I listen to your video and I have to commend you brotha for speaking on this issue. You really cared about this issue and it comes thru. You wasn't negative, hostile, aggressive in any way. Also, you spoke the truth and too many don't do that in this day and age.
brother you'll right it hurts to hear this, but if change is going to take place within our souls we must see what we have done and begin to correct it one black man at a time.
but on da other hand u make SUM valid points.both blk men n blk women need 2 lift eachother up cuz wen it all boils dwn we r blk ppl hoo will b descriminated by da wite man. n address the issue of blk men bashing us on bn da worst women 2 date.cuz wen men of other races get on the net n say dey like BW,SUM blk men get angered, after they have bashed us jus 2 make us feel bad bout ourselves wen they get a wite woman. i have no problem with interacial datin. u cnt help if luv sum1 of a diff. race
dats bcuz blk men r constantly all on da net tlkin bout blk women n sayin we r jealous of da wite women. sayin dat we all played out n askin y blk women get mad or jealous wen yall get wite women wen reely its both men n women hoo get mad at da opposit sex 4 interracial datin. dats BS. n mabe u shuld make sum videos on blk men bashing blk women n putin us at da bottom of da pole of all women of different races. dat shit aint kool. n if we had better men of society not jus blk,da world wuld b gud
I respect BM and BW who are productive in society and treat themselves with respect and are not self hating. We need to find each other quickly, Western civilation and forced setups through negative media coverage is destroying our exisistence in America and were TO FUCKING DUMB NOT TO REASLIE IT. Civilized black people, we need to SEPERATE OURSELVES FROM THE NIGGAS. Yes I said that.
@esmooth200 I agree with you, black people need "cultural privacy" to talk about and work on our problems, especially our relationships with each other.
@MAJESTY357 That is so true! We really need to humble ourselves and come together to resolve these issues. Ego and pride aside. No matter what WE need each other as one cannot survive without the other.
@BeautyinChaos1 Have you ever notice that no matter what black forum it is like: Topix and Black Voices, that white people ALWAYS flock there EN MASSE. Why, because they not only want to know what we're saying and thinking, but they don't want to give us the CULTURAL PRIVACY-not even for a moment-for us to discuss our problems.
@MAJESTY357 Don't expect Cultural Privacy to come anytime soon. If you do some research you will find a lot of non blacks that flock are from racist organizations, CIA, COINTELPRO, etc... they hire people to post comments and watch videos to monitor blacks and to cause dissension i.e " my man black and he hate black bitches" that type of thing. Truth is, they cannot allow us to unite because we are powerful. If unity came to the black race now the momentum would be more than it was in the 60's
@MAJESTY357 Yup you better know it brotha or sista. They post all the time and they gauge responses and monitor posters.But don't be afraid, you are more than they will ever be. You are beyond them and never give in.
I have always wanted a BW,its natural since there the women of my race. Im good looking (dark skin, in shape, Tyrese, Taye Diggs type) and growing up BW made me feel ugly. Most BW that I encounter are washed up (70%) out of shape, self hating, cant have a conversation on an intelectual level etc. These are the same BW that I wanted earlier in life but rejected me, have fun collecting government assistance LOL.
I cant even relate to most BW, MOST dont have enough variety. Im a BM that enjoys a numerous amount of things, (reading,viewing art, African disporia, being self sufficient) and what I enjoy is lame to BW. I have been productive all of my life, im not a thug nor do I wear mypants down my ass. But I guess since BW have told the world that I am, society really disowned us. BM, have fun looking for your "Queen" I simply cant consider most BW my first choice in dating :(
@esmooth200 It's very sad the state of black men and women today. WE can't even relate to each other and its hurting us. Most don't want to even be around each other black men and women.
How can the BASHING stop when BW, especially pro-IR BW don't even want to take RESPONSIBILITY for the BAD choices BW have made, and continue making? BW need to look in the mirror and start asking themselves: How am I contributing to the rift that exist between BM and BW? This CIVIL WAR didn't happen overnight, and just like it took years to gather steam, it's going to take years to finish.
I used to think that the white man was my biggest adversary.
But I'm fully convinced that the black women has been my biggest adversary and the first to turn their back on you. Just like Dr. Conrad Murrays BLACK girlfriend Testified AGAINST HIM..Then they wonder why successful black man don't fuck with they asses.
It's funny though how you don't hear other races of women bashing black man.
I can't speak for ALL melanin women, but I can be responsible for myself. Let me be the first to say to ALL melanin men that I am sorry for putting all of you in one category. Sorry for blaming you for everything.Remember: My fore mothers was taught to see you in a negative way. I love you all so much, and I hope that you hear my heart when I say that a lot of it IS our fault.We are the first women you come in contact with; we are your mothers; your sisters; we are your grandmothers. One Luv!
Okay FearlessJ2005, I've enjoyed listening to your calm voice, but my experiences with black men have not been very good, and I am not a kid (mid-forties). I was raised during the 70's when black was beautiful and all of us had gorgeous afros, but could the problem be that there are just not enough decent black men to go around and therefore bw are more likely to meet a bm that is a bum. I find it interesting that bw that date other races end up happily married.
man fuck the black woman. they respect the white man but is quick to disrespect the black man. also a lot of black women have a strong odor coming from between their legs as if they are afraid of douche and shower.
@HROSS22 Fuck the black man. The black man bow down to the white man and want to be just like them, yall are weak and stand up for nothing and to no one but the women. You are the major problem with the black community. All black man are at fault because there should be no bumm or thug when the black man shall be his brother keeper.
@FabeGabe you sound like a straight up homo. the only black men that want to be like a white person is called an uncle tom. the true blame for it all is the whiteman. who puts drugs in the community? who is making the black woman against the black man? yall mothafuckas better start using your head and know who the real true enemy is.
@FabeGabe I agree that there should be no bums or thugs in our community, but what I want you to realize, and have been trying to get black women in general to realize, is that as long as there are WOMEN who Love, and give money, and sex, and let them drive their cars, etc. Then these type of men will ALWAYS exist! Think about what I'm saying for a minute, cause I'm not on here to have it out with you. I want to see things get better too, but in order for that to happen, WOMEN have got to STOP!
Black female insecurity and borderline and narcissistic maladaptive personality traits lead to characteristic knee jerk reactions, hyper sensitivity, belligerence, and irrationality.
I have been on this earth for a few decades and I have never put a black man down, in fact, I was taught never to put your race down to another race by my mother and father, grandparents and so on. Why do I have to pay for what other black people do. I love my blacknest with all my heart and would never trade places with any other race or change the skin color of my offspring. bw
Black women blamed black men for everything?! Are you serious dude?! Black women have been nothing but the black man's #1 supporter even with some black women bashing black men WE'VE SUPPORTED YOU MORE THAN ANYONE!! You're sick!!
The chips did not turn on black women like me. No matter what black women are blamed for I could care less as the ignorant black men doing the blaming do not know me from a can of paint, so why should I care. carry on. If it does not apply to you then why bother? Me? Could care less and I'm making it know that I don't.
@grataliberty lol, black men didn't create that system, remember old old school hip-hop we didn't have women in G-Strings. It was the higher ups that started to make our women look bad, Whites that runs the music industry.
@Bladeboy05- Great point man! This fact is always overlooked but points to why black culture has taken the nosedive it has over the past several decades.
@Bladeboy05 your right...notice ever since that black dude sold BET to the devil crakers, notice all of a sudden on BET theres shit like GANG LAND, shows with the blck man being a faggot, black women being whores and stupid movies on how to be drug dealers. but when you tell people especially the black woman that the white man is the devil, theres a problem. even obama is a devil. what has changed ever since that uncle bens been in ofice? black people are gullyable and love the white man.
@whowantoknow the whole world calls us out but we do need to get stronger im really scared for black women cause it seems they don't even count yall as part of the black race at least american black women when the talkin about black people in america they talkin about black men 90 percent of the time its like they don't even consider black women as a factor for good or bad thats scary
great video, its a little sad seeing the some of the comments directed at you, but the truth has a way of hitting those who need to change the most the hardest...thanks again
THE BM IS SUPPOSED TO USE OUR INTELLECTUAL AND FORESIGHT ABILITIES FOR HIS BETTERMENT< THUS THEN THE BETTERMENT OF OUR RACE. THE BM WAS TO USE HIS PHYSICAL STRENGTH, ENDURANCE, LOVE, AND INTELLECT TO DIRECT OUR BEHAVIORS FOR THE BETTERMENT OF OUR RACE! BW IS VERY STRATEGIC AND HAVE ABILITIES IN THIS AREA! WHY IS IT THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE GOING TO COLLEGE AND MANEUVERING AROUND THIS SOCIETY BETTER THAN THE BM! BM AND BW COME FROM THE SAME HOME!
@shakibibi Wow! You know somethin sis. I can't argue with anything that you said. Not one thing. Your points are well made and well-taken. I cannot disagree with any of it. However, I must take exception to the one basic point about BW "settling". If you "settle" for a BM with a little less education; money; prestige; looks; attractiveness than you prefer in order to "keep the race strong" then I'm all for it. But NO BW deserves to subject themselves to what some of these BM losers have to offer
u r right bw have been telling the world we aint shit for a long time...now its our turn to speak on the subject...anything a black woman has said about a bm i have observed n a bw. bw cheat, have multiple sex partners aka friends with benefits, some r broke, some live at home, some have no vehicle.. r these good bw, hell no...they are liabilities who dont wanna keep it real. they vent on us in ebony, jet, oprah, at work, at the lounges and bars, wherever...we have never vented on this issue...
@wakeen01 Now u know u a liar or this video'd be made by a bw. But youtube is polluted by bm downlow cracka lovin homos throwing bw under the bus to signify their devotion to non blks. We know what the deal is, u aint foolin noone but the 1s who wanta be fooled, &the real fool is U. All the ills u mention r done by all races to some extent but bm take the cake. U luv going o/s the race, thats y ur johnsons are drying up, that inferior non bw bloodline, whatcha gone have to offer um now mandingo?
@shemika341 ok....lets get this straight, i made my comment to address a black issue not everybody ELSE...our indifference as a race has nothing to do with anyone else...I'm about solving these issues, not adding to them...what made my comment seem like i was a craka lovin homo as u referred to me as? I love black ppl. but this dialogue must be had in order to bring to light our issues concerning OUR men n women. i love black women, but i am a realest, and i like discovering the truth....
@shemika341 and the truth is, is that some bw have issues that they need to address b4 deciding that its feasible to catch bbms(bash black men syndrome). keep it real....u know that as well....thats why u responded to me n the first place....
@wakeen01 Mature men dont stereotype the females in their race. U need to go sch all the thugs &loser bm who mistreat bw. Bw r individ, not ur slaves to intrude upon w/racist kkk attacks that r disrespectful &rude to bw ur too cowardly to do to other races. &since bm r the 1st to go o/s the race to feed & clothe non bw u have no right to say anything to bw. U lay under the wm's belly & w/his women, etc then wanta lord over bw . All bc ur colorstruck. Most bw r saints compared to u!
just like my uncle and his wife: good job, nice house, no poverty etc. they still got divorced!!!! she claimed"we're not where we're supposed to be" what type of shit is that?!!you cant make no american woman happy they're addicted to DRAMA!!! when the drama runs out, they run out my uncle's wife had nothing to nag about, and it drove her nuts! women have to learn that NOTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF IS GOING TO MAKE YOU TRULY HAPPY!
this is an american problem. over here, too many women are mentally turning into men. so, when they find a good man, as you know, no 2 kings can sit the same throne! american women are very spoiled and they want what they cant have: THE PERFECT MAN! I would love to take a small group of nagging wives over to the east - Iran in particular,where a lady was caned for, are you ready?... WEARING PANTS! Men.. if you were everything a man is supposed to be, she'll just find something else to nag about
Why is it that some black people find it impossible to communicate (even online obviously) without going out of their way to broadcast their ghetto upbringing as though it somehow validates them or strengthens their argument? I just don't get it.
