I am a Police Officer in Australia. I was recently investigated as the result of a complaint from a female Domestic Violence perpetrator who claimed that only men can be offenders and thus I was sexist in charging her. As a result (she smashed her husband's face with a coffee cup, and then kicked 3 teeth out while he was unconscious) I lost my promotion, and I have been told that I cannot expect to be promoted as a "sexist." By the way, I was cleared in the investigation.
G'day, I'm an Australian guy. Since my early teens I always had this underlying feeling like to be a guy was to be worth less than a female. I felt jealous of girls and felt they had everything. I wanted to be a female, not because I thought I was one on the inside since I always acted male and felt male, but because I thought being a guy made me somehow worthless. Of course, today I celebrate my manhood but I can understand now clearly why I had those feelings for a long time.
Where do homosexuality fit in with your idea of the nuclear home? Anyone?! I don't disagree with you but this is a legitimate family structure you just don't mention and I'm curious to hear about it.
What has happened to the two movements. Many feminist seem anti-male, and most of the MRM seems misogynist.
Feminist are supposed to seek equal rights for women. Equal pay, equal opportunity to play sports, etc. Surely women have a lot of work to do in many areas - Government, Business, etc.- But there is no place in any movement for hatred. The MRM is raging against women, when in seems a lot of their problems are because of the male elite.
We're all human beings. We can do better than this.
To all of you hatred filled beast in the audience, remember this woman is raising two boys. And as a man betrayed all my life by women, I have to tell you, my single mother, thanks to my grandfather being quite wimpy, worshiped tough guys, one of whom tried to KILL ME. What did she do? She told me to just stay away from him. I enlisted to get away from him, how ironic is that? She did at least have the sense to talk me out of the Army and into the Air Force We need more women like this blogger!
I was watching this video again and completely forgot about the erotica part....would stories about a society that treats women like adults and expects them to be responsible for their actions be considered erotica or science fiction lol. Maybe a bit of both:)
You know, for all the rambling that I do on your comments section, it's safe to say that you are the ONLY female that I can trust in regards to addressing men's rights. I have gone on all these other videos where most of these women make the claim to support men's rights and equality only to hear them call themselves Feminists, and spout some covertly misandric nonsense on the comments section of videos addressing male issues, or make videos trying to "expose" the advocates for men's issues.
@RichardRich89 One woman blogger on gender issues I really enjoy is Typhonblue of Genderratic. She does focus on the female side of things a little more than I do, but mostly in the sense that she feels women have failed (or society has failed to expect women) to rise to the responsibility/accountability standard of equality.
I like pretty much everything she has to say about women and big girl panties.
Something I wanted to share. In the U.S., if you are a military member (mostly men of course), the benefits you get (housing, food, etc..) are given a monetary value that is recorded by the federal government. However, also in the U.S., if you are a single mom, BOTH benefits and actual money received for housing, food stamps, medical care, etc.. are NOT RECORDED by the federal government when determining poverty statistics. (continued in reply)
@ActaNonVerba71 (continued) The result is that the percentage of Americans ACTUALLY LIVING in poverty/squallor who are women is wildly inflated. A woman making $5,000, a year and living with her child in a small apartment with central heating and air and a having a government-issued card to buy food with is viewed exactly the same as a man making $5,000 a year renting a stall in a horse stable and eating cans of beans.
I've been posting your channel and blog on free dating websites as the example of what a woman is suppose to be...I'm letting women know about the MRM, MRM, and MGTOW...how strange, no dates, no hate, no comments, but they are looking.
@maxjosephwheeler i have a question have you ever put up an ad that says stuff like "must own your own house , pay for half of dates and be prepared to be treated equally financially?,, must be willing to never marry and maintain your own household seperate from mine at all times?
@maxjosephwheeler this is something that needs to be done more and more i think
sign me up for this type of personal ad for sure ,, a dating ad that puts the mrm values on the table for single women to actually look at and let them know its not going to be how it was before for much longer
@Dobogio Yes, I'm very mean. Meanness is a tool of the patriarchy which I have internalized, and which I serve with the mindless devotion of a drug-addicted zombie.
Or, alternately, she was really beginning to annoy me.
@fixt100 Yes she did. She's convalescing after a surgery, so I'm sure she has a fuckton more time to waste here than any of us have trying to deal with her.
im pretty sure feminists look at child support like this its"rights of the child" in the courtroom decision, and rights of the "mother" as soon as the court orders child support.
lol wtf is she even talking about anymore....I'm so lost I can't keep with the amount of times she changes supjects, straw mans and ad Homs everyone. I'm legitimately at a lost....if science and evidence aren't"good enough"then I think this fight is pointless.
Look it's not as if I think women have it easy, of course we don't, it's just men also have it rough too, like when capable, loving father's are kept from their children for no other reason than the mother wanting that and the court system allowing it.
@PuffyAmiYumi My reply was to say thank you for commenting. And to let you know that I don't believe women have no issues, but that I feel the millions of feminists, white knight politicians and decent, socially evolving people kind of have that job in hand.
I've gotten quite a few comments and PMs from women who had some inkling that things "weren't quite right" with our one-sided approach to equality and empathy. I hope women like them and you can help enact positive change.
@girlwriteswhat i dont know how to describe it, but I absolutely love how with so many online feminists and manginas clogging up your space that you are still very able to hold your own verbally very well against them. if youtube arguments were like fighting, youd be Conan. im very impressed.
I assumed everyone here had passed 8th grade biology but I'll summarize quickly. What you and women studies call nonsense science calls fact. Neurology, hormone research. studies on chromosomes, cat scans, physiological studies, psychological research and all matter of objective tangible scientific studies have confirmed repetaily through the scientific process that men and women are inherently different due the biological origin or the genders.
@Dobogio To what extent, though? Are all women natural secretaries who like nail polish, pink fluffy things, and cleaning house? Do all women nag and pout and fly into hysterics? Are all men natural truck drivers or construction workers who grunt like gorillas, don't know how to clean up after themselves and cannot function without a woman to cook for them? Are all men naturally clueless and bumbling yet somehow the family leader? (Look at TV shows...) So why do we think this way?
@Dobogio Besides, what does this imply? Women and men are so different that they need different rights, as if they were two species? That women can't do things men can and men can't do things that women can? All bullshit. Men can be great teachers, secretaries and nurses just like women can be great mechanics or carpenters. Both genders can successfully raise a child single-handedly. Both genders deserve equal treatment and equal opportunities - not stunted 'ideas' of what gender means.
"Women and men are so different that they need different rights, as if they were two species?"
You are quickly becoming an echo-chamber of one. Hermetically sealed even if you have to argue FOR AND AGAINST special rights for one sex simultaneously, you are doing it! And you probably don't even notice it, do you?
FYI, what you "would" support is not of consequence at all, it is what IS .. that matters.
@utubehayter Am I? Do you know me? Do you honestly, truly think that what I want is for women to subjugate men? Disgusting. Just as disgusting as the reverse. First-and-second wave feminism fought for many legal rights to be allotted to women. I support this. Just as I support new regulations to help men, as I was saying below with the biased divorce court issue and the sad pressure on boys to be 'dumb brutes' or so unemotional (or else, GASP, he's a 'sissy fag')
@utubehayter I see myself as being pretty equally supportive of men and women. @Dobogio and I are discussing what may be false information in feminist thinking, and what gender really means. @fixt100 and I are talking about reproduction/parenthood rights.
You can see yourself as a pink unicorn if you like.. it doesn't make it so and doesn't make a damn difference when you take two positions that are contrary to each other and pretend as if reality doesn't matter.
@utubehayter Okay - You can point things out to me, you know. I appreciate feedback. If you have something to teach me, feel free. I appreciate good probing criticism as long as it's constructive and logical. You can inbox me.
@ladyjennalyn Enforced child support in the case of unwanted pregnancies--in your word, a right of parents rather than children--forces unwilling men to be subjugated to women. She makes the unilateral choice. He pays, whether he wants to or not.
That is subjugation to women. Especially if you believe child support is the "right" of the custodial parent and not the child, as you have stated.
@girlwriteswhat Ooof, yes, its such a tricky subject. Unfortunately, I think the biggest issue is that it's so easy for women to financially screw a man because she's so likely to get custody. Almost everyone has a story like that, eh? How should the system work, then, in your opinion? I think that a girl who purposely goes off birth control should not be entitled to child support from the man, and that custody should have nothing to do with gender.
@fixt100 Yeah, I wish there could be 'License to Breed' like we make dog owners have dog licenses. Haha! Okay, not totally serious, but...You're right about the pill. Don't you wish guys could just take a pill too?
@xjennalynx so you skipping the reply then? are you then conceding that women have no right to child support without previously implied consent to create children?
