ahhhha , idk why i watched this , but then again , i do have a friend who SUPPOSEDLY is like a brother to me that rather hangs out with FAKE people so he fucken forgets about me , but when i fucken stop caring , he gets mad , what should i dooo D:
This happens a lot in high school, I hate how girls act like they're best friends but they talk shit behind each others back. Makes me feel like I can't trust anyone but myself.
you are so right jarmaine those kind of friends are not worth having in life especially in your time of need all they do is throw you down and kick you around instead of giving you advice, in school you try to make friends and well when you get into high school its all about losing friends no other choice but to move on. dont try to beg for them to hang out with you that is something you should never do,or else they will know you are weak and then you will end up being a tool for them. BE STRONG
i know what type of person you are and i dont like those people .. well im jus seeing from what i see but i could be wrong we havnt even met jus judging on what i see nice vid btw
I couldnt of found this @ a more perfect time! Huge shout out to u Jarmaine! I was already hooked on JlovesMac no I'm hooked on JarmaineTV :) Peace & prosperity in life hun!
My fake friend was the worst she wore all my clothes used all my makeup and constantly asked for things because I was working and she was always broke!! One day while i was at a funeral my "best friend" slept with my boy friend at his moms house where her twin lived with my boyfriends brother. The twin told me about it... I was pregnant at the time. I ended up losing the baby, my best friend, my boyfriend and the friend who's funeral i was at =0( That was 2007 and i'm still recovering from that
@lalonipop1 To top it off she ended up pregnant and tried to apologize by asking me to be the babies god mother... I said No thanks, Im over it and so should u be
. I guess you did me a favor by showing me they type of people i had to get rid of in my life =0)
wow. i couldnt agree more! thanks for this, now i know its ok to be alone! being alone can be a great thing, because it means you are always with the one you love!!
MOST of my friends were fake (were my friends cause they thought i had money) when i was in primary , secondry i knew no 1 so i could start new i changed myself LOADS and though i had made friends until they blckmailed me on the secrets i had told them ( we arent friends anymore) then i made friends wit another group ( acted more like myself) she spreaded rumors (fake) to all the clubs i joined and ppl laughed about me behind my back (we dont talk) then i didnt have friends thn i had no friends
Fake Friends are like teased hair: they look smooth from the outside, but if you look closer, they are all ugly and disgusting. When you brush them out, it hurts, but in the end you get rid of it...
There is nothing harder then having to deal with being droped from a your "click" when your in highschool (I'm a sennior) But I've slowly come to realize I DON'T NEED FRIENDS like that
in my life, they have done nothing but use & hurt me. The worst part is I feel bad that neither of them are graduating , & i've gotten into 3 colleges already. I guess being the loser they droped , who sat in class while the group ditched to the malk shop, really pays off at the end. :) Tanx jar INDEPENDENT
looovee this video! my ex boyfriend (also my best friend of 4 years) dropped me so fast I didn't even see it coming.(he started seeing someone else) This video helped me realize that even though he dropped me, his cocky,"winning," sarcastic attitude isn't going to get him anywhere. I was "company to his misery." thanks jar!
i get you,, it is exactly like that,, especially the part bout when u get out ur no bo dy,, those guys n girls who did me wrong r finding out da hard way :\ oh well :)
LOVE this video!! I had a friend who was SO sweet until I started to have boyfriends and whenever I was excited about a sweet gift from him or something she´d say it looked cheap and that he probably hadn´t given any thought to what I would like.
Jarmaine you are my hero you are do true at my school there are these 4 girls who think they are a "star" but like you said I am just going to ignore it. You are my role model! Have a nice day!!!!! :D
happened to me - deleted her number, deleted her facebook, deleted MY facebook :( and deleted her from my life. she waould pretend to be my friend and ask us to eat lunch with her but when we were sitting down she would text her friends (who was across the table from her :O) saying how annoying we were :( and then she said i was being mean to her! :O well... thats ova now!! :) xx
Your new friend and wish you and your family a happy New Years. I hung up the phone, deleted her from my contacts and never got into it again. I felt I was the bigger person in the situation and this video showed me what I did was right. Thanks girl!
Hi Jarmaine, I had a best friend... She was like my sister. I was closer to her than I was my own brother at times! She knew everything about me; and I knew everything about her. (So I thought) Then, she became very distant... And started hanging out with a gossiping, backstabbing mean girl, and then my friend chose this girl over me to be partners with for a huge class trip. And do you know what I did? I said, "Girl... Your not the kind of person I thought you were. I wish you the best with yo
I like all guru's they all have their own style, but for Jarmaine to sit here and talk bad about other people, doesn't that make her fake? Even if they aren't friends now she is still sitting their and talking shit. SMH
NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT. I WAS NEVER A FAKE FRIEND. I'M MORE OF A FRIEND TO THEM THAN THEY EVER HAVE AND WILL BE TO ME. I WORKED HARD FOR THEM TO ONLY DISRESPECT ME. I PUT UP WITH THEIR LACK OF EFFORTS AND CARE FOR ME. UP TO THIS DAY I STILL PUT UP WITH FAKE FRIEND SHIT HEADS.
i feel like my best friend is becoming so distant....-___- she and her new bff were shit talking me in the texts and i have no frigging cluuuuee, what to say to her...i dont know the new girl well but she seems nice but her texts were so mean
Not that i'm a woman but i can relate to what you're saying. Most friends i had turned out to be jealous of me and the sad part is i'm not a guy to be jealous of. Nowadays i can barely count my friends on one hand. The only friends that will be there for you no matter what are your parents and your brothers and sisters.
i could not agree with you more. my advice in dealing with these fake friends is: recognise, ignore and avoid. makes the world a better place to live in.
