I used to be just like you, not feeling good enough for anyone. But then i reconnected with God and he helped me get out of my situation. I used to try to starve my self, i had depression, and i used cut because i thought i deserved. But that all is behind me. I hope he too can help you with your struggles. You are not alone.
Ur not fat. I am. I am literally dying to be thin. I used to have so much energy but now I can barely get out of bed. I binge and purge all the time and then I don't rat for days at a time and even when I haven't eaten I feel the need to purge. I don't want you to have to go through this your not fat.
Every girl wants to have a perfect model body, what you see in magazines etc. But the truth it, they aren't 'real' women, no women's natural body looks like that and women have to learn to accept that. Lots of celebrities get stuff done to their bodies as they were obviously self conscious too and felt the need to do it. Everyone has bad body days but they should all learn to accept their beautiful, natural bodies :)
hey babe m listen , i am really fat , and trust me your not fat everyone is unique in our own way , i have got myself into horrible habits like purging:/ , your beautiful and stunning , i would love to have a figure like you , take care love. xxx
You will never love yourself if you don't decide it.What you made is amazing,i know how you feel. but struggling won't help you and deep inside you,you know it <3
babe you are what you are you look beautiful i know these words may no help help you but don't worry what people think you are perfect ans i hope you find inner peace and happiness god bles
oh wow i wanna hug you so bad believe it or not but i'm going threw the same crap right now it sucks i know but trust me ur way more better then me to have the guts to come out and tell the whole world about how u actally feel
your beautiful! Alot of girls out there look like STICKS!! Your hell better looking then an UGLY stick thin slutly girl!! AND NO!! I'm not saying that every girl that is thin out there is a slut! There are nasty girls in all shapes and sizes~most of you are lovley people I meant in a media like way (:
I have an idea what anerexia is it feels like a trap, confusion, and the only one you trust is ana. She tells you what to do, you have no freedom, You and simlple told to be thin and perfact. However the thiner you get you just want to be thiner. Ana is a deman She is the one makeing you feel fat, ugly big, she is the one giving you pressure when you fast , I know the truth.. the dreams.. the relatity.. THE HELL
I have an idea what anerexia is it feels like a trap, confusion, and the only one you trust is ana. She tells you what to do, you have no freedom, You and simlple told to be thin and perfact. However the thiner you get you just want to be thiner. Ana is a deman She is the one makeing you feel fat, ugly big, she is the one giving you pressure when you fast , I know the truth.. the dreams.. the relatity.. THE HELL
Every girl will always see what isnt as good as the models, or celebs. Thats just how girls are. But to let that take over your life, it would be rather silly.
There are people who are slim, or fat, or physicaly ill, disabled.
Sweetheart, You Are Perfect, in God's eyes, and in the eyes of everyone who loves you.
And if you was to just obbsess over this, it woul do nothing but ruin the top most best qualities about you.
hey girl..first you are not fat and my bro is even fatter than you but he doesnt show it in any way.. just dont care what ppl think and live happy :) cuz thats how its meant to be ;)
THOSE are the things that keep you from being happy, not your weight.
Loosing weight doesn't help you any more than drinking alcohol or taking drugs does. It doesn't solve problems, it just creates new ones. And the old ones stay.
Again: anorexia is not the way to happiness. On the contrary. The only people I ever hear whining about their life and their bodies are anorectic.