@ladyjennalyn oh wait (most) alll female forms of birth control rely on the truthfulness of the woman in question? she said she took her pill (but she didnt)....where the mans is quite visable....
Just admitting skipping pills? That is not enough. It has to be intent, otherwise it is an accident. Sometimes, even if they admit their intention, men are still burdened with it, because "You want to deny the little child support? Who else should pay for it? He should have kept it in his pants!".
@Dobogio If a man wants to like pink and act 'emotional', he should be able to without "FAG" screamed at him. Women should be able to dress in clothes that aren't tight and revealing and still be considered well-dressed. Why should we tell our little girls that they are 'pretty' as if this were the highest possible comment? Why should we tell our little boys that they are 'big and strong' as if all men are good for is dumb muscle?
Just to give a good comment here, to GirlWritesWhat, hang in there...people are watching who appreciate the job you're doing. In this world where the male voice is muted to nothing and discarded, and the female voice raised in dissent is hated by the lock-step feminists, we need your voice to ring true and it DOES! Thank you! Thank you from the bottom of my heart...from someone who has been raped and molested by a woman and watched as the law protected her from her victim....me.
Women studies is scientific and factual....yet women studies is rarely peered reviewed and considers scientific constructs as sexist and a system of oppression because women don't excel in those fields. The entire premise of the patriarchy and it's "theories on gender"is compiled through distorted data, inflated satisfies or in some cases fabricated ideas....Richard Dawkins explains in detail why women studies is a joke scientifically and academically.
I don't think you understand how hard wimmins studies has it. How scientific can you be, if your arguments can be dismissed by "Patriarchy!" or "Misogynist!"? Yet the try, by inventing terms, inventing history.. i mean herstory, inventing "facts" and getting really angry at anyone without looking at the actual data! Wimmins studies have been very productive for centuries.. You don't know anything because you are .... umm...er...."Patriarchy!"
@Dobogio I learned, rather, how society's pressure upon boys & girls is driving them towards different personalities, interests, and behaviours, making our world so gendered that we can no longer tell what a girl or boy or supposed to be like naturally. For example, boys are more likely to be scolded and drop out in school; they get lower grades but higher achievement scores. Why is that? Girls get higher grades and lower achievment scores. How is our society shaping these differences?
@Dobogio If women and men CAN and do succeed equally on an intellectual level, then why do men and women gravitate towards different fields? That can't just be explained by some biological nonsense - penises and testosterone should not make a boy who does better in science, and yet American boys do go for science fields. Likewise, estrogen and a vagina really shouldn't equate to 'nurse' (rather than dentist, doctor, etc) and yet girls go for nursing way more often. Why?
How funny....the only way to know about gender and feminism is to be one yourself or take women studies. I suppose directly observable objective evidence means nothing because it wasnt pre-approved by feminisnt or women studies.....geez what would ever make anyone thing feminist was a cult lol.
@Dobogio Or read books. Yes. Reading or studying are the only ways to become well-versed on something (theoretical - physical tasks like mechanic knowledge can also be learned by doing). Is this a surprise?
Third world gendered violence is a myth, because generally speaking everyone suffers. Granted the treatment of women their are far more savage then how men historically treat women which would give the impression to ignorant feminist scholars that its a "women problem"....but even inf third world countries women are still valued above men in almost the same dynamic as other cultures and nations.
During war times, it was historically common for the men and boys to be killed first as they present a immediate threat and potential future resistance. Women and girls came with the territory as the "spoils of war". Whatever group of dominate man prevailed got the land, the land's resources and the land's women....it was almost always a packaged deal. In fact there are some records that even document blood thirsty warlords ordering their generals and soldiers to not kill the females.
I'm honestly glad that I found your channel. I think I have had a rather eye opening day today because of your videos. I've always been for equality of the sexes both men and women, but was always lead to believe that it was the women who generally speaking were the underdog, and you've taught me we really, REALLY are not. Men are unfairly treated in society a lot more than I thought, so yeah...THANK YOU.
@PuffyAmiYumi Thank you for the comment. I want to make clear that I don't think women have zero problems or issues. But currently, those issues are being addressed left, right and center, and the public consensus seems to be that men CAN'T have systemic issues that marginalize them, "because, well, all those male politicians and CEOs and the pay gap and yadda yadda yadda."
We need to treat both sides of the problem, and women are simply further along that process right now.
@girlwriteswhat Absolutely, I knew that there were unfair issues that men and women had to deal with but watching your videos, made me realize that men do have more disadvantages than I had previously thought, there does need to be a balance and it really is unfair that society does seem to favor one over the other, and it's a shame that a lot of feminists don't consider men's issues more. Your videos are truly all about equality, where as a lot of feminist's don't.
@ladyjennalyn You're one of those people who think women in the third world suffer uniquely. Odd, how during the Rwandan genocide, they separated out the males, even as young as two, and slaughtered THEM, and men and boys dressed like women to try to escape the violence. Know why that was done? Because slaughtering women and girls would've overburdened the slaughterers with trauma and guilt. 80% who made it to refugee camps were female.
But only women have problems in the third world, right?
@girlwriteswhat It's really very obvious that you do not have ANY background in gender studies. The only people who are agreeing with you have even less knowledge than you do. The websites that link here are extremely hateful - luckily you are not, but you are drawing their attention - Kind of like how some people think I'm a genius for knowing DOS and knowing how to fix basic computer problems, but if I made a youtube video, anyone with a computer background would laugh.
@ladyjennalyn Really? Have you watched my video on systemic gendered violence, something that the gender experts who've attended gender studies insist is a "unique" problem for women, even though it is neither gendered nor systemic?
So yeah. Not really gonna put much stock in gender studies or the kinds of research it puts out. When *I* can name at least three different kinds of bias in half the studies, there's something seriously wrong.
@girlwriteswhat Are you sure they actually went to university? I don't think anyone at my school would stand for a women-only approach. Especially considering the number of men in the classes.
One can't possibly understand anything about gender without realizing that a system designed to segregate and oppress relies upon aggressive pressure and unrealistic ideals for all of humanity. Where did those people go to school?
@ladyjennalyn Classic example of the appeal to authority fallacy. Also feminists are very bad at gender studies, as they have a ideological frame work to stick too. When science disproves their ideological frame work, they have to label it sexist or patriarchal. Feminist are wrong on gender, they are wrong on history. they are wrong on psychology. Feminist is just crap, the more I like into it the more I find holes in the entire thing. The only form of femnism I can take is first wave.
@girlwriteswhat Also, the website you write for is about 31 flavours of batshit. "to women that think they are entitled to cut off their man’s penis if he treats her badly, or if he doesn’t wait for her to cum, or if he wants a divorce." .... Excuse me? What sort of sick people do you hang out with?
"Throughout the natural world, females are sexual selectors for reproduction, while males usually compete for selection... humans are no different. " - Uh. No. Not our relatives.
@ladyjennalyn Um...you do realize that Lorena Bobbitt's first statement to police was, "He deserved it. He's a selfish lover, he never waits for me to orgasm." Abuse wasn't even mentioned until it went to court.
Catherine Becker greeted police at the door with, "He deserved it." The only reason that's come to light thus far is that he filed for divorce.
Of course, lots of people have felt free to laugh and joke about those men. And praise the women who did it.
@girlwriteswhat Great, cool. Two people. Just like there was once this guy named Timothy McVeigh and these other dudes that hijacked some planes...therefore most men love to blow up buildings! Wait, what? You mean most people DON'T support the crazy violent acts of a few deranged souls? Get out. Gasp.
@girlwriteswhat Lots of people laugh about really awful things on the Internet and elsewhere - like those comments on the Caylee Anthony Youtube vids that say something stupid like "Awkward boner!" or "I'd hit that". That's not a fair representation of people.
@ladyjennalyn I know. An entire studio audience of women laughing at it on daytime TV and in living rooms all over, that's not indicative of people or how they view men.
Now pardon me while I go watch a snuff film of a woman getting her breasts cut off and laugh my ass off. Oh wait, not I won't, because that would be fucking sick, wouldn't it?
@girlwriteswhat I thought they were being stupid and sarcastic. They were trying to be that 'controversial funny' and they failed spectacularly. Sharon Osbourne is trying to be that 'crazy but cool controversial figure that her husband was in his day but only ends up looking like an idiot. I don't believe- I CAN'T believe - that a normal human being would find mutilation funny. The backlash on that was horrible. They disabled the comments on the YT vid; people were PISSED.
@ladyjennalyn I know! That's why Sharon Osbourne couldn't make it through the apology that was finally extracted from her without dissolving into giggles.
