Damnit, call the dude back! It is never too late. Pretend it is the jerk who stood you up on Halloween. Get angry, call the beotch and get some answers. Also, record the whole conversation and upload it here please. Thanks in advance.
There is no issue at all in terms of not having called him back yet. If you would still like to speak with him, simply call him and be honest and explain that you were conflicted about returning his call. The reasons are obvious, so he will certainly be able to appreciate that. You are a very beautiful girl. I am sure he will be more than happy to hear from you. Just deal with your concerns in an upfront manner.. and see where it goes.
No psyched myself out and didn't call. Now it's waaaaay to late. I'm make myself soooooo mad. It's reallly frustrating. Now I seem like a total dork or a bitch. Either way it doesn't look good for me. I should have just called.
I think calling him back on speakerphone is a demented plan...supose he sees it at a later date. If you don't tell him then you are deceiving him...lying is for later in the relationship...maybee you could try being honst for the first few days at least.
I agree. But I am going to show my side of the call. Nothing from his end will be broadcast. At least that way you can judge the tone. The only problem now is I have waited too long to call him back. It is going to be awkward now.
Okay this is going to sound insane but I am thinking of calling him back on camera. That way u all can see how it goes. I can turn my cell onto speaker. But then again that is a huge invasion of his privacy.... but I could just let u hear my side of the call...
WOW This is going to be interesting. I think that you should put more thought into what is happening now and less thought into what you think is going to happen later. Im not sure what else to say.
Did you get a new camera or use a different editing software? I know this is off the subject, but the quality of this video is much higher than those you've made in the past. The colors just pop right out of the screen, and it's a lot less blurry.
Everything is the same I think I am getting better at using it... oh and this is kinda embarassing... I turned on AUTO FOCUS! I know how stupid of me not to use it... right? But I didn't understand how to it all worked before. :)
Hate to say it but it not necessarily anything romantic that he's calling for. If he simply said "call me back" he could simply be asking for anything. Just call him back and find out what he wants but don't have these sorts of expectations when you do.
To be honest and fair, it's probably a good idea that you didn't call him back. If you were that nervous and scared about being with or being around the guy, then you probably would have scared him.
One other thing....You've got to relax, girl. If a man is interested in you, take at least SOME advantage of that (but not too much). If a man makes a move that he wants to spend time with you, the ball then goes to your court and YOU call the next shot.
the use of reds and the lighting works. your performance is superb.
clayLavl 4 years ago
I dont know, but you're pathetic
jonasflo 4 years ago
ok ur fake rite?
licoricepirate 4 years ago
Damnit, call the dude back! It is never too late. Pretend it is the jerk who stood you up on Halloween. Get angry, call the beotch and get some answers. Also, record the whole conversation and upload it here please. Thanks in advance.
snouter 5 years ago
There is no issue at all in terms of not having called him back yet. If you would still like to speak with him, simply call him and be honest and explain that you were conflicted about returning his call. The reasons are obvious, so he will certainly be able to appreciate that. You are a very beautiful girl. I am sure he will be more than happy to hear from you. Just deal with your concerns in an upfront manner.. and see where it goes.
kaveac 5 years ago
There are all sorts of reasons you couldn't call him back immediately, illness, family problems etc., etc.,etc all of which are valid....
bentbiker3 5 years ago
So....did you finally return his call?
kaveac 5 years ago
No psyched myself out and didn't call. Now it's waaaaay to late. I'm make myself soooooo mad. It's reallly frustrating. Now I seem like a total dork or a bitch. Either way it doesn't look good for me. I should have just called.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Just keep your guard up and protect your heart. You've been down this road before and got KO'd.
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ChukBxr 5 years ago
I know... I know...
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
your pupils are dilated, that happens when you take paxil, what gives?
rdiggity1 5 years ago
My pupils seem to get dilated when i am excited. I have big goofy pupils anyway. :(
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
I remember somebody commenting on that before so it makes sense ha ha goofy, good luck w/your guy
rdiggity1 5 years ago
Tara, bad idea, although you seem determined to call him and cause issues with your friend. What would you do if your friend did this to you?
