Here's a handy tip try to make friends with just about everyone because u won't suffer from things like bullying
1 you might have made friends with a bully(I know you'll be thinking omg I don't want to be friends with a bully u don't need to hang with them just be nice.
2 u will have lots of friends to stand up 4 u if this helped please subscribe to me.
Sure, the best ways to handle people you don't like are to do one or more of the following things:
1. Avoid them (this is probably the least preferable, because it's hard, and uncomfortable.)
2. Befriend them (This is probably the second least preferable, because it's also hard, and uncomfortable, but perhaps if you get to know them... you'll find out they're not that bad?)
3. Find something about them that you admire/like/appreciate/understand or something that explains why they're some way
you don't like. People aren't who they are for no reason.
and
4. Tell them you dislike them, and reasons why and resolve these reasons either yourself or together (depending on who is to blame).
Most importantly: get them to like you, be patient and respectful even if they're not, and do not let yourself get run over by others. (Finally, it's vital to your health to forgive people of any pain they cause. Forgiveness is complete or it isn't really forgiveness.)
this year is my first year of high school, already I am very sad. No one wants to be my friend because where I am, girls only have friends if they have a boy friend. I have an arranged marriage so because of that now I have no friends. I have my family when I come home, but it is very sad to be so lonely at school. What should I do?
Best of luck! Remember: a smile is more appealing than a frown, and a lot more fun in general, being true to who you are will make your friendships more authentic.
I'm hoping that your high-school life turns out well. Remember that high-school is never easy for anyone, even if it seems so from your perspective. Best of luck!
2) Remember not to take it too hard if someone decides they don't like you. You can't please everyone, or control anyone other than yourself.
Finally,
3) If you're still concerned that this isn't working, then try joining a group or club that meets regularly, if possible. (Eg. Chess club, etc.) They're great ways to establish friendships and connections. (Try to choose one that you like.)
It's true, not every high school has mean popular people, but as a general rule, those who are popular and/or attractive in high school let it go to their heads, and instigate negativity towards those who do not have those advantages (either because they intend to do so, or as an accident, not realizing that the things they say and do are hurtful). Thanks for commenting, though, christyuffx!
I'm honestly quite surprised and elated to know that my videos that have been out for a while are still getting hits and are still being commented on. ^_^
hey, thanks for the advice, it is one of the best ones i've heard. im going to ninth grade this fall. im really terrifed, and sick to the stomach, but i really hope i'll do fine.
Another thing to keep in mind is that high school is what ever you make it out to be. Not what others tell you it is. If you go in everyday hating it, then it will most definitely suck. If you love it, it'll rock. I'm 27 now and still remember high school days and wish I could go through it again with the sense I have now.
I can back you up on that. I'm going into 11th tomrrow, so i still have a chance, but the past two years i've had a really bad attitude. but the next two years, i'm definitely going to make it fun!
I love the song in the background. :) This was a help, I am starting highschool in Aug. I am a little nervous, but I know I am sticking with my friends. Thanks
Man I am a senior and I dont give a fuck about popularity, franly I think it is pathetic. I like politics and science and for that I am not a nerd. If any popular person has a problem, dont talk shit, let your fists do the talking PUSSIES!!!! >:[ Bring it on you popular snobs.
Sorry, that wasn't my intent. I wasn't trying to say that nobody is trustworthy, however, I WAS trying to say to be cautious. Although there is the likeliness that someone 'popular' will be honest, sincere, and overall nice, it is still very common that they are not. It's not about saying "ooh, they're popular, stay away" it's about saying "I should get to know the person before I share any secrets with them." Thanks for the comment, tetyana.
i just dont get why you can just be so judgemental of people without ever even giving them a chance. and giving advice like that to incoming freshman doesnt help them- it scares them to death. theyll think that highschool is this big bad place with mean people and bad choices and they wont enjoy the experience because theyll be too busy 'surviving' it..
since it seems like youve never talked to anyone thats 'popular' is obvious because if you did, then you wouldnt say something like that- if you even attempted to talk to someone like that youd see theyre just as honest or sincere as the average joe next to you.
wow well at least you didnt just make a completely stereotypical generalization of all high schools.. just because people are popular doesnt mean theyre not nice, smart, honest, or sincere.
Oh, um... it's several things... purplepeach54 is right, a song from My Chemical Romance, and then... a song called "True Light" which was used as a theme song for DNAngel..
I play Super Smash Brothers Melee, World of Warcraft, Sonic (almost any sonic game), Zelda (almost the whole series), Final Fantasy (also almost the whole series), Kirby(many of them) and a few other random RPG/action/adventure/fantasy/platform games. I make video games too. I'm planning on making video games for a living in the future.
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boomisalluc 9 months ago
i hang out wit people that respect me nuff said
stevengood12 1 year ago
freshmen 1 day im scared
TheWorldwidemedia 1 year ago
thx this like totally didnt help me at all!!!!!!!!!!!
gunit12ful 1 year ago
Here's a handy tip try to make friends with just about everyone because u won't suffer from things like bullying
1 you might have made friends with a bully(I know you'll be thinking omg I don't want to be friends with a bully u don't need to hang with them just be nice.