Also, one would think that a college grad (@ddaqueen) would recognize a metaphor when it is used. Again... the angry SBW neck-roll is all over these comments. (Sigh) ...will it ever end????
Shut up! See this is the whole problem, you can't tell a
BW she is wrong for what she has experienced with BM. Despite not even having fathers in the home (as a child) These girls who grew up as women are determined to keep their baby fathers in their kids lives (despite) their numerous flaws. I don't see many black men doing nothing but ordering us around, verbally abusing us, using us for sex and money, putting our hopes down, cheating on us, involving us in their drama!
@shakibibi WOW! ...so you can't tell a black woman that she is "wrong" for CHOOSING these ignorant, low-class; thuggish; immature; ghetto minded BOYS ...who then only act actually like what they were before you chose them?
THAT attitude IS the problem. We can, do and WILL tell you that if you pick up a snake and bring it home then you are a FOOL for expecting that snake to act like a kitten when it was always a snake and you should expect it to act like a snake (even after you spread your legs)
When a black women enters the room full of white women, why do they get on edge! It's like they instinctively know that BW aren't to be played with! THE BW power radiates from us! When you look at tv, shows and movies, they'll have one black person amongst many whites! THEY INSTINCTIVELY KNOW that the only way they can win over blacks is when the ODDS ARE AGAINST US! THEY DARE NOT GIVE US AN EVEN PLAYING FIELD! THEY ARE FEARFUL BECAUSE THEY KNOW FROM CENTURIES ABOUT US!
This societies fear of blacks have nothing to do with fearing us because "we're so called" thugs, and whores, and theives, and murderers! For goodness sakes, they have NUCLEAR WEAPONS! SO WHY ARE THEY AFRAID! NO level playing field in: Education, Politics, Entertainment, Economics, Social realm, General Business Realm, Childbearing, and in the Mating Realm. CHECK FREAKING MATE!!!
You must understand that when a man leaves his own race of woman, he is losing and giving up something, not gaining! For she is fashioned for HIM! There is nothing wrong with interracial marriage, but BM must understand this design. I believe God did this so that men and women of certain races would prefer their own, because then they would have an advantage vs mixing with someone else race. God loves diversity. He made different people for a reason. .
@shakibibi This dude been hurt and probably by his momma or sister or the chic who he just found out the baby aint his. he need to shut his dusty lookin ass up with that old ass china--oops, flea market ass cabinet in the background with that naked ass window. he claim he got his own business. I cant tell cause talkn down about black wmen aint gon get it. keep tht laundry. we dont need no non-factory owning ass brother tryin2 tell sistas what they doin wrong. get you some real biz & a commercial
Why do you think GOD made sex so pleasurable. Given the risks of sex and having children, do you honestly think that people would be having SEX if there weren't some kind of enjoyment from it. Likewise, I believe God made different races for the beauty of it, He has made us all equal. The key is knowing what God gave each race of people. THAT race can then use it for their God given advantage. This is why most men prefer their own race of women!
Have you ever wondered why you can meet a black person you haven't known and still feel some connection with this individual? Blacks have a natural collectivism and mindset. We naturally migrate toward one another-UNITY. This is another reason why our society fears us. their conscious tells on them, you can't do this much evil and think your going to continue to get away with it and not be smitten down by someone or something!
So the FEAR FUELS THE HATE AND THE HATE FUELS THEIR (THIS SOCIETY'S) FEARS! This reciprocation continues, all the while their conscious becomes corrupt. They start running away from the truth (denial) and to justify their wicked treatment of others, they make up notions that they are superior than everyone else. Start making up lies about human evolution, getting you to believe that this theory is even true! that certain races are more human than others.
Start making people believe that there are "good" races and "bad" races of people on this planet. When the truth is that no one race of people are superior or more human than the other. God made us to use our differences and strengths to work together, not to use it against each other. Just like he made BM and BW to work together for their betterment (man and woman). a house divided can not stand! The world is divided and will crumple (per the bible).
The world is divided on the ground of Jesus Christ, whether or not he is the messiah of God Almighty and whether or not God exists. But Jesus said he has come to bring division. Those who belong to God and those who belong to the Devil. And God has already written about how it's going to end in the book of revelation. So, there it is.
And on top of all this! We're left to raise the kids on our own while the black man "do him" or sits on the couch and calls us 50 times per day to get the kids. We're the ones that help them with their homework (because you don't know algebra), get the splinter out of their feets, when their thirsty, you send them in the next room to us! Then you get angry at us because we won't fix your plate of food after we've cooked dinner and slaving all day! Oh wee! On blast!
@shakibibi #1 girlie... you need to stay in your little place and stop trying to think you can step to a man with that drama and attitude (the very 'tude that you are known for around the world and even exhibit online.) #2 If you are describing YOUR experience then that says much more about YOU and the losers that YOU attract and who are attracted to YOU than it does black MEN in general.
You are describing LOSERS... now what does that say about YOU? Real BM are trying to tell you to STOP it!!!
My "Tude" is justified and was honed. But before you go telling me "the black woman" how VIOLENT I am because I'm not getting what I NEED "A MAN OF MY KIND". YOU NEED TO DO YOUR HISTORY ON THE SUFFRAGETTES MOVEMENT "White Women" who couldn't get what they WANTED!
LOOK HOW VIOLENT THEY WERE!
The Women's Social and Political Union with Emmeline Pankhurst, and Christabel Pankhurst.
Who told you that what I stated was "MY" OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! This is part of the problem, BM stereotype ALL BW under one heading, just like this society STEREOTYPE BM! I come from a family of 10 Siblings, 8 of those sibling are WOMEN! I come from a huge family network of over 100 individuals! Over the years I have SEEN THIS HAPPEN TO BW OVER AND OVER AGAIN! FRIENDS, FRIENDS OF FRIENDS, RELATIVES, AND THE LIKE, ALL "BW" who are continually abused by BM.
Who told you that what I stated was "MY" OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! This is part of the problem, BM stereotype ALL BW under one heading, just like this society STEREOTYPE BM! I come from a family of 10 Siblings, 8 of those sibling are WOMEN! I come from a huge family network of over 100 individuals! Over the years I have SEEN THIS HAPPEN TO BW OVER AND OVER AGAIN! FRIENDS, FRIENDS OF FRIENDS, RELATIVES, AND THE LIKE, ALL "BW" who are continually abused by BM.
I speak from the BLACK WOMAN'S perspective, it doesn't mean that I've personally experienced everything I've written, but I have been exposed to in various ways. Furthermore,let's TALK ABOUT WHAT BLACK MEN ARE KNOWN FOR AROUND THE WORLD! HA HA! I don't even need to expand on this subject! So whose fault is this owed to: MINE, "the BW"! Didn't you watch CNN's special "Black in America" and ABC news night-line regarding why black women aren't married?
@shakibibi Do not speak to men like me and use the term "YOU" while describing the losers you're apparently accustomed to dealing with. Those guys have nothing in common with me and my kind. The message that real BM are trying to give you is YOU are _CHOOSING_ these man-nettes and man-equins who aren't even real MEN. THAT is the problem!
Also IF BM are abusing, using, cheating as you say then it comes back to YOU making bad choices ...EXACTLY what we're talking about so take responsibility!
For your information, there AREN'T ENOUGH DECENT BLACK MEN TO GO AROUND PER MALE VS WOMEN RATIO! You can thank drugs, gang banging, abortions, poverty, no men in the home, disease, and a prejudice social system for these disparities! So, if there aren't many good men in the barrel your odds (black woman's odds) of picking a bad crab out of the barrel is more than high, but most likely! So, black women are SETTLING for whatever they can get! To keep the BLACK COMMUNITY intact.
So, the black woman is an comprising position. SHE"S DAMNED IF SHE DO AND DAMNED IF SHE DON"T! Watch on YOUTUBE "WHY ARE 42% OF SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMEN SINGLE? KEY word here "SUCCESSFUL" Look at the comments on you-tube and the reactions of the black men; getting all angry because one of the women stated that she wanted a man a little taller than herself because she's tall! Calling her names and teasing her, for not SETTLING for what she can get!
Again, SHE"S (BW) DAMNED IF SHE DO AND DAMNED IF SHE DON"T!
She's damned if she do settle with the AVERAGE "BM" and have children to keep the black family intact (keep our race in existence) But the "BM" treat us badly for settling ( and so does the other races).
She's damned if she don't. Because then, our race would go EXTINCT! WE would marry men other then our own race, and pick only the VERY VERY VERY FEW DECENT BLACK MEN!
Out of all our problems that the BLACK COMMUNITY HAVE BM WOULD RATHER FOCUS ON OUR ATTITUDE!!!!!!! UNFREAKING BELIEVABLE!!!! Because were not wanting to look down the barrel of the gun of EXTINCTION WITH A FREAKING SMILE AND WITH GOOD CHEER!!!! I can't express in words the heinous of this.
The problem is BW have always been MORE INTELLECTUALLY SMARTER THAN BM BY DESIGN! OUR PROBLEM IS THAT WERE ARE EMOTIONALLY COMPRISED AND PHYSICALLY SUBJECTED TO OUR BM.
THIS IS WHY WHEN BLACK MEN MARRY WHITE WOMEN OR ANY OTHER WOMAN< THEY GET LOST AND SELF DESTRUCT! DAVE CHAPPELLE, OJ SIMPSON, RICHARD PRYOR, and many others! A BM don't need a WOMAN THAT"S GOING TO PACIFY HIM, THEY NEED SOMEONE TO KEEP HIM! THE BM IS THE STRONGEST FORCE ON THIS FREAKING PLANET, ONLY CAN SOMETHING EQUAL TO HIM CONTAIN HIM! BW KEEPS THE BM FROM USING HIS FORCE FROM DESTROYING HIMSELF! How else do you think that we WERE known to be FEARED KING AND QUEENS!
Men r SO disceptive..u dnt EVER really kno if u're makin a bad choice. &WTF u think u some kinda therapist diagnosing what the fuck I am now. N so what if I MITE be... i didnt do this 2 myself. U got 2 b retarded 2 think woman dnt take responsibility win we da ones that raise these kids ALONE; Its da bitch ass black men that dnt@all MAJORITY of x's. Lucky & smart of me..Im just GLAD im not a dumb hoe that has unprotected sex wit niggaz &have babies 4a black man...like MOST girls 2day have...
..&I"VE dated a lot of them &they have been BIG disappointments. Ive been patient in thinking if i ride wit him he wud appreciate it. PURE deceit&they have this assurance that win me&him beefing &i dnt wanna stand by him n e longer he'll find another woman..Its not as e z 4 the blk woman 2 find a good1. There r WAY more quality woman than men in this world.N u sound real REAL dum wit that tit 4 tat sh*t .Just cuz a man FINALLY admits he wrong he dnt have 2 point the finger back all da time..
@ddaqueen You clearly have been making bad choices and have been dealing with losers. So you've dated a "LOT" of these losers (and slept with them I'm sure). Well guess what... now you are tainted, jaded and soiled. Good BM don't want leftovers from the types of men which even we despise and have been warning you women to stay away from STOP dealing with and to STOP getting pregnant by. You've got to take some personal responsibility for the CHOICES that you make. If you attract losers then WHY?
