I feel sorry for gay men everywhere. they apparently do not have the choice women apparently do to choose their sexual orientation, because they have the divining rod (as Quagmire would call it) and that is the end-all argument. and she is right about bisexuality being trendy cause it is, but I think more of the time girls are just skipping over bi-curious and just saying flat out they are bisexual.
@uncensored008 In the end they are straight. There are only two sexes: Heterosexual and Homosexual if you are w/ the same sex it's homosexual and if you are with the opposite sex it's heterosexual. if you are with both sexes you are polyamorous.
I wish bisexuals would develop their own identity and stop trying to jump on my wagon.
she says shes been with women but that shes not bi shes striaght..and that her eyes are getting off but when she was with not one but more women...as in the plural form of more than one girl...she didnt get off..the rest of her bod didnt get off?..lmaooo...sounds like shes denying being bi...
@TheBsheep Are you kidding me? Guys ADORE bisexual women, same with lesbians. But when a guy comes out as Bi, unless he's the hottest mother fucker on the planet, EVERYONE hates him. Even half the GBLT community thinks its wrong. Yet a bi girl is perfectly fine -_-" Ive seen it hundreds of times, its steriotyping, and even gays do it. Its shameful and stupid but hey ya know, the world fuckin sucks. And no matter what you might say, everyones a goddam hypocrit in some way now-a-days...
@nadnerbmiggy In every stereotype there is a grain of TRUTH, I am over 40, I've had bisexual women try to fake that they were l;esbians b/c they knew I wouldn't date them. Bisexuals are dishonewst users.
I challenge any on this channel to name a gay or lesbian person with a bisexual life partner.
@rachelsOne not even half of bisexuals are dishonest users. I personally am not sure if bisexuallity is as common as people think it is. Cause truly Im a Pansexual, like all other bisexual friends I have, but Im positive there are at least some true bisexuals out there. As you said, Theres always a grain of truth, always an execption to every rule. Bisexuallity I dont absolutely trust, as you said, but what about Pansexuallity? Its like Bisexuallity, just a different way of thinking?
@nadnerbmiggy It's common and has been going on forever, shit all those married suburban housewives whose hubands look the other way. What do you thing "Swinging" Is? Good grief I knew if I came on a black channel that I would encounter some major idiocy. It's like you aren't even aware of historical facts. OMG this is sad.
Bisexuality doesn't really exist anyway it's just straigth people who use lesbians and gays for sex only to discard them later.
@rachelsOne "Married Suburban Housewives?" Maybe its cuz the guys are just dicks. And dont be racist, I mean i dont support interracial but I have black friends. Some are kinda smart actually. And what historical facts have you mentioned at all? what does history have to do with sexuallity? Yea, Omg this is sad, ur just a troll lol. And it does exist, Ive seen it. Yes ur right that is the case on occasion and those people are aholes but not all of them are like that. Dont steriotype.
@nadnerbmiggy Who gives a fuck if ur racist ass doesn't support interracial! I AM mixed race asshole and ALL racists claim they have "Black Friends" Jesus Christ take your ignorant raCIST ASS Offline IMMEDIATELY.
Why do I have to supply you with historical facts when your lazy ass should research them yourself! I am not a babysitter/teacher for some goddamn junior racist. I don't know how old you think I am but I am old enough to be your parent.
@rachelsOne Woah there! I actually do have black friends, half of my friends are actually. One just moved to Australia though. Sorry to offend you, but Im not the one who called all blacks retarded. And you call me racist xD nice one dumbass. And your the one who brought up history not me, and I never said you needed to supply me with any goddamn facts. Your putting words in my mouth. And wtf? When did you becoming my mom come into this????? Creepo... And PS: Stopping Bitching troll
@rachelsOne I think that if everyone were gay, the human race would die out. If everyone were straight, there would be less acceptance. If the whole world were Bi, there would be more betrayal. Butif the whole world were Pansexual, the world would be much more accepting, happy, and overall just better. No strict likings based on gender, no certain preferance for any certain race or look. Just personallity. I dont like to call myself Bi. I say Pansexual, because idc how people look.
@nadnerbmiggy You are seriously ignorant, and you should keep your thoughts private lest you continue to reveal your stupidity.
Hey ass-wipe, being lesbian or gay does NOT make an individual sterile! U fucking dumb ass lesbians can still have children and gay men can still get a woman pregnant. Ever hear of In Vitro Fertilization? How old are you? Jesus christ are you black? Cause I am and I am tired of blacks writing ignorant n*gger shit. It's 2011 get a fucking clue!
@rachelsOne Im pretty smart. And Im terribly sorry for my mistake. Ik gays and lesbians can have kids. I just forgot that and it was a dumbass move of me. Im pretty young yes, in college, and no Im Irish, pale as hell. But you didnt get my point. Im just trying to state that no sexuallity is 'perfect' or 'normal' And that I personally agree with Pansexuallity for it is the least judgemental.
And PS: Man your ironic. You say how blacks are dumb then immediately after say its 2011 xD
@nadnerbmiggy I am NOT a Man, I am of color, I live in Wash D.C. aka "Chocolate City" Yes I said that blacks act ignorant, I see it everyday in Washington D.C., I have a Masters of Science degree and am accused of "Acting White" because of it. Age has nothing to do with making dumb ass remarks.
Straights regularly kill their spouses and children, they murder gays yet they have the NERVE to say that god wants everyone 2 b like them. How sick is that?
i agree completely i think and bi girls have confirmed it that theyll do things with girls for the fun but at the end of the day love men. when they want to make love and want to feel loved and protected they turn to men but see also i think its the way we treat our women that makes consider bisexuality or even lesbianism ive seen it happen to often
Thank you so much for posting this video - I am very certain that I am bisexual. I love being open minded and who I am. I've experimented with a female whom I've developed feelings for and I can see myself waking up beside her every morning of my life. Men still appeal to me as well, and I can also see me with that sex daily. Both sexes are under my reference, and no one can change that. I am who I am.~
No offense but bi's r just frontin and use the same sex to get freaky but always choose the opposite sex for LIFE partners meaning that essentially y'all are straight. Show me ONE bisexual with a life partner of the same sex!
@rachelsOne How bout me asswipe? Its an Uke Seme problem your thinking of. Semes are the "Wears the pants" arrogant type. Which is most men. and a bi man that is seme will in turn go for an uke, and most ukes are females. an uke is the submissive quieter type. however, men can be uke and girls can be seme. So some Bisexuals can still fall in love with the same sex if one is a seme and the other an uke. Its how all relationships work. I'm a bisexual uke male married to a gay seme male
@fuzzynippleman Yes, sometimes your not sure. Your always the same sexuallity, its just you may get it wrong at first. You may at first just think your straight. Then notice your bi curious at times. Then as you mature you notice that part of you gets more prominent, and you become a full on bisexual. Thats a change from straight to bi. You were always bi, you just thought you were st else at start. Its a common mistake not to know your sexuallity fully until later in life.
I was sure I was gay, bu i am attracted to certant women, I'm not 50/50 I'm predominantly gay, but i also know I like women too. I can eat chocolate AND strawberry ice cream ;)
In my experience the bi women that I've known was just using that as a dodge for being a slut. They say they're free to choose a woman or a man while being in a relationship, and usually your guy will be for it because he sees himself in the middle of that scenario. Lets face it, if your straight and deal with more than one partner, you would be a slut. So why is it different with the same sex, your still dealing with more than one partner.
Well, the scale is broad, it's not like attraction is divided in two cathegories(attraction to guys/chicks), it's more like a gradient with a certain threshold being somewhere in there. Most people are close to the extremes of the scale (tough most can at least appreciate the same sex aestetically, like, you can tell if a same sex person is good looking or not without having the hots for them) and it happens that a person who is usually mostly straight finds themselves
@KendrixTermina finding a particularly attractive example of the same sex hot. There's also people who'd have sex with both genders but can only form romantic relationships with one. You're probably somewhere in a 30/70 position. It happens. But yeah, expimenting before you're 16 or so doesn't mean much.
hmmmmm I agree with her completly, although more then my eyes are bisexual, my body loves women also but i don't see myself next to a women in the long run, now for her questions 3:44 , my answer would be probably Yes!! hah, although yeah I want to marry a man, there are certain feelings that only a male would provide for me!
