What upsets me is how alot of single mothers are being judged all the same. THEY'RE ALL NOT THE SAME. And it's all because of them fucked up single mothers that makes them all being looked at as a problem. my bff was w/her husband for 7 years married 4 years but been together for 3. They had kid's after they got married. Sadly he passed away to an fatal illness and she's now a single mom. She didn't chose to be one. But she's being thrown into the category of fucked up single mom's. GET EDUCATED
I think it's the fault of both parties. It's alot of our sistahs & bothas grew up with no father or male figure period. And alot of times most dont take a step back & say, 'hey i dont need to repeat this cycle'.
JayLove47 you are very wise. My x and I divorced after 20 years of marriage and 11 children. While he does pay child support, his exposure to his children is minimal -- less than 10% of what he asked. I agree daughters can become promiscuious. I admit don't know how to raise men -- I saw my dad raised 1 gay son. Other than having my sons help me with household repairs, searching the Internet for instructions on how to tie a half Windsor knot, I am ill equipped to raise a boy into a man. I do try
Hey man I stumbled across one of ur vidz and began watching alot of ur videos. I am a black teenager and many MANY of ur videos makes sense to me, with this one being the most. I have a dad, but his dad died before he was born, so he didn't have that father figure in his life. He stuck around and tried his best to teach me to be a man. Thats all I wanna say, dont know if it's relevant or not but it's something I want to share
First off those guys are irresponsible anyway. And that is their fault. When women pick these irresponsible dudes and sleep with them despite their actions proving their unworthiness, that is the woman's fault. Thing is that people need to be responsible so their children will learn principles from them. It goes back to the days of free love when the family unit started breaking up. Add to that women being able to have some financial equality and society changes.
I feel its all on the woman cause she is the one to make the choose to open or close her legs we all have chooses and if they choose to have a baby from a dead beat dad thats all on them
@Force100able -You really need to stop making excuses for bad behavior everytime a black man gets 10 different women pregnant and choosing to not be a father to those children that's not the systems fault that's his fault as a man
You dumbass fools want to blame everything on the system instead of being responsible for your own actions
This is why 70% percent of black kids are raised without a father because of Slutty Hood Women who sleep around and don't know who the baby's father is.
@tankbrazy89 really thats why? I'm black and I was raised in a single-mother home and my mother isn't a slut you short-sighted ignoramus. I know who my father is, he just happens to be a deadbeat, crack-addled, alcoholic who wasn't that way when she met him. My mother raised my brother and I excellently while still going through school and is now a surgeon. I dont need my father because I have a grandfather and prolific, honorable black men through history I know how to be a man.
Let's talk about the mothers who purposely keep the fathers out of their children's lives, or mothers who commit paternity fraud, not to mention the fact that most women choose to be single mothers.
@wclac Most of the time these Men know "Exactly" where the mother resides I have to wonder about your viewpoint...there have been great mothers but fathers that "Refuse" to commit something I have experienced
@JAYLOVE47 Dang!!! Looked like u were about to cry wen u started talking about wat a man IS. You had me crying a little bit too right there.... til u Busted out PUSSY CAT! lol
It is the women's fault. They don't want college educated or hard working blue collar brothers. They only want saggy pants thugs who are in and out of jail. Sistas don't want anything but dumb thugs like Waka Flocka.
Today's YBM &YBW are horribly unequipped of the knowledge they need to have to maintain a healthy relationship. Too Many BM grow up thinking that the quantity of women they can bed defines how masculine they are & too many BW dont value or respect themselves enough to find and appreciate a good man. A lot of older BM have failed the youth. They left the BW the nurturers raise "responsible men" and "virtuous women" and look at current condition of our community.
Prostitution has been around way too long to make that claim. And in some countries its a way of life because of the countries politics, economy and education system.
the institution of slavery has a lot to do with the post slavery traumatic syndrome; too many blacks are still living with the slavery mentality. And prostitution goes both ways; i walk the streets at night and i see plenty of brothers walking around prostituting.
