Relationship Advice: How Powerful Is Your Vagina?

[yamahog2000]

wow substance abuse 

[arcee500]

As men, we must learn to respect women a lot better. A sex with a woman is a gift from God, especially if it we are married to her. No one should hurt no one.

[spj771]

too many stupid women who give it up so easy... how about women who dress like a stripper but want to be taken serious lol should do something on that.

that being said, there are lots of guys who do stupid things too, not just picking on the ladies :D

[prettypink2100]

5 ;)

[purpletwixle66]

you say diva alot =)

[DeadHeart150]

A woman can use sex to get whatever she wants if she know how! Its not about giving it up, its when to give it up. Make a man wait and keep him interested in the mean time, then make that wait more than worth it and make him feel more of a man than ever not by faking but by showing him how to please you. And when we mess up (and we will) cut him off quick. He wont do that shit no more. You'll be his fix. His reward for loving you. Trust me it works. Thats what we do to y'all!

[rafaeljtjr777]

yeah but sooner or later you will drop those panties

[YentaY0]

Diva bling... you could be telling the truth, but you are surrounded by bling bullshit

[JReal211]

I have to say that this very true!

[KN0WLEGE562]

true but not all men will stick around just cause you dont give it up cause the biggest hoes be the one trying to prove ther not one or holding out on sex

[RoyalNicolex]

Love her & her advice (:

#Young'Diva

[Drmannyg123]

The analogies with the deer are particularly bad but I think that this is great advice for woman is it is incredibly true. Any man can get a whore, we look for the whores in the bedroom but the very hard to get ladies in the real world. That would be a PERFECT combination.

[tanneshaandahmed]

I feel you on this

[lashonnalard]

This is so true!!!!!!! It's sad that many women still do not realize this......

[mba2ceo]

Why would a rich woman want to get marriage ?

[Jaraviyana]

AWESOME!!!! YOu get 100 stars!! this is so true!! forget the idiots who disagree too....tell the truth girl...God Bless you!!

[babe10153]

thanks for posting:)!!

[AngelGBaby]

love ya hair.true vid!!

[swordofthefallen]

fuck this more PUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSYYYYYYYYYYYY

AND MEN DONT FIND VALUE IN THINGS...AND THE MAN ALSO GUT THE DEER INTO BITS AND RIP THER GUTS OUT

[swordofthefallen]

fuck this more PUSSSSSSSSSSSSSSYYYYYYYYYYYY

[swordofthefallen]

Do u have a penis?

[DoomCity202]

if a woman over 21 doesnt realize by now that pussy cant keep a man she is lost...i dont care how good or bad your pussy is...thats not the determining factor for a man staying with you...its all in your attitude..Its easy to put on make up and a freak um dress to catch a man...thats the easy part..keeping a man is the hardest part for yall as yall meet men all day..If you are shallow you will get cheated on and left no matter how fine you are or how phat your ass and titties are.recognize.

[absentminded20]

tell it shay, tell it girl !!!!!

[MichyGW]

I love this. good good.

[reloadedperspectiv10]

makes sense...love these videos!

[Mrbaltimore2001]

You are so right about that. As a man when you come into contact with a woman for the first, guys can pick up a vibe on what she's about.

Most times when a guy approaches you he already has in his mind up if he wants to have sex with you or get to really know you.

And that's determined by how a female dresses, speaks, and carries herself.

[BeautifulSoultress]

very pretty, your what i expect my bff to like like in a few years, once she comes into her "woman hood" a bit more lol, but i love the advice your giving. Ive been blessed with the gift of know(what i like to call it) myself, and i like your vids b/c your saying a lot of what i tell those who ask me all the time. Its nice to hear someone else reiderate it(let me know im talking right) keep taliking hunny.

[Angetica]

i just subbed.... i dont know how i came across your videos but im glad i did.....you got me feeling like im in church....i love it...lol

[pinkserenity03]

Love you and I admire you so much thank you for all your great advices you're amazing :)

[TheSoctress]

I thoroughly enjoyed this message! It encourages me to maintain patience and be optimistic about connecting with the right guy for me. Thanks!!

[firefox8192]

what is a diva?

[TheSoctress]

A diva is a female version of a hustler, of a hustler, of a, of a, hustler!

