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  • THIS MAKES ME SOOOOOOOOOOOO MAD

  • All ages, all races but only one gender.

    Proof once again that men are never considered as victims of DV.

  • wow... 240p cant still belive there is 240p anymore.

  • NOW THAT NIGGA IS GANGSTA!!!

  • NIGGERS!!!!!!!

  • Wow thats cruel. And to involve his kids is just horrible. And to the people who says she prob abused him too r idiots. This fight was over her asking him about lunch. If she had hit him he prob would have killed her

  • the women beater looks alot like tupac

  • I hope his new prison boyfriend beats him

  • If I had to live in that home, I would a have a heart attack, my blood pressure would be up and I would have to get a stint in my artery.

  • wow her daughter is useless she probably had a thing for master

  • There are 2 sides to every story, this news interview told her side not his. She was willing to keep tolerating that kind of abuse only to keep her family together? I wonder. I'm glad it's over though.

  • any man touches me and i will cut off his penis and balls when he is sleeping.

  • Z guy does z same thing as my mom

  • That's where I live. This video makes me angry bcus MY MOM abuses my DAD. My dad wouldn't even hit her even tho he took martial arts since he was a child.

  • My dad is probably the best role Mosel ever. He would never lay a finger on me or

    My sister or my mum let alone speak to her like that. This guy deserves a cell that has Ivan in it

  • rule number 1 for women: Never marry artists or musicians. Their temperament is never under control and they can lash out anytime.

  • This is just awful! :(

  • her ex-husband looks like Horace Grant the ex-nba player with 5 titles.

  • so crazy.

  • I don't see how a man can do that to his wife, I mean your wife gave you children and you're going to treat her like that? Wow. Women in relationships like this should just LEAVE! GET OUT! There's other guys out there that are better than the cunt that hurts you.

  • Seeing the tape honestly broke my heart. :(

  • Don't forget that women can be just as violent...

  • He keeps calling her "heifer". What does he mean?

  • I wish the comments for this video had been disabled because it is VERY apparent that some people are not only ignorant, but evil as well.

  • @alwayzdancin89 Actually, they're just trolls from 4chan.

  • When a woman is treated too well she will eventually start acting like she's needed and as if she's the man. A few punches are necessary to remind her where she really belongs.

  • @satan60 so youre saying its ok to beat a women?

  • i'm happy for her for getting out

  • this kinda sh*t pi**es me off, my sister goes through this all the time with her bf and she always goes back to him.... and defends him.... it's sickening.

  • God help any man who tries to hit me.

  • We need more fair judges like this man.

  • I hope he is doing what he is told to the T and getting back what he so readily handed out. I hope he is getting beat 10 times as much as he did his wife! What a scumbag and I am sure he is someone's property in prison!!!

  • a living testimony!!!

  • Wow.. Every word she says is true.. I hate men of this nature!!! They def. Need to be in jail an hopefully get man handled by a male so they know what it feels like!!! Jerk!

  • this story kinda gives the wrong impression about domestic abuse because it's such an extreme example so it may downplay the seriousness of other domestic abuse instances.

  • @nanditeplus That's true because a lot of it can be a lot milder than this. But this shows what it will get to if it's not stopped sooner. You feel me?

  • @hittzthagreat Your girlfriend is very very lucky to have someone that really cares for her finally! Very lucky! I admire you for having the patience!

  • I saw this episode. I almost cried.

  • Of course he's wearing a big, flamboyant cross. 

  • this is sad i jus started dating a wonderful woman who has been in 2 abusive relationships and its fucked her up physically and emotionally, and her son has problems as a result of her being kicked in the stomach while pregnant..its sad as hell and when she told me the whole story i just wanted to cry and kill the dudes who did this to her, domestic violence is no joke and i would never stoop to that level and put my hands on the female, she has serious trust issues but i love this lady to death

  • @hittzthagreat awww thats so sweet and so nice 2 hear... glad there is still good ppl out there!

  • @hittzthagreat Treat her very gently and with all the respect you would expect for yourself. Most of all, continue to love her unconditionally.

  • @hittzthagreat

    you're a real man.

