why am i watching this! i just watched part 1 and 2 and i'm taking notes in my head about this stuff but the thing i'm a guy when am i ever going to use this information.
im a guy, and i disagree with 90% of what he says. he basically categorized all men under what he thinks. the girl in yellow at least got 250 guys to know what different ppl think. he just went without thinking. and the way he speaks is very uneducated. and for a guy whose english is a second language to notice how bad his english is says a lot about steve. i dont like him as a comedian, and now i dont like him as a person
They said you never seen a man cross a room for a woman's brain..ha..Have u seen a woman cross a room for a man's brain..Hell no..U def seen them cross the room for a man with money...aka groupies
His body language, for 80% of the video, is showing disdain for the other guest up on the stage (chick in yellow) as if her dating advice is pure bullshit, simply because he doesn't agree. That doesn't say much for Steve.
taking advice from this relationship expert who isnt in a relationship hahahahahaha...ohk! lol i could see she doesnt get it when she said the sexy part isnt necesarily the cleavage but the upper part...ohk...lol i disagree!!!...maybe a gay guy lol
@knowledge3440 EXactly.. he has gained knowledge as he grew older. how many men who have succeeded in just one relationship whiten a book about men and relationship?? you have no idea what u are talking about and guess what? He does ;)
1.Men arent all that different biological from ladies
2.humans are social construction which mean cultur,ethicity,sexuality,sexes, identity is part of complex system which means its contructed between people and within different context not INSIDE of a person.
3Both book writers need to read sociology and socialphyschology they are misinformed and uneducted.
09:50 You can't listen to how to lure men or what their turn offs are with a face expression like that..HAHAHAHAHA,,she doesnt feel what they are saying
Steve is one man. He cannot speak for other men because if I had a question for him, I would ask why did it take him three tries at marriage to get it right?
LOVE IT OR HATE IT, THE GREAT MAJORITY OF THE MEN ARE EXACTLY HOW HE DESCRIBES HERE!!! YES, THERE ARE THE EXCEPTIONS, BUT FOR THE MOST PART HE'S BREAKING IT DOWN THE WAY REAL MEN ARE!!! GOOD OR BAD THAT'S WHAT I HAVE EXPERIENCED WITH THE MEN IN MY LIFE, NOT ONLY MY HUSBAND AND EX BOYFRIENDS, BUT FATHER, BROTHERS, COUSINS, FRIENDS. SO DEAL WITH THE REALITY OF HOW THE MAJORITY OF MEN ARE!! WAKE UP TO REALITY!!!
@Brooklyngirl1969 untrue, what is your definition of a "real" man? It has no meaning its based on social constructed gender roles that people are expected to adhere to. Also understand that maybe that is your experience because you go after the same type of person, or people with similar mindsets. And the majority of me everywhere? No, look around the world, or just in the country itself, men come in all shapes and forms and belief systems generalizing them into this one being is crazy.
I find that offensive. Considering I don't spend my time watching television, I wouldn't know about the "crimes" that that man has committed. How about you learn to spell and punctuate your sentences first, before you insult innocent bystanders. Learn to be mature. Obviously, it might take you a while, but I'm sure that in three...or twenty years, you'll learn to be respectuful.
that's a dumbass question,what kind of bullshit is that:,,what kind a parfume do men prefer"........shiiiit,we like parfumes baby,any kind as long as it does not stinks you know what I mean.
Don't cuss Steve pleas,you haven;t been what he has been through,and boy please...no nigga.
that's a dumbass question,what kind of bullshit is that:,,what kind a parfume do men prefer"........shiiiit,we like parfumes baby,any king as long as it does not stinks you know what I mean.
Don't cuss Steve pleas,you haven;t been what he has been through,and boy please...no nigga.
that fucking cunt pisses me off. stupid fucking fag. u telling me that in order to get a chick i have to suck up to them? that steve wanker needs to stfu and talk some sence
WOW. He should just speak for himself. Trust me his book won't help you think like a man but it will help you think like Steve harvey & the only reason shes agreeing with him is because she is afraid not to. No damn book or one person is going to teach you to think like anyone.
ok yall cursing out steve harvey but yet the lady is argeeing with him and she had to go out and do a survey, and then ivolve science. And all Steve Harvey had to do was use his brains and surrounding to get the SAME result. Yall need to stop trippin' yall may not like what they saying but most of it is true.... wat may not work for u may work for 2 million people in the world so stop being negative. Either watch it and move on or shut the hell up.
I'm sorry, but I find all of this shiny business and scent and makeup stuff a huge turn off. Why in the world would I be attracted to someone who needs to alter their body to look beautiful? Either they're ugly or they don't have confidence in themselves, both of which I don't want to be a part of. Be natural, not artificial.
The girl at 0:39 is fine as hell. I would wife her. Also, some of the stuff they are saying is true but there is something that they are excluding in their analysis and research. Women cant be too picky because women out number men and even successful men at that throughout the world and definitely in the US so there's bound to be someone left out.
@reeree212 in the yellow?? I think she has good points.. the two girls who wrote "hot chick" are hypocrites out to make an extra buck.. I browsed it in a local bookstore, and I doubt they used half the stuff they wrote in it
Are flats that much of a turn-off? I really couldn't walk in heels 24/7. I'd rather only wear them on special occasions. And I don't get what's so bad about the nude bras and the fake stuff and all. Will someone explain it to me?
Steve you cant tell me how i think...I am a man and I dont care what everybody says but every man is different...Your book is very ignorant b.c you making these women think that we all think the same. You're basically telling women how YOU think! The sad thing about this is that most of these women are ignorant enough to listen to you smh.
