Narcissist's Pain: Narcissism, Sadism, and Masochism

[TamoIdiot]

I had been psychically and physically abused and now i'm masochist.

[trulylovelylady]

I was put on a pedestal treated like a princess for 3 years and then dumped overnight with no explanation. It was like having an alien in front of me who stated he had changed and did not want anything to do with me anymore. I am over this freak, sicko now but it has been hard. Knowing how they cannot love tells me a lot. i told him i loved him and thats when he changed and asked me what love was!!

[acquisces]

this is so true and profound... i could never understand this if i didn't encounter a psychopath...

[MACSMovies]

This one was spooky!

You described my former abuser to the exact detail of behavior. I have spent the last year slowly releasing this pain that was placed on me. It took away my joy and peace. I am free of that person now, but my god, this one made me grieve a bit for myself and what I lost during the time with that creep.

[gingerztube]

This makes so much sense of what I went through in my childhood. I could never understand why my father made me and my siblings and mother suffer with his physical abuse as if he enjoyed it, His constant teasing and down right nasty behavior and meanness felt personal but now I know it wasn't-he was just feeding his narcissistic needs .He would appear sorry after an attack but would do it again and again. We all walked on egg shells and feared his next outburst. A parent like that changes you:(

[DrZuli]

landdoctor j.t.

[wilson2rent]

laughs at furnerals,when you are in agony.

[DrZuli]

@wilson2rent and spoils any holiday, any joy

[acquisces]

for my psychopath the funeral of my son was a show...he didn't laugh but he did not shed one tear....i was in agony and he was running "his" show... his show at the funeral of my son who was not his...then he stole most of what i had, broke my ribs twice (third time he tried i broke his right hand in 5 pieces with one kick in complete darkness), gave me a black eye twice (the second one was so bad that it lasted for 1 month) and then he threw me out on the streets in a foreign country pennyless

[wilson2rent]

laughs

[samvaknin]

Most narcissists are sadistic - but they are not classic sadists. Narcissists deliberately inflict pain in order to achieve something (they are goal-oriented). Classic sadists inflict pain because they enjoy it and are having fun.

[ACEMOM2010]

wow, this is so true, I learned the hardest way..

ah, my sons father, my ex is a pure blooded narcissist.

I thought he only disliked me, but he harmed our son : (

Maybe thatis why he harmed bryce, because I never reflected my ex, I remained true to my good nature. These types in my opinion are selfish to the core. Oh my, this video is errie as it sounds like what I just went through watching my ex harm our son and I couldn't help my son no matter how hard I tried

[ACEMOM2010]

wow, this is so true, I learned the hardest way..