Final warning. This is neither a venue to discuss what "true" feminism is, nor is it a place to parrot the very debunked feminist myths I am working to dispel (and which I have debated with a hundred feminists before you, tyvm). This is also NOT a place for women's perspectives. I'm sorry, it's just not. You have a billion places to go for that, including IRL gender-segregated spaces that men do not have a similar legal right to. (cont)
@girlwriteswhat This is not a space to tell us all how very HARD women have it compared to men. This is not a space to publicly piss on a group of men who are fighting for their rights the only way they know how, with accusations of batshit insane.
This is my house. Men are welcome here. Women are too, but only if they are capable of setting aside their self-interest long enough to realize that maybe...just maybe, men know their own problems better than you do. (cont)
@girlwriteswhat You are doing the equivalent of coming into my house, harassing my guests, leaving dirty footprints all over the floor, verbally assaulting my friends, and spilling red wine all over my new sofa.
You need to stop "femsplaining" men's problems to them, and you need to stop nitpicking every damn thing everyone else says (or who I associate with, wtf?), insulting everyone's intelligence and shitting on the floor.
Please don't. She is making a grandfool of herself. Besides, this is pretty much SOP for feminists and their gullible brain washed victims.. i mean students.
@girlwriteswhat Your house is a private property; this website is public domain. Please be honest and respectful of opposing views! You ought to enjoy comment drama, it will get you more views and subscribers in the end. In fact, the more you encourage comments, the more likely you are to be a top viewed channel. And the more you get to promote yourself. This could translate to paid advertising on your blog.
@girlwriteswhat Youtube is public domain. You are sharing my internet world, and just like the two little girls squabbling in kindergarten, we should all play nice and hold hands and get along because we have to be around each other regardless.
@ladyjennalyn This channel is my little space on a public server. I may not be able to prevent you from looking in my windows, but I can keep you from making a mess of the place. And this is not kindergarten. There is no poster on the wall telling me I have to play nice.
You messaged me with a very warm PM, then come back here and piss all over the place over the company I keep. I hang out in the men's locker room, hon. I'm not scared of harsh language or the sight of body hair. (cont)
@girlwriteswhat Men don't scare me, see? Not even angry ones, if I understand where their anger is coming from. Blunt, hyperbolic speech doesn't scare me, either.
In the words of my favorite movie hero, Gunnery Sergeant Highway, "You can drag me, you can run me, and you can shoot me and you can kill me. Just don't bore me." And well, you're boring the fuck out of me, ladyjennalyn.
@girlwriteswhat Youtube is exactly like kindergarten, although a little less evolved! Lmao! If I'm boring you feel free to ignore me. I'm on bedrest post-surgery and am stuck on forums...I have nothing better to do, but you probably do.
I'm not scared of body hair, mm. Me love some good natural hairy man.
@girlwriteswhat Did I say that? Gosh, I feel like everyone is crazy. I'm not whining that women have it harder than men. In my society, I think gender issues are pretty equal. My initial comment to you was that I felt uncomfortable with your comparing gender issues - i.e. that your daughter is luckier or more privileged automatically. I disagreed and wanted to challenge this view of yours. I also inbox'ed you with a really friendly message about wanting to have a private talk.
So, men must pay child support at penalty of imprisonment, loosing their means to livelihood, prison rape, death, even suicide. Sometimes even for a child that has been scientifically PROVEN to be NOT his child, that there is no reason to believe he agreed to it, Heck EVEN if the child was conceived through a rape on him!
And that is "pretty equal" to women being able to abort or give away for adoption? Why can't a man give away a child for adoption?
@utubehayter Erm - whoa, no. Our prison system sucks and I don't support it! I see now where your prison rape comment comes into it. Yeah, it's stupid to have a punishment system that only degrades humanity and subjects people to sexual abuse and physical violence.
DNA testing also is a must if child support is needed! Of course, hun!
Ideally, men and women should grow up and discuss pregnancy before it happens. My boyfriend and I did before we had sex in the first place. Logic!
"DNA testing also is a must if child support is needed"
So are pink unicorns. At this point I am convinced that you have taken leave of your senses or of reality. That you and your boyfriend discussed pregnancy doesn't protect him one bit... of course except for the unicorn super armor. Given your perverted sense of justice and reality, I would advice him to stop having sex with sociopaths.
@girlwriteswhat Go write for that site you like, the one that things 'most' women are insane and evil. Your daughter and female friends (if any) will be real proud to read that they are all probably going to be psychological violent lesbians!
@utubehayter Yeah, that site is awful. I thought @girlwriteswhat made some good points and I sent her a nice personal message to her account because I wanted to pick her brain, but now that I see who she supports, I just can't. It's like this one time I met a really smart Christian and I wanted to have a lively debate, but then I noticed she was a member of some site that was bashing Mormons. Respect GONE.
@ladyjennalyn i wonder if you would give up a womans choice(abortion/adoption) to keep child support? im interested in what a feminist`s take on this one is?being for equality and all?
@fixt100 Child support is a must - if you don't raise the kid, you can't expect to get out of the responsibility for him or her scot-free. The problem with a lot of child support/divorce issues is not the child support itself, but the bias against men in divorce courts. Women are more likely to achieve custody (and therefore child support) even if a man is willing and able to take the kids. Men also have a harder time getting time off work for children; single fatherhood is tough.
@fixt100 I can't choose between two fundamental rights, sorry. I believe strongly in reproductive freedom, but if a woman is left with children, I can't decide for her which 'right' is more important - the right to financial support or the right to have legal access to abortion...
@ladyjennalyn Wait wait wait. Child support is the right of the MOTHER? A "fundamental" right? And here I thought child support was the right of the CHILD. Silly me.
If it is the right of the child, any single woman who uses a sperm bank or leaves the father's name off the birth certificate is committing a human rights violation. Build more jails now.
@girlwriteswhat The question was 'right to abortion OR right to child support' so naturally I made my answer to THAT one about women...however, I also said that I wish divorce courts were less biased so that we'd see more fathers with custody (and both genders paying proper child support, as they damn well should.)
Are you starting a betting pool? I bet they would give up neither. Women (yes, I am generalizing, because its not too far from reality) would send more men to die and kill in wars, just to avoid the odd chance some unidentified hypothetical poor woman somewhere may have to take a long trip and pay for an abortion out of pocket, and she wont be able to arrange the cash or time to do so.
@utubehayter of course they would give up neither, because withdrawing the enforcement of child support would make one of a woman's options more difficult to choose. We must make them all as easy as possible. I don't know how many people--especially feminists!--have told me abortion isn't *really* a choice because it's not as easy to get as a manicure. If women had to independently support a child, or recruit a willing father to help her, it would make THOSE choices not *really* choices, too.
@fixt100 I can't think of what a 'feminist' perspective might be on that subject. Most feminists support reproductive freedom, and therefore abortion. I think most feminists would also agree that the parent raising the child should be entitled to financial support from the other parent - seems a no-brainer. Admitting the bias against men might be another scenario. Some people really cannot stop thinking of their own issues long enough to realize that other groups have issues too.
@ladyjennalyn ok so while you like the option to terminate/adopt you also feel that no man should have that option(financially give up the child,not affecting the womans choices at all) ,, this very much sounds like an unbiassed and totally gender nutral statement and now i am clear on how feminists only fight for equality, and never complete endentured slavery of an unwilling participant...
@fixt100 Unfortunately, gestation is something that can only be done by females. Not fair, no. But there's no way of solving that one. I cannot see any way to have someone else be involved in a decision regarding a woman's body. The alternative is possibly suggesting that men and women have a game of rock-paper-scissors on whether or not she gets an abortion. This would lead to women being medically forced to go through an abortion procedure or pregnancy.
@ladyjennalyn if you say that a child isnt a child till (x number of weeks) then we are talking about mens dna required and if thats the case we needs to ask is if the dna belongs to him or her? if its hers then she is responsible for what she does with it and if its his she has misused it for a purpose not explicitly implied (he left it there with the implied use of lubricant) so that also makes her responsible for what she does with it (make a child) and all that (cont)
@fixt100 The moment of conception means that the organism from there on is half Mom's DNA and half Dad's. In the vast majority of cases, the sex was consensual (I'm not sure what you mean by her misusing his DNA? I guess one could steal semen and inpregnate yourself with it...Not common!) The fetus belongs to both of them, however, there is the problem that the woman is the one who must carry it. Abortion is a medical procedure on her body; she decides when or if it happens.
@ladyjennalyn nope fetus means that it belogs to his also ,, only when you consider it a child does the man not have a say she continues to misuse his dna to do something she would not otherwise be able to do and the "organism"(man your cold) wouldnt be possible or viable without his dna,, so she continues to misuse it till the day its considered a child and she still has the option to abort,, also you still havent redressed the adopt out side of my arguement ,,
@fixt100 Yes - it belongs to both of them - read carefully what I say! Fetus is the technical term for an unborn; child is the term for after birth. I did not know what I should call the egg+sperm combo at the exact moment of conception - really, it just looks like a bloated egg cell, so I called it 'organism'! I'm an organism too, of course. I don't mean it disrespectfully.