@fsbuckets In his book he is mostly talking about how men think from HIS experience. His book is NOT based on scientific studies, so it is IMPOSSIBLE to generalize what he says in his book to every single men. That's not ignorant, it's called INVALID. His book is not the only book on interpersonal relationships, you should read more. Why do women listen to him? Because he shares from his own LIFE EXPERIENCES, instead of "valid" studies done on this area, people relate to the first a lot better.
@fsbuckets "The sad thing is that most of these women are ignorant enough to listen to you."
That's a very true statement. Women believe he knows what he's talkin about, simply because he's a celebrity with a book.
When I wrote MY book, I didn't just have MYSELF in mind when speaking about men. I tell women about every type of guy OUT there, even calling out Steve Harvey's 90 day rule as complete and utter bullshit, for various reasons.
So yea, I agree with you man. Alotta women are gullible.
@fsbuckets hater!! dont take it personally. you think that professional family or couples therapists also KNOW what men or women think? please, just enjoy the show and stop being a hater. just buy the book and make your wife happy.
wow...how to get a man..by amazing hot blonde...vanilla?! grapefruit?! A woman could rub axle grease all over her body and i'd still take 'er down...did anyone notice how steve looked at her at 9:41?
@vanessabunnies LOL they like that look. I hate when people say "men don't like makeup" "men don't like fake nails" they give us the money to get the hair, the nails, the makeup. LOL
@1:52-2:04 all ass kissing for sales right there. Uh yea if a guy likes your personality he will cross a river. Every guy likes vanilla...NOO....The neck/chest area? Are you retarded we want booty and breast duh! No flat shoes? Chick wear some damn tennis we dont care. These two are awful!
Incase no one brought it up yet, just keep in mind these are much older and old fashioned individuals giving this advice. us being form the younger gen don't really care much about most of what they bring up. Also on a side note, you can't tell a persons personality from across a room, or river, either lol.
I searched google specifically for this video because Whitney Casey stated that men look for the Décolletage which I think is actually pretty spot on. We start at the neck line and quickly let our eyes fall to the cleavage area. That usually falls under the first impression category.
I don't believe what everyone has to say or what they believe celeb or non-celeb. Only reason I can find for one to even begin to get upset regarding what he thins is that in some way you confused t.v. character and reality, and are now disappointed with what they have really believed all this time. We don't know these people! We can only make in our minds who they are to us. I agree to disagree. PERIOD. -Stolee
@darthsasuke554 Hell, MEN and WOMEN have been doing that for decades, tv shows, music, politics, etc. Why focus on just him? He's not the first one (man or woman) to be speak and/ or promote their "ideal" of what is and what isn't, certainly won't be the last. You're a bit behind dear. -Stolee
steve harvey is a buffoon catering to these bird-brained females that watch the Tyra Banks shitshow. all a female has to do is ask a platonic male friend what his views are on whatever topic and she can save whatever money she pays for this buffoon's "book."
Ok ladies, This is a man who is finally telling us the truth about what's really going on behind a mans eyes!!! How many times have you asked tour man, "Whatcha thinking about?" NOW YOU KNOW!!! Take the challenge and see how much more in control of your love life YOU can be, then, if you don't see an improvement go back to being the one they always throw back after they get what they want!
1 Peter 3:7 7Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
1 Peter 3:4-7 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. 5For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, 6like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
1 Peter 3:1-7 1Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.
I think its funny that steve harvey is giving information to women about what women should find attractive in a man. Steve Harvey: "uh i think the ideal man is a black, christian comedian, who looks like a walrus!."
BLACK WOMEN ARE THE DEVILS CHILDREN, PILLED WITH EVIL, DARKNESS. I WAS BORN ALONE, I AM GONA DIE ALONE.
BLACK WOMEN NEED TO GET OUT OF MY FACE, AND GET OUT OF MY WAY, the new BLACK MALE PANTHERS. WE HATE BLACK WOMEN, WE LOV WOMEN FROM OTHER RACES AND OUR GOAL IS TOO SEE THE BLACK WOMEN FAT 300 POUNDS ALONE A CAT LADY. BITCH I HOPE YOU DIE TOMORROW black women want a war with black men ,find then watch us drop 20 hiroshima bombs on this black hoes.world war,3,4 and 5 hoes
i think guyss like wat ur face looks like...not ur clothes and shxt guyss like how pretty you are.....are the way ur shaped kuz i wear flats (i hate heels)lol i barley wear make-up and i still have guyss chassinqq me (most men love a women who is natrual No make-up No fake her and stuff so they can see that its not all the fake shxt thats maken yuh pretty) thats why i think guyss try too get at me even wen i look a mess haha!!!
Steve Harvey speaks for a segment of Black America known as "Grandfather Players" those who believe in traditional view of "how to be a man" that has nothing to do with reality or the world outside of there own.
Men don't always care about "The Shiny" got women on that show talking about "The Shiny" like its a actual term real men use. He's hawking a book.
An the daughters of the Oprah audience just eat that shit up!!!!