[SweeetPrincessa]

Like NOT AT ALL!!  lol

[JayJayGrady4U]

...she calls women 'divas' and men 'boos'

[drestack75]

As one of ya boos i am so glad u posted this video. a women can not use sex to get romance, respect,or a relationship

[DeadHeart150]

@drestack75 A woman can use sex to get whatever she wants if she know how! Its not about giving it up, its when to give it up. Make a man wait and keep him interested in the mean time, then make that wait more than worth it and make him feel more of a man than ever not by faking but by showing him how to please you. And when we mess up (and we will) cut him off quick. He wont do that shit no more. You'll be his fix. His reward for loving you. Trust me it works. Thats what we do to y'all!

[brooklynsfinest]

Deers don't have jobs. If they did they'd buy lunch at times, lol

[midnight7sunz]

we guys talk about this allll the time...............if a sista who only wants 6ft and up brothas ...her choice (but gets let down or dogged out by those guys year after year) .....but still claims that there are no good available black men .......are those women insane in your view

ps yes i know shorter men are adverse as well - but the question leans toward if you box your options your only dating 25% OF THE WORLD AND complaining about the whole 100%

what do u think

[Ortancis22]

and the same thing goes for men who will only go for the type of women they see in videos and magazines...but claim that there are only ho's available

[1brightchick]

Thank you for this video! It needs to be shared with every female alive.

[mathgenie]

You are so right. It has always been that way. You just have a 'real' way of putting it. Bottom line, men are so into the chase.

[reeree88]

Amen ........plz say it again Diva!

[datkidceddy]

shes hot

[FierceTigertrist]

thankx

[anuolu7]

Hear, hear shay!!! You are dead on right.

[luvcoco05]

You are TOOOOO MUCH! "When do you see a deer buy a hunter lunch!" Got to put that one on the fridge! Love it!

[Zazen777]

You are 100% correct. Let the man pursue you. You have to have something going for you and you have to be challenging. I know about this first hand. Have some self respect, a little mystery and you will be surprised how many men want you.

[frogzkande]

Love you girl. You are always so on point! Thanks for all that you do for us.

[TheQaleidoscope]

shay you are the truth. I bought your new book and it is the bomb!! you have helped me in my life so much thank you for sharing with us divas.

[whatkindaboi]

She's speaking truth. Keep your legs closed & be sweet. Simple.

[yesinia]

kUDOS...

[ferre77]

Shay you look beautiful!!!!!!!!!

[kevinferere]

Hey thaks for the love on twitter. FYI That link I sent you was a preview, but you can make the purchase on that link.

[Caron02]

Nice video Shay! Love the Hair!

[Silentbutdeadly07]

Awesome vid!! You speak truth. I'd love to see you and Skyy John converse.

[1984Akeem]

Shay vs. Skyy John would be hilarious...

[lburianek]

I don't no any Strippers or Pro that want to be married and if they want they can find that guy but you are right some guys like the chase and that may be why the divorce rate is high the virhina was not good and we have attitude.

[megahozer13]

Finally thank you for telling all these stupid girls

[BaldButWigged]

good video.

faved it.

[2009juicyfruit]

i WATCH YOU EVERYNIGHT AND ALTHOUGH i AM NOT SLUTTY I hurt inside when I watch your videos because my mama never told me this shit ! I am 24 years ol no kids and moving to Dallas in 2 weeks to just...Start over. I want to mature in dating NOT FIND A MAN.( its beautiful but not really a GOAL) And ur wisdom is ... I cant even tell you How much we love your gift. I feel as if I have the same calling im just trying to find out how to convey it. Its Bottom line, thank you. . Dating here I come !

[merco80]

Uh Dallas may not be the place for you. It is a very superficial place full of a lot pretentious people. Looks, money, and sex define the DFW area. It's not exactly a place a woman like yourself can "start over" in. If you think you are not slutty now, if you give yourself over to the DFW area lifestyle, honey you'll be one of the biggest sluts out there

[mysterymami08]

Hate to inform you of this but I have been here a little over a year and the dating scene sucks in my opinion. but hey it may be different for you...

[blkberryshake]

amen this a lesson of a life time

[tellyintokyo]

Why shouldn't we listen to this?

It's about 95% true and not much of a secret.

I feel like adding some complication from the man's point of view, but I'll refrain.

I will say that I do not agree that it is only the younger ladies who have this problem.  I have met many over 35.

[likwid2kg]

You are looking exceptionally beautiful in this vid

[marrylu]

this is so true.

