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  • People say that marriage should be between a man and a woman and that having same-sex couples would ruin the institution and yet the divorce rate in the nation between a man and woman is over 50%. With that ask yourself, "who's really ruining the institution?"

  • @aarowsmith You have a problem with down syndrome people? And as far as nature goes, there are animals who do the same sex (dolphins, black swans), some species being 100% bisexual. But homophobics are only found in humans. So who's being natural? yes, there is a large number of gays who are irritating, promiscuous, drug addicts, etc. But not all of them. A lot of gay men I know are a bit homophobic, mainly because they cannot find a nice guy. But a lot of heterosexual people are that way too.

  • 1 man 1 woman god this and that... ever hear of separation of church and state? And States and Countries allow it, and in America 55% over half and still growing are fine with gay marriage

  • death to christians

  • Grow up

  • not often that a youtube video's ratings and comments get almost 100 percent dominated by christian homophobes

  • what the hell's happenin in this world x(

  • I can't believe that this happened in Iowa!

  • This is beautiful.

    Gay marriage is now possible, not only in the northeast, but in America's God-fearing heartland.

    Gay marriage is now legal in both Iowa & New Hampshire, the 2 states that ultimately determine who becomes president and what direction this nation goes in.

  • @ehealthy222 Perhaps Iowa should put gay marriage to a vote of the people just like in California! In case you are wondering California voted down gay marriage. Conservative Iowa would do the same. It is obvious that the liberals that brought this abomination on Iowa could give a hoot about the will of the people of Iowa or democracy for that matter.

  • @rrmfg Polls show Iowa is evenly split on gay marriage.

    and you're an idiot if you think civil rights should be taken away by public vote.

    Whether you like it or not, Gay marriage is here to stay in Iowa, the center of America's Heartland.

    Iowa's legislature will not allow such an amendment to be put on the ballot.

    The leaders of both the house and senate have prevented that from happening.

    So you can suck on that.

  • Homosexual marriage is a civil right? Aside from activist judges saying it's a "civil right" where do rights come from other than God, as claimed in the American declaration of Independence, or if you are an agnostic the consensus of society. Consensus of society being a in the form of a referendum. Liberals so love the word "democracy" however they will bend over backwards to prevent a vote if they know they might loose.

  • Our government was founded on the notion of religious freedom. There is no national religion in the US. The First Amend. guarantees the right to practice any religion you choose. So your God can have no bearing on the laws of this nation. The US is a democracy, but an impure one. A representative democracy involves voting for politicians who act as your proxies. Not voting in a referendum whenever you're pissed off about what your reps are doing. If you don't like them, vote them the hell out.

  • @rrmfg I don't know why I'm bothering trying to explain this to you since you probably still won't get it, but democracy means that a majority elects representative leaders and decides referendum issues. The U.S. Constitution says that that majority becomes tyrannical if it begins to deny Americans rights, which is why we have the 13th and 14th Amendments to the Constitution (civil liberties, equal protections, due process, and freedom from discrimination for ALL Americans, including LGBT ones).

  • @cathlicscholboy4life Homosexuality is a mental disorder not a life style. Black people are black because their creator deemed it fit, thus to deny them the same rights spelled out in the constitution is wrong. But to deny sexual deviants the right to marry is in keeping with the values of our society. Moreover, our society has time and again rejected same sex marriage. But in your radical leftist world view only the liberalism is valid and should be imposed on our society against its will.

  • @rrmfg The American Medical Association has been saying for YEARS that homosexuality is normal and is not a medical disorder. A majority of doctors and mental health experts in this country have the same view. Also, I don't know if you know this, but a majority of Americans SUPPORT same sex marriage. They have since last year. You can Google the polls yourself. The mere fact that society has repeatedly rejected something in the past does not make it morally wrong (integration, miscegony, etc).

  • ...so to say that we're "imposing" our will on anyone is just false. Most people agree with us now, so same sex marriage is the will of the American people. This shouldn't be framed as a liberal/conservative issue, because there are plenty of gay conservatives. Given the fact that same sex marriage wouldn't affect you at all, it's you who wants to impose your will on us and keep us from having our loving relationships recognized and respected. It's cruel and spiteful.

  • @cathlicscholboy4life

    This shouldn't be a political issue. It's human rights and civil rights.

  • The California case is not over.

    The federal case is not over.

    The federal government did override the will of the popular majority on school segregation, and anti-miscegenation.

    If the US Constitution is upheld, the federal government will override the popular majority on gay marriage.

    Civil rights are not a popularity contest.

  • Chuck Hurley makes me want to hurl.