Love What Are You On About Wanting To Be .." Thin Beautiful And Perfect" Does Being A Skeleton Make You Pretty ? I Think That Most People Would Agree It Dosent! =] x
don't listen to the comments of people telling you to stop eating.if that's you in those pictures, you're not fat,you're just right.all those models and celebrities you showed are too skinny,some of them will probably be dead before they're 40.your body is exactly the way God wants it,all you have to do is take care of it. eat healthy and excercise,but do it to be healthy,not to lose weight.i'll pray for you.and even though you don't know me,if you ever need someone to talk to,i'm here
If you are ana, is it possible to stop growing? I'm ana, 15yrs old and only a 30AA cup and 5ft tall. No periods (I havent been ana for long tho) What if I don't grow? I want to be ana but what if I die of one of the health risks???? SOMEONE REPLY!!!!!!!!!
im sory. i dont kno. dont become ana. i was recently dignosed with ana as one of the effects of my Sensory food elusion (another ed). it is terrifing and hard. there is a good chance of death. i dont want to die. and im preety shure you dont either. im tryin to stop ppl from becomin ana. save yourself while u can.
you want to be ana?! that is so sad... but it is not possible!this is a disease not a lifestyle you should understand it and live your life before it's too late
I agree with KateinBlack. If you want to be thin, Exercise and go on a diet. I used to be above 200lbs, but I started exercising and eating healthier foods, and I've lost about 30lbs. I would never put my body in danger with eating disorders and purging and all that shit. I love life, even if it does suck.
I read this book to help me understand how i could support my sister with her eating disorder, it was amazing! It's called
"Life without Ed" How one women overcame her eating disorder and you can too! I may not have an eating disorder but the chapter on perfectionism was just like me! Everbody at EDI raves about how great it is, and how helpful it is, its a must read!
u worry me, I think u need to talk to someone about ur struggles with ur body image and the pain u feel inside. Perfectionism plays a huge role in eating disorders. I hope 1 day u will be able to look into the mirrior and see yourself as beautiful, no matter ur size, as long as ur healthy, u are beautiful. When ur happy &passionate about something the eyes light up& sparkle, i think thats beautiful! I think curves r beautiful, I think women w/ confidence in themselves is a beautiful thing!
You deserve to be happy and love yourself don't listen to anyone else on here who doesn't understand where your at in life best of luck in life I hope you find love and recovery
you really need to see yourself for who you are. I am a size 10 and i think im thin enough. sure i get called fat sometimes but i dont let it get to me because i would rather look how people are supposed too look than real skinny. It does more damage than people realise and i wouldnt want to harm my chance of having children and living in general just to look good by other peoples standards. You are perfect as you are x
i agree with you, gingerphile. im a size 6 and right now for the first time in years i love my body. i also occasionaly get called fat but i dont care anymore because i feel healthy. i had and eating disorder about 10 months ago. it was horible. i only lost 15 pounds but it was one of the hardest times of my life. when i got help i realised that its only partialy about my weight, i was lonely and insecure. i wanted poeple to lnow that my life wasnt perfect. im glad i got help.
my gawd huney-please dont give up!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! dont lets those ugly rail models make u think ur fat-YOU ARE PERFECT. you are healthy. god gave us food to eat. please do not let all those models get to ur head honey!! ur beautiful!!!!
omg i totaly understand where you're coming from and how u feel! people say 'you're skinny/healthy/fine, u dont need to lose weight' but its not what other people think of yourself, its what you think of yourself and no one gets that!
OMG my friend is going through the same thing. I know its tuf, but ur so beautiful!!! REALLY although its hard for you to see, its true. Dont look at those ugly models. See the beautiful ones. Like tyra banks. Please, God gave us skin and flesh to cover our bones.
Sweetheart you are absolutly perfect in every way. Those other girls are not healthy and God makes us who we are, he made you beautiful, look through a different mirror love.
SO TRUE! remember when u were a little girl, and u would look at ur mother and see a beautiful woman? She is, but not because she is bone rail thin! Because she is! Ur so gorgous!!!! never give up!!!
Dont give up on sunshine, the only rain welcome on a beautiful sunny day is the reign of the pure inspiration in a troubled time... in other words, Im here for you aswell.