  • This was AWFUL!!!! It's currently 2:17 am on Mon January 31st 2011 and to this day, this remains the worst clip I've ever seen period ... this is like a HORROR MOVIE gone wrong. He deserves EVERY year of that sentence, i fear that the wave of violence may have had chance to leave mark on the children that may be irreversible. And they'll need some serious therapy..... This is truly disturbing!!!!!!

  • Every 15 seconds a Woman gets abused by her Spouse or Partner

    The same happens to a Man every 14 seconds by his Spouse or Partner

  • I think he's sick. I believe he has hidden desires that he can't have fulfilled so he takes it out on his wife. The gay son of a bitch needs to just go ahead and get his back blown out...if it will make his angry ass stop beating his wife.

  • I just hang around for the kids. My wife sees it as I am big enough to take it. And it does piss me off. Not so much the physical aspect but the psychology behind it. She knows I won't hit her back. She knows I won't call the cops, She knows that I won't leave my kids. I guess the point to all of this is that it don't just happen to woman. I am a 220lb Marine Veteran. If not for the kids, this bitch would be laying in a puddle of her own blood and piss in very quick order. She does know that!

  • I can't name two people on this planet that truly piss me off more than my mother in law and wife. And as frequent as we do argue. If I come home on a Friday night we are not talking by noontime on saturday. I have never even considered laying a hand on either one of them. My wife has hit me before in the face. She gouged her long ass nails into my side and drew blood actually ripped tissue from my body. I am 220lbs she is 105lbs. I know if I wanted to,I could literally paralyze her with one hit

  • The main chick's story is in no way an "epidemic". Typical media propaganda.

    Single female parent is an epidemic. Under achieving drop out males is an epidemic. 40 year old virgins who hide in video games is an epidemic. Media propaganda is an epidemic.

  • 36 years is much too long for his conviction. Much too long. Inexcusable sentence from an overly emotional judge. That judge should be investigated for malpractice and removed from the bench!

  • @Sinos99880 what do u mean ,what did u want him to get, he beat this woman and she didnt desreve it and him probably even sexually asulted her also HE DESERVES IT!!!!!

  • his nose job is terrible....

    that Jackson nose aint cute.

  • @The3rdHiltonSister This is a serious issue, but I was looking at his nose too.

  • I always said that it could never happen to me. If he hit me 1 time I would leave. But in reality, how could I leave when he threatened my familie's lives? When he held a fully loaded gun to my head and threatened to kill me if I even thought of leaving. I was so angry when he caused me to break 5 bones in my foot, that I was ready to tell how I got injured. The ER doctor let him into the examining room so that stopped me from telling. There were more and the abuse escalated. How can you leave?

  • Struggle him with that cross.

  • Wow! this dark crazy monkey might be grew up under same crazy father as like him I think. I hope her children knew now what was very much wrong for them past....and understand mom was very strong person thats why she can be patient for her children.

  • the sad thing is, the children will grow up thinking that it's normal to hit their partners and it starts all over again.

  • i say us women start taking steroids.

  • @dwyabam lol.... but some men just need to honestly stop abusing women

  • I know this may sound weird but I don't know why I want a husband like ulner

  • @nnsimon001 its not weird. some people act like that and some came from abuse home find the away to help themselves so they don't hurt the people they love.

  • Let us all be more aware and sensitive. Give back the much needed crucial power and control to the survivors of D.V. with our knowledge and support. free from judgment and condemnation We all need to reach out to help with love.After all never... say never. it could happen to you.

  • I'm so strong, I do pull-ups quicker and more than any of you puseez here wining, all the ladies admire me for that, they follow the muscle & skillz strength, and they fall for the muscle, you know what I mean bro ;) haha ;)

  • @soulmziklova

    I agree. Not that it's justifiable but you are so right.

  • This dude should be flogged in public....but domestic violence is committed at least 50% of the time by women. 60% of child abusers are women...this clip shows and helps perpetrate the bias and assumption and overhyped prevelance of DV. This is a major reason guys don't get custody of kids half the time when they should....false allegation of DV.

  • what strange is you don't c any body saying Americans r bad they hit there women!

    but if one (1) Muslim dose it = all Muslims are barbarian , women dominating pigs who we should kill !

    so Hypocrisy&double standard

    and that doesn't include = murder , rape (male and female ) , child molestation and kidnapping , racism , adultery...

    am not saying these things never happen where i come from , but what happen in here at a year happens in the states in a single day.

    again so Hypocrisy&double S.