A GOOD black single man w/o kids is an endangered species. I live da south &most men r GAY, in THE MILITARY, in JAIL, DOGS or DEAD. Theres nothing nubian about these characteristics..p.s-Btw i like gay men dnt get it twisted;UNFORTUNATELY im still physically attracted 2 da black men thats y i have EVERY right thru fact 2 talk bad about them IF i do..N i dnt want them solely 4 sex like how they ONLY want me. I want a life partner & some1 2 grow old with
If I get pregnant 2day after sleepin wit a man it is up 2 him2 stay & be monogomous wit me so we can be a family.!But men rather run away b irresponsible, call his baby momma a bitch 2 otha woman. We cant make them stay so we can b a nuclear family...(U probably dnt even kno wut that means)..&btw u r OLD, look @ all ur gray. U look 60yrsold..Itz a WAAY different breed of men 2day.
@ddaqueen "If I get pregnant 2day after sleepin wit a man it is up 2 him2 stay & be monogomous wit me so we can be a family."
WHAT??? ARE YOU KIDDIN ME? Since when? Since when is a man supposed to settle down and marry his SEX PARTNER and be "monogomous" with some woman he's had sex with? ...And become a "family?"
This thinking is a BIG part of BW's problem. If you get pregnant NO man is required to "become a family" because of your mistake. Men don't get pregnant, stop acting like a child.
@Bullseye2012 well the MULTITUDE of nasty ass blk men shouldnt be havin unprotected sex witta jumpoff n e way.Cleary the the dads of these bastatrd children dnt love them @ALL.BM kno biologically they can b free afta they planted a seed. Dats F'D up..What kid u kno does not wanna b under the same roof as they parents.But BM r so so selfish& evil they'll say wut u sayin. There was a time win a man gets a girl pregnant&he would marry the mother 4the sake of the happiness of the child. NOT n e more
@ddaqueen What is truly astounding is how some BW can't avoid coming across as a loud, obnoxious, finger wagging neck-rolling angry BW even ONLINE!!! Again... WHO is CHOOSING to have unprotected sex with the "nasty ass blk men?" WHO is CHOOSING this AND getting pregnant by these "nasty ass blk men" that they CHOSE to gap their legs for?
OF COURSE the dads "clearly" don't love the kids OR the mom and they usually never even pretended like they did. They just wanted SEX. THAT is the reality!
@Bullseye2012 u r DUMB as hell! If im typin a thought on the computer how can i b wagging my fingers r rolling my neck?..&u soo contradictin cuz ALL im sayin is woman want LOVE;a helpmate &a soulmate.N since itz soo hard 4some;sex seems like the closet thing 2the passion love offers.It takes2 &i dnt think N E female wud b have sex unprotected wit a guy they didnt like or love.ALL im sayin iz BM JUST want sex.BM keep chasin they dick this is the PROBLEM itz a reality too MY POINT PROVEN.thnx
@ddaqueen "But BM r so so selfish& evil they'll say wut u sayin. "
WRONG! The BM you are describing do NOT say what I'm saying OR do what I DO. Not even close. The GOOD BM say exactly what I'm saying but you're so jaded you can't even hear it. We are telling you BW to STOP _choosing_ the losers and to keep your damn legs closed!!
"Selfish? Evil? Tell my 20 yr old son who I adopted and raised from birth because his mother was a crackhead and I knew the child would have NO future if I didn't!
@Bullseye2012 well listen IDIOT i do have a man now&we BOTH dnt have kids, we both were single, we both r college grads, cum frm2 parent homes, we have separate places,our own whips, we make a honest living. Im almost 30&i NEVER had a good BM till now,w/the qualities I ALWAYS dreamed of.So win i post thngs Im speakin on b1/2 of BW that CNT find a GOOD BM that can measure up 2 many lights cuz theyre limited. So BW settle.Itz HARD 2find a good1 u ASS!I NEVA had close2 a GOOD BM in my LIFE till now
U r an ASS&u kinda resemble a prick too! A man is SUPPOSED 2 b the head of the family&household. Most men cnt even get an apt in they name. Win men of 2day have kids they LEAVE their kids wit their mom2go out &have fun & chase their dicks some more. I AM a 28yr black female & I've more likely dated more men than u, so i would kno.... Ur youtube video was just 2 try 2 b defensive 4nothing cuz u're a selfish minded man. Woman r not in control win a mistake as in an unplanned pregnancy comes up.
It seems to me that blackwomen like stupid men. They take care of the man when he does not have a job. Then you have the blackwmen who thinks they are all that. They want a man who makes the same amount of money as them. I was in a relationship when I did a lot for my blackwoman and she did me wrong. She rather have with another man and use me for money. Some years past, I've seen her again then she had the nerve to ask me is I miss her. What a moron black sister are.
I have yet to hear bm take responsibility for anything. I rarely see any videos by bw bashing bm so I dont know where u r getting this from. If anything bw r the ones sticking by bm even though they have been hurt by them deeply & most bm r insensitive to them more then even our worst enemies. I even hear non blacks talk about how awful bm treat bw & laugh about the way bm brown nose non blks & dishonor bw. U r the ones who practice colorism &disgrace bw as long as I can remember.
@FearlessJ2005 There u go shifting blame to bw, just my point. How does telling bw u don’t even know to chg the type of men they hang around hold bm accountable. Its a copout. Just like u get upset if bw say anything about bm we get upset about double standards &egotistical rants. A blind man can see u r insincere & up to no good. U r trying to show off by publically blaming bw for bm flaws but ppl r laughing at u not w/ u. Your claims of doing videos to 'help' bw r so insincere its ridiculous
@shemika341 Why is it so damn hard for you BW to GET it? W/HY? The FACT is that BW _are_ primarily to blame. WHY can't you grasp that we BM are telling you that YOU are making BAD _choices_ and it needs to STOP. We don't blame the BM you choose because those THUGS are just doing what thugs do and nobody should even expect a BOY or a THUG to be a MAN any more than you'd expect a rattlesnake to be a kitten.
THAT is the problem! REAL BLACK MEN are NOT the problem. STOP choosing the losers! PERIOD
@Bullseye2012 The problem is that all bm think they r REAL BLACK MEN, when they are nothing but silly little boys like u who never grow up when it comes to manning up for their own ppl yet want to be respected as if they r. U r a prime exa of a boy, seems like the black race has no men just slaves &servants doing the bidding for other races. With bm like u the kkk can retire.
@shemika341 LOL. Astounding how little girls with daddy issues just can't seem to wrap their brains around the fact that they come from a jaded place and represent their own unique little sub-culture of descendants of girls who's moms made bad choices and never taught them what a real man was ...or how to be a real WOMAN or a LADY. Question @shemika341 R YOU a lady? WHAT is a REAL BLACK MAN?
Take your time but answer succinctly. I'm certain that your absent father has shown you so SHARE please
@Bullseye2012 I know what a real bm doesnt do, &thats go online engaging in cat fights against the other side of his own race. Thats why I question if some of u r even blk. But give a stupid bm a piece of non blk azz &he'll destroy his own kingdom. I think many have been lying beneath the wm's belly or with his woman engaging in satanic sex rituals &allowing them to eat their souls. Now u have nothing to offer a bw but that big crack up ur azz. Thats what happened to bm fathers &husbands
@shemika341 You know... I was actually hoping for a much more intelligent response but ...oh well. We black men are offering constructive criticism and unadulterated TRUTH which some of you just can't handle. I know that by not having a daddy you're just not used to black men trying to help you with tough love ...but that is an issue you need to work on. It is YOU that engages in cat-fighting and it's ...boring.
@Bullseye2012 Whats boring & pathetic is that a loser like u tries to compensate for his lack of manhood by going online projecting his relationship issues onto innocent strangers. Those who cant handle real life go online &try to subject others to their madness. Sorry ur on ur own crack head, go bother someone else with ur TELL-LIE-VISION fairy tales. Those who can do, those who cant get high &make up lies. Thats black manhood for ya. Lol
@shemika341 Again... so so sad that your mom made such bad choices and your daddy was/is such a disappointment to you. I can only recommend professional help. I hear it can help the pain. You are obviously one very bitter black woman. Poor thing. You are only proving the point that black men have been making about how when BW choose dysfunctional men their kids suffer and cannot see anything positive due to the negativity they were raised around. ...So so sad.
@shemika341 "who never grow up when it comes to manning up for their own ppl"
You obviously have issues but you need to slow down and focus. It is a mistake to try to call me out because I will laser focus the discussion back to TRUTH ..make sure you can handle it. "Manning up?" You're talking to the wrong person. Your words may apply to YOUR father who failed you and the losers you've dealt with but we MEN who are responsible for our families will NOT allow you to put us in YOUR dads category!
@shemika341 I agree. this dude mustv ben hurt, & lookn 4 love n all the wrong places. he claims he got a business--doing what? More taking than giving I bet. It aint no factory or a conscious workshop or smthing that gives or uplifts cause his bored business owning ass 2 bizzy sitn in front of a raggedy ass cabinet downing us portals, & 2 scared 2 address white men viewing this. Funny lookn bald headed short nggs alwys startn shit. When our men own sm real shit, then they can speak!
@shemika341 Black men chose the streets! Wmen didnt put them there. And from the streets they learned hw to entertain and own nothing that matters...but we accept their degenerate, scary no army having asses anyway but its our fault? wow.
I am a sistah who loves the brothers! I think that black men are kings but due to all of the negative brain washing done by the oppressors - the brothers can't feel this way about themselves! The sisters and brothers need to wake up and start treating each other with the respect that we should be giving each other!
@MissBroad1962 Sistah... you need to realize that there are 2 basic categories: To simplify it let's call them BLACK MEN and BLACK BOYS (includes 100% of THUGS).
BLACK MEN know damn well we are KINGS and we expect to be treated as such and will not settle for less. Also, we treat our women like QUEENS (ask my wife).
WE are NOT the problem. The problem is that _some_ BW don't recognize KINGS and often choose the little BOYS then later lump them together with MEN not realizing the difference!
true talk these women don't relise the black man is the most attacked species in the world so we have learned to be aware of all manupulation and attacks from all people as we get it from everyone but newsflash that has not made us a weak victim you just might relise you try to attack the oppressed and you get crushed
1 year ago Now come on, sisters. Be honest now. Y'all tore the brothers asses up in the 90's with Terry McMillan's Waiting To Exhale. Toni Braxton songs, and Oprah. I didn't hear any "There are some some good brothers out there." I heard, "That's right. Brothers ain't shit." Now when the shoe is on the other foot, y'all can't take it. Brothers, let's learn to love our sisters. Sisters, let's learn to love the brothers.
That's right, bruh. Some sisters kill me with that "I'll go to the white man" nonsense. Oh yeah, white men never do black women wrong. The Duke LaCrosse team was only helping that black dancer out. She never had sex before and she wanted six men at once. Bullshit. Come on, now. Every black man is not out to do you harm. We want love and affection from our black women, too
I'm starting to notice a really weird patteren. Is every single video by bm about really dum shit pertaining to black women? I don't think you want the world to know just how sorry a job you've done at being a man.
@seinfeildsucks Au Contraire. Black MEN have done an excellent job! The real problem is that too many BW don't know the difference between a MAN and a BOY! It is the boys who are failing but guess who is failing the boys? Their MOTHERS!
If a single mother is raising these boys (FACT) then SHE is failing to raise up MEN. I don't blame BW for their inability to raise MEN (damn near impossible without male guidance) but I DO blame them for choosing the BOYS they had their baby by. THAT's the Prob
i'm sick of this blame game...if people tried to work on they're on individual issues and try to heal..we'd all be a little better off...stop blaming and let's try to heal!!
@Machelle3200 The "blame game" is absolutely 100% necessary! There is nothing more that I can do to fix YOUR issues. These issues are not mine (and don't even exist in my entire family). WHY? Because our boys become MEN at 18 (a requirement) and our girls ONLY deal with REAL men. Our men are REAL men and they teach the boys to be men ..by EXAMPLE.
Thus I can either ignore YOUR issue or speak out about it offering a solution. It starts with BW having higher standards and ignoring THUGS totally!
