the vast majority of date rape cases are just purely alcohol. I read a study where they took a group of women who had reported they believed they were drugged and tested them and something like 100% of them were just alcohol. It is far more likely a guy will just get a girl really drunk. Also, if you're in America there's seriously almost 0 chance of being drugged with GHB or Roofies, as they aren't available. Xanax or another benzo (roofies are benzos) is most likely
Thanks for making the video, I'm going off to college soon so this opened my eyes of what to expect when I'm out with friends at a party. Lesson learned =)
@98gleerox Thank you for sharing. Ive never had anything happen to me but I feel hatred and rage against people who rape others for their own personal gain. Its disgusting and angers me to the very core.
I was drug raped by my boyfriend and a gril whom I thought was my friend girl whom I did not know was gay. Then I was drug raped by him again with 5 of his firends. I did not know that a person could and would do such a thing. The first time it happened I thought I was dreaming but then I realized it was reality.
thre's nothin like free in dis world. go carefree u face such, stay obedient u get bored. system of life was fixed, go byond tht u r more vulnerable. women want more equality thts never to come coz greed is wit men n foolishness is women. world is about penis and vagina, rest are extension to use dis rightfully or othrwise.proper choice, decision to everything is necessary cos da moment u follow tht path consequences is byond ur jurisdiction. its da wildernes tht blinds us to c wat lies ahead
An excellent awareness video .. the only thing I will disagree with is that you never remember anything. In my case I didnt remember it all but I suffered flashbacks and can still remember every word I said to beg it to stop. Years later with the help of a fantastic counseller even more came back to me so it does seem to vary how much you remember.
Well done to the girls who made this video.. if it prevents one girl (or Boy) suffering this horrific crime then it is well worth it.
That's not true. A lot of the times, girls can recall events that happened. And men don't rape women to have cowardly sex..they do it for a power trip.
Im going to college in two years (Yea I know early) and Looking at this makes me scared. Thank the lord, that I am a very cautious and carful person. I even told my friends If Im going to a party Im bringing my own food, drinks and snacks.
These poor girls who got date raped in this movie are my heroooss!!! and the people who did the parts were it shows stepps are my idolss i luvv these people they are saving my life from the future if i ever choose to go to a party :)
part 2 Natasha's Mom killed herself the next year onwhat would have been her daughter's 15th birthday. Her brother killed himself 3 years later via a heroin overdose. In his suicide note, he blamed himself for Natash's death and that of his Moms. Date rape drugs may have tragic consequences for you, as well as the victim's family. You may be charged with murder if your victim dies. Please don't ever use or give this drug. What may be a few moments of pleasure may end up a lifetime of pain.
My neighbor let her 14-year old daughter go visit her 19 year-old brother in another state. He took her to a bar giving her fake i.d. He then left her alone while he went to speak to a friend. When he got back to her he thought that she was drunk (on 1 drink.) She passed out and he carried her to the car and into his apt. In the morning she was dead. A guy put a date-rape drug in her drink as he thought that she was alone. She went into a coma and died. See part 2
I also was drugged and woke up being both anally and vaginally raped. He fled and then committed suicide, left me without any answers or accountablity. Glad to see videos like these out.
I was date raped :( I woke up with cuts and slits on my body, he pulled out 20% of my hair, even though I have scars and places on my body where it hurts, the worst part is the flashbacks, there wad like 3 of them and I kept waking up and falling asleep and I was begging for them to stop but everytime I did they cut me. Anyways im glad there are videos like this that bring awareness to the situation, I hope were all a bit more careful. =]
I once walked in on something i though was "Date Rape" at this party, i was just likie its drunk sex at first but her was pinning her down, the bravest thing i EVER did was get that guy off her and get a group of her friends to take her to hospital, I think i need a thank for what i did, alothough he got away he didn't penetrate her so it's a win win :)
When I got raped at my uncles funeral by my great grandma, it was devastating. After that I could never trust anyone again and my whole life was turned upside down, i'm crying right now talking about it.
It happened to me and I am over 40.....doesn't just happen to the 20 somethings....I got lucky and managed to get home to my parking lot and I realized I had been drugged with something bad...so I locked my car doors and lay paralyzed for hours..I found out from all of my symptons that it was rohypnol....it's been a week and my memory and motor skills are still not 100 %...so please be careful when you go to parties and clubs. Great video...thank you.
this happened to me when I was a kid, I didn't think to go to the hospital, GHB and roofies leave the body very quickly, if this has happened to YOU, YOU must go to the hospital and get a drug test quickly!
i haf almost been date raped. they put the pill in my drink, it was my brothers friends. i never drank the drink bcuz my brother was lucky enough too catch it-he beat the boy up, and saved me. i got lucky.
i was on holiday a few nights ago in prague were me and my friends went out for a few drinks i got spike with a date rape drug, the good news is that my friends reolised what had happend before i got to bad and took me back to the hotel but even though this was a few days ago im still getting a really strong butterfly feeling in my stomach is this normal ?
good work to the students that helped make this, the education of the younger generation is important. if this kind of education was available when i was in school it might've saved my friends life. god bless.
I just counted how many ppl said they were raped or knew someone who was and out of 196 comments, 27 people, mostly women, said they were raped. Oh, and the MRM thinks rape doesn't happen as much as the stats say. I think it happens MORE.
There is a misogynistic seduction guru that goes by the name of "Dimitri The Lover". He claims all men are rapists and tells men to "awaken their inner rapist".
Go to twitter then add /dimitrithelover at the end of the url to read his vile tweets.