@ladyjennalyn (cont) all that implies (financial or otherwise) if you imply that men are getting away with something by not paying child support i would imply that women are getting away with something by misuse of property that belongs to the man...
@fixt100 Indeed some men and women WOULD gain a lot from 'running away'! Tons of people regret having kids. And they are a financial strain. I'm sure if it were legal, you'd see moms and dad's throwing the kid at their spouse and running out the door. Men and women must support their children. Men are in a bit of a fix, since they cannot control the outcome of a pregnancy, but they are equally responsible for that pregnancy.
No, only MEN must support their children. Women can abort or give them up for adoption.
"Men are in a bit of a fix"..
yeah, going to jail, loose livelihood, get raped in jail - even if you can't afford a child that is proven to not be yours by DNA! That is just just "a bit of a fix"
"they are equally responsible for that pregnancy."
So, Child support is a responsibility, Life support on the other hand is a Choice?
@utubehayter Yes! They both need to. That's my opinion. One of them wants to run off, fine, but hand over some bank checks, please! Yes, a man CAN get child support from a woman. More women get custody, though. As I discussed.
Prison rape is terrible, but I thought we were talking reproductive rights...Sigh...
Okay, women can choose keeping their legs closed, birth control, condoms, IUD. If any of these fails they have reproductive rights - i.e. abortion, adoption, or have the kid and get someone else to pay for it.
Men too have one non-permanent options, keeping it in their pants and condoms. But when they fail, what reproductive rights do men have?
@utubehayter That's true - wish men had more birth control options. But physically, they can't; just like they can't get pregnant and choose to abort or to have it. There are limitations. What is your opinion on what should be fair in this situation? Do you believe that men should not have to raise or support a child if they wanted an abortion but the women refused? Should women ought not financially support a child because she went through the trouble of having it? Both are unfair.
@fixt100 Right! They shouldn't have had sex if they didn't wanna be pregnant. Same with men. Nobody should have it hard...I mean, it's not THAT hard not to have sex, and to accept that there are consequences to the act! And it's not like you can't be intimate without penile-vaginal contact!
@ladyjennalyn so then you are a feminist against a womans choice and they shouldnt be allowed to have abortion or be allowed to adopt their children out at any age? since you are for equality and all?
@ladyjennalyn how can you hold someone responsible to an equal extent of another who has all the choices? her body her choice her responsibility? i mean really? you really dont see the inequity?
@fixt100 However, if a woman wants to give the child up for adoption, I would support a man if he said "No - I'm taking it, leaving you, and you're paying support." You ask questions not really 'feminist' related. What would be your view? Should men be able to make medical decisions for women's bodies?
@girlwriteswhat You would be a LOT more credible if you did not associate yourselves with shockingly hateful websites (manwomanmyth compares feminists to cockroaches and cancer, for one - and explains that 'Toxic women outnumber non-toxic ones' - toxic women being women who think 'it’s ok to sue her own employer or colleagues because she feels oppressed in some way, it’s the right thing to do to accuse a man of rape if he doesn’t cuddle her in the morning"
@ladyjennalyn You'd be amazed at the reasons some women cry rape, actually. Not wanting to pay cab fare was one. The man who refused to cuddle is a documented case, as well. Wanting to distract her parents from her bad grades was yet another. To avoid being caught cheating on a partner. To avoid being thought of as a slut. To explain a pregnancy. To explain why she was late for work...
1. when I was about 9 - her water pistol has run out before mine and she didn't want to get squited (not a euphamism)
2. (much more serious) when I was 18 and alone at my girlfriends house, she screamed rape at the top of her lungs when I wouldn't give her the magazine I was reading. When I didn't react she yelled "Just kidding".
@brownie1982ad That would technically only make her case a lot more convincing. Logically, you should get witnesses or try to record her on your phone so you can later prove that you were trying to stop the situation.
@girlwriteswhat The point is that this website is claiming MOST women support this idea of 'rape as a funny thing to accuse someone of if you're a little peeved'.
@ladyjennalyn No. The point of this website is that women who do claim rape, even if it's for the most ridiculous reasons ever, usually face a fine and community service. We punish people more for filing a false insurance report than filing a false rape report.
@girlwriteswhat again: "Indeed, Toxic women significantly outnumber non-Toxic women. The Toxic woman thinks it is fine to strip a man of assets on divorce, fine to deny him access to his own children because it’s what she wants, it’s ok to sue her own employer or colleagues because she feels oppressed in some way, it’s the right thing to do to accuse a man of rape if he doesn’t cuddle her in the morning..."
@girlwriteswhat "..., it is justified for her to take jobs in the fire service, the police or the military and receive the same pay as men without having anything like the same ability or taking anything like the same risk.
It is not safe for a man to be alone with the Toxic woman and nor is it safe for him to drive her home or pay her a compliment – false accusations are ready to be flung by the toxic woman who tends to have one of a range of personality disorders."
@girlwriteswhat I don't care if anyone wants to claim some people are batshit crazy - god knows that's true - but saying 'toxic women outnumber non-toxic ones' and that 'toxic women are dangerous, will scream rape if you compliment them, want low-paying jobs but the same salary as a high-paying one, have mental disorders, etc' - this in INSANE. Don't you get that my problem is that he thinks MOST women are literally crazy and evil?
@ladyjennalyn "The point is that this website is claiming MOST women support this idea of 'rape as a funny thing to accuse someone of if you're a little peeved'."
Hey there GWW,
I am a Police Officer in Australia. I was recently investigated as the result of a complaint from a female Domestic Violence perpetrator who claimed that only men can be offenders and thus I was sexist in charging her. As a result (she smashed her husband's face with a coffee cup, and then kicked 3 teeth out while he was unconscious) I lost my promotion, and I have been told that I cannot expect to be promoted as a "sexist." By the way, I was cleared in the investigation.
mickjim78 5 days ago
G'day, I'm an Australian guy. Since my early teens I always had this underlying feeling like to be a guy was to be worth less than a female. I felt jealous of girls and felt they had everything. I wanted to be a female, not because I thought I was one on the inside since I always acted male and felt male, but because I thought being a guy made me somehow worthless. Of course, today I celebrate my manhood but I can understand now clearly why I had those feelings for a long time.
Esoparagon 1 week ago
There seems to be a pattern here with these anti-feminists.
I've had a similar experience with one of my cousin's - a girl cousin with two sons.
I've noticed that these women suddenly become vocal about things they already knew, because of some motherly instinct.
But women know how women are, and God save the man who dares to say the things only they can.
Anyway...visit
Satyr's Lair
Satyr1966 1 week ago
Where do homosexuality fit in with your idea of the nuclear home? Anyone?! I don't disagree with you but this is a legitimate family structure you just don't mention and I'm curious to hear about it.
atonement19 1 week ago
What has happened to the two movements. Many feminist seem anti-male, and most of the MRM seems misogynist.
Feminist are supposed to seek equal rights for women. Equal pay, equal opportunity to play sports, etc. Surely women have a lot of work to do in many areas - Government, Business, etc.- But there is no place in any movement for hatred. The MRM is raging against women, when in seems a lot of their problems are because of the male elite.
We're all human beings. We can do better than this.
pittbullgal 1 week ago
@pittbullgal Damn straight 'we can do better than this'. We can start by making men and women equal in front of the law.
MrShadowfax42 5 days ago
No question that males have many fewer choices.
death357geoland 2 weeks ago
This sounds pretty logic driven to me... haters gonna hate.
GodCheese 2 weeks ago
To all of you hatred filled beast in the audience, remember this woman is raising two boys. And as a man betrayed all my life by women, I have to tell you, my single mother, thanks to my grandfather being quite wimpy, worshiped tough guys, one of whom tried to KILL ME. What did she do? She told me to just stay away from him. I enlisted to get away from him, how ironic is that? She did at least have the sense to talk me out of the Army and into the Air Force We need more women like this blogger!
vk1970 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from girlwriteswhat
Dat sultry voice.
FireMonkeyX 3 weeks ago
I enjoyed this a lot
HorridFroth 1 month ago
I was watching this video again and completely forgot about the erotica part....would stories about a society that treats women like adults and expects them to be responsible for their actions be considered erotica or science fiction lol. Maybe a bit of both:)
Dobogio 1 month ago 2
I long for the day where we all look at each other as individuals. Thank you for a brilliant video.
mesler1 1 month ago
You know, for all the rambling that I do on your comments section, it's safe to say that you are the ONLY female that I can trust in regards to addressing men's rights. I have gone on all these other videos where most of these women make the claim to support men's rights and equality only to hear them call themselves Feminists, and spout some covertly misandric nonsense on the comments section of videos addressing male issues, or make videos trying to "expose" the advocates for men's issues.