I have a few cliche's., In one ear & out the other., Which came 1st the chicken or da egg?., It's not how you feel, its how she feels.. Even though I agree the video 100%.. The fools only see their point of veiws, That's the quag your logic can't penetrate.. It's ignorance has taken a life of its own.. You give them a camera & a mic, Ignorance comes out, Look at their music its me,me,me or he aint no good... Natl TV " Aint no good BM.. They cried about the B word to the master then kept bashing.
I don't care?? I have always cared about how black men feel.... ALWAYS. I have two sons. I don't know what it's like to be a BM, but I imagine if I were a BM (testosterone + my own rage), I would probably be dead or in jail, I don't understand how you all can handle the DIRECT racism. After witnessing the things my husband, BFs & son had to put up with, plus my own experiences, I think BM exercise a lot of self control to put up with the racism in this society without snapping.
How did it feel? Well, growing up in a dysfunctional family with a Christian psychotic black mother and a father who hated women, especially black ones.... it sucked back then like it does now. As a child, you are raised to believe you are evil because of your race and gender. This stuff has been going on for centuries, but thanks to the, media, and hip hop music industry, the racist elite has black people talking puppets bashing each other while they look innocent. Its called mind control.
Please don't think you have the right to tell me or anyone else who they can and want. That is my decision not yours. I don't know you. You don't me. But because we are what people call black we have right to tell each other who we can and cannot love? Fuck outra here. Been dating who I wanted since hs. Just like most of us so I don't where yall get off giving permission. Yeah right
I don't like black men? Really. Never knew that. Thanks for letting me know. And I already have my prince. Why should his color matter? It's his actions I'm more concerned with. Maybe if some of You had better actions you wouldn't be bitchin all day. Making bw bashing videos isn't solving anything. So what are you working out? Your mouths? Give me a break.
@openmindedfemme :Oh for cryin out loud shut da fuck up awready, ya cunt! If you're out fucking a white dude and suckin his dick, why inna hell do you give a flyin fuck what BLACK MEN do? You ain't with one, yet you're so fuckin "CONCERNED" and shit! You can eat a hot bowl of dicks, bitch! Or better yet, get ready to film the next series of GHETTOGAGGERS videos in Jeb and Earl's basement, ya slut!!
Realtalk you are right. These fools blame wm for everything. Not knowing they are playing right into racist wm's hands. Who you hurting when you put down your own? Racist wm? The so called put downers of bm? Think again fools. Fucking idiots can't even reason logically. Proving once and for all bm are to blame for all they do cause they don't think.
When did bw blame everything on bm? When did this happen? And if it did how exactly would it justify you doing the same thing? Why complain about something and then do it too? Bw stuck by bm. Bm never stuck by bw. Why the fuck should we stick by you now? You worse than kkk how you treat us all unfairly just cause of your choosing the same women over and over again. Fuck is wrong with bm?
Why are you so concerned with what black men think when you obviously don't like black men anyway? If want a white man sistah, which apparently you do, go and be with him a let the remaining black folks work this shit out.
@personalbeauty22 OMG! WHY is it impossible for some of you BW to GET IT? WHY can't you see that the BM who point out mistakes are NOT part of the problem but could be part of the solution if you would only listen carefully!
As a black man I am not dealing with and getting pregnant by ignorant, sagging pants THUGS and then later getting mad at black MEN because I consistently am CHOOSING these little BOYS. It is BLACK WOMEN who are doing that.
why dont black men take their own advice? they say "dont blame all of us" - then why in god's name are all yall blaming all of us?
its funny that he calls it "speaking out" - i have heard men of other races disgusted by what you guys are doing ....your emasculating yourselves...your abusing women and your destroying the black image ....black men are destroying themselves and being hypocrites...not taking their own advice and blaming all of us even 16 years old for their own mistakes..
@vford43 - i dont want to pray...i want black women to move on to men that respect them...i want black women to wake up and recognize their true beauty
i want black women to see that all this garbage these men are spewing is worthless and untrue...that they just dont want to own up to responsibility and be real men. i want black women to finally get the respect they deserve...i want black women to wake up and stop accepting these "men" as partners...cause they not checking for bw
@vford43 let the media take care of these sellout abusive black men as the are doing to tiger woods...these black men are gonna reap what they sow and i dont want any black women getting hurt while they do...we do not deserve this- we are better than this- they have sold us out for decades...they have put us down and appreciated others above us for a long time...they misused and abuse our loyalty and spat in our faces ....so like me i want black women to move on to men who respect and love them
Let me get this straight: BW are responsible for raising the children, putting the food on the table, cloths on her family back, keep a roof over their head, pay bills, raise her son to be a man, work a full time job, deny herself so her family can be happy, keep everybody praising the Lord, support a man that is not around, represent BM with a fist in the air, act like a freak in bedroom, & cook? While BM sits on their butt, smoke Kush, & run the streets! UMM I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY TO BM: BYE!
Why do Black men think the reason why BW are angry with them is b/c of their bad experiences with thugs? It just not with the thugs, IT IS THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN. Why is it so hard for BM to see that they have a big problem. When will they learn to stop measuring themselves to a woman. God created them to lead not women but yet the entire Black community is ran by Black women, even the church. Come on now. God created man to raise his son into a man. So BM step up.
@vford43 Sis, if you have consistently had "bad experiences" with BM then it STILL comes right back to YOU and the poor CHOICES that YOU have made. It is NOT the "majority of black men". It is only the "majority" of black men that YOU have CHOSEN. But that is more of a reflection upon YOU than of black men in general.
BW cannot blame real and good BM for YOUR poor choices and inability to recognize real men. TRUE it is not only the thugs that are toxic but it still comes back to YOUR choices!
@Bullseye2012 Sorry but I don't have any bad experiences with Black Men because I don't deal with them:) I know that it is not the majority of BM, there are BM that handle their business but the majority of them do not. BM do not have it all together, they have many many issues including a hand full of BW. Let's just keep it real, the Black community is messed up mainly because of our BM. If you don't believe me just walk down any block in the black community in America.
@vford43 Girl, you are utterly irrelevant to this discussion. The white boys can have you. NOBODY actually cares. What people like you fail to realize is that if you were to walk down the block of the black community that I grew up in you'd see nicely manicured lawns, nice homes housing intact black families with both parents and you'd see an actual COMMUNITY. So don't equate your personal experiences with a ghetto culture with blackness. THOSE communities are examples of BW making bad choices!
@Bullseye2012 If I was irrelevant to the discussion, ummm why did you send me a personal comment? The problem is that you don't make any sense, typical BM. Denial can be dangerous. White Men? Who said anything about White Men, BW are married & date men that are Black, Greek, Italian, Latin, French, Dutch, Arab, Asian, etc. BW are free to date or marry whomever they want. Love who loves you, just b/c we share the same history & skin color don't mean nothing. BM are DONE!
@vford43 LOL... (Quite amusing but ...I'll bite). Could you please explain to the class exactly how M are "DONE"? Please enlighten me on this one. I am a BM and since I am "done" I'd appreciate an intelligent explanation because honestly ...I wasn't even aware of it. I'll wait patiently but ...I think you're still online so ...please expound on your point. You're right though... it is ME who "makes no sense" ...how? By pointing out that you REAP what you've SOWN by making POOR choices? Stunning!
@Bullseye2012 You seem a little bored and possibly unemployed. Like I said before, not sure why you sent me a personal comment; a mystery. So let me help you by saying this: Thanks for sharing your personal comments and opinion, have a terrific day, Ciao!
@vford43 LOL. Bored? Naw. Unemployed? LOL. Now THAT is funny. If Iold you the truth you would say I was bragging but ...let's just say that I do have a lot of time on my hands ...yet I manage to take care of my wife and 3 kids in a manner and style that most people can only fantasize about. Now do you have something constructive to add to the discussion? No? Fine. Now you have a terrific day ...and life.
@Bullseye2012 Honey you do have a lot of time on your hands if you take the time out of your day just to send little old me personal comments:) Yes I do have a terrfic life. Try telling it to someone else that cares because I don't; especially coming from a Black Man:) Thanks but no thanks, Ciao!
@Bullseye2012 Nooo I only responded because out of no where you sent me a personal comment; remember? Yes you are right, I do have a terrific life b/c I don't deal with Black Men and I'm glad it made your day, now maybe you will stop sending me personal comments:) Let's try this again, Good Bye, Ciao!
I listen to your video and I have to commend you brotha for speaking on this issue. You really cared about this issue and it comes thru. You wasn't negative, hostile, aggressive in any way. Also, you spoke the truth and too many don't do that in this day and age.
BeautyinChaos1 1 month ago
brother you'll right it hurts to hear this, but if change is going to take place within our souls we must see what we have done and begin to correct it one black man at a time.
mhaughton11 1 month ago
but on da other hand u make SUM valid points.both blk men n blk women need 2 lift eachother up cuz wen it all boils dwn we r blk ppl hoo will b descriminated by da wite man. n address the issue of blk men bashing us on bn da worst women 2 date.cuz wen men of other races get on the net n say dey like BW,SUM blk men get angered, after they have bashed us jus 2 make us feel bad bout ourselves wen they get a wite woman. i have no problem with interacial datin. u cnt help if luv sum1 of a diff. race
contrettofab 2 months ago
dats bcuz blk men r constantly all on da net tlkin bout blk women n sayin we r jealous of da wite women. sayin dat we all played out n askin y blk women get mad or jealous wen yall get wite women wen reely its both men n women hoo get mad at da opposit sex 4 interracial datin. dats BS. n mabe u shuld make sum videos on blk men bashing blk women n putin us at da bottom of da pole of all women of different races. dat shit aint kool. n if we had better men of society not jus blk,da world wuld b gud
contrettofab 2 months ago
I respect BM and BW who are productive in society and treat themselves with respect and are not self hating. We need to find each other quickly, Western civilation and forced setups through negative media coverage is destroying our exisistence in America and were TO FUCKING DUMB NOT TO REASLIE IT. Civilized black people, we need to SEPERATE OURSELVES FROM THE NIGGAS. Yes I said that.
esmooth200 2 months ago
@esmooth200 I agree with you, black people need "cultural privacy" to talk about and work on our problems, especially our relationships with each other.
MAJESTY357 2 months ago
@MAJESTY357 That is so true! We really need to humble ourselves and come together to resolve these issues. Ego and pride aside. No matter what WE need each other as one cannot survive without the other.
BeautyinChaos1 1 month ago
@BeautyinChaos1 Have you ever notice that no matter what black forum it is like: Topix and Black Voices, that white people ALWAYS flock there EN MASSE. Why, because they not only want to know what we're saying and thinking, but they don't want to give us the CULTURAL PRIVACY-not even for a moment-for us to discuss our problems.
MAJESTY357 1 month ago
@MAJESTY357 Don't expect Cultural Privacy to come anytime soon. If you do some research you will find a lot of non blacks that flock are from racist organizations, CIA, COINTELPRO, etc... they hire people to post comments and watch videos to monitor blacks and to cause dissension i.e " my man black and he hate black bitches" that type of thing. Truth is, they cannot allow us to unite because we are powerful. If unity came to the black race now the momentum would be more than it was in the 60's
BeautyinChaos1 1 month ago
@BeautyinChaos1 Sadly, I can't help but agree with you.
MAJESTY357 1 month ago
@MAJESTY357 Yup you better know it brotha or sista. They post all the time and they gauge responses and monitor posters.But don't be afraid, you are more than they will ever be. You are beyond them and never give in.
