Hi neeche5150. Thanks for your question. I do not think I have any preference. I had a boyfriend who has a pretty long foreskin but I still love him for the way he is. For me, hygiene is more important. Even that guy think tht just becoz he has a circumcised penis, doesn't mean he is clean. Coz I had another boyfriend who is circumsized but I do not find he is hygiene. I think I won't worry about it so long it is functionable and hygiene. Thanks!
I agreed with Betty that no vulva is ugly. We hve been conned into believing wht is called 'normal' or acceptable. It takes a certain kind of strength like her to claim your vulva & works towards self-love instead of conforming to the society's definition of beauty. I feel that this two women are beautiful in their views & beliefs, without being conformed the pressures of wht so-called 'norm' I admire their spirits and strengths. Thanks!
The most aesthetically pleasing labia IMO has very plump outer lips (labia majora) with petite symmetrical labia minora (not rough jagged asymmetrical roast beef brown) tucked between the labia majora. the labia can't be fully seen unless the labia majora is spread open or legs are spread.
I don't like discoloration, I prefer the outer lips to be the same color as the rest of the body, and the labia minora is be a light shade of pink. The clitoral hood must be petite as well.
I wonder how many women have protruding labia? I've read different statements, ranging from two thirds to 97%. If it really is around that, porn is a totally false representation of the general population of women. Society makes it seem like the norm is to have small labia. I even saw a TV show very recently, which had people seeing REAL doctors for so-called "embarrassing illnesses", in which a FEMALE doctor instantly suggest surgery to other women for their labia! Now that made me cross.
I read that the imbalance in porn is due to laws that rates the "strength" of porn & therefore the age restricition placed on it. It's considered more softcore if it doesn't show the inner lips of a woman, so they got around this by using women who don't really have them.
That's now caught on as our cultural idea of the most attractive kind of vulva, so even when they aren't trying to avoid a higher age restriction, they still use models like this ubiquitously.
well, I have never heard that theory before, but I think ultimately it comes down to the fact that only showing one type of vulva as ideal is a huge problem.
thank GOD for the internet and internet amateur porn though, because it gives the power back to the people. REAL people. no airbrushing or unrealistic standards.
Um, I'm guessing Betty was exaggerating when she said almost "down to my knees"? Or am I being ignorant? I mean I thought you can get them really long by purposefully stretching them, but without doing that I thought at the very most they'd pop out an inch or two?
though it is possible to stretch them purposely, it would take actual weights, constantly worn, to do it. Some cultures practice this, but even they don't have them to their knees, I don't believe.
I think Betty was just showing that even if they were that long, she would STILL love them. :p
I thought so. I guess I am a bit gullible, but you never know. I'm not sure it's great to joke without making it really clear. I mean, I've done quite a bit of research into this subject over time, & even I wasn't sure, so some people must be totally clueless and may just take what she says here as fact.
Hi neeche5150. Thanks for your question. I do not think I have any preference. I had a boyfriend who has a pretty long foreskin but I still love him for the way he is. For me, hygiene is more important. Even that guy think tht just becoz he has a circumcised penis, doesn't mean he is clean. Coz I had another boyfriend who is circumsized but I do not find he is hygiene. I think I won't worry about it so long it is functionable and hygiene. Thanks!
wanglydia1 1 year ago
I agreed with Betty that no vulva is ugly. We hve been conned into believing wht is called 'normal' or acceptable. It takes a certain kind of strength like her to claim your vulva & works towards self-love instead of conforming to the society's definition of beauty. I feel that this two women are beautiful in their views & beliefs, without being conformed the pressures of wht so-called 'norm' I admire their spirits and strengths. Thanks!
wanglydia1 1 year ago
@wanglydia1 Just curious, what is your prefrence in men--circumcised or non-circumcised and why
neechee5150 1 year ago
my inner lips are diff lengths as well. when i exercise, sometimes they give me discomfort since the longest one gets in the way.
mizztcasa1 1 year ago
The most aesthetically pleasing labia IMO has very plump outer lips (labia majora) with petite symmetrical labia minora (not rough jagged asymmetrical roast beef brown) tucked between the labia majora. the labia can't be fully seen unless the labia majora is spread open or legs are spread.
I don't like discoloration, I prefer the outer lips to be the same color as the rest of the body, and the labia minora is be a light shade of pink. The clitoral hood must be petite as well.
Markohoppis 1 year ago
Betty is hilarious... love that woman. im an artist. do you need an apprentice?!
eeedel 2 years ago
Oh how I love this video.
YES! love your privates.
Take it from a man, they are beautiful. Labia are a gift! :p
joelface 3 years ago
Thank-you! Kisses to you.
charityjf 3 years ago
I wonder how many women have protruding labia? I've read different statements, ranging from two thirds to 97%. If it really is around that, porn is a totally false representation of the general population of women. Society makes it seem like the norm is to have small labia. I even saw a TV show very recently, which had people seeing REAL doctors for so-called "embarrassing illnesses", in which a FEMALE doctor instantly suggest surgery to other women for their labia! Now that made me cross.
charityjf 3 years ago 9
I totally agree. that is absolutely absurd, and should not be tolerated in our culture.
We really need to teach girls to love their bodies more! And men too!
joelface 3 years ago
I read that the imbalance in porn is due to laws that rates the "strength" of porn & therefore the age restricition placed on it. It's considered more softcore if it doesn't show the inner lips of a woman, so they got around this by using women who don't really have them.
That's now caught on as our cultural idea of the most attractive kind of vulva, so even when they aren't trying to avoid a higher age restriction, they still use models like this ubiquitously.
charityjf 3 years ago
well, I have never heard that theory before, but I think ultimately it comes down to the fact that only showing one type of vulva as ideal is a huge problem.
thank GOD for the internet and internet amateur porn though, because it gives the power back to the people. REAL people. no airbrushing or unrealistic standards.
Yes!!!
joelface 3 years ago
I have luscious juicy labia :)
jessica5666 1 year ago
Um, I'm guessing Betty was exaggerating when she said almost "down to my knees"? Or am I being ignorant? I mean I thought you can get them really long by purposefully stretching them, but without doing that I thought at the very most they'd pop out an inch or two?
charityjf 3 years ago
aha! Yes, she was just exaggerating.
though it is possible to stretch them purposely, it would take actual weights, constantly worn, to do it. Some cultures practice this, but even they don't have them to their knees, I don't believe.
I think Betty was just showing that even if they were that long, she would STILL love them. :p
joelface 3 years ago
I thought so. I guess I am a bit gullible, but you never know. I'm not sure it's great to joke without making it really clear. I mean, I've done quite a bit of research into this subject over time, & even I wasn't sure, so some people must be totally clueless and may just take what she says here as fact.
Anyway, I still love her.
charityjf 3 years ago
You two ladies rock!
markfivenine 3 years ago 5
"Clitoris in the Hood" sounds like a rap song.lol you gals are so cool.
camlawn 3 years ago 4