RichardRich89 1 month ago 7
@RichardRich89 One woman blogger on gender issues I really enjoy is Typhonblue of Genderratic. She does focus on the female side of things a little more than I do, but mostly in the sense that she feels women have failed (or society has failed to expect women) to rise to the responsibility/accountability standard of equality.
I like pretty much everything she has to say about women and big girl panties.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago 4
@girlwriteswhat Love your words and vision on these issues.Wish we would see more of you on TV and other forms of media. You are a gem.
justcallmeassinine 3 weeks ago
@girlwriteswhat Typhonblue is the bee's brass knuckles.
CasparLeones 2 weeks ago
When you were describing yourself, there's one thing you forgot to mention. You are awesome!
darkENhandsome 1 month ago 2
Something I wanted to share. In the U.S., if you are a military member (mostly men of course), the benefits you get (housing, food, etc..) are given a monetary value that is recorded by the federal government. However, also in the U.S., if you are a single mom, BOTH benefits and actual money received for housing, food stamps, medical care, etc.. are NOT RECORDED by the federal government when determining poverty statistics. (continued in reply)
ActaNonVerba71 1 month ago
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ActaNonVerba71 1 month ago
@ActaNonVerba71 (continued) The result is that the percentage of Americans ACTUALLY LIVING in poverty/squallor who are women is wildly inflated. A woman making $5,000, a year and living with her child in a small apartment with central heating and air and a having a government-issued card to buy food with is viewed exactly the same as a man making $5,000 a year renting a stall in a horse stable and eating cans of beans.
ActaNonVerba71 1 month ago
@ActaNonVerba71 Bless you for the truth.I will subscribe to your channel.
justcallmeassinine 3 weeks ago
@justcallmeassinine thanks.
ActaNonVerba71 3 weeks ago
@ActaNonVerba71 this is important and needs to be looked into
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 I agree and there are many more examples of the way data is defined or collected to marginalize men.
ActaNonVerba71 3 weeks ago
Nice
RenegadeJuggler 1 month ago
I've been posting your channel and blog on free dating websites as the example of what a woman is suppose to be...I'm letting women know about the MRM, MRM, and MGTOW...how strange, no dates, no hate, no comments, but they are looking.
maxjosephwheeler 1 month ago
@maxjosephwheeler i have a question have you ever put up an ad that says stuff like "must own your own house , pay for half of dates and be prepared to be treated equally financially?,, must be willing to never marry and maintain your own household seperate from mine at all times?
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Yes similar ideas, Dutch on all dates, must always maintain a full time job, never marry, split everything 50/50....
maxjosephwheeler 1 month ago
@maxjosephwheeler this is something that needs to be done more and more i think
sign me up for this type of personal ad for sure ,, a dating ad that puts the mrm values on the table for single women to actually look at and let them know its not going to be how it was before for much longer
fixt100 1 month ago
Omg you blocked her, that means your a patriarchal tool.....how dare you try to supress the truth you dishonest attention seeker!!!!!!
Dobogio 1 month ago
@Dobogio Yes, I'm very mean. Meanness is a tool of the patriarchy which I have internalized, and which I serve with the mindless devotion of a drug-addicted zombie.
Or, alternately, she was really beginning to annoy me.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago 8
@girlwriteswhat I've noticed a pattern with these feminist...I created a flowchart:
1-Make argument without providing sources
2-Ignore counter-argument and evidence for that counter-argument
3-Go batshit crazy and accuse opponents of being "insert feminist inspired slur here".
Dobogio 1 month ago 17
@girlwriteswhat Welcome to the Mean Patriarchy.....we are an awful bunch ....
Canisius19 1 month ago in playlist girlwriteswhat
hey ppl i just noticed the feminist came back with a new account?? did someone get blocked?
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Yes she did. She's convalescing after a surgery, so I'm sure she has a fuckton more time to waste here than any of us have trying to deal with her.
I blocked the second account too.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago 3
@girlwriteswhat its no loss she was trolling hard.
fixt100 1 month ago
im pretty sure feminists look at child support like this its"rights of the child" in the courtroom decision, and rights of the "mother" as soon as the court orders child support.
fixt100 1 month ago
lol wtf is she even talking about anymore....I'm so lost I can't keep with the amount of times she changes supjects, straw mans and ad Homs everyone. I'm legitimately at a lost....if science and evidence aren't"good enough"then I think this fight is pointless.
Dobogio 1 month ago
@Dobogio Yeah, too many people are talking to me. Please repeat your question in my inbox? I'd love to answer them. It's hard on here.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
I can't find your reply, sorry.
Look it's not as if I think women have it easy, of course we don't, it's just men also have it rough too, like when capable, loving father's are kept from their children for no other reason than the mother wanting that and the court system allowing it.
PuffyAmiYumi 1 month ago
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ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@PuffyAmiYumi My reply was to say thank you for commenting. And to let you know that I don't believe women have no issues, but that I feel the millions of feminists, white knight politicians and decent, socially evolving people kind of have that job in hand.
I've gotten quite a few comments and PMs from women who had some inkling that things "weren't quite right" with our one-sided approach to equality and empathy. I hope women like them and you can help enact positive change.
So thank you.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat i dont know how to describe it, but I absolutely love how with so many online feminists and manginas clogging up your space that you are still very able to hold your own verbally very well against them. if youtube arguments were like fighting, youd be Conan. im very impressed.
DeadJesusRodeo69 1 month ago
I assumed everyone here had passed 8th grade biology but I'll summarize quickly. What you and women studies call nonsense science calls fact. Neurology, hormone research. studies on chromosomes, cat scans, physiological studies, psychological research and all matter of objective tangible scientific studies have confirmed repetaily through the scientific process that men and women are inherently different due the biological origin or the genders.
Dobogio 1 month ago
@Dobogio To what extent, though? Are all women natural secretaries who like nail polish, pink fluffy things, and cleaning house? Do all women nag and pout and fly into hysterics? Are all men natural truck drivers or construction workers who grunt like gorillas, don't know how to clean up after themselves and cannot function without a woman to cook for them? Are all men naturally clueless and bumbling yet somehow the family leader? (Look at TV shows...) So why do we think this way?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@Dobogio Besides, what does this imply? Women and men are so different that they need different rights, as if they were two species? That women can't do things men can and men can't do things that women can? All bullshit. Men can be great teachers, secretaries and nurses just like women can be great mechanics or carpenters. Both genders can successfully raise a child single-handedly. Both genders deserve equal treatment and equal opportunities - not stunted 'ideas' of what gender means.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
"Women and men are so different that they need different rights, as if they were two species?"
You are quickly becoming an echo-chamber of one. Hermetically sealed even if you have to argue FOR AND AGAINST special rights for one sex simultaneously, you are doing it! And you probably don't even notice it, do you?
FYI, what you "would" support is not of consequence at all, it is what IS .. that matters.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter Am I? Do you know me? Do you honestly, truly think that what I want is for women to subjugate men? Disgusting. Just as disgusting as the reverse. First-and-second wave feminism fought for many legal rights to be allotted to women. I support this. Just as I support new regulations to help men, as I was saying below with the biased divorce court issue and the sad pressure on boys to be 'dumb brutes' or so unemotional (or else, GASP, he's a 'sissy fag')
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
Look at your comments to fixt100 and Dobogio.. says enough about where you stand.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter I see myself as being pretty equally supportive of men and women. @Dobogio and I are discussing what may be false information in feminist thinking, and what gender really means. @fixt100 and I are talking about reproduction/parenthood rights.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
"I see myself ..."
You can see yourself as a pink unicorn if you like.. it doesn't make it so and doesn't make a damn difference when you take two positions that are contrary to each other and pretend as if reality doesn't matter.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter Okay - You can point things out to me, you know. I appreciate feedback. If you have something to teach me, feel free. I appreciate good probing criticism as long as it's constructive and logical. You can inbox me.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Enforced child support in the case of unwanted pregnancies--in your word, a right of parents rather than children--forces unwilling men to be subjugated to women. She makes the unilateral choice. He pays, whether he wants to or not.