Bis should die. I would kill them all because they are disgusting animals that need to be put to sleep. Eat your cake and eat ityou greedy bastards. I am gay but i hate bis so much it turns my belly. Hang the bi's. My new law but gays and straight free.
A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class. straights marry one person and gay one person. You can't marry two people of the opp sex like man/man/women, women/women/man. Its disgusting.
Bisexual simply means you can be attracted to either sex, nothing more, nothing less. Being bisexual doesn't mean you cheat on people or go out with both men or women at the same time, or that you're desperate. It simply means you can be attracted to either men or women.
I'm actually surprised since being gay, you would know what it is like to be discriminated against and called disgusted.
@TheCassyJenelle bisexuailty is not part of the gay community. It is like saying bisexuals r part of the straight community. Gay r completely differen't because we know what we want!
Again ignorant. You have just told me that all bisexuals "don't know what they want" because everyone must have one interest in one gender. This is the equivalent to a straight person telling a gay person that they are confused because "everyone must like their opposite gender". A complete lack of understanding there. You don't even know what bisexuality is tbh.
@TheCassyJenelle not really because gays r more excepted then bisexuals! People now being gay is not a confusion but people like me and other will always think this about bisexuals!
Well you have to remember back when there was a time when gays were not accepted at all, they were burned on some sticks and condemned, in order to live they had to hide it.
It took many years of education and bring people to social acceptance to accept homosexuality, bisexuality is going through the same thing.
Not sure if anyone's addressed it yet or not, but I've quite often heard the label of heteroflexible - attracted to both sexes, but sexually prefer the opposite sex, and homoflexible - attracted to both sexes, but sexually prefer the same sex.
It could be that you're just romantically attracted to women instead of sexually. A lot of people confuse the meaning of sexual orientation to mean strictly sexual attraction, when it could include or only be strictly romantic attraction. I myself am more romantically attracted to women and more sexually attracted to men. I consider myself bisexual because of this.
That's not being bisexual hun. It's bi-curious. You don't just choose to be bisexual. You just are. But it takes time to figure it out for some people, but not for some. I'm bisexual, not because it's a trend.
Thank you so much! After watching this video I feel so much better and relieved!! I've been fighting with myself over wheather I'm bi or not. I'm like you. It's my eyes that are ;)
The worst thing to happen to bisexuals, esp. girl bisexuals, is the trend of bisexuality...sorry, I don't consider kissing a girl to turn guys on or because you were drunk a true bisexual. If you are throughly atteacted to both sexes, and would like a relationship with both sexes, then, to me, you are bisexual.
I'm a women and I am not only sexually attracted to men and women, I also would be in a relationship, long term, with both (at different times of course lol). I consider that bisexual.
@FleetingWispsOfGlory Agreed xD can't take the girls who flirt and lead you on just because they were curious and wanted to take a walk on the wild side of life.
If words don’t speak loud enough, actions can: Do you *fantasize* about women?
If so, perhaps you’re like me: I’m “pickier” with the same sex, more selective. So, my eyes (doing that pointing thing you do) are mostly straight, but my *mind’s eye* is definitely bisexual. And it’s my mind’s eye that my heart sees by.
It’s not a trend thing. Heteronormativity is the trendiest orientation of all.
Whatever conclusion you reach, you don’t have to justify it to anyone but yourself.
I appreciate that fact that you shared your personal opinion on bisexuality. My friend is similar to you. She says she's bi but she doesn't take "women seriously" So is she really bi? Idk but hey that's her own opinion.
Im bi- so yea itz gud 2 b dat cz y have 1 wen u can have both im mo atracted 2 grlz tho cz like alk the grlz at scool show clevage it trnz me on so mch
thanks for the advice. I am Bisexual for sure. growing up i was attracted to girls (my first crush was a black chick, im asian btw) and somehow in high school i got interested in guys. im in college now and i can see myself with either a guy or girl just as long as they have a beautiful personality and a beautiful body, i really dont care anymore and you helped me realized what i been fighting for years.
I'm a guy. I consider myself bisexual but I have a "preference" for women. I have greater numbers of attraction to women than i do for men, but regardless i still sexually fantasize about both in some way. Really your sexuality is in your mind, what you actually do is besides the point. If a guy has a wife and he is only constantly thinks about the same sex the whole time and only the same sex everyday, even when doing his wife, then he's simply gay and just married to a woman.
-First step to anyone's sexuality is admitting they are sexual(if they are)
-2nd step is admitting to yourself the variations of gender, the masculine or feminine, and the traditional to kinky forms of sexual activity/persons you like.
-3rd step is learning to like what you like and love it!
After the 3 steps you should be able to suss out what you are and what you like. be it str8t gay or bi. If your partially attracted to the same sex in some way then that's what you are. No need to deny it.
i came out and people thought i was faking! bisexuality should not be trendy it is a real orientation! also you aren't really bisexual if you aren't emotionally and physically attracted to women and men. just saying!
As this person in the video a man or a woman? A drag queen getting ready for a gig?
A woman who enjoys sex with women is gay. Man man who enjoys sex with men is gay.
A woman who holds her nose and sleeps with men while wishing she was doing the same with a woman is not bisexual, she's a closeted lesbian calling herself bisexual.
A man holding his nose and having sex with a woman, secretly wishing it was a man, is not bisexual, he's gay.
Bi-City is just a stop over on the way to Gay-Town!
If you had to give up sex with one or the other group until the day you die, which one would you give up?
I have yet to see a bisexual who would honestly say he/she would rather give up sex with members of their own sex. When you have reached the point to admit it it to others, then what are you REALLY?
Many people of either attraction can have sex with someone they are NOT attracted to, while almost everybody can easily say which sex they prefer.
You (I assume) are a man? A bisexual is most likely more comfortable having sexual relations with someone of the same sex, thus my claim that bisexuality is mainly a way for a gay person to insist he/she is "almost normal" rather than taking on the stigma of homosexuality.
I have never seen a bi man who wasn't much more gay than straight (or JUST gay). I assume you are a man claiming to be more straight than gay.
@Chelsea4President bi people are gays in training.. thats from a gay man.. they just havent accepted their overwhelming fetish for ass yet. thats all!
@Chelsea4President i dont agree with you dont change though. i was molested as a child and learnt homosexuality from my abuser. for a while i was into girls, then i was bi, for a while i was exclusive with animals. i even married my 5 yo bearded dragon Seth then over time he got lazy and i went gay. sometimes I still go for animals or meet up with like minded gays for quick good times but usually im with my bf.
@Chelsea4President Well I suppose another reason to stay with the same sex would be the foreign-ness. You know, the clash between the two sexes. It's just harder to be compatible sometimes, thus, you can be bisexual but prefer the same sex in some ways that you don't prefer the opposite one. The examples you mentioned were very obviously closet cases, but often it's much more fuzzy than that.
@Chelsea4President Well, geez, I was just responding to when you were saying "a bisexual is most likely more comfortable hang sexual relations with someone of the same sex" and when you were talking about people holding their nose while sleeping with the same sex. I was giving an opinion as to why bisexuals may seem that way. You don't need to be rude.
@Capinyx If you enjoy sex with members of your own sex, you're gay. What so HARD about THAT?
You would much rather stop having sex with members of the opposite sex. Why? Because you're gay.
You honestly DON'T KNOW? Come on!
Here's a comforting fact: People outside of the GLBT community are much more friendly toward people who consider themselves GAY than they are to those who say they are BI. Statistics prove this by wide margins.
If it's acceptance you seek, you will get much more as GAY.
@Chelsea4President There are 3 sexual orientations . Straight , gay , and bisexual . My cousin is LIVING proof that people can be bisexual . Its not a preference to be bisexual .. Also , im bicurious , and i was completely offended when you used food comparing it to bisexuality . But , its your opinion . Whateverr
I agree with everything you said but being bisexual isnt a "trend" . Its not a matter of choice , so it cant be a "trend" . But everything else was pretty accurate (;
Sexual preference is not what determines your orientation. If you are attracted to someone of the same sex's body, AND MIND, then you can say you are gay/bi. It's not all about sex, geez.