Growing up it was like my father was not in the home. He hung out more in the streets. He was always being laid off at the factories. He was more a disciplinarian than a father. I turned out okay. Some men should not be fathers . They need wear condoms. I am like a uncle and father to my sisters kids. I want to have kids but not until I get financially stable enough to have a family.
I agree with your commentary. My sister has kids. She had first child at 22 and her last child is five months.. She is 37. She has 4 different baby daddy's. Her first child father is bitch and he does not come see him or support him. Her 2,3,4 child is a bitch and does support them. He visit them when it is convenient. Her 5 child father is a bitch and he does not see her. Her 6 child is father is the best father and he is doing what he can financially.
JAYLOVE47, keep doing what your doing because rite now you are the spokes men for good guidance on youtube and you have ever since i seen your videos in 09. Keep up the good work and keep pushing the agenda until they get through their heads that what they doing is not for positive living. ( peace )
Women also have an invisible cloak strategy they play were the bad women would blind in with the good ones to through the lifestyle of good women out the window over shadowing them. More pregnancy, Even more thugs and corruption of the mind set of black people causes negative outcomes. ( And its sad to say but it will get worst )
Some women are on point and some aren't. It just happen to be a large majority of women are being brain washed by society to do wrong things in which society says is rite. Even the parents are to blame because it all centers back to them and they encourage it. Music and movies also plays a role in the downfall of us guys trying to do rite, they say we are not worth anything and we are lame.
You mention the father thing, and I thought it was interesting you brought it up. Today I watching this videos about former porn stars that left that lifestyle, and the majority of them said they went into the business because they didnt have a father figure and were looking for love from men in the wrong places.
We in the new era of the rise of the intelligent thug...better get a girl b4 its too late...i already got female friends describin smart thugs that theyd like...
I work in a jail... a inmate who is 38 years old told me he had 13 kids and 8 babymother's , and he is in jail, so who feeding his kid's, haha...both my brother's are good father's and their dad was not around, I think my mother played a part in that, because my mother always want's to be surrounded by her grandkid's, One of my brother's girlfriend try's her best to keep my niece from around us, My brother pays $200 a week in child support and all his baby mother says is, you can do more!
it's the black woman fault more for getting with the deadbeat black men they know they was deadbeats before they got with them and got pregnant by them. all they gotta do is get counseling if they need it to help them with any problems they have instead of making the mistake of getting pregnant by deadbeat guys.
@atlantagradybaby and they think think they can change them in. Most of these guys already have knocked up different chicks and they still let them hit it. thinking it won't happen to them. These guys are no good, but these Females are to blame, They need to value themselves what happened to Waiting for Marriage
Its not their fault alone, and its no excuse for black men like that to continue to be dead beats. Regardless if a woman is with them or not, they shouldnt be like that and learn to step up.
Its not their fault alone, and its no excuse for black men like that to continue to be dead beats. Regardless if a woman is with them or not, they shouldnt be like that and learn to step up.
@atlantagradybaby -You really need to stop making excuses for bad behavior everytime a black man gets 10 different women pregnant and choosing to not be a father to those children that's not the systems fault that's his fault as a man
You dumbass fools want to blame everything on the woman instead of being responsible for your own actions
@pleeeeep no. jaylove is talking about when men arent there to take care of their children, if the parents are broken up, the man still is able to see the kids, spend time with them and pay for their expenses. but when the guy does not do these things, but instead does nothing, then hes running out
I think a lot of times, being a single unwed parent is like 80% avoidable. That's just me. I think it's very showing how accepted and normal its become.
Yeah! Having a college degree does not mean they take care of their own children. I refused to date a man who does not take care to raise their children. If he will abandon his own children what chance do I have; He will abandon me!