That is subjugation to women. Especially if you believe child support is the "right" of the custodial parent and not the child, as you have stated.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Ooof, yes, its such a tricky subject. Unfortunately, I think the biggest issue is that it's so easy for women to financially screw a man because she's so likely to get custody. Almost everyone has a story like that, eh? How should the system work, then, in your opinion? I think that a girl who purposely goes off birth control should not be entitled to child support from the man, and that custody should have nothing to do with gender.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn exactly! women should have to get men to sign a contract before sex if they want to get any form of child support (implied use of dna)
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Yeah, I wish there could be 'License to Breed' like we make dog owners have dog licenses. Haha! Okay, not totally serious, but...You're right about the pill. Don't you wish guys could just take a pill too?
xjennalynx 1 month ago
@xjennalynx so you skipping the reply then? are you then conceding that women have no right to child support without previously implied consent to create children?
fixt100 1 month ago
@xjennalynx having sex isnt consent btw....
fixt100 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn oh wait (most) alll female forms of birth control rely on the truthfulness of the woman in question? she said she took her pill (but she didnt)....where the mans is quite visable....
fixt100 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn also what are the chances of a woman in court for child support would admit she was skipping the pill? 0? -50? give me a break....
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100
Just admitting skipping pills? That is not enough. It has to be intent, otherwise it is an accident. Sometimes, even if they admit their intention, men are still burdened with it, because "You want to deny the little child support? Who else should pay for it? He should have kept it in his pants!".
utubehayter 1 month ago
@Dobogio If a man wants to like pink and act 'emotional', he should be able to without "FAG" screamed at him. Women should be able to dress in clothes that aren't tight and revealing and still be considered well-dressed. Why should we tell our little girls that they are 'pretty' as if this were the highest possible comment? Why should we tell our little boys that they are 'big and strong' as if all men are good for is dumb muscle?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
Just to give a good comment here, to GirlWritesWhat, hang in there...people are watching who appreciate the job you're doing. In this world where the male voice is muted to nothing and discarded, and the female voice raised in dissent is hated by the lock-step feminists, we need your voice to ring true and it DOES! Thank you! Thank you from the bottom of my heart...from someone who has been raped and molested by a woman and watched as the law protected her from her victim....me.
IansMagickOak 1 month ago
Women studies is scientific and factual....yet women studies is rarely peered reviewed and considers scientific constructs as sexist and a system of oppression because women don't excel in those fields. The entire premise of the patriarchy and it's "theories on gender"is compiled through distorted data, inflated satisfies or in some cases fabricated ideas....Richard Dawkins explains in detail why women studies is a joke scientifically and academically.
Dobogio 1 month ago
@Dobogio
I don't think you understand how hard wimmins studies has it. How scientific can you be, if your arguments can be dismissed by "Patriarchy!" or "Misogynist!"? Yet the try, by inventing terms, inventing history.. i mean herstory, inventing "facts" and getting really angry at anyone without looking at the actual data! Wimmins studies have been very productive for centuries.. You don't know anything because you are .... umm...er...."Patriarchy!"
utubehayter 1 month ago
@Dobogio I learned, rather, how society's pressure upon boys & girls is driving them towards different personalities, interests, and behaviours, making our world so gendered that we can no longer tell what a girl or boy or supposed to be like naturally. For example, boys are more likely to be scolded and drop out in school; they get lower grades but higher achievement scores. Why is that? Girls get higher grades and lower achievment scores. How is our society shaping these differences?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@Dobogio If women and men CAN and do succeed equally on an intellectual level, then why do men and women gravitate towards different fields? That can't just be explained by some biological nonsense - penises and testosterone should not make a boy who does better in science, and yet American boys do go for science fields. Likewise, estrogen and a vagina really shouldn't equate to 'nurse' (rather than dentist, doctor, etc) and yet girls go for nursing way more often. Why?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
How funny....the only way to know about gender and feminism is to be one yourself or take women studies. I suppose directly observable objective evidence means nothing because it wasnt pre-approved by feminisnt or women studies.....geez what would ever make anyone thing feminist was a cult lol.
Dobogio 1 month ago
@Dobogio Or read books. Yes. Reading or studying are the only ways to become well-versed on something (theoretical - physical tasks like mechanic knowledge can also be learned by doing). Is this a surprise?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
where is the erotica located?!
Kyle161042 1 month ago
@Kyle161042 That is on a need to know basis. And you do not need to know.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat ok, I can respect that. I was just curious. I do love your vids, I finally have something to say back to the feminists that I know.
Kyle161042 1 month ago
@Kyle161042 Excellent. Pelt them with it. :)
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
Third world gendered violence is a myth, because generally speaking everyone suffers. Granted the treatment of women their are far more savage then how men historically treat women which would give the impression to ignorant feminist scholars that its a "women problem"....but even inf third world countries women are still valued above men in almost the same dynamic as other cultures and nations.
Dobogio 1 month ago
During war times, it was historically common for the men and boys to be killed first as they present a immediate threat and potential future resistance. Women and girls came with the territory as the "spoils of war". Whatever group of dominate man prevailed got the land, the land's resources and the land's women....it was almost always a packaged deal. In fact there are some records that even document blood thirsty warlords ordering their generals and soldiers to not kill the females.
Dobogio 1 month ago
Girlwriteswhat! Pleasure to see you on youtube. I found you entirely by accident.
Aurini 1 month ago
I'm honestly glad that I found your channel. I think I have had a rather eye opening day today because of your videos. I've always been for equality of the sexes both men and women, but was always lead to believe that it was the women who generally speaking were the underdog, and you've taught me we really, REALLY are not. Men are unfairly treated in society a lot more than I thought, so yeah...THANK YOU.
PuffyAmiYumi 1 month ago in playlist More videos from girlwriteswhat
@PuffyAmiYumi Thank you for the comment. I want to make clear that I don't think women have zero problems or issues. But currently, those issues are being addressed left, right and center, and the public consensus seems to be that men CAN'T have systemic issues that marginalize them, "because, well, all those male politicians and CEOs and the pay gap and yadda yadda yadda."
We need to treat both sides of the problem, and women are simply further along that process right now.
So welcome!
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Absolutely, I knew that there were unfair issues that men and women had to deal with but watching your videos, made me realize that men do have more disadvantages than I had previously thought, there does need to be a balance and it really is unfair that society does seem to favor one over the other, and it's a shame that a lot of feminists don't consider men's issues more. Your videos are truly all about equality, where as a lot of feminist's don't.
PuffyAmiYumi 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Maybe in your very tiny, white, middle-class Western corner of the world. Maybe. Could be debated.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn You're one of those people who think women in the third world suffer uniquely. Odd, how during the Rwandan genocide, they separated out the males, even as young as two, and slaughtered THEM, and men and boys dressed like women to try to escape the violence. Know why that was done? Because slaughtering women and girls would've overburdened the slaughterers with trauma and guilt. 80% who made it to refugee camps were female.
But only women have problems in the third world, right?
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat It's really very obvious that you do not have ANY background in gender studies. The only people who are agreeing with you have even less knowledge than you do. The websites that link here are extremely hateful - luckily you are not, but you are drawing their attention - Kind of like how some people think I'm a genius for knowing DOS and knowing how to fix basic computer problems, but if I made a youtube video, anyone with a computer background would laugh.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Really? Have you watched my video on systemic gendered violence, something that the gender experts who've attended gender studies insist is a "unique" problem for women, even though it is neither gendered nor systemic?
So yeah. Not really gonna put much stock in gender studies or the kinds of research it puts out. When *I* can name at least three different kinds of bias in half the studies, there's something seriously wrong.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Are you sure they actually went to university? I don't think anyone at my school would stand for a women-only approach. Especially considering the number of men in the classes.
One can't possibly understand anything about gender without realizing that a system designed to segregate and oppress relies upon aggressive pressure and unrealistic ideals for all of humanity. Where did those people go to school?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Classic example of the appeal to authority fallacy. Also feminists are very bad at gender studies, as they have a ideological frame work to stick too. When science disproves their ideological frame work, they have to label it sexist or patriarchal. Feminist are wrong on gender, they are wrong on history. they are wrong on psychology. Feminist is just crap, the more I like into it the more I find holes in the entire thing. The only form of femnism I can take is first wave.
brownie1982ad 1 month ago
@brownie1982ad I respect first wave feminism cause of the fight for the vote, I can respect that.
brownie1982ad 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Also, the website you write for is about 31 flavours of batshit. "to women that think they are entitled to cut off their man’s penis if he treats her badly, or if he doesn’t wait for her to cum, or if he wants a divorce." .... Excuse me? What sort of sick people do you hang out with?
"Throughout the natural world, females are sexual selectors for reproduction, while males usually compete for selection... humans are no different. " - Uh. No. Not our relatives.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Um...you do realize that Lorena Bobbitt's first statement to police was, "He deserved it. He's a selfish lover, he never waits for me to orgasm." Abuse wasn't even mentioned until it went to court.
Catherine Becker greeted police at the door with, "He deserved it." The only reason that's come to light thus far is that he filed for divorce.