Caarcaar 5 years ago
I waited too long. I think if I call him now it will seem very weird.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
I take it you don't like me tara =( (LOL), my response don't make it through. either that or I'm youtube retarded.
I hope you finally called him back. time is of the essence.
rparr28922 5 years ago
sorry for replying to my own message, but I found out I'm youtube retarded. anyways good luck again
rparr28922 5 years ago
Been there myself. :)
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
I blew it and didn't call him back. :(
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
I don't understand, did I miss someting?? You like your friends boyfriend??
hailstorm1375 5 years ago
Not exactly boyfriend. Just a guy she has/is dating sort of.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
I think calling him back on speakerphone is a demented plan...supose he sees it at a later date. If you don't tell him then you are deceiving him...lying is for later in the relationship...maybee you could try being honst for the first few days at least.
sennapod94 5 years ago
I agree. But I am going to show my side of the call. Nothing from his end will be broadcast. At least that way you can judge the tone. The only problem now is I have waited too long to call him back. It is going to be awkward now.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Good luck Tara ...Wish you the best for whatever happens
bentbiker3 5 years ago
Thanks I appreciate that!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Okay this is going to sound insane but I am thinking of calling him back on camera. That way u all can see how it goes. I can turn my cell onto speaker. But then again that is a huge invasion of his privacy.... but I could just let u hear my side of the call...
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
WOW This is going to be interesting. I think that you should put more thought into what is happening now and less thought into what you think is going to happen later. Im not sure what else to say.
mechris1980 5 years ago
You obviously don't know how I am! LOL!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
This does not strike me as an even remotely good idea, unless of course you are trying to ensure issues arriving on your doorstep later.
kaveac 5 years ago
That is what I am trying to avoid.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
what exactly are you trying to acheive by doing this?
lio21lio 5 years ago
Whatever you do, don't give it up on the first date...And if you must, don't forget to condomize.
mauric99 5 years ago
good luck.
Cahuix 5 years ago
Thanks!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Did you get a new camera or use a different editing software? I know this is off the subject, but the quality of this video is much higher than those you've made in the past. The colors just pop right out of the screen, and it's a lot less blurry.
CatchFlipsidE 5 years ago
Everything is the same I think I am getting better at using it... oh and this is kinda embarassing... I turned on AUTO FOCUS! I know how stupid of me not to use it... right? But I didn't understand how to it all worked before. :)
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Hate to say it but it not necessarily anything romantic that he's calling for. If he simply said "call me back" he could simply be asking for anything. Just call him back and find out what he wants but don't have these sorts of expectations when you do.
tetsuorocks 5 years ago
I know, I know... but i just seems kinda coincedental since he was being kinda talkative to the other day at work. He has a great sense of humor!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Tara, you should go for it...express your love, he won't be turned ofby it, in fact, it may make him more at ease around you.
Chaingang99 5 years ago
I was thinking of something more subtle... but you may be right. What do I have to lose at this point. At least I won't have to think about anymore.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
hey, he might be thinking the same thing (about you, that is) that you are about him...sometimes it just happens in wild and mysterious ways....
Chaingang99 5 years ago
Love after only several casual contacts? Get real....lust at best
bentbiker3 5 years ago
I'm just wanting to date the guy that's all.
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
To be honest and fair, it's probably a good idea that you didn't call him back. If you were that nervous and scared about being with or being around the guy, then you probably would have scared him.
nogreaterlove 5 years ago
One other thing....You've got to relax, girl. If a man is interested in you, take at least SOME advantage of that (but not too much). If a man makes a move that he wants to spend time with you, the ball then goes to your court and YOU call the next shot.
nogreaterlove 5 years ago
1st view 1st comment
you go girl
autotyme 5 years ago
Ha!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
1st view 1st commet finally
you go girl
autotyme 5 years ago
HA!
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
Call him soon.
jandcl 5 years ago
first
Forsaken7 5 years ago
First what?
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
quack quack... mooo mooo... woof woof woof woof... meow... meow... eek eek.. eek eek...
nanquan491 5 years ago
HUH?
Taraiscrushed 5 years ago
LOL
nanquan491 5 years ago