I think it has a lot to do with the women having low standards concerning black men.
superdadtv 2 days ago
Free vasectomies for all!
tarantulady 1 week ago
What upsets me is how alot of single mothers are being judged all the same. THEY'RE ALL NOT THE SAME. And it's all because of them fucked up single mothers that makes them all being looked at as a problem. my bff was w/her husband for 7 years married 4 years but been together for 3. They had kid's after they got married. Sadly he passed away to an fatal illness and she's now a single mom. She didn't chose to be one. But she's being thrown into the category of fucked up single mom's. GET EDUCATED
Brivonn2 3 weeks ago
I think it's the fault of both parties. It's alot of our sistahs & bothas grew up with no father or male figure period. And alot of times most dont take a step back & say, 'hey i dont need to repeat this cycle'.
blaquesoul24 1 month ago
JayLove47 you are very wise. My x and I divorced after 20 years of marriage and 11 children. While he does pay child support, his exposure to his children is minimal -- less than 10% of what he asked. I agree daughters can become promiscuious. I admit don't know how to raise men -- I saw my dad raised 1 gay son. Other than having my sons help me with household repairs, searching the Internet for instructions on how to tie a half Windsor knot, I am ill equipped to raise a boy into a man. I do try
FriendscallmeLouLou 1 month ago
Made me cry
gudgertiara 1 month ago
Hey man I stumbled across one of ur vidz and began watching alot of ur videos. I am a black teenager and many MANY of ur videos makes sense to me, with this one being the most. I have a dad, but his dad died before he was born, so he didn't have that father figure in his life. He stuck around and tried his best to teach me to be a man. Thats all I wanna say, dont know if it's relevant or not but it's something I want to share
ztard21 1 month ago
First off those guys are irresponsible anyway. And that is their fault. When women pick these irresponsible dudes and sleep with them despite their actions proving their unworthiness, that is the woman's fault. Thing is that people need to be responsible so their children will learn principles from them. It goes back to the days of free love when the family unit started breaking up. Add to that women being able to have some financial equality and society changes.
nichirenx 1 month ago
Haha at his music.
missexi718 1 month ago
I feel its all on the woman cause she is the one to make the choose to open or close her legs we all have chooses and if they choose to have a baby from a dead beat dad thats all on them
Force100able 1 month ago
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@Force100able -You really need to stop making excuses for bad behavior everytime a black man gets 10 different women pregnant and choosing to not be a father to those children that's not the systems fault that's his fault as a man
You dumbass fools want to blame everything on the system instead of being responsible for your own actions
1BlackConservative 1 month ago
intelligent brother!!
Tnerdable 1 month ago
@Tnerdable Thank you brutha/sir:)
JAYLOVE47 1 month ago
speak the truth my brother
hotchris2468 1 month ago
The whole video was awesome! Well said! And the intro...LOL...I honestly could have watched that for another 17 minutes too!
Cute hat!
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This is exactly what I have said on my channel again and again and of course I have been thrown under the bus for smh!!!
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
lmao at the intro!!!!!
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This is why 70% percent of black kids are raised without a father because of Slutty Hood Women who sleep around and don't know who the baby's father is.
tankbrazy89 1 month ago
@tankbrazy89 really thats why? I'm black and I was raised in a single-mother home and my mother isn't a slut you short-sighted ignoramus. I know who my father is, he just happens to be a deadbeat, crack-addled, alcoholic who wasn't that way when she met him. My mother raised my brother and I excellently while still going through school and is now a surgeon. I dont need my father because I have a grandfather and prolific, honorable black men through history I know how to be a man.
hoichimaru 1 month ago
@tankbrazy89 Every Single Black Mother is not hood?