Of course, lots of people have felt free to laugh and joke about those men. And praise the women who did it.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Great, cool. Two people. Just like there was once this guy named Timothy McVeigh and these other dudes that hijacked some planes...therefore most men love to blow up buildings! Wait, what? You mean most people DON'T support the crazy violent acts of a few deranged souls? Get out. Gasp.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Lots of people laugh about really awful things on the Internet and elsewhere - like those comments on the Caylee Anthony Youtube vids that say something stupid like "Awkward boner!" or "I'd hit that". That's not a fair representation of people.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn I know. An entire studio audience of women laughing at it on daytime TV and in living rooms all over, that's not indicative of people or how they view men.
Now pardon me while I go watch a snuff film of a woman getting her breasts cut off and laugh my ass off. Oh wait, not I won't, because that would be fucking sick, wouldn't it?
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat I thought they were being stupid and sarcastic. They were trying to be that 'controversial funny' and they failed spectacularly. Sharon Osbourne is trying to be that 'crazy but cool controversial figure that her husband was in his day but only ends up looking like an idiot. I don't believe- I CAN'T believe - that a normal human being would find mutilation funny. The backlash on that was horrible. They disabled the comments on the YT vid; people were PISSED.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn I know! That's why Sharon Osbourne couldn't make it through the apology that was finally extracted from her without dissolving into giggles.
Please stop clogging up my comment thread.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat If you don't want comments, disable them, or get off youtube.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Or I could block you.
Final warning. This is neither a venue to discuss what "true" feminism is, nor is it a place to parrot the very debunked feminist myths I am working to dispel (and which I have debated with a hundred feminists before you, tyvm). This is also NOT a place for women's perspectives. I'm sorry, it's just not. You have a billion places to go for that, including IRL gender-segregated spaces that men do not have a similar legal right to. (cont)
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat This is not a space to tell us all how very HARD women have it compared to men. This is not a space to publicly piss on a group of men who are fighting for their rights the only way they know how, with accusations of batshit insane.
This is my house. Men are welcome here. Women are too, but only if they are capable of setting aside their self-interest long enough to realize that maybe...just maybe, men know their own problems better than you do. (cont)
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat You are doing the equivalent of coming into my house, harassing my guests, leaving dirty footprints all over the floor, verbally assaulting my friends, and spilling red wine all over my new sofa.
You need to stop "femsplaining" men's problems to them, and you need to stop nitpicking every damn thing everyone else says (or who I associate with, wtf?), insulting everyone's intelligence and shitting on the floor.
Behave or I'll send you packing.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat
Please don't. She is making a grandfool of herself. Besides, this is pretty much SOP for feminists and their gullible brain washed victims.. i mean students.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Your house is a private property; this website is public domain. Please be honest and respectful of opposing views! You ought to enjoy comment drama, it will get you more views and subscribers in the end. In fact, the more you encourage comments, the more likely you are to be a top viewed channel. And the more you get to promote yourself. This could translate to paid advertising on your blog.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
Okay now you deserve to be blocked.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Youtube is public domain. You are sharing my internet world, and just like the two little girls squabbling in kindergarten, we should all play nice and hold hands and get along because we have to be around each other regardless.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn This channel is my little space on a public server. I may not be able to prevent you from looking in my windows, but I can keep you from making a mess of the place. And this is not kindergarten. There is no poster on the wall telling me I have to play nice.
You messaged me with a very warm PM, then come back here and piss all over the place over the company I keep. I hang out in the men's locker room, hon. I'm not scared of harsh language or the sight of body hair. (cont)
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Men don't scare me, see? Not even angry ones, if I understand where their anger is coming from. Blunt, hyperbolic speech doesn't scare me, either.
In the words of my favorite movie hero, Gunnery Sergeant Highway, "You can drag me, you can run me, and you can shoot me and you can kill me. Just don't bore me." And well, you're boring the fuck out of me, ladyjennalyn.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Youtube is exactly like kindergarten, although a little less evolved! Lmao! If I'm boring you feel free to ignore me. I'm on bedrest post-surgery and am stuck on forums...I have nothing better to do, but you probably do.
I'm not scared of body hair, mm. Me love some good natural hairy man.
xjennalynx 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Did I say that? Gosh, I feel like everyone is crazy. I'm not whining that women have it harder than men. In my society, I think gender issues are pretty equal. My initial comment to you was that I felt uncomfortable with your comparing gender issues - i.e. that your daughter is luckier or more privileged automatically. I disagreed and wanted to challenge this view of yours. I also inbox'ed you with a really friendly message about wanting to have a private talk.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
So, men must pay child support at penalty of imprisonment, loosing their means to livelihood, prison rape, death, even suicide. Sometimes even for a child that has been scientifically PROVEN to be NOT his child, that there is no reason to believe he agreed to it, Heck EVEN if the child was conceived through a rape on him!
And that is "pretty equal" to women being able to abort or give away for adoption? Why can't a man give away a child for adoption?
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter Erm - whoa, no. Our prison system sucks and I don't support it! I see now where your prison rape comment comes into it. Yeah, it's stupid to have a punishment system that only degrades humanity and subjects people to sexual abuse and physical violence.
DNA testing also is a must if child support is needed! Of course, hun!
Ideally, men and women should grow up and discuss pregnancy before it happens. My boyfriend and I did before we had sex in the first place. Logic!
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn lols i bet she wasnt worried bout getting you pregnant tho...
fixt100 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
"DNA testing also is a must if child support is needed"
So are pink unicorns. At this point I am convinced that you have taken leave of your senses or of reality. That you and your boyfriend discussed pregnancy doesn't protect him one bit... of course except for the unicorn super armor. Given your perverted sense of justice and reality, I would advice him to stop having sex with sociopaths.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Go write for that site you like, the one that things 'most' women are insane and evil. Your daughter and female friends (if any) will be real proud to read that they are all probably going to be psychological violent lesbians!
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn usem higher lerned ppls dont devolve to insults like this do we?
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Nah. They reply to them on occasion, though.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@fixt100
Tho brayn wash peple frum Wimmins studies du
utubehayter 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
"psychological violent lesbians!"
I know what you mean..... *snicker*
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter Yeah, that site is awful. I thought @girlwriteswhat made some good points and I sent her a nice personal message to her account because I wanted to pick her brain, but now that I see who she supports, I just can't. It's like this one time I met a really smart Christian and I wanted to have a lively debate, but then I noticed she was a member of some site that was bashing Mormons. Respect GONE.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn i wonder if you would give up a womans choice(abortion/adoption) to keep child support? im interested in what a feminist`s take on this one is?being for equality and all?
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Child support is a must - if you don't raise the kid, you can't expect to get out of the responsibility for him or her scot-free. The problem with a lot of child support/divorce issues is not the child support itself, but the bias against men in divorce courts. Women are more likely to achieve custody (and therefore child support) even if a man is willing and able to take the kids. Men also have a harder time getting time off work for children; single fatherhood is tough.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@fixt100 I can't choose between two fundamental rights, sorry. I believe strongly in reproductive freedom, but if a woman is left with children, I can't decide for her which 'right' is more important - the right to financial support or the right to have legal access to abortion...
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn Wait wait wait. Child support is the right of the MOTHER? A "fundamental" right? And here I thought child support was the right of the CHILD. Silly me.
If it is the right of the child, any single woman who uses a sperm bank or leaves the father's name off the birth certificate is committing a human rights violation. Build more jails now.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat Child support is a right of BOTH parents - whichever one raises the kid. What ARE you reading?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat The question was 'right to abortion OR right to child support' so naturally I made my answer to THAT one about women...however, I also said that I wish divorce courts were less biased so that we'd see more fathers with custody (and both genders paying proper child support, as they damn well should.)
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@fixt100
Are you starting a betting pool? I bet they would give up neither. Women (yes, I am generalizing, because its not too far from reality) would send more men to die and kill in wars, just to avoid the odd chance some unidentified hypothetical poor woman somewhere may have to take a long trip and pay for an abortion out of pocket, and she wont be able to arrange the cash or time to do so.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter of course they would give up neither, because withdrawing the enforcement of child support would make one of a woman's options more difficult to choose. We must make them all as easy as possible. I don't know how many people--especially feminists!--have told me abortion isn't *really* a choice because it's not as easy to get as a manicure. If women had to independently support a child, or recruit a willing father to help her, it would make THOSE choices not *really* choices, too.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@fixt100 I can't think of what a 'feminist' perspective might be on that subject. Most feminists support reproductive freedom, and therefore abortion. I think most feminists would also agree that the parent raising the child should be entitled to financial support from the other parent - seems a no-brainer. Admitting the bias against men might be another scenario. Some people really cannot stop thinking of their own issues long enough to realize that other groups have issues too.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn ok so while you like the option to terminate/adopt you also feel that no man should have that option(financially give up the child,not affecting the womans choices at all) ,, this very much sounds like an unbiassed and totally gender nutral statement and now i am clear on how feminists only fight for equality, and never complete endentured slavery of an unwilling participant...
