Please google my book "God Said You're My Spouse: The Truth Behind This Deception in the Church." by Melva Rochelle LaVow Or visit my channel for more info.
It is obvious that men want sex, love, and support...so do woman! and I don't float around the bath tub with candles reading about love and relationships either...
we dont need a book but a guide that we can reference like a dictionary ie; she said or did this = definition and possible recommendations on what to say or do next :)
There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
How can you sponsor mentor programs for young men with that attitude and life view? Black Men Speak Publications....I've been writing newsletters for black since 1990 and they also write back. He needs to be on a panel with former radio talkshow Bob Law...
He's completely right? I guess the average man only reads the sports pages? No....he is completely off here. He's a genius says the host...of course....what is the old say, IF YOU WANT TO HIDE ANYTHING FROM A BLACK MAN, PUT IT IN A BOOK. I'm 52 also...I encourage reading...we use to be killed for that knowledge in this country.
"men don't read. I don't care what ya'll think..." If you do, that's not your man....what a condensing stereotype...Martin Luther King, Malcolm X didn't read??? call him on it. This is even more alarming than Ralph Banks book....I am not that unique and neither are my firends and colleagues...Brother, who reads the majority of the black political books in black bookstores? MEN. I DIDN'T SAY ALL....the majority. Steve...you need a wake up call - call you soon on the radio
@blackknight1959 I've read what you've written but I think you might be missing the point. What he meant was men dont tend to read relationship books on how to understand women. If there was a book called 'Act like a man, think like a lady' how many men do you know personally would run out to buy this? As Steve quite rightly points out the opposite sexes communicate and consume marketing products differently.Simple. Try not to get so worked up and carried away.
How can u give advice to others when you have divorces under your belt? He kills me acting as though his shit doesn't stink when clearly it does. I mean really, this is like an alcoholic, crackhead giving advice on sobriety...obviously they're not qualified to do so. He doesn't need to be giving advice of ANY kind.
@malachi, it's wonderful that you slept with your now husband on the 2nd date. It's not typical that the guy will marry the women who sleeps with him on the 2nd date. Being a man myself, we typically think, "She's easy," and if you think about it, you'd agree. Steve is just setting some ground rules for a women to go buy, he's right on about how MEN think. Which probably wouldn't make sense to a WOMEN, get it?
I had sex with my husband on the 2nd date. I had only known him for about a week and a half. About nine months later, he asked me to marry him. We've been happily married for 4 years now. Steve Harvey has no idea what he's talking about. He only tells religious black women what they want to hear. And Piers Morgan is a smarmy scumbag for sucking up to him.
@maclach1 u lucked up!! As a guy, this could have gone either way. He just to have happened to be looking for long term, and you fit the bill. if he was not looking for that, youd be a mark in his statistics..men are vicious..your choice was risky and that choice was not the thing that landed him, it was other things he liked about you
@maclach1 I'm sorry, but your story is an exception, 98 % of the time, a guy wont marry a woman who is easy enough to spread her legs on the seconds date, so I'm sorry but I have his side on this because he is 100% correct, and every woman should follow this rule because it only makes her more valuable in his eyes. Sorry, but its true, ur stories diff. cuz maybe he was your soulmate.
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relationshipadvices 1 week ago
Men don't read? No Harvey, you don't read. Maybe you should try it sometime.
Pulpgimp 3 weeks ago
It is obvious that men want sex, love, and support...so do woman! and I don't float around the bath tub with candles reading about love and relationships either...
lucy9359 1 month ago
we dont need a book but a guide that we can reference like a dictionary ie; she said or did this = definition and possible recommendations on what to say or do next :)
chukfarly 1 month ago
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There is a very informative book called "The Black Girl Curse" that covers this exact subject. Black men were falling and crawling to black women until black women completely lost their minds behind an absolute tsunami of government assistance programs in the mid 70's and early 80's that ranged from free rent and medical care to free on the job training to preferred military recruiting for minority females and since the mid 70's there has been a mass exodus away from black women.
pc0p1mp 2 months ago
someone cashing in on yet another book for bitter lonely tired hags.....
