Why is being an ex-gay considered wrong? I'm a lesbian, haven't been changed of course, (don't really think I can be...) but I have decided upon celibacy.
@HumbleBeliever08 No, it makes you a lesbian who is celibate, unless you are also anti-gay (which are two separate things). By the way, there is a small but vibrant group of people on The Gay Christian Network - you can google that - who have decided that while they can't change, they wish to remain celibate....they are called Side B people on that site. You might want to check that out. It's a great, supportive community.
@HumbleBeliever08 Celibacy is not being ex-gay at all. People who say that they can change and "become" straight perpetuate the lie that people choose their sexuality. This is dangerous.
@joshuajmv1 Huh? But I don't want sex- NOT because of some religious reason. And- also -it's not just because I'm lesbian. Is a heterosexual celibate person automatically anti-straight?? It's my personal decision to abstain from sex- and regardless my reason, it in no way makes me a moron. I choose to be celibate, and I am perfectly happy. Oh- and I do not even believe ex-gay *really* is proven... just that it shouldn't automatically be considered wrong for someone to want to change.
Sprigg an ugly straight man... Besen a handsome gay man... nuff said!
eddy909100 2 months ago
What a nut job! Homophobes are always the first to play the victim card. Boo hoo!
TheStrong32 1 year ago 2
Why is being an ex-gay considered wrong? I'm a lesbian, haven't been changed of course, (don't really think I can be...) but I have decided upon celibacy.
Does that make me anti-gay??
HumbleBeliever08 1 year ago
@HumbleBeliever08 No, it makes you a lesbian who is celibate, unless you are also anti-gay (which are two separate things). By the way, there is a small but vibrant group of people on The Gay Christian Network - you can google that - who have decided that while they can't change, they wish to remain celibate....they are called Side B people on that site. You might want to check that out. It's a great, supportive community.
risingup 1 year ago
@HumbleBeliever08 Celibacy is not being ex-gay at all. People who say that they can change and "become" straight perpetuate the lie that people choose their sexuality. This is dangerous.
channelhismojo 1 year ago
@HumbleBeliever08 It makes you a moron, who in their right mind would give up sexuality? You're just brainwashed by religion, sad.
joshuajmv1 8 months ago
@joshuajmv1 Huh? But I don't want sex- NOT because of some religious reason. And- also -it's not just because I'm lesbian. Is a heterosexual celibate person automatically anti-straight?? It's my personal decision to abstain from sex- and regardless my reason, it in no way makes me a moron. I choose to be celibate, and I am perfectly happy. Oh- and I do not even believe ex-gay *really* is proven... just that it shouldn't automatically be considered wrong for someone to want to change.
HumbleBeliever08 8 months ago