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Unfortunately, gestation is something that can only be done by females. Not fair, no. But there's no way of solving that one. I cannot see any way to have someone else be involved in a decision regarding a woman's body. The alternative is possibly suggesting that men and women have a game of rock-paper-scissors on whether or not she gets an abortion. This would lead to women being medically forced to go through an abortion procedure or pregnancy.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn if you say that a child isnt a child till (x number of weeks) then we are talking about mens dna required and if thats the case we needs to ask is if the dna belongs to him or her? if its hers then she is responsible for what she does with it and if its his she has misused it for a purpose not explicitly implied (he left it there with the implied use of lubricant) so that also makes her responsible for what she does with it (make a child) and all that (cont)
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 The moment of conception means that the organism from there on is half Mom's DNA and half Dad's. In the vast majority of cases, the sex was consensual (I'm not sure what you mean by her misusing his DNA? I guess one could steal semen and inpregnate yourself with it...Not common!) The fetus belongs to both of them, however, there is the problem that the woman is the one who must carry it. Abortion is a medical procedure on her body; she decides when or if it happens.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn nope fetus means that it belogs to his also ,, only when you consider it a child does the man not have a say she continues to misuse his dna to do something she would not otherwise be able to do and the "organism"(man your cold) wouldnt be possible or viable without his dna,, so she continues to misuse it till the day its considered a child and she still has the option to abort,, also you still havent redressed the adopt out side of my arguement ,,
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Yes - it belongs to both of them - read carefully what I say! Fetus is the technical term for an unborn; child is the term for after birth. I did not know what I should call the egg+sperm combo at the exact moment of conception - really, it just looks like a bloated egg cell, so I called it 'organism'! I'm an organism too, of course. I don't mean it disrespectfully.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn (cont) all that implies (financial or otherwise) if you imply that men are getting away with something by not paying child support i would imply that women are getting away with something by misuse of property that belongs to the man...
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Indeed some men and women WOULD gain a lot from 'running away'! Tons of people regret having kids. And they are a financial strain. I'm sure if it were legal, you'd see moms and dad's throwing the kid at their spouse and running out the door. Men and women must support their children. Men are in a bit of a fix, since they cannot control the outcome of a pregnancy, but they are equally responsible for that pregnancy.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
Here..
"Men and women must support their children."
No, only MEN must support their children. Women can abort or give them up for adoption.
"Men are in a bit of a fix"..
yeah, going to jail, loose livelihood, get raped in jail - even if you can't afford a child that is proven to not be yours by DNA! That is just just "a bit of a fix"
"they are equally responsible for that pregnancy."
So, Child support is a responsibility, Life support on the other hand is a Choice?
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter Yes! They both need to. That's my opinion. One of them wants to run off, fine, but hand over some bank checks, please! Yes, a man CAN get child support from a woman. More women get custody, though. As I discussed.
Prison rape is terrible, but I thought we were talking reproductive rights...Sigh...
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
Okay, women can choose keeping their legs closed, birth control, condoms, IUD. If any of these fails they have reproductive rights - i.e. abortion, adoption, or have the kid and get someone else to pay for it.
Men too have one non-permanent options, keeping it in their pants and condoms. But when they fail, what reproductive rights do men have?
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter That's true - wish men had more birth control options. But physically, they can't; just like they can't get pregnant and choose to abort or to have it. There are limitations. What is your opinion on what should be fair in this situation? Do you believe that men should not have to raise or support a child if they wanted an abortion but the women refused? Should women ought not financially support a child because she went through the trouble of having it? Both are unfair.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn when it comes to children no women has it hard unless they CHOOSE to have it hard theres the difference
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 Right! They shouldn't have had sex if they didn't wanna be pregnant. Same with men. Nobody should have it hard...I mean, it's not THAT hard not to have sex, and to accept that there are consequences to the act! And it's not like you can't be intimate without penile-vaginal contact!
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn so then you are a feminist against a womans choice and they shouldnt be allowed to have abortion or be allowed to adopt their children out at any age? since you are for equality and all?
fixt100 1 month ago
@utubehayter I notice she simply went around your question: "WHEN THEY FAIL, WHAT REPRODUCTIVE RIGHTS DO MEN HAVE?????"
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn women do have the option to drop off their children scot free up till the age of 18 so dont even try and go to that arguement
fixt100 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn how can you hold someone responsible to an equal extent of another who has all the choices? her body her choice her responsibility? i mean really? you really dont see the inequity?
fixt100 1 month ago
@fixt100 However, if a woman wants to give the child up for adoption, I would support a man if he said "No - I'm taking it, leaving you, and you're paying support." You ask questions not really 'feminist' related. What would be your view? Should men be able to make medical decisions for women's bodies?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn The decision is about the kid's LIFE, NOT the woman's body! This doesn't revolve around simply her, her, her!!!
MyOttoLink 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn could you explain to me why/how you reason that one out?
fixt100 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
Sense the tone! eh.. who am I talking to?
Let me try to make your argument for you... here it goes... MISOGYNIST! (not working? Try blasphemous non-magical underwear wearing Misogynist!)
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter That is the first, and most likely the last time anyone will ever call me that. I am greatly amused.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn
I was making an argument FOR you.. not against you. God! You can't read! How can you possibly get.... Nevermind.
utubehayter 1 month ago
@utubehayter No no! I did get it. I was just stuck on the magical underwear - er, um, that didn't sound good, did it?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat You would be a LOT more credible if you did not associate yourselves with shockingly hateful websites (manwomanmyth compares feminists to cockroaches and cancer, for one - and explains that 'Toxic women outnumber non-toxic ones' - toxic women being women who think 'it’s ok to sue her own employer or colleagues because she feels oppressed in some way, it’s the right thing to do to accuse a man of rape if he doesn’t cuddle her in the morning"
Really, honey? Really?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn You'd be amazed at the reasons some women cry rape, actually. Not wanting to pay cab fare was one. The man who refused to cuddle is a documented case, as well. Wanting to distract her parents from her bad grades was yet another. To avoid being caught cheating on a partner. To avoid being thought of as a slut. To explain a pregnancy. To explain why she was late for work...
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago 2
@girlwriteswhat I've had 2 girls scream rape on me.
1. when I was about 9 - her water pistol has run out before mine and she didn't want to get squited (not a euphamism)
2. (much more serious) when I was 18 and alone at my girlfriends house, she screamed rape at the top of her lungs when I wouldn't give her the magazine I was reading. When I didn't react she yelled "Just kidding".
sirskeptic 1 month ago
@sirskeptic Any girl cries rape on me is getting a broken jaw.
brownie1982ad 1 month ago
@brownie1982ad That would technically only make her case a lot more convincing. Logically, you should get witnesses or try to record her on your phone so you can later prove that you were trying to stop the situation.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat The point is that this website is claiming MOST women support this idea of 'rape as a funny thing to accuse someone of if you're a little peeved'.
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn No. The point of this website is that women who do claim rape, even if it's for the most ridiculous reasons ever, usually face a fine and community service. We punish people more for filing a false insurance report than filing a false rape report.
girlwriteswhat 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat again: "Indeed, Toxic women significantly outnumber non-Toxic women. The Toxic woman thinks it is fine to strip a man of assets on divorce, fine to deny him access to his own children because it’s what she wants, it’s ok to sue her own employer or colleagues because she feels oppressed in some way, it’s the right thing to do to accuse a man of rape if he doesn’t cuddle her in the morning..."
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat "..., it is justified for her to take jobs in the fire service, the police or the military and receive the same pay as men without having anything like the same ability or taking anything like the same risk.
It is not safe for a man to be alone with the Toxic woman and nor is it safe for him to drive her home or pay her a compliment – false accusations are ready to be flung by the toxic woman who tends to have one of a range of personality disorders."
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@girlwriteswhat I don't care if anyone wants to claim some people are batshit crazy - god knows that's true - but saying 'toxic women outnumber non-toxic ones' and that 'toxic women are dangerous, will scream rape if you compliment them, want low-paying jobs but the same salary as a high-paying one, have mental disorders, etc' - this in INSANE. Don't you get that my problem is that he thinks MOST women are literally crazy and evil?
ladyjennalyn 1 month ago
@ladyjennalyn he can only relate thru his own experiance and well that woiuld be women that made him think that way?
fixt100 1 month ago
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@ladyjennalyn "The point is that this website is claiming MOST women support this idea of 'rape as a funny thing to accuse someone of if you're a little peeved'."
Verify that.
MyOttoLink 1 month ago