I agree...The best way to proceed down this path, I found, is to totally accept Ana, and even if the road becomes bumpy, You'll find the strength to Stay Strong...
awesome video love the effects I too feel the same way as you do. at times stay strong you can do this we will do this together. lots of love and support Angie
I used to be just like you, not feeling good enough for anyone. But then i reconnected with God and he helped me get out of my situation. I used to try to starve my self, i had depression, and i used cut because i thought i deserved. But that all is behind me. I hope he too can help you with your struggles. You are not alone.
amber301132 8 months ago
Ur not fat. I am. I am literally dying to be thin. I used to have so much energy but now I can barely get out of bed. I binge and purge all the time and then I don't rat for days at a time and even when I haven't eaten I feel the need to purge. I don't want you to have to go through this your not fat.
kammycakes13 8 months ago
Every girl wants to have a perfect model body, what you see in magazines etc. But the truth it, they aren't 'real' women, no women's natural body looks like that and women have to learn to accept that. Lots of celebrities get stuff done to their bodies as they were obviously self conscious too and felt the need to do it. Everyone has bad body days but they should all learn to accept their beautiful, natural bodies :)
BabeeBlue0x 10 months ago
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Hey love, no one is perfect. And models and celebs are barbies. They're pretty much fake. And hun you should love yourself just cause you're you:)
Just be who ya are and enjoy life<3
NikkiEatsZ0mbies 1 year ago
Hey love, no one is perfect. And models and celebs are barbies. They're pretty much fake. And hun you should love yourself just cause you're you:)
Just be who ya are and enjoy life<3
NikkiEatsZ0mbies 1 year ago
hey babe m listen , i am really fat , and trust me your not fat everyone is unique in our own way , i have got myself into horrible habits like purging:/ , your beautiful and stunning , i would love to have a figure like you , take care love. xxx
alwayssandforever1 1 year ago
i understand.
beastindiva8 1 year ago
You will never love yourself if you don't decide it.What you made is amazing,i know how you feel. but struggling won't help you and deep inside you,you know it <3
BunnyzZzZzZ1 1 year ago
Love is the delusion that one man or woman differs from another.
peppercornbtbij 1 year ago
it makes me sad to know you think your fat.
LauraaCullenGethinss 1 year ago
thanks i know how u feel sasha i know wat u mean like teachers and parents say ur perfect normal but they have to say that
111lonelygirl 1 year ago
I know exactly how you feel.. I feel like this every day
jadeayche 1 year ago
people tell, and tell you over and over again, but it doesnt help... does it?! its the worst feeling ever.
lionessbabez 1 year ago
bbe u ant alone i wish i was fine n not fat but ur fab i
chel4tom08 1 year ago
you're not alone ...
cemoisara 1 year ago
i've got the same body as you have. and i hate myself-cause i'm so fat.
Temagraaf5 1 year ago
i completely understand wher yur coming from...
i want to be thin so bad
i have such a hard time finding the willpower to stop eating... i punish myself with cutting...
no one understands...
nevertooempty 1 year ago
@nevertooempty i understand u! stay strong:)
Temagraaf5 1 year ago
I Have Weight Problems Too. :( I Calucate My Calories Everyday & Become Depressed When I Eat Too Much.
chassidy1234 1 year ago
babe you are what you are you look beautiful i know these words may no help help you but don't worry what people think you are perfect ans i hope you find inner peace and happiness god bles
1100dogs 1 year ago
i know what your going through. add me as a friend. im anorexic and am dying but want to die inorder to be skinny. we can talk
allalone4life 1 year ago
oh wow i wanna hug you so bad believe it or not but i'm going threw the same crap right now it sucks i know but trust me ur way more better then me to have the guts to come out and tell the whole world about how u actally feel
OneTimeFriends 1 year ago
i totaly agree with you. i feel that way to
7crd 2 years ago
your beautiful! Alot of girls out there look like STICKS!! Your hell better looking then an UGLY stick thin slutly girl!! AND NO!! I'm not saying that every girl that is thin out there is a slut! There are nasty girls in all shapes and sizes~most of you are lovley people I meant in a media like way (:
msredhedgal 2 years ago
i was always an outcast i know how u feel
kinslayer037 2 years ago
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singlaprety12 2 years ago
We understand. Your online buddies.
