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  • These vlogs seem to be great emotional therapy. I'm still learning my way around youtube but I'm gonna have to give it a shot soon. There are people that are miserable in their own lives and want to pass that on to others so they are insignificant in your life and don't let them get to you! ;) - cj

  • Honestly I think since I have been vlogging I have seen a huge difference in myself As well as dealing with things that are going on I really hope you do give it a shot and just know you have me to support you Always Tons of hugs ♥Mel®

  • Hope you get this. I dont know if you believe in Angels, but you are 1!!!! Thanks for the Comment you left on my "Simple-Update" It meant alot to me. YOu always talk about many Hugs.... There are MANY hugs coming to you from Heaven. Thanks for the Words...Mel!!!

  • You are so sweet BTW I feel the same way when it comes to you I sent a email to the soldier's sister btw Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • My dear friend; You have nothing to appoligize for. You hear me! Don't even feel guilty in the least bit. I've sent you several messages thru utube.{thru your profile under messages} I don't think you've recieved them. Gonna try to email you, ok? Hav alot I need to talk to you about. Your friend Gail

  • Hi Gail Thank you so much for understanding and being a friend I know I should apologize but you feel guilty when you outpour your emotions sometimes I didn't get any emails but I'm responding to your IM now Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • This is probably the first video i've watched of yours. I can't even begin to explain how amazing you are. ((HUGS))

  • Thank you so much and I'm glad you found my channel I'm really looking forward to watching your channel Also Thank You so much for the hugs they are well needed Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You aren't boring.People can be so cruel.Just for the record,we support our troops.Your family will be in our prayers.:)

  • Thank You for the comment and you are right its amazing how cruel some people may be in this world but there are so many amazing people that outweigh that especially when they reach out to one another Thank you for doing that Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • I have no words, so all I can give you IRL would be a hug... so *hug* You deserve a real one, but... *hugs again*

  • You can never go wrong with Hugs and Thank you for giving me some They are treasured Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Some people love to be hateful and they love it even more when they can tell themselves they are justified to be so. It's a very sad thing. Whatever your position on the war, you are the wife a hero and you have every right to be proud of that. As for your son, he has not been lost but only delayed. He can not come to you but you will go to him.

  • I always loved that saying that I will go to him Its a day I will embrace to finally see his face once again He was and still is such a beautiful child Thank you for this comment but especially knowing the words to say that I needed to read Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • First of all congrats on the 3.4 lb loss. Thats fantastic! As to the person that posted the nasty comments...I dont care what your view are on the war, saying something like that is just horrible. At first i couldn't beleive some of the negativity thats on YouTube, but then i realized its just like real life. Its best to ignore the haters. You have a beautiful family...don't forget that!

  • Thank you so much for 3.4 lbs gone I was really happy with that especially since I'm doing the 101 day challenge Also thank you in regards to the comment that was left and being a great supporter through this time Thank You so much again Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • I'm sorry that your husband is deploying again. We did 15 months 2 years ago; looking at a possible deployment again. I think I can deal with it better this time, if it happens. P.S.  35 isn't old. Don't be negative. It will all be good again.

  • Thanks I know that the 2nd time around with deployment will not be as difficult as the first William just returned in March of last year He deployed 27 days after we got married so our first year of marriage was through a deployment I'm just upset that he will miss the first anniv of our son's death Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Don't beat yourself up on top of the sadness you're dealing with right now. You'll get back on track. One of the women in my birthing class also lost her baby a week before her due date. It has been 6 and a half years, and I still think about her and wonder how she could deal with it.

  • Thank You Its only been 5 months since we lost Zachary they say it takes time but its a loss that you never recover fully from Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You are officially the most supportive person on you tube...so sending you loads of support back. Allixxx

  • You are beyond sweet Its really important for me to be there for others just like they have been there for me Thank You for everything Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You are the most supportive person I've come across on youtube, so sending you loads of support back. Allix

  • You are an amzing woman, beautiful and so strong!Thankyou so much for sharing this with us!I dont really know what to say...stay strong!Always here for you, and I will be thinking of you!Much love!xxx

  • There are moments you just don't feel strong but you struggle to get through it like I do for Jared and William They are worth the fight each day To be honest they give me strength but so does the support you guys give me to Thank You so much Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You are a great person that much is completely clear. you're a great wife and an amazing mother. Your son's and husband are blessed to have you as i'm sure you feel the same way to have them. This month will be difficult but you're strong and you'll make it. There are a lot of people there for you and in that respect you're very lucky. Zachary has already received more love in his short life than some children will ever receive. All the best to you and your family mel. *hugs*

  • That is one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me, I know before I go2 sleep every night I speak to Zachary and I always say I really hope you can feel the love we have for you Thank You for what you said and especially for being a friend Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Great job on the weight loss this week! Keep it up! You'll make it through January.