I think Steve Harvey is so right, as women we love to tell eachother that it doesnt matter what you look like its all about intelligence and beautyis on the inside, which is true but its a whole heap of bull if youre trying to get someones attention. shiny things stand out and theres nothing wrong with you being shiny and then showing youre intlligence off later
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steve harvey is probably the stupidest man i know of from today.. man, what a bigot.. i am embarrased on his behalf.. seriously.. he has absolutley no clue on what anybody thinks..
well.. i`m 26 years old, and i`ve got a roof over my head, got two cars, a motorcykle, three computers, a frigde full of beer and food, and a cabinet full of guns.. not exactly crying ;-) and i live in norway, so i dont really need those guns.. and yes, I HATE CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE. haha.. ;-P
happy dosen`t quite cover it.. i`m extatic, thrilled, overjoyed :-D i got to grow up in the best country in the world.. it`s so good, that poor people arent really poor. ;-)
Many good points by Steve and Tyra, but they still didn't touch on every issue about things men look for.They only touched the surface. they missed a lot more details . Example certain women may have beautiful features and still not attract men. because certain traits of beauty are different for each man. Also the average looking women can sometimes outshine the so call beauty queen thats more attractive. Men have problems to attracting women it works both ways. Clue! Lacking Money?
@tokyolover86 this is too one sided.... ima have to disagree with steve on a couple of ypoics becuz women arent diffrtrnt from us and we deserve to be happy and placed on pedstals jus you like women do. that book is more catoring to women than being equal
@tokyolover86 DUH, was that not obvious, come on! lets play it stupid here, i guess this public acknowledge of such behavior was required for such realization!
As Dave Chapelle would say they problem with women is that women get advice about men FROM WOMEN. I was disappointed when the lady came on - Steve was giving much better information
@AsSheLikesIt I agree, WTF up with the Bra comment? Thats not the biggest turn off. HOW THE FUC DOES SHE KNOW??? The biggest turn off is a Woman's ADDITUDE!! All that INDEPENDANT WOMAN BULL SHIT!!!
I hardly wear heels and i never wear make-up but that never stopped a guy
4rm hollerin', there were days when i went outside to get bread from the local cornerstore in sweats, sneakers n a white tee and i still was hit on. I think guys like females in anything as long as she looks attractive 2 them and exudes confidence. I agree with him bout setting standards & applying the 90 day rule maybe even longer, because the longer u hold out and ask questions the more u get to know..is he really 4 me
make up and clothes doesnt make u attractive. If u put lipstick and a dress on a pig would that make it attractive? A beautiful woman is beautiful no matter what she has on
I hear you basement kid. But as a dark skinned sista. We don't get as much love as the light skinned sistas do. I'm just showing love to my fellow dark skinned sistas. Nothing wrong with that. I'm not looking to get into the whole dark skin, light skin debate. This is just my opinion. But I'd just like to clarify, people of all races are beautiful. I'm not saying that only dark skinned women are beautiful. I'm just giving props where props are due.
"You might not have a job tomorrow" Haha. Sounds like my father. When my parents were in the ARMY, still, she was worked double-duty, and was DRAGGING, then was told she had to be in in a couple hours again. When my dad saw her, he walked her all through base, prepared to KILL the man who made her do that. Thankfully, his steam ran out and he finally turned to her and said, "Let's go home."
@highbury10 Its all in promotion to sell his book,i can't stand the Tyra Show sometimes because everything on there is designed to either promote someone's album or book,or some false emotionalism with actors.She always promotes what's wrong
9:54/5 "yeah" 4 sure & fake nails r disgusting often esp if long but i totally disagree with the foot thing, i think high heels r bullshit, i want women 2 b comfortable & happy, that is sexy, all this skimpy high heeled presently trendy shit is bullshit 4 real girls, take it from me, i'm a real lover, i worship women, a happy confident, comfortable woman is a sexy as it gets, clothing is secondary
yea she interviewed 25 men... as a person with a masters in psychology... a group of 25 in a study... you dont know shit! she talking about flavors men like and dont like... you saw steve's face... she dont know shit
that blonde is retarted.....bottom line.. the old saying is tru about todays woman... why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free... alot of women have sex premature to get a guy to like him. when actually it give the opposite affect
I dont know any men that like the region of the women the best lol
bklegend718 2 weeks ago
also i know i can't spell you don't have to tell me
mannersworld 1 month ago
why am i watching this! i just watched part 1 and 2 and i'm taking notes in my head about this stuff but the thing i'm a guy when am i ever going to use this information.
mannersworld 1 month ago
You know women can provide and protect themselves Mr Harvey
devilshomie 1 month ago
im a guy, and i disagree with 90% of what he says. he basically categorized all men under what he thinks. the girl in yellow at least got 250 guys to know what different ppl think. he just went without thinking. and the way he speaks is very uneducated. and for a guy whose english is a second language to notice how bad his english is says a lot about steve. i dont like him as a comedian, and now i dont like him as a person
TheArutnev 1 month ago
THE GREATIST DEFENCEIVE BARRIOR --------- FOOTBALL
tonyyul703 2 months ago
They said you never seen a man cross a room for a woman's brain..ha..Have u seen a woman cross a room for a man's brain..Hell no..U def seen them cross the room for a man with money...aka groupies
fsbuckets 2 months ago
Here's what I don't like here about Harvey.
His body language, for 80% of the video, is showing disdain for the other guest up on the stage (chick in yellow) as if her dating advice is pure bullshit, simply because he doesn't agree. That doesn't say much for Steve.
JayNJayShow 2 months ago
taking advice from this relationship expert who isnt in a relationship hahahahahaha...ohk! lol i could see she doesnt get it when she said the sexy part isnt necesarily the cleavage but the upper part...ohk...lol i disagree!!!...maybe a gay guy lol
MrMose1988 2 months ago
@knowledge3440 EXactly.. he has gained knowledge as he grew older. how many men who have succeeded in just one relationship whiten a book about men and relationship?? you have no idea what u are talking about and guess what? He does ;)
MRcertifiedFreash 2 months ago
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your shoes can be of GOLD i don't give a DAMN if you are ugly!