BeautyinChaos1 1 month ago
I have always wanted a BW,its natural since there the women of my race. Im good looking (dark skin, in shape, Tyrese, Taye Diggs type) and growing up BW made me feel ugly. Most BW that I encounter are washed up (70%) out of shape, self hating, cant have a conversation on an intelectual level etc. These are the same BW that I wanted earlier in life but rejected me, have fun collecting government assistance LOL.
esmooth200 2 months ago
I cant even relate to most BW, MOST dont have enough variety. Im a BM that enjoys a numerous amount of things, (reading,viewing art, African disporia, being self sufficient) and what I enjoy is lame to BW. I have been productive all of my life, im not a thug nor do I wear mypants down my ass. But I guess since BW have told the world that I am, society really disowned us. BM, have fun looking for your "Queen" I simply cant consider most BW my first choice in dating :(
esmooth200 2 months ago
@esmooth200 It's very sad the state of black men and women today. WE can't even relate to each other and its hurting us. Most don't want to even be around each other black men and women.
BeautyinChaos1 1 month ago
this is so true and we know and talk about the problems but we will not take action to correct it and that's what i'm trying to figure out.
genefury75 1 month ago
How can the BASHING stop when BW, especially pro-IR BW don't even want to take RESPONSIBILITY for the BAD choices BW have made, and continue making? BW need to look in the mirror and start asking themselves: How am I contributing to the rift that exist between BM and BW? This CIVIL WAR didn't happen overnight, and just like it took years to gather steam, it's going to take years to finish.
MAJESTY357 2 months ago
I used to think that the white man was my biggest adversary.
But I'm fully convinced that the black women has been my biggest adversary and the first to turn their back on you. Just like Dr. Conrad Murrays BLACK girlfriend Testified AGAINST HIM..Then they wonder why successful black man don't fuck with they asses.
It's funny though how you don't hear other races of women bashing black man.
theright1allthetime 2 months ago
@theright1allthetime You're right, the BW has become the BM's worst enemy.
MAJESTY357 2 months ago
this is also true and they wonder why we don't date them.
genefury75 1 month ago
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theright1allthetime 2 months ago
I can't speak for ALL melanin women, but I can be responsible for myself. Let me be the first to say to ALL melanin men that I am sorry for putting all of you in one category. Sorry for blaming you for everything.Remember: My fore mothers was taught to see you in a negative way. I love you all so much, and I hope that you hear my heart when I say that a lot of it IS our fault.We are the first women you come in contact with; we are your mothers; your sisters; we are your grandmothers. One Luv!
QueenTMakila 2 months ago
I hated when I hear black men and women bashing each other. Everyone is different.
intution1234 4 months ago
The video didn't bother me in the least, as it did not represent me one bit. However, Black women are speaking the truth on black males.
Spo1ledbratbaby1 4 months ago
THAT WAS GREAT BROTHER ~ keep up the good work ~
bkknight45 4 months ago
dam know i see whyy they and their crazy kids and thug boyfriends give me a bad vibe in public just rude stares like they wanna murder me
MATT111MARTIN 5 months ago
Okay FearlessJ2005, I've enjoyed listening to your calm voice, but my experiences with black men have not been very good, and I am not a kid (mid-forties). I was raised during the 70's when black was beautiful and all of us had gorgeous afros, but could the problem be that there are just not enough decent black men to go around and therefore bw are more likely to meet a bm that is a bum. I find it interesting that bw that date other races end up happily married.
Monikblessed 5 months ago
man fuck the black woman. they respect the white man but is quick to disrespect the black man. also a lot of black women have a strong odor coming from between their legs as if they are afraid of douche and shower.
HROSS22 5 months ago
@HROSS22 Fuck the black man. The black man bow down to the white man and want to be just like them, yall are weak and stand up for nothing and to no one but the women. You are the major problem with the black community. All black man are at fault because there should be no bumm or thug when the black man shall be his brother keeper.
FabeGabe 4 months ago
@FabeGabe you sound like a straight up homo. the only black men that want to be like a white person is called an uncle tom. the true blame for it all is the whiteman. who puts drugs in the community? who is making the black woman against the black man? yall mothafuckas better start using your head and know who the real true enemy is.
HROSS22 4 months ago
@FabeGabe I agree that there should be no bums or thugs in our community, but what I want you to realize, and have been trying to get black women in general to realize, is that as long as there are WOMEN who Love, and give money, and sex, and let them drive their cars, etc. Then these type of men will ALWAYS exist! Think about what I'm saying for a minute, cause I'm not on here to have it out with you. I want to see things get better too, but in order for that to happen, WOMEN have got to STOP!
funkajafuuzy 4 months ago
Black female insecurity and borderline and narcissistic maladaptive personality traits lead to characteristic knee jerk reactions, hyper sensitivity, belligerence, and irrationality.
salahudeenabduladl 5 months ago
PLAIN AND SIMPLE...THE BLACK WOMAN AINT SHIT!
HROSS22 6 months ago
I have been looking for hours on youtube for I HATE BLACK MEN VIDEOS and I can't find any
lhoward360 6 months ago
I have been on this earth for a few decades and I have never put a black man down, in fact, I was taught never to put your race down to another race by my mother and father, grandparents and so on. Why do I have to pay for what other black people do. I love my blacknest with all my heart and would never trade places with any other race or change the skin color of my offspring. bw
newmindseye 7 months ago
Black women blamed black men for everything?! Are you serious dude?! Black women have been nothing but the black man's #1 supporter even with some black women bashing black men WE'VE SUPPORTED YOU MORE THAN ANYONE!! You're sick!!
treestar 7 months ago
The chips did not turn on black women like me. No matter what black women are blamed for I could care less as the ignorant black men doing the blaming do not know me from a can of paint, so why should I care. carry on. If it does not apply to you then why bother? Me? Could care less and I'm making it know that I don't.
justicecarly 7 months ago
@whowantoknow agree!
FleurRebelle 8 months ago
Why do people conviniently forget that the person repsonsible for the whole Black Men are on the DL is a Black Man that wrote the book?
Black Men have created a whole industy to to devalue the Black Woman. I don't see you holding them responsible.
grataliberty 8 months ago
@grataliberty lol, black men didn't create that system, remember old old school hip-hop we didn't have women in G-Strings. It was the higher ups that started to make our women look bad, Whites that runs the music industry.
Bladeboy05 7 months ago 2
@Bladeboy05- Great point man! This fact is always overlooked but points to why black culture has taken the nosedive it has over the past several decades.
djbside1965 5 months ago
@Bladeboy05 your right...notice ever since that black dude sold BET to the devil crakers, notice all of a sudden on BET theres shit like GANG LAND, shows with the blck man being a faggot, black women being whores and stupid movies on how to be drug dealers. but when you tell people especially the black woman that the white man is the devil, theres a problem. even obama is a devil. what has changed ever since that uncle bens been in ofice? black people are gullyable and love the white man.
HROSS22 4 months ago
@whowantoknow the whole world calls us out but we do need to get stronger im really scared for black women cause it seems they don't even count yall as part of the black race at least american black women when the talkin about black people in america they talkin about black men 90 percent of the time its like they don't even consider black women as a factor for good or bad thats scary
zenith2070 8 months ago
@zenith2070 aint that the truth
zenith2070 8 months ago
@whowantoknow Ahh, I know what you need. You need a big one to release all this tension you got.
blackbolt75 9 months ago
great video, its a little sad seeing the some of the comments directed at you, but the truth has a way of hitting those who need to change the most the hardest...thanks again
swissland22 9 months ago
@whowantoknow Whatever, you need an attitude check.
blackbolt75 9 months ago
@whowantoknow LOL!
blackbolt75 9 months ago
@whowantoknow OH PLEASE!
blackbolt75 9 months ago
Great video. Props.
SolShinobi 10 months ago
THE BM IS SUPPOSED TO USE OUR INTELLECTUAL AND FORESIGHT ABILITIES FOR HIS BETTERMENT< THUS THEN THE BETTERMENT OF OUR RACE. THE BM WAS TO USE HIS PHYSICAL STRENGTH, ENDURANCE, LOVE, AND INTELLECT TO DIRECT OUR BEHAVIORS FOR THE BETTERMENT OF OUR RACE! BW IS VERY STRATEGIC AND HAVE ABILITIES IN THIS AREA! WHY IS IT THAT BLACK WOMEN ARE GOING TO COLLEGE AND MANEUVERING AROUND THIS SOCIETY BETTER THAN THE BM! BM AND BW COME FROM THE SAME HOME!
shakibibi 1 year ago
@shakibibi Wow! You know somethin sis. I can't argue with anything that you said. Not one thing. Your points are well made and well-taken. I cannot disagree with any of it. However, I must take exception to the one basic point about BW "settling". If you "settle" for a BM with a little less education; money; prestige; looks; attractiveness than you prefer in order to "keep the race strong" then I'm all for it. But NO BW deserves to subject themselves to what some of these BM losers have to offer
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
u r right bw have been telling the world we aint shit for a long time...now its our turn to speak on the subject...anything a black woman has said about a bm i have observed n a bw. bw cheat, have multiple sex partners aka friends with benefits, some r broke, some live at home, some have no vehicle.. r these good bw, hell no...they are liabilities who dont wanna keep it real. they vent on us in ebony, jet, oprah, at work, at the lounges and bars, wherever...we have never vented on this issue...
wakeen01 1 year ago
@wakeen01 Now u know u a liar or this video'd be made by a bw. But youtube is polluted by bm downlow cracka lovin homos throwing bw under the bus to signify their devotion to non blks. We know what the deal is, u aint foolin noone but the 1s who wanta be fooled, &the real fool is U. All the ills u mention r done by all races to some extent but bm take the cake. U luv going o/s the race, thats y ur johnsons are drying up, that inferior non bw bloodline, whatcha gone have to offer um now mandingo?
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 ok....lets get this straight, i made my comment to address a black issue not everybody ELSE...our indifference as a race has nothing to do with anyone else...I'm about solving these issues, not adding to them...what made my comment seem like i was a craka lovin homo as u referred to me as? I love black ppl. but this dialogue must be had in order to bring to light our issues concerning OUR men n women. i love black women, but i am a realest, and i like discovering the truth....
wakeen01 1 year ago
@shemika341 and the truth is, is that some bw have issues that they need to address b4 deciding that its feasible to catch bbms(bash black men syndrome). keep it real....u know that as well....thats why u responded to me n the first place....
wakeen01 1 year ago
@wakeen01 Mature men dont stereotype the females in their race. U need to go sch all the thugs &loser bm who mistreat bw. Bw r individ, not ur slaves to intrude upon w/racist kkk attacks that r disrespectful &rude to bw ur too cowardly to do to other races. &since bm r the 1st to go o/s the race to feed & clothe non bw u have no right to say anything to bw. U lay under the wm's belly & w/his women, etc then wanta lord over bw . All bc ur colorstruck. Most bw r saints compared to u!
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 sweetheart u must need a hug.....a brother must have done u wrong in the past.....it will be fine, time heals all wounds....
wakeen01 1 year ago
just like my uncle and his wife: good job, nice house, no poverty etc. they still got divorced!!!! she claimed"we're not where we're supposed to be" what type of shit is that?!!you cant make no american woman happy they're addicted to DRAMA!!! when the drama runs out, they run out my uncle's wife had nothing to nag about, and it drove her nuts! women have to learn that NOTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF IS GOING TO MAKE YOU TRULY HAPPY!
MrJonasprayer144 1 year ago
this is an american problem. over here, too many women are mentally turning into men. so, when they find a good man, as you know, no 2 kings can sit the same throne! american women are very spoiled and they want what they cant have: THE PERFECT MAN! I would love to take a small group of nagging wives over to the east - Iran in particular,where a lady was caned for, are you ready?... WEARING PANTS! Men.. if you were everything a man is supposed to be, she'll just find something else to nag about
MrJonasprayer144 1 year ago
Why is it that some black people find it impossible to communicate (even online obviously) without going out of their way to broadcast their ghetto upbringing as though it somehow validates them or strengthens their argument? I just don't get it.