Hi jarmaine..I kinda had this happen to me with my sisters in law I got married and moved from l.a to Vegas and theirs 3 of them and they would all just do shady things to me and till this day they act like nothing happened and their nice and I'm just a girl whose overly sensitive....they made me cry so much because they made me feel as if we would be friends and then bam they make me feel like I have no one..tell me what u think jarmaine.....sometimes I feel like its just too shady like their
My one 'friend' would never have any money for anything when we out for a meal & shopping. One day when she went to the toilet and left her handbag, my best friend & i quickly rummaged through & found she had atleast £60 for a £15 meal. When we told her we couldnt pay for her meal, she somehow amazingly found a wad of notes in her bag. Needless to say, as soon as we stopped paying for her meal or anything she claimed she had no money for, she stopped seeing us. Glad to get rid of such a cheapass
I love this video lol. & how I liked how you said "you build such a strong connection & they see what's in your life , etc. " lol. I got that before & still . But of course fake friends it's easy to tell when she is trying put an affection towards another person, all they do is used people up like money , etc. But this video is so true haha.
I saw the video on the perfect time! I just found out who my fake freinds were, and girl i cried all the night! That bitch was like really rude on msn! :/
I think it's the lifestyle you live leads you to these people. Get out there, see some different peoples perpectives you could learn something. Oh and if you don't mind me saying, calm down with the make up! Too much! Beauty is inside girl!!
Isolated in highschool but im ok. I very talented I have booked a cople commercials got the lead in my highschool play and am really figureing out me. learning about me. discovering me. Its amazing when your world gets blown up you realize alot of things. I watched this video to make i guess some sense that what i chose to do was in my mind right for me. and It was thanks. I have one best and I love her to death.
most popular basketball players in school, so i guess maybe thats why they thought it was ok for me to hang out with them. I am an amazing person! Im funny, sweet, caring, and a true confidant of a friend if you really get to know me! I have one best friend fiona she goes to my old school, and shes been with me through it all. even my mothers death. she died the day before my birthday. it sucks. most kids in highschool dont expiernce what I went through. till this day I am still a loner and ...
I was friends with these group of girls last year. (or so I thought) I have been a loner ever since freshman year, I reacted to my mothers death by Isolating myself from everyone, I felt rejected. i couldnt understand why this had to happen to me. Unappreciated, by everyone including my family... anyhow this year they wont talk to me look at me or even acknowledge th fact that we had plenty of GREAT time the previous year. All they cared about was being popular, Im stepsisters with one of the...
Bahaha so true. Once high school ends everyone becomes a nobody again because people in the real world/college don't give a flying fuck about you XD
And i so agree with in have little to no friends. I talk to a lot of people and have a handful of acquaintances but good solid friends only 1 maybe 2. Plus I love just chilling and being by myself. So does not make you a loner, it just makes you independent and I think stronger since you don't need to have the company of others to make you happy :]
@chibivampire90 I totally agree, once you walk across that stage it is you and your sword and you better know how to use it! I seriously have 3 GENIUINE friends, and unltimately I am my own best friend. It took me two years of high school drama to realize that I don't the quantity that I can stand alone and really be secure and damn happy!
So then after Sammi moved away I started being friends but not bffs with Stacy and wasn't talking to Sammi. All of a sudden Stacy had thought she like "won." After a while Sammi contacted me and wanted to hang out. I said sure and we did. I posted it on Facebook that we were hanging in no intention of me trying to get Stacy's attention. Now Stacy won't talk to me but takes my other friends and makes them not friends with me.
Well I had a these two friends and one of them didn't like her. I'll call one Stacy and one Sammi. So Stacy didn't like Sammi and so Stacy did everything to try and push me away from Sammi even if Sammi didn't do crap. I soon wasn't friends with Sammi then realized Sammi was more of a good friend than Stacy. I soon became bestfriends with Sammi then Stacy was calling me slut, whore and whatever crap....
I had a friend for like 3 years she was my best friend and sister but she changed alot ALOT!!! she didn't care about me she treated my like shit
Once I had a huge problem and all of my class turned against me I felt horrible for like a week my whole class hated me and the still do but I don't care anymore anyways when I needed her the most she ditched me and she told my old friends that I'm a bad person and shit when called her to tell her your a bad friend and stuff she lied and said that s
I had a "friend" in high school who all of a sudden decided to ignore me and try to turn mutual friends against me. Eventually, they came around and realized that she was just imposing her judgments of me onto them. They apologized and I forgave them because I haven't been the perfect friend either. It just sucks that jealousy can ruin a relationship.
I had a bff...who chased after my bf's :( lol i didnt care at fisrt..until i found out she was trying to break us up...:/ weird eh?? Yea every boy i dated talked to..she'd call them and talk badly about me...and so you know me and each guy i talked to...seperated...to find out she was the one behind it was sad...we stopped being friends when she switched schools..oh well!
i'm in 10th grade.i used to feel like i was a nobody. i felt like every1 had their own group of friends at school and i had nobody that i could really "talk" to.i mean i talk to alot of people but i dont really TALK to them lol really hard 2 explain. I'm really friendly but it seems like nobody gives an effort to talk to me.im not complaining im just expressing. I only have a few best friends that go to different schools and i used to be unsatisfied but i finally realized theyre all i need !
I have a cousin that is a year older than me and we've always been super close as we've grown up together. As we entered high school we both changed into completely different people.
I'm really dedicated to my studies and don't really dig the party scene and I live in a town full of very very blond caucasian people and my cousin lives in the ghettos of chicago. And one day she blatantly told me that she wanted to be exactly like me and pursued it for a while, and it was heartbreaking. ):
So I had this bff, and then I started in highschool and we got on the same class. And boom, I realized how different we are. She always keep herself first, yah know, cant care that much about anyone else. And she's been a whole lot of another person the 11 years i knew here before high school and then I get to highschool and it's like, BOOM "you stole my friends, I've known them longer than you so I should be their bff!" she told me when I became good friends with her old good friends. Yeah.
We were "friends" for almost 6 years.then one day wen i switched schools she started ignoring my calls and txts my other friends said she "replaced" me with a new girl in school Tht kinda showed me she wasnt a real friend cause everyone else managed to stay friends Then i saw her and she said she wanted to make up but she blew me off again at first i cried at thaught about all the times we had but then i realized how much better it was without her and drama free. Now nobody can bring me down. (:
Hmmm yah I agree. And its like guys stay friends longer and make friends easier than girls. Thats why I think its easier to talk to guy friends because there is less drama.