I'll support you. I barely know you, but we have one thing in common.
The pain.
EshnaHere 2 years ago
i understand how it feels
GennEvee 2 years ago 3
listen girl. dnt make urself look the way u want to, if u do . u wont be ur . you is who u are. not someone else
oxoCaseyoxoLaceyoxo 2 years ago
im sorry if i make u mad but
u don't need to be small to be
perfect. rember that.
Bionca12345 2 years ago
Every girl will always see what isnt as good as the models, or celebs. Thats just how girls are. But to let that take over your life, it would be rather silly.
There are people who are slim, or fat, or physicaly ill, disabled.
Sweetheart, You Are Perfect, in God's eyes, and in the eyes of everyone who loves you.
And if you was to just obbsess over this, it woul do nothing but ruin the top most best qualities about you.
God Loves you,
You are Perfect to him
Bx
buniluva91 2 years ago 8
hey girl..first you are not fat and my bro is even fatter than you but he doesnt show it in any way.. just dont care what ppl think and live happy :) cuz thats how its meant to be ;)
kiselichko 3 years ago 4
sweetie yoy have all my love and support
i feel the same
and don't listen to the negative comments suirely if they understood they would know that the worse thing to do is to be parental and criticize you
francepetre 3 years ago
loads of people know what you're going through, its not just all about you.
xoxcarrotsxox 3 years ago
The song is by Evanescene, and it's called My immortal .
SissalDH 3 years ago
I watched this video and i cried this is me i dont know what to do :'(
klchick94 3 years ago
who sings the song?
TieTyTie 3 years ago
Evaneschence - My Immortal
Panky1990 2 years ago
Stop defining your value merely by your looks.
Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
THOSE are the things that keep you from being happy, not your weight.
Loosing weight doesn't help you any more than drinking alcohol or taking drugs does. It doesn't solve problems, it just creates new ones. And the old ones stay.
Again: anorexia is not the way to happiness. On the contrary. The only people I ever hear whining about their life and their bodies are anorectic.
kmyjenna 3 years ago 4
"no one knows what i go through"
-I dO.
veganlove113 3 years ago 2
so do I.... sad... :(
ccriiss 3 years ago
How does this song called?
ilse4573 3 years ago
My immortal - Evanescence
mcrXninjaXyo 3 years ago
great video and i love this song:)
123354cool 3 years ago
Love What Are You On About Wanting To Be .." Thin Beautiful And Perfect" Does Being A Skeleton Make You Pretty ? I Think That Most People Would Agree It Dosent! =] x
chelsearules123 3 years ago
don't listen to the comments of people telling you to stop eating.if that's you in those pictures, you're not fat,you're just right.all those models and celebrities you showed are too skinny,some of them will probably be dead before they're 40.your body is exactly the way God wants it,all you have to do is take care of it. eat healthy and excercise,but do it to be healthy,not to lose weight.i'll pray for you.and even though you don't know me,if you ever need someone to talk to,i'm here
vivaelphaba 3 years ago 2
my previous coment was for xx93emoxx not for downDyerRoad i'm sorry
izzzity 3 years ago
....powned?
GooAhead 3 years ago
poor girl... it´s sad to hear how unconfident
some girls are
yummiyoghurtgums 3 years ago
wat song is this its amazing n gall ur beautiful im tellingg uu pleass dnt doo diss to urselff itss not worthh itt imm tellinn u gall ur gorjuzz...
nanitaskhob 3 years ago
If you are ana, is it possible to stop growing? I'm ana, 15yrs old and only a 30AA cup and 5ft tall. No periods (I havent been ana for long tho) What if I don't grow? I want to be ana but what if I die of one of the health risks???? SOMEONE REPLY!!!!!!!!!
xx93emoxx 3 years ago
im sory. i dont kno. dont become ana. i was recently dignosed with ana as one of the effects of my Sensory food elusion (another ed). it is terrifing and hard. there is a good chance of death. i dont want to die. and im preety shure you dont either. im tryin to stop ppl from becomin ana. save yourself while u can.
