@allgoo19 Actually, sometimes seniors (both men and women) got flustered when I offered my seat and wouldn't take it. I asked a friend who was more conversant in Japanese culture, and he said accepting my seat would make them seem "frail."
@migunit06 "Actually, sometimes seniors (both men and women) got flustered.."
I have never had that problem.
Do you know Japanese people always tend to decline kind offer? It's called, "Enryo". In a sentence, used as "Enryo suru."
They have this idea that if they accept the first offer, it looks like they were anticipating it and not cool. If you keep push saying, "Don't say that, please, please have seat." then they'll accept it with double bow, triple bow saying "Thank you. thank you."
I forgot to comment on teru teru bouzu
Yes, it works and it's been scientifically proven(by me). ^_^
allgoo19 8 months ago
In the public transportation in Japan, seniors get priority, not by gender.
If you see a senior citizen standing and no empty seats can be found, you are supposed to offer your seat to him or her.
True, women get no special privilege only because she's a woman.
allgoo19 8 months ago
@allgoo19 Actually, sometimes seniors (both men and women) got flustered when I offered my seat and wouldn't take it. I asked a friend who was more conversant in Japanese culture, and he said accepting my seat would make them seem "frail."
migunit06 8 months ago
@migunit06 "Actually, sometimes seniors (both men and women) got flustered.."
I have never had that problem.
Do you know Japanese people always tend to decline kind offer? It's called, "Enryo". In a sentence, used as "Enryo suru."
They have this idea that if they accept the first offer, it looks like they were anticipating it and not cool. If you keep push saying, "Don't say that, please, please have seat." then they'll accept it with double bow, triple bow saying "Thank you. thank you."
allgoo19 8 months ago
you speak very fast but kind of fun
chubby5aug07 4 years ago 2
Sounds like it was a blast! Just makes me want to go even more...
<3
~Lil' Buddy
yourcan 5 years ago
Thanks for the FACT. I did not know that.
Yeah, massages! Good luck, BS! Hope you had a good Thanksgiving.
DS
mmarti79 5 years ago