Chivalry?? Red Carpet treatment.. what do you think about it?

[Godcipherdivine7154]

Yeah I'm feeling you that

[imurs109]

Everything should be equal as you've stated. I can't expect more than I have. I dont need to be pampered all the time to feel loved. It is nice, but it doesn't have to be that way all the time.My issue is I expect too little. I don't think its fair to say a man is the only one to do certain things, nor should a woman be the only 1. If you're in a rela both should do everything that is expected, and mutually respect each other enough to know that its ok. and know that no one is less than

[nuthnbutklass]

Well it all comes down to what u will except and what u expect out of an individual!! Okay yea it would be nice 4 him to open the door, for the plate making situation its a 50/50 thing but if he ask for me to make it i probably was taking 2 long but he wouldnt even have to ask, the dating ? i offered on several occasions to pay for our meal and we were just going out to eat but i didnt have to pay just proving i can do it to!!!

[MrBigzKY]

why you got on sun glasses

[yellobone1]

team work thats the key

[Newgirl2luv]

ur really pretty

[dangel336]

shes so pretty and il kick somebodys ass if they think otherwise and when i saw the other vid when they took off the glasses if u look she look like beyonce

[sandroeleven]

@dangel336 Shut up asss...why can't all you dumb men respond to the topic

[NailBliss]

I just want to say that a man opening the door for you is not AT ALL the same thing as you making a plate for him. These are not equivalent. The former is a demonstration of his politeness, care, and respect for you. The latter is a demonstration of.....

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[McNaughteEbaYbeE]

Onest to hu this vid is soo mad an sooo tru bout girls an first dates an all we all bout expencies an then wen it comes to da guy askin if we culd make them a feed we all up in there grill running our mouths an all buh yeah i hope i made sense lol buh at the end of the day it should work both wayz... Well something like that:)

Peace

[stephanieharris9]

ur so pretty

[Sconz32]

I would treat you like the princess you are, girl.

[xoxoRoxygurlxoxo]

yo hair is soo prettyyy ! myy hairr is jusss likk dattt

[BrItTnEyJaNeE]

phahahaha!! i HeArT this vid!!! chivalry def isnt dead! guys need to start being gentleman again... this def goes both way these women need to be ladies! 1st dates the guy should def pay if he asked you out! HmMmM!!! but if you have a man you better get in that kitchen and cook and make his plate!! you gotta keep him!

[mbertwiley]

go into a relationship the way you wanna come out of it.. if u go in paying in the beginning u will pay in the end..

[Monae215]

Damn, you make me want to be gay. LOL - your beauty is crazy.

[lillucky55]

your pretty!!!! your like the prettiest from the secret trois group =D

[tstlucia22]

u r s pretty :)

[khalilah10]

I Feel Az If The Man Take Yuh Out He Should Pay Or If A Woman Take Yuh ut She Need To Pay...!!

[74ena]

U R SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL

[SweetpeaL]

OMG, I want your hair!!!!!! how you get it like that?

[adreonnamariemcdole]

i freaking love yur hair.!

[taishea]

Chivalry is not dead but it is on life support! If we have any hopes of resuscitating it, woman have to step there game up. I don't personally believe there is anything wrong with expecting a man to hold the door for u. I also believe the man should pay on the first date. On the reverse side i have no problem making his plate or paying for a future date. I do draw the line at doing his laundry, but that is just because I don't like doing my own laundry! LOL

[THEoFFiiCALMiiMii]

awhh

you're really pretty(n.h.)

[amandapaigexox]

lmao i wanted to say you were gorgeos then i saw other people commented that same thing. but anyway. you and your name are both gorgeous! :]

[lovemeharder]

I love this vdo! Your hair is GOREGOUS!!!

[linz812y]

your gorgeous gurl !

=)

[brookelynrenee]

your pretty :)

[deezal25fuel]

ima man, but i think you right mOST niggaz arent home grown

[NUKEYBABii]

madddd prettyy

[itsM3331]

your pretty i love your hair :) great topic

[HEiRBiZZ]

your pretty

[FreezeJoi22]

yu are soo pretty no homo..but yu are very beautiful..so keep going

[xkrys01]

your beautiful!! :)

[Tha1Singa]

I'm like you...always take care of myself. I don't expect the red carpet treatment. But if it happens, I make sure he knows it is appreciated. Next date I will bring the red carpet treatment!

