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  • interesting... a lot of women say they want to be equal to men professionally but when it comes to dating they want it to be the 1800s...WOMEN WHAT DO YOU REALLY WANT!?

  • @tonyanthonyfowler

    You answered your own question.

    And why is that so confusing? Would you expect someone's expectations to be the same for their professional life and their personal, romantic life?

    Is that how you feel about your job?

  • I just show cleavage, works every time!

  • That doesn't work now a days, now a days it's how much money you have and how much materialism you collect

  • Looks like before I enter a bar I better get laid by a hooker. Then I'll have the confidence to get a date.

  • NEVER take a woman's advice on what women want. NEVER!!!! What women say they want and what women really want are two ENTIRELY different things.

  • i smile and wink all the time and women or weirded out by me. maybe i should shave this creepy beard and lose the trench coat? 

  • bug spray. trust me, bug spray. attracts women likes crazy.

  • This is a good example to get rejected. To ask her name is just too risky. Bad advise. The name is personal, a girl will not release personal info at first word, otherwise she WANTS to talk to you. If that is the case, why making any effort thinking talking to her?, just go and discover what she wants and let it flow.

  • Guys,

    It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.

    Here's what you need to do

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com

    Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist

    Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is

  • @MMArtist99

    that link is such a scam

  • Oh my gosh, was that Chuck Norris working his game on that girl?!

  • WATCH MY VIDEOS OF ME WITH ALOT OF GIRLS LIKE I LOOK LIKE VINNY OF JERSEY SHORE

  • i watch these videos just to read the comments

  • The importance of body language really can't be underestimated. Having open body language is crucial.

  • I love this! this clip help me so much! :)

  • Tom Leykis owns.

  • Ultimate dating advice for men - NEVER get dating/love advice from a women... they don't even know what they want

  • how to attract women? money.

  • body language is everything. few times i've gotten women to dance with me and make out before they even ask for my name.

  • So there's this guy I like, and we both like each other (we told each other) and he like, stares at me for like 5-10 seconds, and I really want to look at him to see if he's actually looking at me or someone by me, but I'm afraid to look because what if he IS looking at me, and we make eye contact. That would be SOOOO akward.

  • Guys,

    Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).

    I'll give you some advice right now..

    Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com

    Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program

    Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha

    Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the wealth

  • why cant that women approach a guy and just be done with it.

  • i followed all these steps and when i go to the wink part it was very akward, Thanks!! (no i didnt get non)

  • after your intro, ur hair is all messed up...what did u do with the camera man behind the scene?

  • @agony202 I feel you man, same thing happened to me :/

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  • I agree with other comments. Its the chicks who choose the men in my experience. A man should just be himself, if hes the goods he'll be chosen 'lord help him' usually when the girl has known him for a little time if he aint the goods then he should be doing work offstage to improve his game. as for winking, better just drop your trousers there and then and see the reaction youll get.

  • If you are not attractive to them, it doesn't matter how you act, what you say, how you dress etc. It makes no difference whatsoever.

    Don't listen to this confidence B.S. You know if a woman is attracted to you. if she is not, move on.

  • Women work to get me, not the other way around. 

  • I'm Commander Shepard, and I say dating coaches are stupid.

  • 1st rule: Find an attractive woman.

    2nd rule: Have some handcuffs, whipped cream, and duct tape handy.

    3rd rule: Attract her into a dark valley by waving kitchen utensils and sandwich components in front of her.

    4th rule: Improvise from here.

  • Some chicks are into geeks/nerds, so hesitation is not a complete loss after all... :P

  • I like the gentleman's mullet at the restaurant.

    

  • A wink is whack and would never work in the real world. That is the worst advise ever its to direct. Girls today think that is creepy and this guy is out just trying to pick up woman. You have to infiltrate the group in a none direct way introduce yourself then do not hover. Let her hang with her friends and then later on in the night buy her a drink and she will feel more comfortable with you since she met you earlier.

  • A wink is whack and would never work in the real world

  • i'm into the whole winking thing. It actually scares me off.

  • By the third video I've grown contemptuous of the shape of her head.

  • First rule.have money.

    Two car.

    Three make sure if she is white and your not,that she dates openly. lolol

  • Nice hair cut

  • 22 years of solid video gaming have ruined my attractiveness. That's fine - Link has loved me more than any woman could possibly hope to. /foreveralone

  • shutup!!!!!about the girls

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  • never mind this woman!! girls love funny guys if u can make a gilr laught u can make her do anything dont go up 2 a woman and ask for her name look at her and see if u can start a converstion if she is holdong a book or sumthing say oh thats a great book or sumthing along those lines ...and never wink at a girl she will think ur a creep

  • Pretend to be a Douchbag to your dream girl... then show her how nice gentlemen you are. She will be so happy to nice guy, things will go smoothly

  • no, just no

  • she is sexy..she made me horney wow

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  • A guy walks in, dressed nicely with flowers. He tried to make a conversation. "This guy is such a loser. He doesn't deserve any ounce of respect. This gal is such a slut. She's got 4 kids; her life is ruined."