Zronxziq 3 months ago
i love how most of these people who hate him or dont like what he is saying are boys or guys
MissShadrackrules 3 months ago 2
1.Men arent all that different biological from ladies
2.humans are social construction which mean cultur,ethicity,sexuality,sexes, identity is part of complex system which means its contructed between people and within different context not INSIDE of a person.
3Both book writers need to read sociology and socialphyschology they are misinformed and uneducted.
hansson2000 3 months ago
bahahah your foot cant look like mine bahahhah
DreaVonJazz 3 months ago
09:50 You can't listen to how to lure men or what their turn offs are with a face expression like that..HAHAHAHAHA,,she doesnt feel what they are saying
Madimaadi 3 months ago
actually the stuff he says is kinda true
cul2cat 3 months ago
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FUCK YOU STEVE.
BackInTheCage 4 months ago
Steve is one man. He cannot speak for other men because if I had a question for him, I would ask why did it take him three tries at marriage to get it right?
Knowledge3440 4 months ago 3
he speaks the truth, whether you like it or not, is not the point!
SuperWawa81 4 months ago 39
I'm sorry but I wouldn't get dating advice from a single grown woman..
MsMiMo18 4 months ago
Steve Harvey presents himself like a Reverend or Pastor doesnt he?? Its very classy. :D
MsMiMo18 4 months ago
"Men don't cross the room for a women's brain" WTF??? Sigh...
MouseMicky1990 4 months ago 2
LOVE IT OR HATE IT, THE GREAT MAJORITY OF THE MEN ARE EXACTLY HOW HE DESCRIBES HERE!!! YES, THERE ARE THE EXCEPTIONS, BUT FOR THE MOST PART HE'S BREAKING IT DOWN THE WAY REAL MEN ARE!!! GOOD OR BAD THAT'S WHAT I HAVE EXPERIENCED WITH THE MEN IN MY LIFE, NOT ONLY MY HUSBAND AND EX BOYFRIENDS, BUT FATHER, BROTHERS, COUSINS, FRIENDS. SO DEAL WITH THE REALITY OF HOW THE MAJORITY OF MEN ARE!! WAKE UP TO REALITY!!!
Brooklyngirl1969 5 months ago 5
@Brooklyngirl1969 untrue, what is your definition of a "real" man? It has no meaning its based on social constructed gender roles that people are expected to adhere to. Also understand that maybe that is your experience because you go after the same type of person, or people with similar mindsets. And the majority of me everywhere? No, look around the world, or just in the country itself, men come in all shapes and forms and belief systems generalizing them into this one being is crazy.
MouseMicky1990 4 months ago
@jscott181
I find that offensive. Considering I don't spend my time watching television, I wouldn't know about the "crimes" that that man has committed. How about you learn to spell and punctuate your sentences first, before you insult innocent bystanders. Learn to be mature. Obviously, it might take you a while, but I'm sure that in three...or twenty years, you'll learn to be respectuful.
Good luck...
You'll need it.
P.S
It's you're. Not your.
angel6554 6 months ago
If you don't understand why he's thought of as an idiot then your even dumber than him.
jscott181 6 months ago
WTF fuck no i aint into that 'decklotadge' bullshit. i love feet,legs,pussy and boobs
rafalthe1 6 months ago
"men are that stupid"...yes yes you are Steve Harvey Yes you are
PimpMyParadigm 6 months ago
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that's a dumbass question,what kind of bullshit is that:,,what kind a parfume do men prefer"........shiiiit,we like parfumes baby,any kind as long as it does not stinks you know what I mean.
Don't cuss Steve pleas,you haven;t been what he has been through,and boy please...no nigga.
Alexandru20101991 6 months ago
that's a dumbass question,what kind of bullshit is that:,,what kind a parfume do men prefer"........shiiiit,we like parfumes baby,any king as long as it does not stinks you know what I mean.
Don't cuss Steve pleas,you haven;t been what he has been through,and boy please...no nigga.
Alexandru20101991 6 months ago
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Why do so many black women have babies by these no good sorry ass low life unemployed won't get a job bombs??? Please comment.
Twoodssax1234567 6 months ago
Can somebody explain to me why this man is so hated?
angel6554 6 months ago
@angel6554 because he's an idiot and a bigot
jscott181 6 months ago
After careful consideration I've come to the conclusion that he's chatting shit.
JuicingDailyTV 6 months ago
This nigga is dumb ass....
xxRecklessBlazexx 7 months ago
that fucking cunt pisses me off. stupid fucking fag. u telling me that in order to get a chick i have to suck up to them? that steve wanker needs to stfu and talk some sence
rafalthe1 7 months ago
Lmao ` Most Of The Men On Here Are MAD Because Steve IS Spilling The Beans Psssst Get OVER IT ! Ahahaha I <3 You Steve .
2pacl0ve1 7 months ago
@2pacl0ve1 Yeh you keep thinking that smh..Sooooo ignorant
fsbuckets 2 months ago
Fuck Steve Harvey.