Everything she said is what helped me a long time ago determine once and for all that I am straight. When I see a pretty woman of course I'll say "she's pretty" but I've never been turned on by a woman it's always been men. They're beautiful but I don't get the same emotional and physical connection from them that I do from men.
Homosexuals do not want you to know that many of them were sexually abused when young, because many people who were so abused go on to molest others. And homosexuals do not want you to know that they are more likely to molest children than heterosexuals are. Ray Blanchard, et al., "Fraternal Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in Pedophiles," Archives of Sexual Behavior 29 (2000), p. 464
Uhm, you can't "adopt" a sexual orientation. You are either strait, gay, bi or celibut.You are who yo are. Just enjoy your life because it's your's and your's alone to live.
I'm just confused. I dated this guy, and when we were making out I felt nothing. I broke up with him and dated a girl for a bit and it felt different. It felt right. I feel like I want to be with a guy when I think about it, but when I am actually with them I don't really like it . Can somebody please help me? I'm so confused.
@TheSkittlesrainbow10 I would suggest you be single for a while for starters. The next step would be be to get counseling. I don't know your age but I assume your young and as a 10+ yrs Lesbian this lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. The last thing you need is insecurity bc as you can see from the comments the whole world is gonna tell you your wrong. We (the LGBT) stand in our truth and that's how we deal with the backlash bc as a LGBT the alternative is a fate worse then death.
Well, it would depend on what day you came to me with that cookie. Some days I feel the pull toward one, and the next day the other. It's not that I don't have a preference, it's just that mine changes depending on what I want, not that I ever lose interest in one.
I don't want to explain everything going with that, but that's the basic.
I'm gay. I don't quite believe that people can be "bisexual". Everybody has a preference. If you have no preference, then you're not really denying yourself anything, nor are you really tempted.
If someone offers you a choice between chocolate and cookies, and you say "I don't care, give me either one", then that person would be perfectly content with getting nothing.
I would know my first choice right away. The other would be the one I didn't like at all or didn't care to have.
@Chelsea4President I don't know about you, but between cookies if I don't care which one I get that doesn't mean I would be ok with not getting either one :P cause I like both cookies. Bisexual is just being in-between on the sexual spectrum, and it's not as simple as either gay or straight. Because you can be bisexual and mostly like one sex, and the other not so much. That's why the term applies to so many people. Bisexuality is very real, and I used to think that I had to pick one side so I l
@Chelsea4President abled myself a lesbian. But it didn't take me long to figure out that I wasn't content not letting myself be attracted to men as well. And it's not like I would need both a man or a woman at once, I just don't want to surpress myself, as I did when I thought I was straight. So that's my experience, even if you don't really understand just take my word for it that people can most defenitely be bisexual.
@Izlandzadi14 Being gay was your CHOICE? It sounds more like a CHORE for you to act like a heterosexual, not at all like something your body and mind was programmed for.
Sorry to disapprove of your "forced heterosexuality" plea. I believe every human being (and most animals) have a natural attraction to one OR the other sex. If you insist that your feelings are equally strong toward both sexes, I tend to NOT believe your sincerity.
@Chelsea4President NO no no no I'm so sorry I didn't mean to sound like I didn't APPROVE being gay. I totally have no problem with gays/lesbians and vehemently defend them I believe they should have every right as straight people. I'm just saying that PERSONALLY I tried to live my life with the view that you have, and thought that I had to pick a side, but it just didn't work out for me because I'm bisexual. And it would defenitely be hard to find someone who's EQUALLY attracted to both sexes, a
@Chelsea4President nd I am certainly not one of those people. A lot of bisexuals do lean towards one sex or the other, but they know that sometimes they shift and like the other sex more from time to time, so I think it's just better to go with the flow, as a lot of people say. And yes, it would be a chore for me to act either straight or gay, since I'm not either. And just because I may be attracted to one sex MORE, that doesn't mean that's the only sex I CAN be attracted to.
@Izlandzadi14 just because youre a pervert is no reason for you to get upset by the truth. women who whore around are sluts and butt fucking faggotry is stupid pointless ass humping and a perversion.
@orthodoxodour Dude shut the fuck up I am not a pervert I only figured out I like girls as well just like two months ago and now all the sudden I'm a pervert? And what makes you think that being bisexual makes me a slut?? That's not even true, I've never even had sex!! Ask anyone around me and they'll tell you I'm a really virtuous person. Don't call people faggots, call them gay, you piece of shit. I don't deserve this from you and you have no right to judge me. Fuck off
@Izlandzadi14 I wasn't even upset until now I can't believe people like you think it's ok to judge others even if I was sinning you're commiting a sin by judging me...don't be a hypocrite.
@Izlandzadi14 youre not sexual at all until you fuck someone.. until then its only a thought.. its kinda like being a murderer.. youre not a killer until you kill and youre not a faggot or bi-faggot until you homo fuck..who said im judging you... you admitted to being a pervert.. n [ˈpɜːvɜːt]
(Psychology) a person who practises sexual perversion
[from Old French pervertir, from Latin pervertere to turn the wrong way, from per- (indicating deviation) + vertere to turn]
@orthodoxodour Yeah, except murderers kill people. Homosexuals have consenting sex with another adult, as straight people do. Except with the same sex. In that context, which is the context that most homo sex is in, the fact that it's gay sex is irrelevant. And you're obviously judging me, and everyone alike by saying things about gays, lesbians, and bisexuals. Perverts are people who's sexual behavior is considered abnormal. Seeing as there have been apprx. 9 million LGBTs documented in America
@orthodoxodour alone, not to mention hundreds of species of animals that have gay sex sometimes (around the 450 mark or more), homosexuality is not a perversion at all. It is so fucking normal, dude. I really feel sorry that you have to live with yourself. Just be happy and accept people. If you don't like gay people, you are missing out on an entire demographic of awesomeness, and constantly fighting a losing battle with the changing world view around you. Think what you want, just don't be an
@Izlandzadi14 In other words you are MORE gay than straight. Aren't most bisexuals MORE gay than straight?
You haven't said that sexual attraction is NOT a choice. Will you say it, please? Otherwise I still detect some degree of denial in your claims.
Being attracted to members of the same sex is NOT a choice. SAY IT! The bi-thing is secondary. Sometimes bisexuals claim that they CHOOSE to be attracted to both sexes. THAT is BS.
@Chelsea4President No, I never said I am MORE gay than straight, all I know is that I'm not straight and I'm not gay. I'm just going to figure out the details as I go along. And bisexuals can be anywhere, nothings proved that most bisexuals are more gay than straight. And I thought that that would be a given, since I defend gays. Of course I don't believe it's a choice, I don't even know why you thought that's what I was saying. And if I thought I was gay once, how was I in denial of it? If anyt
@Chelsea4President hing I was in denial of my bisexuality. And yeah, if anyone says they choose to be attracted to somebody then their claimed "attraction" is defenitely BS. What you choose is to accept your orientation, and that's what I did.
@Chelsea4President You don't convince people of something by getting them to say it. Nor is it for you to clear people by having them declare allegiance to your dogma.
@Chelsea4President That is just plain ignorant. Even your example is false. My not having a preference for a particular treat certainly doesn't mean I don't want one. Even if a preference exists, it doesn't mean one can't be happy with the other.
@Maxdwolf If you don't get excited when you are offered something you REALLY like (or claim to), but instead say "Oh, I don't care, give me either one", then something's wrong. If you "don't care" which one, then you don't care enough to get either.
How is that example WRONG?
If you're "bi", and can't decide which one you would want to spend the rest of your life with, and which one to forever give up, you'd be just as content living a loveless life without any partner at all.
@Chelsea4President We are not talking about getting excited, we are talking about preferring one thing you like over something else you really like. If you can't tell the difference between caring about which and caring about whether or not, you don't understand English.
