Asian Guy White Girl Relationship Struggles (xbeckyxlovesxyou)

[bigdaddyquey]

I love the song playing. In English it's called First time. =)

[supermuaythai84]

What's the song name?

[reviseyourdemise]

i'm a western asian... my heritage come form vietnam and korea lol but i have the mind of a white person, do everything almost american and i speak english -.-

[doubleestark]

Just keep it on the hobby level then you will be okay.

[doubleestark]

でもさ、いくら白人女性と一緒に付き合っても最終的にはちゃんと­日本人女性ときちんと結婚して家庭を持つ事が本音から言うと大事­だと思います。なお、遊びまくるのは良いけど本気になったらちょ­っとやばいかもな。

[MagicalScythe]

I hope you guys the best.

[MrCho604]

I really like the song you're listening too.. Some of the ppl have good points.. There are alot of asian that were raised and lived as westerner. Don't listen to the traditional Asian where their still stuck in the pass.

[Lordofthenipplerings]

Bruce Lee spoke with broken english all his life. He didnt really learn the language until he moved to the us when he was 18.

[reviseyourdemise]

@Lordofthenipplerings not broken english loll just english with a catonese accent...

[Lordofthenipplerings]

Because if its time to bring out the penis, then you know its time for sex. Orgasms are all about clitoral stimulation. Penetration is my main course. 

[671kmn]

Because he has a small penis.All Asian guys have trouble with this issue.

[nunvikingsofthesea]

miscegenation is not good for anyone.

[nunvikingsofthesea]

honestly, stay with your own race. I hate it when I see asian chicks with 50 year old white men.

[FlamerzZz]

fuck up

[KessokuOfficiaL]

I'm guessing you're from Canada? btw you're AWESOME!

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@KessokuOfficiaL IM FROM IRELAND :)

[KessokuOfficiaL]

@XBeckyXLovesXYou oh, well I was guessing haha, well I really enjoyed your video.I'm asian and I live in the states so I never see any of AMWF relationships

[ywfwairbb]

backgrong music, Chinese song ?

[DrArtist08]

1.30-1.35: To Becky, don't worry about it, you have one of the sexiest accents I've ever heard! (from an Asian male)

[chrispak1988]

i love Irish women especially their accent

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@chrispak1988 why THANKS A LOT :)

[MrKnightsofAzeroth]

wow u are too cute..please email me i want to talk to you..you are gorgeous

[HotwaterX]

i like her accent

[Mightypwee]

Hi Icysparks, just thinking that some of what you think that your boyfriend does is related to his being chinese just comes from him being himself and not becuse he's chinese. I'm not saying that it's good or bad. I'm just saying that it's him being his unique self and other chinese men can be different too.

[vryulong]

cant remember the name of the song is this tong hua?

[2damaxmr2]

Hmm Irish chick. 

[Dicestar5]

Keep it up girl ☜(ﾟヮﾟ☜)

[415Underdog]

@californialoveazn

not as much as vice versa

[OniichanDesu]

when I wear regular house clothes without combing or grooming, all girls ignore me no matter what race. when I am well groomed and dressed, all girls stare me down no matter what race. it just depends on how well a guy carries him self. but trying to look good takes effort and some brains. I guess most guys are ignorant when it comes to fashion and accessories. like the simple fact that blue clothing makes asian guys less attractive and orange and yellow does the opposite.

[thewebmogul]

hahaha wrong asian men or white woman and white men and asian woman dont get much stares compare to black & white that worst of them all they get twice more racist and stares.

[memphis3106]

i hope you brothers know kungfu, because hes going to need it

[JamesianDGAF]

are you irish???

[haloelite360]

your cute

[sodaxcandy08]

i love u

[sodaxcandy08]

omg wow

[TinkerbellaDay]

Hey this is pretty random but, where did u get your hair done?

[JaOmai001]

wow Chinese song xD

[dragonking83]

Does anyone know the title of the song in the background. Please tell me if you know. I am a good looking Asian men and I approved White girls dating Asian guy. White girls are attractive. It's shame Hollywood still promote racism. You don't see many Asian men in hollywood movie. Even if they do, they most likely act in kungfu thing, action, never in romantic movie. Not even in adversiting magazinThe reason is Hollywood is owned by White men redneck who are afraid of losing their superiority.