  • @deadncryin Where are you from that these things don't happen every day?

  • @sherrykb75

    me , am Jordanian living in Saudi Arabia , u cant deny that USA have the highest rate of crimes and domestic violence , but that isnt coz Americans r bad , no , its coz its a big country with multi culture , plus its easy to get weapons , but why ( and this is my point ) no one is saying Americans hit there women and rape them?

    but Arabs r famous with that ! why .

    america solders and army and government killed more then any nation did and still nazies r the one famous with !! why

  • @sherrykb75

    again i am not saying Americans r bad , no , am saying there is something very wrong is happening since ww2 , and since the evolution of media ... brainwash , Hypocrisy i dont know.

    i mean just yesterday i saw this us officer in the white house press Conf. saying to wikileaks delete the video of our crimes in Iraq coz u obtained them illegally ??and no one is saying . hay why did u do those crimes?

    i was like what the hell!!

    how dumper can the human race can get..

  • Wow, what an asshole man!

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  • @XxM4RKoZxX Grow up...I bet a woman could beat your ass punk

  • @kymmc

    haahaha

  • @XxM4RKoZxX y r u laughing this could be your mom orsister asshole

  • @XxM4RKoZxX It is a weak man who needs to beat on a woman to feel like a man. And...the most disturbing thing is that you are so ignorant that you brag about your lack of manhood on the internet publicly. What a pitiful excuse for a human you are!!!

  • @soulmziklova What a putz!

  • My guy told me while he was drunk that if I ever tried to screw up his life, in other words, if I ever left him, he will look for me and when he finds me he will cut my throat. He is very possessive, controlling, jealous, and obsessive of me. Maybe alot of you dont understand why I would just leave, It's easier said than done. I love him and maybe he will change.

  • @ashleydancer24 God bles you dear, Ive been there in the same position I was also abused when I was a child and my father was verbaly abusive to all of us. When something like that happens, you feel like no one can love you, thats just his way of taking care of you, and you need so much to be taken care of, that anything is better than being alone But the truth is that once he suck your life outta you he will leave you or kill you Being alone is the most terrible thing to me too I feel your pain

  • @ashleydancer24 However I also had that lil voice inside telling me to leave, to survive When it gets too much for you to handle, he will leave you or you will do it yourself, its just a matter of time, and when you find yourself alone, thats when healing happens Only by understanding where you coming from, and knowing that you deserve love, not be to an object, you could find someone who really loves you No one can tell you what to do, just listen to your soul, you deserve to be happy

  • @ashleydancer24 Although probable, it's impossible to tell whether he will ever

    hurt you or not. But one thing I can tell you with absolute, definite certainty:

    He will NOT EVER change.

  • wow! I understand the need to keep the family together first no matter what. It's an exceptional quality and this is where strength reside in a woman: patience, enduring anything to put other people first. HOWEVER! I would have kicked both the son and the husband's ass, put the video on Youtube then I would have figured out a way to keep us all together. thank God for my sometimes impulsive and aggressive behavior, because I couldn't take this humiliation otherwise.

  • The sad part of it is the courts and the cops still don't get it. My back door was shot out in June with my phone and security camera tampered with, and no one does anything. The police report said there was no indication of anyone walking through the tall grass on my property. Yeah, I have a witness who saw it. James City County Police can't be trusted.

  • Fucking peuce of shit i hope he gets ass raped

  • I don't get why people ask, "Why don't you just leave?" The answer is obvious. If it were that easy they would have left a long time ago. They're too scared. They're afraid their bf/husband will find & hurt them. If they're severely controlled & emotionally beat they can't just break up w/ them- after telling him they're over he'll beat her up. They don't leave because they still love them- obviously you don't love someone who beats you up, they don't leave because they'll get beat if they do

  • I was holding back tears for most of this. How evil was this dude, tormenting his wife and children like that. Looks like his wife was strong, but loved him and her family too much to turn him in. I'm hopeful she will find a good man, but pray for those kids because of what they were made to witness and how they were used could at the least be described as 'sick'. I'm sure he is not having a good time in prison and hope all those days of incarceration teaches him how evil really was!