Wait a second. You cry about someone implying sexuality is a choice and then you do just that. Before you find "the one", did you experience no desire for anyone else? That's what your second paragraph implies logically.
@Chelsea4President No, you want SOMEONE. And that someone, just happens to be potentially a man or a woman. It's not like I can't decide between them, you just see anyone as a potential. And if somebody comes along that you like, their gender is absolutely irrelevant. That's what bisexuality is. It's not "ohh, which do I like, a guy or a girl? Oh well, I can't decide I guess I'll just settle for being celibate" X( *facepalm*
I'm not bi-sexual, I'm bi-curious. I always wonder what it would be like to be with a woman, and some, can turn me on. But that's the extent of my curiosity. I've told my boyfriend that I'm bi curious, but that's it. I don't see it as trendy, I see it as a way to explore, or just a way to get guys interested in you.
your not makeing any sense you tell people your bisexual but you said you consider yourself straight. No offense but i think your telling people your bisexual because its TRENDY LIKE YOU SAID.
your not makeing any sense you tell people your bisexual but you said you said you consider yourself straight. No offense but i think your telling people your bisexual because its TRENDY LIKE YOU SAID.
@jackie9847 Well what I got was that she said that she used to say she was bisexual in the past but she realized she was wrong, and that she actually is straight. She is saying she USED to think she was bisexual because it was trendy, but isn't claiming to be anymore.
we r the same..heteroflexible..sounds better than bi curious to me..lol..cuz im not bi at all..things happens when u have lots of gay friends and u go to gay clubs...that doesn't mean thats who u r..
@smithscapegoat-if this is so wrong, then what are you doing clicking on it? "Protest too much" much? There is a reason so many Gay kids commit suicide in their teens. It's you and your buddy Leviticus. Your buddy also says that a women having her period can't share the same bed as her husband. Nobody freaks out & gets into people's business about who's sleeping on the couch.
trendy my ass! Im not doing this to get brownie points. All I know is that I control who I desire ; male or female. Where Im from if your anything other then str8, you are not accepted.
@SmithScapegoat Yes you can. Leviticus was created to be followed all at once, then it was overriden by the new covenant in the new testament. And even if it wasn't, didn't God say one sin is like another? So who the fuck do you think you are preaching about Leviticus says when it also says you're not allowed to have two different threads in your shirt?
@Izlandzadi14 They were trying to make a perfect people to enter the promised land, thats why God told them to do the things that today would be considered ridiculous. So God punished the sinners harshly, he also gave such instructions about sexual intercourse, it can then be assumed, (based on the context, that they were trying to prevent SIN,) that that was a sin, or in the way its written ... an abomination! :)
@SmithScapegoat It was sin back THEN. Not now. No one is perfect, and since Jesus hadn't given his life to cleanse our sins they instead had to follow a strict moral code and cleanse themselves. In the new testament, a new covenant was put in place, like I said. By this alone, NO ONE should rely on Leviticus for ANYTHING, since it's not even needed anymore now that we have Jesus. And of course since that doesn't mean we shouldn't sin, Jesus outlined what they were in the new testament during his
@SmithScapegoat time here on earth. He NEVER even mentioned homosexuality. And biologically, what is homosexuality vs. heterosexuality? Apples and oranges. Just because we're a minority since it would've not been in our species best interest to have everyone homosexual, doesn't mean it isn't as naturally occuring nor even matters any more in that sense because of surrogate mothers and artificial insemination.
yes
MLiebeU 4 weeks ago
I feel sorry for gay men everywhere. they apparently do not have the choice women apparently do to choose their sexual orientation, because they have the divining rod (as Quagmire would call it) and that is the end-all argument. and she is right about bisexuality being trendy cause it is, but I think more of the time girls are just skipping over bi-curious and just saying flat out they are bisexual.
uncensored008 2 months ago
@uncensored008 In the end they are straight. There are only two sexes: Heterosexual and Homosexual if you are w/ the same sex it's homosexual and if you are with the opposite sex it's heterosexual. if you are with both sexes you are polyamorous.
I wish bisexuals would develop their own identity and stop trying to jump on my wagon.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
she says shes been with women but that shes not bi shes striaght..and that her eyes are getting off but when she was with not one but more women...as in the plural form of more than one girl...she didnt get off..the rest of her bod didnt get off?..lmaooo...sounds like shes denying being bi...
luckypapi87 2 months ago
TRENDY TO BE BISEXUAL????... SOME BLACK WOMEN ARE SO LOST..DISGUISTING
TheBsheep 2 months ago
@TheBsheep Are you kidding me? Guys ADORE bisexual women, same with lesbians. But when a guy comes out as Bi, unless he's the hottest mother fucker on the planet, EVERYONE hates him. Even half the GBLT community thinks its wrong. Yet a bi girl is perfectly fine -_-" Ive seen it hundreds of times, its steriotyping, and even gays do it. Its shameful and stupid but hey ya know, the world fuckin sucks. And no matter what you might say, everyones a goddam hypocrit in some way now-a-days...
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy In every stereotype there is a grain of TRUTH, I am over 40, I've had bisexual women try to fake that they were l;esbians b/c they knew I wouldn't date them. Bisexuals are dishonewst users.
I challenge any on this channel to name a gay or lesbian person with a bisexual life partner.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
@rachelsOne not even half of bisexuals are dishonest users. I personally am not sure if bisexuallity is as common as people think it is. Cause truly Im a Pansexual, like all other bisexual friends I have, but Im positive there are at least some true bisexuals out there. As you said, Theres always a grain of truth, always an execption to every rule. Bisexuallity I dont absolutely trust, as you said, but what about Pansexuallity? Its like Bisexuallity, just a different way of thinking?
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy It's common and has been going on forever, shit all those married suburban housewives whose hubands look the other way. What do you thing "Swinging" Is? Good grief I knew if I came on a black channel that I would encounter some major idiocy. It's like you aren't even aware of historical facts. OMG this is sad.
Bisexuality doesn't really exist anyway it's just straigth people who use lesbians and gays for sex only to discard them later.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
@rachelsOne "Married Suburban Housewives?" Maybe its cuz the guys are just dicks. And dont be racist, I mean i dont support interracial but I have black friends. Some are kinda smart actually. And what historical facts have you mentioned at all? what does history have to do with sexuallity? Yea, Omg this is sad, ur just a troll lol. And it does exist, Ive seen it. Yes ur right that is the case on occasion and those people are aholes but not all of them are like that. Dont steriotype.
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy Who gives a fuck if ur racist ass doesn't support interracial! I AM mixed race asshole and ALL racists claim they have "Black Friends" Jesus Christ take your ignorant raCIST ASS Offline IMMEDIATELY.
Why do I have to supply you with historical facts when your lazy ass should research them yourself! I am not a babysitter/teacher for some goddamn junior racist. I don't know how old you think I am but I am old enough to be your parent.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
@rachelsOne Woah there! I actually do have black friends, half of my friends are actually. One just moved to Australia though. Sorry to offend you, but Im not the one who called all blacks retarded. And you call me racist xD nice one dumbass. And your the one who brought up history not me, and I never said you needed to supply me with any goddamn facts. Your putting words in my mouth. And wtf? When did you becoming my mom come into this????? Creepo... And PS: Stopping Bitching troll
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@rachelsOne I think that if everyone were gay, the human race would die out. If everyone were straight, there would be less acceptance. If the whole world were Bi, there would be more betrayal. Butif the whole world were Pansexual, the world would be much more accepting, happy, and overall just better. No strict likings based on gender, no certain preferance for any certain race or look. Just personallity. I dont like to call myself Bi. I say Pansexual, because idc how people look.
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy You are seriously ignorant, and you should keep your thoughts private lest you continue to reveal your stupidity.