[MargaritasAntesPorco]

@dragonking83 seriously pal, you know absolutely nothing about Hollywood--Hollywood does NOT promote White Men(not for decades)--NOT these days! Hollywood is groud zero for the bombshell Political Correctness...which means white men are fools and racists. BTW--most important point you need to realize is== Hollywood is now, and always has been, controlled by JEWS...(jews are not "rednecks", they aren't even "white men")...JEWS started Hollywood and have ALWAYS been the controlling ethnic force.

[gssfame]

@MargaritasAntesPorco I know Jews controlled hollywood and media. If you're saying JEWS are not White, what are they? Middle Eastern, Persian, Asian, Jews themselves called themselves whites. and they are the most fcked up racist race

[MargaritasAntesPorco]

@gssfame askenazi jews in america look white, many of them even anglisized their jewish last names...so that their names even sound "white". But they are not "white men". If they were white men Hitler would've loved them. Hitler hated Jews...he felt they were screwing up Europe. I only know that all the shit that gets attributed to "white men" about the crap originating in Hollywood is more accurately to be blamed on powerful, rich, media-controlling jewish males...

[x98ghost]

if my gf brothers tried to beat me cause i was asian, I'd break their legs (i hate racism) :P

[MrsUndeadz]

wow ur amazing! u listening to chinese song!! this is my first time see a white girl doing this.. I love it!!

[KoolJayJ]

I find it surprising that your brothers tried to beat up your asian bf when white guys are absolutely relentless and disgusting when it comes to hitting up asian women, those hypocritical assholes probably have had asian girls or fantasize of having asian girls in the past. White guys treat asian women as some easy sex toy, they have no respect for them whatsoever and now they get mad cos a few asian guys are getting with there women?? MAN FUCK THEM!!

[2bin]

@KoolJayJ Amen, brother. It's called keeping the Asian man down. White's (not all but still the overwhelming majority) are great at doing that and to all other races as well.

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@KoolJayJ im pretty sure they were not with any asian girls ever.... they are my brothers LOL!!!

[kissypants7]

@KoolJayJ what up KJ! c/s 1000% about this being hypocritical. it's like everything the

White guys are disliking about Black men's social aggression they are turning and

doing to the weaker Azians.

[venian646]

@KoolJayJ sir you are very negative

[KoolJayJ]

You do realize there is a HUGE (FUCKING HUGE) SURPLUS OF ASIAN MEN IN MOST ASIAN COUNTRIES RIGHT?

China for example will have an extra 45 million men of marrigiable age by the year 2020 who will not be able to find a girl cos there will be not enough. Coupled with the already 20 or so million extra men right now.

Sooner or later Chinese men will have to look elsewhere, mainly white women or maybe latina women. So be prepared for an onslaught of horny chinese men flooding your country

[Epiclolsz]

@KoolJayJ OR they'll turn gay :D

[KoolJayJ]

@Epiclolsz homosexuality can't be forced, your either born with it or not...... im straight and i'll always be straight even if there are no women on earth. I'd rather die jacking off alone than fuck a guy.........

by 2030, China is estimated to surpass USA economically, the urban city dweller in china will have the highest income in the world. They will have the means and education to seek for women further into the world. When people are desperate, they would surprise you what they would do

[hahaits]

@KoolJayJ I agree with everything you said but nobody hasnt proven that you are born gay.

[therkadn]

please move to america and be my girlfriend... i promise i will not speak in chinese with anyone in front of you.

[GuamKomudo]

It's actually not hard... I'm Asian guy with a white girl, I like to think of it more like me and my girlfriend are both human beings that happen to like eachother, not an "Asian guy with a white girl" we are both just humans that are together... So what if you're any race? =P

Stupid people cannot get over this topic, kinda lame

[BaoChuJie]

This is on of my favorite songs in the background xD I personally prefer asian men myself :)

[icysparks2007]

@BaoChuJie Yay :D

[randomscenequeen]

@BaoChuJie  i agree I prefer Asians byyy farrrrrrr!

[maksta7]

Cool vids!

