Love is sacrificing your own wants and needs.Love is an action, and if you never grew up being taught how to do that then it is difficult to offer that to your own child. Her children need healthy and truly loving homes to grow up to be happy and fulfilled adults.She may understand that she doesn't know how to provide that. Please just think before your judge.
Yes she needs to be smarter with safe sex, but choosing a life through adoption for her children that she can't provide them is a wonderful option. If she chose to keep them, but didn't have the means to take care of them, then the children would grow up without a healthy, happy, and safe environment It is sad that people judge mothers like her. A child needs more than just "love" from their birthparents. Love is more than an emotional attachment to your child or to your parent.
Anybody judging her needs to stop and reflect on their own life. You don't know how she was raised or how she was treated by her own family. You don't know her motives for giving her children up for adoption and you don't know the situation in which she found her self pregnant I bet half of you judging her have had sex irresponsibly with someone and were just lucky enough that you didn't end up pregnant or get someone pregnant.
This women is every bit selfish!!!! goes and gets her self knocked up not once but twice and then ditches her responsibility.She should be ashamed of her self.I don't blamed those kids when they grow up and never want to see her or that boyfriend ever again. If my mother ever did this to me I would hate her forever!!!!
I am so impressed with this young lady. We are currently pursuing infant adoption, and we are waiting to be selected by a birthmom. "Like" us on Facebook: Denny and Kelly Adopt
This young woman is not selfish, she is doing the best thing for her babies, she appers to be knowledgeable as to what she can and cannot do and I am sure to some decree heart borken. But come on people this is true love. Gving up two children because she knows they will be tkaen care of , probally something is unable to do at this point in her life. Your are magnificent mom, and you have done what is best for your babies. My husband and I can't ahve children and would do anything for a baby
That's a little judgemental. You don't know this young woman, or the situation she is in. Perhaps for her AND her children it IS the right choice. It's not like YOU know.
This is so depressing. She can sustain a relationship with a man through2 pregnancies, but doesn't feel she can have the proper relationship with the kids (meaning, keep them)? so crazy and wrong. those kids will always miss her, and she probably thinks she's doing this great thing.
I dont think the woman is selfish. Sometimes, the most unselfish thing one can do is to let a child go. She wants her children to have a mom and dad family and knows they will take good care of this child. You cannot judge unless you know the situation, and perhaps we would not have so much poverty and child abuse if more folks put the needs of their kids above themselves, like this woman has done.
@da1073 Oh please!!! She's giving them away like they are puppies.Just so she can go out and get her self knocked up again and don't have to take on her responsibility for her actions .She's not thinking of those children,only of her self!!! I have no respect for women who toss their children away like last weeks newspaper. But then again, adoption agencies and adoptive parents probably brain washed her into giving them up.
Somnambul-Maybe the fact that she IS in an unstable relationship motivates her to want her child to have a more stable home. An unstable mom and dad relationship can harm kids. God bless moms who choose to raise their kids....and bless those who relinquish as well.
Love is sacrificing your own wants and needs.Love is an action, and if you never grew up being taught how to do that then it is difficult to offer that to your own child. Her children need healthy and truly loving homes to grow up to be happy and fulfilled adults.She may understand that she doesn't know how to provide that. Please just think before your judge.
meggo86 3 months ago
Yes she needs to be smarter with safe sex, but choosing a life through adoption for her children that she can't provide them is a wonderful option. If she chose to keep them, but didn't have the means to take care of them, then the children would grow up without a healthy, happy, and safe environment It is sad that people judge mothers like her. A child needs more than just "love" from their birthparents. Love is more than an emotional attachment to your child or to your parent.
meggo86 3 months ago
Anybody judging her needs to stop and reflect on their own life. You don't know how she was raised or how she was treated by her own family. You don't know her motives for giving her children up for adoption and you don't know the situation in which she found her self pregnant I bet half of you judging her have had sex irresponsibly with someone and were just lucky enough that you didn't end up pregnant or get someone pregnant.
meggo86 3 months ago
This young woman gave her kids away not once but twice!!!! My advice to you young lady in this video,KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED!!!!!
ashatbulaparanormal 9 months ago
This women is every bit selfish!!!! goes and gets her self knocked up not once but twice and then ditches her responsibility.She should be ashamed of her self.I don't blamed those kids when they grow up and never want to see her or that boyfriend ever again. If my mother ever did this to me I would hate her forever!!!!
ashatbulaparanormal 9 months ago
I am so impressed with this young lady. We are currently pursuing infant adoption, and we are waiting to be selected by a birthmom. "Like" us on Facebook: Denny and Kelly Adopt
DennyandKelly 9 months ago
This young woman is not selfish, she is doing the best thing for her babies, she appers to be knowledgeable as to what she can and cannot do and I am sure to some decree heart borken. But come on people this is true love. Gving up two children because she knows they will be tkaen care of , probally something is unable to do at this point in her life. Your are magnificent mom, and you have done what is best for your babies. My husband and I can't ahve children and would do anything for a baby
whidea 1 year ago
That's a little judgemental. You don't know this young woman, or the situation she is in. Perhaps for her AND her children it IS the right choice. It's not like YOU know.
TieneShattuck 2 years ago 2
This is so depressing. She can sustain a relationship with a man through2 pregnancies, but doesn't feel she can have the proper relationship with the kids (meaning, keep them)? so crazy and wrong. those kids will always miss her, and she probably thinks she's doing this great thing.
somnambul75 2 years ago
I dont think the woman is selfish. Sometimes, the most unselfish thing one can do is to let a child go. She wants her children to have a mom and dad family and knows they will take good care of this child. You cannot judge unless you know the situation, and perhaps we would not have so much poverty and child abuse if more folks put the needs of their kids above themselves, like this woman has done.
da1073 2 years ago
@da1073 Oh please!!! She's giving them away like they are puppies.Just so she can go out and get her self knocked up again and don't have to take on her responsibility for her actions .She's not thinking of those children,only of her self!!! I have no respect for women who toss their children away like last weeks newspaper. But then again, adoption agencies and adoptive parents probably brain washed her into giving them up.
ashatbulaparanormal 9 months ago
Somnambul-Maybe the fact that she IS in an unstable relationship motivates her to want her child to have a more stable home. An unstable mom and dad relationship can harm kids. God bless moms who choose to raise their kids....and bless those who relinquish as well.
da1073 2 years ago
Are you for real it takes real maturity to give a child up for adoption . Raising children and having a relationship with man are 2 different things
misteeq64 2 years ago