    Despite his good looks, this guy's IQ just dropped 20 points!!

    If you're going to bash someone on the first date, then you must have lots of anger. Nobody wants to date a bully, so show a little bit of decency.

  • "Eye contact" is overrated. I prefer cock to mouth contact.

  • "just remember, nothing's going to come to you for free"..... they're all whores!!

  • girls like douche's, thats a fact, just be yourself and if the girl likes u then shes right for you

  • asshole

  • you should give people tips abotu gettin g girls,not how to be a creep

  • how come that: first rule is body language and rule number one is eye contact?

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  • These tips for meeting woman in bars I don't agree with. Bars are the wrong place to try and meet someone special, it never works, never has unless you get really really lucky. Meeting woman at school, work, or through friends is the best way, you have to develop something with a person, not just randomly meet them in a bar, it rarely works out.

  • hallo...i want to ask you something...what do you thing i should do to have a girlfriend am asking you this because i need a girl to girl advice so please dont get me wrong.i live in limassol...thank you...& i love you bye.

  • dont wait for her to come just walk up and say..WANNA FUCK?

  • , This video rocks.

  • I refuse to take dating advice from a girl I wouldn't bone.

  • The girl in this video has a cute little hipster chick haircut. I like it. I wonder if she's hairy downstairs?

  • to a girl at the bar : What is your name please ?

    Girl : Why ? and who the F are yo ?

    Guy: I'm Patel , I want to be your friend and take you in my bed

    Girl : FO...

    Guy : that's what I'm here for , I want to F*** you not OFF......

  • Never ask a woman about dating advise... they dont even know what they want.

  • lol@a1rh3add

  • You also have to remember shes from NYC, a wink means "I want to pound you like a Fillet Mignon"

  • Cut the crap and make me a bloody sandwich will ya......

  • Yes hello I watched this video and understood most of it but what those the "winking your eye" mean? is it inviting? coy? Flirting? What is its overall use and meaning??

  • Hi Jessica,

    I enjoyed your insight on getting a guy to be attracted to you. Your insight is some very fundamentals that do work. Eye contact, asking their name and conversation shows a sincere first approach. Please visit my channel, subscribe, become my friend and post a comment as I will be doing the same. My channel contains some similar subject matter.

    Make this day the best day you have ever experienced.

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  • @LittleMacJK

    lol what?

  • When Zan Perrion says 'you can get away with saying anything 'direct ' or sexual to a woman IF done with a smile and a wink' he does NOT mean literally, but in that playful 'could-be-serious-or-not' demeanor.

    Zan also does not literally dress up in pirate hats much, though he sort of metaphorically subscribes to a pirate way of being, free and not settling for anything mediocre.

    So don't go winking and wearing pirate hats around a hot chick.

  • @MrHav1k

    haHahaHAHAHAhaHahahaAh

  • Wink!? Are you freaking kidding me?!

  • .I LIKE YOU I WHANT YOU I NEED YOU WILL YOU COME TO COFFE TO ME? OK OK ITS A BIT EXAGERATED I LIKE YOU IS OK

  • DONT KNOW HOW MUTCH IS TRUE BUT YOUR HAYR IS ANGELIC LOOKING THAH POINTS OUT THAH YOU LIKE CALCULETED THYNKS YOUR GREAT .YOUR A SUCESFULL WOMEN ANT THE DREES FITS YOUR HAYR COLOR I CAN SEE YOU LIKE TO BE NUMBER ONE AND GLAMORS AND I SAY YOU AR .

  • Money might get you a date - money represents being capable - but if you don't have anything else going on as a man you will just be the guy with the bored girl in the expensive restaurant. You'll still fail. Same with height, looks, hair or any 'excuse' to feel inferior.

    Though a good attractive physique does tell her you are not a slob looking after yourself.

  • Anything works if its congruent to how you're being as a person.

    Unbroken eye contact and a little smirk (a small facial cue) can trigger attraction. You can even say a few words. You might not HAVE to say anything if you get her to come over to you.

  • Confidence

  • I agree with u and actionfitlife.... If I were a girl I wouldn't want a boy all in my face I did Wut u said in this video and I lost a girl and we r not even friends. Tha game is don't tell girl u like her unless ur abousuloutly positive she likes u back if u do tell her wen she doesnt ur screwed she will b scared and u will never b friends again. Not telling girl is how u win the game try this and comment sub and thumbs up if this works trust me it will.. A girls is all over wanting 2 kiss me

  • Even funnier, I bet women still want men to pay for them. lmao

  • The moment you let her know you're interested, you've lost the game..( Yes unfortunately it's a game, don't fool yourselves..). Ignore her, mind your own business, don't feel captivated or mesmerized by her "divine" presence..Women spend thousands on beauty products for a reason..They want your attention, they want you to desire them and think " WOW SHE'S HOT" ..don't do that.