Wow, I really hope people aren't listening to her. Having friends make life so much better, good friends that is. They help you go through hard things, listen to you, laugh, etc. If it's someone who is close to you, you can't just flick them away. Talk to them about why they did what they did and forgive. Also, when you're in your "deathbed" I'm sure as hell you'll think about the people you love, a.k.a your FRIENDS and family.
i love you jarmaine, but after you said, "ok now that's just gay.", i immediately paused the video, and proceeded to type this comment. and now im leaving this video with just a little less respect for you. :/
ok i have to have friends i love spending time with them.. but a few good friends is better than 100 fake bitches. jealousy is the number one cause of fake friends.
U are not alone! I lose at least 2 friends a year because of this, recently 2 certain "friends" that are done with now, tried to steal my phone and tried to pretend they didn't have it. LAMES is my definition, straight LAMES!
Yeah well same here I like my life the way it is even if I only have two "real" friends. The other girls I know are fake to me and i'm fake to themm too! I don't give a tiny rat ass about that coz as long as I have my family out there i'm ok. And you're right on what are "good friends", feels good to see that there's at least one person who thinks like me!
I can understand what you mean... I'm good at making friends.. but really crap at keeping them, i can get bored with people easily. I dunno.. i, get bored? what can i say.
Samee thing ova here. Starting junior year I was around more teachers than anybody. didn't care cuz I was grasping knowledge, not popularity or non sense. My bf and I are best of friends since I was 15. Why? Substance substance substance. We Help each other grow. Love this vid, would love to chat wid u n be ur friend tho haha
Oh my god u r just like me !!! I have no friends and I don't really care ha ha well what the hell..... I lovevmy life who cares if I sit alone at lunch..
I made friends easily back in high school, most people knew me, however, at lunch I was alone, to hide that fact I didn't eat lunch cuz I was trying to find a crowd to fit in. Realized by Junior year, that I didn't belong to any groups so I decided to take on a job n was busy most of the time so the only time I could do hw is lunch time n tats when I was fine with being alone in the halls. Graduated n now in college, Learned tat I don't need to put a label on me when no labels could define me...
I have had a lot of fake friends and I don't like that one bit 'cause they are your friend not to be nice but for most of the time a entirely different reason and......etc
Omg Jarmaine! We are so much alike... Hahaha! I don't have many friends either.. I'd rather stick to hanging out with family now a days because in the end family will always be there!! We've gonna hangout some time Hahahaha though I do live in Alaska.. Bummer!!!
I am the same way i can easily make friends but not keep them ...its weird to hear someone say that out loud... except for the jealously thing .. i dont have S@#$% ....lol
What in the world are u talkin about? Everybody needs friends, ur prob too jealous of ur friends n insecure about yourself that's why ur makin this video talkin shit, dislike!!!
You don't need to drop that bomb. I'm like Jarmaine, I have absolutely no close friends but does that mean that I'm jealous? No. Is she talking shit? No. It's her experience in life and she's offering her advice to people, like me, who have no friends, who are loners. At least respect that fact. And one day, you'll be thankful you watched this video b/c you're going to end up alone one day too.
Plus, i can relate on your story. iv had a lot of fake friends. First, they were nice to me but when they knw everything that i do, they become diff person and they backstabbed me. But i never get lonely for losing them because they are not worth my time. Like you, i can be a alone and i wouldn't have a problem with that. I shop alone, i watch a movie alone. Lol. But i do enjoy being by myself.
i believe you won't find your true friends until your old and gray bc by then you can look around and see who's next to you and that's you "true friend(s)"
@sandobalvanessa umm... so ur saying its better to have tons of 'friends' than just a few good friends? i know I have experienced a few fake friends and ALL of them had tons of 'friends'. Fake people are fake to everybody, thats why they have so many 'friends'... its better to have a few good than 50 fake
@Sandobalvanessa Seems pretty unintelligent to pass judgement on someone you know know through their youtube videos. You have no clue about all of the dimensions that actually make up this person... only their youtube persona. There is nothing wrong with being a loner, or not having a lot of friends. A strong, confident person doesn't need to surround themselves with other people.
My friend like one day she's being totally annoying and acting like a kid and the next day she's acting like she's better than me and talking to me looking down on me and all that and all she talks about is boys boys boys. I mean I look at boys too...like a lot but in my opinion it gets REALLY annoying when you ONLY talk about boys ALL THE TIME and anyway but ya so now she's gonna go to a different school so how's my chance to drift away
The point of this video is about being yourself; that mean you don't have to be someone you are not because you want people to like you. She would rather be alone than be surrounded by people who just pretend they're someone they are not. I'd rather have 2 GOOD friends than 20 friends - quality over quantity. Great video Jarmaine.
Did anyone notice how it was daytime and then by the video it was night time. Haha. NICE @JarmaineTV #commitment. Hope u find good friends. Glad I have ONE
I love your videos, but i don't think it's a good idea to go around telling people that it's okay to be lonely and not have any friends. You claim that you don't have any friends at all because ALL of them are jealous of you? I don't think they're ALL jealous of you, i think you might of done/said something to upset them. Having friends is a good thing, you can have fun and trust them, as long as you treat them right. To be honest, you sound really bitter in this video,you don't sound very happy
people that are being bullied are not fake friends they just did not have the luck to find good friends . there are many reasons that explain that someone is alone most of the time and that fact does not make the person who they r . the important thing is to be happy regardless of how people are because there are a lot more mean persons than good so if someone is a fake friend whats the point of being friend with them.and if because of that you r alone thats fine because you dont need them!!
@sandobalvanessa no ,i know what she feels like girls pretend to be her friend but secretly jealous of her, its just stupid, ihave met tons of girls like that why bother be friends with them when u hear that ur "friend" is sayin all this shit about u , and jar makes videos to help people she doesnt seem like a bitch at all why would she be the fake one shes beautiful funny and smart ther are tons of insure girls that would be jealous
This actually makes me a bit sad :/ I understand what ur saying, but I really think everybody should have friends. I have a lot of friends, but nobody who I can really like tell everything and who gets me compeletely. They're still my friends, and I hold on to them and try to get to know them better. I am sorry if u have had only those "fake" friends, but if u got to know a lot of people, u can find a true friend. U just have to give them a chance.