Gaaraluv11 3 years ago
you want to be ana?! that is so sad... but it is not possible!this is a disease not a lifestyle you should understand it and live your life before it's too late
izzzity 3 years ago
darling if you really were an ana, then you wouldn't be worrying about the health risks.
take the easy option and out before she really does take over.
ollybrollypie 3 years ago 2
Good video... You might as well be Thankfull for what you've got Is amaizing on how life can change.. Give it your best shot..
babyxxphat 3 years ago 2
I agree with KateinBlack. If you want to be thin, Exercise and go on a diet. I used to be above 200lbs, but I started exercising and eating healthier foods, and I've lost about 30lbs. I would never put my body in danger with eating disorders and purging and all that shit. I love life, even if it does suck.
SarahGekkou 3 years ago 2
If you want to be thin stop eating and do some exercisses! nobody say you that it will be easy! so work harder!
KateinBlack 3 years ago
Great vid! ahhhh this is a struggle, but push through the hell, adn we'll make it out stronger...i know it
Heheals5 3 years ago
oh my god
i know eqzactly how you feel
i feel sick looking at myself
love the body your in right? You have a whole lifetime of it, might as well love it
eviesquidgy 3 years ago
I read this book to help me understand how i could support my sister with her eating disorder, it was amazing! It's called
"Life without Ed" How one women overcame her eating disorder and you can too! I may not have an eating disorder but the chapter on perfectionism was just like me! Everbody at EDI raves about how great it is, and how helpful it is, its a must read!
smiles4u007 3 years ago
u worry me, I think u need to talk to someone about ur struggles with ur body image and the pain u feel inside. Perfectionism plays a huge role in eating disorders. I hope 1 day u will be able to look into the mirrior and see yourself as beautiful, no matter ur size, as long as ur healthy, u are beautiful. When ur happy &passionate about something the eyes light up& sparkle, i think thats beautiful! I think curves r beautiful, I think women w/ confidence in themselves is a beautiful thing!
smiles4u007 3 years ago 2
You deserve to be happy and love yourself don't listen to anyone else on here who doesn't understand where your at in life best of luck in life I hope you find love and recovery
gabby86 3 years ago
Ana is not about your appearance, it's about your head. Someday she will be thin and can't stop wanting to be thinner.
jadwiga40 4 years ago
um ur not anorexic
Brittany9021 4 years ago
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i hope u all die u fuking fags and fuking thin womens,fuck u all rotten in hell,GO CRAWL BACK UNDER THE STONE U FUCKING NO LIFERS !
astiboga 4 years ago
you should learn how to be a little more considerate with people. stop cursing so much
rg1029 4 years ago 4
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i really dont give a fuck,but what the hell ? emo way is not way out,ffs...fuk u all emo bitches !
astiboga 4 years ago
emo? what are you talking about?
radioheadcreeps 3 years ago
u look perfectly fine dear,
bambamyeye 4 years ago
thank you so much for your words.. they really touch me. :)
downDyerRoad 4 years ago
you really need to see yourself for who you are. I am a size 10 and i think im thin enough. sure i get called fat sometimes but i dont let it get to me because i would rather look how people are supposed too look than real skinny. It does more damage than people realise and i wouldnt want to harm my chance of having children and living in general just to look good by other peoples standards. You are perfect as you are x
gingerphile 4 years ago 2
i agree with you, gingerphile. im a size 6 and right now for the first time in years i love my body. i also occasionaly get called fat but i dont care anymore because i feel healthy. i had and eating disorder about 10 months ago. it was horible. i only lost 15 pounds but it was one of the hardest times of my life. when i got help i realised that its only partialy about my weight, i was lonely and insecure. i wanted poeple to lnow that my life wasnt perfect. im glad i got help.