Krankdatking 7 months ago 3
WOW. He should just speak for himself. Trust me his book won't help you think like a man but it will help you think like Steve harvey & the only reason shes agreeing with him is because she is afraid not to. No damn book or one person is going to teach you to think like anyone.
blackfluid123 8 months ago
ok yall cursing out steve harvey but yet the lady is argeeing with him and she had to go out and do a survey, and then ivolve science. And all Steve Harvey had to do was use his brains and surrounding to get the SAME result. Yall need to stop trippin' yall may not like what they saying but most of it is true.... wat may not work for u may work for 2 million people in the world so stop being negative. Either watch it and move on or shut the hell up.
MIAlife97 8 months ago
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MIAlife97 8 months ago
I'm sorry, but I find all of this shiny business and scent and makeup stuff a huge turn off. Why in the world would I be attracted to someone who needs to alter their body to look beautiful? Either they're ugly or they don't have confidence in themselves, both of which I don't want to be a part of. Be natural, not artificial.
AgainstZombies 8 months ago
WOMEN IF U WANT A GOOD MAN JUST FIND 1 DAT REALLY LOVES GOD
edward873 9 months ago 2
The girl at 0:39 is fine as hell. I would wife her. Also, some of the stuff they are saying is true but there is something that they are excluding in their analysis and research. Women cant be too picky because women out number men and even successful men at that throughout the world and definitely in the US so there's bound to be someone left out.
Mytubezbigger 9 months ago
That lady is a complete idiot!
reeree212 9 months ago
@reeree212 in the yellow?? I think she has good points.. the two girls who wrote "hot chick" are hypocrites out to make an extra buck.. I browsed it in a local bookstore, and I doubt they used half the stuff they wrote in it
XoJackieLuvsRonniexo 9 months ago
fuck det bullshit if he dont like you for you fuck him ... fuck Steve Harvey and his logic ...
jcmrt 10 months ago 2
I cant believe that blond woman in the yellow is single, she is gorgeous. She could get any man she wants.
ANOTHERHOLEINYOHEAD 10 months ago
the blond girl needs to shut the hell up and quit talking for steve and freakin listen.
Deathstar931 10 months ago
Are flats that much of a turn-off? I really couldn't walk in heels 24/7. I'd rather only wear them on special occasions. And I don't get what's so bad about the nude bras and the fake stuff and all. Will someone explain it to me?
addicted2animation 10 months ago
@addicted2animation men are pigs.
DragonFly122 10 months ago
"We need to talk"
ugh...I'm not sure what's going to happen next but I know I'm not going to like it.
Terrible choice of words, ladies.
DragonFly122 11 months ago 4
I like a big butt ,'nuff said
bluestrapsify 11 months ago
I enjoyed your video, thanks.
songwriter4artists 11 months ago
Steve you cant tell me how i think...I am a man and I dont care what everybody says but every man is different...Your book is very ignorant b.c you making these women think that we all think the same. You're basically telling women how YOU think! The sad thing about this is that most of these women are ignorant enough to listen to you smh.
fsbuckets 11 months ago 13
@fsbuckets In his book he is mostly talking about how men think from HIS experience. His book is NOT based on scientific studies, so it is IMPOSSIBLE to generalize what he says in his book to every single men. That's not ignorant, it's called INVALID. His book is not the only book on interpersonal relationships, you should read more. Why do women listen to him? Because he shares from his own LIFE EXPERIENCES, instead of "valid" studies done on this area, people relate to the first a lot better.
BenGenio 7 months ago
@fsbuckets "The sad thing is that most of these women are ignorant enough to listen to you."
That's a very true statement. Women believe he knows what he's talkin about, simply because he's a celebrity with a book.
When I wrote MY book, I didn't just have MYSELF in mind when speaking about men. I tell women about every type of guy OUT there, even calling out Steve Harvey's 90 day rule as complete and utter bullshit, for various reasons.
So yea, I agree with you man. Alotta women are gullible.
JayNJayShow 2 months ago
@fsbuckets You do know he can't hear you, and even if he could, he's rich, so he probably wouldn't care
jordanprime92 2 months ago
@fsbuckets There ARE some common things that all men share. I think THAT is what he is touching up on for women to study.
Oaklandgirlpitlover1 1 month ago
@fsbuckets hater!! dont take it personally. you think that professional family or couples therapists also KNOW what men or women think? please, just enjoy the show and stop being a hater. just buy the book and make your wife happy.
be happy.
karilily 2 weeks ago
wow...how to get a man..by amazing hot blonde...vanilla?! grapefruit?! A woman could rub axle grease all over her body and i'd still take 'er down...did anyone notice how steve looked at her at 9:41?
mattamayo1 1 year ago
whoeehahaha... Your foot, cannot look like my foot.... hahaha I love that part!
nickipaepe 1 year ago
Oh shut up Steve...love his comedy but don't much care for he's views in detail...
bobnelly 1 year ago
I know my man loves me. He would do any thing in this world for me, our son, my other kids and my mother. He adores us.
m0renachula704 1 year ago
Great advice. I need to do my nails!!! :S
Yasminnie22 1 year ago
Vanilla is my fav female smell..lol i love when ladies wear tht joint!
Allday518 1 year ago
@Allday518 I have been wearing vanilla for years, guys love it.
m0renachula704 1 year ago
@m0renachula704 Ya I have to admit we really do
BARNEYRAPEDME69 1 year ago
white poeple have all this clinical nonsense studies.
