There may be aspies who become bitter because of the difficulties they've had & the way they've been treated. But the concept of aspie bigotry doesn't work because there aren't enough of us for that to happen. You may know other aspies but how many do you associate with daily? Probably none because there aren't that many of us. Therefore, it wouldn't be bigotry so much as just being angry at the world. I can understand why one would be angry & bitter but it doesn't help the situation.
and this is a manifestation of your own internal conflict with your sexuality. Women are not boring and emotional in reality as a fact, but it is you that find women boring and emotional via unappealing. Please figure yourself out first before you write off a whole gender because of your internal issues.
I would rather you not be so perverse, you seriously have ALOT of internal sexual conflict going on, Id seriously suggest you go seek mental help with that via counselor or therapist.
No, they are justified. At least, there is justification. NTs are the social-obsessed shits that gave us religion, government and monogamy. They're fucking pathetic. Herd animals. They need to go extinct. I have no pity when they get their little heads stomped on. They asked for a Glorious Leader and they deserve to get it good and hard.
@britters220 You're a fucking tool. Monogamy as an ideal occurs in less than 25% of human history, and even then bears little real-world resemblence to the idiotic masturbatory fantasies of Victorian faggots.
Post 2 - Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't hate a natural human emotion, just like love? Yes, it is, therefore it is natural. Thus, bigotry is inevitable! Accept it. Why are you acting like NT'S trying to suppress natural human emotions? This is the problem with the human species, they cant accept things for the way they are, but rather want an escape from reality, and try to create an ideal world! When I watch your videos I can't help but laugh at how dense you are.
@SatansSlave1 The whole notion of 'natural' is really just an NT collectivist defense, everything in the mother fuckin' universe is natural. That's why it exists - it's part of nature!
Post 1- Yes, I'm a bigoted aspergian asshole. I hate all people equally. I don't care if you are white, black, aspie, NT, gay, straight, lesbian, whatever you are I hate all people equally, just for the fact that you are human. So fucking what? At least I can admit my bigotry. Unlike most of the NT's you are defending and yourself. Excuse me for my bleak, bigoted, hateful world view. You seem to be of the opinion that hate and bigotry is somehow "wrong."
@SatansSlave1 NTs are incapable of thinking outside of their emotionally defined psychological bubble. They LIVE in herd mode. They can't imagine anyone rejecting objective values in principle.
NTs are usually better than us Aspergians with demeanor. NTs have the control that most Aspies don't.. I know of many times I have annoyed some NTs but they ha the control to ignore it...Aspies will not.
My own outlook on this, based upon my belief in the Underconnectivity Theory of Autism, is that those of us on the spectrum are more customised and less adaptable.
Fi, you aré an amazing woman. I applaud your standing up as an advocate for those of us with AS. You aré a natural, beautiful, articulate, and charming. As for NT haters, i was bullied too, and hated the bullies, But now i have come to hate the bullying and pity the kids who were miserable enough to have to take out their wrath on me. There is no us and them. We aré Just human in the end, flawed and in need of growth...Fi you aré helping us to grow. Thank you!
I grew up with a guy with Aspergers, and we were really close for about 16 years. As he was my first encounter as something you might call a friend outside the family, I did not notice anything special about him... well I would not categorise it as unordinary.
But what you talk about here really brings me back, he talked down to almost everyone at school because he thought he was brilliant...and truth be told, he was. It was abit strange how he was always kind to me, even tho I am an NT..
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN!! That's also a narrow minded way of saying how you feel about people who have that problem (plus she's Australian which isn't a surprise.
1. Parody of NTs- showing NTs how they talk about us and mocking tropes of the current discussion by parodying their dehumanizing speech is perfectly acceptable.
2. Anger at NTs as privileged group- the anger at the NT as a privileged person and complaint against the dehumanizing things NTs do towards us is also acceptable. This is anti-neurosupremacism, not anti-NT
3. Actual NT-hating; belief in NT inferiority. This is not acceptable or sensible
You know I have asperger's but my family did not clarify what it was until I was seventeen (yes even with therapy and with the checkups and things I was still that clueless so get off of my). I have a few close friends and they are NTs and didn't know there was a huge rift. Some explanation please?
I completely agree with what you're saying, everyone should be giving that opportunity to prove themselves "worthy" of your time and effort. However, isn't taking everything people say at face value one of the symptoms of aspergers?
I may well be wrong. I've only recently learnt about aspergers and have related lots of the symptoms to myself so what I say might be complete bullshit.
Neurotypicals are mentally inferior to us. They're like monkeys in comparison to us. They are the scourge of the human race and we need to exterminate them in order to allow the human race to advance. Only joking, that would be a crazy scenario, a bunch of autistic people conspiring to exterminate all non autistic people like how the nazis thought all non whites should be exterminated.
@AspergersGirl I don't believe that anyone can be validly classified as intelligent or stupid. Different people have intelligence concentrated in different areas and consequently, its impossible to accurately gauge intelligence. People with down syndrome for instance, they may do terrible in IQ tests and they may not appear to display high levels of intelligence in any conventional sense but we have no idea what goes on the head of someone with down syndrome. When I take mushrooms I become
I think many people on the spectrum become frustrated when they see NTs fail to acknowledge their intelligence simply because they have no way of displaying their unconventional forms of intelligence to the average NT mind. I'm a completely visual thinker and do not even have an internal dialogue. I used to get very frustrated when I couldn't translate my thoughts into words well enough to get my point across. Nowadays I can come up with the words to adequately express my thoughts a lot easier.
I think people develop this bigotry as a way to obtain confidence, self esteem due to such extreme expose of the hardships that some of us have gone through in childhood and even into adulthood dealing with abuse from our peers and elders. Such individuals have comorbids such as depression which makes it harder to move on from these traumatic events, so they develop this grudge which can manifest itself as bigotry against this particular collective of people.
overloaded with sensory input and complex thoughts and when I'm in that mindset, so called simple tasks such as tying a shoelace or buttoning a shirt becomes extremely complicated. This is not become I've become less intelligent, in fact its quite the opposite. There is so much new information to process that I'm aware of all sorts of previously unseen intricacies associated with the task and consequently, its no longer an easy task. This is an example of how its impossible to gauge intelligence
@ampikine lol, yeah, or if we tried to develop prenatal testing to allow selective abortion of neurotypicals, or developed therapies to stamp out even benign NT behaviors, or published insane and easily discredit theories on why people were NT, then subjected them to harmful treatments based off of this, or presented them as inhuman and burdensome in every discussion, or formed group made of non-NTs who 'advocated' for them by funding things they opposed and excluding their perspectives.... huh.
@ampikine hahaha you are funny, yes lets exterminate all the typicals, o we can build a city with only aspies, and show to the typicals the way should be hehe. Lets create a strong group and create our occupy and all that stuff, HAIL ASPIE. :) (sorry for the english i speak spanish).
All aspergers are different.. That is not only resulting from the extent of the disease, but more likely that many of today's diagnosed aspergers are not aspergers but belong to other psychiatric cathegory.
And the most important thing is, that today many omegas are being diagnosed as aspergers because omegas can mimic some AS symptomes like lack of social contact and some problems with understabding emotions of people and their intents. Its all about ETHOLOGY! AS also could exist, though
All aspergers are different.. That is not only resulting from the extent of the disease, but more likely that many of today's diagnosed aspergers are not aspergers but belong to other psychiatric cathegory.
And the most important thing is, that today many omegas are being diagnosed as aspergers because omegas can mimic some AS symptomes like lack of social contact and some problems with understabding emotions of people and their intents. Its all about ETHOLOGY!
I feel sort of confused because Ive read that ppl with nt syndrome r like ppl with aspergers and have some of the same problems but nts r "normal" ppl I dont get it
I disagree on the degree to which being bigoted against NTs is bad. I will agree that it is bad, but I would also argue that, in the absence of power and privilege, expressions of bigotry by ASD people are just bigotry, while expressions of bigotry by NTs are, mixed with power and privilege and their normativity, part of a neurosupremacist system of exclusion against the autistic Other. In addition, anger at NTs is perfectly understandable- it is a reaction to the system of NT dominance.
Don't let a man made disorder define your life, you're definitely not meant to be a walking diagnosis and you should focus on who you are as a person and your positive traits instead of a disorder some quack decided to lable you. Forget this Aspergers crap!