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
Let's talk about the mothers who purposely keep the fathers out of their children's lives, or mothers who commit paternity fraud, not to mention the fact that most women choose to be single mothers.
wclac 1 month ago
@wclac Most of the time these Men know "Exactly" where the mother resides I have to wonder about your viewpoint...there have been great mothers but fathers that "Refuse" to commit something I have experienced
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
@JAYLOVE47 Dang!!! Looked like u were about to cry wen u started talking about wat a man IS. You had me crying a little bit too right there.... til u Busted out PUSSY CAT! lol
WINorLOSE86 1 month ago
It is the women's fault. They don't want college educated or hard working blue collar brothers. They only want saggy pants thugs who are in and out of jail. Sistas don't want anything but dumb thugs like Waka Flocka.
NoDrkButtsWanted 1 month ago
@NoDrkButtsWanted Wrong again! This Thug Love is getting played out!
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
Hit the nail on the head, lovin all these new videos
Nvc95 1 month ago
Today's YBM &YBW are horribly unequipped of the knowledge they need to have to maintain a healthy relationship. Too Many BM grow up thinking that the quantity of women they can bed defines how masculine they are & too many BW dont value or respect themselves enough to find and appreciate a good man. A lot of older BM have failed the youth. They left the BW the nurturers raise "responsible men" and "virtuous women" and look at current condition of our community.
kryptoniteCTD 1 month ago
Real Talk man
OfficialKohieArts 1 month ago
LOVE U FOR THIS VIDEO, KEEP UP THE GOOD THOUGHTS, BEAUTIFUL VIDEO!!!!
fem40trish 1 month ago
Also some women trap men so then when the man runs off she talk shit... People need to learn to think b4 they open they legs or plant that seed
Guatorican15 1 month ago
@Guatorican15 The welfare system is no longer designed for "Baby Bait" the stereotypes keep getting recycled!
sophisticatcovergirl 1 month ago
Prostitution has been around way too long to make that claim. And in some countries its a way of life because of the countries politics, economy and education system.
CigarelloznDrank 1 month ago
well maybe its time to change the laws and give custody of the male child to the father.
pleeeeep 1 month ago
@pleeeeep That I agree with. If the father is willing he should automatically get his boys. Because a woman cannot raise a man fully.
nichirenx 1 month ago
the institution of slavery has a lot to do with the post slavery traumatic syndrome; too many blacks are still living with the slavery mentality. And prostitution goes both ways; i walk the streets at night and i see plenty of brothers walking around prostituting.
mahogonyayisien 1 month ago
Growing up it was like my father was not in the home. He hung out more in the streets. He was always being laid off at the factories. He was more a disciplinarian than a father. I turned out okay. Some men should not be fathers . They need wear condoms. I am like a uncle and father to my sisters kids. I want to have kids but not until I get financially stable enough to have a family.
irvin5623 1 month ago
I agree with your commentary. My sister has kids. She had first child at 22 and her last child is five months.. She is 37. She has 4 different baby daddy's. Her first child father is bitch and he does not come see him or support him. Her 2,3,4 child is a bitch and does support them. He visit them when it is convenient. Her 5 child father is a bitch and he does not see her. Her 6 child is father is the best father and he is doing what he can financially.
irvin5623 1 month ago
@irvin5623 Why does your sister have so many fathers for her children?
nichirenx 1 month ago
JAYLOVE47, keep doing what your doing because rite now you are the spokes men for good guidance on youtube and you have ever since i seen your videos in 09. Keep up the good work and keep pushing the agenda until they get through their heads that what they doing is not for positive living. ( peace )
pcheron 1 month ago
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Women also have an invisible cloak strategy they play were the bad women would blind in with the good ones to through the lifestyle of good women out the window over shadowing them. More pregnancy, Even more thugs and corruption of the mind set of black people causes negative outcomes. ( And its sad to say but it will get worst )
pcheron 1 month ago
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Some women are on point and some aren't. It just happen to be a large majority of women are being brain washed by society to do wrong things in which society says is rite. Even the parents are to blame because it all centers back to them and they encourage it. Music and movies also plays a role in the downfall of us guys trying to do rite, they say we are not worth anything and we are lame.
pcheron 1 month ago
You mention the father thing, and I thought it was interesting you brought it up. Today I watching this videos about former porn stars that left that lifestyle, and the majority of them said they went into the business because they didnt have a father figure and were looking for love from men in the wrong places.