Hey ass-wipe, being lesbian or gay does NOT make an individual sterile! U fucking dumb ass lesbians can still have children and gay men can still get a woman pregnant. Ever hear of In Vitro Fertilization? How old are you? Jesus christ are you black? Cause I am and I am tired of blacks writing ignorant n*gger shit. It's 2011 get a fucking clue!
rachelsOne 1 month ago
@rachelsOne Im pretty smart. And Im terribly sorry for my mistake. Ik gays and lesbians can have kids. I just forgot that and it was a dumbass move of me. Im pretty young yes, in college, and no Im Irish, pale as hell. But you didnt get my point. Im just trying to state that no sexuallity is 'perfect' or 'normal' And that I personally agree with Pansexuallity for it is the least judgemental.
And PS: Man your ironic. You say how blacks are dumb then immediately after say its 2011 xD
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy I am NOT a Man, I am of color, I live in Wash D.C. aka "Chocolate City" Yes I said that blacks act ignorant, I see it everyday in Washington D.C., I have a Masters of Science degree and am accused of "Acting White" because of it. Age has nothing to do with making dumb ass remarks.
Straights regularly kill their spouses and children, they murder gays yet they have the NERVE to say that god wants everyone 2 b like them. How sick is that?
rachelsOne 1 month ago
@TheBsheep Black People are lost period with their bullshit Homophobia, pay attention to popular mculture.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
i agree completely i think and bi girls have confirmed it that theyll do things with girls for the fun but at the end of the day love men. when they want to make love and want to feel loved and protected they turn to men but see also i think its the way we treat our women that makes consider bisexuality or even lesbianism ive seen it happen to often
blood25snake 3 months ago
Thank you so much for posting this video - I am very certain that I am bisexual. I love being open minded and who I am. I've experimented with a female whom I've developed feelings for and I can see myself waking up beside her every morning of my life. Men still appeal to me as well, and I can also see me with that sex daily. Both sexes are under my reference, and no one can change that. I am who I am.~
TheAbster46 3 months ago 2
THANK YOU!!...this video saved my life!
oOEmanOo 3 months ago
But NO worries because I doubt any attractive woman would be attracted to you anyway, especially not a bautiful woman.
rachelsOne 3 months ago
@rachelsOne Roses are Red,
Violets are Blue,
Your Such a Cunt...
And we all hate You~
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
No offense but bi's r just frontin and use the same sex to get freaky but always choose the opposite sex for LIFE partners meaning that essentially y'all are straight. Show me ONE bisexual with a life partner of the same sex!
rachelsOne 3 months ago
@rachelsOne How bout me asswipe? Its an Uke Seme problem your thinking of. Semes are the "Wears the pants" arrogant type. Which is most men. and a bi man that is seme will in turn go for an uke, and most ukes are females. an uke is the submissive quieter type. however, men can be uke and girls can be seme. So some Bisexuals can still fall in love with the same sex if one is a seme and the other an uke. Its how all relationships work. I'm a bisexual uke male married to a gay seme male
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
@nadnerbmiggy WTF English please and I will not respond to anyone who is unable to articulately comment. Move on ignmoramous.
rachelsOne 1 month ago
you "adopted" a sexual orientation???
fuzzynippleman 4 months ago
@fuzzynippleman Yes, sometimes your not sure. Your always the same sexuallity, its just you may get it wrong at first. You may at first just think your straight. Then notice your bi curious at times. Then as you mature you notice that part of you gets more prominent, and you become a full on bisexual. Thats a change from straight to bi. You were always bi, you just thought you were st else at start. Its a common mistake not to know your sexuallity fully until later in life.
nadnerbmiggy 1 month ago
I was sure I was gay, bu i am attracted to certant women, I'm not 50/50 I'm predominantly gay, but i also know I like women too. I can eat chocolate AND strawberry ice cream ;)
JM37883 4 months ago
Here you are thinking when making a sandwich is more up your alley, a little less computer and more kitchen should help things go a lot smoother.
mcbowser 4 months ago
perhaps ur just hetero-flexible =P
DisturbedVamp 4 months ago
In my experience the bi women that I've known was just using that as a dodge for being a slut. They say they're free to choose a woman or a man while being in a relationship, and usually your guy will be for it because he sees himself in the middle of that scenario. Lets face it, if your straight and deal with more than one partner, you would be a slut. So why is it different with the same sex, your still dealing with more than one partner.
68JUSTAMAN 4 months ago
Well, the scale is broad, it's not like attraction is divided in two cathegories(attraction to guys/chicks), it's more like a gradient with a certain threshold being somewhere in there. Most people are close to the extremes of the scale (tough most can at least appreciate the same sex aestetically, like, you can tell if a same sex person is good looking or not without having the hots for them) and it happens that a person who is usually mostly straight finds themselves
KendrixTermina 4 months ago
@KendrixTermina finding a particularly attractive example of the same sex hot. There's also people who'd have sex with both genders but can only form romantic relationships with one. You're probably somewhere in a 30/70 position. It happens. But yeah, expimenting before you're 16 or so doesn't mean much.
KendrixTermina 4 months ago
why are you doing your makeup while making a video?
atrainhere 5 months ago 2
@atrainhere because she's awesome
oOEmanOo 3 months ago in playlist Liked
iam bi sexual like to wear panties and looking for a relationship too however iam afraid of my sexuality
Ziggyquest123 6 months ago
hmmmmm I agree with her completly, although more then my eyes are bisexual, my body loves women also but i don't see myself next to a women in the long run, now for her questions 3:44 , my answer would be probably Yes!! hah, although yeah I want to marry a man, there are certain feelings that only a male would provide for me!
RandomnessNeverStops 6 months ago
Love dis chickaa -3
WhoaSnapItsAudrey 6 months ago
she is so uggly
tafachesee 7 months ago
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If I was your MAN I will let you have any woman you want.
lewis22tk 7 months ago
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Bis should die. I would kill them all because they are disgusting animals that need to be put to sleep. Eat your cake and eat ityou greedy bastards. I am gay but i hate bis so much it turns my belly. Hang the bi's. My new law but gays and straight free.
A lot of gay people hate bi's and we look down on you and we class you as 3rd class. straights marry one person and gay one person. You can't marry two people of the opp sex like man/man/women, women/women/man. Its disgusting.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100
That is so ignorant.
Bisexual simply means you can be attracted to either sex, nothing more, nothing less. Being bisexual doesn't mean you cheat on people or go out with both men or women at the same time, or that you're desperate. It simply means you can be attracted to either men or women.
I'm actually surprised since being gay, you would know what it is like to be discriminated against and called disgusted.
TheCassyJenelle 6 months ago
@TheCassyJenelle bisexuailty is not part of the gay community. It is like saying bisexuals r part of the straight community. Gay r completely differen't because we know what we want!
neil22100 5 months ago
@neil22100
Again ignorant. You have just told me that all bisexuals "don't know what they want" because everyone must have one interest in one gender. This is the equivalent to a straight person telling a gay person that they are confused because "everyone must like their opposite gender". A complete lack of understanding there. You don't even know what bisexuality is tbh.
TheCassyJenelle 5 months ago
@TheCassyJenelle not really because gays r more excepted then bisexuals! People now being gay is not a confusion but people like me and other will always think this about bisexuals!
neil22100 5 months ago
@neil22100
Well you have to remember back when there was a time when gays were not accepted at all, they were burned on some sticks and condemned, in order to live they had to hide it.
It took many years of education and bring people to social acceptance to accept homosexuality, bisexuality is going through the same thing.
TheCassyJenelle 5 months ago
Honey. I'm Pansexual.
I Know What You're Tryin To Say.
&I Understand. Your Exactly Right.
&Your Beautful.
youranoobable 7 months ago
filthy bi's
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 They're so filthy, and you hate them so much, that you typed bisexual into your search engine? K. :)
MsJjx 7 months ago
@MsJjx I aim is to harm them!
neil22100 6 months ago
@neil22100 fuck you!
MsVamp19 7 months ago
@MsVamp19 sorry no i don't date filth.
neil22100 7 months ago
No such word as bi. Only gay and straight allow. Sorry.
neil22100 7 months ago
@neil22100 I like women. I like men. I'd be in a relationship with both. I'm attracted to both. I like sex with both. Millions of people agree.
Bisexuality exsists. Educate yourself and see why saying 'No such word as bi' is offensive to not only bisexuals, but all LGBT people.