  • Thank you I know anything is possible with the support the group offers You guys are so amazing and I'm really thankful to have found you guys Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Hi Mel. You're looking great. 35 is NOT old. Not even close. You MUST stay strong, for yourself AND your family. The number of GOOD people on YouTube outnumbers the idiots by a wide margin. I know it's hard, but don't let them get you down. Lou.

  • Thanks Lou That means so much especially the age thing William is still in his 20s LOL But you are so right about the people here on YouTube I adore each and every one especially the ones that are always offering me support Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Oh sweetie girl...I will have to do vlog to this one asap. Until then, know that my heart and soul are with you. You are so precious and dear. I just want to reach in there and HUG YOU so bad! Just hold on, I know it's tough, but you are strong. And to the haters: F*CK ALL Y'ALL! SERIOUSLY.

  • You are doing so much for us as it is Especially the painting for Zachary That alone is doing wonders for us Thank You so much again and I can not wait for a day I can finally give you a hug in person One day I will Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • be strong. bless you.

  • Thank you for the encouragement Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel, don't be embarrassed because your eyes are red. You are such a wonderful person. I wish that we could could get together. I can't take away your pain, I wish I could. You didn't ruin the blog. This is how you feel, you have the right to feel this way. (((HUGS)))

  • I tell you there is one thing I'm going to have to do while I'm here in Germany is to take a trip to see you As well give you a huge hug for being such a supportive friend Thank You for everything You have been there since the beginning and before I lost Zachary Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • That's absolutely CRAZY that someone would say that they hope your husband dies...glad you let it out...your a better person than I am...hope this month gets better...Jill <3

  • Thank you Jill You have gone through so much recently and it means so much that you are supporting me through Its something William taught me especially when people verbally express their feelings to us in person (its happen a couple of times when they find out he is a soldier) Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You just hang in there. I really enjoy your videos and it's awesome you are trying to open up, it is part of healing. If people make rude comments or unsubscribe to you because of your thoughts, they are quite frankly close minded and not worth your time anyway.

  • Thank You That is exactly what my husband said as well But your right they were not worth my time and I need to learn that at times because I'm always trying to support others sometimes you just can't do that Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • hun u seem like ur tryin to hold back ur emotions and u don thave to believe me u dont have to because we are here to give u a shoulder to lean on u are so warmhearted n u have nothin to lose by openin up n I want you to know if u need somebody to talk bout serious issues my ears are open...my heart is too...

  • Honestly I know I'm holding back a lot I'm really trying to learn to let go but I have so much fear of releasing more Especially since family members view this vlog BTW Thank you for being a friend and willing to be there That is huge, know the same goes for you as well Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel, you don't have to apologize for your feelings. You and your family have gone through hell with the loss of Zachary. I can't even imagine it. Your feelings are valid so feel them and let them out. Big hugs to you!

  • Thank you for the hugs, the support and especially the friendship It means so much more then I can express I know your going through a hard time as well Just know I am here for you as well Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • you are a beautiful person and you and your familly deserve alot of happiness.

  • Thank you so much Jared and William are my world and in many ways I am beyond bless with having them in my life Thank you so much again for everything Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel, the people who write mean things to you about your husband are probably just kids being idiots. Even those of us who have different opinions about the war can still appreciate what the soldiers' families go through. Stay strong, Mel! xoxoxox

  • Oh and your honesty was very brave. I found it extremely hard to be around anyone pregnant until I finally got pg again. Jealousy just ate me alive no matter how hard I tried to stop it.

  • I'm slowly getting better But I still avoid babies I know its a reality that I need to face up to I remember the first outing we took after we lost Zachary and we were surrounded @ a food court I sat in a corner trying to avoid seeing them because all I wanted to do was cry Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Its amazing how much people don't see what our soldiers go through and the family Sadly its not doesn't even end after the deployment It carrys on after at times especially with PTSD Thank You for being there Thank You so much Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You look great!

  • Thank you You always look great Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel - I posted a video reply to your video, if you don't want to add it to your vlog, that's fine, I'm sorry I was so emotional too. The video was meant really for you...One Gazillion Hugs to you. Crystal~

  • Your video response to me means the world to me More then I could ever express Having someone really understand completely the pain you go through with a loss of a child I'm so sorry that you endured this and know I am here for you Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Hi Mel :) I have been trying to send you messages all day, you tube won't have it though! It better eventually get to you! I just wanted to tell you that I was sorry for your loss and I wish I had some way to ease your pain, I know there is no way, but I am here for you if you ever need me!

    angie

  • I know I have been having the same issues with YT and my emails are not going through 90% of the time Angie Thank you for just being there, offering support that helps ease the pain More then words could ever express Just know I'm here for you to Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • RAWR!!