4 some reason mine is my hole family they all fake and kids and husband. lol now im just moved myself into another room of ours which was my granddaughter's room now it mine.. I STOPPED ALL THE U,U,U,U,U,'S AND NO I,I,I,I,I,'S. THEY DO ALOT OF BLAMING..
ahhhha , idk why i watched this , but then again , i do have a friend who SUPPOSEDLY is like a brother to me that rather hangs out with FAKE people so he fucken forgets about me , but when i fucken stop caring , he gets mad , what should i dooo D:
Evanforevertill2012 11 hours ago
This happens a lot in high school, I hate how girls act like they're best friends but they talk shit behind each others back. Makes me feel like I can't trust anyone but myself.
TheBetsy143 1 day ago
you are so right jarmaine those kind of friends are not worth having in life especially in your time of need all they do is throw you down and kick you around instead of giving you advice, in school you try to make friends and well when you get into high school its all about losing friends no other choice but to move on. dont try to beg for them to hang out with you that is something you should never do,or else they will know you are weak and then you will end up being a tool for them. BE STRONG
h0m3slic312 1 day ago
AMEN PREACH IT. ahaha
supppchelsea 2 days ago
TRUESIVE!!!!!!
trinity1luvHeaven 2 days ago
i know what type of person you are and i dont like those people .. well im jus seeing from what i see but i could be wrong we havnt even met jus judging on what i see nice vid btw
capajc 3 days ago
I couldnt of found this @ a more perfect time! Huge shout out to u Jarmaine! I was already hooked on JlovesMac no I'm hooked on JarmaineTV :) Peace & prosperity in life hun!
nickskitty1 4 days ago
My fake friend was the worst she wore all my clothes used all my makeup and constantly asked for things because I was working and she was always broke!! One day while i was at a funeral my "best friend" slept with my boy friend at his moms house where her twin lived with my boyfriends brother. The twin told me about it... I was pregnant at the time. I ended up losing the baby, my best friend, my boyfriend and the friend who's funeral i was at =0( That was 2007 and i'm still recovering from that
lalonipop1 5 days ago
@lalonipop1 To top it off she ended up pregnant and tried to apologize by asking me to be the babies god mother... I said No thanks, Im over it and so should u be
. I guess you did me a favor by showing me they type of people i had to get rid of in my life =0)
lalonipop1 5 days ago
wow. i couldnt agree more! thanks for this, now i know its ok to be alone! being alone can be a great thing, because it means you are always with the one you love!!
flores89greeneyes 6 days ago
I agree with you 100%!!! Its a relief to know there are still females who think like us!!
LaFLaca1786 6 days ago
*thought i'd made friend till hey blckmailed me
then ppl were racist 2 me (im eurasian) thai ,english ,scottish and irish raised in england
i now hav friends who like me for me 9im pretty sure there not fake freinds)
ALWAYS act urself or u wont get true friend
NanaRoshanaBlakeley 6 days ago
MOST of my friends were fake (were my friends cause they thought i had money) when i was in primary , secondry i knew no 1 so i could start new i changed myself LOADS and though i had made friends until they blckmailed me on the secrets i had told them ( we arent friends anymore) then i made friends wit another group ( acted more like myself) she spreaded rumors (fake) to all the clubs i joined and ppl laughed about me behind my back (we dont talk) then i didnt have friends thn i had no friends
NanaRoshanaBlakeley 6 days ago
Fake Friends are like teased hair: they look smooth from the outside, but if you look closer, they are all ugly and disgusting. When you brush them out, it hurts, but in the end you get rid of it...
Fabgirl4cute 1 week ago 2
There is nothing harder then having to deal with being droped from a your "click" when your in highschool (I'm a sennior) But I've slowly come to realize I DON'T NEED FRIENDS like that
in my life, they have done nothing but use & hurt me. The worst part is I feel bad that neither of them are graduating , & i've gotten into 3 colleges already. I guess being the loser they droped , who sat in class while the group ditched to the malk shop, really pays off at the end. :) Tanx jar INDEPENDENT
SuperSparklyEve 1 week ago
looovee this video! my ex boyfriend (also my best friend of 4 years) dropped me so fast I didn't even see it coming.(he started seeing someone else) This video helped me realize that even though he dropped me, his cocky,"winning," sarcastic attitude isn't going to get him anywhere. I was "company to his misery." thanks jar!
pinkva23 1 week ago
shes smart:D
taylorswiftfan7071 1 week ago
i get you,, it is exactly like that,, especially the part bout when u get out ur no bo dy,, those guys n girls who did me wrong r finding out da hard way :\ oh well :)
sexysinkhearts 1 week ago
LOVE this video!! I had a friend who was SO sweet until I started to have boyfriends and whenever I was excited about a sweet gift from him or something she´d say it looked cheap and that he probably hadn´t given any thought to what I would like.
NotReallyThatSmart 1 week ago
i hi her face like chris did rihannah you are so funny
BubbleLove27 1 week ago
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hello i like watching your videos you are funny
BubbleLove27 1 week ago
hello i like watching your videos you are funny
BubbleLove27 1 week ago
i love ur hat!!!!!!!
Jennifer123001 1 week ago
Jarmaine you are my hero you are do true at my school there are these 4 girls who think they are a "star" but like you said I am just going to ignore it. You are my role model! Have a nice day!!!!! :D
BubbleLove27 1 week ago
Jarmaine, YOU MADE MA DAY! SO TRUE.
Catherine47mp 1 week ago
the birthday part is so true. damn
karen131517 2 weeks ago
just gonna ignore how you said thats gay. well it definitely sounded like it at 1:10
mclovinmontana 2 weeks ago
i love these rants so much better then ur beauty stuff! ur awesome! keep it up!
liamcgoldrick 2 weeks ago
hey I can relate...so fkn annoying but u know whttttt
u just ignore the shit out of them anyway and u liVE your LIFE :)
nardinodr 2 weeks ago
what about friends who never call you first or ask you to hangout? i always feel like im the friend who has to call and intiate hanging out. :/
britneybxoxo 2 weeks ago
Why don't we share about our experiences as BEING the fake friend
PaDoCoKeFo 2 weeks ago
happened to me - deleted her number, deleted her facebook, deleted MY facebook :( and deleted her from my life. she waould pretend to be my friend and ask us to eat lunch with her but when we were sitting down she would text her friends (who was across the table from her :O) saying how annoying we were :( and then she said i was being mean to her! :O well... thats ova now!! :) xx
redfizzypop1 2 weeks ago
I'm pretty sure she's referring to ThatsHeart, who is also a beauty guru on youtube.
xtaaaaanyaa 2 weeks ago
@xtaaaaanyaa How so? :)
tehehahahahalol 1 week ago
Your new friend and wish you and your family a happy New Years. I hung up the phone, deleted her from my contacts and never got into it again. I felt I was the bigger person in the situation and this video showed me what I did was right. Thanks girl!