[cutesmiley100]

i love ur hair

[willxtreme]

You're so hot wished you were my gf or sista or mom

[Kr38tyve]

Part 2 but the most shocking thing i found out is my man neva had a female to give him a bath and do things for him i was like dayummmmmm so step up game up bitchess sry i tlk'd too much luv ya vidzzzzzz

[Kr38tyve]

i treat my king the way I want to be treated... so thats why i expect it . let me flip it a lil bit ...most men show chivalry the 1st two dates but then once they get ya the hell with it same goes for women...i hate it if thats not you dont start it off doing it..... for example my boo and i both ran a bath for each other fix each other plate and all take each other out like whoeva wanna go sumwhere thats who paid or we be like is ya pockets str8 .... Part 1

[ShawtieSweet]

Chivalry is a hard topic. Your beautiful though. I'm sorry that can't actually comment on the video. lol, but your georgeous. Muahxxz.

[dethklokwhoknows]

hmm, well idk what i think about chivalry, but i know what i think about youu gorgeous, hit me up sometime!!!

[katiekween]

your really pretty :)

[sydpooh18]

I also feel like...if we are into each other and we are actually a couple, then that's when everything is equal.

[sydpooh18]

I'm an old fashion type of girl and I feel like the guy should pay for the first date. Then if we decide to do something different on the next date, then that's cool. Like every dude I've ever dated has always paid..like..I didn't expect it...but they have always been like.."I'm the man, I'm going to pay for you." I think that if a guy had told me that he didn't want to pay on the first day, I would be insulted..but then..I would be cool with it because he may not have the money.

[RoyaltyWigs]

Your glasses are so hot!

[7fire7ice7]

ur pretty, i love ur hair

i think it's great if a man wants to be a gentleman but a should then expect to be a housewife(not a soccer mom) but i like it when the roles are switched a lil bit now and then

[unercoversuperstar]

wow ur really pretty!

and ur HAIR! its so curly and beautiful!

[LacosteGirlie]

i love your hair!

[ViolentYearZero]

You're so likable! And beautiful. :)

[WTFALYDIEHL]

your gorgeous :]D

[amere21]

you are pretty as hell.. real talk

[jenny909909]

ur really pretty and luv ur hair

love the blogs... i get back 2 u on dat

u go girl u look fabulous☺

[mzCaramelchick]

your hair is hott gurl!!

[skyblue550]

she is Hot...i like her nose.

[Katl7]

you are really pretty

[Sing3rguRl17]

your hair is so pretty

[lordoftoes]

yeahh girl, you know how to do it. will you guys come to my sweet 16?? like legit show up in your awesomeness??? please.

[hottchyna]

i love the hair!

[darkclone81]

I feel that, pertaining to the cooking for your man issue, It really depends on the couples upbringing. If the woman was raised by a family where the women cooked for the family, she would have a problem with it. The man just doesn't need to feel as if it her DUTY. Second, regarding paying for dinner, I can't stand a woman that just expects thats every time she goes out with someone they have to pay. Now men, It looks better on your resume to do so, But Women Don't rely on it. 1 word. COMPROMISE

[darkclone81]

You a beautiful woman, and i love your hair. sexy and sensuous

[toledogirl]

hi love you all! just found your vids today!.and you are so right on giving the love back.

[MsKeke2004]

I LOVE DA HAIR GIRL

[TyeElise]

what kind of hair is that its so cute

[mimithomas69]

what kind of hair is that you girls are a big role model to plus size teens and women i think you for that coming from another plus size girl

[daisychick08]

you're gorgeous your hair color

is OUTSTANDING dammmn haha

[trisypop]

hells no u guys r so pretty and funny lol

[taylaluva]

YOU FINE AS HELL!!

[QnzkiddGrimeyy]

yoo i love you! lol

[ziii88]

i love ur hair color :)what color is that?where did u have it done?

[rhonda24fair]

I think is dead, to many boys are being raised with no fathers in there lives. We also have to many woman who are not lady like are deserve to be treated that way.

[Jrocka7x]

Women are usually high maintenance, so they buy makeup and products and things like that. so I don't really mind paying for the dates because I understand women love to look beautiful, even though they already are. I live equality, and never discriminates by gender, but I am a gentleman. I can't help that, and I love respecting people as I'd wan't to be, unless they didn't deserve it.

[sweety555sweety]

I LOVE that hair

[CamillaSexyGirl]

beauti lady u and good dancer

[SingingWindbird]

yo hair is soo on point..IT REALLY MAKES UR SKIN COLOR STAND OUT..Beautiful features

[Sweetascandy04]

I would love to answer yo questions ma but it's hard to focus you are really beautiful and im a female but I mean that in a just being honest way sweetheart k.

[dragonball1957]

soooo beautiful! she reminds me of my beautiful ex. she looks amazing! wooow!!!! soo pretty. love the skin tone wow!