  • Hi Zany!

  • RAWR!! Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Thanks for sharing Mel. Everywhere I go I see your positive posts, encouraging people along. You add a lot to youtube by just being here

  • Thank You so much especially for noticing that Its one of my passions sadly But I love the community here on YouTube The friendships you can create and especially the Support You guys mean the world to me Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Hugs right back at you mel. Its good to see you smile once in a while through a v-blog like this. Thnx for sharing your life a little bit with the rest of us

  • Thank you for watching it I know it was really long emotional rant Your hugs mean the world to me so does your support Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • I love Chocolate... Try the South Beach Chrispy Chocolate Bars they are great tasting only 210 Calories, 19g of Prtien, 23 Vit and Minerals... 3g net carbs... Great as meal replacement... Also Atkins Chocolate Royale Shake great meal replacement... Hang in there... your doing great... I need your help too... "EyeofTiger007"

  • I'm here for ya and if you need support don't worry you now have it The bars sound great just sadly its not something I can get over here in Germany Its so limited what we can get Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel you know me and that I think you are awesome! I am glad that there was still smiles in this vlog coming from you.

  • You are such a huge inspiration Always positive Always supportive and Always with a smile Thank you for pushing us through this weight loss and for your amazing friendship Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Aww Mel, I know that was an emotional vlog but I think important. Of course you know how our family feels about supporting our military! Haters will come and go but your friends will be here to listen and offer a hug or two. You are an inspiration to me in how you handle your diet and dealing with the loss of your little one. Hang in there and know that you can vent anytime, you let us do it over and over and show us support. Its a two way street my friend!

    Take care, Martha

  • You are so right Martha and there is nothing more powerful then the friendship Its one of the biggest gifts anyone can ever offer Your friendship is one that I will always treasure Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • I wish I could give you a hug. Congrats on the weight loss and don't worry about the haters on YT...I know people on here can be hurtful. I just imagine that they're lashing out because someone else hurt them. Hope you feel better soon.

  • Thank you for being here for me especially the wish of a hug That means a lot So Much Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You give me strength, Mel. I do not talk about the war either. My views are my own, someday I may speak, but for now, I find it just too difficult. Thanks for being open here.

  • That means so much You have gone through such a hard journey already in your life If anyone gives strength its you Thank you for being a supportive friend Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel, It has been such a pleasure to know you. I watch all of your videos and I just wish I could reach through the computer screen and give you a big hug and say a prayer with you. You make any kind of blog you want girl. I will watch them all. Luv you girl. Keep you chin up. ~ Roberta ~

  • Roberta You have been such amazing supporter, cheerleader and friend since I met you here on YouTube I can always count on you to find away to cheer me up Just know I am here to do the same for you Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Mel,

    You know I support you completely regarding soldiers, as you said on my page (which I accidentally deleted the comment you left me while trying to reply to it) We're army wives and we have to stick together. I adore you so much, and you know you can vent to me anytime.

  • Sarah You have supported me through so much even through my first deployment with William Thank You and as Army Wives You and I will always have amazing bond and friendship Love you lots Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • you know i'm always here for you sweetie. I had more than just this comment, but for some reason it didn't show up. But the point is that I'm here if you need me anytime.

  • The same goes for you as well Especially with your husband's deployment coming up I know this will be your first so no matter what I am here for you always Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • Sorry to hear about the silly nilly who unsubscribed and blocked you! What an over reaction!!! Are you not entitled to your own opinions, feelings, thoughts, and emotions?! Why must people be such hypocrites? I really can't identify with the thought process behind that sort of behavior.

  • I agree it really was a over reaction but you know me If I feel like I offended someone I would like to know why but also fix it But that is something that I can not do here Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • You had me on the verge of tears every time it looked like you were about to cry! :'( You cut the video in the right places though.

    You should be proud of your husband and all the other solders... They are doing what they think is right for the safety of the US.  Though I do not think we should be in Iraq, the soldiers are not to blame! They are doing their best.

  • Ha as to cutting the video in the right place that wasn't something I planned LOL Thankfully it happened that way It took a long time for me to get the words out so I would begin to cry stop wait a few and start again Tons of hugs ♥Mel

  • 3.4 lbs is awesome, Mel! Great job!!! Dieting will get easier and more rewarding the longer you stick to it... Results are really inspiring and give you an investment in your continuing weightloss journey!

    You should try to find a healthier alternative to hershey's kisses... Like maybe some dark chocolate with less fat/sugar.

  • You won't get me complain about dark chocolate to be honest I really need to avoid it all together I try to pawn it off last night on the kids but it didn't work so today its going into the garbage Thanks for being a great friend Tons of hugs ♥Mel

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