JJubes 3 years ago
Glad to hear u dont care anymore *thumbs up!*
gingerphile 3 years ago
my gawd huney-please dont give up!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!! dont lets those ugly rail models make u think ur fat-YOU ARE PERFECT. you are healthy. god gave us food to eat. please do not let all those models get to ur head honey!! ur beautiful!!!!
simplie8blonde8duh 4 years ago
omg i totaly understand where you're coming from and how u feel! people say 'you're skinny/healthy/fine, u dont need to lose weight' but its not what other people think of yourself, its what you think of yourself and no one gets that!
xxsashaxx 4 years ago 10
yes exactly & that is wut I try to tell ppl all the time.
downDyerRoad 3 years ago 3
@xxsashaxx yesah im just the same
Megahtash 1 year ago
I feel the same ... lots of hugs you are beautifull sweetie
francepetre 4 years ago 4
you should go get some help..... this isnt healthy.
PinkyPig001 4 years ago
You aren't fat at all! You are healthy! Isn't that better?
<3
Dogfriends 4 years ago
OMG my friend is going through the same thing. I know its tuf, but ur so beautiful!!! REALLY although its hard for you to see, its true. Dont look at those ugly models. See the beautiful ones. Like tyra banks. Please, God gave us skin and flesh to cover our bones.
taylor222gogirl 4 years ago 2
OMG!!!!
Youh Arnt Fat Nd Youh No Youh Arnt
Yah Just Tryin To Get Atention
Sorrie But If You Want To Be Tat Thin Its Sick Getalife I no Evry 1 Els Thinks That Is well
Im Just Sayn Wat I Think
Not Every one is perfect if there was then wats the point in living :S
lurv hayley
xxxxxx
butterflybbe07 4 years ago
Sweetheart you are absolutly perfect in every way. Those other girls are not healthy and God makes us who we are, he made you beautiful, look through a different mirror love.
abercrombieguy6 4 years ago 2
I'm trying I really am, because I'm tired of dealing with my weight issues
downDyerRoad 4 years ago 2
You don't even need to try, believe me you look great...there shouldnt be any issues.
abercrombieguy6 4 years ago
SO TRUE! remember when u were a little girl, and u would look at ur mother and see a beautiful woman? She is, but not because she is bone rail thin! Because she is! Ur so gorgous!!!! never give up!!!
taylor222gogirl 4 years ago
hun, you are gorgeous!! you dont need to lose one single pound!!!!! take care beautiful girl! :) x
xtmb93x 4 years ago
I wish I could see what you see.
downDyerRoad 4 years ago
Great work!I love it!I understand you!I feel too!It's hard but I want it!Look at my Vid!<3 Steffi
PrincessStefanie 4 years ago
Dont give up on sunshine, the only rain welcome on a beautiful sunny day is the reign of the pure inspiration in a troubled time... in other words, Im here for you aswell.
83Fury 4 years ago
thank u guys it means a lot..
downDyerRoad 4 years ago
im hear for u hun.
mianablack 4 years ago
I agree...The best way to proceed down this path, I found, is to totally accept Ana, and even if the road becomes bumpy, You'll find the strength to Stay Strong...
take care,
<3
Mac
oldermaleanamia 4 years ago
totally i agree
downDyerRoad 4 years ago
awesome video love the effects I too feel the same way as you do. at times stay strong you can do this we will do this together. lots of love and support Angie
angienicholas 4 years ago
I know EXACTLY how you feel. Different situation same emotional feelings, trust me I COMPLETELY understand your pain n' you CAN come out of this! :)
TameraRae07 4 years ago
I wish.. thanx
downDyerRoad 4 years ago
I understand. Just don't give up, it may be hard now but the struggle becomes easier. Bleh I had a crap day yesterday too.
chantelexo 4 years ago
yeap it's gettin' better. thanx hope you have better ones as well. thanx for the support.
xoxo
downDyerRoad 4 years ago