To Spank Or Not To Spank

[PahoranGirl516]

*Stands up to applaud* Probably the most reasonable spanking video I've watched on youtube. I completely agreed 100% with everything you had to say. I was spanked as a child with hands, spatulas and wooden spoons and I never grew up fearful of my parents. Whenever I got spanked, I deserved it and my parents always explained to me what I did wrong to get spanked in the first place. And also, too many people confuse spanking with beating. When I got spanked it never left bruises (continued)

[PahoranGirl516]

(continued) or marks. And all this crap with kids being told "your behaviour is innapropriate" do you think they care? All they're seeing is that you're not letting them have their way, but there's no real discipline being served, even when it needs to be, and people wonder why this generation is so bratty. Another punishment that never works: being sent to your room. Uh, where all their toys are? Brilliant. When I was a kid, my mom made me walk up and down the stairs until she let me stop.

[lewisabel123]

Spanking is discipline.

[gorillas400]

lmao i feel sorry for the kids but its hilarious how many people think hitting their kids is a good way to raise them

[MsSmiff100]

Hunny her ass would have been tore up !

[ladyEulaelie]

Water can be used to quench the thirstiest soul or it can be used to drown people. Spanking is not wrong, if people adhere to some common sense.

SPANK YOUR KIDS!!

[ladyEulaelie]

Water can be used to quench the thirstiest soul or it can be used to drown people. Spanking is not wrong, if people adhere to some common sense.

I refuse to keep kids who are not spanked, whether they be my nieces and nephews or god kids. I won't do it. SPANK YOUR KIDS! They are not going to die from you giving properly spanking them when it's needed. You can't tap into the sense of little kids by talking. B/c of their maturity, sometimes, you just gotta tap that butt.

[appleinthesky1]

What was that supernanny episode?

[Bluehawaiian925]

I have 3 siblings. We were all spanked, and turned out to be very successful, respectful, disciplined people. So for all the folks out there who claim spanked children are aggressive, depressed, withdrawn..... people, were living proof thats crap! I don't understand parents who act confused as to why their children turn out to be ex cons, drug addicts, lazy jobless individuals when there was NO discipline at home. Hell will freeze over before I let my children walk all over me, talk back, disre

[lloo567]

@Bluehawaiian925 "Hell will freeze over before I let my children walk all over me, talk back, disre" The problem is that people have this idea that there are only 2 choices---spank your kids or let them run all over you. Where they get that idea, I don't know. But there are people who raise respectful kids without hitting. I don't think it's accurate to say it's necessary.

[MrAbelLewis]

Spanking is Discipline to me.

[MrAbelLewis]

Spanking is Discipline to me.

[chloweful]

Hurting a child or anyone to regain control of any situation is wrong.

[ialituwa]

OMG you had me dying laughing at the part when Trixy ripped the pot off the stove. I kno in essence it is not funny but I think you kno what I mean. And I so agree with you on not giving lil ppl the power. I will go as far as to say who cares what they think or how they feel? Whose house is this and who is keeping food in your mouth? Until you are of a certain age then your opinion matters until then I am in charge and wateva I say goes. Thats how I was raised.

[moonrice555]

@ialituwa "not giving lil ppl the power. I will go as far as to say who cares what they think or how they feel?" True, the kids should not run the house---but to say we shouldn't care what they feel? That's pretty cold.

[lloo567]

@ialituwa "I will go as far as to say who cares what they think or how they feel?" Goddam, man---seriously? I don't know what is wrong with people. Where do folks get this idea that you have to be an angry, cold-blooded Hitler or else your kids will run the house? If you don't care how they feel---why the fuck did you HAVE them? Get a goldfish instead, it's cheaper.

[benjorgensen1]

i agree with a good bit of this, but, may i say fear is not respect by any means!! fear is very very fragile in terms of respect. fear makes one what to flee (rebel), respect is based on understanding and agreement with that persons points of view, its a good feeling that brings happiness and a desire to revear ones parent and do what s/he says because you understand that its good, not because s/he said so. when ever i got told that it always made me care even less. i had to always understand!