AmoreMia123 2 weeks ago
Hi Jarmaine, I had a best friend... She was like my sister. I was closer to her than I was my own brother at times! She knew everything about me; and I knew everything about her. (So I thought) Then, she became very distant... And started hanging out with a gossiping, backstabbing mean girl, and then my friend chose this girl over me to be partners with for a huge class trip. And do you know what I did? I said, "Girl... Your not the kind of person I thought you were. I wish you the best with yo
AmoreMia123 2 weeks ago
your a loser
emily73845 2 weeks ago
I like all guru's they all have their own style, but for Jarmaine to sit here and talk bad about other people, doesn't that make her fake? Even if they aren't friends now she is still sitting their and talking shit. SMH
sophieaiden00 3 weeks ago
jealousy and envy mean the same thing
LETitrock325 3 weeks ago 3
I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!! so helpful with just the right amount of humor. love ya jarmaine (:
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NO, ABSOLUTELY NOT. I WAS NEVER A FAKE FRIEND. I'M MORE OF A FRIEND TO THEM THAN THEY EVER HAVE AND WILL BE TO ME. I WORKED HARD FOR THEM TO ONLY DISRESPECT ME. I PUT UP WITH THEIR LACK OF EFFORTS AND CARE FOR ME. UP TO THIS DAY I STILL PUT UP WITH FAKE FRIEND SHIT HEADS.
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tonymonopoly11 3 weeks ago
i feel like my best friend is becoming so distant....-___- she and her new bff were shit talking me in the texts and i have no frigging cluuuuee, what to say to her...i dont know the new girl well but she seems nice but her texts were so mean
achu1897 3 weeks ago
Not that i'm a woman but i can relate to what you're saying. Most friends i had turned out to be jealous of me and the sad part is i'm not a guy to be jealous of. Nowadays i can barely count my friends on one hand. The only friends that will be there for you no matter what are your parents and your brothers and sisters.
Godisibilen 3 weeks ago 3
FUCK A FRIEND
BreCoop1990 3 weeks ago
i could not agree with you more. my advice in dealing with these fake friends is: recognise, ignore and avoid. makes the world a better place to live in.
maychild88 3 weeks ago
Well said girl...
pahuathao1 3 weeks ago
Wow, this video is amazing.
becausegiselle 4 weeks ago
wow thanks for this video it was a major eye opener for me
faancytalk 4 weeks ago
Hi jarmaine..I kinda had this happen to me with my sisters in law I got married and moved from l.a to Vegas and theirs 3 of them and they would all just do shady things to me and till this day they act like nothing happened and their nice and I'm just a girl whose overly sensitive....they made me cry so much because they made me feel as if we would be friends and then bam they make me feel like I have no one..tell me what u think jarmaine.....sometimes I feel like its just too shady like their
proudmama9208 4 weeks ago
I love it how she says , when you get out of high school your nobody . Love you Jermaine (:
AnnaCamilaGrande 1 month ago 40
Your halarious!<3
ForverMadona21 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
i love how she tells it like it is...... like how she has those friends who are"secretlyyyy jelous"
;D loooove it(;
Rosalie97cutie 1 month ago
AMEN
IvannaElaine 1 month ago 19
My one 'friend' would never have any money for anything when we out for a meal & shopping. One day when she went to the toilet and left her handbag, my best friend & i quickly rummaged through & found she had atleast £60 for a £15 meal. When we told her we couldnt pay for her meal, she somehow amazingly found a wad of notes in her bag. Needless to say, as soon as we stopped paying for her meal or anything she claimed she had no money for, she stopped seeing us. Glad to get rid of such a cheapass
LubbliJubbli 1 month ago
What did I do? hmmm when krav maga on the little missy :) lmbo.
maldonado723 1 month ago
This is really inspiring.
chie15dam6 1 month ago
ur voice annoys me bahah:P:P
Sunnyrach 1 month ago
I love this video lol. & how I liked how you said "you build such a strong connection & they see what's in your life , etc. " lol. I got that before & still . But of course fake friends it's easy to tell when she is trying put an affection towards another person, all they do is used people up like money , etc. But this video is so true haha.
BeautifullJSM 1 month ago
Jarmaine, you are so inspiring! This video really helped me deal with fake friends. Thanks!!
Foreverlucky07 1 month ago
love this vid....
mina1329 1 month ago
I'll say this much, you will get the "REAL" when the "REAL" reacts.
MyJewls 1 month ago
I saw the video on the perfect time! I just found out who my fake freinds were, and girl i cried all the night! That bitch was like really rude on msn! :/
Ur cute girl!!~-3
lovemyfreinds1998 1 month ago
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jassuhellou 1 month ago in playlist Lisää videoita käyttäjältä JarmaineTV
your hilarious! I definitely agree with your video, and everything you said! well done!!
cyang125 1 month ago
you make me laf i wish i had a friend like you :(
EranNirindu 1 month ago
you are so great thank u for sharing you ideas and tips I appreciate you sharing parts of your life with us :) keep going J 3 u
Evita425 1 month ago
I think it's the lifestyle you live leads you to these people. Get out there, see some different peoples perpectives you could learn something. Oh and if you don't mind me saying, calm down with the make up! Too much! Beauty is inside girl!!
