i can understand a women wanting a guy with big muscles that's like a guy wanting a girl with big breast and so on.if a women is attracted to guy with muscles cuz he's strong of course a female should be attracted. but a thug,huh?? he invites trouble,gets you a record,put ur life in danger,leave you n ur baby .a thug does not make sense.
What confuses me is people that act like the "thug" or bad boy appeal is new or something. I guess it's only a problem when it's the "thug" and the "bad boy"...we all know what the difference is, just like mob/mafia movies are cool, and "thug gangster" movies aren't cool.
The difference with the Mob/Mafia, for the most part, they move in silence. Plus, most mafia guys are non-black. Thugs/gangsters tend to be black and latino men who destroy the community. Mafia guys and latino gangsters believe in protecting their family. They believe in protecting their family at all cost. Thugs could careless about family. They make babies all over the place and don't take care of them. Trust me, there is a big difference in the mafia and bullshit thugs!!!
Great topic. I have never been attracted to thugs so I don't really get it. But I think it goes back to the whole bad boy attraction that some women have. Give me a nice, intelligent and caring brotha anyday. Those are the guys who will go the distance with you. Keep these type of vids coming.
I have never been attracted to a "thug" type of guy either. I have also noticed that female friends who use to date such guys (before they got a clue) did not grow up with their fathers in their lives. I did. So I suspect that may play a really big part in the attraction to thug type guys. Fathers mean so much in the lives of their daughters. I wish more BW/BM would face this fact.
When Kwan said "Arnold Schwartenegro" ..I lost it...lol and the look on your face Crystal was priceless....I know it took everything in you not to laugh your butt off...
@crystalroselove I agree with everything in this video most women think Im some nice guy weakling upon meeting me but when they find out Im a former Golden Gloves champion and a paractionator in Martial Arts then thye get intersted and expect me to be some crazy brute Conan the Barbarian type if confuses me.
I study marital arts..a person size really does not mean he can fight. roger huerta ufc fighter knocked out a 6'4 250lbs nfl player in a street fight in texas. that guy is 5'8 or so and weight 150lbs. also wealthy men often time live in gated communities, hire bodyguards etc. if someone attacks him, he has enough economic,legal, and political clout to send that guy to prison, or they can hire some goons to kick his behind. in the end thugs are a joke.
I feel that many black men feel the need to exude thug like behavior but no woan can take him home to meet the parents. But I don't personally like really know any thugs... Only from a far I see them and they flirt, but I see the way they watch me interact with my son.
Hey everyone! Feel free to let me know if there are any topics that you would like us to cover (either together or individually). We appreciate your feedback!
@kuunami I'm ayanna716 and I had a child with a at the time decent guy and he left. But the thug are attracted to me because I am a good mom. Which makes me feel bad because they aren't as driven as I am. I want to be a midwife and own my own doula business as so on.... I'm still attracted to the well spoken educated college dudes but they intellectualize their poor behavior in my experience. The the thug tend to just want a woman to cook. But I tend to do more than just cook. I dream too.
A few of them who I knew growing up did until a certain age, but they grew out of that phase quickly. By their early 20s at the latest. The key thing is that they usually don't get themselves in a hole by having babies with those guys.
@crystalroselove There's one other issue that's 'kind of' related to that. I remember hearing about women who actually send letters of marriage proposals to men who are incarcerated. I can't remember his name right now, but there's one man who was tried and found guilty of 1st murder of his pregnant wife, and received NUMEROUS proposals while in prison, feeling that because he's at the lowest point in his life, they can make him into the ideal husband they want. I kid you not.
Also what about the good normal black women who get passed over for "the dime" or the video vixen? It goes both ways, the stand up brother was probably going after the bad girl with the video booty and not the good church girl, but all we hear about our women going for thugs....it happens the other way also.
I think there's some truth to what you're saying but still worse the other way around because the normal girl will still get attention from guys if she's decent looking. In the area that I grew up in, a lot of the normal black guys got over looked because the black girls wanted the more stereotypical guys from Trenton. So they ended up either messing with non black girls or putting on a clownish fake thug persona and purposely getting into trouble to show how hood they were.