I agree with this video completely. I do my best to keep that bias in check, but I would be lying if I were to say that the bias wasn't there at all. Its a difficult thing, but the friends I have prove you right, and I recently learned in a very difficult way just how cruel an aspie can be...what a reality check that was....
I love being Neurotypical, we can enjoy life without being logical or akward about it. Yeah we can interact with whoever we like to without being afraid of getting reject, just because your jelous of us don't have to hate us, you apsies can get laid too and have fun.. I think.
@90talisten of course we can im 19 and have AS and i get along with everyone just fine.and it,s extremely rare that anyone i meet ever suspects me of having AS and when they do its because of my talents and mathematical mind
@68duffman You know, you can start working on social skills by learning how to talk to someone in a respectful manner. You're only making your situation worse, because no one likes someone who uses that language. You also should NEVER use AS as an excuse for poor social skills. You can always learn and improve, even if it's not intuitive.
@68duffman She's absolutely right. Most aspies do hate on NTs because of a rough childhood. The key word here is MOST. I don't hate NTs, and neither do you. It doesn't change the fact that alot of aspies have an "us and them" approach, which is very unhealthy. Stop feeling sorry for yourself with this "its a lonely road" BS. That's also very unhealthy. What you're failing to realize is that a high IQ means that you're perfectly capable of learning social skills.
btw it's good to see a fellow Kiwi represent those of us living with AS who has the confidence to put themselves out there in the public domain. I, for one, could never do that . . . :(
Being recently diagnosed AS, and having since spent much of my time trawling the internet for commonalities between myself and other aspies, I've found more elitism amongst those who shun the mildly AS afflicted than I have experienced with NTs. I don't know if this is due to bitterness or not, but it makes me doubt if I really should associate myself with people who behave like little more than autistic NTs, as opposed to the progressive, inclusive group my counsellors had made them out to be.
@68duffman Well if you don't hate on NTs, good on you, this video doesn't apply. Some aspies have a sour view of some NTs because of how they were treated and thats fine. I certainly do. Others just hate one somene because they are NT, these are the elitists i'm talking about.
@AspergersGirl A pertinent question here is why normies, typicals, and other powers that be always end up so terrified and revolted by what they themselves have helped to create. Does my father honestly think I just woke up one day and decided I would hate his guts for all the unwelcome verbiage/touching he carried on with? Pig's butt, so to speak. But the look on his face when I told him he would have to shrink about six inches and 100+ pounds to be mistaken for someone I want to be (cont'd)
@AspergersGirl (cont'd) touched by, you would think I just woke up out of the blue and spat that statement in his face. With that kind of short memory and ignorant bias against even your nearest living biological relative, is it any wonder that NTs get a lot of hatred coming back from us? While I agree that simply hating someone for a characteristic they cannot help is not on, calling anger at normies/whathaveyou bigotry is a wee bit of a misnomer in my view.
@68duffman Ok so you get bullied, and now you are bullying me. How does that make you better? I was smacked around by kids at school, doesn't make all NTs monsters.
though i think the fact alone that there are more NT monsters than there are Aspie monsters as of yet and people cling onto this as a way of self value compinsation
Much like the spectrum Aspergers is just a wide variety of related symptoms in individuals. Much of the same but ultimately specific for every individual.
Neurotypicals frustrate me to no end because a lot of them are unwilling to understand the condition, when i go out of my way to accommodate my condition for them i get frustrated when they don't. Its a 2 way system.
I understand why some with AS decide to have prejudices against NTs but its better to take everyone on an individual basis.
Agree, Ive gotten annoying people both NT and aspie. I have a lot of NT friends, only a couple aspie friends simply due to the low number aspies out there. Tho I do come under the appeared NT generalizations in my comments sometimes, but really Im not an NT hater.
Well said. It goes both ways. It's pretty messed up when people would complain about others being bigoted against them, but would turn around and be bigoted themselves. Admittedly there are some times, where it's tough to remember that not all neurotypicals are "bad." The thing that helps is I try to remember, that I wouldn't want others judging me because of their past experiences with "aspies" so I shouldn't judge them on my past experiences with neurotypicals
I was recently diagnosed with MILD Asperger's Syndrome. And the strangest thing is that I'm not that different from anyone else. I just have difficulties when it comes to fitting in. So I don't understand all this bullshit about Aspies having "special needs" and people associating it with Mental Retardation, and severe developmental disabilities. I have an average/high average I.Q. and little difficulty functioning, so I find it insulting when people refer to it as a "developmental disability".
I have many friends with asperges and I get along with them fine. :) But there are some people in school who just seem to pick on them because apparently they're different, they're not that different though, and I wish people would leave them alone.
all people are just trying to make it ... nobody is evil ... i agree, most people I know are NTs and i do have some really close aspie friends, but some aspies kinda irritate me or i can't relate to them as well!
Great video, I agree completely. I'm 42, and am self-diagnosed because it is proving impossible to find anyone who evaluates adults for Asperger's where I live. I have noticed that there are a lot of Aspies hating on NT's. It bothers me because I am also wiccan and I know how tempting it can be to hate on people who hate on you (christians) but isn't that pretty hypocritical? How can you say "don't hate" when you are"hating" yourself?
I have AS and lots of NTs in real life gave me tremendous amount of hate. so much hate that i felt like i thought about killing every NT who bigots against people like us. i don't hate all NTs only the bigots who treat us like another species instead of human beings.
I don't have AS, I've done the aspergers test and score highly everytime (indicating I have aspergers) I'm an NT, I just have a high IQ (146). To assume it's black and white is stupid. @illegalsmirf, Empathy is illogical, I'm an NT, and I see that, your logic is flawed, we each have a duty to provide for ourselves only, anything else is a waste(unless its family, thats one definate duty)
If normals want to respect me I can respect them back. If they want to act like normal skum then I treat them like normal skum. Intimidate them then spit on them and say "keep the change" if they are political equals, if they have advantage over you do somethng behind their back. Take no shit from normals that cant respect their betters.
@ricky, just because she doesn't wear it on her sleeve doesn't mean she doesn't have it. Talking with me, you wouldn't think I'm on the spectrum, but I am, and I've only just begun to really embrace it, lol. Hasn't been too fun, but it's been necessary. There's gonna be a heck of a lot more of us in the workforce in the coming years, and the world's gonna have to get used to us.
You don't seem like you have aspergers.. are you sure you haven't been wrongly diagnosed? I was wrongly diagnosed with aspergers and it wasted nearly 7 years of my life, and finally did research myself and realised i had S.A.D instead..
Its not NT that I have a problem with, rather its the authoritarian personality that I have trouble with. The authoritarian seem to suck up to their 'superiors' and seem to get a kick out of enforcing corporate BS on their 'subordinates'.
That applies to all of society, most especially class. Once in line at Gloria Jeans a doctor was behind me in line and said, "I'm a doctor", to which I replied, "and I was in line first." I know what he was trying to infer that he deserved to cut ahead, but indebting oneself after years of school and being in the pocket of big pharma while disparaging oftentimes superior alternatives to western medicine is no basis to think one is better than their human being.
(cont.) Related to the aforementioned paragraph, the upper classes (i.e., people whose money is largely inherited and went to the best schools from preschool through college) instead of spending time learning a professional skill learn useless social behaviors that are meant to identify outsiders. I wouldn't be surprised if they served kitten meat at dinner parties, because anyone who's offended would profile themselves as middle-class. Foie gras/goose liver apparently doesn't cut it anymore.
Aspergerians are just as judgemental and unpleasant towards us as the neurotypical people are; therefore there is nothing to be gained in labelling yourself as having Aspergers. The best thing is to believe in yourself and hate everyone else. Take from the world what you need to survive, and give back as little as possible.
I think that the main reason why people become bigoted is fear and ignorance. People of the world are different and this often overwhelms those who are, deep down, very insecure.
These human vermin need to belong to tribes in order to feel safe. Part of their way of consolidating group identity is to ostracise those who don't share their specific, yet arbitrary views or characteristics.
Take them away from their tribe and they lose their identity. Give me a cat over a baboon any day. ;)
In my opinion, it's not always bigotry, because it's often justified. If you've been bullied your whole life, it's only natural that you build up a fear of NT people. Some times, it may be unjustified. I thought I was NT until I was 27 years old, so I have a slightly unique perspective. I don't hate NT people because they are NT. I have most everyone because they assholes, and I don't know if they are NT or not. ( I was heavily bullied, so I have a reason to hate people.)