[taegirl09]

u are so beatiful i admire u

[varsitybria2010]

ur really pretty =]

[CallamSaint]

you are beautiful

[suzbie2706]

All your saying is very true... One has to stop believing and living by these gender stereotypes !!!! Do for your lover as you want done for you!!!! Luv you ST3 keep up the good work!!!!

[Arshaun01]

i think whomever ask whomever out should pay.........If a man ask a woman out he should pay...if a woman ask a man out she should pay......BUT always have backup!

[elena1186]

there are some good points you make in here. i do believe that the man should pay for somethings when they take their girl out. subconsciously women are out there looking for someone they would consider spending the rest of their lives with. if he cant show he can support you then there is a good chance you will be looking else where. but it is a 2 way street. the woman should also do what he does. treat him out to a movie or what ever. spend time and make the effort for a change.

[jennylovesanime]

ur a winnie elena (im not being mean to her ppl shes my friend)

Your right chica woman do look for a man not just to love him but she also wants to feel safe that she can see herself in a stable relationship. If I ask my man out I will pay, but now that we are married I pay with his money..lol ^_^

[Sckoolsuckx]

I Love you girl and LOVE UR HAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[imthingy]

wow you are gorgeous!

[lagunabeachbabe88]

damn ur sooo fucking hot!!!!!!

[glamorouskbaby101]

u r very pretty...love ur shades they look good on u...do u stay n the d.c area because i heard go-go in the background lol

[khaliljj24]

yea they are

[kori819]

yo hair is so purrty!

[banks601y]

you wear some rockin shades where do you get them from they are hot!......

[Honeylovin18]

hey u remind me of me lol:"> yayay ur so pretty no homo

[BlkUnk]

ey yo Ma lookin fine... its just right to be nice to women.... thats all i know...but i also know i want a women thats good to meh....

[HELL0TITTY]

U R VERY PRETTY

[armisticeSecretTrois]

thanks hunnie :)))

[WadeLorenzo]

U ARE S0O GORGEOUS!!

[armisticeSecretTrois]

thank you sweetie pie!!! :)

[omgitskai715]

I was just watching you guys on The Tyra show! You girls are amazing!

[Diamondcharmz]

This is such a good topic. Just yesterday I was looking at this little cute couple and the man was so proud with his wife. They were a hispanic couple.. He walked out of the store with his hand on her hip and opened her car door. I seem to see this more in the hispanic race more then any other. I love that kind of treatment and as long as it is not a show. Because who knows...maybe that man was really controling over her at home. Who klnows... But I agree totally on the 50/50 part.

[secrettroisbeautiful]

Hey mama!! I'm so glad you decided to vlog on this topic!! It needs to be addressed!!! Love ya!

[armisticeSecretTrois]

thanks boo and you know i love your "vlog" as well.. :))

[rurealiam]

Real talk a husband is different then your men/ boyfriend. husband I am fixing that plate and do all that fo sho but someone I am dating I go off what I feel. we should want to be considerate of the other. one thing boyfriend privileges are different then husband privileges. but in a husband relationship it should be 100% on both half, meaning in marriage strive to hard and go above a beyond everyday for your wife or husband. that thing is for life you dig

[jbug618]

omg i saw yall on tyra omg love it~~

[jeremydvid]

ditto,that's why I subscribed. Chivalry

[mztbrezzi]

i like that hair

[luvfunnyflix]

are you girls still trying to hide your identity?? your shades arent dark enough. if i saw you in pubic i know exactly who your where

oh anyway about the video.....i think that a man and woman should do for each other but.......i dont think that woman should be held to traditional rules such as cleaning, or fixing a mans plate. i mean a can ask his girl to do so but dont always expect her say yea because "thats her job"!!(im 16)

[armisticeSecretTrois]

well actually.... i knew how clear or unclear the lenses on my glasses were.. i have darker glasses.. i just felt like wearing those.. whether you could see through them or not...and thanks for commenting :)

[Mija2323]

U look like Lil Kim girl!

[cokoqt81]

it should be equal...man or woman you should treat every one how you wanted to be treated...if you do all the treating and the other person isnt treating you the way you treat him or her then its time to confront...if that doesnt work then its time to show them the door...ps love the hair and yall did your thing on the tyra show..keep representing the plus size women..smooches!!!!

[burgandyblood]

I think the person who asked you out should pay for the first date.

[chyahhbabyy]

Yahh..I like your hair. Lol.

[Ca3Ja2093]

Ok. Im 15 going on 16 and i feel that the treatment is still going on but some men or males dont appreciate it. me. i was brought up to DO that! if not im not a gentleman. u kno? but the majority males dont feel that its polite. and i cant stand that.