  • @soulmziklova You think that being an abuser is the same as being an aggressive go getter? You're just one of them.

  • @soulmziklova You think ANYONE wants to be beaten and abused? You think any person wants to be treated like shit? Sometimes their heart and feelings cloud their judgement.

  • I use this for my class

  • hell yeah that foo beat that bitch up. check out trossaturmom

  • I have even less hope for humanity after watching this...and I didn't have much hope to begin with.

  • He must have hurt the daughter if she wanted to stand by him.

  • Abuses can happen anywhere at anytime. Example? I have two male coworkers who yelled at me and were unprofessional. I need the job. I may have to go to the store manager and maybe my union. The worst part is they have caused stress fear and have triggered painful memories from both my personal life and other jobs I have had. I stood up for myself this time. Yet my reaction to the situation was beyond what they did. I ask that you please think before degrading another person.

  • The FIRST time a man is disrespectful with words or a hand YOU LEAVE. Too many women make excuses for a mans actions. Yes arguements are normal and will happen. Yet listen to that voice in your head ladies. The one that says HOW DARE YOU TALK THAT WAY TO ME. If you feel disrespected and are made to feel like garbage SOMETHING IS WRONG . RUN. Dont try to "baby your hurting my feelings" HE KNOWS AND DOESNT CARE.

  • @soulmziklova I don't think women want their men to be that aggressive. I mean, seriously, who would.

  • Did anyone notice the detectives names are Onions and Herburger?! LMAO Sorry but that's fucking funny :)

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  • what in the world is wrong with you? hell yes its stupid of the woman not getting out of her relationship but you apparently don't understand how hard it is to get out of an abusive relationship. when men act stupid and abuse, the woman has hope that he'll someday change. the abused woman also think about her families safety, her children's safety, etc.

    maybe some woman want their man to be aggressive in bed, but not physically aggressive.

  • How many men will be abused? No one ever talks about that. Women hit their men every single day and people think its funny, what about they're shame. Even there friends laugh at them at least when a man hits a woman she has friends most of the time that are supportive. Men just get told to suck it up and be a man. What the heck I mean come on people.

  • The fact is the abuse is generaly done by man in 85% of the case . Abused man do not get killed by their wife like abused woman ,Man woman domestic abuse is wrong

  • The support group for men is called Gold's Gym.

  • maybe we dont talk about men being abused because men think their too tough and cant admit that their in an abusive relationship?! duh!

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  • FOLLOW WHAT I SAY...TO THE T!

  • God, she is stunning!

    I'm sorry, but anybody that would even joke about hitting a woman is nothing more than a coward! I'm not perfect, and my wife and I have had fights in the past, but I've never been tempted to put any hurt on her! Anybody that thinks it's okay is nothing more than a bitch that wouldn't measue up in a real fight, with a real man!

  • i cant believe she still loved him after all he did 2 her!!!

  • Until your in that situation, how and what would you know!

  • @mcbowser Why isn't it the muderder's fault?

  • There are lots of hints and characteristics showing the many types of psychopathy and sociopathy people have, in most cases, when it comes to partnership with others, people know what their getting into before actually starting a relationship, Now, the case we have here is simple, the man is abusive, malicious and controlling, these kind of things can be seen if the person wishes to take the time to know if the,individual, he didn't suddenly have these traits, so she obviously know what he was

  • it's clear of what he was, even if it wasn't apparent before, she had to know sometime before this happened, the question: why would she accpet this and why did she let it get this far, she not mentally handicapped so she understood her position and shes physically able, so she could have left, but she choose not to, she stayed, so you'd say she's not strong enough, or fear is factor here, and i would agree, but for the most part, she had her part too but nothing was being done, she payed for it

  • @mcbowser

    classic victim blaming. if the media is your #1 source of information, maybe you shouldn't be speaking on the matter. maybe you should put the remote control down & go read researched books on the subject. the majority of media networks are owned by white upper class heterosexual men. what kind of perspective do you think we're getting?

    stop wasting everyone's time w/you're nonsense logic & read a book instead. simply google search "domestic violence power and control wheel."

