It's only a problem if you're unhappy. Asexuals are fine without sex, and other prefer to only have sex with those whom they love etc. Not everyone wants sex. I don't see the point of waiting for marriage though, because if you want to have sex eventually it's probably best to experience it first. If you're sexually incompatible it can ruin a relationship.
I'm sorry but only in some western countries including america is virginity seen as some sort of disease. Go to south or east asia, go to the maghreb, or other african areas, basically in the majority of the world being 30 and a virgin is the absolute norm for women AND MEN. Television is fooling yall, I'm in my late 20s and a virgin, and I'm at peace with my decision. Had a friend who had sex at 19 to follow others, she regrets it to this day.
@Laurnea It's hardly a disease, religion, a staple in our country, holds virginity too highly. America is a very sex negative society. And in regards to your friend, she probably regrets it because she did it for the wrong reasons. It's not bad to still have your virginity, you might be a little uncomfortable in intimate relationships, but it's your choice, and it is certainly not bad to lose your virginity at a time when you feel ready.
@coppersulphate002: Being a virgin is not wrong, but not knowing your body and what turns u on (as an ADULT!!) is a problem!! THATS what the show was abt. She is NOT a girl. She did not transition into her own sexuality, which a beautiful thing, and she is stagnant when looking for a partner to please her. Its abt GROWING UP!! Virginity is MEANT to be temporary. You have to learn to please yourself and know your body be cuz all bodies are different. How can u put all that pressure on a partner??
OMGGGG what the bloody hell is wrong with being a virgin it is beautiful that ur still pure man or woman until u find a spouse and enjoy it when u R ready. lord hlp us...
@icycici No...the video is just stupid...what in the hell is suppose to mean "30 year old version"???/ Just the topic alone is stupid!!! Being a virgin should never, ever, ever be up for critism or discussion,,as it is a woman's body and she has every right to make that kind of decision...and in my book a very valuable, respectful decision
These are some nice and supportive comments concerning this woman and that is good. It's always been my contention, that people in general are more supportive of Adult female virgins, than they are of Adult male virgins.
I happen to be a male virgin over 30 and if I or any other 30 or over male guy was on Oprah talking about our virginity, we would have been torn to shreds.
I have so much respect for her. Class and truly unique instead of these girls my age that are 25 and have a boyfriend one after another. A list of men longer than 2 page letter!! U go girl!!!
I am sooo proud of her!!!! I've known her since middle school, and she's always been someone who goes by the beat of her own drum and does things her way. Once thing she should be commended for is that she didn't allow the pressures of temptation and stupid sluts around us shape her actions... this is the ultimate act of discipline and focus and she should be commended for it!!!!
oprah wasnt tryin to say that there was anything wrong with being a virgin. she was tryin to help these women get over the issues of their past. this woman had a lot of issues with her dad sleeping with tons of chicks and tossing them away. she said she never wanted to be treated like those women so she refused to let any man get close to her.
@SoGood2BeBad Well nothing is wrong with her then!!! Most women are like that....women tend to keep their guards up to protect themselves from getting used and hurt by selfish men!!! Respectful women, deserve respectful trust worthy men....if people cant understand that, well too bad for them
@SoGood2BeBad aww poor girl, i understand where shes coming from. no girl just wants to be used as a piece of meat, we all want to be respected and loved and wanted and made to feel like the most important thing.
her dads an ass for doing what he did, not only using women like that but scarring his daughter for life as a result of it
Whats wrong with being a virgin????? I think that Oprah should be ashamed of making these women feel as if they are not normal!!!! I hate this! I think we should be praisin them for respecting themselves, until they are married....sex is just not about getting in the sac...its more than that..its about love commitment and trust..
well...the actual reality is....it's getting normal. strangely normal for 20's 30's getting singled. i guess nowadays with the hip-hop genration, not just only that but the lack of trust we're living in, sometimes this thing about. well let's be realistic here. 20's may see a 30 year old like old. heard back in the early 90's and or 80's people used to aren't judemental. nowadays people are.
when you look at reality, maybe because the reality is, the media portrays majority not all but majority of 30's and up are sex addicts. so...i guess a lot of 20's and some 30's are still single. if we trust, then we have a better relationship. but we don't
@coppersulphate002 I agree. I'm a 28 year old female, and I'll remain a virgin til I get married. It's not for religious reasons; I'm not a Christian.
