i have a crush on my friend (she's a girl and a lesbian too) but she has a crush on this other girl who isn't a lesbian.......i can't stop thinking about her.....think someone can help?
@kkgirl597 I think you should talk with her about this. I mean, she's your friend. And good friends should trust each other and be able to tell everything that bothers them. Maybe she can help you better than me. I'll tell you this, if you don't tell her and you see her with other girls it'll break your heart so many times you'll die of unhappiness. You don't deserve that. So I suggest you just talk with her about this ^^
@mopardodge00 So if I got this right you're transsexual AND lesbian. That would mean that you're straight, but since you feel like a girl I'll threat you like one. But I don't quit understand what your problem exactly is. So if you send me a Private Message so you can explain the problem and I can help you without everybody on youtube to read this. Okay?? ^^ I'll be waiting for your message.
well i came out about being a lesbian to my friends at first and then my family well my friends are cool but the family isnt ! and well i want to go to this club that they have at my school called the gay straight alliance or someing like that but i cant go unless i tell my parents this .... how do i do that ?
@DaNcE4eValove The best thing to do is just tell your parents ^^ One day they have to accept it that you're lesbian. My parents also didn't understand in the first place, but I'm still their daughter. And it may take a while....but parents always want the best for their kids. So...if you tell your parents about it and that you really want to go, you may have a chance they'll let you. And if they don't then you should wait and see. If they don't let you go, maybe you should try some weeks later
@xxxXGuNzXxxx Sorry....but I'm the one giving advice here. Don't get me wrong...
If I can help you with something that's fine...I'll do my best to help you. But don't get my advice to others down. Maybe you want to help too, you had experience yourself with this I guess. But that counts for you, maybe not for her. And if you don't give it a try you'll never know. And what kind of bad things could happen?
How can you stand all the people that make fun of you for being a lesbian? I know it's pride but what if you don't have pride? Don't you feel strange compared to everyone else?
@Mininace Ofcourse you feel strange, ofcourse you feel different. It will take some time, but sooner or later people around you will accept it. Most of them at least. I've also been bullied for almost 2 years, but I'm still here because of my friends. You just have to go through this. And I know that it hurts, but you are who you are. If they don't accept you the way you are then it's their problem not yours. Don't change yourself because they want it.
ok so my screen name is a guys because i didnt want people to know that im a girl, but i am a girl and im a bisexual. i have a best friend(girl) that i like a lot and ive told her that i like her, but shes straight and she has a boyfriend. well she did. we were at my house and i was planing to kiss her, but her boyfriend texted her and her face was in shock and well her boyfriend broke up with her through a text and well that kinda runned the night, so when do u think i should try to kiss her?
You shouldn't kiss her if you don't know she'll like it. You could hurt her feelings and even loose her. Don't think you want that. I've done it myself once, kiss my best friend because I liked her. But she didn't like it and I hurt her feelings. I almost lost her. But I apologized after a long long fight. After that I knew I shouldn't kiss anybody just like that. You don't know how they'll react on it. So...my advice....don't kiss her unless you know she wants it.
Ok, so here is my story. I have just come out to some of my VERY good friends... and I am starting to feel very strong feelings for on of them, and I don't know if she is a lesbian or anything D:
I get so nervous near her, and I find myself purposely asking her for help with some of my work.
Is this normal?
Should I talk to her? D:
(P.S. I have just come out to myself early this month)
It's normal that (sometimes) the one you have feelings for is one of your friends. Normaly always the one who's closest to you. I can know, the first one I had feelings for was my very best friend. But you should carefully tell that you have feelings for her. If she also has feelings for you, you're VERY lucky. But I think that if she had feelings for you, she would've already told you, don't you think? But you should talk to her. But very carefully, you never know how people are going to react.
Thanks for the advice, but i do have one question that been floating around me for awhile now..
i'm 17, do u think it's normal to feel misplaced because i dont have, nor am interested in a boyfriend? By now people are kinda expecting me to have one...
the original song that I used was "accidentally in love" but youtube didn't accept it...so I had to change it...the song is called "angel" but I don't know the artist...sorry
i have a crush on my friend (she's a girl and a lesbian too) but she has a crush on this other girl who isn't a lesbian.......i can't stop thinking about her.....think someone can help?
kkgirl597 2 months ago
@kkgirl597 I think you should talk with her about this. I mean, she's your friend. And good friends should trust each other and be able to tell everything that bothers them. Maybe she can help you better than me. I'll tell you this, if you don't tell her and you see her with other girls it'll break your heart so many times you'll die of unhappiness. You don't deserve that. So I suggest you just talk with her about this ^^
DeadLikeMe1234 2 months ago
im a lesbian in a mans body, i need help getting out!!!
mopardodge00 6 months ago
@mopardodge00 So if I got this right you're transsexual AND lesbian. That would mean that you're straight, but since you feel like a girl I'll threat you like one. But I don't quit understand what your problem exactly is. So if you send me a Private Message so you can explain the problem and I can help you without everybody on youtube to read this. Okay?? ^^ I'll be waiting for your message.