Mandinko23 1 year ago
STFU mrwhatever213!!
dbemery1 1 year ago
Men don't like fake nails??? My man paid for me to get them........
vanessabunnies 1 year ago
@vanessabunnies That was white advice there. cause black guys don't care.
mrwhatever213 1 year ago 4
@vanessabunnies LOL they like that look. I hate when people say "men don't like makeup" "men don't like fake nails" they give us the money to get the hair, the nails, the makeup. LOL
m0renachula704 1 year ago
lol tyras face at 8:52
bfrew2 1 year ago
lol "smell like a cookie" that guy is so funny!!
bfrew2 1 year ago
damn, girl in the yellow better watch out, might fall on my dick, lol
Colt2571 1 year ago
@1:52-2:04 all ass kissing for sales right there. Uh yea if a guy likes your personality he will cross a river. Every guy likes vanilla...NOO....The neck/chest area? Are you retarded we want booty and breast duh! No flat shoes? Chick wear some damn tennis we dont care. These two are awful!
boiprof 1 year ago
@boiprof
Hello 4 or more month old comment!
Incase no one brought it up yet, just keep in mind these are much older and old fashioned individuals giving this advice. us being form the younger gen don't really care much about most of what they bring up. Also on a side note, you can't tell a persons personality from across a room, or river, either lol.
dwb17 1 year ago
I searched google specifically for this video because Whitney Casey stated that men look for the Décolletage which I think is actually pretty spot on. We start at the neck line and quickly let our eyes fall to the cleavage area. That usually falls under the first impression category.
c2thew 1 year ago
Steve ROCKS!!! The 3 p's r great, my man has all them!!! PROFESS, PROVIDE AND PROTECT!
muffyrocs1 1 year ago
I don't believe what everyone has to say or what they believe celeb or non-celeb. Only reason I can find for one to even begin to get upset regarding what he thins is that in some way you confused t.v. character and reality, and are now disappointed with what they have really believed all this time. We don't know these people! We can only make in our minds who they are to us. I agree to disagree. PERIOD. -Stolee
stoleethatsme 1 year ago
Um ya thats definantly not a guys favorite body part that's a FACT.
BARNEYRAPEDME69 1 year ago
look how steves lookin at her its so funny
glorygirl09 1 year ago
Who the fuck gave Steve the right to be the spokesman for all men
darthsasuke554 1 year ago 3
@darthsasuke554 do you disagree with some of the things he said?
nora50 1 year ago
@darthsasuke554 Hell, MEN and WOMEN have been doing that for decades, tv shows, music, politics, etc. Why focus on just him? He's not the first one (man or woman) to be speak and/ or promote their "ideal" of what is and what isn't, certainly won't be the last. You're a bit behind dear. -Stolee
stoleethatsme 1 year ago
@darthsasuke554 same shit i was thinking lol u aint lyin
6ull3tpr00f 1 year ago
@darthsasuke554 I agree with you! I was like who is he? Anyway, to me he's a comedian period.
leretour23 1 year ago
A man to say a woman doesnt need a man? Your a mad lil girl arent you...fess up.
SupaLocedoutTea 1 year ago
I think feminism just got set back 50 years.
MurasakiNeko 1 year ago 27
@MurasakiNeko hahah! how so?
nora50 1 year ago
@MurasakiNeko It's reeking havoc on the dating world so.. might not be a horrible thing. In dating only of course..
XoJackieLuvsRonniexo 9 months ago
@MurasakiNeko thank God...the sum of feminism has left a few generations of Fucked and Chucked women with no fathers to help raise them
jonesey5168 8 months ago
@MurasakiNeko Thank god for that
iteabagretardedgirls 8 months ago
@MurasakiNeko its makes me Crazy! men are all the same they will never change and its womens job to accommodate !!!
PimpMyParadigm 6 months ago
wow thats so true
wowso4 1 year ago
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I really thought her advice was shallow and the usual stuff that they feed us single women. Steve had that real stuff that made sense!!!
cutethickers 1 year ago
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I really thought her advice was shallow and the usual stuff that they feed us single women. Steve had that real stuff that made sense!!!
cutethickers 1 year ago
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I really thought her advice was shallow and the usual stuff that they feed us single women. Steve had that real stuff that made sense!!!
cutethickers 1 year ago
I really thought her advice was shallow and the usual stuff that they feed us single women. Steve had that real stuff that made sense!!!
cutethickers 1 year ago
"smell like a cookie!" OMG I love this man :)))
lusivideo 1 year ago
how can a grapefruit SCENT make u LOOK younger
ImUrFanGirl 1 year ago
I'm a woman and I do beleive that a man can and would cross a room for a womans brain.
1105196 1 year ago
@1105196 I'm a man, and I agree.
krufdx 1 year ago
shut the fuck up steve
jpmjpmjpm1 1 year ago
steve harvey is a buffoon catering to these bird-brained females that watch the Tyra Banks shitshow. all a female has to do is ask a platonic male friend what his views are on whatever topic and she can save whatever money she pays for this buffoon's "book."
neversayjello 1 year ago
MAN!!!!!!!! THE GIRL AT 39 SEC IS SO HOT
blackmagz21 1 year ago 4
Ok ladies, This is a man who is finally telling us the truth about what's really going on behind a mans eyes!!! How many times have you asked tour man, "Whatcha thinking about?" NOW YOU KNOW!!! Take the challenge and see how much more in control of your love life YOU can be, then, if you don't see an improvement go back to being the one they always throw back after they get what they want!