I just need to be in love, have the security he won't get up and leave in the morning. It has more to do with my self worth. I don't want to thought of as a conquest nor do I want to be sleeping around. If I did, I would change my profession and would actually earn a buck for it. lol jk. But at least prostitutes are smart about it. : )
@coppersulphate002 What's wrong with being a virgin at that point in their lives is that it's a normal human function. You're right, ex is about love commitment and trust, and the fact that they're so uncomfortable with it prove that our society puts too much importance on sex and virginity. There's nothing wrong with sex either, and though it is their personal choice, that woman is obviously oppressed when it comes to sexuality.
I think more women should keep their stuff on lock like this lady. I find it really sexy when a women keeps her virtue and doesn't fling it to every tom dick n' harry.
Well slnit all people have q choice some people are just borgins because they are ugly you know...
RagnaXBL 2 weeks ago
lol i'm 18y avirgin female but i don't want to be a virgin! and i can't loose it either o_0!
god!
linaheartful 2 months ago
Well I am a 30 year old virgin...
EuromanMovieReport 2 months ago
LOL!! That woman is so comically and refreshingly naive
Billybobby95661 3 months ago
It's only a problem if you're unhappy. Asexuals are fine without sex, and other prefer to only have sex with those whom they love etc. Not everyone wants sex. I don't see the point of waiting for marriage though, because if you want to have sex eventually it's probably best to experience it first. If you're sexually incompatible it can ruin a relationship.
ubiquitousfacts 3 months ago
I'm sorry but only in some western countries including america is virginity seen as some sort of disease. Go to south or east asia, go to the maghreb, or other african areas, basically in the majority of the world being 30 and a virgin is the absolute norm for women AND MEN. Television is fooling yall, I'm in my late 20s and a virgin, and I'm at peace with my decision. Had a friend who had sex at 19 to follow others, she regrets it to this day.
Laurnea 3 months ago 4
@Laurnea It's hardly a disease, religion, a staple in our country, holds virginity too highly. America is a very sex negative society. And in regards to your friend, she probably regrets it because she did it for the wrong reasons. It's not bad to still have your virginity, you might be a little uncomfortable in intimate relationships, but it's your choice, and it is certainly not bad to lose your virginity at a time when you feel ready.
MagicByStarlight 1 month ago
i'm a 27 year old virgin guy, i dont see wats the big deal
natureloverdude 4 months ago
@natureloverdude get laid man!!!
MrFraser455 3 months ago
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natureloverdude 4 months ago
@coppersulphate002: Being a virgin is not wrong, but not knowing your body and what turns u on (as an ADULT!!) is a problem!! THATS what the show was abt. She is NOT a girl. She did not transition into her own sexuality, which a beautiful thing, and she is stagnant when looking for a partner to please her. Its abt GROWING UP!! Virginity is MEANT to be temporary. You have to learn to please yourself and know your body be cuz all bodies are different. How can u put all that pressure on a partner??
icycici 5 months ago 5
OMGGGG what the bloody hell is wrong with being a virgin it is beautiful that ur still pure man or woman until u find a spouse and enjoy it when u R ready. lord hlp us...
despicableme101 8 months ago 5
These people making fun of this woman...is why I don't tell people in real life I'm 27 and haven't kissed.
cadmiumblue 8 months ago
@cadmiumblue its no big deal, i'm 27 too, virgin n never been kissed
natureloverdude 4 months ago
@natureloverdude It's a big deal to me because I want to do everything.
cadmiumblue 4 months ago
@coppersulphate002: SMH...at your ignorance...please watch the video again!!!!
icycici 10 months ago
@icycici No...the video is just stupid...what in the hell is suppose to mean "30 year old version"???/ Just the topic alone is stupid!!! Being a virgin should never, ever, ever be up for critism or discussion,,as it is a woman's body and she has every right to make that kind of decision...and in my book a very valuable, respectful decision
coppersulphate002 5 months ago
Do you guys think Oprah masturbates?
kikicreamify 11 months ago
@kikicreamify lol yeah, probably to food porn
Myview246 5 months ago
@kikicreamify She probably does.
barnesfam 4 months ago
These are some nice and supportive comments concerning this woman and that is good. It's always been my contention, that people in general are more supportive of Adult female virgins, than they are of Adult male virgins.