2 u will have lots of friends to stand up 4 u if this helped please subscribe to me.
Lilncl1 1 year ago
I love the song in the background!
AmericanPrincess109 1 year ago
Great video.
I love the song in the background!!
AmericanPrincess109 1 year ago
dude how old are u????
benedictwong22 1 year ago
@benedictwong22
I'm currently 21, and shall soon be 22, however, at the time I uploaded this video, I was merely 19.
daruna 1 year ago
dnangel soundtrack in backgroud lol!
sizzlekitten 2 years ago
Tee hee hee, so true!
daruna 2 years ago
its my second day school also today XD
can u give me a tip on how to handle people that i realy dont like
snapsnapdik 2 years ago
Sure, the best ways to handle people you don't like are to do one or more of the following things:
1. Avoid them (this is probably the least preferable, because it's hard, and uncomfortable.)
2. Befriend them (This is probably the second least preferable, because it's also hard, and uncomfortable, but perhaps if you get to know them... you'll find out they're not that bad?)
3. Find something about them that you admire/like/appreciate/understand or something that explains why they're some way
daruna 2 years ago
you don't like. People aren't who they are for no reason.
and
4. Tell them you dislike them, and reasons why and resolve these reasons either yourself or together (depending on who is to blame).
Most importantly: get them to like you, be patient and respectful even if they're not, and do not let yourself get run over by others. (Finally, it's vital to your health to forgive people of any pain they cause. Forgiveness is complete or it isn't really forgiveness.)
Good luck, and remember to learn.
daruna 2 years ago
ok thanks man i will try that :)
snapsnapdik 2 years ago
you seem to give very quality advice =]
this year is my first year of high school, already I am very sad. No one wants to be my friend because where I am, girls only have friends if they have a boy friend. I have an arranged marriage so because of that now I have no friends. I have my family when I come home, but it is very sad to be so lonely at school. What should I do?
eurasianchica 2 years ago
Best of luck! Remember: a smile is more appealing than a frown, and a lot more fun in general, being true to who you are will make your friendships more authentic.
I'm hoping that your high-school life turns out well. Remember that high-school is never easy for anyone, even if it seems so from your perspective. Best of luck!
daruna 2 years ago
My tips are these:
1) Be outgoing and friendly, even if you're shy.
2) Remember not to take it too hard if someone decides they don't like you. You can't please everyone, or control anyone other than yourself.
Finally,
3) If you're still concerned that this isn't working, then try joining a group or club that meets regularly, if possible. (Eg. Chess club, etc.) They're great ways to establish friendships and connections. (Try to choose one that you like.)
daruna 2 years ago
thanks man i start thursday..
Koolboysoccer2008 2 years ago
Hope everything is working out well for you!
daruna 2 years ago
Wow, a year later, and still people are commenting on this video!
Thanks for all the support!
daruna 2 years ago
i love this video!!!!!
MetallicRipple 2 years ago
thank you for the tips only one week left to my first day at high school! :O
ludwigskold 2 years ago
Hey dude listen. Mabey your highschool had mean popular people but not here. So yeah.
christyuffx 2 years ago
It's true, not every high school has mean popular people, but as a general rule, those who are popular and/or attractive in high school let it go to their heads, and instigate negativity towards those who do not have those advantages (either because they intend to do so, or as an accident, not realizing that the things they say and do are hurtful). Thanks for commenting, though, christyuffx!
daruna 2 years ago
I hope those tips will help me for my 1st year of high school ^.^ 5/5
rosin40 2 years ago 3
I commented on this video.
Renuzitus 2 years ago
Thank you Captain Obvious! your such a dumbass >.>
Renuzitus 2 years ago
Great vid. 5 *
Blackshadow15951 2 years ago
Thanks for the 5 Star rating!
I'm honestly quite surprised and elated to know that my videos that have been out for a while are still getting hits and are still being commented on. ^_^
daruna 2 years ago
your welcome thanks for the vid. !!!!!!!
Blackshadow15951 2 years ago
faglebot...
fr33k0951 3 years ago
Umm... all comments and feedback are welcome, but..
could you explain what faglebot means?
@_@
daruna 3 years ago
nah dude its nothing mean or anything its just somethin random i say, good video u got here 5 stars
fr33k0951 3 years ago
I wasn't assuming it was a mean thing to say, I was merely curious what it meant as I hadn't heard it before.
daruna 3 years ago
but u r right with the stuff you said
younglinkxx 3 years ago
hey i know how to survive high school DONT FUCK WITH ANYONE THAT YOUR AFRAID OF!!!!!
younglinkxx 3 years ago 4
Awesome video. Great tips.
RevengeofGothzilla 3 years ago
Thanks. This particular praise, short as it is, speaks volumes coming from you. If you ever want me to make a video on anything else, let me know.
daruna 3 years ago
1) Those were really awesome tips, and this was a great video.
