christina aguilera - i'm ok

[rarebutterfly133]

really wish my dad would listen to this so he could understand how it is for me :'(

[semul]

This is the first song that has ever actually made me cry. It's like she's singing about my life. This is a song that all abused mothers should hear. Mothers, please don't ever think that staying in an abusive marriage is for the best. It isn't and will never be. Trust me, children will NEVER recover from witnessing/experiencing abuse. No matter how strong you may be.

[bertabratton]

In 2002 while my daughter was a student at Coastal Carolina in Conway, SC, she drank quite a bit and called me one night crying and asked me to download this song and listen to it..... she said that was her life with her father and me..... I cried so much when I heard this song and realize the damage it did to her. When she was 13 she begged me to leave. Fighting and abuse in a marriage does affect your children.

[EmmiJ82]

This song is so sad!! It gives people a really important message!!!

I am 12 and I am lucky cos there are lots of other children out there who have much much worse lives than me!! Whenever I feel angry at my family I just think of this song and my anger disappears

Christina Aguilera Is My Idol

[Lollitia]

'Bruises fade father, but the pain remains the same. . I'm okay.'

[arizzleizapunk]

this makes me sad...my mom gave me no luv...only pain and bad thoughts!! it's my sisters who make me want to see tomorrow!!! i love them so much!!!

[shanleighawesomeness]

when i hear this song i always thank god that I dont have to go through this! not that i wish i on others instead of myself

[LaToffee]

the pain remains the same...forever...T_T

[peace4life45]

SHE HAS SUCH A POWERFUL AND Incredible SOUND

[ShEiP1986]

This song was recorded in one take as she was laying on the floor of the recording booth crying...hows that for amazing??

[JDTMUSIC1]

this is a true artist

[xxSammySliceexx]

This song is very emotional. She sings it with such power & pain in her voice. Iv'e always loved that about her. This song makes me want to cry. This song is incredible. I watched her sing it on Vh1, & She looked like she was gonna cry the whole time. This song is amazing lyricly, emotional, & Its the best song shes EVER written in my opinon. <33 Amazing job Christina.

[reneeredd1]

i ust now really aid attention this song and i can relate many years ago my stepdad verbally mentally emotionally hurt me and my moms and with me even physically abused but im happy now and i try every day to let those demons go but im not losing sleep over it neither he's out of our life but when he does see us now in town he tries to play nice

[AngelVera69]

today...my father hit my mother...

i call the police...

"bruises fade father,but the pain remains the same"

[britany257]

no todas las xicas ke fuimos maltratadas somos idiotas como dicen muxos,eso sirvio de trampolin para madurar aunke demasiado pronto y rapido

[TashaRichardsonFan]

She was weeping in her bed when she wrote this song.

[campbellsoup4life]

holy shit this is so raw

[MysteryGrrl12]

chistina aguilera is beautiful and i love this song parents should listen to messages like this

[ghghfhgh]

im ok

[ghghfhgh]

im ok

[xxSammySliceexx]

This song is very emotional. She sings it with such power & pain in her voice. Iv'e always loved that about her. This song makes me want to cry. This song is incredible. I watched her sing it on Vh1, & She looked like she was gonna cry the whole time. This song is amazing lyricly, emotional, & Its the best song shes EVER written in my opinon. <33 Amazing job Christina.

[chickadee96]

Hey guys! I sang this song and other songs including Teardrops on My Guitar by Taylor Swift, I remember by Keyshia Cole, and many more! Check out my page! Enjoy!!

[meplusDavid]

this song juts made me cry..it's like i can feel her pain

[Pinkyvanessaan]

Wao... sabia que lo que decia la cancion tenia que ver con la infancia y el dolor de Christina... pero hoy que lei la letra de esta cancion me doy cuenta que su historia fue realmente muy dolorosa.... Que valiente al compratir algo tan privado con nosotros sus fans. Gracias por el audio!!!

[moondogdante]

Hopefully more people will support friends who have been abused in putting abusers where they belong, and that's in jail.

[singalinger]

apparently, she was literally lying on the floor crying as she recorded this song. i honestly love her so much, i don't understand why she isn't bigger than brittney spears. she's amazing.

[nashrodin]

she isn't bigger than britney cause she's 5"3 and britney is 5"6 he he he... just kiddin, britney is bigger than her cause britney has a personlity to get the fans......

[WhatisRight2430]

yea but Christina has the voice!

[araucana1976]

Britney is just one more media /prevelent system product. She is just a made believe. Christina in the other hand is pure/strong/true talent. Sadly in this society something more than talent is need it to become famous. Like belong to the "right group".