FleetingWispsOfGlory 7 months ago 2
@neil22100 Thats pretty offensive.
UltraJakxstar 7 months ago 2
I thought I was the only one who felt like this.
CandieBayy 7 months ago
Not sure if anyone's addressed it yet or not, but I've quite often heard the label of heteroflexible - attracted to both sexes, but sexually prefer the opposite sex, and homoflexible - attracted to both sexes, but sexually prefer the same sex.
dragmetohell999 7 months ago
It could be that you're just romantically attracted to women instead of sexually. A lot of people confuse the meaning of sexual orientation to mean strictly sexual attraction, when it could include or only be strictly romantic attraction. I myself am more romantically attracted to women and more sexually attracted to men. I consider myself bisexual because of this.
DarkAgePearl 8 months ago
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MyAlice109 8 months ago
That's not being bisexual hun. It's bi-curious. You don't just choose to be bisexual. You just are. But it takes time to figure it out for some people, but not for some. I'm bisexual, not because it's a trend.
taytalkalot13 8 months ago
Thank you so much! After watching this video I feel so much better and relieved!! I've been fighting with myself over wheather I'm bi or not. I'm like you. It's my eyes that are ;)
Irishprincess127 8 months ago
You make homosexuality and bisexuality sound disgusting, yet you said you considered yourself bisexual. Haha I think:.....
You sound bi-curious :) As you said at the end
CATcaralili 8 months ago
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CATcaralili 8 months ago
WELL THEN YOU ARE BI LMAO.
licialicous 8 months ago
major lisp!
and i am really bisexual. not to be trendy.
beachgirls4life 8 months ago
My eyes are bisexual! LOL
makeitlucid 8 months ago
The worst thing to happen to bisexuals, esp. girl bisexuals, is the trend of bisexuality...sorry, I don't consider kissing a girl to turn guys on or because you were drunk a true bisexual. If you are throughly atteacted to both sexes, and would like a relationship with both sexes, then, to me, you are bisexual.
I'm a women and I am not only sexually attracted to men and women, I also would be in a relationship, long term, with both (at different times of course lol). I consider that bisexual.
FleetingWispsOfGlory 8 months ago
@FleetingWispsOfGlory Agreed xD can't take the girls who flirt and lead you on just because they were curious and wanted to take a walk on the wild side of life.
eASTcOASTiVORY 8 months ago
I think you are looking at sexuality too much in black and white
kittley1984 8 months ago
@kittley1984 She's totally doing the opposite.
Soesii 8 months ago 2
Only in America
akamoney1 8 months ago
If words don’t speak loud enough, actions can: Do you *fantasize* about women?
If so, perhaps you’re like me: I’m “pickier” with the same sex, more selective. So, my eyes (doing that pointing thing you do) are mostly straight, but my *mind’s eye* is definitely bisexual. And it’s my mind’s eye that my heart sees by.
It’s not a trend thing. Heteronormativity is the trendiest orientation of all.
Whatever conclusion you reach, you don’t have to justify it to anyone but yourself.
JustAnotherVisionary 8 months ago
I appreciate that fact that you shared your personal opinion on bisexuality. My friend is similar to you. She says she's bi but she doesn't take "women seriously" So is she really bi? Idk but hey that's her own opinion.
dbilife 8 months ago
Im bi- so yea itz gud 2 b dat cz y have 1 wen u can have both im mo atracted 2 grlz tho cz like alk the grlz at scool show clevage it trnz me on so mch
SQODgohard1 9 months ago
thanks for the advice. I am Bisexual for sure. growing up i was attracted to girls (my first crush was a black chick, im asian btw) and somehow in high school i got interested in guys. im in college now and i can see myself with either a guy or girl just as long as they have a beautiful personality and a beautiful body, i really dont care anymore and you helped me realized what i been fighting for years.
YunJoe93 9 months ago 6
I'm a guy. I consider myself bisexual but I have a "preference" for women. I have greater numbers of attraction to women than i do for men, but regardless i still sexually fantasize about both in some way. Really your sexuality is in your mind, what you actually do is besides the point. If a guy has a wife and he is only constantly thinks about the same sex the whole time and only the same sex everyday, even when doing his wife, then he's simply gay and just married to a woman.
ckinch 9 months ago
-First step to anyone's sexuality is admitting they are sexual(if they are)
-2nd step is admitting to yourself the variations of gender, the masculine or feminine, and the traditional to kinky forms of sexual activity/persons you like.
-3rd step is learning to like what you like and love it!
After the 3 steps you should be able to suss out what you are and what you like. be it str8t gay or bi. If your partially attracted to the same sex in some way then that's what you are. No need to deny it.
ckinch 9 months ago
your eyes are bisexual, nikki minaj eyes/ lolwhut?
You are such a troll, love it.
4spitfire 9 months ago
i came out and people thought i was faking! bisexuality should not be trendy it is a real orientation! also you aren't really bisexual if you aren't emotionally and physically attracted to women and men. just saying!
sillykatz 9 months ago
i came out and people thought i was faking! bisexuality should not be trendy it is a real orientation!
sillykatz 9 months ago
I agree with the alyssax person.
ChildAtRisk 9 months ago
ACCURATE except I'm not really a sexual person unlike others my age o_o and I prefer girls emotionally over guys. *shrug*
ElleEstVivante 9 months ago
wtf being bi isnt a trendy thing its the waay u are]
alyssax96 9 months ago
lol i love how you were putting on makeup.
GothBomb 9 months ago
As this person in the video a man or a woman? A drag queen getting ready for a gig?
A woman who enjoys sex with women is gay. Man man who enjoys sex with men is gay.
A woman who holds her nose and sleeps with men while wishing she was doing the same with a woman is not bisexual, she's a closeted lesbian calling herself bisexual.
A man holding his nose and having sex with a woman, secretly wishing it was a man, is not bisexual, he's gay.
Bi-City is just a stop over on the way to Gay-Town!
Chelsea4President 9 months ago
@Chelsea4President but what if you love sleeping with both??
Capinyx 8 months ago
@Capinyx Answer this question HONESTYLY:
If you had to give up sex with one or the other group until the day you die, which one would you give up?
I have yet to see a bisexual who would honestly say he/she would rather give up sex with members of their own sex. When you have reached the point to admit it it to others, then what are you REALLY?
Many people of either attraction can have sex with someone they are NOT attracted to, while almost everybody can easily say which sex they prefer.
Chelsea4President 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President i would give up men. animals can be just as satisfying sexually and they don't complain.
verysoliy 8 months ago
@verysoliy You aught'a know, ey?
You (I assume) are a man? A bisexual is most likely more comfortable having sexual relations with someone of the same sex, thus my claim that bisexuality is mainly a way for a gay person to insist he/she is "almost normal" rather than taking on the stigma of homosexuality.
I have never seen a bi man who wasn't much more gay than straight (or JUST gay). I assume you are a man claiming to be more straight than gay.
You are what you are. Nothing changes that.
Chelsea4President 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President bi people are gays in training.. thats from a gay man.. they just havent accepted their overwhelming fetish for ass yet. thats all!
verysoliy 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President i dont agree with you dont change though. i was molested as a child and learnt homosexuality from my abuser. for a while i was into girls, then i was bi, for a while i was exclusive with animals. i even married my 5 yo bearded dragon Seth then over time he got lazy and i went gay. sometimes I still go for animals or meet up with like minded gays for quick good times but usually im with my bf.
verysoliy 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President Well I suppose another reason to stay with the same sex would be the foreign-ness. You know, the clash between the two sexes. It's just harder to be compatible sometimes, thus, you can be bisexual but prefer the same sex in some ways that you don't prefer the opposite one. The examples you mentioned were very obviously closet cases, but often it's much more fuzzy than that.
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 Any of this matters HOW?
Chelsea4President 7 months ago
@Chelsea4President Well, geez, I was just responding to when you were saying "a bisexual is most likely more comfortable hang sexual relations with someone of the same sex" and when you were talking about people holding their nose while sleeping with the same sex. I was giving an opinion as to why bisexuals may seem that way. You don't need to be rude.
