I know there is nothing wrong with being a femme guy, in fact I find them quite attractive. I'm not changing my gender, i've always been female. I'm just changing my body or more technically my sex to match that.
Well, it's a fact of the normal curve, that a certain minority of men are effeminate, and women are butch. I guess I'm supportive of your right to be the person you want to be, I'm just disturbed that your supporters are denigrating femmes, who I think are very special. You're special too, in much the same way.
You're a cute kid, I'm not sure why you're doing what you are doing, you great as your own self, not an surgically altered, chemically treated, artificial women. Why not be a femme, a sensitive effeminate guy?
Well the thing is, I just am not a guy, I have never felt I was a guy. I have always felt I was a woman and so I want the body and the hormones of a woman. I won't be artificial, everything I do is a natural process no plastic or metal involved. I was a "femme" gay boy long before I started this. It just wasn't enough.
Well, I appreciate your feelings, but I just want to say that there is nothing wrong with being a femme guy. In fact, it's what makes you special, puts you outside the "box" of gender, makes you
really really really special. You can't "change" your gender, you
can just alter your body with chemicals, surgery, etc.
Well maybe femme boys are cute when they are young, but when they get older they turn into unattractive effeminate gays - horrible! Besides, it's not about being special, but about being comfortable, being yourself, which works pretty well for Ashey. You go girl!
Wow! What a hypocritical, hateful statement: "horrible unattractive effeminate gays".. It's completey irrational to advocate for acceptance of the "transgendered" by bashing "gay" men. BTW, I know plenty of older femme gay men who are not horrible, or disqusting. So it's better that Ashley become an "artifical women", if she can figure out a way to pay for all the plastic surgery and hormone treatements that it will take to make him so. You're an idiot.
Tou are an old ass hole thinking with your dick and not with your brains! Just because you are into effeminate boys doesn't mean that all around you should remain like ones. Deing transsexual is not a choice, so hormones and plastics is the only way!
Well, YOU are the one denigrating "effeminate gay men--horrible", so you are hardly in any moral position to argue on behalf of the "transgendered" if you begin with DENIGRATING femmes, especially "horrible unattractive effeminate gays"...you're as full of hate as anyone can be.
Well, there is NO evidence that being "transgendered" is genetically hardwired, any more then there is an evidence that anyone is born "gay"...it's an invention of the psychotheraphy industry, which has a terrible record of curing anyone of anything, and full of instances of fraud and outright abuse. I'd argue that anyone has a right to project their self image any way they want, it's an instance of personal liberation, and in no way provable as genetically hardwired.
Perhaps. But transgendered persons existed in primitive cultures and Ancient Greece and Rome, where boys castrated themselves to feminize the body. So it's not something we have in the industial society.
I check your history, mostly boys had castration forced on them, I'm not sure where you got this idea that boys castrated themselves...also it occured mostly in Persia and Arab culture, not Greek culture, where paedastry was a pastime of the elite males.
The gallae(Corybantes)were not just strange eunuchs, many have been transgendered. This is believed because after their (day of blood) when they would voluntarily castrate themselves (primitive reassignment surgery), they made an effort to appear and behave as women.
Boys who were forced castration are the castrati of the 17-18th Cent. It has nothing to do with transgender.
hulka and alex- I agree and disagree with BOTH of you. In the first place not all older fem men are horrible, I mean if older butchy women are accepted and admired older fem men should be too, PERIOD! Also if it's ok for a male to be a fem gay man, what's wrong with a make going all the way and being a woman? This is what I don't get about some people it's like it's ok to be different in some ways but NOT in other.
I am not bashing anybody, I accept everybody and I even know a couple of gays in person. I have dated men who hated gays, while I have always been rather tollerant. I still think that feminine old men are don't look nice.
Old women and post-menopausal women aren't very attractive either...menopause can occur in women in their late 30's....they "dry" up. I guess "tg" males taking hormones might not "dry up" as quickly as genetic women, but I don't see old gays or old women as being any different when it comes to attractiveness. Myself, I'm glad I'm masculine, and had more boyfriends in my early 40s then I had girlfriends in my 20's.