I happen to be a male virgin over 30 and if I or any other 30 or over male guy was on Oprah talking about our virginity, we would have been torn to shreds.
Bigbiff70 1 year ago
I have so much respect for her. Class and truly unique instead of these girls my age that are 25 and have a boyfriend one after another. A list of men longer than 2 page letter!! U go girl!!!
bellazara20 1 year ago
I am sooo proud of her!!!! I've known her since middle school, and she's always been someone who goes by the beat of her own drum and does things her way. Once thing she should be commended for is that she didn't allow the pressures of temptation and stupid sluts around us shape her actions... this is the ultimate act of discipline and focus and she should be commended for it!!!!
TASconfidential 1 year ago 2
haha, this girl is so funny!
all of her little reactions
meheartu002 1 year ago 2
oprah wasnt tryin to say that there was anything wrong with being a virgin. she was tryin to help these women get over the issues of their past. this woman had a lot of issues with her dad sleeping with tons of chicks and tossing them away. she said she never wanted to be treated like those women so she refused to let any man get close to her.
SoGood2BeBad 1 year ago 17
@SoGood2BeBad Well nothing is wrong with her then!!! Most women are like that....women tend to keep their guards up to protect themselves from getting used and hurt by selfish men!!! Respectful women, deserve respectful trust worthy men....if people cant understand that, well too bad for them
coppersulphate002 5 months ago
@SoGood2BeBad aww poor girl, i understand where shes coming from. no girl just wants to be used as a piece of meat, we all want to be respected and loved and wanted and made to feel like the most important thing.
her dads an ass for doing what he did, not only using women like that but scarring his daughter for life as a result of it
Myview246 5 months ago
@SoGood2BeBad the only way she's gonna get over such issue is if she finds a respectful man!
coppersulphate002 3 months ago
Whats wrong with being a virgin????? I think that Oprah should be ashamed of making these women feel as if they are not normal!!!! I hate this! I think we should be praisin them for respecting themselves, until they are married....sex is just not about getting in the sac...its more than that..its about love commitment and trust..
coppersulphate002 1 year ago 35
@coppersulphate002
well...the actual reality is....it's getting normal. strangely normal for 20's 30's getting singled. i guess nowadays with the hip-hop genration, not just only that but the lack of trust we're living in, sometimes this thing about. well let's be realistic here. 20's may see a 30 year old like old. heard back in the early 90's and or 80's people used to aren't judemental. nowadays people are.
ChaosXDarkness 5 months ago
@coppersulphate002
when you look at reality, maybe because the reality is, the media portrays majority not all but majority of 30's and up are sex addicts. so...i guess a lot of 20's and some 30's are still single. if we trust, then we have a better relationship. but we don't
ChaosXDarkness 5 months ago
@coppersulphate002 I agree. I'm a 28 year old female, and I'll remain a virgin til I get married. It's not for religious reasons; I'm not a Christian.
I just need to be in love, have the security he won't get up and leave in the morning. It has more to do with my self worth. I don't want to thought of as a conquest nor do I want to be sleeping around. If I did, I would change my profession and would actually earn a buck for it. lol jk. But at least prostitutes are smart about it. : )
ColoringBaby 4 months ago
@coppersulphate002 well cocks and pussies need to b used
MrFraser455 3 months ago
@coppersulphate002 What's wrong with being a virgin at that point in their lives is that it's a normal human function. You're right, ex is about love commitment and trust, and the fact that they're so uncomfortable with it prove that our society puts too much importance on sex and virginity. There's nothing wrong with sex either, and though it is their personal choice, that woman is obviously oppressed when it comes to sexuality.
MagicByStarlight 1 month ago
I think more women should keep their stuff on lock like this lady. I find it really sexy when a women keeps her virtue and doesn't fling it to every tom dick n' harry.
SoGood2BeBad 1 year ago 5
@SoGood2BeBad Agreed! for real though, i wish more people would take sex more seriously.
zipppit89 1 year ago
wow. I thought I was bad. She's so innocent. cute.
losingmorethanmymind 1 year ago
Bwahahahahaha, LOL! That woman, is she for real?
Sorchify 1 year ago 4
LOL!!!!!! where can I watch the full episode of this?
PopCulture20 1 year ago 4