this phenomena is not so much a psychological one as it is one that lays it bearing in the realm of philosophy. we live in a fatalist and determined universe, and therefore this occurs. these examples serve to show how choice is an illusion, all order is vain, and freedom is a delusion. no one is ever free. we are all mere players held by strings in a game of fate and solitude.
I know that the TV programs are to let people know that they "are not alone", and to know that there is help out there. It's also to help the general public understand the reasons behind the clutter, and to remove misconceptions about the hoarders. UNFORTUNATELY, to get people to pay attention, it has to be entertaining. So, these people are put on TV and humiliated (sigh). I wish there was another way.
...and later that night: BEHOLD--targeted web ads from my friend's insurance company began popping up, along with the other targeted information you got exclusively from the inconspicuously lowdown Linda C. McCrae and elsewhere. My friend witnessed John Abraham tell you. There is more proof of how he knows you are behind it, but later.
Andy, my friend has always known it was you, with assistance, behind the targeted web ads. (Twilight Zone Music here) My friend told John Abraham (supposedly a devout Christian but lies with ease) in the employee kitchen lounge that he used a certain insurance company. When John thought my friend wasn't looking, he marched down the hallway to Andy's office. My friend peaked out the door and watched John Abraham tell Andy Cucchiara about the insurance company my friend used. and...
...and later that night: BEHOLD--targeted web ads from my friend's insurance company began popping up, along with the other targeted information you got exclusively from the inconspicuously lowdown Linda C. McCrae and elsewhere. My friend witnessed John Abraham tell you. There is more proof of how he knows you are behind it, but later.
Oh...yeah, that's right there are no muslim hoarders, and no muslim homosexuals ! I remind you that muslims are HUMAN BEINGS, and they suffer from every illness and rejoice in every good thing that everyone else does.
Your religion (nor anyone else's) is a cure for ANY sickness, disease, or disorder. Note; Homosexuality is normal and not a disorder.
Everytime I see this stuff or catch a bit of the Hoarders show I can't help but clean. I understand that this is a mental illness butI cannot wrap my head around it. I'm not a neat freak, I left dishes unattended and clothes on the floor.
Boy.... I started cleaning my messy apartment today and... I am overwhelmed watching this video. I'd probably kill over if I was facing a cleaning job like any of these.
I know someone who hoards. She feels that if she could send all the things she hoards to a country where the people are desperately in need, she would be able to clear out her house. She has tons of beautiful clothes, shoes (some still in their boxes) and household knick-knacks. She says that she does not want to donate her belongings to Goodwill, because when people buy things cheaply and EBay is too much trouble. Hoarding is a devastating and crippling illness.
Hoarding has become the new "illness of the month" while its sufferers are persecuted on TV for people's amusement. Unfortunately it carries a mugh worse stigma than alcoholism or drug abuse so people who could be helped are afraid to ask for it.
So my mom is a hoarder, for almost as long as I can remember, but I wouldn't say she's disposaphobic. But the problem is she wouldn't really admit she has a problem. She always says she's trying and has a goal, and if you say anything about it, she'll get completely defensive. Is it possible for organizations like yourself, to even help people who wouldn't want to be helped? Where do I even start? This problem has been the crux of the arguments and problems in my family (almost daily).
@writofmandamus I hear ya man. My mom always has some excuse. My room is spotless but the rest of the house is like walking through a maze of total crap.
I recently had to put my mother who has Alzheimer's in a nursing home and when I went into the house there was clutter everywhere! I took me a long time to clean up the house and get rid of all of the stuff that she had been collecting over the years,
@1weirdgurl No, that really is hoarding. Hoarding often results in filth because when items start swallowing a house, they are impossible to clean. Paper starts to break down. Food starts to rot. And the person gets overwhelmed and stress out. When they stress out they start to hoard more, and it just gets worse. I knew a woman who did this and these pictures looked like her house.
what is the difference in a hoarder..and a lazy person who wont clean the house..most hoarders seem to have mental issues as well.. on one hoarders episode the lady was not attached to all the mess and clutter she was just crazy and lazy and nasty ???
@epd0126 Often it starts with serious(suicidal level serious) depression that doesn't get help, or serious anxiety issues. The people don't know how to cope, so hoarding becomes their coping mechanism. They buy things they don't need (and sometimes can't afford. I don't mean huge purchases, but huge amounts of just stuff like baskets and little trinkets, books and shoes, or pillows). Some hoard food. The food gets bad. It rots and they feel like they can't get rid of it from attachment.
Neat hoarders like the book guy are really pretty smart. I have saved everything since high school neatly in boxes. My house & garage are full. I sell around $1000 a month on ebay. I've had books & records $100-$300 each. I don't save garbage but it's hard to discard things that will be future collectibles.
I'm concentrating on selling stuff off.. but still can't resist buying valuable books & records at 2nd hand stores for pennies on their dollar value. I guess I'm different in the fact it doesn't bother me to get rid of an item. I'm more obcessed with hunting treasures at giveaway prices. I had a rare Ike & Tina Turner record sell for $300 that I bought for 50 cents. I just can't see throwing something in the trash I might be able to sell later. But an over stuffed house is the side effect.
Oh yes, Ebay sells are still strong. Many people out there still have money & a lot of it goes overseas. I want to get this house emptied out but want as much as I can get out of it rather than just give it away or throw it. I don't think that is crazy. My family members are embarrassed I'm sure so that bothers me. My ebay & garage sale totals since 2004 are over $60,000. I don't want to be labeled as a hoarder but I don't want to lose a fortune either getting hasty. I'm really working on it.