@antiHUMANDesigns some people are what i call "f*ers" in that they like to f*ck with people, some of these people can seem really innocent and AS people are often an easy target. They push your buttons and you react and they pretend that they have no clue what you are talking about.
As long as you are breathing and have a smile on your face,and don't give me attitude I do not give a damn.Save the hate to fate! Smile and make the world a better place! billyCTV check him out,great channel!
This is the attitude of most neurotypical persons in a nutshell, 'a lack of empathy is the root of all evil'.
Make no mistake about it, sweetheart. We are at war with these people. It is a struggle for life or death ... whether we can make money, be able to survive in this world filled with people who are happy to be part of the unthinking herd.
In the battle for life or death, you can't stop and obsess over the feelings of OTHER people.
@illegalsmirf The problem you are overlooking is that as much as myself and others with aspergers syndrome fail to understand the neurotypical they also fail to understand us, aspergers is after all a genetic condition and we are just simply wired differently from the neurotypical so in that respect its no different from thier point of view. to use a metaphor its like asking a cat to describe what it is like to be a dog and and dog what its like being a cat.
good video, i do agree not everyone in a group is the same. this is just a generalization, but I think people with asperger's only judge NTs for judging us because they are basing their judgements on opinion not fact, they are judging us for being different because they don't understand, which I think is worse.
@seaweedbeach Yes, some are like you describe. Others however wear the word "aspergers" like some sort of crown and just hate on people based on neurological stuff for no reason. Those are who i'm talking about.
Point 1: sorry to offend. I would be more expressive of what I mean, (I mean no offence) if I had more than 500 charcters to write. I do apologize; I was not trying to be an internet-criticizer!
Point 2: I meant adult society, and esp. university. Kids are nasty. But we spend most of our lives as adults. Women continue to be cruel; men either grow up or end up in jail.
But women don't care about their own acts; so sorry for wasting your time!
No, I'm very conscious that girls can be cruel, discriminating. Maybe, and this is not any kind of criticism of you or aspie women (since I've never met any!); maybe THAT is my point. That men are very "obvious" and if they attack will use fists. But girls spend so much time honing the other methods; my point is that NT women are cruel. That aspie girls, maybe can 'relate' to this...even when they are the victim.
Sorry to write, presuming that YT questions are 'reaching out to like-minded' not actual. Just wanted to comment.
The reason I personally feel anger towards the behavior of many NT is obvious; discrimination & cruelty- when you try 100% to fit in- hurts.
On the OTHER hand; I think there is a world of diff between fe/male aspies: that aspie women tend to be introspective, vs. male-objective. So what is 'inconvenient' for you guys, is hell for us. See Nine Inch Nails; that is not 'tude, but real.
Well I like you and I have Klinefelter's syndrome treated, properly, and I don't get on with many other men with Klinefelter's syndrome simply because I have a great deal of knowledge and they have ignorance. And did you know this week is World Klinefelter's Syndrome Awareness Week? Don't worry if you don't, most people don't. The reason being that most men with Klinefelter's syndrome don't want to be known, being that they're rather shy. What a great awareness week! LOL
Here's a thought... I've got aspergers, and the reason, as you said yourself, that we get treated like garbage by you useless normals. (or, aka, the Human Pestilence) There are goddamned HATE groups created solely to hate autistic people. Frankly I dont see why we should bother giving you scum the time of day if all your kind wants to do is hurt, attack and round us up like rabid dogs so you can hurt us, or as I've even read, EUTHANIZE US. THATS RIGHT. YOU NORMAL BASTARDS WANT TO KILL US!
I was on Wrong Planet and AFF for YEARS and never made any friends there. I found no one else who had anything in common with me and most of them annoyed me. I have several friends on Deviant Art and my supposed friends with AS almost NEVER respond to me. I have more NT friends there and in the real world. I have HFA and personaly find other autistic people very annoying or boring. If people do not like the same things I do, I automaticaly find them boring and refuse to associate with them.
I do not condone to hatred against neurotypicals, but I do not understand why people get so surprised about it. Those who have taken enough history would know that it happens in every minority group. It has nothing to do with Aspie reasoning. It is simply part of the human condition.Try reading books written by native americans who have struggled living in a white-dominated community, and how at some point they too have reverse-discriminated. think about why they have done that.
Right. And aspies are not at all bigoted when they constantly demand understanding but never ever try to wrap their minds around the fact that negative reactions from neurotypicals happen because we NTs are being socially pragmatic -- which is a huge portion of our social skills. If it talks like a self-obsessed sociopath, it probably is. It's a perfectly valid reaction to aspie behavior. But you never even try to understand that, you poor aspie superhuman beautiful snowflakes...
I Dont care or give a stuff what anyone's got i love em'all, Peoples are Peoples and all are entitled to respect. That's it.! I am not patronistic but I was brought up to treat all people as equals,It's not that I don't care for people,I grew up in an age when polio and diptheria and lots of other nasties were around.
I Hate arrogance and Smart arses. Nice to Meet you young lady Take Care!
Take smokers and non smokers for instance non smokers have sleaze bigoted those who do even here in the states you can't smoke in a restaurant any more be cause of the bigotry from the non smokers personally I thinks it all has something to do with what we like and don't like
I have been treated like shit by a lot of nts in the past to but I have some really good friends who are also nt personally I believe that whatever people you are supposed to be friends will be that way, there are also a lot of nts out there who have also been bigoted by other nts simply for having different interests or having a different life style
The thing I find the most fascinating about this reference is the fact that the "Brotherhood of Mutants" was just regular, everyday people who inevitably allowed bitterness and resentment to get the better of them. They were regular, everyday people who were truly convinced that they were right. When you stop to think about it, this self-righteous form of "bigoted" Aspie that is being mentioned in this video could inadvertently turn into villains, whether or not that was the person's intentions.
Have you ever seen the X-Men film series? Dr. Magneto and his "Brotherhood of Mutants" were a bunch of disgruntled Mutants who turned bitter and vengeful towards non-Mutants. Basically, members of the "Brotherhood of Mutants" were very unaccepting towards non-Mutants; they developed very strong grudges on anybody who was NOT a Mutant and they were extremely bigoted/intolerant against anybody who was not a Mutant, refusing to seek any common-ground. This is NOT the type of Aspie I wish to become.
@EastonValelly110 Not even going to the content of this reply as you have no argument, but by all means keep commenting on and viewing my videos.. afterall it's the trolls who get them so many views and so much publicity.
I don't hate NT's either. I have never judged NT's either. I don't bigot or discriminate against people who are neurotypical either. But I have been backstabbed and humiliated by NT's, too,
Bottom line, while it's wrong on either side, I think it's safe to say that Aspies are more frequently are the victims of bigoting rather than the perpetrators.
Even the ones that seem nice, are nice "relative" to the rest of them.I always hope for the best, but really, they are taught to be competitive and dog eat dog. Each presents that in their own way. Some of them, are just less hardcore than others.
I agree that generalisations are not a good idea. However, there is a difference between having a generalised bias and feeling strongly about constant abuse from the NT's and not trusting them anymore. I guess it depends on the severity, and regularity, of the abuse at the hands of NT's from all kinds of places that you have experienced. Some of us are lucky with that and most are not. NT's, on the whole, are NOT kind, even to one another. It is how they move through their socialisation.
If you kept having stray dogs come into your house over and over again and biting you, would you leave the door open just incase a nice one eventually showed up?
Whilst I dont hate anybody for being NT, the fact that they are NT means that they are prone to certain behaviours...if they weren't, they wouldnt be NT. Sure, a nice one might show up one day, but im not willing to be bitten another 1000 times whilst waiting for them.
I see a lot of people making gross generalisations and stuff and then attacking others for doing it to them. People are people. Aspergers people aren't always nice and friendly either. I've met my fair share of bad eggs.
I have AS, and I'm American. Am curious, its hard to understand your video for me, and what does bigoted mean where your at? Confused me cause that's a very racist comment here referring to skin color. I would like to understand what your saying, no offense.
But youre right. Some people are assholes, it doesnt matter what their diagnoses is, be it aspergers or nothing at all. Wish you well and luck in the future
I understand you mean well but I don't think you approached the issue with tact. And the "biggotry" of people who have aspergers is not biggotry at all because their lashing out at the world is based on their own experiences and frustration of little to no social relationships and constant rejection. You have to understand that what you are calling "biggotry" is misunderstanding of deep unmet human needs that many Aspies don't get filled. So their has to be understanding because of immaturity
Just so you know I have seen that transcript of the MSN Conversation and what really annoyed me is that you did not give it a chance. No evidence, a woman into nappies oh and also apparently when she has her baby she is not going to change him or her because of her nappy fetish LOL Yet you would rather believe her!!!!!