So true how is someone who is getting shot or arrested protecting you. Other women from other races look for financial protection. What happens when he goes to jail? We got alot of protected unprotected women with their man in jail and no benefits. Wake up
Can the two of you do a video on stand offish persona? I know Crystal mention that some people have accused her of giving off that vibe. Can you discuss what that vibe is? And how to overcome it to attract people into your life? Especially men.
she is the top 20% of black women.
mrcharles007 2 months ago
She is beautiful, Im in love
chessloser28 2 months ago
good show, guys.
Biggbubby 7 months ago
i can understand a women wanting a guy with big muscles that's like a guy wanting a girl with big breast and so on.if a women is attracted to guy with muscles cuz he's strong of course a female should be attracted. but a thug,huh?? he invites trouble,gets you a record,put ur life in danger,leave you n ur baby .a thug does not make sense.
toyu17 10 months ago
I like this channel a lot!
jusblaze99 10 months ago
Its not the muscle bound guys, its these scrawney long white T to the knees holden their oversized pants up knuckleheads they are talking about
1titans 10 months ago
What confuses me is people that act like the "thug" or bad boy appeal is new or something. I guess it's only a problem when it's the "thug" and the "bad boy"...we all know what the difference is, just like mob/mafia movies are cool, and "thug gangster" movies aren't cool.
CurlsNAll 10 months ago
@CurlsNAll
The difference with the Mob/Mafia, for the most part, they move in silence. Plus, most mafia guys are non-black. Thugs/gangsters tend to be black and latino men who destroy the community. Mafia guys and latino gangsters believe in protecting their family. They believe in protecting their family at all cost. Thugs could careless about family. They make babies all over the place and don't take care of them. Trust me, there is a big difference in the mafia and bullshit thugs!!!
reignsupreme 2 months ago
Great topic. I have never been attracted to thugs so I don't really get it. But I think it goes back to the whole bad boy attraction that some women have. Give me a nice, intelligent and caring brotha anyday. Those are the guys who will go the distance with you. Keep these type of vids coming.
Jus2Jazzy4u 10 months ago
I have never been attracted to a "thug" type of guy either. I have also noticed that female friends who use to date such guys (before they got a clue) did not grow up with their fathers in their lives. I did. So I suspect that may play a really big part in the attraction to thug type guys. Fathers mean so much in the lives of their daughters. I wish more BW/BM would face this fact.
apothecary21c 10 months ago
LMBO @ Arnold Schwartzenegro! You guys are cute! :)
SexyToria 10 months ago
Good topic! Those woman are insecure and lack self love. The men they chase are ignorant and also lacking self-esteem.
julesstillhair 10 months ago
I think it has a lot to do with age. Real women know what a real man is. Thugs are not it.
beautiful4days 10 months ago
When Kwan said "Arnold Schwartenegro" ..I lost it...lol and the look on your face Crystal was priceless....I know it took everything in you not to laugh your butt off...
starrchild1257 10 months ago 3
@starrchild1257 lmao! You're right! :D He surprised me with that - I wanted to burst out laughing!
crystalroselove 10 months ago
@crystalroselove *chuckling* As a Black man and former competitor in bodybuilding, even I NEVER heard that one. I don't blame you. :)
Tsuruta1 10 months ago
@Tsuruta1 :D :D :D
crystalroselove 10 months ago
@crystalroselove I agree with everything in this video most women think Im some nice guy weakling upon meeting me but when they find out Im a former Golden Gloves champion and a paractionator in Martial Arts then thye get intersted and expect me to be some crazy brute Conan the Barbarian type if confuses me.