Atwood - It sounds like you need a business partner, someone to help you get more up and selling. I understand the allure of finding that "deal" that you know will make money but you do need a middle ground. I have one room that's a mess and I've decide it's going! I'm like you, I don't mind getting rid of things either and donate a lot..but you just don't want to give it all away. My problem is keeping my finger off the BID buttons when I'm on eBay. Sell 1 buy 2 does not work! : )
I recommend you start cashing it in! The ebay auctions are fun to watch as something you picked up out of the trash stacks up bids. We don't feel so crazy during the sell faze.
You might be a hoarder, but you also might be a collector. My sister is a HOARDER. Hoarders tend not to take care of their things or stack them neatly in boxes. Hoarders save CRAP! So examine your living conditions. Can you invite friends over and not be embarrassed? Do you have friends. There's a big difference between people who collect stuff and people who are hoarders. I know.
Mine is all neatly stacked in boxes, I do not save trash or junk. But every room in my house is full. My house looks very much like the book guy in this video. I do have friends but we usually meet at their houses. My niece & nephew love coming here to look through the books & records.
This video is an advertisement for a business -- but it's not a business I would use because they charge at least $150 just to tell you how much they will charge you to come clean it up! It sounds like a scam because you have to pay them in order to find out how much their services cost !
Seeing that awful frig makes me feel better about mine.One big shelf is a little dirty so will clean it out soon.I need to get rid of a few things first.
To websuspect -- Gee you moron, don't you think the people who suffer from hoarding haven't already thought of your wondrous, new solution of "just throw that shit out" ??? For them, it's not that easy --- even if they want to just throw it out -- they find they just can't. Your lack of understanding is hateful and worse than being a hoarder.
I thnk it's very clear that a compulsive hoarder (well some) don't see this situation as a health issue. I have a roommate that doesn't see her own problem. However she will see the previews on tv about hoarders and will act shocked and go upstairs as if it doesn't look exactly like her room. Her car is packed to the brink. I feel angry at her laziness. Because she is lazy
It's real basic and unfortunate. I have had to move 3 times in the last 7 years due to office closings. This is a coworker. Meaning someone I can trust. In order to keep my home I have to split rent. Moving to a new place knowing no one exposes you to all strangers so you stick with people you know. She was my only choice. I keep her in one room. Along with this illness she has she has exposed some personality defects.She has exposed herself as a person with factitious disorder. look it up. whew
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I've heard someone say that your surroundings are a reflection of your inner thought processes.
This in turn affects you back,reminding you of unfinished projects and creates a closed feedback loop,where you tune out your surroundings and escape or distract yourself.
I should like to see a "Scientific Psychological approach to cleaning a room!
I dont feel overwelmed I feel grossed out. I cant understand how people can let it go that far. The gy with the books is understandable it didnt look messy it look like he ran out of room for the books, but the rest of them are dirty. like garbage. Not clutered. it looks like a dump. I guess they really do need help. yikes. :(
Yes, it is a form of OCD, and one thing I've noticed looking at those pictures is they look like nests that birds and some animals make--kind of a security thing. Some others I've seen are true hoarders with actual collections or compulsive shoppers. One show sorted it all, and it filled up a warehouse which they made a lot of money from, but that is rare. AspieCub that sounds like a good plan for most situations because all this gentle handling they do on the Hoarders show will never work!
I have a roommate that is a hoarder. My roommate got a new car in April and by Oct one would wonder if it was legal because crap packed even with the windows in the back. things roll from the back to the front. You literly have to climb out of this thing. It's ALLLLL trash with a few things from the dollar store. They are unstopable. sick sick sick. She also has a couple of personality disorders mostly attentions getters. factitious disorder what blows me away shes CLUELESS
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Fuck all this damn pansy ass hippie "stop judging" shit. This is not an illness or a condition... it's just people who are fucking lazy, dirty SLOBS... and/or people that need to be fucking locked in a rubber room wearing a straitjacket.
The thing is you can't just throw away their stuff, they've done studies on it, they have to do it with a lot help and support. They've become attached to the papers and the other items that they have. It's a very slow and daunting process. What's needed is: patience, understanding, dumpster, garbage bags, boxes, markers to number & label the boxes, a notebooks to write down what's in what box, a storage unit, therapy, & possibly medication for depression and for the anxiety.
You obviously don't understand this illness.Come to my house and try that if you touched her stuff she would have you behind bars.This is a combination of mental illness and laziness. I have to disagree with many. Laziness is a factor. I live with a hoarder. Lazy is my roommate. She will wait until I would come home from a limb amputation so I could clean the bathroom ( I didn't have a limb removed) but this is no stretch at all, she would. I believe I hate my roommate.
You can be evicted from an apartment if your manager or landlord were to see your place like this. Its a serious health issue and it produces a lot of weight on the floor of the apartment.
Pretty close! I found it on Amazon. It is: Mozart: Concerto For Clarinet And Orchestra In A (K. 622) (or at least a part of it) Thanks to both of you for putting me on the right track, (so to speak).
A good story.....my late father told me this story, it happened many years ago. There was a relitive, a lady whos husband died fairly young. Well, she became a recluse and when she eventually died someone finally got inside the house. It was just filled with stacks of newspapers, magazines so bad that there was barely space to get to all the rooms....truly a fire hazard. Eventually after sifting through all the crap.....they found about $100,000 in CASH ....
My late mother grew up in the Great Depression.You saved everything.That mentality really never left her but her last home was pretty neat.She gave me a lot of old antiques and got rid of the clutter to move into a smaller home.Now I have too much clutter and am trying to get rid of it,its slow going.
I feel you! My wife and I moved in with her g-ma to "help with the house". She's a hoarder and for everything I throw away, she collects twice as much. I know that her crap in her bedroom WILL avalanche on her and kill her but my wife won't help. What do I do?