[enekesa88]

@benjorgensen1 I agree. Fear is not respect. I also agree with her comment about telling a child and explaining why they are being spanked or disciplined. I don't agree with abuse and that is where fear comes from. When I knew I did somehting wrong, yes I would be afraid I would be spanked, but I didn't fear my mother. I just knew that for my actions I would have to pay the consequences. In addition to a spanking, I lost a privelage. TV, being with friends, anything I enjoyed.

[crazyfun92]

i totally 100% agree with every single point made in this video

[chloweful]

99cachorro I'm going to make one thing perfectly clear... You have NO idea what goes on in my house... if things are fair.. And parents more then often... are wrong. I used to share my opinion which they had told me to it. And I got hurt for it. In any matter physical abuse is physical abuse... spanking and hitting are the same fucking thing. And honestly those who do agree with even THINKING about hurting their children... need serious help.

xo

[enekesa88]

@chloweful Spanking is not abuse. I was spanked as a child, I was not abused. Everytime I did somehting wrong, I knew why I was getting spanked. Since when is abuse explained? It's irrational and can happen with what ever ticks the abuser off. I wasn't just randomly getting beat around the house. Discipline is about the individual. Whether you agree with it or not is your prerogative. But those of us who agree with it (spanking, not abuse) aren't in need of help. It actually helps some children.

[99cachorro]

You are right! Little people should not be running the household!

[LouieG7777]

You hit it right on the nail sista'!!

[Damonmesquite]

Hey I agree with everything you just said on this video. You are so right. Parent should be more like that or the child will just end up prison later on in life because they will think they can get away with anything.

[chloweful]

Fear is not respect. I myself, would NOT like it if I only got resected because I was feared. Its ridiculas. And the easier way of dealing with someone. Its like taking a short cut. One that can harm others. So yeah... My opinion should be the only one that actually counts. And its sad to know that people actually agree with hurting a person for "respect" and its pathetic.

[99cachorro]

@chloweful respect is not the reason for physical disipline. It is for unwanted behavior in the family unit. If you were "afraid" of receiving physical disipline then you should have acted in the way your parents thought was correct.

[LAMCL23]

I love this video so much! I am 25 years old and I was spanked...and I feel like my parents did the right thing. You are right, the little people have too much control because society puts pressure on parents who spank. I intend to spank my future children, depending on all of the points you listed here and a few others. There are a lot of teens, young children, and even adults that I know who really could use a good SMACK now and then!! <3 Much love, from Canada

[MyDollBabies0388]

I totally agree with you, NothinbutTreble1220. Today's children have become obnoxious brats because their parents are too permissive with them to give them the discipline they need. Just think of it this way: If you break the law, you go to jail, right? In society, there are consequences to unlawful behavior, and these consequences are designed to make sure we don't break the law again so we can become productive members of society. The same should go for our children.

[allidoissing]

I agree, but you being ignored for a punishment is too funny. Why is it so funny to me is b/c i concur. Valicious was good for straight looking over me, and I'm going to do it to my chaps if needed b/c you know and i know that we don't play games with children! Do as I say do like you said. Order and structure is needed, and if i have to knock a pair of glasses of.. Then so be IT! Follow the Got Damn Rules!

[ylwplkadotbikni8]

Hahah pro spanking.

[sorova]

Spanking should be done on the bare bottom and should be between consenting adults only.

[LADYACO]

I believe in spankin' in love. There is abuse then there is discipline. I'm only going to talk in an assertive manner for so long. I mean what I say and if my son is not getting the point then I may have to go there. I don't believe in "BEATING" a child. A little tap on the tail never hurt, it worked for me. I think that's why I'm the parent I am today. "Old School" back when you didn't get in trouble for keeping the police and others from doing the job of a parent.

[lnd3005]

How would you respond to a man who said the following to you?