[alakasammy]

Rofl, in america, things are very different....

[KPoPsoul1]

IT DOES NOT MATTER!! WERE ALL HUMAN RIGHT!?!!!! YES RIGHT!!

[razehey]

if you like an asian guy or white girl go out with them. If you say "no"just because of what people think - make fun of etc..then you aren't living your life you want it to be.

Stereotypes are so 1990s. There is a difference. There is westernized asians and Pure asians from china etc... Western asians live western lives eg: talk english, go clubbing, like any other people. China: may not speak english just like russian citizens dont speak english?

[icysparks2007]

@razehey Good points. Thanks for sharing.

[razehey]

@icysparks2007 got to admit its kind of funny when your brothers tried to beat him up LOL. Its not right but if you look at it at a different angle. Lastly yes it is harder for asian males to interact compared to asian females because males like any females that are good looking..whereas white girls are picky about physical looks. Men just choose girls that are hot.

[juki0h]

@razehey true! thats what i keep telling people, there are differences between asian asians and asians that are westernized. im asian, part white and westernized, i like white girls, but personally i like latinas more. 

[razehey]

@juki0h Latinas are hot as hell. No questions asked. Im asian and love latinas.

[kafity272]

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH ASIAN GUY AND WHITE GIRL I MEAN THERE IS A LOT OF ASIAN GIRL AND WHITE GUY RELATION SHIP..................DAMN RACIST

[fuzionkid]

it is the same thing back in the day about black guy and white girl. their parents against it. But things will get better if more people started to date asian. :) Don't give up if you guys serious about it.

[lorongliewlian]

O come on there's an Asian country called Singapore that does speak English as a first language that is comparable to you white people any day.

[LenoeZ]

you yourself look asian. i bet you have some asian heritage in you. so i don't think you can represent what a true white girl thinks, but thank you anyway

[BKKTran]

@LenoeZ This is by far the most ignorant comment i've ever read. In what ways does she look asian, and how does that affect her personal opinions and circumstances?

And what is your definition of a "true white girl"? Blonde, blue eyes, and dumb as a rock? You need to move away from these stereotypes and progress beyond the little world you're living in.

[LenoeZ]

@BKKTran believe it or not, she's not pure white, or "caucasian". that's all i can say.

that surely affects the value of her opinion

[BKKTran]

@LenoeZ If she's part Asian like you said, then why does her entire family opposed to the relationship? Come on, some common sense here.

[ObitoUzumaki233]

These stereotypes need to stop! I need to get famous as soon as possible. I'm like the one asian in the whole world that's not anything like an Asian. And because of that... Well let me explain myself:

I'm quite lazy

Don't give a shit about grades

Kick ass

Bad ass

Cool no matter what situation

And not short

I like big eyes

I have pale skin

There's more but, I'll get to that in the future

[clamantuanguyan]

@ObitoUzumaki233 are you young or just stupid?

[darkphantomXIII]

@ObitoUzumaki233 i agree wit clamantuanguyan. from wut u describe there are azn just like that, u just need to get out more and meet people face-to-face not face-to-computer. please let me explain:

lazy- if u have an account on youtube than you're not that lazy

grades- i was in highskool my friends and i didn't give a fuck and we ditch class, still graduate

kick/bad ass- where u from? throw ur sign up...just sayin

cool- exaggeratin

not all azn r short im 5'10. likin big eyes/bein pale is trivial

[narathchann]

i want to ask u!! why ur mom and ur brother dont like ur boyfriend??? because ur boyfriend is poor or doesn't speak english fluent..

[JamesianDGAF]

not all white people like asians.

not all asians like white people.

white - wealthy, power, determination,

asian - wise, respectful, intelligent

we both got light or tan skin tone.

rivalry. one cannot dominate the other.

so whites call asians chink to down grade asians

but asians are wise and dont do shit about it because it would cause a massacre

[FBICIA911]

Do you understand chinese, cause you listened to the chinese music !

[tednguyen]

your brave girl

[GameMiruku]

I love her accent... waaaay much. I could listen to her talk about anything *all* day~ xD

[cary1130]

U GO GIRL!!!!!......nothing can stop u if u love someone or something, go for it.

andi love ur song in the background!!