[Chococaramel83]

It's the times of the independent woman and the year of the gentlemen. First date...in my opinion..whomever asks for the date should pay, no matter if it's the first or any after. I do believe that men should be gentlemen and do such things as opening doors simply because it's a sign of respect for the woman. There are things a woman can do out of respect also, such as reaching over to unlock the door for him once you're in the car. So much more I could say, but there's no space.

[43v3rAp10n33r]

I don't think it's high expectations. I think it's courtesy on the first date or even the first couple dates. But I think it needs to be a mutual respect for each other though. It's not one sided.

Yes, I think guys should pay for the first date. I think it shows that the guy is really committed to the girl and it's not just another girl on another date. But that's just my opinion.

[hitman727]

First date Red Carpet treatment that

cool...it's what I do. Oh p.s. you are

so HOT!!!!

[Drich18]

Me personally, I don't mind paying for nothin, and or treating somebody. But, some girls, and not all, think that the man is supposed to do everything, and be on this high ass princess/queen pedastal. I mean they should be treated like Queens and all, but they ain't gotta be shitted about it, and they could do some stuff for the fellas in return. Like I was raised to be a gentlemen, so I pay for what I can, and do what I can do, and the whole curtious lingo/fiasco.

[Drich18]

OH THANK GOD!, Let me answer this. I have this best friend, and we're not romantically inclined in any way shape or form, but she "had" this way of going about things. When we went out to dinner, she always wanted me to pay. When all of us friends went out to prom, she wanted her date to pay for her stuff. Which was fine. But, she knew his pockets was tight, and keep ordering stuff, like he could afford it. Then, she always wanted people to do for her.

[meyerchick89]

If i go on a first date with a guy and he's expecting me to cover him...he's gonna be labeled as CHEAP. I know its a double standard, but...i dont mind going dutch, but that very first date, he should really be a gentleman about it. After that point, I think it doesn't matter who pays really as long as they have it.

[mrNHC]

Can you have my baby please?

[PerezHilton]

Your hair looks bangin'! Diva!

[armisticeSecretTrois]

thank you perez :)) !!!

[YoBoiNewnue]

you are so beautiful, but I think it can happen both way

[xxsydneyyyy]

i love your hair, its so curly and gorgous!

[TheRanNorelleShow]

Omg I glad you guys arent just good dancers...You all are intelligent as well.

[biggerflexible]

1) The dude should pay for the first date, period.

I believe in equality but the man has to be the protector and the provider. The woman runs the home and finances.

[biggerflexible]

I'm in love :P.

[s0uth3rncomfort]

I'm coming from a male point of view with a father and mother who are still together, I have never had a woman pay for a date with me, im ol skool, I believe that God told adam he shall work the fields by the sweat of his brow not the woman...the rolls have been reversed and that's why we have havok in the homes today, the men are the women and the women or the men...we wonder why I kids or gay or just screwed up

[RisingDemons]

I'm from an "old school" house, my Mom stays home, cooks and cleans, my Dad works and comes home and does yard work. I'm also gay, so what does the roles being reversed have anything to do with kids being gay? My girlfriend comes from a home similar to mine and she's definitely not screwed up so I apologize but your mindset is wrong. The roles of our parents in our homes have nothing to do with weather we grow up to be gay or screwed up.

[s0uth3rncomfort]

Armistice I don't think the" new age woman" today do not accept the red carpet treatment...I took a girl out and she told me she didn't feel comfortable having me open her door or pull out her chair...this is the kicker we were eating it got cold in the place so I took my jacket off and gave it to her...she said"no no then you would be cold" I laughed. Me personally I won't have have woman that cant fix my plate and cook and wash dishes and its my job to protect provide and lover her in return

[perfectlyric]

I agree with you 100%. I'd love to have someone open my door and offer his jacket with out me having to ask.

[lightbright1114]

i think that...is so true! people always want something but alot of times arent willing to give it back!.. and i believe in being 50/50 as well .. !

[DanielleRed03]

I think the person who suggests the outing should pay, also a woman shouldn't expect special treatment if she isn't willing provide special treatment for the other person.

[shawneebecool]

agreed.

[uateabear]

3rd :)

[lrhetta]

"Gryl I try to bring it back when I'm dating But I seem to get Men who are intimidated. U treat people like u want to be Treated!! That's the bottom line. What attracts a Man Physically isn't what attracts HIM EMOTIONALLY!!!!"Women there are many Pretty, cute, big, big butts&Titties ummmmm.......Chivalry is Emotion."

[s0uth3rncomfort]

you spoke the truth on this one

[msboopsie]

First!

[skittlehappymatt]

happy february