    Be different than all of the other guys that kiss her ass and act like they NEED HER.

  • If you look at a girl, give her a wink then you more than likely come across as a fuckin weirdo and the girl will think she will end up in a ditch

    Just ask her if she wants a date, if she says no move on, if she hesitates persist in asking her until she caves in. Trust me

  • Athough you seem like you mean well the ratio of dislikes proves that you should stop'with the 'advice' already

  • Seriously ...How would you know what attracts a woman other than you ...you are a woman??

    Oh unless of course your a gay woman

  • Oh well, I not giving up the sock in my pants just yet.

  • @MrHav1k Actually lots of women like a little belly flab on a man.

  • @Cobe1976

    haha. Could've fooled me....

  • She's basically saying nervous/shy guys aren't attractive to any woman on the face of the planet.

  • @SuperVegeta25Returns A lot of women have approached me when I didn't even give them a second thought and I was a pretty internal person. Different women like different things, believe me.

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  • @MrHav1k Learn respect asshole

  • Sorry Jessica, but i only whip up a couple of dollars from my pocket to attract women and it works

  • Like most advice from women about women and especially from a dating service provider - her advice is geared toward attempting to turn a man into her ideal. Why? Because she wants men to be the perfect novella fantasy - rather than a good normal human being who is imperfect , like all of us are.

  • @MrHav1k So what exactly do you do with your 6 pack and Bentley? Go to bars, take off your shirt off and wave your car keys around?

  • The word @0:44 that Jess's said. What is it?

  • @bolunmez "killer of attraction" the opposite of what you want. You want to attract women not repel which is the antonymy or opposite of attraction.

  • Try flashing a wad as if you didnt mean for her to see it, if you do it right they lick their lips in a flash like a humming birds beating wing,( only once) , dont believe me? youre the one going home on your own for a wank.

  • winking is retarded

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  • if your such an expert in dating then why is that every time i go to the bar i use your lines and i try to pick you up on dates and it doesn't work.

    What's funny is 99% of all female's are attracted to a douche bag and thats a fact.

    I should be on expert village because as an expert of failing at bar's every single thing you mention doesn't work and who takes tips on hopw to pick up chicks from a female. I give you too thumbs down for your garbage video

  • @surfingusa maybe your ugly bro

  • @surfingusa: You should watch their Bowling videos!! They can't even count right on those! But seriously, women are attracted to dbags, but ONLY when they grow into gentlemen. You seem to be the opposite, a guy who acts like a gentleman around women, but then is a complete dbag around dudes.

  • @surfingusa If you pay attention to what she's saying, she's basically naming the things douchebags do right to get girls: Having major confidence, using body language to convey interest. They realize nothing's going to come free. In order to get what they want they have to go out and just get it, no matter how many times they fail. attraction isn't about using lines. I've gone up to girls and said "I'm a loser and I need friends. You are now my friends" and I was making out within 5 mins.

  • @surfingusa , i've got an idea, become a douchebag yourself and you will finally get your girl. :)

  • Women are attracted to attractive men.

    Just love & respect women, and forget what the $ociety says about

    dating, you are your own man, with your own rules and she can join

    in on that adventure or not.

  • Jessica, I don't want to attract a woman, I want to attract the woman at 0:50. What's her name?

    John

  • wow... I know i should not ask this question, but how old you are? you like nice in that dress ; )

  • knock knock, whos there? its me, wonderin why your not naked

    sooo show me your genitals your genitals show me your genitals YOUR GENITALIA

  • winking is gay

  • @MrHav1k I marked down your other comment because I don't necassarily agree. It's all about attitude and confidence really. You can have a Bentley and a six pack and still suck with girls, but ricochet shouldn't talk shit to you because he's, as he said, never been with anyone

  • @alexlg18

    Part 2 - a few more cases in point:

    - Women claim to not want a "nice guy," when in fact they really don't care what a guy's personality is as long as he's good looking and/or extremely wealthy, and here's why: Women also think they can change a guy. So as long as the guy has a rocking body and a fat bank account, they can "mold" his personality.

    - Lastly, a simple question - do you know any filthy rich or male models who "suck" with women? Because I don't.

  • @MrHav1k You're limiting yourself to the easy girls then, you think it's tough to find a "marriage" type girl when in reality it's only tough for you because YOU are a douchbag, and decent women don't like douchbags. You think it's easy to get any girl because all the sleazy cheap girls are attracted to creeps like you and of course your relationships never last more than a few hours.