Also, he runs a group named "Toronto Real Men". Google it, then when you get on their web site, on the left click "Meeting Annoucements" and go to the one for October, dedicated to RAPE!
bad music but its interesting that topic about the rohypnol(Flunitrazepam) wrong use and effects, good explained and very important contribution ,, i;ll keep in mind ..
thanks!!
did you hear that ..guys dont be cowards , at least this could happens to your friends, sister, i dont know and i hope it wont be as i say..
i can remember almost going to prison for beating up a guy for slipping my ex girlfriend a liquid exsticy or GHB pill i was at my friends place in toronto and i left to get a beer wen i came bak my gf was nowhere around wen i went to the bathroom i looked in my friends bedroom and some guy was ontop of her i went nuts and threw the guy across the room breaking his arm and nose and to this day i never leave my gf or friends unattented or un watched at partys
I went on a date to a bar w/a drug enforcement policer officer. I left my drink at the bar while I went to the bathroom. We left & hours later I was drifting in and out of consciousness in between sexual acts. I remember waking up naked, bruised & sore. I was told it's ok, we both had too much to drink. That was 3 years ago and I haven't been on a date since. I'm still in counseling. If you can't trust a cop, who can you trust? I didn't report it. I stood no chance against reporting him.
oh... you should have reported in my opinion. but its okay, its over now. the councelors advice is most likely better than mine so ill just go on by saying that your story is touching.
Jesus. If we can't trust our police, who the hell are we supposed to trust? And how are we supposed to believe that they care AT ALL when we confide in them to tell them about people who give us the worst moments of our lives?
Make sure who you think are your friends are really your friends. One will distract you while the other spikes your drink. Females may be involved as well. Those tips are good but don't let that lull you into a false sense of security.
um.... can the drugs be rolled? cause i was with a friend and i tried smoking for the first time and i think i was slipped something and im worried i might be pregnant.
The joys of being a girl, you never seem to hear of men being raped.
I'm scared to death of being anywhere alone because i was followed home and almost kidnapped in grade 3. My mom made me file this thingie, and then my friend got followed home by the same guy. But her mom didn't make her tell the police. Which she should have done. Now I'm scared of men who look a certain way because i think it could be him. I'm in grade 8 now.
I was a victim of being slipped a GHB only I woke up in jail. I can remember 85% of my night and the person I went to the party with won't even speak to me because he thinks i just got drunk and can't hold my liquor. I don't even know what happened. Can't be sure if i was raped, which is somewhat worse. What an asshole for doing this to people.
there is no way to go to a party with drinking and not have someone at least almost raped.i think the host of the party should keep an eye on everyone like i do at my parties.if you see someone like this throw them through the door take about 10 guys and beat him down in the front or back yard i've had to this many times
a good insight, i will pass this onto my kids , its terrible when people cant go to partys without the risk of this happening...I have always carried my drink around and coverd it in a busy place, as i had my drink spiked many years ago, luckily for me it wasnt raped and my friends could see something wrong.If I try and warn my kids Im just a nagging mum, so thankyou for this video :o) xx
I was in a club in a relatively safe neighborhood when I noticed my first drink - a soft drink - tasted funny from the first sip on. I smelled it, passed it on to my friend to smell it, and he agreed with me that "that ain't no ordinary Coke". I got it checked out by the bartender and he, too, agreed.
Later that night, security guards caught a guy spiking drinks that stood unattended at the bar.
This Happend to my SISTER! I know, my friends drinks (5people) went to a party, a group of 8 guys came up to them and asked to dance, the other 3 went somewhere else, they spiked their drinks and took turns raping them, and how they knew is 2 of them woke up durring the process, they were scared they were going to die and came to me for help.
This happent to my sistern not me, I just felt like saying it in my words, if you want to see her, she is Franrulz124 and it was acctualy a school dance
wow good fuckin job....i feel for u i think my girlfriend was date raped but she wont admit it first she said...i dont remember what happened than she saw my face just die now shes denying it so iv been thinking the worst ever since
It's good to see all these positive comments on a rape video finally. Some assholes think it's no big deal, when it's a huge deal. I was raped by a stranger a few months ago and it's a horrible ordeal. I feel so sorry for all the rape victims in this world, and God Bless. Thank god some people, like the one's who made this video, have a heart!
Those guys that post nasty comments on videos like this one more than likely would be the ones spikin your drinks. As it says, "Its a cowards' way to have sex." What ever happened to the whole dating thing instead of..
Interestingly enough to post, humans are one of the only animals in the animal kingdom where the female requires long-term courtship rather than allowing instant sexual behavior. This is due to our evolutionary path. As homeo-sapiens evolved, the females stopped producing signs of heat. In lamen's terms, males typically cannot tell when females are ovulating. This caused humans to develope mating rituals and long term relationships before engaging in sexual behavior. Interesting huh?
I was a victim of date rape in '90. I went 2 a party @ a friends house. I knew everyone there & I trusted them. I remember stumbling around & waking up 2 a friend of mine on top of me. I couldn't move or talk & I blacked out. I came 2 several times, but I was confused & couldn't move. I got pregnant from that night. I went 2 the police & they did nothing. I couldn't prove that I was raped because I didn't know until 4 months later. The court system sucks here! This event messed up my life!!!
I feel sorry for the people that rape. Know what I mean? What kind of greasebag would drug someone to have sex with them. I real sick fucker. That's who. Why is this such a problem in the USA. I take Rohypnol for insomnia. Nobody does that in Asia. Sometimes people get Xaanaxed and robbed in poor countries but not raped. Shame on you!
this should be made cumpulsory educational veiwing in all schools in countries affected by this asap ...when they catch people who do this they should be castrated and jailed.
good video. to all rape victims, know that you are far from alone, i think 1 in 4 women have had some sort of sexual assault. what is needed is more awareness and better laws. until 1991 i think, a husband could rape his wife without breaking the law. things are changing but there needs to more action.