[chuwie1988]

Well i gotta say.. My white girl her parent, they didnt like had a problem with me..being an asian. It's my parents who have a problem with her, so fuckin stupid, whenever i argue with her, my parents where always the problem, anyways..it's getting better :)x

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@chuwie1988 I dont have that problem, his parents LOVE ME :)

[nicklee1990]

nic song~~lol

[xzhunter2002]

hey i speak english!

[CptBlacks]

oh wow ur really really really pretty!! lol like the song in the background. i think it may be because ur dating a fob that he is more traditional and generally more asian characteristics. I been livingin in canada for 12 years, i dated a white girl, she had no problems with me, now im dating an arabic girl. Her family loves me, but its cool, deep down people loathe to be more relaxed and outgoing. Study and history shows that the more advanced society becomes the more liberal it and its

[08301alex]

i love the back music & i love u lol!

[DexterRufus]

One quick question to "icysparks2007": young girl, are you originally from Germany or Austria? Your accent sounds germanic. Or are you from Scandinavia? I remember you said you currently live in U.K. but your accent sure does not sound British. So are you from another European country?

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@DexterRufus im not from the UK, IM IRISH

[DexterRufus]

I don't mean to be negative but this young girl sounds quite immature. Deep down inside she seems bothered by the fact that her boyfriend is Asian, though she is attracted to him...or maybe she is dating him only because she is flattered by the fact that he desires her and is protective of her, but perhaps she really does not care for the guy.....who knows. And her family members who are hateful towards the Asian bf are terrible!!! Why are they soo prejudice?? What goes around comes around!

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@DexterRufus actually i love the fact that he is asian, and i love him!... we are engaged now, and having a baby.

[strawboy1230]

You are awesome. And even more awesome for having Guang liang in the background.

damn girl.

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@strawboy1230 appreciate your msg!~~ :)

[drpakman]

I am not crazy about white girls..... if I meet girl like you i will go for it.

[ragholic]

Can stay still for a minute

[gt198gtr]

it sucks how people can't accept diversity in other people's relationships, especially when its family

[musicalala]

Try to think that about how little partying really matters. It only matters while you're teens thru mid-twenties for most people. Honestly,it is a VERY small issue because there'll come a time when you likely won't party or even wanna party regularly. Don't let that come between you.

[OneMove33]

@musicalala I never liked partying its always shit, people make such a big deal about life when its limited transitory and a LIE!!! sorry but just had to let my resentment out for all the times people pressured me to go out just so it was shit and just so they can watch me do the fucking moonwalk.

[angelsingenuity]

Im asian and i think yur sexy as hell

[kevinxcom]

beauty~!

[sunliteagle]

you look cute

[cornelius386]

I'm from Vietnam. The differences between you and your boyfriend are no greater than average. All couples have to work through some differences. Good luck in the future. Your boyfriend is a lucky guy. Truly. You're so pretty and sweet. I wish you were my girlfriend.

[chimpanchu]

Why your mother and brother against your asian boyfriend? Have they met him?

[skittles0703]

Yeah she has a wonderful personality and extremely genuine! People like her are hard to find! Props/Kudos for her!

[XBeckyXLovesXYou]

@skittles0703 really appreciate this msg! thanks a lot

[skittles0703]

I love this girl!

[icysparks2007]

@skittles0703 Me too. She's very outgoing and genuine :D

[shylildude]

are you from ireland?

[Awesomeasusual]

This pisses me off on some level on the way things are, but I like the Guang Liang in the background.

[icysparks2007]

@Awesomeasusual My reaction was similar. I am optimistic about the future however. Though improvements in amwf relationships are small and gradual, they feel more pronounced with each passing month. We just have to keep fighting for it.

[kunga1991]

Kool vid, dude is there any way, I can talk to u personally? Via mail or fb, it would mean alot to me if I can some how get some advice from u. Thank u

-Alfred

[icysparks2007]

@kunga1991 Hey Afred! If you want to talk to Becky, I have a link to her channel posted in the summary section of this vid. If you were referring to me, feel free to youtube message me, or if you really want a different contact information, just let me know and we'll figure something out.