  • @testtpattern That's a baseless reply if I've ever heard one, you've totally missed the point, it's about natural reciprocation. if you touch fire, you get burned, what's so illogical about that? How pretentious to think that just because it comes form a book, it makes it more relevant, common sense isn't so antiquated where one can fully disregard it, you can't see the forest for the trees, and that's fine and dandy, but if all you can say is "your wrong and that's it" then it all ends here.

  • @mcbowser i work at a women's center. i see this all the time. DV affects so many women, even men. but the majority are women and it is never their fault. no one ever deserves to get hit by their partner. but there are many factors as to why a woman would stay. financial support, cultural expectations (many women of color stay to protect the family from shame), psychological, and so forth. seriously search "DV power and control wheel."

  • @mcbowser sure it all seems like "common sense" but until you are in the situation, you don't know what you would do. i don't know what i do. but i do know that it is unethical to look at someone's situation through a window perspective and talk about what you would do. cause you don't know what you really would do and you don't know what circumstances are affecting the victim's decisions. you are just looking in.

  • @mcbowser but put yourself in their position and try to understand the different circumstances.and even then it is unethical to say "what you would do." if you would've said, "what i wish she would do, what i hope i would do..." then your argument changes from being being filled with judgment, to actually offering some insight.

  • that will give you much more insight into the problem, than the media.

  • @testtpattern what insight? it's just arbitrary statements meshed together in self-indulgent claptrap, let's not make this into something it's not.

  • She looks very young for being in her mid 40s.

    I'm glad that bastard got 36 years. Seems his arrogance got the better of him by rejecting the 4 year plea. Serves the cunt right.

  • denilson200, you're a pathetic excuse for a human being! You don't know the situation, and you can tell in the video "your brother" is just as a poor excuse of a human as you are! How stupid do you have to be to say what you did - seriously your lucky if your intelligence is as high as that of a mentally challenged ape!!!

  • I'm glad people like that are in jail. I hope that he is some other guys little girl now and that he gets raped every day.

  • For reasons such as yourself, denilson200 that is why they have consequences for losers like you. Whether you;re black or not!

    You should just shove your head up your ass a bit further and save us all the trouble ...cause you ain't worth shit!

    You fuck'n delusional bastard!

  • You penis breath, WoW your mother musta been a real cunt cause she raised a prick like you!

    You are an absolute bonehead!

    I'd like to stick a hot 6ft skewer up your ass, if you need support.

    You have no life, so why is it you're not dead yet?!! Damn it, do it already!!!!

  • By the way are you gay? And jealous that she took him away? Cause I seriously think that he's fighting with his sexuality and just doesn't know shit about being a "man". And nor do you ya fuck'n penis breath, fudge packer!

  • You sound so fucking dumb right now. I wish someone runs into you in the streets and fucks your WHOLE fucking life up. Small dick low self-esteem having bastard.

  • @denilson200 Geez I wonder why it is that some women hate men?

  • ''Some boys,take a beautiful girl and hide her away from the rest of the world,I wanna be the one to walk in the sun ,Oh, girlz just wanna have fun......!!!'' -Cyndi Lauper

    Domestic violence is not cool

    Ri.p. Jazzy 9-14 -08

  • Wanna get lost with me?

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  • yeah man;D that's cool;D

  • Race has nothing to do with it!

  • it does, stupid idiot and put off the 18 from ur name, u are a shame !

  • like foxygal said race does not have a damn thing to do with it ....did you hear the opening line every race, every corner of the world ...racist pig!

  • goddamn fucking shit pisses me off so bad!! why don't we just take these cowardly fucktards out in the woods and SHOOT THEM!!?!!?!!? it would be so nice. fuck the law. just do what's right.

    if you know anyone who's being abused, don't waste your time reporting it to the pigs. they wont help. just get a gun and take care of the fucking problem yourself.

  • or simply just kill them in the most painful way possible like in the bollywood movie "Daman: A victim of Marital Violence", when actress Raveena Tandon stabs her abuser and drives a trident through him several times.

  • The Bible burnt through Satan's hand while he was in court. Devil is a liar.