The only reason you get views is cause of the way you look. Also if I find out about you spreading this rumour about me I will be looking into legal action so you better hope you have some money to back up your lies
@Aspergianstar2009 Look! An internet lawyer! We're sooo scared! By the way, we need to exterminate those with aspberger's syndrome. Only normal people deserve to live. Kill all assburgers NOW!
@RomulanMastermind The only reason you're laughing is because the lethal injections tickle! You're feeling some psychic impressions of the future, when the good humans are left to live, and the bad humans (you) are all killed. Did you know that pregnant mothers are aborting their fetuses if they're found to be autistic? They're doing it right! Also, autistic children, those who got past the womb alive (sadly) are chemically castrated. Good. Keeps the inferiors from breeding. Kill them all.
@RomulanMastermind By the way I love what a racist, prejudiced shithead you are. Goes to show you that asspies really are a bunch of sick, horrible creatures that deserve eradication like the pest plague they are.
@AspergersGirl I see that now neemer. Its just that your name was the only one that came up. I would not have known any of this had your friend not told me. But I am glad he did. Because I dont like the fact that some wanker on some square for Aspies cause they got their knickes in a not is making up that kind of lies about me
@Aspergianstar2009 Stating that "The only reason you get views is cause of the way you look" is incorrect. Myself, and I would imagine many other people, view to learn more about AS and people's experiences.
I understand that you may have simply been trying to be nasty, but thought that I'd make a point just in case you were being serious.
Just because somebody is good looking, doesn't mean they aren't good people. I'm not very attractive myself (as a male with aspergers) but it's ridiculous that you are judging somebody on their looks, attractive or homely.
Fiona: keep up the great work as an aspergers advocate!
Hmmmm you keep on deleting my comments is it cause their is a germ of truth in what I say and you don't want to hear by the way if you go on about judging others yet you are judging me on hearsay of one person who has a nappy fetish hmmmm. Pot calling the kettle black I would say
This isn't necessarily about value jugements ("good"/"bad"). This is about whether or not our peoples are compatible enough to co-exist snugly. And from what I have seen in my own life and in human history, the answer seems to be a resounding NO.
We are typically exploited for our intellect and our naivite, and our demands conflict with eachother's (particularly in regards to lifestyle and education, infact there are many things that NTs enjoy that seem to be TOXIC to us and our children).
There may be aspies who become bitter because of the difficulties they've had & the way they've been treated. But the concept of aspie bigotry doesn't work because there aren't enough of us for that to happen. You may know other aspies but how many do you associate with daily? Probably none because there aren't that many of us. Therefore, it wouldn't be bigotry so much as just being angry at the world. I can understand why one would be angry & bitter but it doesn't help the situation.
aphyd23 3 weeks ago
Proving once again that you don't have to be an NT to be a strong willed individual. And this is coming from an NT.
Nautilus724 1 month ago
Despite having Aspergers you still manage to be a woman, i.e., boring and emotional.
ThisMachineKillsReds 1 month ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
and this is a manifestation of your own internal conflict with your sexuality. Women are not boring and emotional in reality as a fact, but it is you that find women boring and emotional via unappealing. Please figure yourself out first before you write off a whole gender because of your internal issues.
britters220 3 weeks ago
@britters220 herp-derp-a-blah-blah-blah. Go fuck yourself.
ThisMachineKillsReds 3 weeks ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
I would rather you not be so perverse, you seriously have ALOT of internal sexual conflict going on, Id seriously suggest you go seek mental help with that via counselor or therapist.
britters220 3 weeks ago
No, they are justified. At least, there is justification. NTs are the social-obsessed shits that gave us religion, government and monogamy. They're fucking pathetic. Herd animals. They need to go extinct. I have no pity when they get their little heads stomped on. They asked for a Glorious Leader and they deserve to get it good and hard.
ThisMachineKillsReds 1 month ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
there is nothing wrong with monogamy, its natural. maybe you are just against it because of some internal conflict you have.
britters220 3 weeks ago
@britters220 You're a fucking tool. Monogamy as an ideal occurs in less than 25% of human history, and even then bears little real-world resemblence to the idiotic masturbatory fantasies of Victorian faggots.
ThisMachineKillsReds 3 weeks ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
ur just a homosexual whore. quit raggin on the world just because you are miserable and angry.
britters220 3 weeks ago
@britters220 Also, don't talk to me, woman.
ThisMachineKillsReds 3 weeks ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
homosexual man who has a hate for the opposite gender, if anyone is a faggot its you.
britters220 3 weeks ago
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britters220 3 weeks ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds Way to stereotype all NTs, and in the process all autistic people too.
You're worse than they are.
MentalMaladies 2 weeks ago
Post 2 - Correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't hate a natural human emotion, just like love? Yes, it is, therefore it is natural. Thus, bigotry is inevitable! Accept it. Why are you acting like NT'S trying to suppress natural human emotions? This is the problem with the human species, they cant accept things for the way they are, but rather want an escape from reality, and try to create an ideal world! When I watch your videos I can't help but laugh at how dense you are.
SatansSlave1 1 month ago
@SatansSlave1 The whole notion of 'natural' is really just an NT collectivist defense, everything in the mother fuckin' universe is natural. That's why it exists - it's part of nature!
ThisMachineKillsReds 1 month ago
Post 1- Yes, I'm a bigoted aspergian asshole. I hate all people equally. I don't care if you are white, black, aspie, NT, gay, straight, lesbian, whatever you are I hate all people equally, just for the fact that you are human. So fucking what? At least I can admit my bigotry. Unlike most of the NT's you are defending and yourself. Excuse me for my bleak, bigoted, hateful world view. You seem to be of the opinion that hate and bigotry is somehow "wrong."
SatansSlave1 1 month ago
@SatansSlave1 NTs are incapable of thinking outside of their emotionally defined psychological bubble. They LIVE in herd mode. They can't imagine anyone rejecting objective values in principle.
ThisMachineKillsReds 1 month ago
@ThisMachineKillsReds
MOST nts are like this, but not all..... i mean afterall we came from neurotypicals.
britters220 3 weeks ago
NTs are usually better than us Aspergians with demeanor. NTs have the control that most Aspies don't.. I know of many times I have annoyed some NTs but they ha the control to ignore it...Aspies will not.
Nedspodos 1 month ago
Less than .36% of the population can be described as having aspergers. That's ~1 in every 300 people. I hardly think that's a fair fight.
rotatingorb 1 month ago
@rotatingorb
higher numbers now actually.
britters220 3 weeks ago
I've found autistic people can be just as hateful. I've been on Wrong Planet for years and not very many people have been very friendly to me there.
misspinkpunkykat 1 month ago
My own outlook on this, based upon my belief in the Underconnectivity Theory of Autism, is that those of us on the spectrum are more customised and less adaptable.
aspiejohn 1 month ago
You have beautiful eyes, something I have a difficult time doing in real life are compliments because I dont how deal with the interaction.
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Fi, you aré an amazing woman. I applaud your standing up as an advocate for those of us with AS. You aré a natural, beautiful, articulate, and charming. As for NT haters, i was bullied too, and hated the bullies, But now i have come to hate the bullying and pity the kids who were miserable enough to have to take out their wrath on me. There is no us and them. We aré Just human in the end, flawed and in need of growth...Fi you aré helping us to grow. Thank you!
TheMyklar 2 months ago
I grew up with a guy with Aspergers, and we were really close for about 16 years. As he was my first encounter as something you might call a friend outside the family, I did not notice anything special about him... well I would not categorise it as unordinary.
But what you talk about here really brings me back, he talked down to almost everyone at school because he thought he was brilliant...and truth be told, he was. It was abit strange how he was always kind to me, even tho I am an NT..
ErikReinholdtHansen 2 months ago
Neurotypicals are boreing and mean rude to me anyways
BlackMist200 2 months ago
You are such a strong assertive young lady.
SaudiClass 2 months ago
WHAT DOES SHE MEAN!! That's also a narrow minded way of saying how you feel about people who have that problem (plus she's Australian which isn't a surprise.
