in a trillion. The rest of us like it when you treat us like princesses.

[mnypwrrspkt]

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[Danny77uk]

If she's meeting men like this, she's going to the wrong places. Men are not all the same. She sounds like a right TART.

[janicepjam]

she sounds like a tart

[041012vic]

FROM A WOMANS POINT OF VIEW she is talking alot of sense she i right, .If ur wanting more than one thing which i doubt but if u do NEVER say-do u wana come back to mine ,ask her on a date.First smile at her alot n if u get smiles back u no shes interested.And a decent woman wud never go over to a lad first i no its the 21st century but its bad coz it makes women look desperate.If they do go over tho its usually coz ther fed up of waiting 4 him to make a move.n they are like hunters.

[ANDREW26101]

i understand some things you say about women but you say they tired of waiting for us to make a move?? but when we do they reject us or there friend drags them away from you making you look or feel embrassed face it women are make more choice in men we done what we could women will have to just come up to men because they dont know what they want

[WickedKnight07]

I couldn't agree more, women have no clue of what they want. Its their thing I guess, being all mysterious and hard to figure out. The sad fact is women only want the good men when they're old as fuck. When they're young, its only all about setting a record of how many hearts they can break. Sorry ladies but thats the truth like it or not and I dont care if I'm thought of as an asshole because of that. I'm sure many other guys would agree with me on that subject.

[crazycompassion]

LOL! the woman is truly up herself!

[fareel2]

the best way 2 pull a girl is 2 be totally real with yourself...and also know who u really are, and realize u both are only human, and wen approaching a lady u are not some God, and u dont have 2 try and get in her head...the best way is 2 just be yourself....fuck trying 2 know wut she's thinking judge her only after u've got her #...make sure u make the conversation gear toward u getting 2 kno her in some way at another time in the future-if u dont get it make sure its because she's got a bf!!

[fareel2]

she is not all that bad...she is just speaking from experience

[Alex142502]

its also important if the girl goes to your house and sees vital coaching how to date videos lying around lol

[od012]

dat slut dont know shit, she'e just a club gyal, proper airhead

[esrdin]

Hahaha, this woman is full of it!

I genuinly feel sorry for anyone that tries to pull this chick, i mean ive had to hear her talk for less than 5 minutes, and already the bullshit meter is off the scale!

She is so bitter, and sounds like she's getting on a bit, let me guess...always the bridesmaid never the bride?? If your attitude really is like that, i have a spoiler for you...you wil die alone!! Now leave the advice giving to people that actually know something, and go sort your life out!

[fareel2]

not really

[esrdin]

Hahaha, this woman is full of it!

I genuinly feel sorry for anyone that tries to pull this chick, i mean ive had to hear her talk for less than 5 minutes, and already the bullshit meter is off the scale!

She is so bitter, and sounds like she's getting on a bit, let me guess...always the bridesmaid never the bride?? If your attitude really is like that, i have a spoiler for you...you wil die alone!! Now leave the advice giving to people that actually know something, and go sort your life out!

[springbox1982]

She talking bollock go out with the intention to pull but be confident in your abilities. You need to read situations women are looking for a man with values, you need to show a woman the values you have by being confident respectful and approaching at the right moment. Watch mystery he gives good advice. I know it works. What a woman says and thinks are totally different. Listening to a woman for advice is like listening to a gay man ur get no where except a cup of tea around a girls nans.

[Andybaby]

She sounds like a hardened club-goer, who rejects men for entertainment.

Guys, do not listen to these cluelessly fussy women; who will probably end up alone, lonely, and never-married.

[tichiler87]

this iz reallli helpfull

and very informative indeed,,

DE girl sounds soooo fuckin sexy wid er accent..

[BadBoyofRock]

I needed this...my confidence is quite shot lately, so this is comforting. Thank you :)

[vitalcoaching]

you're welcome

[fareel2]

dont let women or a lack of get ya down...u are your own boss, and u are in control...Ur the man so to speak!! and as long as u know that everyone else will 2...(no one can read your mind but they can read your body language) real talk

[89RockLee]

@fareel2 more guys need to hear this, bruh

[FlashingFountain]

more like, "what? look at her hideous shoes! how can he go talk to her and not me! im gunna go slut this joint up"

[Joshuaemx]

What she said is totally opposite of what you said. She said that we men should not always focus on women that much. But you said that we men should always give our full attention to the particular women.

[vitalcoaching]

Give your full attention? - Not sure in waht way I said that and where I said it - You have to be subbtle and know what your target is - You have many ways of giving value to women while still increasing your power... Focus on that ;)

[coltfan111]

ntohing beats NATURAl confidence and silver tounge...wen u plan stuff its jst comes across a bit fake n creepy..jst have the confidence to roll with it..

[RussX5Z]

Vitalcoaching is the man! You rock and you have a good attitude on this topic and life. And you are the real deal, and what makes it even bettr is that your very down to earth and not sassy like this David Deagelo guy anyways I'll be back bye.

[vitalcoaching]

Thanks!

[darkenergyx]

Wow i feel so stupid now lol

[vitalcoaching]

no need to ;) - If you did not get it right in the past, forgive yourself, learn from mistakes and develop new skills

[zatathor]

your work is great!!!! well i just need an advice my friend plz! i want a girl so much, i missed the chance to speak to her in a party, and i am angry with myself! now the only way to contact her is by msn or sms. i want really to speak her. tell me what should i do plz? i am so uncomfortable with this girl. This has never happened at the past with other girls.

[vitalcoaching]

msn is a great - send her a teasing line or invite her for something fun

[zatathor]

ok ill do it. but if she denies? should i keep invinting her till she accepts?

[vitalcoaching]

nop! accept a "no, thanks!" sign and connect with girls who are open for it - You don't want to sound like a desperate space invader, right?

[zatathor]

ok but i asked her and she couldn't. Should i try one more?

[vitalcoaching]

wait a week and try one more time in a different way with a simple one line invitation like "Meet me at the juice bar 8pm Friday?" - If she does not reply or is not interested move on

[zatathor]

ok then ill do it this way. but a last question. if she doesn't reply and i dont meet here, what is the best way then to tell her that i want her so much? and believe me this is true. all i want now is to tell this thing to her but with the best way. what do u suggest?

[vitalcoaching]

You don't tell her you want her so much EVER - it's a turn off ;)

[zatathor]

well ok u are right, but i want her to know that i am interested with her!

[vitalcoaching]

she already knows that - you emailed her, invited her - she knows what's going on in your mind ;)

[zatathor]

thx man. although se said no, i am now happy because i try now!!! i will move on as u say. thx again for your good words :)

[a012345]

I feel like it's all about statistics nowadays. Just put yourself out there as much as you can and eventually you'll get one. Might not be the one you want though.

[vitalcoaching]

Wise! - A couple of new skills will greatly help you improve your success though ;)

[nickless1980]

the sad thing is nowadays that woman have sooo many choices over different guys they don't see guys as something special anymore. As guys see them.

Guys lost completly their value.

[spookboom]

good this is what i alweys do in party or in day time but to be clear with u freinds somtime u dont want to lose girl coz u relly love and u cant say that u relly love hir coz she will think u r just liying thnx for the video it is just waht i advice my freind to do dont be shiy and talke to all u dont know who will love u ..

[vitalcoaching]

exactly! you got it!

[pedroncornelas]

the thing is..man are strategic.. they find something they want and they go for it! and they find what they want (women) by visual stimulus.. doing that (just enjoying her company) is a self-control exercise

[vitalcoaching]

thanks

[Blazerelf]

i bet she is english

[vitalcoaching]

spot on!