Give them one area and let them know that if their clutter gathers at any other part of the house, it will be thrown out-and if they deviate from their assigned area, throw the clutter out.
Disoposobia is not the only reason for clutter. What about people who don't have "the fear of getting rid of things" but they are just lazy? How do you tell the difference between someone who is lazy and someone else with a phobia? What is the help for the lazy person?
well the difference really is that a lazy person can throw things away they just dont because they are lazy and a hoarder can not throw things away and has an anxiety attack when they try because they think they have to keep everything.
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My Grandmother is a hoarder. I feel sorry for her because she is very old and she lives far away from us so we have a time hard to help her. The only person who cleans her hosue is my aunt who is lives across the street from her house. It is impossible to throw away anything. It is always difficult but we are trying the best we can to help her.
My Grandmother is a hoarder. I feel sorry for her because she is very old and she lives far away from us so we have a hard to helping. The only person who cleans her hosue is my aunt who is lives across the street from her house. It is impossible to throw away anything. It is always difficult but we are trying the best we can to help her.
i've only thrown away 1 design project, because it's too big. It was a lampshade made of my own handmade paper glued to a structure made of bamboo. It was about 5x3x3ft (150x90x90cm). Kept it for a year but my room got crowded and was collecting plenty of dust...so finally into the dumpster.
I sold an A2 print to the school and gave 4 A0 posters to my lecturer who liked them alot. What I hv left is 2 dozens of work on A2 boards, about a dozen A3 documentation booklets, 8 1x1ft wooden frames of art, at least 4 envelopes of photo paper, some packaging items...and yeah the sketchbooks :)
I hv a turntable, a keyboard, a skateboard, a basketball and a badminton racket; all hvnt been used for ages...and abt 100 old music mags
These people probably have a good gene--one for thrift and a dislike to throw good things away. They need help not bringing clutter in to their homes.
It's not so praiseworthy to fill the land fills with stupid crap from Wal-mart you bought in December and toss in January, then buy more in January, to toss in Febuary...
I am not judging the people who live like this because a close friend of mine does. But I don't get it. I just don't get it. Is it really that hard to take out the trash, wash the dishes, toss in a load of laundry, and sort the paperwork? I do this every day and spend no more than 30 minutes a day on what I call life maintenance. I've had messes, I've had clutter, but I don't understand that level of mess. Don't tell me they are disabled, obviously they were able to drag it inside somehow.
It's easy when one dishwasher load and one washing machine load gets your kitchen clean and your laundry mostly done. But imagine if for some reason you let these things build up for even one week, two weeks? A MONTH? It would be a big chore to get through it. It would not be life maintainance, but life recovery, literally, getting your life back.
I do the 30" a day thing too, but I started with really big house, (room to stash now, sort later)
Believe me, I understand how the clutter happens. I had a accident and was laid up with surgeries and couldn't walk for nearly two years. That was in a four bedroom house with two living rooms, huge basement, attics, and a storage room. And with next to no help. I have a friend who lives like that video. She is college educated, has fibromyalgia. She doesn't have the "energy" to do the dishes once I've cleaned the kitchen top to bottom and declutter it, but she has plenty of energy to buy
more stuff and drag it into the house. I stayed with her for several months to help clean the place up. We both knew that the "stuff" was a representation of postponed decisions. But I can't understand how she can clutter the rooms up within HOURS of me clearing and cleaning them at her begging request. She asked and with help we got the kitchen, bathroom, living room, dining room, and bathroom looking like home beautiful! Within HOURS the rooms were trashed, seriously trashed!
The volunteers, some young teens, had tears in their eyes. How can someone disrespect our hard work so badly? How disabled can you really be if you have the energy and ability to shop for hours, to dump bags of your treasures all over the floor, and sit stuffing your face watching tv while the clutter breeds in front of you? Sorry, venting now. That is the last time I'll help anyone like that. She gets regular psychiatric care and is prone to diagnose others mental and mood disorders. So,
forgive me if I cannot understand how she can live like that. I think I'm allowed the wonder of it all. Of course there are some deep psychological issues at work. Of course I'm not judging how she lives. But I am judging how committed she really is when her actions disrespect me and others. I am judging whether it is greed or avarice or laziness that causes people to hoard so much stuff that will never be used and is thus wasted. The world is too small for that much wastefulness!
In her case, this may be psychological, part of her mental illness. She's not doing it to disrespect you, she does it because it's her symptom. You have been very kind to care and put in your labour and effort to get her safe and comfortable, but if she won't maintain it, you can't devote your whole life to her and her clutter.
Maybe she will find some cure herself, through medicine, meditation, some insight about what she is doing to herself and start decluttering on her own.
Where does she get the MONEY to keep buying more and more stuff that she doesn't really need? I don't have any money left after buying, gas, groceries, and paying utilities.
She lives on social security disability and a teachers disability check. She is NOT disabled. There is more than enough energy and stamina to shop and bring home the loot. I feel bad for disabled people who really need the income when I see it wasted this way.
i understand some people's compulsion for hoarding but keeping the styro plates and cups in your house? what is that? that's not hoarding anymore...it's something else.
I agree. The trash is what I can't understand. Yes, we have trash that builds up sometimes in our house, and yes, it is very messy sometimes, but I always get to a point where I come through with a garbage bag and do a big sweep. I can't see throwing that on the floor. Which is how I know these people have a mental disorder.
I always criticized my housekeeping, but I cannot stand trash in the house, and especially not on the floor! The refrigerator-same thing. If it is no good THROW IT AWAY!
ok this video definately made me feel better about myself and my cluttered house. Mine isn't even a tiny bit like any of those pics I saw, thank goodness!