CityBizQueen916 1 year ago
i wanna fuk tyra even with her big forhead hahahhahha
MrGuerrero2000 1 year ago
1 Peter 3:7 7Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.
mabura111 1 year ago
1 Peter 3:4-7 4Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight. 5For this is the way the holy women of the past who put their hope in God used to make themselves beautiful. They were submissive to their own husbands, 6like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her master. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.
mabura111 1 year ago
1 Peter 3:1-7 1Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives, 2when they see the purity and reverence of your lives. 3Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.
mabura111 1 year ago
I think its funny that steve harvey is giving information to women about what women should find attractive in a man. Steve Harvey: "uh i think the ideal man is a black, christian comedian, who looks like a walrus!."
brpowerful 1 year ago
Steve Harvey has neither a brain or a ball sack. Douche bag.
calimagfan 1 year ago
ROFL... "SMELL LIKE A COOKIE"!!!!
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MRbossman1982 1 year ago
omg he jus said we like shiny. and that girl asked do men really look at shiny. ummm he jus said it like 100 times. im jus sayin. lol
htgirl06 1 year ago
i think guyss like wat ur face looks like...not ur clothes and shxt guyss like how pretty you are.....are the way ur shaped kuz i wear flats (i hate heels)lol i barley wear make-up and i still have guyss chassinqq me (most men love a women who is natrual No make-up No fake her and stuff so they can see that its not all the fake shxt thats maken yuh pretty) thats why i think guyss try too get at me even wen i look a mess haha!!!
Bubblez123takeova 1 year ago
Steve Harvey speaks for a segment of Black America known as "Grandfather Players" those who believe in traditional view of "how to be a man" that has nothing to do with reality or the world outside of there own.
Men don't always care about "The Shiny" got women on that show talking about "The Shiny" like its a actual term real men use. He's hawking a book.
An the daughters of the Oprah audience just eat that shit up!!!!
Baltimoreman78 2 years ago 3
Wow women are idiots sometimes.
Is it me or did Steve get 100 women to indoctrinate the word "Shiny" into their vocabulary of how they should look?
Yes, men like shiny things. Especially on cars and women. But hell, we don't like naked cars. We don't care if your women naked.
Baltimoreman78 2 years ago
"We don't care if your women naked"
huh...what r u saying?
kmcl11 1 year ago
I think Steve Harvey is so right, as women we love to tell eachother that it doesnt matter what you look like its all about intelligence and beautyis on the inside, which is true but its a whole heap of bull if youre trying to get someones attention. shiny things stand out and theres nothing wrong with you being shiny and then showing youre intlligence off later
Lohan0885 2 years ago 3
the whole swappin info...relates to "hes just not that into you" we always think we're the exception instead of the rule..which most of us are
kanyloser 2 years ago
women need to stop asking other women what we want fuck all that bs that the crazy lady in yellow is talking about
futureprince19 2 years ago
the white woman is SOOOOOOO annoying!! wow what is she doing here?
madabhile 2 years ago
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steve harvey is probably the stupidest man i know of from today.. man, what a bigot.. i am embarrased on his behalf.. seriously.. he has absolutley no clue on what anybody thinks..
tryne83 2 years ago
@tryne83 Perhaps is the stupiest man you know but I'm sure you also know is richer than your ass , HATER .
zrcjhf 2 years ago
well.. i`m 26 years old, and i`ve got a roof over my head, got two cars, a motorcykle, three computers, a frigde full of beer and food, and a cabinet full of guns.. not exactly crying ;-) and i live in norway, so i dont really need those guns.. and yes, I HATE CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE. haha.. ;-P
tryne83 2 years ago
but u never said you was happy,
mfynes 1 year ago
happy dosen`t quite cover it.. i`m extatic, thrilled, overjoyed :-D i got to grow up in the best country in the world.. it`s so good, that poor people arent really poor. ;-)
tryne83 1 year ago
@tryne83 wow ur in norway, i knw its random but im moving there later dis year, wat is it like??????
olayinka1904 1 year ago
Bullshit, intelligence is most likely the sexiest thing on earth. Stop generalizing.
PolisGrisFis 2 years ago
Many good points by Steve and Tyra, but they still didn't touch on every issue about things men look for.They only touched the surface. they missed a lot more details . Example certain women may have beautiful features and still not attract men. because certain traits of beauty are different for each man. Also the average looking women can sometimes outshine the so call beauty queen thats more attractive. Men have problems to attracting women it works both ways. Clue! Lacking Money?
jackhammer250 2 years ago
lol maybe they only touched the surface cause they want you to buy the book.
floetry613 2 years ago
Cookies and grapefruit. No.
Doughnut perfume.
NUDE BRAS A TURNOFF?!?
ChiefHoot 2 years ago
"You never see a man cross a room for a woman's brain." Powerful.
tokyolover86 2 years ago 38
@tokyolover86 this is too one sided.... ima have to disagree with steve on a couple of ypoics becuz women arent diffrtrnt from us and we deserve to be happy and placed on pedstals jus you like women do. that book is more catoring to women than being equal
millieboyent 1 year ago
@tokyolover86 i dont fuck brains
Colt2571 1 year ago
@tokyolover86 DUH, was that not obvious, come on! lets play it stupid here, i guess this public acknowledge of such behavior was required for such realization!
mollykjody 1 year ago
@tokyolover86 : Because its impossible to know what a woman's brain is like (if its there at all) from across the room.
sameer137 1 year ago
@tokyolover86
Unless you're talking about a zombie xD
btw congrats on having the highest rated comment =D -upvotes-
dwb17 1 year ago
@tokyolover86 i love his bluntness.
thewolfmanchu 1 year ago
@tokyolover86 Brain? or Brainnnnn
IAmSoTight1 10 months ago
smell like a cookie , hhahaha. i like that
mostwantend 2 years ago 41
As Dave Chapelle would say they problem with women is that women get advice about men FROM WOMEN. I was disappointed when the lady came on - Steve was giving much better information
AsSheLikesIt 2 years ago 2
@AsSheLikesIt I agree, WTF up with the Bra comment? Thats not the biggest turn off. HOW THE FUC DOES SHE KNOW??? The biggest turn off is a Woman's ADDITUDE!! All that INDEPENDANT WOMAN BULL SHIT!!!