[bettescorpio]

LOL!!!!!!!! I LOVE your videos...

[IONENABILLION]

Shay, I agree with you wholeheartedly. Women need to understand that sex doesn't translate into a man respecting and loving you. He can have sex with you a 1000 times and still not care about you. And these women continue to use their bodies as pawns and it usually leads to bitterness, resentment, bad reputation, multiple baby daddies, and regular chants about how men ain't ish when they were the common denominator all along.

[lovein30days]

WOW!!! Great comment! You get 5 stars for that post:)

SYDD

[DeadHeart150]

@lovein30days You so damn fine you look unreal like somebody made you in lab. Your face displays perfection! Your man is very lucky (long as you aint secretly crazy). I could imagine enjoying you infinitely for eternity. Never a dull moment!

[Jarreau24]

@IONENABILLION Excellent video and u are keeping it real and whoever gets mad oh well kep speaking on the real and may God bless you, JT

[twalk2008]

we'll see shay, get them right.

[phillymogul]

Shay you really set it straight on this one. Its nothing new, you're just passing down age old wisdom. This is what males and females have to get back to because we're in a state of chaos when it comes to relationships. Everyone isn't equipped to be in a relationship. A lot of people don't even know what is required and are running from one person to the next like a chicken with their head cut off. Glad you're here to help those that seek it:)

[Lesheena]

Preach!!! I love this! Great illustrations and analogies.. This a wonderful message for all women. Legs closed = better treatment. And even if you didnt get better treatment...IT DOESNT MATTER! Because you do not have the emotional bond with him and you did not give him access to your body!

[AtlantaAngel84]

Great video Shay! Keep blessing us with knowledge.

[Devine5188]

GREAT POINT!! Totally agree and congratulations on your marriage wish you much happness. Hopefully I will be there someday.

[keyntat]

good video, we really need to relate this subject to our young ladies.

[hugandkissme33]

So true can I tell you even the young ladies who know deep within that this isn't the way to go still get lost and caught up in a negative self cycle self confidence has a lot to do with younger girls just giving in all too soon without good reason. Fear of rejection and loneliness young teens are facing a lot these days Shay you should have a book for teen girls especially

[lovein30days]

Thxs sweetie:)

SYDD

[KissMyButtOk]

LOL@ liquid sunshine! I am in full agreeance with you, this is what I also believe and live by. I'm also very selfish with my body :-) There is no way a man will fool me again ...learned my lesson once :P I'm celibate and staying that way until Mr. Right comes along. There is no rush! Thanks for this video. It's my favorite of yours :D

[xhellokittyx465]

more women need to be like you, seriously.

[TwelveChariots]

Black women are too horny that's why they can't keep their legs closed.

[lovein30days]

Your comment is ignorant and unnecessary. Many women all over the world of ALL races are making the same mistakes. Dont use my videos as your platform to make ignorant racist comments!

SYDD

[ncfwhitetigress]

Hey! White women are horny too. I know from firsthand experience.

[AtlantaAngel84]

fuck off cum guzzler.

[TwelveChariots]

It's ok to disagree with me. but i am a man. and you WILL respect me!

[magirecords2004]

Ya'll thought I was lying about Atlanta lol!

[eritreasunshine]

LOL @ twelvechariots

[ncfwhitetigress]

It's not even funny how much I agree with this video.

[stellamariaf]

I don't want to be a deer head on some guys wall. :( Bad analogy diva.

[ncfwhitetigress]

Agreed I don't really take well to the "men are hunters, women are prey" analogy, though I hear it quite a lot.

[lovein30days]

The POINT DIVAs is that you are the prize, you are THE ONE he is to chase and work for. Whether you like it or not, Men are hunters and competitive by nature. If you understand the idea behind the deer - hunter concept, you will understand how to deal with men and capture the right guys heart. This is not a game of chance. The women who constantly get hurt seem to miss this fact.

With Love

Shay Your Date Diva

[KissMyButtOk]

Just out o curiosity, where did you meet your fiance/husband?

[KissMyButtOk]

*of

[lovein30days]

I met my husband on eharmony :) I have a video about it called: Online Dating- How Shay Your Date Diva Found True Love...

SYDD

[valambiguous]

Good video!

[ColorWaters]

Thank you for this video. With society telling you different and the years of being alone are starting to add up it is good to hear and confirm how one should continue to conduct oneself.