2) It REALLY caught me off guard to hear Vic Mignogna singing at 4:34. I'm a huge fan of him and just about wet myself XD
LilyAsali 3 years ago
Fixing what I said on 2, it wasn't Vic, but he does sing the english version. I apologize.
Again, great job. I'll keep this advice in mind.
LilyAsali 3 years ago
Thanks for posting this!
I'm english so I start Y7(I think thats the sixth grade) in 2 weeks so thanks again for this!
42doctorwhomad 3 years ago
hey, thanks for the advice, it is one of the best ones i've heard. im going to ninth grade this fall. im really terrifed, and sick to the stomach, but i really hope i'll do fine.
hina475 3 years ago
Another thing to keep in mind is that high school is what ever you make it out to be. Not what others tell you it is. If you go in everyday hating it, then it will most definitely suck. If you love it, it'll rock. I'm 27 now and still remember high school days and wish I could go through it again with the sense I have now.
uberck 3 years ago
I can back you up on that. I'm going into 11th tomrrow, so i still have a chance, but the past two years i've had a really bad attitude. but the next two years, i'm definitely going to make it fun!
jawnuhh 3 years ago
I love the song in the background. :) This was a help, I am starting highschool in Aug. I am a little nervous, but I know I am sticking with my friends. Thanks
madisonko 3 years ago
I certainly hope my advice is useful. That's why I put it up, of course! Thanks for the comment, and good luck~ ^_^
daruna 3 years ago
omg i am going into 9th grade too! i am terrified. thanks for uploading!
weirdalishot 3 years ago
same here anyone here no anything about "freshman friday" ? my cousins a senior and he says it real
guitarocker69607 3 years ago
Man I am a senior and I dont give a fuck about popularity, franly I think it is pathetic. I like politics and science and for that I am not a nerd. If any popular person has a problem, dont talk shit, let your fists do the talking PUSSIES!!!! >:[ Bring it on you popular snobs.
laetrille 3 years ago
thanks
blader7244 4 years ago
sorry that was in a couple of mesages- it wouldnt let me post such a long message
tetyana 4 years ago
Sorry, that wasn't my intent. I wasn't trying to say that nobody is trustworthy, however, I WAS trying to say to be cautious. Although there is the likeliness that someone 'popular' will be honest, sincere, and overall nice, it is still very common that they are not. It's not about saying "ooh, they're popular, stay away" it's about saying "I should get to know the person before I share any secrets with them." Thanks for the comment, tetyana.
daruna 4 years ago
i just dont get why you can just be so judgemental of people without ever even giving them a chance. and giving advice like that to incoming freshman doesnt help them- it scares them to death. theyll think that highschool is this big bad place with mean people and bad choices and they wont enjoy the experience because theyll be too busy 'surviving' it..
tetyana 4 years ago
since it seems like youve never talked to anyone thats 'popular' is obvious because if you did, then you wouldnt say something like that- if you even attempted to talk to someone like that youd see theyre just as honest or sincere as the average joe next to you.
tetyana 4 years ago
wow well at least you didnt just make a completely stereotypical generalization of all high schools.. just because people are popular doesnt mean theyre not nice, smart, honest, or sincere.
tetyana 4 years ago
Dude, you're a super awesome guy. Haha - and I lovest the music in the background.
purplepeach54 4 years ago
My Chem and.....DNAngel? Right? :D
purplepeach54 4 years ago
Yeah! Totally on the money!
^_^ It's nice to know that I put songs that people like and/or recognize.
daruna 4 years ago
OH YAY!! THANK YOU!!!!!
GOTHICA3000 4 years ago
im giggaly now, you mentioned me! yay! i feel special!
GOTHICA3000 4 years ago
Yeah! That's a good thing! I'm so glad I got you to giggle! ~_~' Love ya!
Daruna
daruna 4 years ago
lol, and i dont giggle much
GOTHICA3000 4 years ago
Even more of a reason for me to be glad I got you giggly! ~_~'
daruna 4 years ago
question...what is that music in the background??
GOTHICA3000 4 years ago
Oh, um... it's several things... purplepeach54 is right, a song from My Chemical Romance, and then... a song called "True Light" which was used as a theme song for DNAngel..
daruna 4 years ago
kool, do you know what song from MCR?
GOTHICA3000 4 years ago
Oh what video games do you play?
trooperman4 4 years ago
I play Super Smash Brothers Melee, World of Warcraft, Sonic (almost any sonic game), Zelda (almost the whole series), Final Fantasy (also almost the whole series), Kirby(many of them) and a few other random RPG/action/adventure/fantasy/platform games. I make video games too. I'm planning on making video games for a living in the future.
daruna 4 years ago
Great tips!! They help me since I'm just starting high school. I just found your videos. They are pretty cool.
trooperman4 4 years ago
Yeah, well, I do requests... so let me know if there's anything else you'd like to see or have me answer.
daruna 4 years ago
Great tips....how where your High School Days
jonjon43 4 years ago
They sucked, but I learned many things from all my mistakes... Why else would I know all these tips!? ~_~ LOL. Thanks for watching and commenting.
Daruna
daruna 4 years ago