Also, one would think that a college grad (@ddaqueen) would recognize a metaphor when it is used. Again... the angry SBW neck-roll is all over these comments. (Sigh) ...will it ever end????
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
Shut up! See this is the whole problem, you can't tell a
BW she is wrong for what she has experienced with BM. Despite not even having fathers in the home (as a child) These girls who grew up as women are determined to keep their baby fathers in their kids lives (despite) their numerous flaws. I don't see many black men doing nothing but ordering us around, verbally abusing us, using us for sex and money, putting our hopes down, cheating on us, involving us in their drama!
shakibibi 1 year ago
@shakibibi WOW! ...so you can't tell a black woman that she is "wrong" for CHOOSING these ignorant, low-class; thuggish; immature; ghetto minded BOYS ...who then only act actually like what they were before you chose them?
THAT attitude IS the problem. We can, do and WILL tell you that if you pick up a snake and bring it home then you are a FOOL for expecting that snake to act like a kitten when it was always a snake and you should expect it to act like a snake (even after you spread your legs)
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
When a black women enters the room full of white women, why do they get on edge! It's like they instinctively know that BW aren't to be played with! THE BW power radiates from us! When you look at tv, shows and movies, they'll have one black person amongst many whites! THEY INSTINCTIVELY KNOW that the only way they can win over blacks is when the ODDS ARE AGAINST US! THEY DARE NOT GIVE US AN EVEN PLAYING FIELD! THEY ARE FEARFUL BECAUSE THEY KNOW FROM CENTURIES ABOUT US!
shakibibi 1 year ago
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This societies fear of blacks have nothing to do with fearing us because "we're so called" thugs, and whores, and theives, and murderers! For goodness sakes, they have NUCLEAR WEAPONS! SO WHY ARE THEY AFRAID! NO level playing field in: Education, Politics, Entertainment, Economics, Social realm, General Business Realm, Childbearing, and in the Mating Realm. CHECK FREAKING MATE!!!
shakibibi 1 year ago
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You must understand that when a man leaves his own race of woman, he is losing and giving up something, not gaining! For she is fashioned for HIM! There is nothing wrong with interracial marriage, but BM must understand this design. I believe God did this so that men and women of certain races would prefer their own, because then they would have an advantage vs mixing with someone else race. God loves diversity. He made different people for a reason. .
shakibibi 1 year ago
@shakibibi This dude been hurt and probably by his momma or sister or the chic who he just found out the baby aint his. he need to shut his dusty lookin ass up with that old ass china--oops, flea market ass cabinet in the background with that naked ass window. he claim he got his own business. I cant tell cause talkn down about black wmen aint gon get it. keep tht laundry. we dont need no non-factory owning ass brother tryin2 tell sistas what they doin wrong. get you some real biz & a commercial
toniapx 10 months ago
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Why do you think GOD made sex so pleasurable. Given the risks of sex and having children, do you honestly think that people would be having SEX if there weren't some kind of enjoyment from it. Likewise, I believe God made different races for the beauty of it, He has made us all equal. The key is knowing what God gave each race of people. THAT race can then use it for their God given advantage. This is why most men prefer their own race of women!
shakibibi 1 year ago
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Have you ever wondered why you can meet a black person you haven't known and still feel some connection with this individual? Blacks have a natural collectivism and mindset. We naturally migrate toward one another-UNITY. This is another reason why our society fears us. their conscious tells on them, you can't do this much evil and think your going to continue to get away with it and not be smitten down by someone or something!
shakibibi 1 year ago
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So the FEAR FUELS THE HATE AND THE HATE FUELS THEIR (THIS SOCIETY'S) FEARS! This reciprocation continues, all the while their conscious becomes corrupt. They start running away from the truth (denial) and to justify their wicked treatment of others, they make up notions that they are superior than everyone else. Start making up lies about human evolution, getting you to believe that this theory is even true! that certain races are more human than others.
shakibibi 1 year ago
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Start making people believe that there are "good" races and "bad" races of people on this planet. When the truth is that no one race of people are superior or more human than the other. God made us to use our differences and strengths to work together, not to use it against each other. Just like he made BM and BW to work together for their betterment (man and woman). a house divided can not stand! The world is divided and will crumple (per the bible).
shakibibi 1 year ago
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The world is divided on the ground of Jesus Christ, whether or not he is the messiah of God Almighty and whether or not God exists. But Jesus said he has come to bring division. Those who belong to God and those who belong to the Devil. And God has already written about how it's going to end in the book of revelation. So, there it is.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
And on top of all this! We're left to raise the kids on our own while the black man "do him" or sits on the couch and calls us 50 times per day to get the kids. We're the ones that help them with their homework (because you don't know algebra), get the splinter out of their feets, when their thirsty, you send them in the next room to us! Then you get angry at us because we won't fix your plate of food after we've cooked dinner and slaving all day! Oh wee! On blast!
shakibibi 1 year ago
@shakibibi #1 girlie... you need to stay in your little place and stop trying to think you can step to a man with that drama and attitude (the very 'tude that you are known for around the world and even exhibit online.) #2 If you are describing YOUR experience then that says much more about YOU and the losers that YOU attract and who are attracted to YOU than it does black MEN in general.
You are describing LOSERS... now what does that say about YOU? Real BM are trying to tell you to STOP it!!!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
My "Tude" is justified and was honed. But before you go telling me "the black woman" how VIOLENT I am because I'm not getting what I NEED "A MAN OF MY KIND". YOU NEED TO DO YOUR HISTORY ON THE SUFFRAGETTES MOVEMENT "White Women" who couldn't get what they WANTED!
LOOK HOW VIOLENT THEY WERE!
The Women's Social and Political Union with Emmeline Pankhurst, and Christabel Pankhurst.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
Who told you that what I stated was "MY" OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! This is part of the problem, BM stereotype ALL BW under one heading, just like this society STEREOTYPE BM! I come from a family of 10 Siblings, 8 of those sibling are WOMEN! I come from a huge family network of over 100 individuals! Over the years I have SEEN THIS HAPPEN TO BW OVER AND OVER AGAIN! FRIENDS, FRIENDS OF FRIENDS, RELATIVES, AND THE LIKE, ALL "BW" who are continually abused by BM.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
Who told you that what I stated was "MY" OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE! This is part of the problem, BM stereotype ALL BW under one heading, just like this society STEREOTYPE BM! I come from a family of 10 Siblings, 8 of those sibling are WOMEN! I come from a huge family network of over 100 individuals! Over the years I have SEEN THIS HAPPEN TO BW OVER AND OVER AGAIN! FRIENDS, FRIENDS OF FRIENDS, RELATIVES, AND THE LIKE, ALL "BW" who are continually abused by BM.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
I speak from the BLACK WOMAN'S perspective, it doesn't mean that I've personally experienced everything I've written, but I have been exposed to in various ways. Furthermore,let's TALK ABOUT WHAT BLACK MEN ARE KNOWN FOR AROUND THE WORLD! HA HA! I don't even need to expand on this subject! So whose fault is this owed to: MINE, "the BW"! Didn't you watch CNN's special "Black in America" and ABC news night-line regarding why black women aren't married?
shakibibi 1 year ago
@shakibibi Do not speak to men like me and use the term "YOU" while describing the losers you're apparently accustomed to dealing with. Those guys have nothing in common with me and my kind. The message that real BM are trying to give you is YOU are _CHOOSING_ these man-nettes and man-equins who aren't even real MEN. THAT is the problem!
Also IF BM are abusing, using, cheating as you say then it comes back to YOU making bad choices ...EXACTLY what we're talking about so take responsibility!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
For your information, there AREN'T ENOUGH DECENT BLACK MEN TO GO AROUND PER MALE VS WOMEN RATIO! You can thank drugs, gang banging, abortions, poverty, no men in the home, disease, and a prejudice social system for these disparities! So, if there aren't many good men in the barrel your odds (black woman's odds) of picking a bad crab out of the barrel is more than high, but most likely! So, black women are SETTLING for whatever they can get! To keep the BLACK COMMUNITY intact.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
So, the black woman is an comprising position. SHE"S DAMNED IF SHE DO AND DAMNED IF SHE DON"T! Watch on YOUTUBE "WHY ARE 42% OF SUCCESSFUL BLACK WOMEN SINGLE? KEY word here "SUCCESSFUL" Look at the comments on you-tube and the reactions of the black men; getting all angry because one of the women stated that she wanted a man a little taller than herself because she's tall! Calling her names and teasing her, for not SETTLING for what she can get!
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
Again, SHE"S (BW) DAMNED IF SHE DO AND DAMNED IF SHE DON"T!
She's damned if she do settle with the AVERAGE "BM" and have children to keep the black family intact (keep our race in existence) But the "BM" treat us badly for settling ( and so does the other races).
She's damned if she don't. Because then, our race would go EXTINCT! WE would marry men other then our own race, and pick only the VERY VERY VERY FEW DECENT BLACK MEN!
DAMNED IF I DO AND DAMNED IF I DON'T
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
Out of all our problems that the BLACK COMMUNITY HAVE BM WOULD RATHER FOCUS ON OUR ATTITUDE!!!!!!! UNFREAKING BELIEVABLE!!!! Because were not wanting to look down the barrel of the gun of EXTINCTION WITH A FREAKING SMILE AND WITH GOOD CHEER!!!! I can't express in words the heinous of this.
The problem is BW have always been MORE INTELLECTUALLY SMARTER THAN BM BY DESIGN! OUR PROBLEM IS THAT WERE ARE EMOTIONALLY COMPRISED AND PHYSICALLY SUBJECTED TO OUR BM.
shakibibi 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012
THIS IS WHY WHEN BLACK MEN MARRY WHITE WOMEN OR ANY OTHER WOMAN< THEY GET LOST AND SELF DESTRUCT! DAVE CHAPPELLE, OJ SIMPSON, RICHARD PRYOR, and many others! A BM don't need a WOMAN THAT"S GOING TO PACIFY HIM, THEY NEED SOMEONE TO KEEP HIM! THE BM IS THE STRONGEST FORCE ON THIS FREAKING PLANET, ONLY CAN SOMETHING EQUAL TO HIM CONTAIN HIM! BW KEEPS THE BM FROM USING HIS FORCE FROM DESTROYING HIMSELF! How else do you think that we WERE known to be FEARED KING AND QUEENS!
shakibibi 1 year ago
Men r SO disceptive..u dnt EVER really kno if u're makin a bad choice. &WTF u think u some kinda therapist diagnosing what the fuck I am now. N so what if I MITE be... i didnt do this 2 myself. U got 2 b retarded 2 think woman dnt take responsibility win we da ones that raise these kids ALONE; Its da bitch ass black men that dnt@all MAJORITY of x's. Lucky & smart of me..Im just GLAD im not a dumb hoe that has unprotected sex wit niggaz &have babies 4a black man...like MOST girls 2day have...
ddaqueen 1 year ago
..&I"VE dated a lot of them &they have been BIG disappointments. Ive been patient in thinking if i ride wit him he wud appreciate it. PURE deceit&they have this assurance that win me&him beefing &i dnt wanna stand by him n e longer he'll find another woman..Its not as e z 4 the blk woman 2 find a good1. There r WAY more quality woman than men in this world.N u sound real REAL dum wit that tit 4 tat sh*t .Just cuz a man FINALLY admits he wrong he dnt have 2 point the finger back all da time..
ddaqueen 1 year ago
@ddaqueen You clearly have been making bad choices and have been dealing with losers. So you've dated a "LOT" of these losers (and slept with them I'm sure). Well guess what... now you are tainted, jaded and soiled. Good BM don't want leftovers from the types of men which even we despise and have been warning you women to stay away from STOP dealing with and to STOP getting pregnant by. You've got to take some personal responsibility for the CHOICES that you make. If you attract losers then WHY?