I was raped and I am pretty sure I was drugged. I went to the hospital immediately and I was still very confused. They tested my urine for pregnancy and threw it out. If I had been tested my rapist might be in jail but he is free after pleading guilt to a lesser charge. I am working on a law that will make hospitals offer the drug test. Good video. But remember if it does happen, it wasn't your fault for not watching your drink. You can take steps to prevent this but it can still happen.
i have seen many women lured into the date rape scenario,as a man i feel ashamed of it.i have daughters now,please make these videos available for the youth in urban areas to view constantly.
I think someone tried this on me 11 years ago. One moment I'm dancing with friends the next I have hazy memories of being on the dance floor with my face upgainst some dude's leather jacked while he wispering stuff in my ear. I have no idea what happened after that. I must have wondered off/got away from him somehow because I woke up in a ditch (I must have fallen.) Bizzare! (My friends thought I had just gone with the guy *rolls eyes* because they said I walked/talked fine at the club)
God bless you all........ Shouldn`t be happening.... Coward Mother Fucker Losers..... That`s what pro`s and jo`s r 4, getting paid for it. Disguisting
This is so far out, I am amazed.... It seems to be very common in the US!!! Is this true? My goodness what next????.... Don`t go out, stay indoors.....How fucking sad
i almost got raped once...well it was more of a sexual asult but i think he was going to rape me but it was probably the worst day of my life for me and my parents..
no no no. Rape is not about wanting sex. It is a form of violence. The rapist wants to dominate his victim. Don't necessarily think that if a girl walks around in a shirt skirt that she's asking for it. Rape is simply a form of violent domination and control. It is disgusting beyond words.
i was drugged by my own brother in law and raped ,you cant trust no one ,when at parties just do like i do ,dont drink nothing you didnt bring with you.
Actually that was a pretty good video, good advice without being judgmental about kids drinking. I also liked that it showed some guys as being helpful and protective and not all monsters.
last year,a week after my 15th birtday,i was raped by my neighbour.he was 23 then..it was horrible..the most terryifing moment i've been through.i did everything i could do get rid of him but it was useless...but thanks to God and to my family and friends i managed to go on..even though i still have nightmares at night with that moment..rape is the most awful,disgusting thing that can happen to a woman..
Never let anyone touch your drink. That's not the answer of course, but you have to be streetwise Never set your drink down number 1, If someone offers you a beer, make sure you're the one who opens it. Watch your drink while dancing with it while dancing around someone can drop it in.
how about 'only go to parties of your friends and if someone is even looking at you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell someone, like an adult (if you're a teen and you're not an idiot who goes to parties when parents aren't home) or your boyfriend about it.
Rape is a very serious crime here going on in the United States. Not to sound too crude but I think when a man is convicted of raping a girl, his dick should be cut off!!
I was rapet repeatedly by a NSW cop and the police did nothing!Thay coverd it up!Australia would be better off If thay stop the police frome investigating themselves.
hello i gt rape a few months ago i was 13 yearsold now i'm still 13 but i'm underage bt i got rape by a black guy such inhuman and my friend told me he talk about the things what he did to me . he is like a beast
good message, it's horrible to see that can happen. But I think odvious and logic thing to prevent that is don't drink, period, in that type of setting
Its so true, everything said in this video, only i was druged by a friend i was lucky that i realized sometime was not right with myself so i called my mum right away,
After my rape my friend heard him and some of his black friends (girls included) at mcdonalds laughing about what he did to me. i was only 18 and wasn't prepared for what that kind of thing would do to me. he deserves to be hung for what he did to me. And then to laugh about it like it was a joke? What an animal some "humans" can be!
@girlonroofies I know where you're coming from, but to Me, boasting about that kind of thing with anybody is absolutely horrible, I could care less what color they are, any color - it's none of their business, and it adds insult to injury that your rapist didn't suffer any guilt for what he did. God knows and sees everything.
i too was date raped at a party by this balck guy who put that crap in my drink. i ended up having an abortion because i was scared and everyone would wonder where the black baby came from since my b/f is white. i hate him!
advise from a policeofficer- do not let anyone buy ur drink(even if its a female friend), unless you know them very well,even then its a gamble,hold the glass from the top so that ur hand covers the mouth of it,dnt let ur drink mix with any of ur m8s,and please dnt dress like a tart... a real man will be attracted by ur personality more than ur assets,
unless drinking firmly or being high because you want to, you know when you're drugged...for shure..I've already tried out lot of things,and although not proud of it,sorry but some girls r stupid..that doesn't make it ok..but if you go out alone,double check everything..if with friends,look out for each other..
I'm from belgium and there goes a lot of dope around here..but nobody I know has ever had something like this on hand..so maybe it's more something americain..I don't know
i'm italian, i don't know america, but this video should do, as for many other stuffs, in all languages, cause this shouldn't happen anymore..in milan, my city, there has been only voices of it, it has not been spoken of it by media..i've been in scotland for erasmus, girls there don't even have an idea of what means being responsible, they go around in a complete crazy way, with no head...they should know that they can do it only cause of scotland, in italy they'd be raped, for sure...
Very helpful. I had no frikin idea tht could happen
RuffyWolf 2 months ago
Wow. Really uhh interesting. Very benificial
RuffyWolf 2 months ago
If you google date rape study it's the first result
Valuum 3 months ago
the vast majority of date rape cases are just purely alcohol. I read a study where they took a group of women who had reported they believed they were drugged and tested them and something like 100% of them were just alcohol. It is far more likely a guy will just get a girl really drunk. Also, if you're in America there's seriously almost 0 chance of being drugged with GHB or Roofies, as they aren't available. Xanax or another benzo (roofies are benzos) is most likely
Valuum 3 months ago
Best tip: Don't drink.
energyDie 5 months ago
This should go on news every were it might help stop date rape a bit
dragongirl194 5 months ago
Thanks for making the video, I'm going off to college soon so this opened my eyes of what to expect when I'm out with friends at a party. Lesson learned =)
lilDuchess08 6 months ago
It's so beneficial. Thank you for making this clip :)
diemha1993 8 months ago
Great job
98gleerox 9 months ago
This video was amazing. I have a huge fear of being raped, and this has helped me to get away from that fear. Thank you SO much!!