Troo44 2 years ago 3
I hardly wear heels and i never wear make-up but that never stopped a guy
4rm hollerin', there were days when i went outside to get bread from the local cornerstore in sweats, sneakers n a white tee and i still was hit on. I think guys like females in anything as long as she looks attractive 2 them and exudes confidence. I agree with him bout setting standards & applying the 90 day rule maybe even longer, because the longer u hold out and ask questions the more u get to know..is he really 4 me
DJAshBoogs 2 years ago 4
make up and clothes doesnt make u attractive. If u put lipstick and a dress on a pig would that make it attractive? A beautiful woman is beautiful no matter what she has on
blaq7427 2 years ago
@blaq7427 IT WOULD MAKE THE PIG MORE ATTRACTIVE.
9xxxxxxxxx 1 year ago
Girl at 3:21 is such a beautiful dark skinned sista.
liyah7901 2 years ago 3
just let the girl be a beautiful sista. thats enough to know she's black. why does she have to be dark? im just sayin....
basementkid 2 years ago
I hear you basement kid. But as a dark skinned sista. We don't get as much love as the light skinned sistas do. I'm just showing love to my fellow dark skinned sistas. Nothing wrong with that. I'm not looking to get into the whole dark skin, light skin debate. This is just my opinion. But I'd just like to clarify, people of all races are beautiful. I'm not saying that only dark skinned women are beautiful. I'm just giving props where props are due.
liyah7901 2 years ago
@basementkid
Ain't nothing wrong with saying she is a beautiful dark skinned sista. That's no different then saying a white girl is a beautiful blonde.
calstate 2 years ago 4
agreed.. good example;)
RAMBOWYIGIT 2 years ago
"You might not have a job tomorrow" Haha. Sounds like my father. When my parents were in the ARMY, still, she was worked double-duty, and was DRAGGING, then was told she had to be in in a couple hours again. When my dad saw her, he walked her all through base, prepared to KILL the man who made her do that. Thankfully, his steam ran out and he finally turned to her and said, "Let's go home."
ChaoticButterfly 2 years ago
tyra is looking like she don't agree with anything steve is saying...
zimsistress 2 years ago
no one can speak on behalf of all men cuz all men aint the same
neyo196 2 years ago 2
@neyo196 exactly! This is all fake! They are acting like understanding men is based on some formula.
highbury10 1 year ago
@highbury10 Its all in promotion to sell his book,i can't stand the Tyra Show sometimes because everything on there is designed to either promote someone's album or book,or some false emotionalism with actors.She always promotes what's wrong
neyo196 1 year ago
this woman is an idiot!
men won't cross a room for a woman with brains? bullsh!t!!!
looking shiny and smelling good is nice, but if thats all you got you still won't be attracting any men. bottom line.
smilegonewild 2 years ago 4
i agree with you...looking great can get a man's attention, but your personality keeps it! :)
baileelduende 2 years ago 3
i LUV VANILLA!!! n welll im not a man but i luv shiny things 2...LAWL steve's "yeah"
unwritten123x 2 years ago
i luv this man!
unwritten123x 2 years ago 2
That guys is a traitor to men. Given away our secrets to woman. Steve harvey doesnt believe in dinosaurs
uzithrasha 2 years ago
he's a joke
flossit1 2 years ago
bimbo!
ochaiscream 2 years ago
smell like a cookie..lmao!
munkeytail14 2 years ago 2
even 250 is generalizing... she didnt sound like she knows what she is talking about bottom line
kcalb8 2 years ago
9:54/5 "yeah" 4 sure & fake nails r disgusting often esp if long but i totally disagree with the foot thing, i think high heels r bullshit, i want women 2 b comfortable & happy, that is sexy, all this skimpy high heeled presently trendy shit is bullshit 4 real girls, take it from me, i'm a real lover, i worship women, a happy confident, comfortable woman is a sexy as it gets, clothing is secondary
oeufgwoieu 2 years ago 2
So let's say you have a choice.
1) A woman comfortable in high-heel shoes
2) A woman comfortable in flats
Both are equal in all aspects but the shoes. And both are comfortable. Which one will you pick?
andante24 2 years ago
flats, but i prefer barefoot hippy women with nice eyes, big hearts & interesting minds... btw, i can't understand high heels being comfortable
oeufgwoieu 2 years ago 2
yea she interviewed 25 men... as a person with a masters in psychology... a group of 25 in a study... you dont know shit! she talking about flavors men like and dont like... you saw steve's face... she dont know shit
kcalb8 2 years ago 2
She said 250 men
andante24 2 years ago
that blonde is retarted.....bottom line.. the old saying is tru about todays woman... why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free... alot of women have sex premature to get a guy to like him. when actually it give the opposite affect
kcalb8 2 years ago 2
She actually interviewed men and read studies about dating so I think she knows more than you do.
If you keep having sex with guys on first dates,they'll categorize you,they'll think that you're in it for the sex and not for the love.
A lot of women have premature sex to get guys to like them.Yeah,that is true,and that is also why 54% of women out there are single.
lamike1982 2 years ago