Videos like these make me feel so much better about myself. No matter how bad my house gets, it's not THIS bad. But I do feel sorry for these people and it is a mental disorder.
Thanks for posting this- I watch this stuff for a few minutes to get motivated to do the dishes and vacuum. I feel bad for people with this problem and try not to judge them harshly. Going to the thrift shop makes me want to go home and get rid of stuff too since it's all just "stuff". We all have our problems and our vices. Try to be helpful to those we know and love whose problem is hoarding and clutter and be glad it isn't your personal issue:)
Oh man, a house worse than mine! Mine was almost this bad, the old guy with stacks actually looked more organized than me, but I knew where everything was! My girlfriend helped me to take about 8 bags of old newpapers, magazines and stuff to the recycler and give away stuff I could no longer use. But it never got to this point! Whoa nelly!
this phenomena is not so much a psychological one as it is one that lays it bearing in the realm of philosophy. we live in a fatalist and determined universe, and therefore this occurs. these examples serve to show how choice is an illusion, all order is vain, and freedom is a delusion. no one is ever free. we are all mere players held by strings in a game of fate and solitude.
crasichineseboi 2 months ago
I know that the TV programs are to let people know that they "are not alone", and to know that there is help out there. It's also to help the general public understand the reasons behind the clutter, and to remove misconceptions about the hoarders. UNFORTUNATELY, to get people to pay attention, it has to be entertaining. So, these people are put on TV and humiliated (sigh). I wish there was another way.
AutumnEnergy1 2 months ago
I was at visit in one apartment of a hoarder, what a smelly mess.
/watch?v=4Xd0FsOa5oE
HustlinAllDayLong 4 months ago
I thought this video was just going to give me tips on organizing. :-O
snowsamurai00 5 months ago
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...and later that night: BEHOLD--targeted web ads from my friend's insurance company began popping up, along with the other targeted information you got exclusively from the inconspicuously lowdown Linda C. McCrae and elsewhere. My friend witnessed John Abraham tell you. There is more proof of how he knows you are behind it, but later.
MrFaisel34 5 months ago
Andy, my friend has always known it was you, with assistance, behind the targeted web ads. (Twilight Zone Music here) My friend told John Abraham (supposedly a devout Christian but lies with ease) in the employee kitchen lounge that he used a certain insurance company. When John thought my friend wasn't looking, he marched down the hallway to Andy's office. My friend peaked out the door and watched John Abraham tell Andy Cucchiara about the insurance company my friend used. and...
MrFaisel34 5 months ago
...and later that night: BEHOLD--targeted web ads from my friend's insurance company began popping up, along with the other targeted information you got exclusively from the inconspicuously lowdown Linda C. McCrae and elsewhere. My friend witnessed John Abraham tell you. There is more proof of how he knows you are behind it, but later.
MrFaisel34 5 months ago
Thank Islam Islam enjoins cleanliness everywhere I can not imagine that there are human beings living in this filth
DiamondGlitter21 5 months ago
@DiamondGlitter21
Oh...yeah, that's right there are no muslim hoarders, and no muslim homosexuals ! I remind you that muslims are HUMAN BEINGS, and they suffer from every illness and rejoice in every good thing that everyone else does.
Your religion (nor anyone else's) is a cure for ANY sickness, disease, or disorder. Note; Homosexuality is normal and not a disorder.
AutumnEnergy1 2 months ago
I don't think I'm an actual "hoarder", but I do like to keep stupid junk: /watch?v=mKIh0CvQ0Hs
lifewithoutmywife 5 months ago
i like the music they are using....they make it sound easy,,and i dont know...less overwhelming....
weynkum 6 months ago
Everytime I see this stuff or catch a bit of the Hoarders show I can't help but clean. I understand that this is a mental illness butI cannot wrap my head around it. I'm not a neat freak, I left dishes unattended and clothes on the floor.
Voltronkun 6 months ago
my GOD !!!!!!
sugandhwafai 10 months ago
That song is unfitting. Should have played John Cage. XD
OrangeZebraTree 10 months ago
my friend's apt. was this bad... piles of garbage everywhere.
MY STUFF IS GOOD STUFF, YOUR STUFF IS CRAP!!
Sinjinator 11 months ago
Boy.... I started cleaning my messy apartment today and... I am overwhelmed watching this video. I'd probably kill over if I was facing a cleaning job like any of these.
BeautifulBelovedOne 1 year ago
i feel so these people. i now look at my nice tidy house and feel very lucky
TheSunshineKisses 1 year ago
I know someone who hoards. She feels that if she could send all the things she hoards to a country where the people are desperately in need, she would be able to clear out her house. She has tons of beautiful clothes, shoes (some still in their boxes) and household knick-knacks. She says that she does not want to donate her belongings to Goodwill, because when people buy things cheaply and EBay is too much trouble. Hoarding is a devastating and crippling illness.
TheDarkDresser 1 year ago
@TheDarkDresser I left out the last part "When people by things cheaply, they don't value it as much."
TheDarkDresser 1 year ago
JUST GET RID OF ALL THE STUFF... THROW AWAY ,, TROW AWAY,,, IF YOU DON'T NEED ALL THOSE BOOKS , AND JUNK MAIL.. ... YOUR GETTING BURRIED ALIVE.
DONATE IT... OR JUST THROW IT IN THE TRASH
REX719 1 year ago
Hoarding has become the new "illness of the month" while its sufferers are persecuted on TV for people's amusement. Unfortunately it carries a mugh worse stigma than alcoholism or drug abuse so people who could be helped are afraid to ask for it.
