Dan Savage at Manitoba - My boy doesn't like blowjobs. What's up with that?

[Nyquirk]

This guy has such a balanced view on ost of what he speaks about. I respect Dan a lot.

[spyyder976]

some people are also extremely sensitive and too much stimulation can HURT!

[Tra1n3rfromH3ll]

This man is the prophet for men...holy sh_t.

[MissClarinda]

Men, wash yourself well underneath that skin down there... I have known a guy who was straight, but was disgusted by his own penis. So what? Everyone has their own preferences. If he doesn't feel comfortable with it then a woman needs to respect that, just like if a woman doesn't want to give a blowjob then the man needs to respect that. Don't try to change his mind, it will work as a turn off. respect what he dislikes.

[ogrish84]

Your boy is gay.

[JLoveBomb]

I don't like head for the exact reason Dan says. I would rather not bother and just give rather than receive. It's kind of sad.

[CarsonSmash]

Some men feel that it's too disrespectful to the person giving head. And this makes him too uncomfortable to enjoy oral. Though it might be like how some people would rather give than receive.

[KristopherNexus]

Dan, I love your podcast!

[lampdevil]

This is awesome and valuable and freakin' useful information. Information that I could have stood to hear years and years ago. Dan, you're awesome.

[Chronosagaaddict]

I used to feel the same way, til i got a good one... then it was like bugs bunny on the moon...

[croguy]

The secret to a good blow-job is enthusiasm :-)

[olnoseven]

@croguy So well-put. Nothing worse than getting a blow job from someone who doesn't like giving them in the first place.

[ringtailroxy]

69 is amazing! I can't believe so many comments are about how challenging it is...it can be done with you on top, on bottom, or side by side.

easy, versatile, and yes, my husband & I have lots of fun, although sometimes we have to play "paper rock scissors" to see whom goes first...

[olnoseven]

@ringtailroxy I think 69 can sometimes be a challenge if you're just doing it as "another position." I recently- about 6 months ago- had sex with a woman with whom there was a LOT of anticipation. We got so excited we "ended up" in 69 and it was the first time since college - more than a decade ago - that I had done it. It was awesome. We talked about it afterwards and were both shocked about how good it was. 100% enthusiasm is what made it work.

[bladezone1]

"There's nothing worse than a poor ass blowjob." The penis will not respond sorry!!

[uniqueStephen]

I'd be happy to submit myself as a subject for experimentation, receiving various quality - all in the name of science of course

[prolefeedprocessor]

@uniqueStephen Well, strap me in a lab coat and call me Subject 7!

[XiaoGui17]

Yeah, a lot of times it's the result of poor performance in the past.

I actually had one guy who said he didn't like blowjobs because they were "degrading to women." Uhhhh... if I don't have a problem with it, why should he?

[immozelle]

With one partner, I wasn't that he didn't *like* them, it was just that he liked penetration *much* better. He saw bjs as a less than kind of substitute. I just took him at his word, and we made out just fine. (pun intended)

[NowLouie]

I have dated a few guys who "didn't like blowjobs." Mostly it was because they had only had shite ones in the past (often from partners who didn't enjoy giving---NO ONE was having fun), and I was able to show them the light..

Like one of my exes said, "there's nothing worse than a tepid blowjob."

[mrdarkavocado]

Especially 69. It's just awkward and difficult and doesn't really feel very good. Oral blows. (pun intended)

[NinkaPanda]

@mrdarkavocado YES! Omg someone who I can relate with. I don't know why people love 69 so much. Its so much work...like a balancing act.

[pendulousphallus]

Have I mentioned that I want to buy Dan a beer?

[videlsd]

What?! Blowjobs are awesome. And i'm not even a guy.

I'd never understand a boy like that.

[mrdarkavocado]

Meh, blowjobs are lame anyway. Handjobs are better.

[placebomessiah]

@mrdarkavocado LIAR BLASPHEMER

[Paulwhoisvegan]

@mrdarkavocado true

[regemo]

@mrdarkavocado lol yea, thou has blasphemed!