Black Women, What about Lebron James and his Fiance?

[intution1234]

Those black women that is talking about are stupid. this is coming from a African American woman.

[americangangster86]

cant stand black women

[msdanabryant]

they are not engaged

[hOOdilol]

I'm sorry if this sounds racist to some of you, but black people take themselves WAY too fucking serious. No one cares about your hood credentials, specially if you judge ppl like that because of their love choices.

Since when Black Celebrity partner choices became such a fucking big topic. I think ppl in the US have too much free time on their hands. Be productive and stop uploading shit that's irrelevant, being oversensitive n' self important like this it actually makes you look like a bitch.

[trigi3]

he's to young to be married! stop pressuring him! if they get married now (age 26) he'll probably cheat and be in drama within a year! let him grow up and be a good man! he knows in his heart why he's not married!

[WizzoPro9476]

That was Niccolette Sheridan from that MNF promo w/ TO!

[terrinyc29]

@nrwilliams015 I know ur just joking( I hope) Why kill Biracial People? Most of our Grandparents or Great Grandparents are/was biracial or tri-racial. I really don't see much difference in a full black men or a biracial men or a white men Men or all the same to me

[nrwilliams015]

That's the point! There are a lot of BC who are not that financially secure who are married and happy! LB's fiancee is smokin HOT!!! I woulant a HOT sister like that!!! The reason that BC are rare is because everybody is trying to control eachother and there is no peace and contentment! Another thing is that there is NO open-mindedness, NO laid-backness, and NO sense of humor! When BM goes out the race, it's like they never left for the most part. GREAT VIDEO! I LOVE IT!!! REAL TALK!

[terrinyc29]

She is a natural beauty, LB's Finance

I agree. Some Black women say those things about the women you mentioned. I think it's because of their own self hatred. Those women are beautiful but they are not the "IDEAL" black woman, the women they have been accustomed to seeing with a successful black men. They're not the lighter skinned, longer haired type of bw or biracial. The same women they will dog out a dude if he only goes after that type. I think some BW look-up to that type bcuz the media

[nrwilliams015]

@terrinyc29 good grief! she's perfect! look at her! why don't we just kill off all the biracial, or give them to the Mexicans who might eat them!

[WizzoPro9476]

@terrinyc29 LORD YES!!!

[BelTriniCurls]

This video opened my eyes.

[YoungHorusMedia]

beautiful couple. as it should be.

[nrwilliams015]

@YoungHorusMedia Real Talk!

[prettyLibra2010]

She is beautiful...

[candycanered]

I love Lebron James for keeping it real with his beautiful black sister.

[Beech313]

amen

[gmcmim]

You say no one profiles the black woman. Yes they do. This video does have some good points though. But I did not agree with that part.

[michaeljmcgaskey]

HEY DONT JUMP THE GUN THE CHICK ON BASKETBALL WIVES WAS WITH ANTWON WALKER FOR TEN YEARS AND ENGAGED but they split when he filed bankrupt and Wades divorce is getting pretty ugly hes been trying since 07 I wish we could be better but throgh experiece black families need work just as much as all other races its just that we have our business out in the streets -i like this vid

[TYRANNY357]

As a black man I think Lebron James wife is gorgeous, and I'm so happy he married a black woman who'll love and respect him.

Another thing, I agree with everything you said in your video about black women and thank you for making it. Black women are going to have issues with black men no matter what we do, so my advice, let's live our lives and strive to be happy because our happiness is all that should matter.

[thetimekeeper100]

Yea this is nice but i wish he wouldve married her THREE kids ago. C'mon son! It dont take THREE kids to figure out if this bw is marriage material. Lets go Lebron and make the next move. Stop being so typical. bautiful couple now go GET MARRIED and stop playing house bm.

[chynacrawford07]

@thetimekeeper100 actually they have 2 kids bryce and lebron james jr

[MrMakemusicmike]

@thetimekeeper100 I hear ya, but he's just growing up. He also had a whole city on his back. Being a boyfriend and husband is very different, despite the fact that the feelings are the same.

[imsatindoll]

his fiance is pretty....I DIDNT KNOW THIS??? that goes to show how the media doesnt even show this shit! MAN...they dont ever show the athletes with BW! when he was dating Tyra...I heard that all over...

[huneebrwn10]

One more thing... she is soooo LUCKY because Lebron is so fine! Babygirl is soo cute! She has a very pretty smile. I'm not a hater either...Im a Appreciator! You go girl!!! LOL! They look like a very cute couple too! She has a straight up "BALLER" and Im not talkin about his money either! LOL

[huneebrwn10]

I just want to say, I think that Lebron James has a very beautiful young black woman. I'm a black woman and I think that is very good to see him with a regular person. I agree with every word you say brotha. It is nothing but the truth It makes me feel better to hear someone say, what I have always thought. I think that more famous people like Lebron should date regular people. It does seem like every celebrity is involved with people that only have money or because of celebrity status.