  • I have a question, I've just turned 20 and never been with anybody so I'm a little new to all this, When approaching a girl basically out of the blue I'm confident but nervous. Like I have no problem saying hi and trying to strike up a conversation but if she detects that I am acting a bit nervous... would that translate as un-confident? and thus unattractive?

    She would understand right?

  • To attract woman buy a Porshe! if you want score higher get a Ferrari!

  • @MrHav1k Ha Ha!!! You're proving my point. For money you can only get a HOE!!!

    Use a condom!! It takes more then just money to get a decent chick and enjoy unprotected sex. HOEs are only good for a quickie; for a relationship or a marriage you need a decent chick!

  • Boolshit!  These are platitudes. Your advice is too general.

  • @MrHav1k You can have a Bentley and still be without chicks. There is no looser like a rich looser

  • Oh ,hi Jessica. I don't care that you are a dating coach and we're in New York.

  • haha lol, u just wanna make money from those stupid fool men

  • yes i'd ike to ask a question about the "nothing comes to you free" part. Should we instert the money directly into the hole ? is it better to do it right at the beginning or wait ?

  • Man I can't tell you how many times I've snagged a girl by winking...oh yeah, I can, none. I did get subpoenaed once though.

  • No, Jessica. What you explained is how to attract men as a WOMAN. Men have to do the exact opposite. By the numbers:

    #1: You DON'T tell other girls by body language that you are interested in them. The confidence part is true, but you don't "push it". You'll need to ignore them altogether(despite acknowledging their presence).

    #2: You DON'T make eye contact. See #1.

    #3: You DON'T start a conversation unless necessary.

    #4: EVERYTHING will come to you free. Just have to be patient.

  • @Agent1W Actually, that's a pretty solid breakdown of the points. There's more of course to it, but in a nutshell...that's about the long and short of it.

  • @Aimjiel Yea, it's the principle of attrition. Supposedly, girls will get tired of waiting and start coming up to men. I have heard that women can't stand not being the center of attention, like it's an affront to them that nobody "seems" to care about how attractive they are or w/e. So then, they'd go out of their way to seek attention from men...

  • @Agent1W None of this works, sorry to say. We could argue it all day but I've had better luck following her advice than the stupid "Avoidance" rule.

  • @Grawrtastic I never said avoidance, but you said it. Uh oh! You're not doing something right. > : /

  • LMao winking xD?

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  • I just pull down my pants. Works every time ;)

  • "Wink"? "Dating Coach"? LOL! This is hilarious! IMy friends said they almost took her seriously too! Nice one! She's sooooo funny! LOL!

  • nice! I'll just smile at all girls, ask for their names and they will be all attracted to me! thanks for the advice - I feel like the god of dating now

  • "Nothing is going to come to you free."

    I disagree, I own knives, duct tape and a van.

  • this girl looks like leslie winkle from the big bang theory..!!!

  • Jessica Claire is a dime piece!

  • both men and women should work out their bodies, men don't like fat chicks just like women don't like men with beer bellies, also men don't like women with leg/armpit hair like women find men with a bald spot gross and repulsive. Hair belongs on your head, not where it shouldn't be, that applies to everybody.

  • Sorry but i wont take advice from a average lookin chick, who i would never pickup, us guys want a perspective from a drop dead gorgeous hunny and how to get her so plzz expert village put the troll back under its bridge and give us some good advice not troll dribble.

  • put a magnet to your dick-thats how you attract stuffs...jeez... its the law of physic

  • Well this isn't terrible advice. It's just not very in-depth.

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  • wink ?? !! no fk ... lol

  • I have noticed something while walking. Everytrime i look at a woman she immediately looks down or at her phone. Then on the corner of my eye after she passes me she immediately looks up. This happens 90% of the time i pass a woman. Why do you guys think this is? i don't look like Sasquatch or anything so what causes them to do that.

  • So if I have seen this person for a week and everyday I ask what's your name? That is how easily I get a girl...... WoW......

  • the best tip is 2 wear wild eye contacts(i prefer the white outs or zebras) i makes them want 2 look straight into ur eyes and compliment u 4 having cute eyes and strike a conversation from there.

  • Man I'm looking at some of these comments and wow some of you guys lack confidence. Approaching a women is not as challenging as you think it is. All you have to have is good confidence, character and personality, and clean clothes lol. Approaching and talking to women is just like riding a bike. Stay persistent and you'll master it.

  • I don't know why but from some reason I kind of hate you, sorry probably it's not your bad!

  • man these tips are shocking, i can get girls and all that but i can't charm girls i wanna know i to charm them bitches!!!