  • who's business is it and who has any right to dictate what THEY think is right. Thats like telling an African American that I dont care if you use the bathroom we just dont want you to use the one for whites.

  • And by the way, I do believe. I believe in the observable fact that consciousness gives rise to reality. I believe that separation is illusion. I believe that enlightenment, which is the end of delusion and suffering is indescribable in thoughts and can only be experienced. I believe that the fact that things exist instead of nothingness is a miracle, but that this in no way requires a diety figure.

  • To put it briefly, living things change from generation to generation. Changes that help them live and pass their genes on get selected for and become more common on the average. Thus populations of living things change over the course of generations.

  • Evolution is based on natural selection, which has been observed and recorded in nature. The principle is that organisms reproduce themselves inexactly, which holds true for all sexual organisms and even many asexual organisms. Genetic drift means that changes in a genome due to meiosis result in mutations in phenotype. These mutations may or may not affect an organism's chance of survival and reproduction. The mutations that enhance this chance get selected for on average and become more common

  • Interesting thing about the cross symbol, pagan religions were using it before Christianity was. The Tree of Life, the Sephiroth of the Qabbala, the caduceus, Yggdrasil, it even bears some resemblance to Mount Meru.

  • Oh how interesting, it's a basic protein molecule that, when stretched out in a way that makes it easier to see but in a way that it doesn't actually appear in nature because proteins are only actually useful to biological processes when they're folded into bunches . . drives religious Christians into conniptions of zeal. Mostly because people see what they want to see and project concepts onto unrelated phenomena.Have I told you about how Buddhist metaphysics predicted a lot of quantum physics?

  • I'm not exactly quoting, it's a polite term meant to show respect for the other person, and I'm a bit put off at the reaction I got.

    Can you look up the definition of ethnocentricity for me?

  • Wow, I'm not quite sure how to express just how disrespectful I find this.

    Umm . . ok, tell me something: Does your god need people to worship it? Would it be fine without worshipers, or does it need to be worshiped somehow?

  • Err . . my name isn't namaste, namaste is an honorable gesture (palms together, bowing toward the other person) that means, "What is holy in me honors what is holy in you." more or less.

  • The court has disagreed with you and decided that every American has the fundamental right to choose their own spouse, despite inborn, intrinsic characteristics about oneself, like sex.

    What you're saying is that my love for my husband is not the same as s straight man's love for his wife, and that you have no right saying.

  • Well thank you for conceding victory in the culture war. At last you realize that justice and equality will happen, no matter how much you want to repress people who don't fit into your ideal religious image. I hope you peace and wisdom on your path, and that maybe one day you will realize true compassion and unconditional love for humanity.

    Namaste

  • parties with straight friends and still trying to date girls, but never worked because there was no sexual attraction. Now I would consider myself a hypocrite if I tried to date a woman. Everything would go alright until I would have to have sex with her. Even though I would like to have sex with her I wouldn't be able to because I don't get that feeling of arousal that you get. Just put yourself in my position and then talk about it.

  • Ummmmm....

    So... you get sexually aroused by the imagery of one man sticking his penis in another mans anus?

    You don't find that in the slightest bit disgusting/wrong?

    Explain it to me. I live in Iowa, I am going to have to deal with every fag across the country migrating here. I don't even get a say in what happens, how is that not violating on my "rights"?

  • That's quite a personal question, but no I don't find it disgusting or wrong.

    What I do find disturbing is the implication that you can use personal disgust to determine the law. If that were so, then someone else could just as easily use personal disgust of vaginal sex to outlaw straight marriages.

    That kind of reasoning doesn't cut it when you're trying to actually use, you know . . logic?

  • You don't have the right to ban people from your entire state. Gay people have as much right as any other American to come to Iowa.

  • Now you're the one confused you're comparing people (creeps) who choose to do those things to sexual orientation. I don't like to use myself as an example but I was raised in a christian home, never was thought anything about homosexuality and always wanted to get married and have kids. I look like a straight guy and act just like one, that's just the way I am. You would be able to tell I'm by just looking at me. Throughout High School I always hanged out with straight people and went to

  • Marriage did NOT start out as a religious ceremony. It was around a long time before religion.

  • That is not why the APA removed homosexuality. They didn't need ground breaking evidence, they simply realised that homosexuality is the only one which requires to consentual partners. As the people invovled are consentual, it could no longer justifiably be called a disorder. That is why it is not considered a disorder and why the disorders they have listed are there. THAT is the logical answer.

  • Why then has marriage been described as a civil right in a number of court cases not involving homosexuals? Why is it a right for some and not others?