AZULAPRO 1 month ago
How did I miss this video? But I was right there singing along with you ^^
AZULAPRO 1 month ago
really good video
fleurgi 1 month ago
We blks seem to take pride in having kids out of wedlock,it's a shame.
lovangels55 1 month ago
@lovangels55 It doesn't matter if they in or out of wedlock... they need to take care of them when they have them.
TrueMoonTM 1 month ago
Great video
sajm4315 1 month ago
well there is no baby without egg as well.. without the egg that seed can go where ever..
Nightberrii 1 month ago
We in the new era of the rise of the intelligent thug...better get a girl b4 its too late...i already got female friends describin smart thugs that theyd like...
DAYTIME504 1 month ago
I work in a jail... a inmate who is 38 years old told me he had 13 kids and 8 babymother's , and he is in jail, so who feeding his kid's, haha...both my brother's are good father's and their dad was not around, I think my mother played a part in that, because my mother always want's to be surrounded by her grandkid's, One of my brother's girlfriend try's her best to keep my niece from around us, My brother pays $200 a week in child support and all his baby mother says is, you can do more!
bigdeneen 1 month ago
it's the black woman fault more for getting with the deadbeat black men they know they was deadbeats before they got with them and got pregnant by them. all they gotta do is get counseling if they need it to help them with any problems they have instead of making the mistake of getting pregnant by deadbeat guys.
atlantagradybaby 1 month ago
@atlantagradybaby and they think think they can change them in. Most of these guys already have knocked up different chicks and they still let them hit it. thinking it won't happen to them. These guys are no good, but these Females are to blame, They need to value themselves what happened to Waiting for Marriage
srzman1 1 month ago
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@srzman1
Its not their fault alone, and its no excuse for black men like that to continue to be dead beats. Regardless if a woman is with them or not, they shouldnt be like that and learn to step up.
AZULAPRO 1 month ago
@atlantagradybaby
Its not their fault alone, and its no excuse for black men like that to continue to be dead beats. Regardless if a woman is with them or not, they shouldnt be like that and learn to step up.
AZULAPRO 1 month ago
@AZULAPRO I agree but the women need to chose better men until they start doing that the cycle will continue.
atlantagradybaby 1 month ago
@atlantagradybaby Right the statistics work both ways woman choose to take a no good man's sperm.
flc2009 1 month ago
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@atlantagradybaby -You really need to stop making excuses for bad behavior everytime a black man gets 10 different women pregnant and choosing to not be a father to those children that's not the systems fault that's his fault as a man
You dumbass fools want to blame everything on the woman instead of being responsible for your own actions
1BlackConservative 1 month ago
I don't understand. When a couple divorces or breaks up does that mean the man ran away? because when a couple breaks up the woman gets the children.
pleeeeep 1 month ago
@pleeeeep no. jaylove is talking about when men arent there to take care of their children, if the parents are broken up, the man still is able to see the kids, spend time with them and pay for their expenses. but when the guy does not do these things, but instead does nothing, then hes running out
joyariffic 1 month ago
I think a lot of times, being a single unwed parent is like 80% avoidable. That's just me. I think it's very showing how accepted and normal its become.
shany9988 1 month ago
welfare and the women's liberation movement created the single mom phenomena
tankbrazy89 1 month ago
Blaming Black Men For Your Troubles
tankbrazy89 1 month ago
@tankbrazy89 yo wtf are u talking about man ?
Juiceish1 1 month ago
Yeah! Having a college degree does not mean they take care of their own children. I refused to date a man who does not take care to raise their children. If he will abandon his own children what chance do I have; He will abandon me!
Apriluv7779 1 month ago