[Ladysingalot18]

this song makes me cry cuz i was abused by my x every day nd my daughter will see that and well i left before he will ever got to my daughter.. even if he will never abuse her... a mother could never know what might happen in the future..

[ctillman0]

I hate her. She makes me cry with such emotion in her songs and voice. You can feel the pain.

Oh yeah for you idiots i hate her in a good way.

[ohnoitsjessx3]

where she crying and the father says "your my goodgirl." that from a movie.

but what is the movie called?

[maggie1292]

the movie you're wanting to remember is Dolores Caliborne starring Kathy Bates and Jennifer Jason Leigh. Mom discovers dad is abusing daughter and she plans his death during an eclipse. He tells his daughter "you are my good girl" as he is abusing her on a ferryboat.

[MusicTributeVideo]

This song is so heartbreaking and beautiful. I'm glad Christina survived as a child and thrived. :)

I love this song! :)

[eatmefurby]

Such An Emotional Song But Its Just Amazing So Sad, It Just Makes Me Want To Cry.

[kallesa123]

why in the song did he say in the beginning your my good girl , ?

did he rape her whn she was little or did he beat on her and her mother to whn she was young ?

[Jaaay234]

when christina was little, her father abused her and her mother. it's really sad.

[7thingsilikeaboutuko]

beat her family

[dsyglym]

her father beat christina and her mother when she was little =(

[Lexiisays]

i'm crying.

this song is amazing.

how is it possile i've never heard it before?

[sexyhotpeppe]

Bruises fade, brother, but the pain is still the same...:(

[huggylove0405]

everytime i hear she singing 'Im ok' i nearly start to cry. its so full of tears in her soul. oh i love it so much.

[4everisnow]

this is so beatiful !! ;) <3

[turnedontomusic]

Flip flop the father w/the mother, and that was my childhood.

[greentimmyblueniki]

Lies, i don't think he got a nice voice! Sorry!

[Kylefan12341]

He doesn't, and it's nothing you sould say sorry about. It's truth

[TheDesperateHodges]

No.

[DanofDodorpia]

Such an important message. Kids are really affected by early memories and parents should really take note. Love the way she sings, '...I'm OK...'. It's really powerful! (By the way not wishing to offend any parents out there.)

[livetodancexox]

@DanofDodorpia your right. it shapes them into who they are. how they think and with every step the take.

its not something you forget

and nothing anyone can do can balance out for a wound that deep.

[original503]

@livetodancexox You're completely right. No matter what, I will probably never heal from my childhood.

[livetodancexox]

@original503 i wont either. the depression will always be thin ice for me. its underneath the surface every step you take.

im so fragile from it now.

its hard to think.

its like xtina says shes okay, but she is really not.

[original503]

@DanofDodorpia No one should be offended. Your early childhood shapes you for the rest of your life. To this day, Aguilera battles with depression.

[Substanical]

I love this song, not my normal music, but the lyrics are so beautiful.

[spuffy11]

hearin all the yellin, i would cry up in my room.

Hopin it would be over soon.

But it wont be over 4 a while.....

[malarksterno]

I can soooo relate to thisss.... ;'(

'It hurt me to see the pain, across my mothers face, everytime my fathers fist would put her in her place!!' ... x

[AttaRosalocka]

I can so relate to this, which isn't a good thing. It's a really good song!

[oOMuuuuuhOo]

Der sonq ist schoen ..

[Sttaacceeyy]

These songs are fucked ???

[fashion944]

can yousing better??? NOOOO!!

[mrgibran]

Great comments everyone;This among other beautiful songs,are what made me a long standing christina fan.The fact that she can expose her life in music like this is extraordinary...If you've experienced similar things as she has,you can really relate and caress those songs...

[laiseylabell]

bruises fade father but the pain remains the same ,,, ;(

[laiseylabell]

im holding back tears at the moment ...:( such a sad song . i love u christina !! Her mother is probably a really proud strong person . Shes awesome .. :(

[isskule1234]

yeah, you can hear her cry at some point...not in the start though.

[charliefulham]

Beautiful song..

fighting back the tears... x

[swimmerchic2324]

it even seems like she's trying not to cry

[clairebearrrr]

On the making of, it showed her recording this song while lying down in the studio, and she was actually crying (you can especially hear it during the first chorus)

This is the only song thats ever made ME cry. :(

[christinaback]

can u post me the link of the making of?