SuperAnigo 3 months ago
I think there are three sorts of anti-NT animus:
1. Parody of NTs- showing NTs how they talk about us and mocking tropes of the current discussion by parodying their dehumanizing speech is perfectly acceptable.
2. Anger at NTs as privileged group- the anger at the NT as a privileged person and complaint against the dehumanizing things NTs do towards us is also acceptable. This is anti-neurosupremacism, not anti-NT
3. Actual NT-hating; belief in NT inferiority. This is not acceptable or sensible
CrawdaddyJoe 3 months ago
You know I have asperger's but my family did not clarify what it was until I was seventeen (yes even with therapy and with the checkups and things I was still that clueless so get off of my). I have a few close friends and they are NTs and didn't know there was a huge rift. Some explanation please?
bluesboy25000 3 months ago
I completely agree with what you're saying, everyone should be giving that opportunity to prove themselves "worthy" of your time and effort. However, isn't taking everything people say at face value one of the symptoms of aspergers?
I may well be wrong. I've only recently learnt about aspergers and have related lots of the symptoms to myself so what I say might be complete bullshit.
joeprice07 4 months ago in playlist Videos from AspergersGirl
Neurotypicals are mentally inferior to us. They're like monkeys in comparison to us. They are the scourge of the human race and we need to exterminate them in order to allow the human race to advance. Only joking, that would be a crazy scenario, a bunch of autistic people conspiring to exterminate all non autistic people like how the nazis thought all non whites should be exterminated.
ampikine 4 months ago 4
@ampikine I'm glad you're joking. Some aspies actually think that. I know some very intelligent NTs, and some stupid aspies.
AspergersGirl 4 months ago 5
@AspergersGirl I don't believe that anyone can be validly classified as intelligent or stupid. Different people have intelligence concentrated in different areas and consequently, its impossible to accurately gauge intelligence. People with down syndrome for instance, they may do terrible in IQ tests and they may not appear to display high levels of intelligence in any conventional sense but we have no idea what goes on the head of someone with down syndrome. When I take mushrooms I become
ampikine 4 months ago
I think many people on the spectrum become frustrated when they see NTs fail to acknowledge their intelligence simply because they have no way of displaying their unconventional forms of intelligence to the average NT mind. I'm a completely visual thinker and do not even have an internal dialogue. I used to get very frustrated when I couldn't translate my thoughts into words well enough to get my point across. Nowadays I can come up with the words to adequately express my thoughts a lot easier.
ampikine 4 months ago
@AspergersGirl Agreed totally, I've met some aspies who are absolute jebends lol
TheSchemer1 1 month ago
@AspergersGirl
I think people develop this bigotry as a way to obtain confidence, self esteem due to such extreme expose of the hardships that some of us have gone through in childhood and even into adulthood dealing with abuse from our peers and elders. Such individuals have comorbids such as depression which makes it harder to move on from these traumatic events, so they develop this grudge which can manifest itself as bigotry against this particular collective of people.
britters220 3 weeks ago
@AspergersGirl
calling them stupid is being a bigot too...
britters220 3 weeks ago
overloaded with sensory input and complex thoughts and when I'm in that mindset, so called simple tasks such as tying a shoelace or buttoning a shirt becomes extremely complicated. This is not become I've become less intelligent, in fact its quite the opposite. There is so much new information to process that I'm aware of all sorts of previously unseen intricacies associated with the task and consequently, its no longer an easy task. This is an example of how its impossible to gauge intelligence
ampikine 4 months ago
@ampikine lol, yeah, or if we tried to develop prenatal testing to allow selective abortion of neurotypicals, or developed therapies to stamp out even benign NT behaviors, or published insane and easily discredit theories on why people were NT, then subjected them to harmful treatments based off of this, or presented them as inhuman and burdensome in every discussion, or formed group made of non-NTs who 'advocated' for them by funding things they opposed and excluding their perspectives.... huh.
CrawdaddyJoe 3 months ago
@ampikine hahaha you are funny, yes lets exterminate all the typicals, o we can build a city with only aspies, and show to the typicals the way should be hehe. Lets create a strong group and create our occupy and all that stuff, HAIL ASPIE. :) (sorry for the english i speak spanish).
theogdragon 2 months ago
All aspergers are different.. That is not only resulting from the extent of the disease, but more likely that many of today's diagnosed aspergers are not aspergers but belong to other psychiatric cathegory.
And the most important thing is, that today many omegas are being diagnosed as aspergers because omegas can mimic some AS symptomes like lack of social contact and some problems with understabding emotions of people and their intents. Its all about ETHOLOGY! AS also could exist, though
petruhae 4 months ago
All aspergers are different.. That is not only resulting from the extent of the disease, but more likely that many of today's diagnosed aspergers are not aspergers but belong to other psychiatric cathegory.
And the most important thing is, that today many omegas are being diagnosed as aspergers because omegas can mimic some AS symptomes like lack of social contact and some problems with understabding emotions of people and their intents. Its all about ETHOLOGY!
petruhae 4 months ago
I feel sort of confused because Ive read that ppl with nt syndrome r like ppl with aspergers and have some of the same problems but nts r "normal" ppl I dont get it
vlog1234567 5 months ago
I disagree on the degree to which being bigoted against NTs is bad. I will agree that it is bad, but I would also argue that, in the absence of power and privilege, expressions of bigotry by ASD people are just bigotry, while expressions of bigotry by NTs are, mixed with power and privilege and their normativity, part of a neurosupremacist system of exclusion against the autistic Other. In addition, anger at NTs is perfectly understandable- it is a reaction to the system of NT dominance.
CrawdaddyJoe 5 months ago
Don't let a man made disorder define your life, you're definitely not meant to be a walking diagnosis and you should focus on who you are as a person and your positive traits instead of a disorder some quack decided to lable you. Forget this Aspergers crap!
Counterbrilliance 5 months ago
I agree with this video completely. I do my best to keep that bias in check, but I would be lying if I were to say that the bias wasn't there at all. Its a difficult thing, but the friends I have prove you right, and I recently learned in a very difficult way just how cruel an aspie can be...what a reality check that was....
AspergianAngel 6 months ago
I love being Neurotypical, we can enjoy life without being logical or akward about it. Yeah we can interact with whoever we like to without being afraid of getting reject, just because your jelous of us don't have to hate us, you apsies can get laid too and have fun.. I think.
90talisten 6 months ago
@90talisten of course we can im 19 and have AS and i get along with everyone just fine.and it,s extremely rare that anyone i meet ever suspects me of having AS and when they do its because of my talents and mathematical mind
william52905 6 months ago
@68duffman You know, you can start working on social skills by learning how to talk to someone in a respectful manner. You're only making your situation worse, because no one likes someone who uses that language. You also should NEVER use AS as an excuse for poor social skills. You can always learn and improve, even if it's not intuitive.
rabidmonkey4262 6 months ago
@68duffman She's absolutely right. Most aspies do hate on NTs because of a rough childhood. The key word here is MOST. I don't hate NTs, and neither do you. It doesn't change the fact that alot of aspies have an "us and them" approach, which is very unhealthy. Stop feeling sorry for yourself with this "its a lonely road" BS. That's also very unhealthy. What you're failing to realize is that a high IQ means that you're perfectly capable of learning social skills.
rabidmonkey4262 6 months ago
btw it's good to see a fellow Kiwi represent those of us living with AS who has the confidence to put themselves out there in the public domain. I, for one, could never do that . . . :(
Protocultist 7 months ago
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Protocultist 7 months ago
Being recently diagnosed AS, and having since spent much of my time trawling the internet for commonalities between myself and other aspies, I've found more elitism amongst those who shun the mildly AS afflicted than I have experienced with NTs. I don't know if this is due to bitterness or not, but it makes me doubt if I really should associate myself with people who behave like little more than autistic NTs, as opposed to the progressive, inclusive group my counsellors had made them out to be.
Protocultist 7 months ago
@68duffman Well if you don't hate on NTs, good on you, this video doesn't apply. Some aspies have a sour view of some NTs because of how they were treated and thats fine. I certainly do. Others just hate one somene because they are NT, these are the elitists i'm talking about.