Well, I can only be glad for you. And I understand perfectly your succes among your sex partners. I prefer men in 40s-50s myself, they are more mature and experienced.
*Cond* I mean Ashely will NOT be an ARTIFICIAL woman, but hey even if she was what's the big damn deal, if she's happier with a female body, SO WHAT if it is artificial? *Which it's not! I mean if a blonde wants to be a red head s/he dies his/her hair RED! It's ARTIFICIAL red hair but it makes the person happier and nothing is said about it! Hair dying is more aritifical than gender transitioning. It's like you make you rules as you go; Being a fem gay guy=OK, becoming female= not OK.
*cond* So you're right, there is nothing wrong with being a fem gay guy *if that's what you are* but nothing wrong with becoming female either, if that makes you happier!
I just it odd when someone says, "Just be a fem gay guy that makes you special, but NO NO don't become female!! that's just WRONG!" Youd think if one thought the former was ok theyd be open to ther latter.
" hey its me ashley "
YEA SURE HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAA :D:D
galliance 2 years ago
wtf?
jeltothemax 2 years ago
Oh, is she the one who kicked u out of her house?? If so, boo, if not, YAY! she's adorable.
GLBTQcommunity 3 years ago
Heh, a fellow transgender anthropology major (future in my case). Odd, no?
Loika693 3 years ago
I think you look cute and girly with the haircut you have in this video. It's flattering the form of your face :)
janeyanna 4 years ago 2
Ashley -- You're extra cute in this video. I love your hair!
Jude2082 4 years ago
lol, WHAT? I had boy hair in that video. I can barely watch these videos, I look so bad.
icecoldbath 4 years ago
No! You DON'T have boy hair in this video. It seriously looks cute. :)
Jude2082 4 years ago
I know there is nothing wrong with being a femme guy, in fact I find them quite attractive. I'm not changing my gender, i've always been female. I'm just changing my body or more technically my sex to match that.
icecoldbath 4 years ago
Well, it's a fact of the normal curve, that a certain minority of men are effeminate, and women are butch. I guess I'm supportive of your right to be the person you want to be, I'm just disturbed that your supporters are denigrating femmes, who I think are very special. You're special too, in much the same way.
hulka99 4 years ago
You're a cute kid, I'm not sure why you're doing what you are doing, you great as your own self, not an surgically altered, chemically treated, artificial women. Why not be a femme, a sensitive effeminate guy?
hulka99 4 years ago
Well the thing is, I just am not a guy, I have never felt I was a guy. I have always felt I was a woman and so I want the body and the hormones of a woman. I won't be artificial, everything I do is a natural process no plastic or metal involved. I was a "femme" gay boy long before I started this. It just wasn't enough.
icecoldbath 4 years ago
Well, I appreciate your feelings, but I just want to say that there is nothing wrong with being a femme guy. In fact, it's what makes you special, puts you outside the "box" of gender, makes you
really really really special. You can't "change" your gender, you
can just alter your body with chemicals, surgery, etc.
hulka99 4 years ago
Well maybe femme boys are cute when they are young, but when they get older they turn into unattractive effeminate gays - horrible! Besides, it's not about being special, but about being comfortable, being yourself, which works pretty well for Ashey. You go girl!
alexandraprima 4 years ago
Wow! What a hypocritical, hateful statement: "horrible unattractive effeminate gays".. It's completey irrational to advocate for acceptance of the "transgendered" by bashing "gay" men. BTW, I know plenty of older femme gay men who are not horrible, or disqusting. So it's better that Ashley become an "artifical women", if she can figure out a way to pay for all the plastic surgery and hormone treatements that it will take to make him so. You're an idiot.
hulka99 4 years ago
Tou are an old ass hole thinking with your dick and not with your brains! Just because you are into effeminate boys doesn't mean that all around you should remain like ones. Deing transsexual is not a choice, so hormones and plastics is the only way!