Natsukashii3 2 months ago
How can you sponsor mentor programs for young men with that attitude and life view? Black Men Speak Publications....I've been writing newsletters for black since 1990 and they also write back. He needs to be on a panel with former radio talkshow Bob Law...
blackknight1959 2 months ago
He's completely right? I guess the average man only reads the sports pages? No....he is completely off here. He's a genius says the host...of course....what is the old say, IF YOU WANT TO HIDE ANYTHING FROM A BLACK MAN, PUT IT IN A BOOK. I'm 52 also...I encourage reading...we use to be killed for that knowledge in this country.
blackknight1959 2 months ago
"men don't read. I don't care what ya'll think..." If you do, that's not your man....what a condensing stereotype...Martin Luther King, Malcolm X didn't read??? call him on it. This is even more alarming than Ralph Banks book....I am not that unique and neither are my firends and colleagues...Brother, who reads the majority of the black political books in black bookstores? MEN. I DIDN'T SAY ALL....the majority. Steve...you need a wake up call - call you soon on the radio
blackknight1959 2 months ago
@blackknight1959 I've read what you've written but I think you might be missing the point. What he meant was men dont tend to read relationship books on how to understand women. If there was a book called 'Act like a man, think like a lady' how many men do you know personally would run out to buy this? As Steve quite rightly points out the opposite sexes communicate and consume marketing products differently.Simple. Try not to get so worked up and carried away.
TurboKisses 3 weeks ago
How can u give advice to others when you have divorces under your belt? He kills me acting as though his shit doesn't stink when clearly it does. I mean really, this is like an alcoholic, crackhead giving advice on sobriety...obviously they're not qualified to do so. He doesn't need to be giving advice of ANY kind.
divalizzous 2 months ago
He is completely right.
jfwatson10 2 months ago
tell us exactly, why are u revealing all those secret thing about us .u're blowing our cover dude
cnce145 2 months ago
Geweldige Great
CandyLina23 3 months ago
Steve Harvey has been married THREE times lol. And he's giving romantic advice? Maybe divorce advice would suit him better.
MPedroful 3 months ago
@MPedroful Well in life we typically learn more from our failures than our successes.
bawniey 2 months ago 4
@malachi, it's wonderful that you slept with your now husband on the 2nd date. It's not typical that the guy will marry the women who sleeps with him on the 2nd date. Being a man myself, we typically think, "She's easy," and if you think about it, you'd agree. Steve is just setting some ground rules for a women to go buy, he's right on about how MEN think. Which probably wouldn't make sense to a WOMEN, get it?
blabroots1 4 months ago 3
I had sex with my husband on the 2nd date. I had only known him for about a week and a half. About nine months later, he asked me to marry him. We've been happily married for 4 years now. Steve Harvey has no idea what he's talking about. He only tells religious black women what they want to hear. And Piers Morgan is a smarmy scumbag for sucking up to him.
maclach1 4 months ago 3
@maclach1 are you white?
MrJosiah89 1 month ago
@maclach1 There are two sides to every story.
zechin 1 month ago
@maclach1 u lucked up!! As a guy, this could have gone either way. He just to have happened to be looking for long term, and you fit the bill. if he was not looking for that, youd be a mark in his statistics..men are vicious..your choice was risky and that choice was not the thing that landed him, it was other things he liked about you
soulsearch1234 3 weeks ago
@maclach1 I'm sorry, but your story is an exception, 98 % of the time, a guy wont marry a woman who is easy enough to spread her legs on the seconds date, so I'm sorry but I have his side on this because he is 100% correct, and every woman should follow this rule because it only makes her more valuable in his eyes. Sorry, but its true, ur stories diff. cuz maybe he was your soulmate.
loveMeSomehiphop 3 weeks ago 4
@maclach1 i would have loved getting fd on my second date then again if you got prego i would have ran to mexico
SuperMuddiger 4 days ago
fuck steve harvey?
Karosive 4 months ago