98gleerox 9 months ago 2
@98gleerox Thank you for sharing. Ive never had anything happen to me but I feel hatred and rage against people who rape others for their own personal gain. Its disgusting and angers me to the very core.
Baylorchick20 2 months ago
It is "whom you can trust."
Hypatia1951 9 months ago
I was drug raped by my boyfriend and a gril whom I thought was my friend girl whom I did not know was gay. Then I was drug raped by him again with 5 of his firends. I did not know that a person could and would do such a thing. The first time it happened I thought I was dreaming but then I realized it was reality.
01Preciousj 9 months ago
thre's nothin like free in dis world. go carefree u face such, stay obedient u get bored. system of life was fixed, go byond tht u r more vulnerable. women want more equality thts never to come coz greed is wit men n foolishness is women. world is about penis and vagina, rest are extension to use dis rightfully or othrwise.proper choice, decision to everything is necessary cos da moment u follow tht path consequences is byond ur jurisdiction. its da wildernes tht blinds us to c wat lies ahead
SOnymous 10 months ago
can i use this video..I am a advocate for rape awareness
tobiascam 11 months ago
An excellent awareness video .. the only thing I will disagree with is that you never remember anything. In my case I didnt remember it all but I suffered flashbacks and can still remember every word I said to beg it to stop. Years later with the help of a fantastic counseller even more came back to me so it does seem to vary how much you remember.
Well done to the girls who made this video.. if it prevents one girl (or Boy) suffering this horrific crime then it is well worth it.
JaneyAlison 1 year ago
just keep an eye on your drink...also if the guy is good looking...get your own drinks...
angrydog01 1 year ago
That's not true. A lot of the times, girls can recall events that happened. And men don't rape women to have cowardly sex..they do it for a power trip.
hooligan1503 1 year ago
This is freekin terrible!!!!!!!!
XA2I3RX 1 year ago
Im going to college in two years (Yea I know early) and Looking at this makes me scared. Thank the lord, that I am a very cautious and carful person. I even told my friends If Im going to a party Im bringing my own food, drinks and snacks.
DarkGem34 1 year ago
These poor girls who got date raped in this movie are my heroooss!!! and the people who did the parts were it shows stepps are my idolss i luvv these people they are saving my life from the future if i ever choose to go to a party :)
Trailerparkgirl1994 1 year ago
part 2 Natasha's Mom killed herself the next year onwhat would have been her daughter's 15th birthday. Her brother killed himself 3 years later via a heroin overdose. In his suicide note, he blamed himself for Natash's death and that of his Moms. Date rape drugs may have tragic consequences for you, as well as the victim's family. You may be charged with murder if your victim dies. Please don't ever use or give this drug. What may be a few moments of pleasure may end up a lifetime of pain.
thekenniewitch 1 year ago
My neighbor let her 14-year old daughter go visit her 19 year-old brother in another state. He took her to a bar giving her fake i.d. He then left her alone while he went to speak to a friend. When he got back to her he thought that she was drunk (on 1 drink.) She passed out and he carried her to the car and into his apt. In the morning she was dead. A guy put a date-rape drug in her drink as he thought that she was alone. She went into a coma and died. See part 2
thekenniewitch 1 year ago
I also was drugged and woke up being both anally and vaginally raped. He fled and then committed suicide, left me without any answers or accountablity. Glad to see videos like these out.
jenni4hays 1 year ago
I was date raped :( I woke up with cuts and slits on my body, he pulled out 20% of my hair, even though I have scars and places on my body where it hurts, the worst part is the flashbacks, there wad like 3 of them and I kept waking up and falling asleep and I was begging for them to stop but everytime I did they cut me. Anyways im glad there are videos like this that bring awareness to the situation, I hope were all a bit more careful. =]
AnimeCrazedd 1 year ago
I once walked in on something i though was "Date Rape" at this party, i was just likie its drunk sex at first but her was pinning her down, the bravest thing i EVER did was get that guy off her and get a group of her friends to take her to hospital, I think i need a thank for what i did, alothough he got away he didn't penetrate her so it's a win win :)
MrKatanaKid 1 year ago
When I got raped at my uncles funeral by my great grandma, it was devastating. After that I could never trust anyone again and my whole life was turned upside down, i'm crying right now talking about it.
shadowanubis 1 year ago
It happened to me and I am over 40.....doesn't just happen to the 20 somethings....I got lucky and managed to get home to my parking lot and I realized I had been drugged with something bad...so I locked my car doors and lay paralyzed for hours..I found out from all of my symptons that it was rohypnol....it's been a week and my memory and motor skills are still not 100 %...so please be careful when you go to parties and clubs. Great video...thank you.
jayneejames 1 year ago
this happened to me when I was a kid, I didn't think to go to the hospital, GHB and roofies leave the body very quickly, if this has happened to YOU, YOU must go to the hospital and get a drug test quickly!
minaroar 1 year ago
i haf almost been date raped. they put the pill in my drink, it was my brothers friends. i never drank the drink bcuz my brother was lucky enough too catch it-he beat the boy up, and saved me. i got lucky.
TMRmunchkinnx3 1 year ago
why don't they get rid of all the drugs if all they do is cuase harm?