alexandraprima 4 years ago
Well, YOU are the one denigrating "effeminate gay men--horrible", so you are hardly in any moral position to argue on behalf of the "transgendered" if you begin with DENIGRATING femmes, especially "horrible unattractive effeminate gays"...you're as full of hate as anyone can be.
hulka99 4 years ago
Well, there is NO evidence that being "transgendered" is genetically hardwired, any more then there is an evidence that anyone is born "gay"...it's an invention of the psychotheraphy industry, which has a terrible record of curing anyone of anything, and full of instances of fraud and outright abuse. I'd argue that anyone has a right to project their self image any way they want, it's an instance of personal liberation, and in no way provable as genetically hardwired.
hulka99 4 years ago
Perhaps. But transgendered persons existed in primitive cultures and Ancient Greece and Rome, where boys castrated themselves to feminize the body. So it's not something we have in the industial society.
alexandraprima 4 years ago
I check your history, mostly boys had castration forced on them, I'm not sure where you got this idea that boys castrated themselves...also it occured mostly in Persia and Arab culture, not Greek culture, where paedastry was a pastime of the elite males.
hulka99 4 years ago
The gallae(Corybantes)were not just strange eunuchs, many have been transgendered. This is believed because after their (day of blood) when they would voluntarily castrate themselves (primitive reassignment surgery), they made an effort to appear and behave as women.
Boys who were forced castration are the castrati of the 17-18th Cent. It has nothing to do with transgender.
alexandraprima 4 years ago
hulka and alex- I agree and disagree with BOTH of you. In the first place not all older fem men are horrible, I mean if older butchy women are accepted and admired older fem men should be too, PERIOD! Also if it's ok for a male to be a fem gay man, what's wrong with a make going all the way and being a woman? This is what I don't get about some people it's like it's ok to be different in some ways but NOT in other.
pgy001 3 years ago
him? fuck you ass hole!
icecoldbath 4 years ago
I am not bashing anybody, I accept everybody and I even know a couple of gays in person. I have dated men who hated gays, while I have always been rather tollerant. I still think that feminine old men are don't look nice.
alexandraprima 4 years ago
Old women and post-menopausal women aren't very attractive either...menopause can occur in women in their late 30's....they "dry" up. I guess "tg" males taking hormones might not "dry up" as quickly as genetic women, but I don't see old gays or old women as being any different when it comes to attractiveness. Myself, I'm glad I'm masculine, and had more boyfriends in my early 40s then I had girlfriends in my 20's.
hulka99 4 years ago
Well, I can only be glad for you. And I understand perfectly your succes among your sex partners. I prefer men in 40s-50s myself, they are more mature and experienced.
alexandraprima 4 years ago
*Cond* I mean Ashely will NOT be an ARTIFICIAL woman, but hey even if she was what's the big damn deal, if she's happier with a female body, SO WHAT if it is artificial? *Which it's not! I mean if a blonde wants to be a red head s/he dies his/her hair RED! It's ARTIFICIAL red hair but it makes the person happier and nothing is said about it! Hair dying is more aritifical than gender transitioning. It's like you make you rules as you go; Being a fem gay guy=OK, becoming female= not OK.
pgy001 3 years ago
*cond* So you're right, there is nothing wrong with being a fem gay guy *if that's what you are* but nothing wrong with becoming female either, if that makes you happier!
I just it odd when someone says, "Just be a fem gay guy that makes you special, but NO NO don't become female!! that's just WRONG!" Youd think if one thought the former was ok theyd be open to ther latter.
pgy001 3 years ago
Ain't it great to have girlfriends? You two are so cute and I can see the bestest of friends. Never lose contact with each other.
GenieP 4 years ago
haha aww, you're wearing your sexy pearls.
grishno 4 years ago
aww you two look so cute together, I hope you both had fun, oh and wonderful outfit your coming along really great!
nuclearswan 4 years ago
Oh when Jacqui is around there is fun and it gets had!
icecoldbath 4 years ago
ya, dito! and im soo jealous of ur hair btw!
pigpen7471 4 years ago