Serenity10000 1 year ago 4
So my mom is a hoarder, for almost as long as I can remember, but I wouldn't say she's disposaphobic. But the problem is she wouldn't really admit she has a problem. She always says she's trying and has a goal, and if you say anything about it, she'll get completely defensive. Is it possible for organizations like yourself, to even help people who wouldn't want to be helped? Where do I even start? This problem has been the crux of the arguments and problems in my family (almost daily).
writofmandamus 1 year ago
@writofmandamus I hear ya man. My mom always has some excuse. My room is spotless but the rest of the house is like walking through a maze of total crap.
DerdleDoo 1 year ago
I recently had to put my mother who has Alzheimer's in a nursing home and when I went into the house there was clutter everywhere! I took me a long time to clean up the house and get rid of all of the stuff that she had been collecting over the years,
hunhun23 1 year ago
Second movement of the Mozart Clarinet Concerto. Adagio. I've been playing it and teaching it for 35 years.
dsrtflwr 1 year ago
they need one in Australia
padswaggle 1 year ago
please: what is the name of the song?
ElCibau 1 year ago
thats not hoarding thats filth.
1weirdgurl 1 year ago
@1weirdgurl No, that really is hoarding. Hoarding often results in filth because when items start swallowing a house, they are impossible to clean. Paper starts to break down. Food starts to rot. And the person gets overwhelmed and stress out. When they stress out they start to hoard more, and it just gets worse. I knew a woman who did this and these pictures looked like her house.
RobingdfelowsLady 1 year ago
you've helped thousands like me...really?!
jetaju 1 year ago
what is the difference in a hoarder..and a lazy person who wont clean the house..most hoarders seem to have mental issues as well.. on one hoarders episode the lady was not attached to all the mess and clutter she was just crazy and lazy and nasty ???
epd0126 1 year ago
@epd0126 Often it starts with serious(suicidal level serious) depression that doesn't get help, or serious anxiety issues. The people don't know how to cope, so hoarding becomes their coping mechanism. They buy things they don't need (and sometimes can't afford. I don't mean huge purchases, but huge amounts of just stuff like baskets and little trinkets, books and shoes, or pillows). Some hoard food. The food gets bad. It rots and they feel like they can't get rid of it from attachment.
RobingdfelowsLady 1 year ago
You should check out my videos on Daniel's Place!
funnymanedgarrivera 1 year ago
Neat hoarders like the book guy are really pretty smart. I have saved everything since high school neatly in boxes. My house & garage are full. I sell around $1000 a month on ebay. I've had books & records $100-$300 each. I don't save garbage but it's hard to discard things that will be future collectibles.
999Atwood 2 years ago
@999Atwood Do you still collect things?Your house may get too full and you need to put stuff in storage.
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
I'm concentrating on selling stuff off.. but still can't resist buying valuable books & records at 2nd hand stores for pennies on their dollar value. I guess I'm different in the fact it doesn't bother me to get rid of an item. I'm more obcessed with hunting treasures at giveaway prices. I had a rare Ike & Tina Turner record sell for $300 that I bought for 50 cents. I just can't see throwing something in the trash I might be able to sell later. But an over stuffed house is the side effect.
999Atwood 2 years ago
Can you sell that Ike and Tina record on ebay for $300?With the sucky economy now,things may be harder to sell.
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
Oh yes, Ebay sells are still strong. Many people out there still have money & a lot of it goes overseas. I want to get this house emptied out but want as much as I can get out of it rather than just give it away or throw it. I don't think that is crazy. My family members are embarrassed I'm sure so that bothers me. My ebay & garage sale totals since 2004 are over $60,000. I don't want to be labeled as a hoarder but I don't want to lose a fortune either getting hasty. I'm really working on it.
999Atwood 2 years ago
Keep selling!!!!:)
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
Atwood - It sounds like you need a business partner, someone to help you get more up and selling. I understand the allure of finding that "deal" that you know will make money but you do need a middle ground. I have one room that's a mess and I've decide it's going! I'm like you, I don't mind getting rid of things either and donate a lot..but you just don't want to give it all away. My problem is keeping my finger off the BID buttons when I'm on eBay. Sell 1 buy 2 does not work! : )
AsasMommy 2 years ago
@999Atwood yes but is the money worth peace and mind of your house and family? Do you spend time living or going through stuff to cash in on someday?
gettinghealthygirl 1 year ago
@999Atwood I started collecting valueable things and now have NO ROOM in my bedroom. Some of it has to go.
grettagrids 2 years ago
I recommend you start cashing it in! The ebay auctions are fun to watch as something you picked up out of the trash stacks up bids. We don't feel so crazy during the sell faze.
999Atwood 2 years ago
You might be a hoarder, but you also might be a collector. My sister is a HOARDER. Hoarders tend not to take care of their things or stack them neatly in boxes. Hoarders save CRAP! So examine your living conditions. Can you invite friends over and not be embarrassed? Do you have friends. There's a big difference between people who collect stuff and people who are hoarders. I know.
cuddleyduddley 2 years ago 12
Mine is all neatly stacked in boxes, I do not save trash or junk. But every room in my house is full. My house looks very much like the book guy in this video. I do have friends but we usually meet at their houses. My niece & nephew love coming here to look through the books & records.
999Atwood 2 years ago
@cuddleyduddley :Wow! Kind of harsh on hoardes.Sounds like your sister needs love and support.
rtp1968 8 months ago
then you are a collector not a hoarder
memacnoca 2 years ago
This video is an advertisement for a business -- but it's not a business I would use because they charge at least $150 just to tell you how much they will charge you to come clean it up! It sounds like a scam because you have to pay them in order to find out how much their services cost !
sem53 2 years ago
easy just get a rolloff dumster put in the lane way and start pitching
vivitar45 2 years ago
Seeing that awful frig makes me feel better about mine.One big shelf is a little dirty so will clean it out soon.I need to get rid of a few things first.