"I believe in spankin' in love. There is abuse then there is discipline. I'm only going to talk in an assertive manner for so long. I mean what I say and if my wife is not getting the point then I may have to go there. I don't believe in 'BEATING' a woman. A little tap on the tail never hurt, it worked for me. I think that's why I'm the husband I am today."

[LAMCL23]

@lnd3005 I would explain that...if you're an adult, you should already know right from wrong and therefore not "need" a spanking. A spanking is needed when words can't explain everything. Not every child responds to a stern talking to, being grounded, etc. I didn't. But I sure as hell jumped if I thought I was going to have a red ass.

[lnd3005]

@LAMCL23

Would you be all right with spanking retarded adults, then? Or senile ones?

[LAMCL23]

@lnd3005 No, because adults have had parents, they have been children and grew up. Once you "grow up", you have to deal with shit on your own. As long as I'm not responsible for them, what do I care what they do when they are all grown up?? And it's Mentally challenged, not "retarded" you imbecile.

[lnd3005]

@LAMCL23

Did your parents ever call you things like "imbecile?"  Or "retarded?" Or do they still?

[TheMrsAmanda]

"white community ... physical discipline was a mostly-unspoken taboo. It was saved for only the worst of offenses. ... The implicit message was: "What you have done is so deviant that you deserve a special punishment, which is spanking." It marked the child as someone who has lost his place within traditional society.

Children key off their parents reaction more than the argument of physical discipline itself. "

-Nutureshock: Chapter 9

(FYI that's a great book

[TheMrsAmanda]

I don't see spanking as a necessity. I believe a vast majority of a child's temperament is determined in it's earlier years. Too much control= a testy child. But kids do need consequences.

It's been proven in multiple studies that "protestant 'white' children' and much of the 'black' community benefit from spanking- because their parents endorse spanking. That silly "last resort' mentality is actually what cause many of the problems associated with spanking....

[lnd3005]

"It's been proven in multiple studies that "protestant 'white' children' and much of the 'black' community benefit from spanking..."

Cite one, please.

[chinablk]

for me..spanking should be a last resort..and it should not be done out of anger..but solely to discipline..and i mean spanking..with the hands..not with objects..abuse is not acceptable

[chloweful]

TheMondoFondo if you spank your kids your not a good mother. And the only reason they are well behaved is cause they are scared of you. Trust me I've been there. And ANYONE who spanks anyone is fucked up

[LAMCL23]

@chloweful that's an awful judgment to make, saying someone is a bad mother because they don't do things the way you do. My parents are great people, great parents, and I was spanked. Children needed to feel authority, and if that means fear, then so be it. Have you ever respected anyone without even some form of fear?

[TheMondofondo]

Please dont post comments or videos on this subject unless you have experience and wisdom to back up your opinion. I have 5 children and I spank. My children are very well behaved and disciplined. I am constantly getting compliments on how well behaved my kids are. Spanking is just a very small part of parenting. Spanking should NEVER be done in anger!!!

[lnd3005]

Does hurting someone smaller than you make you feel big?

It doesn't, does it? You still feel small and weak.

And you should, because you are.

[LAMCL23]

@lnd3005 It's not about feeling "big", only those that are abusive by nature would get something from punishing their child. There is nothing wrong with showing the child who is boss. I know plenty of people who think they are indestructable because their parents never showed them what deserved pain truly is.

[jerms246]

spanking is bullshit, and ive been spanked. it doesn't change the child, and the child does not learn anything.

[bountyhunterdarkness]

I'm all for tearing that ass up! Within reason of course.

[MissyHolland]

I'm not at all aggressive and I'm an excellent student, and when I needed a good spanking I got it. From my Mom & my Dad. They weren't very frequent -3 or 4 times a year- and were usually well deserved (except for once). I was never afraid of them, although I was afraid of the spanking. I never doubted that they loved me, even when I was over their knee and wailing. Mom used her hand or a brush, and Dad his hand or a belt. It usually lasted about five minutes.

[LAMCL23]

@MissyHolland thank you. I completely agree with you. This is a very broad subject and I know a lot of people disagree...but ultimately, it's up to the parents how we raise our children. I mean, they are OURS!! We teach them, we raise them...if there are problems in society do we blame it on spankings? No....I blame it on not spanking!