TheZiggen 1 month ago
Jarmaine, you are so right, you are beautiful and DO NOT let anyone or anything put you down! :) xo
filzah123456 1 month ago
OMG! Your so right about EVERYTHING in this video!
fredricastreet1993 1 month ago
@ponchandra dang sry to hear that
sstar48 1 month ago
Isolated in highschool but im ok. I very talented I have booked a cople commercials got the lead in my highschool play and am really figureing out me. learning about me. discovering me. Its amazing when your world gets blown up you realize alot of things. I watched this video to make i guess some sense that what i chose to do was in my mind right for me. and It was thanks. I have one best and I love her to death.
ponchandra 1 month ago
most popular basketball players in school, so i guess maybe thats why they thought it was ok for me to hang out with them. I am an amazing person! Im funny, sweet, caring, and a true confidant of a friend if you really get to know me! I have one best friend fiona she goes to my old school, and shes been with me through it all. even my mothers death. she died the day before my birthday. it sucks. most kids in highschool dont expiernce what I went through. till this day I am still a loner and ...
ponchandra 1 month ago
I was friends with these group of girls last year. (or so I thought) I have been a loner ever since freshman year, I reacted to my mothers death by Isolating myself from everyone, I felt rejected. i couldnt understand why this had to happen to me. Unappreciated, by everyone including my family... anyhow this year they wont talk to me look at me or even acknowledge th fact that we had plenty of GREAT time the previous year. All they cared about was being popular, Im stepsisters with one of the...
ponchandra 1 month ago
Jermaine 21st birthday jlovesmac
Kellzterr 1 month ago
hahaha ur funny
verrrr1 1 month ago
Luv ya Jarmaine!
missymissy0 1 month ago
Damn!! Ur good!
Claire1993able 1 month ago
Dear Jarmaine,
How to tell you parents that your dating
hairandnails98 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
Bahaha so true. Once high school ends everyone becomes a nobody again because people in the real world/college don't give a flying fuck about you XD
And i so agree with in have little to no friends. I talk to a lot of people and have a handful of acquaintances but good solid friends only 1 maybe 2. Plus I love just chilling and being by myself. So does not make you a loner, it just makes you independent and I think stronger since you don't need to have the company of others to make you happy :]
chibivampire90 1 month ago
@chibivampire90 I totally agree, once you walk across that stage it is you and your sword and you better know how to use it! I seriously have 3 GENIUINE friends, and unltimately I am my own best friend. It took me two years of high school drama to realize that I don't the quantity that I can stand alone and really be secure and damn happy!
MyJewls 1 month ago
So then after Sammi moved away I started being friends but not bffs with Stacy and wasn't talking to Sammi. All of a sudden Stacy had thought she like "won." After a while Sammi contacted me and wanted to hang out. I said sure and we did. I posted it on Facebook that we were hanging in no intention of me trying to get Stacy's attention. Now Stacy won't talk to me but takes my other friends and makes them not friends with me.
alizaaquino1 1 month ago
Well I had a these two friends and one of them didn't like her. I'll call one Stacy and one Sammi. So Stacy didn't like Sammi and so Stacy did everything to try and push me away from Sammi even if Sammi didn't do crap. I soon wasn't friends with Sammi then realized Sammi was more of a good friend than Stacy. I soon became bestfriends with Sammi then Stacy was calling me slut, whore and whatever crap....
alizaaquino1 1 month ago
LOL, i thought you said "Chris Didriona" like it was some sort of baseball player. but you said "CHRIS DID RIHANNA" lol
rawrxkaylie 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
I had a friend for like 3 years she was my best friend and sister but she changed alot ALOT!!! she didn't care about me she treated my like shit
Once I had a huge problem and all of my class turned against me I felt horrible for like a week my whole class hated me and the still do but I don't care anymore anyways when I needed her the most she ditched me and she told my old friends that I'm a bad person and shit when called her to tell her your a bad friend and stuff she lied and said that s
123Pinksassy 1 month ago
Jermaine thank you so much now I know who's real and who's not I feel much better now
And I love loneliness too anyways I'm subscribing
123Pinksassy 1 month ago
I had a "friend" in high school who all of a sudden decided to ignore me and try to turn mutual friends against me. Eventually, they came around and realized that she was just imposing her judgments of me onto them. They apologized and I forgave them because I haven't been the perfect friend either. It just sucks that jealousy can ruin a relationship.
livingdeadgrl18 1 month ago
I totally agree with you..and I can relate to what your saying..I'm sharing this...and subscribe to you...
2029sai 1 month ago
I had a bff...who chased after my bf's :( lol i didnt care at fisrt..until i found out she was trying to break us up...:/ weird eh?? Yea every boy i dated talked to..she'd call them and talk badly about me...and so you know me and each guy i talked to...seperated...to find out she was the one behind it was sad...we stopped being friends when she switched schools..oh well!
bootielisious 1 month ago
HAHAHAH! i love this!!!
HeatherVintage88 1 month ago
I can't even identify with this. Maybe it's an age thing. Like college/early 20's?
Anastasia4141 1 month ago
Bummer, I know exactly what you mean jelly bean. Dont you ever get lonely?
Purpleish03 1 month ago
i love how this story happens to me all the time i love how express yourself this is my real story of me wow speechless..!!!!!
rosell1989 1 month ago
omg you make so much sense <3
SeaCucumber9 1 month ago
EXACTLY
SkittleMonsterr13 1 month ago
i'm in 10th grade.i used to feel like i was a nobody. i felt like every1 had their own group of friends at school and i had nobody that i could really "talk" to.i mean i talk to alot of people but i dont really TALK to them lol really hard 2 explain. I'm really friendly but it seems like nobody gives an effort to talk to me.im not complaining im just expressing. I only have a few best friends that go to different schools and i used to be unsatisfied but i finally realized theyre all i need !
thatLITTLEgurl22 1 month ago
"sometimes this fist is hitting walls or hitting balls" xDDD
LidijaLiXiE 1 month ago
I absolutely love this. Well said :)
simplyvaleriex 1 month ago
I feel guilty watching your shows without having to pay.
zippyzoe 1 month ago
I have a cousin that is a year older than me and we've always been super close as we've grown up together. As we entered high school we both changed into completely different people.