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
Theres a solution. Get off your lazy fucking ass and throw that shit out. Your family is tired of your co dependent Bullshit.
websuspect 2 years ago
To websuspect -- Gee you moron, don't you think the people who suffer from hoarding haven't already thought of your wondrous, new solution of "just throw that shit out" ??? For them, it's not that easy --- even if they want to just throw it out -- they find they just can't. Your lack of understanding is hateful and worse than being a hoarder.
sem53 2 years ago 4
my boyfriend to a t,i'm at the point of giving up....
ilovety65 2 years ago
I thnk it's very clear that a compulsive hoarder (well some) don't see this situation as a health issue. I have a roommate that doesn't see her own problem. However she will see the previews on tv about hoarders and will act shocked and go upstairs as if it doesn't look exactly like her room. Her car is packed to the brink. I feel angry at her laziness. Because she is lazy
63611400 2 years ago
@63611400 Why don't you move out or kick out the roomate?
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
It's real basic and unfortunate. I have had to move 3 times in the last 7 years due to office closings. This is a coworker. Meaning someone I can trust. In order to keep my home I have to split rent. Moving to a new place knowing no one exposes you to all strangers so you stick with people you know. She was my only choice. I keep her in one room. Along with this illness she has she has exposed some personality defects.She has exposed herself as a person with factitious disorder. look it up. whew
63611400 2 years ago
Wow.I wish you could find a new roomate tho,maybe you can someday.Does your roomate clean up after herself in the bathroom and kitchen?
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
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LivingSuccess247 2 years ago
I've heard someone say that your surroundings are a reflection of your inner thought processes.
This in turn affects you back,reminding you of unfinished projects and creates a closed feedback loop,where you tune out your surroundings and escape or distract yourself.
I should like to see a "Scientific Psychological approach to cleaning a room!
will4ward 2 years ago
I dont feel overwelmed I feel grossed out. I cant understand how people can let it go that far. The gy with the books is understandable it didnt look messy it look like he ran out of room for the books, but the rest of them are dirty. like garbage. Not clutered. it looks like a dump. I guess they really do need help. yikes. :(
crewlla 2 years ago
Yes, it is a form of OCD, and one thing I've noticed looking at those pictures is they look like nests that birds and some animals make--kind of a security thing. Some others I've seen are true hoarders with actual collections or compulsive shoppers. One show sorted it all, and it filled up a warehouse which they made a lot of money from, but that is rare. AspieCub that sounds like a good plan for most situations because all this gentle handling they do on the Hoarders show will never work!
epmelodygirl 2 years ago
I have a roommate that is a hoarder. My roommate got a new car in April and by Oct one would wonder if it was legal because crap packed even with the windows in the back. things roll from the back to the front. You literly have to climb out of this thing. It's ALLLLL trash with a few things from the dollar store. They are unstopable. sick sick sick. She also has a couple of personality disorders mostly attentions getters. factitious disorder what blows me away shes CLUELESS
63611400 2 years ago
I almost feel good about my slightly messy house...I wonder if the house is a reflection of what is going on internally.
waitEveryday 2 years ago
ocd
iraqidolphin 2 years ago
Good video, just wanted to know who the music was/is by and as much info as you can give me, thanks.
nickelback2727 2 years ago
Watch the new show on A and E called Hoarders.Its on at ten p m Monday nights.
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
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Fuck all this damn pansy ass hippie "stop judging" shit. This is not an illness or a condition... it's just people who are fucking lazy, dirty SLOBS... and/or people that need to be fucking locked in a rubber room wearing a straitjacket.
GET A LIFE LOSERS
junior2004hasz 2 years ago
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damn how lazy are these people, just throw it away fuckin shit!
GhostOfRockyHorror 2 years ago
Lets stop judging these people and give them the tools where to begin.
1. Get them out of the house.
2. Get rid of that trash!
3. Make 3 piles of different items after 75% of the JUNK has been gone!
4. Don't tell those people where their junk went.
AspieCub 2 years ago
The thing is you can't just throw away their stuff, they've done studies on it, they have to do it with a lot help and support. They've become attached to the papers and the other items that they have. It's a very slow and daunting process. What's needed is: patience, understanding, dumpster, garbage bags, boxes, markers to number & label the boxes, a notebooks to write down what's in what box, a storage unit, therapy, & possibly medication for depression and for the anxiety.
hannahwig 2 years ago
You obviously don't understand this illness.Come to my house and try that if you touched her stuff she would have you behind bars.This is a combination of mental illness and laziness. I have to disagree with many. Laziness is a factor. I live with a hoarder. Lazy is my roommate. She will wait until I would come home from a limb amputation so I could clean the bathroom ( I didn't have a limb removed) but this is no stretch at all, she would. I believe I hate my roommate.
63611400 2 years ago
@63611400 : Sounds like your roomate has a mental issues more than laziness.
rtp1968 8 months ago
You can be evicted from an apartment if your manager or landlord were to see your place like this. Its a serious health issue and it produces a lot of weight on the floor of the apartment.
Mikeexcites29 2 years ago
Please tell me the name of the beautiful piece of music in this video.
knitpicker2k 2 years ago
its from the film 'out of africa'
mjmanning123 2 years ago
Thank you!
knitpicker2k 2 years ago
I think that it is an Oboe Concerto by Mozart.
lisagarden 2 years ago
Pretty close! I found it on Amazon. It is: Mozart: Concerto For Clarinet And Orchestra In A (K. 622) (or at least a part of it) Thanks to both of you for putting me on the right track, (so to speak).
knitpicker2k 2 years ago
honest to God....I cleaned up my condo after seeing this......it was getting to be "boarderline" on the excessive clutter
inkey2 2 years ago
i can understanding hoarding things like magazines etc......but why save bags of trash
inkey2 2 years ago
It's a mental disorder, I think.