[Buhlunt]

I must add however that I find that black women dating non black men are not as much shock value in the media... like Eve for example. I only found that out by accident.

[Buhlunt]

I got to agree with you on this one however as a black woman I think this is nice.... seeing some normal people for once.

[areyoureadyforchange]

no one cares what black men do. go do what pleases you. don't worry about what the world say.

I am a sista and I love light skin black men; the shemar moore type is so hot to me!!!! that is all I want!!!

[MrCHICAGOSFINEST1975]

This is true man.

At least she was there b4 the fame and i applaud him for keeping it real with his high school sweetheart.

[supersayin1]

I Agree with you on this vid bro! Most of the women who say a man can do better usually means he should have a Gold digging trophy wife basically themselves. Having a modest beautiful down to earth wife who cares not about your money just isn't good enough. Most black women contridict themselves or preach mad hipocracy.

[kingjehoshua]

I have to agree with Pink on this one. media don't care about "normal people" that's not a story.

tmz would not be making money if they just talked about normal people doing normal stuff.

i love to see affluent black couples but in the south that's not the case. when a black man gets a little status and a little money in their pocket they want a trophy wife. and apparently black women aren't considered a prize worth having.

[girlofanothercolor]

i can't deny that other women dont say bad things about men like Lebron James and their wives and families...but i have never said anything bad regarding his wife an in fact i think he should be commended. i did however say something about usher and tameka only becuase i sensed that she had been around the block a couple of times, and not in a good way. but otherwise i praise love and relationships of all kinds!

[Clarity411]

No honey - TRUST ME... I praise it!!!! When I found out... I told anyone that would listen. In regards to Usher... she's Black and beautiful to me... I'm just glad she ain't White honey. LOL

[jneroo226]

Tiger Woods, would be behind President Obama.

[myjrpics]

Well I cant deny it. I do hear black women making those kinds of comments. But I do need to correct you on one part. This is unfortunately something that women do regardless of race. Just go to any good looking famous white mans page and look at all the catty comments left by white women. Shes to skinny, shes to blonde, her boobs are fake blah blah blah

[myjrpics]

Continue

And before someone goes into to sargentwillipete parrot mode I want to point out that I am NOT deflecting. Just pointing out a serious flaw that afflicts most women period.

[Clarity411]

Funny

[shortiie140]

lol umm he will NEVER marry her. she'll be babymama/fiance for life. when he leaves her (just wait and see) she'll add on to the single black mom stat. dont kid yourself dude.

but i agree with what you said.

[Mhendeb]

You're absolutely right Pink. A lot of BW are very insecure. That's really the bottom line.

[nothing5630]

It's a simple as this -- over 90% of black men are still married to black women. That is a statistical fact. The whole "black men chasing white women" rant is another false empty slogan by alot of black women. and also its important to note that in alot of these BM/white women relationships the ww chased down the black man.

[morningafter86]

Yea 90% of all the black men that are married which is 40%. Thats not alot. Not even half of ya'll are married.

TRY AGAIN

[njari2]

Thank You!

So 60% of BM are UNMARRIED. That is the MAJORITY of BM that are NOT married.

[pinkkelephant]

i dont know. one of the factors causing the 60% may be because the majority of black women are not marriage material.

[njari2]

Maybe. May be not. However BM keep touting out the 90% of married BM are married to BW to prove that most BM are with BW and I guess allay BW's fears when most of yall are NOT married. So that statistic doesnt mean much considering that more people cohabitate than marry these days anyway. Where are the statistics on whose dating who?

[nothing5630]

@njari2 sure and an even higher number of black women are unmarried so whats your point? The fact is -- when blacks do decide to marry 90% of the time its to each other.. If BW are the strong independant beautiful queens many claim to be then they shouldn't have to worry about who some black men are dating because they should be getting overloaded with offers from all types of men for dates -- not just bums.

[njari2]

Well try reading what I said again and maybe, just maybe you'll get the point. I'm not interested in pissing contest. So my point was not about who is more single BM or BW. It wasnt to try and make BM look bad as you are assuming it is. You dont get the point of what I am saying. Cause if you did you would not have made the comments you made.