    No one said that slavery is the same as gay marriage, I don't understand where you got that from. You can't choose to be gay or straight. Even the conversion places don't say that they change a person's homosexuality, they simply stop a person committing homosexual acts. Similarly, a straight acting person who "goes gay" will have ALWAYS been gay.

  • gay men can adopt silly

  • @starryeyedbeautypie Not in Florida :(

  • well did your parents ever teach you to like females when you were a child? my friend was raised by 2 fathers adopted ..but his not gay...and you talk about getting marry is a reason to reproduce ? are you kidding me? millions of people have children out of marriage.. Marriage is a security reason, not a reason to have kids.

  • Woot, go Iowa!

  • In the space of one week 3 jurisdictions have moved to either legalize gay marriage or recognize such marriages from other jurisdictions.

    Iowa, Vermont and D.C-can you feel the momentum building? Can you feel your view steadily slipping into irrelevance, consigned to the dustbin of history?

    Vermont has no residency marriage requirement either-which means that they'll be exporting gay marriages to other states, forcing the inevitable showdown-and victory for gay equality.

  • You can go on believing what you want to believe about how marriage should be, but that's not going to stop gay marriage from becoming the law of the land.

    One by one the arguments against it are being refuted and discarded. Now opponents of gay marriage no longer have the "activist judges" argument.

    Your view has lost, so you might as well accept it and move on.

  • Nope, also a bad argument. The American Psychological Association has removed homosexuality from it's list of disorders.

    We're also talking about sexual orientation, not just sexual behavior. Sexual orientation is how you're wired to want to feel affection and fall in love as well as sexual desire. It's not a choice to be gay, though you're right that it is a choice to have gay sex. For a lot of people, though, the choice is between having a fulfilling sexual and romantic (gay) life or not.

  • ..or not to have sexual and romantic fulfillment at all. Just like you probably wouldn't fall in love with someone of the same sex even if you were having sex with them) a gay person probably wouldn't fall in love with someone of the opposite sex, even if they chose to go against their nature and have sex with that person, which a lot of gay people do because they cave to social pressure.

  • You are still not making sense. What I'm saying is that marriage is not about the ability to procreate. We do not make anyone prove that they can reproduce before we give them a marriage license, so to use that argument against same sex marriage doesn't make sense.

    We've never required that for a marriage license before, so why start now?

  • No, actually the numbers I was looking at were for America.

    The majority is not always right, that's kinda why we have the Judicial branch, to prevent tyrannies of the majority. Otherwise 51% of the population could vote to kill the other 49%.

    Of course our elected officials aren't always right, but neither is the majority always right. Sometimes the majority votes for things are are unjust, like in the case of slavery and suffrage and miscegenation.

  • It bugs me they call it same sex marriage it's not marriage it's just another way to make a gay couple legally able to share bank accounts, insurance, loans, ect.... it should be called a legal binding not marriage and the court made a big mistake on this.

  • Uh, the world's no more or less violent than it's ever been. Possibly less. You're welcome to pretend that the world is spiraling downhill (although that sounds awfully unhealthy for your mental well-being), but please don't stand in the way of my trying to make my country, and the world, a better and more loving place.

  • To continue my reply to Ericjpomeroy Why would you choose to be gay? to be discriminated, hated and have a lack of rights.

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  • You are a teacher!!! I feel bad for your students learning from someone like you. First you're using the argument that gay people can't reproduce. This argument is foolish because marriage is not all about kids, but about two people who love each other and want to expend the rest of their life together. Second you insult gay people by saying that gay marriage is a joke and saying other degrading things like it is "unnatural". Obviously you don't understand that being gay is not a choice

  • and sperm and contraception dont mix either. contraception isnt the way things were naturally set up, yet we embrace contraception. we dont need every person in the world to reproduce, oprhanages around the world are filling up quickly, some with foster care.

  • Actually the population with the fastest increase in HIV infection is in women of color.

    Also, in Connecticut and Vermont, it was legislative action that legalized gender neutral marriage, not judicial. Their elected officials, representing the people, LEGALIZED, not just decriminalized, same sex marriage.

  • We do not make anyone prove that they can procreate in order to get a marriage license, otherwise infertile couples would be denied marriage licenses. This is a bad argument, it has no bearing on the issue at hand.

  • go Iowa.

    social progress. social progress.

    they take it hard because it's in the west.

    but it happened, it happened.

  • Marriage is a social contract. To restrict is to two gender couples is both homophobia and sexism. Loving v Virginia established that it is a fundamental right to be able to choose one's own spouse, regardless of inborn traits. If a woman is allowed to enter into such a social contract with a man, it would be sexism to deny that same right to another man.