TheAnnoyingThing1915 1 year ago
@TheAnnoyingThing1915 Because people will still use them. And they sometimes have medical purposes, and black market dealers would still sell them.
TheCoolio999 1 year ago
or dont drink?
jetsamjetsam 1 year ago
Hello,
i was on holiday a few nights ago in prague were me and my friends went out for a few drinks i got spike with a date rape drug, the good news is that my friends reolised what had happend before i got to bad and took me back to the hotel but even though this was a few days ago im still getting a really strong butterfly feeling in my stomach is this normal ?
UPYEEPAL 2 years ago
very nice video! I thought rufies were just something the people from "The Hangover" made up. But now I saw this, thank you!
Italiangangst3r 2 years ago
i was raped in a aprty
anna6825 2 years ago
I'm dying to catch a douchbag try to date rape at my party, I would love to get my hands on them...
worldsavy 2 years ago
good work to the students that helped make this, the education of the younger generation is important. if this kind of education was available when i was in school it might've saved my friends life. god bless.
tntmurda 2 years ago
I just counted how many ppl said they were raped or knew someone who was and out of 196 comments, 27 people, mostly women, said they were raped. Oh, and the MRM thinks rape doesn't happen as much as the stats say. I think it happens MORE.
DianaBoston 2 years ago
WARNING TO ALL WOMEN READING THIS!
There is a misogynistic seduction guru that goes by the name of "Dimitri The Lover". He claims all men are rapists and tells men to "awaken their inner rapist".
Go to twitter then add /dimitrithelover at the end of the url to read his vile tweets.
Also, he runs a group named "Toronto Real Men". Google it, then when you get on their web site, on the left click "Meeting Annoucements" and go to the one for October, dedicated to RAPE!
colleenthedream80 2 years ago
These drugs can also kill you or cause brain damage; a guy that does this to someone needs to be dead, dead, dead.
OrmEmber 2 years ago 6
@OrmEmber I agree.
vallonia2000 1 year ago
or raped himself!
bridget2695 1 year ago
bad music but its interesting that topic about the rohypnol(Flunitrazepam) wrong use and effects, good explained and very important contribution ,, i;ll keep in mind ..
thanks!!
did you hear that ..guys dont be cowards , at least this could happens to your friends, sister, i dont know and i hope it wont be as i say..
alaintonatiuh 2 years ago
i can remember almost going to prison for beating up a guy for slipping my ex girlfriend a liquid exsticy or GHB pill i was at my friends place in toronto and i left to get a beer wen i came bak my gf was nowhere around wen i went to the bathroom i looked in my friends bedroom and some guy was ontop of her i went nuts and threw the guy across the room breaking his arm and nose and to this day i never leave my gf or friends unattented or un watched at partys
Benchpress33 2 years ago 3
Trust no one fully to be safe, there are good people out there but no matter what remember you never really know someone.
lfacu23 2 years ago
I went on a date to a bar w/a drug enforcement policer officer. I left my drink at the bar while I went to the bathroom. We left & hours later I was drifting in and out of consciousness in between sexual acts. I remember waking up naked, bruised & sore. I was told it's ok, we both had too much to drink. That was 3 years ago and I haven't been on a date since. I'm still in counseling. If you can't trust a cop, who can you trust? I didn't report it. I stood no chance against reporting him.
darlingdino 2 years ago 17
sorry to hear that, i'll be praying for you
JayJayGrady4U 2 years ago
oh... you should have reported in my opinion. but its okay, its over now. the councelors advice is most likely better than mine so ill just go on by saying that your story is touching.
anime1lvr 2 years ago
thats really #@!$%ing scary!
Sorry to hear
rothjus 2 years ago
Jesus. If we can't trust our police, who the hell are we supposed to trust? And how are we supposed to believe that they care AT ALL when we confide in them to tell them about people who give us the worst moments of our lives?
AdrienneCutburthBigA 2 years ago 6
That is awful for you. So sorry
kipsimoondrop 2 years ago 3
rape is not ok period.
MrKingofawesome 2 years ago
Make sure who you think are your friends are really your friends. One will distract you while the other spikes your drink. Females may be involved as well. Those tips are good but don't let that lull you into a false sense of security.
Atarglu 2 years ago 9
thay talk about alcohol like its ok in this vid!
thay should not be drinking in the first place.
jellyfilld12 2 years ago
GREAT video! may I link to it on a website for survivors I'm building? Thanks
DearAngelaShelton 2 years ago
This Video is Great :] Teach How to Prevent from Date rape Drug...
qingshun23 2 years ago
I agree parties are a culprit . . beware where you go..what you eat and drink. . .
LewisAvinash 2 years ago
its not your fault the same thing happend to me.. i understand and feel your pain
angelluver123123 2 years ago
um.... can the drugs be rolled? cause i was with a friend and i tried smoking for the first time and i think i was slipped something and im worried i might be pregnant.
IllLoveYouForYou 2 years ago
The joys of being a girl, you never seem to hear of men being raped.
I'm scared to death of being anywhere alone because i was followed home and almost kidnapped in grade 3. My mom made me file this thingie, and then my friend got followed home by the same guy. But her mom didn't make her tell the police. Which she should have done. Now I'm scared of men who look a certain way because i think it could be him. I'm in grade 8 now.