DeadLikeMe1234 6 months ago
i love advice 3
royalpain93 11 months ago
okay ...
well i came out about being a lesbian to my friends at first and then my family well my friends are cool but the family isnt ! and well i want to go to this club that they have at my school called the gay straight alliance or someing like that but i cant go unless i tell my parents this .... how do i do that ?
DaNcE4eValove 1 year ago
@DaNcE4eValove The best thing to do is just tell your parents ^^ One day they have to accept it that you're lesbian. My parents also didn't understand in the first place, but I'm still their daughter. And it may take a while....but parents always want the best for their kids. So...if you tell your parents about it and that you really want to go, you may have a chance they'll let you. And if they don't then you should wait and see. If they don't let you go, maybe you should try some weeks later
DeadLikeMe1234 1 year ago
@DaNcE4eValove I wouldn't. My mother threatened to kick me out if I ever said it again.
xxxXGuNzXxxx 1 year ago
@xxxXGuNzXxxx Sorry....but I'm the one giving advice here. Don't get me wrong...
If I can help you with something that's fine...I'll do my best to help you. But don't get my advice to others down. Maybe you want to help too, you had experience yourself with this I guess. But that counts for you, maybe not for her. And if you don't give it a try you'll never know. And what kind of bad things could happen?
DeadLikeMe1234 1 year ago
How can you stand all the people that make fun of you for being a lesbian? I know it's pride but what if you don't have pride? Don't you feel strange compared to everyone else?
Mininace 1 year ago
@Mininace Ofcourse you feel strange, ofcourse you feel different. It will take some time, but sooner or later people around you will accept it. Most of them at least. I've also been bullied for almost 2 years, but I'm still here because of my friends. You just have to go through this. And I know that it hurts, but you are who you are. If they don't accept you the way you are then it's their problem not yours. Don't change yourself because they want it.
DeadLikeMe1234 1 year ago
i've done advice 2 but its still out of hand!
lilstacks100 1 year ago
ok so my screen name is a guys because i didnt want people to know that im a girl, but i am a girl and im a bisexual. i have a best friend(girl) that i like a lot and ive told her that i like her, but shes straight and she has a boyfriend. well she did. we were at my house and i was planing to kiss her, but her boyfriend texted her and her face was in shock and well her boyfriend broke up with her through a text and well that kinda runned the night, so when do u think i should try to kiss her?
MrCoolboy407 1 year ago
@MrCoolboy407
You shouldn't kiss her if you don't know she'll like it. You could hurt her feelings and even loose her. Don't think you want that. I've done it myself once, kiss my best friend because I liked her. But she didn't like it and I hurt her feelings. I almost lost her. But I apologized after a long long fight. After that I knew I shouldn't kiss anybody just like that. You don't know how they'll react on it. So...my advice....don't kiss her unless you know she wants it.
DeadLikeMe1234 1 year ago
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MrCoolboy407 1 year ago
@DeadLikeMe1234 ok thanks for the advice.
MrCoolboy407 1 year ago
i am lesbian but i only like fat ones cause they taste good, as in their vagina
lacgreen711 1 year ago
Ok, so here is my story. I have just come out to some of my VERY good friends... and I am starting to feel very strong feelings for on of them, and I don't know if she is a lesbian or anything D:
I get so nervous near her, and I find myself purposely asking her for help with some of my work.
Is this normal?
Should I talk to her? D:
(P.S. I have just come out to myself early this month)
BillNyethesqurril 2 years ago
It's normal that (sometimes) the one you have feelings for is one of your friends. Normaly always the one who's closest to you. I can know, the first one I had feelings for was my very best friend. But you should carefully tell that you have feelings for her. If she also has feelings for you, you're VERY lucky. But I think that if she had feelings for you, she would've already told you, don't you think? But you should talk to her. But very carefully, you never know how people are going to react.
DeadLikeMe1234 2 years ago
heya i need a lil advice if thas ok cn u email me xx death-kittee-inlove-foreverAThotmailDOTcoDOTuk
NEXbyDK 2 years ago
Can someone help me that's a girl.
I really need help!!!!
Meansarah16 2 years ago
Hi there...
You needed help.
Send me a message and tell me what's wrong. ^^
DeadLikeMe1234 2 years ago
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aprilfirer 2 years ago
yeah sure ^^
Send me a message and tell me your problem.
DeadLikeMe1234 2 years ago
Thanks for the advice, but i do have one question that been floating around me for awhile now..
i'm 17, do u think it's normal to feel misplaced because i dont have, nor am interested in a boyfriend? By now people are kinda expecting me to have one...
saternoutlaw 3 years ago
sorry for the late reply...
and yeah it is normal.
Everyone is different...some people get their first boy/girlfriend at the age 14 and other around the 20.
Your feelings for others will come by the time you get older. They'll come by themself. ^^ It's not something to worry about now.
DeadLikeMe1234 2 years ago
by the way, what is this song called?
Shinobu79 3 years ago
the original song that I used was "accidentally in love" but youtube didn't accept it...so I had to change it...the song is called "angel" but I don't know the artist...sorry
DeadLikeMe1234 3 years ago
i really liked this video. it really helped me.
Shinobu79 3 years ago
I'm glad I could help you ^^
If I can do something else for you than you can always ask me. ^^
DeadLikeMe1234 3 years ago