AspergersGirl 7 months ago
@AspergersGirl A pertinent question here is why normies, typicals, and other powers that be always end up so terrified and revolted by what they themselves have helped to create. Does my father honestly think I just woke up one day and decided I would hate his guts for all the unwelcome verbiage/touching he carried on with? Pig's butt, so to speak. But the look on his face when I told him he would have to shrink about six inches and 100+ pounds to be mistaken for someone I want to be (cont'd)
aspie182 5 months ago
@AspergersGirl (cont'd) touched by, you would think I just woke up out of the blue and spat that statement in his face. With that kind of short memory and ignorant bias against even your nearest living biological relative, is it any wonder that NTs get a lot of hatred coming back from us? While I agree that simply hating someone for a characteristic they cannot help is not on, calling anger at normies/whathaveyou bigotry is a wee bit of a misnomer in my view.
aspie182 5 months ago
@68duffman Ok so you get bullied, and now you are bullying me. How does that make you better? I was smacked around by kids at school, doesn't make all NTs monsters.
AspergersGirl 7 months ago 8
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though i think the fact alone that there are more NT monsters than there are Aspie monsters as of yet and people cling onto this as a way of self value compinsation
britters220 3 weeks ago
Your accent - is it kiwi?
MoatRaoul 7 months ago
@MoatRaoul Indeed it is :)
AspergersGirl 7 months ago
Much like the spectrum Aspergers is just a wide variety of related symptoms in individuals. Much of the same but ultimately specific for every individual.
Neurotypicals frustrate me to no end because a lot of them are unwilling to understand the condition, when i go out of my way to accommodate my condition for them i get frustrated when they don't. Its a 2 way system.
I understand why some with AS decide to have prejudices against NTs but its better to take everyone on an individual basis.
KieranD212 8 months ago
Agree, Ive gotten annoying people both NT and aspie. I have a lot of NT friends, only a couple aspie friends simply due to the low number aspies out there. Tho I do come under the appeared NT generalizations in my comments sometimes, but really Im not an NT hater.
lindseywong919 8 months ago
NARROW MINDED? NT ARE STUPID, AND YOU FOOLS ACT LIKE THAT'S OKAY, LIKE THAT SHOULD BE ACCEPTED.
SPACEPOOPDRAGON 8 months ago
And dumb
andrewdraper3 8 months ago
Well said. It goes both ways. It's pretty messed up when people would complain about others being bigoted against them, but would turn around and be bigoted themselves. Admittedly there are some times, where it's tough to remember that not all neurotypicals are "bad." The thing that helps is I try to remember, that I wouldn't want others judging me because of their past experiences with "aspies" so I shouldn't judge them on my past experiences with neurotypicals
gamelvr1 9 months ago
I was recently diagnosed with MILD Asperger's Syndrome. And the strangest thing is that I'm not that different from anyone else. I just have difficulties when it comes to fitting in. So I don't understand all this bullshit about Aspies having "special needs" and people associating it with Mental Retardation, and severe developmental disabilities. I have an average/high average I.Q. and little difficulty functioning, so I find it insulting when people refer to it as a "developmental disability".
Sinister1811 9 months ago
I have many friends with asperges and I get along with them fine. :) But there are some people in school who just seem to pick on them because apparently they're different, they're not that different though, and I wish people would leave them alone.
SingItForTheWorldMCR 9 months ago
all people are just trying to make it ... nobody is evil ... i agree, most people I know are NTs and i do have some really close aspie friends, but some aspies kinda irritate me or i can't relate to them as well!
DJMimzy 9 months ago
Someone with aspergers called me an "NT" today, and later said all NTs are flawed and stupid. ... I'm just shocked at how stupid some people can be.
Justification75 9 months ago
Great video, I agree completely. I'm 42, and am self-diagnosed because it is proving impossible to find anyone who evaluates adults for Asperger's where I live. I have noticed that there are a lot of Aspies hating on NT's. It bothers me because I am also wiccan and I know how tempting it can be to hate on people who hate on you (christians) but isn't that pretty hypocritical? How can you say "don't hate" when you are"hating" yourself?
zanna0828 9 months ago
I have AS and lots of NTs in real life gave me tremendous amount of hate. so much hate that i felt like i thought about killing every NT who bigots against people like us. i don't hate all NTs only the bigots who treat us like another species instead of human beings.
Jegudiel29ZX 9 months ago
I don't have AS, I've done the aspergers test and score highly everytime (indicating I have aspergers) I'm an NT, I just have a high IQ (146). To assume it's black and white is stupid. @illegalsmirf, Empathy is illogical, I'm an NT, and I see that, your logic is flawed, we each have a duty to provide for ourselves only, anything else is a waste(unless its family, thats one definate duty)
20Tomas08 9 months ago
If normals want to respect me I can respect them back. If they want to act like normal skum then I treat them like normal skum. Intimidate them then spit on them and say "keep the change" if they are political equals, if they have advantage over you do somethng behind their back. Take no shit from normals that cant respect their betters.
Turvein 10 months ago
@ricky, just because she doesn't wear it on her sleeve doesn't mean she doesn't have it. Talking with me, you wouldn't think I'm on the spectrum, but I am, and I've only just begun to really embrace it, lol. Hasn't been too fun, but it's been necessary. There's gonna be a heck of a lot more of us in the workforce in the coming years, and the world's gonna have to get used to us.
Cool1097 10 months ago
You don't seem like you have aspergers.. are you sure you haven't been wrongly diagnosed? I was wrongly diagnosed with aspergers and it wasted nearly 7 years of my life, and finally did research myself and realised i had S.A.D instead..
rickyrickrick1224 10 months ago
Its not NT that I have a problem with, rather its the authoritarian personality that I have trouble with. The authoritarian seem to suck up to their 'superiors' and seem to get a kick out of enforcing corporate BS on their 'subordinates'.
firehandszarb 10 months ago
@firehandszarb
That applies to all of society, most especially class. Once in line at Gloria Jeans a doctor was behind me in line and said, "I'm a doctor", to which I replied, "and I was in line first." I know what he was trying to infer that he deserved to cut ahead, but indebting oneself after years of school and being in the pocket of big pharma while disparaging oftentimes superior alternatives to western medicine is no basis to think one is better than their human being.
jaymthegenius 10 months ago
(cont.) Related to the aforementioned paragraph, the upper classes (i.e., people whose money is largely inherited and went to the best schools from preschool through college) instead of spending time learning a professional skill learn useless social behaviors that are meant to identify outsiders. I wouldn't be surprised if they served kitten meat at dinner parties, because anyone who's offended would profile themselves as middle-class. Foie gras/goose liver apparently doesn't cut it anymore.
jaymthegenius 10 months ago
Aspergerians are just as judgemental and unpleasant towards us as the neurotypical people are; therefore there is nothing to be gained in labelling yourself as having Aspergers. The best thing is to believe in yourself and hate everyone else. Take from the world what you need to survive, and give back as little as possible.
Other people are the enemy, period.
illegalsmirf 10 months ago
I think that the main reason why people become bigoted is fear and ignorance. People of the world are different and this often overwhelms those who are, deep down, very insecure.
These human vermin need to belong to tribes in order to feel safe. Part of their way of consolidating group identity is to ostracise those who don't share their specific, yet arbitrary views or characteristics.
Take them away from their tribe and they lose their identity. Give me a cat over a baboon any day. ;)
PrimeM92 10 months ago
In my opinion, it's not always bigotry, because it's often justified. If you've been bullied your whole life, it's only natural that you build up a fear of NT people. Some times, it may be unjustified. I thought I was NT until I was 27 years old, so I have a slightly unique perspective. I don't hate NT people because they are NT. I have most everyone because they assholes, and I don't know if they are NT or not. ( I was heavily bullied, so I have a reason to hate people.)
antiHUMANDesigns 10 months ago
@antiHUMANDesigns some people are what i call "f*ers" in that they like to f*ck with people, some of these people can seem really innocent and AS people are often an easy target. They push your buttons and you react and they pretend that they have no clue what you are talking about.
firehandszarb 10 months ago
@firehandszarb Ye, those are extremely irritating, when they deny everything even though they know just what you're talking about.
antiHUMANDesigns 10 months ago
As long as you are breathing and have a smile on your face,and don't give me attitude I do not give a damn.Save the hate to fate! Smile and make the world a better place! billyCTV check him out,great channel!
Wallabytrack 10 months ago
This is the attitude of most neurotypical persons in a nutshell, 'a lack of empathy is the root of all evil'.
Make no mistake about it, sweetheart. We are at war with these people. It is a struggle for life or death ... whether we can make money, be able to survive in this world filled with people who are happy to be part of the unthinking herd.