DoomCookiie 2 years ago 3
I was a victim of being slipped a GHB only I woke up in jail. I can remember 85% of my night and the person I went to the party with won't even speak to me because he thinks i just got drunk and can't hold my liquor. I don't even know what happened. Can't be sure if i was raped, which is somewhat worse. What an asshole for doing this to people.
beautifulmarica 2 years ago
there is no way to go to a party with drinking and not have someone at least almost raped.i think the host of the party should keep an eye on everyone like i do at my parties.if you see someone like this throw them through the door take about 10 guys and beat him down in the front or back yard i've had to this many times
madhatter5192 3 years ago
a good insight, i will pass this onto my kids , its terrible when people cant go to partys without the risk of this happening...I have always carried my drink around and coverd it in a busy place, as i had my drink spiked many years ago, luckily for me it wasnt raped and my friends could see something wrong.If I try and warn my kids Im just a nagging mum, so thankyou for this video :o) xx
mitziuk 3 years ago 5
Good Video and great tips aswell
dragonslug93 3 years ago 2
I was in a club in a relatively safe neighborhood when I noticed my first drink - a soft drink - tasted funny from the first sip on. I smelled it, passed it on to my friend to smell it, and he agreed with me that "that ain't no ordinary Coke". I got it checked out by the bartender and he, too, agreed.
Later that night, security guards caught a guy spiking drinks that stood unattended at the bar.
Oh, the joys of being female.
LaSorayaa 3 years ago 15
This Happend to my SISTER! I know, my friends drinks (5people) went to a party, a group of 8 guys came up to them and asked to dance, the other 3 went somewhere else, they spiked their drinks and took turns raping them, and how they knew is 2 of them woke up durring the process, they were scared they were going to die and came to me for help.
This happent to my sistern not me, I just felt like saying it in my words, if you want to see her, she is Franrulz124 and it was acctualy a school dance
daddysgirl1776 3 years ago
wow good fuckin job....i feel for u i think my girlfriend was date raped but she wont admit it first she said...i dont remember what happened than she saw my face just die now shes denying it so iv been thinking the worst ever since
saintpk 2 years ago
Men are raped more than women are! See our court systems when it comes to divorce and child custody. The joys of being male in America.
stupidrussia 2 years ago
It's good to see all these positive comments on a rape video finally. Some assholes think it's no big deal, when it's a huge deal. I was raped by a stranger a few months ago and it's a horrible ordeal. I feel so sorry for all the rape victims in this world, and God Bless. Thank god some people, like the one's who made this video, have a heart!
<3 with love, Jasmine
SwimmerGal161718 3 years ago 7
Those guys that post nasty comments on videos like this one more than likely would be the ones spikin your drinks. As it says, "Its a cowards' way to have sex." What ever happened to the whole dating thing instead of..
Tr2u1ck 3 years ago 4
Interestingly enough to post, humans are one of the only animals in the animal kingdom where the female requires long-term courtship rather than allowing instant sexual behavior. This is due to our evolutionary path. As homeo-sapiens evolved, the females stopped producing signs of heat. In lamen's terms, males typically cannot tell when females are ovulating. This caused humans to develope mating rituals and long term relationships before engaging in sexual behavior. Interesting huh?
Joeyv415 2 years ago 7
thanks you so much...this helps alott:)
sozoal 3 years ago
Intresting video. I am sorry, because person who made this video, was raped. That is a fact.
ToiletPaper67 3 years ago
my sister got rape 2 when her age at 13 now she is still 13 going to 14
iihearthim 3 years ago
i get rape 2 when i was 13 :(
i am still blamming my self
now i am only 14 :(
norisibilla 3 years ago
ITS NOT UR FAULT,are you pregnet though?
89roxyrichgirl89 3 years ago
I Know how you feel. But Don't Blame yourself.
edfangirl68 3 years ago
omg hon that'shorrible ! :( my heart goes out to you, it happened to me when i was 15, now im 16 -- if you want to talk to me about it you can hon
Jasmine
SwimmerGal161718 2 years ago
I agreeed this is a good awareness
iihearthim 3 years ago
I was a victim of date rape in '90. I went 2 a party @ a friends house. I knew everyone there & I trusted them. I remember stumbling around & waking up 2 a friend of mine on top of me. I couldn't move or talk & I blacked out. I came 2 several times, but I was confused & couldn't move. I got pregnant from that night. I went 2 the police & they did nothing. I couldn't prove that I was raped because I didn't know until 4 months later. The court system sucks here! This event messed up my life!!!
tmariebluesky 3 years ago
im really sorry to know that...worse thing that can happen.....
LewisAvinash 2 years ago
thats scary
rothjus 2 years ago 2
simple...
don't go to American frat parties.
hellokitty2007 3 years ago
Rapist should be shot, they have no business being alive
Verdux 3 years ago
you know what i feel sorry for the people that were raped
rosestar93 3 years ago 2
I feel sorry for the people that rape. Know what I mean? What kind of greasebag would drug someone to have sex with them. I real sick fucker. That's who. Why is this such a problem in the USA. I take Rohypnol for insomnia. Nobody does that in Asia. Sometimes people get Xaanaxed and robbed in poor countries but not raped. Shame on you!
deepeeeh 3 years ago
I think it's funny that people think rape is about sex.
ohmyhowloverly 3 years ago
this should be made cumpulsory educational veiwing in all schools in countries affected by this asap ...when they catch people who do this they should be castrated and jailed.
zigystarlust 3 years ago 2
This is a good video ! congratulations.
Tehunatepec2000 3 years ago
good video. to all rape victims, know that you are far from alone, i think 1 in 4 women have had some sort of sexual assault. what is needed is more awareness and better laws. until 1991 i think, a husband could rape his wife without breaking the law. things are changing but there needs to more action.
tackynonsense 3 years ago 7
I was raped and I am pretty sure I was drugged. I went to the hospital immediately and I was still very confused. They tested my urine for pregnancy and threw it out. If I had been tested my rapist might be in jail but he is free after pleading guilt to a lesser charge. I am working on a law that will make hospitals offer the drug test. Good video. But remember if it does happen, it wasn't your fault for not watching your drink. You can take steps to prevent this but it can still happen.
csforrester 3 years ago 25
great work but it is about power just to let you know
Lordrevenge 3 years ago
Thnx!