  • well sounds like a true abuser ming set.... you are right women do abuse men.... but how often does that happen. People focus a lot more of the abuse to men because the abuse for women has been around for along time and people see it as normal. If we can stp the abuse towards women we can stop it towards men. Jennie Bi lingual Victim Advocate.

  • The YouTube Partner Blunty3000 was just exposed for cheating and Physically Abusing his Ex Who Has finally Broken The Silence.

    Domestic Abuse Is A Very Real Problem!

  • Perhaps America could learn something about how to condition morals by picking up the behavioral research published in Mexico & reading what they have done since Sid Bijou has gone to them showing them behavior modification.

    Mind you Sidney W. Bijou began the work on conditioning morals pg 143 in the book

    "Behavior Analysis of Child Development" (July, 1995).

    Bijou, S.W. (1975b). Moral development in the preschool yrs: A functional analysis. Mexican Journal of Behavior Analysis, 1, 11-29.

  • Skinner's right about morals & freedom. Wrong only on philosophy. Man is not a "caged ape," but rather able to condition more fully by thought then by action in environment. Still thought is controlled by external stimulus, but thought conditions more. Hence your free will is merely a sharpened discriminative control.

    Ray, B. (1969) Selective attention: the effects of combining stimuli which control incompatible behavior. J. of the Exp. Analysis of Beh., 12, 539-550.

  • Behavioral conditioning at work here, but be aware that child behavior can be cold & wicked also, but children can have a sharpened discriminative control where they know what is right & wrong, but behave for self preservation or alignment with the stronger stimulus.

    Sadly, through further conditioning that sharpened discriminative control can be lost with time until they are cold & wicked.

    People are not born with morals they're conditioned as sharpened discriminative control is arbitrary.

  • I just noticed...how dare this jerk wear a cross!!!!

  • What a stupid ape!

  • THis all looks too familar. My father was just like this. He did it through his whole life to tons of women.  Well I have to say Karma got him in the end. He's gone and left in a horrible way.

  • i hope it's going better for you today,

    i don't know if we ever "get over it", there can be something

    i hear, see, or smell that triggers those memories from back then.

    Stay safe, and i hope you're with good people who respect you.

    Especially, thanks for your comment.

  • HI there. Thank you so much for your message That was really sweet of you. Yeah this whole video with the "normal looking family" in a "normal and nice neighbor hood"....it hurts seeing it. I hope you have a great New Years and take care

    Marcy

  • yes, a lot of it stays with you always even after it, the physical stuff was the easiest to forget but the emotional shit stays with you forever and haunts you in your nightmares. I thank God everyday I had the strength to end it and now I am with a man that loves me and never raise a hand to me or his voice. I pray for all the women out there still enduring what I survived......you are strong

  • I'm so sorry for you. Karma gets us all, what we give, we get back, but more, the good and the bad. I hope this man is getting torn to shreds in prison but even if he isn't, life is short, hell is forever.

  • I would of beat his ass! anybody that condone this shit, is a bitch! I bet you that he thought that he was a real man by doing the mother of his children like that, because he felt sorry for himself, so he beat on the mother of his children like a ragdoll. I would of fucked him up! I would of did a farrah fauwcett on his ass, and burned his ass up! bitch ass, makeup wearing sugary bitch!

  • This idiot wouldn't dare raise his hand at another man. What a worthless coward!

  • Jesus saves.

  • i hope u die in your sleep, so that your neighbourhood and this world has one less threat.

  • the son is kinda a punk cuz he even joined i woulda told him to stop then he watches her get beat

  • This is a very honest video on domestic violence. I work with these ladies everyday. If you know anyone in this situation, please referr them to the nearest Battered Women's Shelter. Also, the batterers do need help, but the victims need to think about themselves and their children first. If you know a batterer personaly, please let them know it is not ok to beat their significant others. Just because Dad or Grandpa did it, doesn't make it ok.

  • The reason why some men would do something like that is the lack of self-esteem, plus the fact that he hates his livelihood.

  • umm obviously you've been reading the wrong material because 95% of all batterers are male and 98% of all rapist are male. Women are not the only ones who need help it is the men who do this that need help to figure out why they commit such acts. Furthermore I don't see how any man on this website can condone or try to blame the victim if they aren't abusers themselves.

  • where can i find this tape