Damondeeh20 2 months ago
I study marital arts..a person size really does not mean he can fight. roger huerta ufc fighter knocked out a 6'4 250lbs nfl player in a street fight in texas. that guy is 5'8 or so and weight 150lbs. also wealthy men often time live in gated communities, hire bodyguards etc. if someone attacks him, he has enough economic,legal, and political clout to send that guy to prison, or they can hire some goons to kick his behind. in the end thugs are a joke.
mrcharles007 2 months ago
I feel that many black men feel the need to exude thug like behavior but no woan can take him home to meet the parents. But I don't personally like really know any thugs... Only from a far I see them and they flirt, but I see the way they watch me interact with my son.
yannajata 10 months ago
Hey everyone! Feel free to let me know if there are any topics that you would like us to cover (either together or individually). We appreciate your feedback!
crystalroselove 10 months ago
@kuunami I'm ayanna716 and I had a child with a at the time decent guy and he left. But the thug are attracted to me because I am a good mom. Which makes me feel bad because they aren't as driven as I am. I want to be a midwife and own my own doula business as so on.... I'm still attracted to the well spoken educated college dudes but they intellectualize their poor behavior in my experience. The the thug tend to just want a woman to cook. But I tend to do more than just cook. I dream too.
yannajata 10 months ago
@Ayanna716
A few of them who I knew growing up did until a certain age, but they grew out of that phase quickly. By their early 20s at the latest. The key thing is that they usually don't get themselves in a hole by having babies with those guys.
kuunami 10 months ago
All I have to say is "KWAN FOR PRESIDENT 2012!!!" You pretty much nailed this one man. 100 percent truth.
kuunami 10 months ago 2
@kuunami lol! :D
crystalroselove 10 months ago
lol i heard a woman say that she wanted a tupac with a degree.
JRiddick16 10 months ago
@JRiddick16 lol!
crystalroselove 10 months ago
@crystalroselove There's one other issue that's 'kind of' related to that. I remember hearing about women who actually send letters of marriage proposals to men who are incarcerated. I can't remember his name right now, but there's one man who was tried and found guilty of 1st murder of his pregnant wife, and received NUMEROUS proposals while in prison, feeling that because he's at the lowest point in his life, they can make him into the ideal husband they want. I kid you not.
Tsuruta1 10 months ago
@Tsuruta1 I heard about that. I believe his name is Scott Peterson.
apothecary21c 10 months ago
@apothecary21c That's him, you're correct. :)
Tsuruta1 10 months ago
@JRiddick16 lol that is funny :) Never heard that one
trinifarlyfe 10 months ago
Also what about the good normal black women who get passed over for "the dime" or the video vixen? It goes both ways, the stand up brother was probably going after the bad girl with the video booty and not the good church girl, but all we hear about our women going for thugs....it happens the other way also.
mimimason 10 months ago 15
@mimimason
I think there's some truth to what you're saying but still worse the other way around because the normal girl will still get attention from guys if she's decent looking. In the area that I grew up in, a lot of the normal black guys got over looked because the black girls wanted the more stereotypical guys from Trenton. So they ended up either messing with non black girls or putting on a clownish fake thug persona and purposely getting into trouble to show how hood they were.
kuunami 10 months ago
@mimimason
how is going after a women who looks good goes both ways??????????? theres a difference then wanting a thug......
JODYJOE 9 months ago
So true how is someone who is getting shot or arrested protecting you. Other women from other races look for financial protection. What happens when he goes to jail? We got alot of protected unprotected women with their man in jail and no benefits. Wake up
mimimason 10 months ago
Can the two of you do a video on stand offish persona? I know Crystal mention that some people have accused her of giving off that vibe. Can you discuss what that vibe is? And how to overcome it to attract people into your life? Especially men.
GittaAnnette 10 months ago 3
@GittaAnnette Great topic! I'm going to do a video on this issue. Thanks GittaAnnette!
crystalroselove 10 months ago
Everyone wants a bad boy at some point even if we never act on it. for me i just dont care for the lifestlye. . .
BlaQAfrodisiac 10 months ago
LMAO Yall are too cute!
stylerhinqatar 10 months ago
@stylerhinqatar Thanks!
crystalroselove 10 months ago
you two make a great couple
charzie 10 months ago 2
these women want a tupac with a degree
g6686not 10 months ago 2