ChanceyBug7 3 years ago 2
omg hi jen hi carmen!
snickbick 3 years ago
nice work, I wish you all to pass your exams
tiiaamii 3 years ago 7
i have seen many women lured into the date rape scenario,as a man i feel ashamed of it.i have daughters now,please make these videos available for the youth in urban areas to view constantly.
19676 3 years ago 13
I think someone tried this on me 11 years ago. One moment I'm dancing with friends the next I have hazy memories of being on the dance floor with my face upgainst some dude's leather jacked while he wispering stuff in my ear. I have no idea what happened after that. I must have wondered off/got away from him somehow because I woke up in a ditch (I must have fallen.) Bizzare! (My friends thought I had just gone with the guy *rolls eyes* because they said I walked/talked fine at the club)
ScaperSteph 3 years ago 7
God bless you all........ Shouldn`t be happening.... Coward Mother Fucker Losers..... That`s what pro`s and jo`s r 4, getting paid for it. Disguisting
ssmmdrdresd 3 years ago 2
This is so far out, I am amazed.... It seems to be very common in the US!!! Is this true? My goodness what next????.... Don`t go out, stay indoors.....How fucking sad
xx
ssmmdrdresd 3 years ago 6
This is a good awareness video..the first positive thing I've seen on you tube.
cliffonUtube 4 years ago 9
this is a good thing to tell to all fellow youtubers
khocoholic 3 years ago
only accept drink from your boyfriend or husband so you don't get tricked!!
blueberri18 4 years ago
rape is never about sex ..
its about power.
allnamesaretaken7 4 years ago
my moms friend got raped by three guys that drugged her and beat her and then left her in a hotel room. she can't sleep by herself anymore
lestatlover4123 4 years ago
it is a statistical fact that 10% of men are sexually aroused by violence and sexual assault. i think that i am one of them.
doctorsartorius 4 years ago
i got given a roof3h i got raped sad face :(
IcanSpellMyname 4 years ago
Wow. Reading all these comments is depressing.
KukuZee 4 years ago
i almost got raped once...well it was more of a sexual asult but i think he was going to rape me but it was probably the worst day of my life for me and my parents..
edfangirl68 4 years ago 8
who would give a thumbs down for this comment? Geeze people. It happens. I had a boyfriend who sexually assaulted me once too.
chan25 4 years ago
I just was raped myself this month and I am 52 . age does not matter. and I live in a small town
easterdove 4 years ago 10
I'm 43, it was four nights ago. I only worried about this happening to my daughters, aged 24, 15, and 13. I don't remember anything.
pookielove1 4 years ago
And tip number 11. Don't even go to those stupid ass parties, you dumb ass teenagers. They're pointless.
Saraculture13 4 years ago
Yet another reason I never go to parties :-D
ZandurOfBronte 4 years ago 10
no no no. Rape is not about wanting sex. It is a form of violence. The rapist wants to dominate his victim. Don't necessarily think that if a girl walks around in a shirt skirt that she's asking for it. Rape is simply a form of violent domination and control. It is disgusting beyond words.
davidhenley 4 years ago 17
this video was proffesionally done. the advice is all there and they dont show images for men to jack off to like they normally do in movies and such
dreamsnfairies 4 years ago 5
i was drugged by my own brother in law and raped ,you cant trust no one ,when at parties just do like i do ,dont drink nothing you didnt bring with you.
ladyerickson70 4 years ago 36
more then a quarter of american girls have been rapped.
hellokitty2007 4 years ago
thats not true hellokitty
laughuntilyoupuke 4 years ago
The real statistics says that much less rate than 1/30.
mrjfin 4 years ago
@ladyerickson70 if ur sister has any sense she got a divorce
Amilah2010 1 year ago
@ladyerickson70 ur brother in law is sick...
Aznganxter1 1 year ago
@ladyerickson70 you were raped by your brother, that just weird.
ArinOngunTV 1 year ago
Tip 9 is my favourite, tip 11 don't go to parties...
this remind me of "The girl next door" movie ;-)
darioferrini 4 years ago
Actually that was a pretty good video, good advice without being judgmental about kids drinking. I also liked that it showed some guys as being helpful and protective and not all monsters.
bunnyJumpsuit 4 years ago 17
great vid ill be sure to look out for this at parties
penslover1132 4 years ago 6
Excellent!
bathusberget 4 years ago
last year,a week after my 15th birtday,i was raped by my neighbour.he was 23 then..it was horrible..the most terryifing moment i've been through.i did everything i could do get rid of him but it was useless...but thanks to God and to my family and friends i managed to go on..even though i still have nightmares at night with that moment..rape is the most awful,disgusting thing that can happen to a woman..
hdfjgdhfgnm 4 years ago 15
Never let anyone touch your drink. That's not the answer of course, but you have to be streetwise Never set your drink down number 1, If someone offers you a beer, make sure you're the one who opens it. Watch your drink while dancing with it while dancing around someone can drop it in.
Nadine91273 4 years ago 3
how about 'only go to parties of your friends and if someone is even looking at you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable, tell someone, like an adult (if you're a teen and you're not an idiot who goes to parties when parents aren't home) or your boyfriend about it.
SunakagureXKaralya 4 years ago 4
excellent point. If someone is "even looking" well go get him arrested. Thats the American way!!Land of the Free and all that.
janet928 4 years ago
nice but in mexico they drug you rape you like by 5 ppl and then kill you and then baerry you and you are not found in about8 years
hellowkitty893 4 years ago
Rape is a very serious crime here going on in the United States. Not to sound too crude but I think when a man is convicted of raping a girl, his dick should be cut off!!