BrittenLi 2 years ago 2
A good story.....my late father told me this story, it happened many years ago. There was a relitive, a lady whos husband died fairly young. Well, she became a recluse and when she eventually died someone finally got inside the house. It was just filled with stacks of newspapers, magazines so bad that there was barely space to get to all the rooms....truly a fire hazard. Eventually after sifting through all the crap.....they found about $100,000 in CASH ....
inkey2 2 years ago
I can see hoarding things that have some value....but hoarding garbage and trash I dont understand....
inkey2 2 years ago 2
My late mother grew up in the Great Depression.You saved everything.That mentality really never left her but her last home was pretty neat.She gave me a lot of old antiques and got rid of the clutter to move into a smaller home.Now I have too much clutter and am trying to get rid of it,its slow going.
HattieLovesCattie 2 years ago
I would just throw it all out
Zimmiez 3 years ago
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Not all those photos were of people hoarding material. Some were just of nasty lazy ass pieces of shit.
kaos3124 3 years ago
I can't believe this. Well, once a lady died because her own clutter avalanched on her. This is deadly.
eileencepeda 3 years ago
How do keep your home clean when you live with people with disorders? Sometimes you feel like torching everything.
mydeardiaries 3 years ago 4
I feel you! My wife and I moved in with her g-ma to "help with the house". She's a hoarder and for everything I throw away, she collects twice as much. I know that her crap in her bedroom WILL avalanche on her and kill her but my wife won't help. What do I do?
gwynnypoo 2 years ago
Social Services should do an investigation if this is a safety hazard.
meddetect10 2 years ago
Give them one area and let them know that if their clutter gathers at any other part of the house, it will be thrown out-and if they deviate from their assigned area, throw the clutter out.
meddetect10 2 years ago
omg! I can't believe people live like this! I don't even like a disorganized closet!!
1michellemarie 3 years ago
when I was a kid, I knew a 80 yr old lady who live like this.
mydeardiaries 3 years ago
Disoposobia is not the only reason for clutter. What about people who don't have "the fear of getting rid of things" but they are just lazy? How do you tell the difference between someone who is lazy and someone else with a phobia? What is the help for the lazy person?
azazgirl777 3 years ago
well the difference really is that a lazy person can throw things away they just dont because they are lazy and a hoarder can not throw things away and has an anxiety attack when they try because they think they have to keep everything.
pallortor 3 years ago 4
Oh, I see. Thanks!
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JBrox131 3 years ago
wow, that is a beautiful house too with a fireplace, behind all the clutter of course.
Driven763 3 years ago
this problem has gone on to long
bring it out in the open
both my parnts are hoarders i am a minamalist now i had to fix my self (thanks mom&dad i still love you both)
HOARD INFO IT DOES NOT FILL YOUR HOUSE ONLY YOUR HEAD
boswellchrome 3 years ago 3
These people are ill, a cluttered mind makes a cluttered house, dull boze the lot lol
cyrex94 3 years ago
dull boze it hu?
nicolemama3 3 years ago 2
My Grandmother is a hoarder. I feel sorry for her because she is very old and she lives far away from us so we have a time hard to help her. The only person who cleans her hosue is my aunt who is lives across the street from her house. It is impossible to throw away anything. It is always difficult but we are trying the best we can to help her.
Reverie626 3 years ago
My Grandmother is a hoarder. I feel sorry for her because she is very old and she lives far away from us so we have a hard to helping. The only person who cleans her hosue is my aunt who is lives across the street from her house. It is impossible to throw away anything. It is always difficult but we are trying the best we can to help her.
Reverie626 3 years ago
I hope I won't ever get that bad...my room is full of stuff that I just can't bear to throw away, like my design school projects...
jaggae 3 years ago
Design school projects are ART. I was told NEVER to throw away art, even sketchbooks. Of course, some things you can store electronically.
So long as you aren't saving pencil shavings and old underwear you will probably turn out OK. Keep the design projects.
totallybarefoot 3 years ago 3
i've only thrown away 1 design project, because it's too big. It was a lampshade made of my own handmade paper glued to a structure made of bamboo. It was about 5x3x3ft (150x90x90cm). Kept it for a year but my room got crowded and was collecting plenty of dust...so finally into the dumpster.
jaggae 3 years ago
I sold an A2 print to the school and gave 4 A0 posters to my lecturer who liked them alot. What I hv left is 2 dozens of work on A2 boards, about a dozen A3 documentation booklets, 8 1x1ft wooden frames of art, at least 4 envelopes of photo paper, some packaging items...and yeah the sketchbooks :)
I hv a turntable, a keyboard, a skateboard, a basketball and a badminton racket; all hvnt been used for ages...and abt 100 old music mags
jaggae 3 years ago
Some people save even their urine.
meddetect10 2 years ago
These people probably have a good gene--one for thrift and a dislike to throw good things away. They need help not bringing clutter in to their homes.
It's not so praiseworthy to fill the land fills with stupid crap from Wal-mart you bought in December and toss in January, then buy more in January, to toss in Febuary...
totallybarefoot 3 years ago
I am not judging the people who live like this because a close friend of mine does. But I don't get it. I just don't get it. Is it really that hard to take out the trash, wash the dishes, toss in a load of laundry, and sort the paperwork? I do this every day and spend no more than 30 minutes a day on what I call life maintenance. I've had messes, I've had clutter, but I don't understand that level of mess. Don't tell me they are disabled, obviously they were able to drag it inside somehow.
toounfazed 3 years ago
It's easy when one dishwasher load and one washing machine load gets your kitchen clean and your laundry mostly done. But imagine if for some reason you let these things build up for even one week, two weeks? A MONTH? It would be a big chore to get through it. It would not be life maintainance, but life recovery, literally, getting your life back.