[nothing5630]

@njari2 -- Please. I got your point completely. Your point was this -- that the fact that 90% of BM were married to black women didnt matter because only 40% of black men were married anyway. This point that you brought up proves nothing except for blacks don't marry as often as other races in America. and if a large percentage of those unmarried black men are dating non black women that its still no business of yours or mine. What pinkelephant and I said still stands. Try again.

[njari2]

No you didnt get the point. BM bring up this 90% of BM are married to BW percentage to prove to BW that MOST BM are in relationships with BW when that CANNOT be proven since that percentage is only based off of 40% of the BM population. So they can only prove who 40% of BM are with. They cant prove who most BM are with. Its not even a matter of whether BM are with non BW. I'm just tired of BM using a statistic that only covers less than half of the BM pop to make a point about the whole!

[thetimekeeper100]

No hun its becuz the bm are playing the same game Lebron played. shacking up, making THREE babies w/ a bw but doesnt want to marry her right away. OH but she's good enough to start a family w/but not good enought to be a wife. that one MAJOR problem.

[nothing5630]

AND even a higher percentage of black women are not married -- my point still stands. Blacks don't marry as much but when they do and its time to make the actual big commitment 90% of BM are still marrying black women. Period. And if a higher number of black men are simply dating IR that is no concern of anyones but those particular BM. There are over 140 million men in America -- if women can't find at least one decen one than thats a personal problem.

[njari2]

But in this day and age when marraige is on the decline across all races your point is moot. The big commitment now is living together NOT marriage. And it will continue to go this route. So that 90% percentage doesnt really prove anything. BM use that as their ace in the hole to try and prove BW wrong about the prevalence of IR but your using a statistic that is losing relevence as each day goes by.

[ciscokid5866]

WHY DON'T HE MARRY THE CHICK

[pinkkelephant]

i believe they are engaged.

[morningafter86]

In one sentence you say black women are oppressed and then in another black women are being sympathized with constantly. Which one?

And what about those black women married to black men? The point is those numbers are dwindling even those seeking a divorce from there once black partner are now marrying outside the race. The marriage rate is dismal between African Americans.

And you showing Lebron James and his eternal fiance wasn't a good choice. It further demonstrates low marriage rate.

[pinkkelephant]

u seem like a smart person but stop going off of things i never said. i never said black women were oppressed. secondly, who am i supposed to show, some random black couple that i and no one else knows?

[morningafter86]

Yes you did say black women are being oppressed listen to the end of your video. And there are dozens of other black celebrities you could of used who are married, and not only that have been together for a while, so you know it's the real deal.

[morningafter86]

Sorry! one more thing I want to state to make my self even clearer. And this is constructive criticism. You need to take heed of what your saying yourself. Black women don't care that your showing this black couple, black women care that more and more black men are hopping the fence. There have always been black marriages right? thats nothing new what is new is interracial marriage. An it's increasing in droves every year thats what black women are seeing. Yes it's being pointed out ...

[morningafter86]

by the media, but we also see it in real life. People need to stop beating around the bush and come to reality and face it and talk about it.I'm not here to bash you I was recommended to your videos by a friend. And there extremely good. There is alot more I would like to say but can't.

~Peace and Love~

[RobertChavis]

I wonder what are your thoughts about black couples going through the "recession"?

[emmettmays85]

yeah u know black women are never fuckin satisfied u get a white woman u get called a sellout and weak. u date a light skinned black women oh u ashamed of yo blackness . or u hate your mother. but when he gets a dark skinned women she is ugly and she look like a man never satisfied

[gmcmim]

black men are never satisfied from what I have seen either. You date a man of another race you're a sellout, you date a light-skinned brotha you are ashamed of your dark skin or you want babies with good hair (even if the light dude himself has kinky hair), how dumb. you date a dark dude you are with a black ass dude. People date whoever they want. Whether if others agree with it or not. What you said was true to an extent. So was mine. But it is not the majority. That's what you're missing.

[fmcneillii]

@gmcmim Thats BS right there! total BS. When have black men complain about a sister marrying light or dark. When? it might happen once in a million times.

[emmettmays85]

@fmcneillii exactly i never in my life heard brothas complain about light skinned /dark skinned brothas, its always the women who complain

[dnicejhr2005]

@emmettmays85 whats good hommie dis bushwine my nig!

[emmettmays85]

@dnicejhr2005 whats up bushwine from MTO?

[WizzoPro9476]

@emmettmays85 IDK, but that's true! Those kind of sisters need to be avoided all together!

[Ariegiggles]

@ciscokid5866 I only clicked on this video to say the same got damn thing. Why hasn't he married that ass? I mean FOR REAL. Got 2 kids in the damn public eye and quite frankly feel that it is much worse than if he were with a white woman. It says, "Black women are okay to mate with, have a litter of kids with, but not to marry"....shoot.