    Bringing up anal sex has nothing to do with the argument, some straight people have anal sex, and some gay people don't. Irrelevant.

  • Yeah, shout some more vaguely interpreted bronze age sheephearder myths at them to justify your hate of gays, Nephiliamseedhunter. More 'end of days' nonsense that was shouted with equal fervor when blacks and other minorities wanted to be treated equally during the 1960's. It won't change the fact that this is the 'last days' for intolerant bigots like you being able to walk over gay's civil rights.

  • Poor Iowians.

    Marriage is between one man and one woman for a lifetime.

  • It's "Iowans".

    No one says your church has to change its definition of marriage. Just please respect those Americans who have a different one.

  • Who said anything about Church?

    Gays will never stop until they say there is no G-d

    Two people who love each other don't make a holy union.

    I love my daughter but it is wrong to try and marry her.

    It like Gay marriage is wrong. ie UNHOLY

  • You love your daughter, but you are not IN love with her. There is a very big difference there.

  • There is a theory that being gay is a birth defect. Canadian medical authorities have a chemical treatment based on this that rebalances hormones, etc. and change gay people into heterosexuals. I know it sounds like sci-fi but is true. The CBC even showed a documentry about it years ago, though due to obvious sensitivity about the topic it was shown just once.

    If you were born gay, you suffer from a treatable birth defect.

    If you chose the gay lifestyle you suffer from a mental defect.

  • God created man and woman to procreate....man-man or woman woman cannot and will not create a human being. It is anatomically impossible......So then what do these abominations do? They want to adopt a poor innocent baby and drag them into their dens of sin. Satan is alive and well in the state of Iowa......and the United States.....STAND UP and be counted all you who think homosodomites should be banned from all things sacred until they repent and be blessed .

  • Well... if being gay is genetic like they try to claim. If they marry each other, that means no more gay kids and natural selection strikes again!

  • theses poopy on the pe pe make me sick! even the most advanced furry animal want have sex with it's same gender! why do think god that city in the Bible.

  • summersonset: I was just teasing.

    I was in Holland about 5 years ago. I was there on business, so I didn't really get around that much. But I loved it there. I saw the windmills, and the people were so friendly. I stayed in an old-fashioned hotel in a little town by the railroad tracks. There was a cheese vendor on the street. Id never seen that before. So I bought a variety. Delicious!

    And the girls were beautiful. They all rode bikes and were in such great shape. I miss Holland.

  • You know when you say, MARRIAGE EQUALITY FOR ALL! You are supporting marriage for men, who want to marry boys, people who want to marry their pets (people who love beastiality) , family members wanting to marry in their family, (brother and sister), marrying as many husbands or wives as you want. Marriage for everyone.

  • summersonset: So you are very attractive? Betcha I can make you switch teams

  • summersonset : Please try to understand that I personally have no problem w/gay marriage. My problem is with the government. I dont like a dictatorial government. I thought it would be best if it was voted in by citizen majority. But I get it now.

    Good Luck

  • sammehwhoreface: I am truly sorry if I offended you. I believe that people are born gay, and that its not a choice. And I didnt mean to disrespect you in any way. I just got caught up in the political aspects. I dont trust the government to dictate. Id rather it was voted on by the people. But I understand your position.

    Good luck

  • summersonset: It boils down to individual rights vs. collective rights. I dont trust mealy-mouthed politicians or appointed Pay-to-Play judges to make this decision. So whos to decide? What would Plato say?

  • So essentially what you're doing is tarring the whole LGBT community with the same brush?

    Really? You've never heard any criticism against NAMBLA from homosexuals? What about gay people refusing to allow NAMBLA to participate in their Gay Pride festivals in Tampa, Orlando and Miami? What does that say to you?

    Open your eyes and educate yourself about this before making ridiculous comments.

  • Even if that is the case, it doesn't change the fact that NAMBLA does NOT represent the majority of the LGBT community.

  • This is a violation of separation of state powers. This issue should be left to legislature, and ideally be open for vote by the people.

  • sammehwhoreface: Why not? What are you afraid of?

    I wanna live in a country for the people and by the people. I don't want no select few to determine what's best for me.

    If the majority votes for it, then I'll go with the flow.

  • The majority is always correct in so far as what they think is best for their society. The same thing happened in California, and it was reversed by the peoples vote.

    My feeling is that the people should be able to decide. I have absolute zero faith in politicians and/or lap-dog ass-wipe appointed Jurists to speak for me.

    This is a ballot issue. And Im willing to accept the outcome of a legitimate vote..