[SPARKWISDOM]

I swat. I swat per age. Great vid!

[kinksnwinks]

i am so glad im not the only person who still believes in spanking

I totally agree there has to be conversation with any form of punishment

[lnd3005]

The same way a rapist should explain his lusts to his victim, right?

If he doesn't do that, it just _isn't_ okay.

Right?

[LAMCL23]

@lnd3005 That's ridiculous! Comparing rape to a spanking? A spanking ...is to be punished for something you did wrong...are you saying rape is due to someone doing something wrong? No, rape is horrible and awful and none of the times that I got spanked did I think my parents were raping me. And again, there are those sick fucks who do both. Don't fuck around with comments like that. Ridiculous.

[ilovecandles24]

If there were in the island they would not need super nanny I promise that one.

[strandwolf]

You got hit in the face for backtalk? Nice.

[strandwolf]

People should be required to pass a test and get a license in order to reproduce. Most don't qualify.

[walt7500]

@strandwolf Yes!

[Yeayamay]

I take care of my three year old cousin and Ive only had to spank him a bout three times. He is to the point now where all I have to do is threaten a spanking and he does what he is supposed to do. His mom doesn't spank him though and I find that he has more respect for me than he does her. You are right, kids should not be running the household and its up to the parent to reinforce who IS the head of the household because these 'lil people' will try and take over! Im tellin you...

[LaniceW]

I totally agree with you. I got a few whoopings in my younger years, and it worked for me. It straighten me out, and I'm the better for it. When I have kids, I'll be using the same methods.

As for Super Nanny, I watch the show from time to time, and I feel like all those kids need is either a stern look, tone or spanking. I'm sorry but it takes them too long to get them together for timeout. And then, I don't understand the point in asking them so many question. Just do what I said to do.

[longisland216]

I agree children need discipline and sometimes a spanking knocks some sense into them. But is up to the parents to discipline in their own way as well.

[VaunTV]

Loves this vid lol..See, Im Jamaican soo whoppins are NOT an option lol..I Used to get them whenever i did something that deserved one lol

[YoBoiPat]

Keia, I love your response.. Thank you so much for this! Girls are far more worse than boys thats why you got so many whoopings!! LOL, luv ya!!♡♡♡

One Luv

Pat (5 of them thangz)

[amariemallon]

where have you been??? I feel like I have been waiting forever for you to post a new video!!! LOL

[Dreaontv]

this fool said 'pulled a muscle wearin that chyle's tail out' lol

[ActressAngie]

Yes I agree wholeheartedly. Trixie would have been slapped! No doubt about it! Preparing your kids for the world is a task that is done through discipline and other things. I had more to say but my brain is running out of thinking juice! lol

[girlfriendL]

trixie needs a one hand lift up by the arm swoop, turn around and whoopin of the ass. lil ppl have no rights or feelings when it comes to bad behavior in my book. you show them you arent playin early on and they will straighten up

[VirgoDoll75]

Amen!!! I totally agree. I was taking a Marriage and Family class and the teach basically told us that if we were spanking out kids it was abuse and that she could call the police on us, and that if we had to spank our kids then "WE" were doing something wrong. Talking about violence begets violence Mind you she never had any children!! I belive in "Spare the rod and spoil the child"! She can kick rocks.

[nvncyble]

Thank you so much for the love and a wonderful video!

[MakeupOnABudget]

The yokes, I remember those lol

[OhStMidofnite]

LOL. Yoking. We used to call it the "signature snatch up"

[bullabelly]

Love the response

[Rus2946]

YES!!!! You are so right! I almost died when you talked about allowing 2 year olds to run the house! Who is the child and who is the parent? Yes! LMAO @ Trixie example, that would've been the end of Trixie for real.

Great video!

[ExoticDiams]

I am totally agree with you

nice respond video

[smrtgrl2010]

LOL I would have pulled a muscle too wearing out her behind!