HardCoreSergeant 4 years ago 13
Do not even go to the bar to drink! They might put poison into your beer! OMG!
bighammerhead 4 years ago
This an excellent video.....thank you for doing this.
BichGODDESS 4 years ago 5
Were dus one go when the rapest is a cop?
58Clams 4 years ago 7
to a lawyer
jasonkarlmarx 4 years ago 5
I was rapet repeatedly by a NSW cop and the police did nothing!Thay coverd it up!Australia would be better off If thay stop the police frome investigating themselves.
58Clams 4 years ago 4
omg!
Louise14834 4 years ago 4
hello i gt rape a few months ago i was 13 yearsold now i'm still 13 but i'm underage bt i got rape by a black guy such inhuman and my friend told me he talk about the things what he did to me . he is like a beast
bellakechi 4 years ago 5
i know how you feel. i was raped when i was almost 9 by my cousin's best friend.
dthcountrygirl 4 years ago
good message, it's horrible to see that can happen. But I think odvious and logic thing to prevent that is don't drink, period, in that type of setting
highwings89 4 years ago 4
ive have got alot of info from this so when i go to partys when im old i know what to
zennybobZz 4 years ago 2
Very good! I'll make sure to show this to all my friends!
SasukesWolfBabe 4 years ago 5
very good XD
AA11191 4 years ago 2
I love this video, its very well done amd people can learn a lot from it.
FalconRogue 4 years ago
very good video man. one of the few that really stands out both in its content and context.
rainmaker29 4 years ago
effective work.. appreciated...this is too evil..I hope this will work for the people who have seen..
baburhanuzum 4 years ago
um...
really helpful video.
to the people leaving comments about "black people",...ARE YOU SERIOUS?
do you hear yourself (or technically see what you're typing?!)
you sound like the KKK, kids edition.
i understand that you may have been raped by an AFRICAN-AMERICAN person, but please, dont generalize.
it just makes you sound like some stupid uneducated redneck. (sorry. its the truth.)
thequeenoffresh 4 years ago
good vedio
dileep205 4 years ago
the correct word is hanged, not hung...
winndell 4 years ago
Its so true, everything said in this video, only i was druged by a friend i was lucky that i realized sometime was not right with myself so i called my mum right away,
julkbear 4 years ago 5
wow someone actually gave you the date rape drug?
zitloaf 4 years ago
This was really good
zippyqueen 4 years ago
After my rape my friend heard him and some of his black friends (girls included) at mcdonalds laughing about what he did to me. i was only 18 and wasn't prepared for what that kind of thing would do to me. he deserves to be hung for what he did to me. And then to laugh about it like it was a joke? What an animal some "humans" can be!
girlonroofies 4 years ago 25
@girlonroofies I know where you're coming from, but to Me, boasting about that kind of thing with anybody is absolutely horrible, I could care less what color they are, any color - it's none of their business, and it adds insult to injury that your rapist didn't suffer any guilt for what he did. God knows and sees everything.
Amilah2010 1 year ago
great actors...
pittman517 4 years ago
its a shame though about the last tip, 99 percent of the time, no one listens to their sober friends because "dude was so hot"
evaunit01berserk 4 years ago
I think that if somebody were to drop a roofie in my girlfriend's drink I'd be a little more mad than that putz
Sauce75 4 years ago
i too was date raped at a party by this balck guy who put that crap in my drink. i ended up having an abortion because i was scared and everyone would wonder where the black baby came from since my b/f is white. i hate him!
girlonroofies 4 years ago 4
thanks for letting me know what can happen.
dottiesfriend1 4 years ago
this is good info. it can help prevent rapes.
octoberrose444 4 years ago 2
i know it...it happened to me and i felt very shame...
thanks a lot for this tips...
Darkjess89 4 years ago
you got raped?,
YuanZuo 4 years ago
advise from a policeofficer- do not let anyone buy ur drink(even if its a female friend), unless you know them very well,even then its a gamble,hold the glass from the top so that ur hand covers the mouth of it,dnt let ur drink mix with any of ur m8s,and please dnt dress like a tart... a real man will be attracted by ur personality more than ur assets,
femalevampirexii 4 years ago 6
thanx, was helpful
Jennyintheblock 4 years ago
don't drink any kind of wine when you are in the party,...
matrixboy231980 4 years ago
damn!!!
AlexxxDaniel 4 years ago
This was really helpful, I am taking those tips everywhere
Fabolalala 4 years ago
Something which should've been noted: GHB has an intensely salty taste and as such drastically changes the taste of any drink it's dumped in.
aserty356 4 years ago 5
This is a very good peice of advice.
camillle30jd 4 years ago 9
helpful vid... this stuff should never happen
TillBriRich 4 years ago
very useful and helpful tip video this should never happen to anyone
TillBriRich 4 years ago
unless drinking firmly or being high because you want to, you know when you're drugged...for shure..I've already tried out lot of things,and although not proud of it,sorry but some girls r stupid..that doesn't make it ok..but if you go out alone,double check everything..if with friends,look out for each other..
I'm from belgium and there goes a lot of dope around here..but nobody I know has ever had something like this on hand..so maybe it's more something americain..I don't know
dwelfusius 4 years ago
i'm italian, i don't know america, but this video should do, as for many other stuffs, in all languages, cause this shouldn't happen anymore..in milan, my city, there has been only voices of it, it has not been spoken of it by media..i've been in scotland for erasmus, girls there don't even have an idea of what means being responsible, they go around in a complete crazy way, with no head...they should know that they can do it only cause of scotland, in italy they'd be raped, for sure...
valeladybird85 4 years ago
those partys were lame haha but yes this is a good video
6strngplayer 4 years ago