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
A GOOD black single man w/o kids is an endangered species. I live da south &most men r GAY, in THE MILITARY, in JAIL, DOGS or DEAD. Theres nothing nubian about these characteristics..p.s-Btw i like gay men dnt get it twisted;UNFORTUNATELY im still physically attracted 2 da black men thats y i have EVERY right thru fact 2 talk bad about them IF i do..N i dnt want them solely 4 sex like how they ONLY want me. I want a life partner & some1 2 grow old with
ddaqueen 1 year ago
If I get pregnant 2day after sleepin wit a man it is up 2 him2 stay & be monogomous wit me so we can be a family.!But men rather run away b irresponsible, call his baby momma a bitch 2 otha woman. We cant make them stay so we can b a nuclear family...(U probably dnt even kno wut that means)..&btw u r OLD, look @ all ur gray. U look 60yrsold..Itz a WAAY different breed of men 2day.
ddaqueen 1 year ago
@ddaqueen "If I get pregnant 2day after sleepin wit a man it is up 2 him2 stay & be monogomous wit me so we can be a family."
WHAT??? ARE YOU KIDDIN ME? Since when? Since when is a man supposed to settle down and marry his SEX PARTNER and be "monogomous" with some woman he's had sex with? ...And become a "family?"
This thinking is a BIG part of BW's problem. If you get pregnant NO man is required to "become a family" because of your mistake. Men don't get pregnant, stop acting like a child.
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 well the MULTITUDE of nasty ass blk men shouldnt be havin unprotected sex witta jumpoff n e way.Cleary the the dads of these bastatrd children dnt love them @ALL.BM kno biologically they can b free afta they planted a seed. Dats F'D up..What kid u kno does not wanna b under the same roof as they parents.But BM r so so selfish& evil they'll say wut u sayin. There was a time win a man gets a girl pregnant&he would marry the mother 4the sake of the happiness of the child. NOT n e more
ddaqueen 1 year ago
@ddaqueen What is truly astounding is how some BW can't avoid coming across as a loud, obnoxious, finger wagging neck-rolling angry BW even ONLINE!!! Again... WHO is CHOOSING to have unprotected sex with the "nasty ass blk men?" WHO is CHOOSING this AND getting pregnant by these "nasty ass blk men" that they CHOSE to gap their legs for?
OF COURSE the dads "clearly" don't love the kids OR the mom and they usually never even pretended like they did. They just wanted SEX. THAT is the reality!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 u r DUMB as hell! If im typin a thought on the computer how can i b wagging my fingers r rolling my neck?..&u soo contradictin cuz ALL im sayin is woman want LOVE;a helpmate &a soulmate.N since itz soo hard 4some;sex seems like the closet thing 2the passion love offers.It takes2 &i dnt think N E female wud b have sex unprotected wit a guy they didnt like or love.ALL im sayin iz BM JUST want sex.BM keep chasin they dick this is the PROBLEM itz a reality too MY POINT PROVEN.thnx
ddaqueen 1 year ago
@ddaqueen "But BM r so so selfish& evil they'll say wut u sayin. "
WRONG! The BM you are describing do NOT say what I'm saying OR do what I DO. Not even close. The GOOD BM say exactly what I'm saying but you're so jaded you can't even hear it. We are telling you BW to STOP _choosing_ the losers and to keep your damn legs closed!!
"Selfish? Evil? Tell my 20 yr old son who I adopted and raised from birth because his mother was a crackhead and I knew the child would have NO future if I didn't!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 well listen IDIOT i do have a man now&we BOTH dnt have kids, we both were single, we both r college grads, cum frm2 parent homes, we have separate places,our own whips, we make a honest living. Im almost 30&i NEVER had a good BM till now,w/the qualities I ALWAYS dreamed of.So win i post thngs Im speakin on b1/2 of BW that CNT find a GOOD BM that can measure up 2 many lights cuz theyre limited. So BW settle.Itz HARD 2find a good1 u ASS!I NEVA had close2 a GOOD BM in my LIFE till now
ddaqueen 1 year ago
U r an ASS&u kinda resemble a prick too! A man is SUPPOSED 2 b the head of the family&household. Most men cnt even get an apt in they name. Win men of 2day have kids they LEAVE their kids wit their mom2go out &have fun & chase their dicks some more. I AM a 28yr black female & I've more likely dated more men than u, so i would kno.... Ur youtube video was just 2 try 2 b defensive 4nothing cuz u're a selfish minded man. Woman r not in control win a mistake as in an unplanned pregnancy comes up.
ddaqueen 1 year ago
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totaly52 1 year ago
The difference between bm and bw is bw aren't lying.
BigBlaqueKat 1 year ago
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BigBlaqueKat 1 year ago
It seems to me that blackwomen like stupid men. They take care of the man when he does not have a job. Then you have the blackwmen who thinks they are all that. They want a man who makes the same amount of money as them. I was in a relationship when I did a lot for my blackwoman and she did me wrong. She rather have with another man and use me for money. Some years past, I've seen her again then she had the nerve to ask me is I miss her. What a moron black sister are.
MCAmbitious 1 year ago
@MCAmbitious MC do your thing, man. I can't date right now, I got bills. :(
visionimagify 1 year ago
I have yet to hear bm take responsibility for anything. I rarely see any videos by bw bashing bm so I dont know where u r getting this from. If anything bw r the ones sticking by bm even though they have been hurt by them deeply & most bm r insensitive to them more then even our worst enemies. I even hear non blacks talk about how awful bm treat bw & laugh about the way bm brown nose non blks & dishonor bw. U r the ones who practice colorism &disgrace bw as long as I can remember.
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 HMMM.. THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO CHANGE THE QUALITY OF MEN YOU HANG AROUND. :)
FearlessJ2005 1 year ago
@FearlessJ2005 There u go shifting blame to bw, just my point. How does telling bw u don’t even know to chg the type of men they hang around hold bm accountable. Its a copout. Just like u get upset if bw say anything about bm we get upset about double standards &egotistical rants. A blind man can see u r insincere & up to no good. U r trying to show off by publically blaming bw for bm flaws but ppl r laughing at u not w/ u. Your claims of doing videos to 'help' bw r so insincere its ridiculous
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 :) THANK YOU FOR YOUR COMMENT
FearlessJ2005 1 year ago
@FearlessJ2005 Classic Response....works everytime ;)
justfarr1030 1 year ago
@shemika341 Why is it so damn hard for you BW to GET it? W/HY? The FACT is that BW _are_ primarily to blame. WHY can't you grasp that we BM are telling you that YOU are making BAD _choices_ and it needs to STOP. We don't blame the BM you choose because those THUGS are just doing what thugs do and nobody should even expect a BOY or a THUG to be a MAN any more than you'd expect a rattlesnake to be a kitten.
THAT is the problem! REAL BLACK MEN are NOT the problem. STOP choosing the losers! PERIOD
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 The problem is that all bm think they r REAL BLACK MEN, when they are nothing but silly little boys like u who never grow up when it comes to manning up for their own ppl yet want to be respected as if they r. U r a prime exa of a boy, seems like the black race has no men just slaves &servants doing the bidding for other races. With bm like u the kkk can retire.
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 LOL. Astounding how little girls with daddy issues just can't seem to wrap their brains around the fact that they come from a jaded place and represent their own unique little sub-culture of descendants of girls who's moms made bad choices and never taught them what a real man was ...or how to be a real WOMAN or a LADY. Question @shemika341 R YOU a lady? WHAT is a REAL BLACK MAN?
Take your time but answer succinctly. I'm certain that your absent father has shown you so SHARE please
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 I know what a real bm doesnt do, &thats go online engaging in cat fights against the other side of his own race. Thats why I question if some of u r even blk. But give a stupid bm a piece of non blk azz &he'll destroy his own kingdom. I think many have been lying beneath the wm's belly or with his woman engaging in satanic sex rituals &allowing them to eat their souls. Now u have nothing to offer a bw but that big crack up ur azz. Thats what happened to bm fathers &husbands
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 You know... I was actually hoping for a much more intelligent response but ...oh well. We black men are offering constructive criticism and unadulterated TRUTH which some of you just can't handle. I know that by not having a daddy you're just not used to black men trying to help you with tough love ...but that is an issue you need to work on. It is YOU that engages in cat-fighting and it's ...boring.
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 Whats boring & pathetic is that a loser like u tries to compensate for his lack of manhood by going online projecting his relationship issues onto innocent strangers. Those who cant handle real life go online &try to subject others to their madness. Sorry ur on ur own crack head, go bother someone else with ur TELL-LIE-VISION fairy tales. Those who can do, those who cant get high &make up lies. Thats black manhood for ya. Lol
shemika341 1 year ago
@shemika341 Again... so so sad that your mom made such bad choices and your daddy was/is such a disappointment to you. I can only recommend professional help. I hear it can help the pain. You are obviously one very bitter black woman. Poor thing. You are only proving the point that black men have been making about how when BW choose dysfunctional men their kids suffer and cannot see anything positive due to the negativity they were raised around. ...So so sad.
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@shemika341 "who never grow up when it comes to manning up for their own ppl"
You obviously have issues but you need to slow down and focus. It is a mistake to try to call me out because I will laser focus the discussion back to TRUTH ..make sure you can handle it. "Manning up?" You're talking to the wrong person. Your words may apply to YOUR father who failed you and the losers you've dealt with but we MEN who are responsible for our families will NOT allow you to put us in YOUR dads category!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@shemika341 I agree. this dude mustv ben hurt, & lookn 4 love n all the wrong places. he claims he got a business--doing what? More taking than giving I bet. It aint no factory or a conscious workshop or smthing that gives or uplifts cause his bored business owning ass 2 bizzy sitn in front of a raggedy ass cabinet downing us portals, & 2 scared 2 address white men viewing this. Funny lookn bald headed short nggs alwys startn shit. When our men own sm real shit, then they can speak!
toniapx 10 months ago
@shemika341 Black men chose the streets! Wmen didnt put them there. And from the streets they learned hw to entertain and own nothing that matters...but we accept their degenerate, scary no army having asses anyway but its our fault? wow.
toniapx 10 months ago
@FearlessJ2005 lol good response
MrBkofi 1 year ago
@MrBkofi THANKS! LOL
FearlessJ2005 1 year ago
@shemika341 SOOO tru hun, well said.
ddaqueen 1 year ago
I am a sistah who loves the brothers! I think that black men are kings but due to all of the negative brain washing done by the oppressors - the brothers can't feel this way about themselves! The sisters and brothers need to wake up and start treating each other with the respect that we should be giving each other!
MissBroad1962 1 year ago
@MissBroad1962 GREAT THOUGHTS LADY! :)
FearlessJ2005 1 year ago
@MissBroad1962 Sistah... you need to realize that there are 2 basic categories: To simplify it let's call them BLACK MEN and BLACK BOYS (includes 100% of THUGS).
BLACK MEN know damn well we are KINGS and we expect to be treated as such and will not settle for less. Also, we treat our women like QUEENS (ask my wife).