I'm really dedicated to my studies and don't really dig the party scene and I live in a town full of very very blond caucasian people and my cousin lives in the ghettos of chicago. And one day she blatantly told me that she wanted to be exactly like me and pursued it for a while, and it was heartbreaking. ):
XxSydiixX 1 month ago
Ur beautiful!...Native.Pride!
hendersonthompson 1 month ago
So I had this bff, and then I started in highschool and we got on the same class. And boom, I realized how different we are. She always keep herself first, yah know, cant care that much about anyone else. And she's been a whole lot of another person the 11 years i knew here before high school and then I get to highschool and it's like, BOOM "you stole my friends, I've known them longer than you so I should be their bff!" she told me when I became good friends with her old good friends. Yeah.
themaddielovesite 1 month ago
We were "friends" for almost 6 years.then one day wen i switched schools she started ignoring my calls and txts my other friends said she "replaced" me with a new girl in school Tht kinda showed me she wasnt a real friend cause everyone else managed to stay friends Then i saw her and she said she wanted to make up but she blew me off again at first i cried at thaught about all the times we had but then i realized how much better it was without her and drama free. Now nobody can bring me down. (:
Aproductions1013 1 month ago
i love your video it was good. thats true people think oh friends this and friendds that..
but in all reality where the eff are ur friends gonna be in the next 10 years? nowhere.
missevah93 1 month ago
Hmmm yah I agree. And its like guys stay friends longer and make friends easier than girls. Thats why I think its easier to talk to guy friends because there is less drama.
lluvely 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
Wow, I really hope people aren't listening to her. Having friends make life so much better, good friends that is. They help you go through hard things, listen to you, laugh, etc. If it's someone who is close to you, you can't just flick them away. Talk to them about why they did what they did and forgive. Also, when you're in your "deathbed" I'm sure as hell you'll think about the people you love, a.k.a your FRIENDS and family.
MusicIsLife101x 1 month ago
@MusicIsLife101x again friends help you grow, their not there 24-7.
musiclove37ify 1 month ago
@MusicIsLife101x Not everyone is blessed with good friends.
coolfann1 1 month ago 23
Could you do a highschool related video?
filipinogirl1234 1 month ago
@filipinogirl1234 she did. look up " Surviving My High School" on her other channel :)
MrAngelandSarah 1 month ago
Fake Friends is redundant, the title 'Friends' will suffice. Show me a man or woman worth dying for and I will gladly do so.
seanzoz 1 month ago
i love you jarmaine, but after you said, "ok now that's just gay.", i immediately paused the video, and proceeded to type this comment. and now im leaving this video with just a little less respect for you. :/
xxxJOAR09xxx 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
@xxxJOAR09xxx I really wouldn't take that too seriously. People joke around like that all the time with no harm intended.
RissasOcean 1 month ago
ok i have to have friends i love spending time with them.. but a few good friends is better than 100 fake bitches. jealousy is the number one cause of fake friends.
laura88lee 1 month ago
U are not alone! I lose at least 2 friends a year because of this, recently 2 certain "friends" that are done with now, tried to steal my phone and tried to pretend they didn't have it. LAMES is my definition, straight LAMES!
MissPrincesskut 1 month ago
Yeah well same here I like my life the way it is even if I only have two "real" friends. The other girls I know are fake to me and i'm fake to themm too! I don't give a tiny rat ass about that coz as long as I have my family out there i'm ok. And you're right on what are "good friends", feels good to see that there's at least one person who thinks like me!
fannysmuzik 1 month ago
I can understand what you mean... I'm good at making friends.. but really crap at keeping them, i can get bored with people easily. I dunno.. i, get bored? what can i say.
iKellyannee 1 month ago
Samee thing ova here. Starting junior year I was around more teachers than anybody. didn't care cuz I was grasping knowledge, not popularity or non sense. My bf and I are best of friends since I was 15. Why? Substance substance substance. We Help each other grow. Love this vid, would love to chat wid u n be ur friend tho haha
Jleezyy 1 month ago
I hate my friends they ditched me at the lagoon the no one came to my damn birthday party
iheartlittleanimals 1 month ago
Oh my god u r just like me !!! I have no friends and I don't really care ha ha well what the hell..... I lovevmy life who cares if I sit alone at lunch..
iheartlittleanimals 1 month ago 30
@iheartlittleanimals U sit alone at luch? Biggest. Loser. EVER!!!
TokiLope 1 month ago
I made friends easily back in high school, most people knew me, however, at lunch I was alone, to hide that fact I didn't eat lunch cuz I was trying to find a crowd to fit in. Realized by Junior year, that I didn't belong to any groups so I decided to take on a job n was busy most of the time so the only time I could do hw is lunch time n tats when I was fine with being alone in the halls. Graduated n now in college, Learned tat I don't need to put a label on me when no labels could define me...
iComeWithU 1 month ago
Yeah, I had a friend. Then once I moved she decided to tell me we were never friends for the past 3 years.
MsHairgirly 1 month ago
Jelousy really does break friendship. and thats sad because society has alot to do with it!
Btw, i adore your videos you seem so friendly!
wanted to ask, where do you edit your videos?
SvelteBiuty 1 month ago
You guys act like you know EVERYTHING about her , and its true you dont need friends. thats why theres FAMILY .
itzangielolxz28 1 month ago
I love you! you are hilarious! subscribing!
blueeyesskinnythighs 1 month ago
I dont have many friends either but I dont hv any probs w it. They are so complicated.
nicedei 1 month ago
just find this channel of you...<3
nicedei 1 month ago
I have had a lot of fake friends and I don't like that one bit 'cause they are your friend not to be nice but for most of the time a entirely different reason and......etc
missitaly99 1 month ago
I agree!
Babyfer03 1 month ago
Omg Jarmaine! We are so much alike... Hahaha! I don't have many friends either.. I'd rather stick to hanging out with family now a days because in the end family will always be there!! We've gonna hangout some time Hahahaha though I do live in Alaska.. Bummer!!!
ForeverGandJ 1 month ago
I am the same way i can easily make friends but not keep them ...its weird to hear someone say that out loud... except for the jealously thing .. i dont have S@#$% ....lol
Jeebus110 1 month ago
LLLLLLLLLLLLLOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEE IT.....