In the battle for life or death, you can't stop and obsess over the feelings of OTHER people.
Wise up.
illegalsmirf 10 months ago
@illegalsmirf Obvious troll is obvious.
AspergersGirl 10 months ago
@AspergersGirl wtf?
illegalsmirf 10 months ago
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Shortandwittyname 10 months ago
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@illegalsmirf The problem you are overlooking is that as much as myself and others with aspergers syndrome fail to understand the neurotypical they also fail to understand us, aspergers is after all a genetic condition and we are just simply wired differently from the neurotypical so in that respect its no different from thier point of view. to use a metaphor its like asking a cat to describe what it is like to be a dog and and dog what its like being a cat.
Shortandwittyname 10 months ago
You're completely pissing up the wrong tree. Self-love is essential, especially when nobody else will love you.
illegalsmirf 11 months ago
good video, i do agree not everyone in a group is the same. this is just a generalization, but I think people with asperger's only judge NTs for judging us because they are basing their judgements on opinion not fact, they are judging us for being different because they don't understand, which I think is worse.
ps. NZ FTW!
seaweedbeach 11 months ago 3
@seaweedbeach Yes, some are like you describe. Others however wear the word "aspergers" like some sort of crown and just hate on people based on neurological stuff for no reason. Those are who i'm talking about.
AspergersGirl 11 months ago 2
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Point 1: sorry to offend. I would be more expressive of what I mean, (I mean no offence) if I had more than 500 charcters to write. I do apologize; I was not trying to be an internet-criticizer!
Point 2: I meant adult society, and esp. university. Kids are nasty. But we spend most of our lives as adults. Women continue to be cruel; men either grow up or end up in jail.
But women don't care about their own acts; so sorry for wasting your time!
welcomesodoing 11 months ago
Ie. Because NT men don't discriminate or act cruel.
welcomesodoing 11 months ago
@welcomesodoing Oh hell yes they can. I got thumped and punched around by an NT boy at school just for being different.
AspergersGirl 11 months ago 2
No, I'm very conscious that girls can be cruel, discriminating. Maybe, and this is not any kind of criticism of you or aspie women (since I've never met any!); maybe THAT is my point. That men are very "obvious" and if they attack will use fists. But girls spend so much time honing the other methods; my point is that NT women are cruel. That aspie girls, maybe can 'relate' to this...even when they are the victim.
welcomesodoing 11 months ago
Sorry to write, presuming that YT questions are 'reaching out to like-minded' not actual. Just wanted to comment.
The reason I personally feel anger towards the behavior of many NT is obvious; discrimination & cruelty- when you try 100% to fit in- hurts.
On the OTHER hand; I think there is a world of diff between fe/male aspies: that aspie women tend to be introspective, vs. male-objective. So what is 'inconvenient' for you guys, is hell for us. See Nine Inch Nails; that is not 'tude, but real.
welcomesodoing 11 months ago
@welcomesodoing Are you saying female aspies have not experienced either of these things?
AspergersGirl 11 months ago
Well I like you and I have Klinefelter's syndrome treated, properly, and I don't get on with many other men with Klinefelter's syndrome simply because I have a great deal of knowledge and they have ignorance. And did you know this week is World Klinefelter's Syndrome Awareness Week? Don't worry if you don't, most people don't. The reason being that most men with Klinefelter's syndrome don't want to be known, being that they're rather shy. What a great awareness week! LOL
XXYforLIFE 11 months ago
You wouldn't be from Australia by any chance? :)
XXYforLIFE 11 months ago
Here's a thought... I've got aspergers, and the reason, as you said yourself, that we get treated like garbage by you useless normals. (or, aka, the Human Pestilence) There are goddamned HATE groups created solely to hate autistic people. Frankly I dont see why we should bother giving you scum the time of day if all your kind wants to do is hurt, attack and round us up like rabid dogs so you can hurt us, or as I've even read, EUTHANIZE US. THATS RIGHT. YOU NORMAL BASTARDS WANT TO KILL US!
MonkeyWrenchSamurai 11 months ago
I was on Wrong Planet and AFF for YEARS and never made any friends there. I found no one else who had anything in common with me and most of them annoyed me. I have several friends on Deviant Art and my supposed friends with AS almost NEVER respond to me. I have more NT friends there and in the real world. I have HFA and personaly find other autistic people very annoying or boring. If people do not like the same things I do, I automaticaly find them boring and refuse to associate with them.
PinkPunkyKat 1 year ago
I do not condone to hatred against neurotypicals, but I do not understand why people get so surprised about it. Those who have taken enough history would know that it happens in every minority group. It has nothing to do with Aspie reasoning. It is simply part of the human condition.Try reading books written by native americans who have struggled living in a white-dominated community, and how at some point they too have reverse-discriminated. think about why they have done that.
AnElephantThatPaints 1 year ago
Right. And aspies are not at all bigoted when they constantly demand understanding but never ever try to wrap their minds around the fact that negative reactions from neurotypicals happen because we NTs are being socially pragmatic -- which is a huge portion of our social skills. If it talks like a self-obsessed sociopath, it probably is. It's a perfectly valid reaction to aspie behavior. But you never even try to understand that, you poor aspie superhuman beautiful snowflakes...
Pastor9764 1 year ago
I live in North Texas, USA. And the people there don't know how to deal with Aspergers or any type of mental disabilities.
lilerichotwheels24 1 year ago
I Dont care or give a stuff what anyone's got i love em'all, Peoples are Peoples and all are entitled to respect. That's it.! I am not patronistic but I was brought up to treat all people as equals,It's not that I don't care for people,I grew up in an age when polio and diptheria and lots of other nasties were around.
I Hate arrogance and Smart arses. Nice to Meet you young lady Take Care!
Wallabytrack 1 year ago
*have alwase been bigoted by
jeffrielly 1 year ago
Take smokers and non smokers for instance non smokers have sleaze bigoted those who do even here in the states you can't smoke in a restaurant any more be cause of the bigotry from the non smokers personally I thinks it all has something to do with what we like and don't like
jeffrielly 1 year ago
@jeffrielly it isnt bigotry to not want to have other peoples smoke forced down your throat.
anotherutterance 1 year ago
@anotherutterance Well the thing is it used to be that there was a smoking section and a non smoking section
jeffrielly 1 year ago
I have been treated like shit by a lot of nts in the past to but I have some really good friends who are also nt personally I believe that whatever people you are supposed to be friends will be that way, there are also a lot of nts out there who have also been bigoted by other nts simply for having different interests or having a different life style
jeffrielly 1 year ago
The thing I find the most fascinating about this reference is the fact that the "Brotherhood of Mutants" was just regular, everyday people who inevitably allowed bitterness and resentment to get the better of them. They were regular, everyday people who were truly convinced that they were right. When you stop to think about it, this self-righteous form of "bigoted" Aspie that is being mentioned in this video could inadvertently turn into villains, whether or not that was the person's intentions.
MarkSmithOnToYouTub7 1 year ago
Have you ever seen the X-Men film series? Dr. Magneto and his "Brotherhood of Mutants" were a bunch of disgruntled Mutants who turned bitter and vengeful towards non-Mutants. Basically, members of the "Brotherhood of Mutants" were very unaccepting towards non-Mutants; they developed very strong grudges on anybody who was NOT a Mutant and they were extremely bigoted/intolerant against anybody who was not a Mutant, refusing to seek any common-ground. This is NOT the type of Aspie I wish to become.
MarkSmithOnToYouTub7 1 year ago
@EastonValelly110 Not even going to the content of this reply as you have no argument, but by all means keep commenting on and viewing my videos.. afterall it's the trolls who get them so many views and so much publicity.
AspergersGirl 1 year ago
Well, Neurotypicals are bigoted against Aspies (-:
Actually that's not true. But they perceive it like that.
Supenmanu 1 year ago
I don't hate NT's either. I have never judged NT's either. I don't bigot or discriminate against people who are neurotypical either. But I have been backstabbed and humiliated by NT's, too,
Bottom line, while it's wrong on either side, I think it's safe to say that Aspies are more frequently are the victims of bigoting rather than the perpetrators.
TheGordogringo 1 year ago
I can't decide if your eyes are attractive or terrifying.
CycklopsGT 1 year ago
Even the ones that seem nice, are nice "relative" to the rest of them.I always hope for the best, but really, they are taught to be competitive and dog eat dog. Each presents that in their own way. Some of them, are just less hardcore than others.