WE are NOT the problem. The problem is that _some_ BW don't recognize KINGS and often choose the little BOYS then later lump them together with MEN not realizing the difference!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
SPEAK THE TRUTH BROTHER! I don't like the hypocrisy either.
memyself2k 1 year ago
Good vid
illouie 1 year ago
true talk these women don't relise the black man is the most attacked species in the world so we have learned to be aware of all manupulation and attacks from all people as we get it from everyone but newsflash that has not made us a weak victim you just might relise you try to attack the oppressed and you get crushed
jrufus11 1 year ago
mbrown1971
1 year ago Now come on, sisters. Be honest now. Y'all tore the brothers asses up in the 90's with Terry McMillan's Waiting To Exhale. Toni Braxton songs, and Oprah. I didn't hear any "There are some some good brothers out there." I heard, "That's right. Brothers ain't shit." Now when the shoe is on the other foot, y'all can't take it. Brothers, let's learn to love our sisters. Sisters, let's learn to love the brothers.
soulfulman1971 1 year ago
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That's right, bruh. Some sisters kill me with that "I'll go to the white man" nonsense. Oh yeah, white men never do black women wrong. The Duke LaCrosse team was only helping that black dancer out. She never had sex before and she wanted six men at once. Bullshit. Come on, now. Every black man is not out to do you harm. We want love and affection from our black women, too
soulfulman1971 1 year ago
I'm starting to notice a really weird patteren. Is every single video by bm about really dum shit pertaining to black women? I don't think you want the world to know just how sorry a job you've done at being a man.
seinfeildsucks 1 year ago
@seinfeildsucks Au Contraire. Black MEN have done an excellent job! The real problem is that too many BW don't know the difference between a MAN and a BOY! It is the boys who are failing but guess who is failing the boys? Their MOTHERS!
If a single mother is raising these boys (FACT) then SHE is failing to raise up MEN. I don't blame BW for their inability to raise MEN (damn near impossible without male guidance) but I DO blame them for choosing the BOYS they had their baby by. THAT's the Prob
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
i'm sick of this blame game...if people tried to work on they're on individual issues and try to heal..we'd all be a little better off...stop blaming and let's try to heal!!
Machelle3200 1 year ago
@Machelle3200 The "blame game" is absolutely 100% necessary! There is nothing more that I can do to fix YOUR issues. These issues are not mine (and don't even exist in my entire family). WHY? Because our boys become MEN at 18 (a requirement) and our girls ONLY deal with REAL men. Our men are REAL men and they teach the boys to be men ..by EXAMPLE.
Thus I can either ignore YOUR issue or speak out about it offering a solution. It starts with BW having higher standards and ignoring THUGS totally!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
I have a few cliche's., In one ear & out the other., Which came 1st the chicken or da egg?., It's not how you feel, its how she feels.. Even though I agree the video 100%.. The fools only see their point of veiws, That's the quag your logic can't penetrate.. It's ignorance has taken a life of its own.. You give them a camera & a mic, Ignorance comes out, Look at their music its me,me,me or he aint no good... Natl TV " Aint no good BM.. They cried about the B word to the master then kept bashing.
HiRoader11 1 year ago
I don't care?? I have always cared about how black men feel.... ALWAYS. I have two sons. I don't know what it's like to be a BM, but I imagine if I were a BM (testosterone + my own rage), I would probably be dead or in jail, I don't understand how you all can handle the DIRECT racism. After witnessing the things my husband, BFs & son had to put up with, plus my own experiences, I think BM exercise a lot of self control to put up with the racism in this society without snapping.
godsnameisiam1 2 years ago
How did it feel? Well, growing up in a dysfunctional family with a Christian psychotic black mother and a father who hated women, especially black ones.... it sucked back then like it does now. As a child, you are raised to believe you are evil because of your race and gender. This stuff has been going on for centuries, but thanks to the, media, and hip hop music industry, the racist elite has black people talking puppets bashing each other while they look innocent. Its called mind control.
godsnameisiam1 2 years ago
Please don't think you have the right to tell me or anyone else who they can and want. That is my decision not yours. I don't know you. You don't me. But because we are what people call black we have right to tell each other who we can and cannot love? Fuck outra here. Been dating who I wanted since hs. Just like most of us so I don't where yall get off giving permission. Yeah right
openmindedfemme 2 years ago 3
I don't like black men? Really. Never knew that. Thanks for letting me know. And I already have my prince. Why should his color matter? It's his actions I'm more concerned with. Maybe if some of You had better actions you wouldn't be bitchin all day. Making bw bashing videos isn't solving anything. So what are you working out? Your mouths? Give me a break.
openmindedfemme 2 years ago
@openmindedfemme :Oh for cryin out loud shut da fuck up awready, ya cunt! If you're out fucking a white dude and suckin his dick, why inna hell do you give a flyin fuck what BLACK MEN do? You ain't with one, yet you're so fuckin "CONCERNED" and shit! You can eat a hot bowl of dicks, bitch! Or better yet, get ready to film the next series of GHETTOGAGGERS videos in Jeb and Earl's basement, ya slut!!
Daywalker225xxxx 1 year ago
Realtalk you are right. These fools blame wm for everything. Not knowing they are playing right into racist wm's hands. Who you hurting when you put down your own? Racist wm? The so called put downers of bm? Think again fools. Fucking idiots can't even reason logically. Proving once and for all bm are to blame for all they do cause they don't think.
openmindedfemme 2 years ago
When did bw blame everything on bm? When did this happen? And if it did how exactly would it justify you doing the same thing? Why complain about something and then do it too? Bw stuck by bm. Bm never stuck by bw. Why the fuck should we stick by you now? You worse than kkk how you treat us all unfairly just cause of your choosing the same women over and over again. Fuck is wrong with bm?
openmindedfemme 2 years ago
Why are you so concerned with what black men think when you obviously don't like black men anyway? If want a white man sistah, which apparently you do, go and be with him a let the remaining black folks work this shit out.
producer4real 2 years ago
@producer4real - its funny because you guys are grown ass men but at the same time take no responsibility for anything
black women never turned there back on black men in fact i dare you guys to point out facts where black collectively put black men down.
black men have been the destruction of the black family and re emerged the stereotypes against black women
he is essentially blaming bw for these gender wars and say we need to stop pointing fingers...why doesnt he take his own advice?
personalbeauty22 1 year ago
@personalbeauty22 OMG! WHY is it impossible for some of you BW to GET IT? WHY can't you see that the BM who point out mistakes are NOT part of the problem but could be part of the solution if you would only listen carefully!
As a black man I am not dealing with and getting pregnant by ignorant, sagging pants THUGS and then later getting mad at black MEN because I consistently am CHOOSING these little BOYS. It is BLACK WOMEN who are doing that.
Should we blame the THUGS for being BOYs?
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
why dont black men take their own advice? they say "dont blame all of us" - then why in god's name are all yall blaming all of us?
its funny that he calls it "speaking out" - i have heard men of other races disgusted by what you guys are doing ....your emasculating yourselves...your abusing women and your destroying the black image ....black men are destroying themselves and being hypocrites...not taking their own advice and blaming all of us even 16 years old for their own mistakes..
personalbeauty22 1 year ago
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@openmindedfemme oh shut the fuck up.
MrBkofi 1 year ago
Sista's it is praying time for real.
vford43 2 years ago
@vford43 - i dont want to pray...i want black women to move on to men that respect them...i want black women to wake up and recognize their true beauty
i want black women to see that all this garbage these men are spewing is worthless and untrue...that they just dont want to own up to responsibility and be real men. i want black women to finally get the respect they deserve...i want black women to wake up and stop accepting these "men" as partners...cause they not checking for bw
personalbeauty22 1 year ago
@vford43 let the media take care of these sellout abusive black men as the are doing to tiger woods...these black men are gonna reap what they sow and i dont want any black women getting hurt while they do...we do not deserve this- we are better than this- they have sold us out for decades...they have put us down and appreciated others above us for a long time...they misused and abuse our loyalty and spat in our faces ....so like me i want black women to move on to men who respect and love them
personalbeauty22 1 year ago
Let me get this straight: BW are responsible for raising the children, putting the food on the table, cloths on her family back, keep a roof over their head, pay bills, raise her son to be a man, work a full time job, deny herself so her family can be happy, keep everybody praising the Lord, support a man that is not around, represent BM with a fist in the air, act like a freak in bedroom, & cook? While BM sits on their butt, smoke Kush, & run the streets! UMM I HAVE ONE THING TO SAY TO BM: BYE!
vford43 2 years ago
Why do Black men think the reason why BW are angry with them is b/c of their bad experiences with thugs? It just not with the thugs, IT IS THE MAJORITY OF BLACK MEN. Why is it so hard for BM to see that they have a big problem. When will they learn to stop measuring themselves to a woman. God created them to lead not women but yet the entire Black community is ran by Black women, even the church. Come on now. God created man to raise his son into a man. So BM step up.
vford43 2 years ago
@vford43 Sis, if you have consistently had "bad experiences" with BM then it STILL comes right back to YOU and the poor CHOICES that YOU have made. It is NOT the "majority of black men". It is only the "majority" of black men that YOU have CHOSEN. But that is more of a reflection upon YOU than of black men in general.
BW cannot blame real and good BM for YOUR poor choices and inability to recognize real men. TRUE it is not only the thugs that are toxic but it still comes back to YOUR choices!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 Sorry but I don't have any bad experiences with Black Men because I don't deal with them:) I know that it is not the majority of BM, there are BM that handle their business but the majority of them do not. BM do not have it all together, they have many many issues including a hand full of BW. Let's just keep it real, the Black community is messed up mainly because of our BM. If you don't believe me just walk down any block in the black community in America.
vford43 1 year ago
@vford43 Girl, you are utterly irrelevant to this discussion. The white boys can have you. NOBODY actually cares. What people like you fail to realize is that if you were to walk down the block of the black community that I grew up in you'd see nicely manicured lawns, nice homes housing intact black families with both parents and you'd see an actual COMMUNITY. So don't equate your personal experiences with a ghetto culture with blackness. THOSE communities are examples of BW making bad choices!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 If I was irrelevant to the discussion, ummm why did you send me a personal comment? The problem is that you don't make any sense, typical BM. Denial can be dangerous. White Men? Who said anything about White Men, BW are married & date men that are Black, Greek, Italian, Latin, French, Dutch, Arab, Asian, etc. BW are free to date or marry whomever they want. Love who loves you, just b/c we share the same history & skin color don't mean nothing. BM are DONE!
vford43 1 year ago
@vford43 LOL... (Quite amusing but ...I'll bite). Could you please explain to the class exactly how M are "DONE"? Please enlighten me on this one. I am a BM and since I am "done" I'd appreciate an intelligent explanation because honestly ...I wasn't even aware of it. I'll wait patiently but ...I think you're still online so ...please expound on your point. You're right though... it is ME who "makes no sense" ...how? By pointing out that you REAP what you've SOWN by making POOR choices? Stunning!
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 You seem a little bored and possibly unemployed. Like I said before, not sure why you sent me a personal comment; a mystery. So let me help you by saying this: Thanks for sharing your personal comments and opinion, have a terrific day, Ciao!
vford43 1 year ago
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Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@vford43 LOL. Bored? Naw. Unemployed? LOL. Now THAT is funny. If Iold you the truth you would say I was bragging but ...let's just say that I do have a lot of time on my hands ...yet I manage to take care of my wife and 3 kids in a manner and style that most people can only fantasize about. Now do you have something constructive to add to the discussion? No? Fine. Now you have a terrific day ...and life.
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 Honey you do have a lot of time on your hands if you take the time out of your day just to send little old me personal comments:) Yes I do have a terrfic life. Try telling it to someone else that cares because I don't; especially coming from a Black Man:) Thanks but no thanks, Ciao!
vford43 1 year ago
@vford43 Sweetie you MUST care because YOU made the Assumptions. ...And thanks for sharing how terrific your life is. Made my day. Really.
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
@Bullseye2012 Nooo I only responded because out of no where you sent me a personal comment; remember? Yes you are right, I do have a terrific life b/c I don't deal with Black Men and I'm glad it made your day, now maybe you will stop sending me personal comments:) Let's try this again, Good Bye, Ciao!
vford43 1 year ago
@vford43 LOL.......... LOL..... ;)
Bullseye2012 1 year ago
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