[TheDesperateHodges]

look up Christina Aguilera MTV Diary

[christinaback]

thanks

[Surgur11]

amazing this is truely a goegous song

good job  ♥ ♥

[caely123]

argh that chain reallly freaked me out

[ST4YFLYx3]

Arw (:

[koalastephanie]

This song is so sad:(

[01babeh]

christina is amazing and she really sings with her heart.. this song is my favorite

[peaceofdjoumad]

best song ever i'm not christan's fan but this song is so deep

[siqtirulation]

sonqs liqe thats remind me of my own

life =(

makes me cry

oooh daad=( =(

[meplusDavid]

this songs makes me cry..={

[An3idy]

oo q triste cancion :(

[2beautiiful4uh]

i got the same story behind me and this song helps me a lot to think about it.

but it always makes me cry.

i love it but it's still so sad.

[Mikrek]

i agree with michatabs :D she's amazing!

[catarina0509]

did you need to post that here?

if you love britney more go see her shity videos, please

[michatabs]

i love her voice

[LERi1991]

i absolutely love this song..

she sings it with pain; it's incredible.

[elliebellie1233]

zo bjoetievoel

ij lof hur!!!!!!

[fercikes]

jebaveee

[Tazinround]

Comparing Britney to Christina. There is not a single more waste of time I can think of. It is not even in the realm of competition...

[199256489]

i love this song

[jennyatearygirl]

I love xtina she is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy better than brittany spears,plus brittany is a hoe

[heavymetalrulz123]

Yes.

[lovelilbee]

that's right.

[sassycassiestar]

beautiful.

[Amelielovesnowbody]

it make´s my cry

[iithematchesii]

it makes me cry also

it's sad that she sings this song from experience and memory

[Amelielovesnowbody]

typegirlcool u are write

it´s very very good

+.+

[singingsweetsam]

This song was based on her past :( aww ..x

She has an amazing voice! I would dp anything for a voice like that :) ..x

[rachmabbz]

that song is so beautiful.

[StarluvzCherriez]

I LOVE THIS SONG ITS MY ONE OF MY FAV!!! When i get my camera in imma make a video singing it! its one of my favs to sing! Xtina is my idol!

[LiveFreeAreDieHardTr]

My dad and mom always are fighting and i have to be the one in the middle of it!!!

[fytyreguri]

me too

but i dont care so much...when i was a child i couldnt support it anyway.

I thougth i was dying hearing their quarrel but finally i afford it a bit

so

im with u

but be strong and dont let them fight before u cuz if the things r like that..u'r gonna having a psycologyic ill.just as i sometimes.

[krystalmartinez01]

well i love this song!!

[MADDHATTER96]

yo dont say shit about peoples childhood because u dont no shit people think i had a good one nd i no im only 12 but my life sux my parents used to always fight my dad would hurt my sis beat the living hell out of my mom nd threten me he was the worst he tryed to kill my mom nd sis now my lifes better i never c him but i have to deal with the shit nd memories everyday of my life try haveing that in ur life

[1athalion]

come on now PREACH!! that's right tell um!

[brittanyheartzuz]

it's not funny and stop reading if you don't give a damn but it's sure not funny you don't know what it's like to be abused so DON'T comment!

[klioxox]

well said blastmbs , ya no some people really struggle , i think u have to really watch ur mouth cos thats so insenssative , if you dont want to hear it then dont fecking read it , some people find it easier to confind in strangers and one day you will need help and no one will want to give it to you

[blastmbs]

wow...I don't know what is more sad...that there's so many people relating to that song or that there's people like u that don't give a damn about those people. This is an emotionnal song, so emotionnal people has every rights to express themselves and relate to each others...and the fact that it's anonymous can push them even more to talk about it here. Maybe you're the one who needs a shrink and figure out why u feel the need to be so senseless.

[via14hot]

no one Ever has a perfect child hood they just want to here people complainig all the time because theres ALLWAAYS going to b sum1 that has it worse than u do

[typegirlcool]

that is because u had a perfect childhood with perfect parents and u don't know how it feels when ur parents are fighting all the time

[xPhilippaxxxx]

Because it triggers their emotions and they're obviously wanting abit of comforting and understanding!

Why are their always people on youtube like YOU,who are really insensitive to peoples feelings?

[mathena02]

Shut up.

your just very jealous cause she madee it,

Stopp Hating.

nobody cares what youu think about Christina.

Hateee on youirself Bitch!

[iBadGyal]

Yeah you tell 'em!

Fuck haters.

[lostchild06]

Then don't read.

[saphireprincess1989]

This song makes me cry especially when I think about how this happens to actual kids.Like this 2-year-old who was beaten to death by her stepfather and her mother just sat and watched while the real father was in iraq. How could anyone hurt something as innocent as a child?

[emily0280]

aviously u dnt no christina very well love it duz sound like her lol

[xoigotissuesox]

my boyfriend use to beat me and i could never turn to my parents becasue i felt like a failure. he was 15 and i was 13 at the time.

its hard i am very lucky my best guy friend helped me get through it.