PureAlto 1 year ago
I agree that generalisations are not a good idea. However, there is a difference between having a generalised bias and feeling strongly about constant abuse from the NT's and not trusting them anymore. I guess it depends on the severity, and regularity, of the abuse at the hands of NT's from all kinds of places that you have experienced. Some of us are lucky with that and most are not. NT's, on the whole, are NOT kind, even to one another. It is how they move through their socialisation.
PureAlto 1 year ago
i just hate neurotypicals who are arrogant
IRONHEARTMERC 1 year ago
@IRONHEARTMERC What about aspergers people who are arrogant?
AspergersGirl 1 year ago 7
@AspergersGirl neurotypicals should know better and have to the ability to think things through more carefully.
IRONHEARTMERC 1 year ago
im not that smart on what ur talkin about but i like u and understand where ur comin from and ur very pretty =) props!
billgates957 1 year ago
i hate NTs and AS people
malcolm9001 1 year ago
If you kept having stray dogs come into your house over and over again and biting you, would you leave the door open just incase a nice one eventually showed up?
Whilst I dont hate anybody for being NT, the fact that they are NT means that they are prone to certain behaviours...if they weren't, they wouldnt be NT. Sure, a nice one might show up one day, but im not willing to be bitten another 1000 times whilst waiting for them.
My door is closed.
anotherutterance 1 year ago
I agree with you on this one. One thing I can't stand is NT bashers.
AbsolutelyCrackers 1 year ago
I'm a soon-to-be-officially-diagnosed aspie who's still learning about this stuff...
From what I understand aspies tend to be more logical than neurotypicals, but what's logic if you don't have any maturity?
I don't think I'm going to associate with aspies very well...I've never been able to associate with anyone, really.
Seems like there's no cure to being human.
RPGguy2006 1 year ago
@RPGguy2006 Yes, there is no cure to being human, sadly. We just have to keep going through.
AspergersGirl 1 year ago
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Mrmys1900 1 year ago
if aspies start a war with the NT'S, they'll just use the force against them! xD
im on no sides btw,i think a war like that would be retarded
"if you hide it,they don't see it" soooooo.... yep!!
joshodst 1 year ago
Is there really people with Asperger who have a bigoted view of neurotypicals?
i have never noticed anything like that.
unfad1ng 1 year ago
@unfad1ng Sadly, yes.
I see a lot of people making gross generalisations and stuff and then attacking others for doing it to them. People are people. Aspergers people aren't always nice and friendly either. I've met my fair share of bad eggs.
AspergersGirl 1 year ago
@AspergersGirl
well i gues there are ignorant people in every group
unfad1ng 1 year ago
Hey what comes around goes around! You reap what you sow.
ninzot 1 year ago
@ninzot
karma is like rape, it's all good if no one knows about it.
jacobkay 1 year ago
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jacobkay 1 year ago
I have AS, and I'm American. Am curious, its hard to understand your video for me, and what does bigoted mean where your at? Confused me cause that's a very racist comment here referring to skin color. I would like to understand what your saying, no offense.
taleana2002 1 year ago
what the fuck is this tripe? what even gives you the right to label people not afflicted with aspergers as being "neurotypical" in the first place?
clue check: yours isnt the only problem out there.
zaphraud 1 year ago
@zaphraud
o.k., maybe we should call you "retards", instead.
RomulanMastermind 1 year ago 2
I never thought of a girl as having Aspergers.
But youre right. Some people are assholes, it doesnt matter what their diagnoses is, be it aspergers or nothing at all. Wish you well and luck in the future
NicosMind 1 year ago
I understand you mean well but I don't think you approached the issue with tact. And the "biggotry" of people who have aspergers is not biggotry at all because their lashing out at the world is based on their own experiences and frustration of little to no social relationships and constant rejection. You have to understand that what you are calling "biggotry" is misunderstanding of deep unmet human needs that many Aspies don't get filled. So their has to be understanding because of immaturity
rTests334 1 year ago
Just so you know I have seen that transcript of the MSN Conversation and what really annoyed me is that you did not give it a chance. No evidence, a woman into nappies oh and also apparently when she has her baby she is not going to change him or her because of her nappy fetish LOL Yet you would rather believe her!!!!!
Aspergianstar2009 1 year ago
We have to get along with neurotypicals, because 99% of people are neurotypical.
RichardSwayne 1 year ago
The only reason you get views is cause of the way you look. Also if I find out about you spreading this rumour about me I will be looking into legal action so you better hope you have some money to back up your lies
Aspergianstar2009 1 year ago
@Aspergianstar2009 Look! An internet lawyer! We're sooo scared! By the way, we need to exterminate those with aspberger's syndrome. Only normal people deserve to live. Kill all assburgers NOW!
LycanthropicAsshole 1 year ago
@LycanthropicAsshole HAHAHAHAHAHA
the only retards are you, Lycan- the idiot norm of society
you're one of those loser low IQ who drives around on a Harley, chest hair hanging out, rowdy, drunk and on crack bragging about your nigger dick.
You socialize with friends on how you beat your wife, cheat on her with a diseased freak whore, and polute the earth with your ciggarette buts.
Keep eating your red meat and bacon he-man and die soon from clogged arteries.
I won't miss you.
RomulanMastermind 1 year ago
@RomulanMastermind The only reason you're laughing is because the lethal injections tickle! You're feeling some psychic impressions of the future, when the good humans are left to live, and the bad humans (you) are all killed. Did you know that pregnant mothers are aborting their fetuses if they're found to be autistic? They're doing it right! Also, autistic children, those who got past the womb alive (sadly) are chemically castrated. Good. Keeps the inferiors from breeding. Kill them all.
LycanthropicAsshole 1 year ago
@LycanthropicAsshole
You call aspies inferior when your whore mother goes around killing and murdering?
Is this what she tried with you?
Did she rape you as well bad boy bubby...HAHAHAHAAHA
RomulanMastermind 1 year ago
@RomulanMastermind By the way I love what a racist, prejudiced shithead you are. Goes to show you that asspies really are a bunch of sick, horrible creatures that deserve eradication like the pest plague they are.
LycanthropicAsshole 1 year ago
@LycanthropicAsshole
HAHAHAHAHA
I love how you call me racist and prejudiced when you yourself admitted to worshipping Hitler.
Hitler commands you get on your knees and suck his knob.
Do it NOW, aryan pretty boy HAHAHAHAHA
Fuck, are you stupid.
RomulanMastermind 1 year ago
@LycanthropicAsshole
Professional trolls are funny, lol.
Kingofcorrect 1 year ago
@Aspergianstar2009 I did not make up any rumour.
AspergersGirl 1 year ago
@AspergersGirl I see that now neemer. Its just that your name was the only one that came up. I would not have known any of this had your friend not told me. But I am glad he did. Because I dont like the fact that some wanker on some square for Aspies cause they got their knickes in a not is making up that kind of lies about me
Aspergianstar2009 1 year ago
@Aspergianstar2009 Stating that "The only reason you get views is cause of the way you look" is incorrect. Myself, and I would imagine many other people, view to learn more about AS and people's experiences.
I understand that you may have simply been trying to be nasty, but thought that I'd make a point just in case you were being serious.
Cranberryshortbread 1 year ago
@Aspergianstar2009 Dude,
Just because somebody is good looking, doesn't mean they aren't good people. I'm not very attractive myself (as a male with aspergers) but it's ridiculous that you are judging somebody on their looks, attractive or homely.
Fiona: keep up the great work as an aspergers advocate!
RyDogRidesTheBus 1 year ago
@Aspergianstar2009 Why would I be viewing her because of the way she looks???? How is that relevant????
bozzykinz 1 year ago
Interesting - great video - thankyou
Toxidile 1 year ago
Hmmmm you keep on deleting my comments is it cause their is a germ of truth in what I say and you don't want to hear by the way if you go on about judging others yet you are judging me on hearsay of one person who has a nappy fetish hmmmm. Pot calling the kettle black I would say
Aspergianstar2009 1 year ago
This isn't necessarily about value jugements ("good"/"bad"). This is about whether or not our peoples are compatible enough to co-exist snugly. And from what I have seen in my own life and in human history, the answer seems to be a resounding NO.
We are typically exploited for our intellect and our naivite, and our demands conflict with eachother's (particularly in regards to lifestyle and education, infact there are many things that NTs enjoy that seem to be TOXIC to us and our children).
DChatc 1 year ago