[awhodatt]

Hey Pinkk...the bottom line is that the majority of women..ALL women are fucking psycho dog!

A western woman doesnt come into her own skin and any form of rationale until after the age of 40!

Until then they are a confused cocktail of a mentality poisoned by media projections, female-to-female competition, gold-digging and superficial values!

At the end of the day a GOOD WOMAN is harder to find today than a GOOD MAN...yet we are all dogs, deadbeat etc.!

Find one and hold on tight bro!

[brightlights456X]

I'm going to have to agree with you on this one pink. Take Robert De Niro for example. Probably of if not the biggest actors of all time. Now his ex AND current wife are both black.

Some prince in Swedan or Demmark married a black woman, but neither got any real press coverage.

You're right nobody cares.

[cherie711]

Wow, I really agree with you. This is coming from a Black woman. I do hear some of my "sisters" making these comments and it is crazy.

[Jabbaro123]

I'll admit i wouldn't show off my house either or the women that i associate myself with because i feel like everything you do should be behind close door. It's like why do alot of these men and women have sex and then they release there sex tape i'm like why would you want people to know how you get down.

[PhillyMD09]

word... real talk...

[PillzBerry27]

Real talk my brother!!!

[jeff2all]

Dam pinkk was spittin' deep shit!

[brightlights456X]

To jeff2all,

"it looks strange to see a black pro super star with a dark skinned sista."

OUCH!!!!!

[jeff2all]

I hate to say it, but it looks strange to see a black pro super star with a dark skinned sista.

[marcdaddy33]

IX-NAY on the Dwyane Wade example. they are divorced now and they've had a very messy divorce.

But I feel you on the overall message of this video... the bw with this type of mindset can never be pleased.

[pinkkelephant]

dam.  lol.

[GrenadineYankee]

That's the key: HIGH SCHOOL and MIDDLE SCHOOL sweethearts--those particular black women who gave a fuck about African-American men WHEN THEY'RE YOUNG based upon personality and compatibility. Additionally, those women aren't focused (read: obsessed) on the spotlight.

Going further regarding "profiling," I can't stress enough about the degree to which African-American women have become physically and verbally abusive towards black boys during middle and high school--but then turn right back...

[GrenadineYankee]

around and say that contemporary black men aren't "on their level" within the next two decades (if not sooner).

Obviously, there is nothing intrinsically wrong with black reaching the conclusion to live a single life if she doesn't want to marry; the issue is when men are demonized for not finding certain African-American females attractive and living in a way that isn't suitable to these females' hot-garbage understandings about black masculinity and their immediate environments.

[YoungGrizzly82]

A black man can marry a coal dark, natural hair black woman & black women will STILL find something wrong with her.

[cnell25]

Whenever some BW sees a black couple, I never hear, I love to see black love. Because most dont care about it, they only care if they have a man or not, and will hate on anybody else who is in a happy relationship. How many times have you heard BW with a man, say they dont trust other women around there man, AND 9 TIMES OUT OF 10 THAT OTHER WOMAN IS A BLACK WOMAN.

Underneath all the BS its not even about BM with WW, its about the fact that THEIR lonely and dont have a man.

[GrenadineYankee]

You're 100% on point. Most of these black women (regardless of marital status) complaining and making public announcements about their desire for "black love" are the first to say that they'll go get a white man (why not Hispanic, Asian, or Native American) because "they know how to protect their women" while A-A men don't (or, even worse, can't).

Must these black women be reminded about AIG and Dr. George Tiller? LOL.

They only care about "black love" when they don't sense immediate threats.

[bigbadmo1985]

Black women don't even like it when other black women is doing better than them.

[cnell25]

Co-sign!!

[nrwilliams015]

@bigbadmo1985 CHURCH!!!

[nrwilliams015]

@bigbadmo1985 and the irony there is that these BW are in love w/ these BW, too!!!

[americangangster86]

@nrwilliams015 Alot of BW are into Lesbianism.

[WizzoPro9476]

@bigbadmo1985 black women (women period) make the KKK look like Malcolm X w/ their heartlessness and belligerence, REAL TALK!

[zarbon700]

BM can't do nothing right in the eyes of BW.

[NegritosWayX]

PInkk! You are on fire with this one! I co-sign!

[renz722]

I co-sign on the co-sign!!!!

Pinkk you dropped pure science!!

[kuunami]

The Lebron James example wont be good enough for them. They'll just say that she's not dark skinned enough. There's always going to something for these chicks to complain about.

[cnell25]

Co-sign!!