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@Chelsea4President damn that's really hard. I honestly don't know
Capinyx 8 months ago
@Capinyx If you enjoy sex with members of your own sex, you're gay. What so HARD about THAT?
You would much rather stop having sex with members of the opposite sex. Why? Because you're gay.
You honestly DON'T KNOW? Come on!
Here's a comforting fact: People outside of the GLBT community are much more friendly toward people who consider themselves GAY than they are to those who say they are BI. Statistics prove this by wide margins.
If it's acceptance you seek, you will get much more as GAY.
Chelsea4President 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President >< but i like guys too
Capinyx 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President why do you want me to be gay so much??
Capinyx 8 months ago
@Chelsea4President are you saying you can only be *cough cough* GAY? why cant a person like men and women?
Kibibobo57101 8 months ago
@Kibibobo57101 You can LIKE men AND women, but you always PREFER one over the other.
I've never heard of a guy sneaking away from his boyfriend to be with his girlfriend. It's always the other way around.
Chelsea4President 8 months ago
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Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@Chelsea4President There are 3 sexual orientations . Straight , gay , and bisexual . My cousin is LIVING proof that people can be bisexual . Its not a preference to be bisexual .. Also , im bicurious , and i was completely offended when you used food comparing it to bisexuality . But , its your opinion . Whateverr
ImSoBrandon 9 months ago
I agree with everything you said but being bisexual isnt a "trend" . Its not a matter of choice , so it cant be a "trend" . But everything else was pretty accurate (;
ImSoBrandon 9 months ago
Sexual preference is not what determines your orientation. If you are attracted to someone of the same sex's body, AND MIND, then you can say you are gay/bi. It's not all about sex, geez.
xXcomf4nowXx 9 months ago
Everything she said is what helped me a long time ago determine once and for all that I am straight. When I see a pretty woman of course I'll say "she's pretty" but I've never been turned on by a woman it's always been men. They're beautiful but I don't get the same emotional and physical connection from them that I do from men.
needabreak 9 months ago
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Homosexuals do not want you to know that many of them were sexually abused when young, because many people who were so abused go on to molest others. And homosexuals do not want you to know that they are more likely to molest children than heterosexuals are. Ray Blanchard, et al., "Fraternal Birth Order and Sexual Orientation in Pedophiles," Archives of Sexual Behavior 29 (2000), p. 464
orthodoxodour 9 months ago
I like your video, you bring up good points!!
LaShnike 10 months ago
Your eyes are bisexual??
TheGamerchick123 10 months ago
Uhm, you can't "adopt" a sexual orientation. You are either strait, gay, bi or celibut.You are who yo are. Just enjoy your life because it's your's and your's alone to live.
Xcorgi 10 months ago 2
U make an excellent point. It made me think again if I was actually truly bisexual, and for me I am. :)
But as you said it's not for everyone. And I think quite a few people out there are Defs bi-curious! Lol
flyinghare14 10 months ago
You Dont seem be ,bi-sexual instead u just seem to be supporting us..
crazyman9293 10 months ago
@sariawebster thank you for the advice.
TheSkittlesrainbow10 10 months ago
I'm just confused. I dated this guy, and when we were making out I felt nothing. I broke up with him and dated a girl for a bit and it felt different. It felt right. I feel like I want to be with a guy when I think about it, but when I am actually with them I don't really like it . Can somebody please help me? I'm so confused.
TheSkittlesrainbow10 10 months ago
@TheSkittlesrainbow10 I would suggest you be single for a while for starters. The next step would be be to get counseling. I don't know your age but I assume your young and as a 10+ yrs Lesbian this lifestyle is not for the faint of heart. The last thing you need is insecurity bc as you can see from the comments the whole world is gonna tell you your wrong. We (the LGBT) stand in our truth and that's how we deal with the backlash bc as a LGBT the alternative is a fate worse then death.
sariawebster 10 months ago
Yes
TheBassHeavy 10 months ago
if women do not do anything for you sexually, you are NOT bisexual. so just stop.
ReginaRoyals08 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President ,
Well, it would depend on what day you came to me with that cookie. Some days I feel the pull toward one, and the next day the other. It's not that I don't have a preference, it's just that mine changes depending on what I want, not that I ever lose interest in one.
I don't want to explain everything going with that, but that's the basic.
DreamTonight1 10 months ago
we're not talking about a trend, we're talking about an EMOTION!!! How people feel and love, not how to be "fashionable"...
SaviourGermany 10 months ago
I'm gay. I don't quite believe that people can be "bisexual". Everybody has a preference. If you have no preference, then you're not really denying yourself anything, nor are you really tempted.
If someone offers you a choice between chocolate and cookies, and you say "I don't care, give me either one", then that person would be perfectly content with getting nothing.
I would know my first choice right away. The other would be the one I didn't like at all or didn't care to have.
Chelsea4President 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President I don't know about you, but between cookies if I don't care which one I get that doesn't mean I would be ok with not getting either one :P cause I like both cookies. Bisexual is just being in-between on the sexual spectrum, and it's not as simple as either gay or straight. Because you can be bisexual and mostly like one sex, and the other not so much. That's why the term applies to so many people. Bisexuality is very real, and I used to think that I had to pick one side so I l
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President abled myself a lesbian. But it didn't take me long to figure out that I wasn't content not letting myself be attracted to men as well. And it's not like I would need both a man or a woman at once, I just don't want to surpress myself, as I did when I thought I was straight. So that's my experience, even if you don't really understand just take my word for it that people can most defenitely be bisexual.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 Being gay was your CHOICE? It sounds more like a CHORE for you to act like a heterosexual, not at all like something your body and mind was programmed for.
Sorry to disapprove of your "forced heterosexuality" plea. I believe every human being (and most animals) have a natural attraction to one OR the other sex. If you insist that your feelings are equally strong toward both sexes, I tend to NOT believe your sincerity.
Do you find being GAY objectionable? Why?
Chelsea4President 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President NO no no no I'm so sorry I didn't mean to sound like I didn't APPROVE being gay. I totally have no problem with gays/lesbians and vehemently defend them I believe they should have every right as straight people. I'm just saying that PERSONALLY I tried to live my life with the view that you have, and thought that I had to pick a side, but it just didn't work out for me because I'm bisexual. And it would defenitely be hard to find someone who's EQUALLY attracted to both sexes, a
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President nd I am certainly not one of those people. A lot of bisexuals do lean towards one sex or the other, but they know that sometimes they shift and like the other sex more from time to time, so I think it's just better to go with the flow, as a lot of people say. And yes, it would be a chore for me to act either straight or gay, since I'm not either. And just because I may be attracted to one sex MORE, that doesn't mean that's the only sex I CAN be attracted to.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
bi-sexuals are shit eating butt fuckers who like to rinse their shit coated cocks in sluts.
orthodoxodour 10 months ago
@orthodoxodour Juust keep telling yourself that. It'll certainly get you places...not
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 just because youre a pervert is no reason for you to get upset by the truth. women who whore around are sluts and butt fucking faggotry is stupid pointless ass humping and a perversion.
orthodoxodour 9 months ago
@orthodoxodour Dude shut the fuck up I am not a pervert I only figured out I like girls as well just like two months ago and now all the sudden I'm a pervert? And what makes you think that being bisexual makes me a slut?? That's not even true, I've never even had sex!! Ask anyone around me and they'll tell you I'm a really virtuous person. Don't call people faggots, call them gay, you piece of shit. I don't deserve this from you and you have no right to judge me. Fuck off
Izlandzadi14 9 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 I wasn't even upset until now I can't believe people like you think it's ok to judge others even if I was sinning you're commiting a sin by judging me...don't be a hypocrite.
Izlandzadi14 9 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 Orthodoxodour is just a troll. He gets off on upsetting people.