626mexicanblondie 1 month ago
"busting walls or busting balls" LMFAO
pretdaymado 1 month ago
really helpful : )
christendominique 1 month ago
Love this video... Took the words out of my mouth :)
alvarezcoco123 1 month ago
What in the world are u talkin about? Everybody needs friends, ur prob too jealous of ur friends n insecure about yourself that's why ur makin this video talkin shit, dislike!!!
tjnabaybay 1 month ago
@tjnabaybay
You don't need to drop that bomb. I'm like Jarmaine, I have absolutely no close friends but does that mean that I'm jealous? No. Is she talking shit? No. It's her experience in life and she's offering her advice to people, like me, who have no friends, who are loners. At least respect that fact. And one day, you'll be thankful you watched this video b/c you're going to end up alone one day too.
animeluver45 1 month ago
" THATS RIGHT WALK AWAY YOU HAM LEGS, CHRISTIAN MY ASS..." lmfaooooo!
SuperBillee 1 month ago
Plus, i can relate on your story. iv had a lot of fake friends. First, they were nice to me but when they knw everything that i do, they become diff person and they backstabbed me. But i never get lonely for losing them because they are not worth my time. Like you, i can be a alone and i wouldn't have a problem with that. I shop alone, i watch a movie alone. Lol. But i do enjoy being by myself.
NurseAli05 1 month ago
i believe you won't find your true friends until your old and gray bc by then you can look around and see who's next to you and that's you "true friend(s)"
jarell026 1 month ago
House Tour Please! :) xx
13xxSarahxx31 1 month ago
I would love to be a good friend of yours.. :-)
NurseAli05 1 month ago
@sandobalvanessa umm... so ur saying its better to have tons of 'friends' than just a few good friends? i know I have experienced a few fake friends and ALL of them had tons of 'friends'. Fake people are fake to everybody, thats why they have so many 'friends'... its better to have a few good than 50 fake
Ziahera 1 month ago
I had a fight with a fake friend
40PrettyLame 1 month ago
when is ur birthday ? just curious
shivaeternity 1 month ago
@Sandobalvanessa Seems pretty unintelligent to pass judgement on someone you know know through their youtube videos. You have no clue about all of the dimensions that actually make up this person... only their youtube persona. There is nothing wrong with being a loner, or not having a lot of friends. A strong, confident person doesn't need to surround themselves with other people.
Undeadftw711 1 month ago 50
you're so relate-able.. i need to inbox you soon and just talk about stuff.. i finally found someone that will actually understand without judging :)
jmnhotgirl 1 month ago
*nows* my chance I mean
debodrumsitck27 1 month ago
My friend like one day she's being totally annoying and acting like a kid and the next day she's acting like she's better than me and talking to me looking down on me and all that and all she talks about is boys boys boys. I mean I look at boys too...like a lot but in my opinion it gets REALLY annoying when you ONLY talk about boys ALL THE TIME and anyway but ya so now she's gonna go to a different school so how's my chance to drift away
debodrumsitck27 1 month ago
The point of this video is about being yourself; that mean you don't have to be someone you are not because you want people to like you. She would rather be alone than be surrounded by people who just pretend they're someone they are not. I'd rather have 2 GOOD friends than 20 friends - quality over quantity. Great video Jarmaine.
tinkerbellarina 1 month ago
Ignore Haters Gal You Amazingg!!
lilmissamazingdiva 1 month ago
Love Youxx x !! Haha So right
lilmissamazingdiva 1 month ago
got a weird vibe from her........ and its not a good one
lunais05 1 month ago
Did anyone notice how it was daytime and then by the video it was night time. Haha. NICE @JarmaineTV #commitment. Hope u find good friends. Glad I have ONE
lilbee07 1 month ago
I love your videos, but i don't think it's a good idea to go around telling people that it's okay to be lonely and not have any friends. You claim that you don't have any friends at all because ALL of them are jealous of you? I don't think they're ALL jealous of you, i think you might of done/said something to upset them. Having friends is a good thing, you can have fun and trust them, as long as you treat them right. To be honest, you sound really bitter in this video,you don't sound very happy
tenasha8 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
people that are being bullied are not fake friends they just did not have the luck to find good friends . there are many reasons that explain that someone is alone most of the time and that fact does not make the person who they r . the important thing is to be happy regardless of how people are because there are a lot more mean persons than good so if someone is a fake friend whats the point of being friend with them.and if because of that you r alone thats fine because you dont need them!!
thu8kim 1 month ago
So are you calling Andrea, Sophie, and Marissa FAKE?!? I thought you guys were friends, but i guess not huh. =/
1snitches1 1 month ago 5
she seems like really untrustable....
fruitbat816 1 month ago 4
JARMAINE, EVERYTIME I FEEL LONELY I JUST WATCH THIS VIDEO. makes me feel better and realize the truth.
elless0724 1 month ago
@sandobalvanessa no ,i know what she feels like girls pretend to be her friend but secretly jealous of her, its just stupid, ihave met tons of girls like that why bother be friends with them when u hear that ur "friend" is sayin all this shit about u , and jar makes videos to help people she doesnt seem like a bitch at all why would she be the fake one shes beautiful funny and smart ther are tons of insure girls that would be jealous
aaahriannelewis 1 month ago
When all else fails, you still have your dogs.
analizcutie123 1 month ago 3
did she really just say "thats so gay" like seriously?? no offense jeremaine
1tough0reo 1 month ago 2
@1tough0reo yeah.. thats what i thought too.. not a very nice word to use.
elless0724 1 month ago
@elless0724 ty lol i was like omibob did she rewally?
1tough0reo 1 month ago
This actually makes me a bit sad :/ I understand what ur saying, but I really think everybody should have friends. I have a lot of friends, but nobody who I can really like tell everything and who gets me compeletely. They're still my friends, and I hold on to them and try to get to know them better. I am sorry if u have had only those "fake" friends, but if u got to know a lot of people, u can find a true friend. U just have to give them a chance.
Btw, I love u Jarmaine ur amazing and funny:)
missmealways1001 1 month ago
4 some reason mine is my hole family they all fake and kids and husband. lol now im just moved myself into another room of ours which was my granddaughter's room now it mine.. I STOPPED ALL THE U,U,U,U,U,'S AND NO I,I,I,I,I,'S. THEY DO ALOT OF BLAMING..
Native36babe 1 month ago in playlist More videos from JarmaineTV
it seems like she's bragging that people are jealous of her...
Missjwhite20 1 month ago
i so disagree w/ the top comments . iknow what our saying jarmaine !
BrittanyTheGenius 1 month ago 3
what about u and heart? still ur friend?
tequii8 1 month ago 4