[StrawberriesHK]

Wow. I hope that everything is all right. I have never been in a situation like this, but I pray it never happens to you, or anyone again. No one deserves to be treated like this.

[marilynmansonfan99]

This song reminds me of my childhood..

when i was a lot younger

like 10 years old my mom dated an abusive

alcoholic for 3 years, one night

i was in my room and since i was afraid of

the dark i had my door opend a bit

and at night he was drunk and they were fighting and i saw him hit her and her crying

telling him to stop, it happned a lot

until one night we ran away from him and never saw him again, my real father was also abusive thats why they divorced

[ctillman0]

This is one of the reason why i love Christina because i can relate to her not by her witnessing her mother but it also happened to me but when i was little when i was 5 up until i was 16 my grandmother was abusive verbally and physically and i didn't do anything about it because she was my grandmother and even though she was wrong i though it would be wrong to defend myself because at the time i thought that it would make me be just like her. And when i did it just got wrose.

[lorikaye61]

wow.......powerful

[TiaDUDES]

i can relate too thiss,

my perants (step dad) used to argue alot wen i was younger, me n my mum used to get herrt,

it fucking succkkedd! dnt no why my mum stayed with him.., i still have flash backs.. of this once time.. its horible.

[donttsstop]

"it's not so easy to forget, all the marks you left along her neck, when i was thrown against cold stairs, and everyday afraid to come home, in fear of what i might see there"

:'(

[donttsstop]

Christina fans, don't forget to buy Christina's Greatest Hits album which will be released in the US november 11th

[tripleL914]

i never knew dat her nd her mom were beat i mean i knew she had a problem wit her dad but i never knew bout dat

[angelwilks]

this has 2 be one of her best songs and one of her saddest, she has such a beautiful voice!

[alexanderleewang]

This makes me think of grade school. My sister and I used to be beaten by our father. And my mother was beaten as well. And I hated how much of a hypocrite he was since he was Catholic and I knew he wasn't supposed to do this.

He's changed. Particulary because I had the guts to stand up to him and talk to him about it. But I admit that I still feel a bit of anger. Nobody should be treated like that. Especially by their own family.

[vsm76]

i love this song

[Za3lana0]

I wish I can wipe the tears off this little angel's face...

[supermicky5]

she's voice touching my mind..

[wasXjezXlos]

this song is very good her voice is amazing i love her she´s my favourite

i can understand the song it is like my life

[snuggalisious]

You can actually hear her cry in this.I wacthed a video where she was laying down when she recorded this.

[iithematchesii]

me too! i know exactly what you're talking about. so she was abused when she was a child right? it's awful.

[ctillman0]

She did she said it was too emotional to sing

[divaaa94]

Ow where did you see that movie?

I would like to see it to!

[lamonicalove07]

i love this song her voice is amazing!

[XxSweetyTimixX]

beschte!;D

[DustinHdl]

♥ I love this song...it´s like my life when i was a baby....and I love christina ♥

[pinkiebabz]

i love this song nd always cry listenin 2 it!!!its amazing!!!

[JessicaLovesYou81]

She has such an amazing voice.

[SamuraiRaven01]

I love this song, I hope it isn't true for her. And the title shows what her face on the outside shows, but really she isn't.

[treesset]

how sad..how beuatiful..how perfect

[x0xskittlex0x]

there is only two songs i've actually cried to. this was one of them. the other one was "stan by eminem"

[ch3rryxx]

"Strength is my mother for all the love she gave."

I am sorry mom. I should show you how much I love you and appreciate the work you have done to raise me. I love you

[chamenless]

this is the most beautiful song i've ever heard in my life! very sad story

[inessikexD]

is in it a reall story>?

is so beautiful song make me cry ;( (H)

[chamenless]

yes it is what christina went through when she was a girl, very sad right? it made me cry too

[devilbehindme]

masterpiece

[Tonnnii94]

when i listen to this song,and read everyones comments about what happened to them, it's really sad :(, it's one of those things that could happen to anyone, anywhere. and maybe someone i know had it don't to them? but somepeople are to hurt by it they don't say anything and it carries on. it's a load of crappp!.

:(

[9Blake0]

she said the song says "i'm okay" but she in reality isnt okay...sorry for my bad english...

[Dai1603]

*On a Christina Aguilera interview she said the album had a hidden message in one of the songs...

I was watching Dolores Claiborne for the first time and recognised the beginning of this song on that movie...

the freaky noises is from a scene on Dolores Claiborne where the father is molesting his daughter.

[ERiCA3232]

...i love christina aruilera..XD...