Maxdwolf 9 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 youre not sexual at all until you fuck someone.. until then its only a thought.. its kinda like being a murderer.. youre not a killer until you kill and youre not a faggot or bi-faggot until you homo fuck..who said im judging you... you admitted to being a pervert.. n [ˈpɜːvɜːt]
(Psychology) a person who practises sexual perversion
[from Old French pervertir, from Latin pervertere to turn the wrong way, from per- (indicating deviation) + vertere to turn]
orthodoxodour 7 months ago
@orthodoxodour Yeah, except murderers kill people. Homosexuals have consenting sex with another adult, as straight people do. Except with the same sex. In that context, which is the context that most homo sex is in, the fact that it's gay sex is irrelevant. And you're obviously judging me, and everyone alike by saying things about gays, lesbians, and bisexuals. Perverts are people who's sexual behavior is considered abnormal. Seeing as there have been apprx. 9 million LGBTs documented in America
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@orthodoxodour alone, not to mention hundreds of species of animals that have gay sex sometimes (around the 450 mark or more), homosexuality is not a perversion at all. It is so fucking normal, dude. I really feel sorry that you have to live with yourself. Just be happy and accept people. If you don't like gay people, you are missing out on an entire demographic of awesomeness, and constantly fighting a losing battle with the changing world view around you. Think what you want, just don't be an
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@orthodoxodour ass about it.
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 In other words you are MORE gay than straight. Aren't most bisexuals MORE gay than straight?
You haven't said that sexual attraction is NOT a choice. Will you say it, please? Otherwise I still detect some degree of denial in your claims.
Being attracted to members of the same sex is NOT a choice. SAY IT! The bi-thing is secondary. Sometimes bisexuals claim that they CHOOSE to be attracted to both sexes. THAT is BS.
Chelsea4President 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President No, I never said I am MORE gay than straight, all I know is that I'm not straight and I'm not gay. I'm just going to figure out the details as I go along. And bisexuals can be anywhere, nothings proved that most bisexuals are more gay than straight. And I thought that that would be a given, since I defend gays. Of course I don't believe it's a choice, I don't even know why you thought that's what I was saying. And if I thought I was gay once, how was I in denial of it? If anyt
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President hing I was in denial of my bisexuality. And yeah, if anyone says they choose to be attracted to somebody then their claimed "attraction" is defenitely BS. What you choose is to accept your orientation, and that's what I did.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Chelsea4President You don't convince people of something by getting them to say it. Nor is it for you to clear people by having them declare allegiance to your dogma.
Maxdwolf 9 months ago
@Chelsea4President That is just plain ignorant. Even your example is false. My not having a preference for a particular treat certainly doesn't mean I don't want one. Even if a preference exists, it doesn't mean one can't be happy with the other.
Maxdwolf 9 months ago
@Maxdwolf If you don't get excited when you are offered something you REALLY like (or claim to), but instead say "Oh, I don't care, give me either one", then something's wrong. If you "don't care" which one, then you don't care enough to get either.
How is that example WRONG?
If you're "bi", and can't decide which one you would want to spend the rest of your life with, and which one to forever give up, you'd be just as content living a loveless life without any partner at all.
Chelsea4President 9 months ago
@Chelsea4President We are not talking about getting excited, we are talking about preferring one thing you like over something else you really like. If you can't tell the difference between caring about which and caring about whether or not, you don't understand English.
Wait a second. You cry about someone implying sexuality is a choice and then you do just that. Before you find "the one", did you experience no desire for anyone else? That's what your second paragraph implies logically.
Maxdwolf 9 months ago
@Chelsea4President No, you want SOMEONE. And that someone, just happens to be potentially a man or a woman. It's not like I can't decide between them, you just see anyone as a potential. And if somebody comes along that you like, their gender is absolutely irrelevant. That's what bisexuality is. It's not "ohh, which do I like, a guy or a girl? Oh well, I can't decide I guess I'll just settle for being celibate" X( *facepalm*
Izlandzadi14 7 months ago
oooooooooooooooo k. if u say so.
Rome7869 10 months ago
I'm not bi-sexual, I'm bi-curious. I always wonder what it would be like to be with a woman, and some, can turn me on. But that's the extent of my curiosity. I've told my boyfriend that I'm bi curious, but that's it. I don't see it as trendy, I see it as a way to explore, or just a way to get guys interested in you.
GreenSnowConeBuddy 10 months ago
ur not str8 if u lookk at womenn ur more liikke hetrosexxual =P im str8 upp bisexxual
night377 11 months ago
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your not makeing any sense you tell people your bisexual but you said you consider yourself straight. No offense but i think your telling people your bisexual because its TRENDY LIKE YOU SAID.
jackie9847 11 months ago
your not makeing any sense you tell people your bisexual but you said you said you consider yourself straight. No offense but i think your telling people your bisexual because its TRENDY LIKE YOU SAID.
jackie9847 11 months ago
@jackie9847 Well what I got was that she said that she used to say she was bisexual in the past but she realized she was wrong, and that she actually is straight. She is saying she USED to think she was bisexual because it was trendy, but isn't claiming to be anymore.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
i am a true bisexual
gottalovedamon 11 months ago
I feel you on this!
LuV4RoBnFaB 11 months ago
You're very intelligent, and I feel this way sometimes.
manysharptongues 11 months ago
we r the same..heteroflexible..sounds better than bi curious to me..lol..cuz im not bi at all..things happens when u have lots of gay friends and u go to gay clubs...that doesn't mean thats who u r..
coolpunkxx 1 year ago
@smithscapegoat-if this is so wrong, then what are you doing clicking on it? "Protest too much" much? There is a reason so many Gay kids commit suicide in their teens. It's you and your buddy Leviticus. Your buddy also says that a women having her period can't share the same bed as her husband. Nobody freaks out & gets into people's business about who's sleeping on the couch.
TheCajun124 1 year ago
Im not bi to be trendy, Im just bi. Plain and simple. Im sorry but most of your stuff you said didn't really make sense to me.
luvbites23 1 year ago 7
trendy my ass! Im not doing this to get brownie points. All I know is that I control who I desire ; male or female. Where Im from if your anything other then str8, you are not accepted.
o0R3stless0o 1 year ago
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This is gross, and just purely tasteless. LEVITICUS 18. You can't agree and be a Christian.
SmithScapegoat 1 year ago
@SmithScapegoat Christians still exist? fuck.
ktmackful 1 year ago 20
@ktmackful Haha, but seriously, there are some cool Christians out there. I'm one.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@ktmackful
" Christians still exist? fuck."
Whats wrong with Jesus?
dancingwithcalvin 9 months ago
@SmithScapegoat Yes you can. Leviticus was created to be followed all at once, then it was overriden by the new covenant in the new testament. And even if it wasn't, didn't God say one sin is like another? So who the fuck do you think you are preaching about Leviticus says when it also says you're not allowed to have two different threads in your shirt?
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@Izlandzadi14 They were trying to make a perfect people to enter the promised land, thats why God told them to do the things that today would be considered ridiculous. So God punished the sinners harshly, he also gave such instructions about sexual intercourse, it can then be assumed, (based on the context, that they were trying to prevent SIN,) that that was a sin, or in the way its written ... an abomination! :)
SmithScapegoat 10 months ago
@SmithScapegoat It was sin back THEN. Not now. No one is perfect, and since Jesus hadn't given his life to cleanse our sins they instead had to follow a strict moral code and cleanse themselves. In the new testament, a new covenant was put in place, like I said. By this alone, NO ONE should rely on Leviticus for ANYTHING, since it's not even needed anymore now that we have Jesus. And of course since that doesn't mean we shouldn't sin, Jesus outlined what they were in the new testament during his
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@SmithScapegoat time here on earth. He NEVER even mentioned homosexuality. And biologically, what is homosexuality vs. heterosexuality? Apples and oranges. Just because we're a minority since it would've not been in our species best interest to have everyone homosexual, doesn't mean it isn't as naturally occuring nor even matters any more in that sense because of surrogate mothers and artificial insemination.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@SmithScapegoat Whoops, in my first comment, I meant to say: and that doesn't mean we should sin, or it doesn't mean it doesn't matter if we sin.
Izlandzadi14 10 months ago
@SmithScapegoat He also gave instructions regarding slavery, and murdering witches and not eating shellfish.
Maxdwolf 9 months ago