I do the 30" a day thing too, but I started with really big house, (room to stash now, sort later)
totallybarefoot 3 years ago
Believe me, I understand how the clutter happens. I had a accident and was laid up with surgeries and couldn't walk for nearly two years. That was in a four bedroom house with two living rooms, huge basement, attics, and a storage room. And with next to no help. I have a friend who lives like that video. She is college educated, has fibromyalgia. She doesn't have the "energy" to do the dishes once I've cleaned the kitchen top to bottom and declutter it, but she has plenty of energy to buy
toounfazed 3 years ago
more stuff and drag it into the house. I stayed with her for several months to help clean the place up. We both knew that the "stuff" was a representation of postponed decisions. But I can't understand how she can clutter the rooms up within HOURS of me clearing and cleaning them at her begging request. She asked and with help we got the kitchen, bathroom, living room, dining room, and bathroom looking like home beautiful! Within HOURS the rooms were trashed, seriously trashed!
toounfazed 3 years ago
The volunteers, some young teens, had tears in their eyes. How can someone disrespect our hard work so badly? How disabled can you really be if you have the energy and ability to shop for hours, to dump bags of your treasures all over the floor, and sit stuffing your face watching tv while the clutter breeds in front of you? Sorry, venting now. That is the last time I'll help anyone like that. She gets regular psychiatric care and is prone to diagnose others mental and mood disorders. So,
toounfazed 3 years ago 2
forgive me if I cannot understand how she can live like that. I think I'm allowed the wonder of it all. Of course there are some deep psychological issues at work. Of course I'm not judging how she lives. But I am judging how committed she really is when her actions disrespect me and others. I am judging whether it is greed or avarice or laziness that causes people to hoard so much stuff that will never be used and is thus wasted. The world is too small for that much wastefulness!
toounfazed 3 years ago
In her case, this may be psychological, part of her mental illness. She's not doing it to disrespect you, she does it because it's her symptom. You have been very kind to care and put in your labour and effort to get her safe and comfortable, but if she won't maintain it, you can't devote your whole life to her and her clutter.
Maybe she will find some cure herself, through medicine, meditation, some insight about what she is doing to herself and start decluttering on her own.
totallybarefoot 3 years ago 3
Where does she get the MONEY to keep buying more and more stuff that she doesn't really need? I don't have any money left after buying, gas, groceries, and paying utilities.
Jibbie49 3 years ago
She lives on social security disability and a teachers disability check. She is NOT disabled. There is more than enough energy and stamina to shop and bring home the loot. I feel bad for disabled people who really need the income when I see it wasted this way.
toounfazed 3 years ago
Helping people with mental disorders is the hardest! I salute you for your efforts!
Check out: "How Clean is YOur House" -----see it on youtube!
GilliganOX 3 years ago 7
i understand some people's compulsion for hoarding but keeping the styro plates and cups in your house? what is that? that's not hoarding anymore...it's something else.
isat214 3 years ago
I agree. The trash is what I can't understand. Yes, we have trash that builds up sometimes in our house, and yes, it is very messy sometimes, but I always get to a point where I come through with a garbage bag and do a big sweep. I can't see throwing that on the floor. Which is how I know these people have a mental disorder.
wayclean 3 years ago
I always criticized my housekeeping, but I cannot stand trash in the house, and especially not on the floor! The refrigerator-same thing. If it is no good THROW IT AWAY!
meddetect10 2 years ago
ok this video definately made me feel better about myself and my cluttered house. Mine isn't even a tiny bit like any of those pics I saw, thank goodness!
felistigris76 3 years ago
Videos like these make me feel so much better about myself. No matter how bad my house gets, it's not THIS bad. But I do feel sorry for these people and it is a mental disorder.
wayclean 4 years ago
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WTF those people are stupid.
SteveSmith26 4 years ago
No...Im not stupid.
fifilaruemissie 4 years ago
WOW!~
Thanks for posting this- I watch this stuff for a few minutes to get motivated to do the dishes and vacuum. I feel bad for people with this problem and try not to judge them harshly. Going to the thrift shop makes me want to go home and get rid of stuff too since it's all just "stuff". We all have our problems and our vices. Try to be helpful to those we know and love whose problem is hoarding and clutter and be glad it isn't your personal issue:)
gypsianna 4 years ago
Whoa nelly! I thought I was bad,but not that bad!
OptimusPrimus001 4 years ago
DAMN!
dopehousex3 4 years ago
oh my gosh! is that the refrigerator???
pyonika 4 years ago
I am a pathological hoarder. That house looks alot like mine. I wish there were more help in the UK for us. xxx
BarbedWireHalo 4 years ago
Call Kim and Aggie.
missannekol1 4 years ago 2
I genuinely considered something like that but I think it has done me more good to work through the problem myself.
BarbedWireHalo 3 years ago
Oh man, a house worse than mine! Mine was almost this bad, the old guy with stacks actually looked more organized than me, but I knew where everything was! My girlfriend helped me to take about 8 bags of old newpapers, magazines and stuff to the recycler and give away stuff I could no longer use. But it never got to this point! Whoa nelly!
Babetta9 4 years ago
they mustve had a BIG party but Wow!
velli8 4 years ago
Whoa!
SGIBSON3069 4 years ago
Wow!
n14e5o15 5 years ago
Wow!
retrobg 5 years ago
Wow!
theplan06 5 years ago