Strawberry Letter #29: "My Boyfriend's wife is driving me crazy!"

[sal3s3]

I agree with several others; she is acting like she's an 18 year old with no life experience. We know that's not so because she had a 13 year old daughter. A single mom of ten years has more sense than this. We can't place all the blame on the man. She has to take some responsibility for stepping in a pile of poop. Yeah, he probably laid it low and spread it wide, but she has a mind of her own. You get to know people before living with them and God knows I would have NEVER neglected my own

[NikitiaW1978]

Completely agree with everything you said. I think this lady wanted an out and she used this situation for that purpose. She needs to take responsibility for her mistakes because this is all one her. And yeah married men who want to cheat will always, ALWAYS make the wife look bad because he wants you to believe that him cheating or messing with you is valid or justified. She got herself in this mess and she needs to find a way to get herself out. She sounds selfish as well.

[Ch1nadoll614]

I am so late cause I have been following you for a while but I just got hip to the Strawberry Letters. Thank yo for reading her because I am so sick of these women giving up their children for these no good negros!!!! AAAAHHHHHHH!!!! It makes me want to scream!!!!

[aylix89]

i cant feel sorry for you. you tricked yourself into thinking you needed someone that badly that you were willing sacrifice everything over someone who brought nothing but drama. you have alsomanaged to convince yourself that you are a hopeless victim when in fact you can get out of this mess, when you get over yourself.

[aylix89]

i hope she is lying. she need to buy his wife a bottle of litium and bounce. you do know that bi polar people have a 50% of have a relative with bipolar disorder and you went a took on his 3 kids! you claim to be a SINGLE mother then how are you going to leave you DAUGHTER with a man that she hasnt seen in 10 years and his wife. the fact you childs father allowed you to be a single mother shows he isnt responsible.

[SuperMeshelly]

This sounds like a lifetime movie.

[gaddie85]

I love your conversations. You should have your own talk show. You got my rating. :)

[MIZFINETHING]

some people always want what another person has. this woman entered the sanctity of a marriage where two people made a vow for better or worse and broke up a marriage, so she sowed, so she shall reap. selah

[kittykat60621]

you are so pretty!!!

[Poetess116]

I am shocked and appalled that she gave up her daughter! I don't know any mother worth her salt that would willingly give up her child. You would have to pry my baby from my cold dead hands because the only way anyone is going to take my child from me would be over my dead body.

[WaTThEKoOl]

True that!!

[Koichiwaa]

You have a 13 year old daughter? I honestly thought you were like 18...

[whitehorse8teen]

ON POINT!!!!

[dweakley1]

PREACH YOUNG ONE!!!

[NELLYBELLYPOOH32]

He saught you honey! My step dad did the same to my mom, once we were grown he was out! she raised his kids and us, just so f****d up... OOOOOh i'm so pissed about this letter!

[NELLYBELLYPOOH32]

He saught you honey! My step dad did the same to my mom, once we were grown he was out! she raised his kids and us, just so f****d up... OOOOOh i'm so pissed about this letter!

[NELLYBELLYPOOH32]

He saught you honey! My step dad did the same to my mom, once we were grown he was out!

[sirenthediva]

how old r u

[BabyGirlGoddess]

you sometimes sound like you have an accent

[bklynqueen1973]

BG, you are to be commended for that response. That young lady needs to seek Christ immediately because she surely is not using her common sense at all. First of all a man that would even allow you to give up mothering your child and then allow you to attempt to mother his children is a mess, a hot mess. Men like that never have problems with their wives until they see something else they prefer. I will keep her situation in prayer, because it certainly calls for it. Be blessed BG

[sheetaboo930]

I just want to say a woman should not want a man that runs from his wife bcause she has a mental condition. The vows are for better or worse and as soon as they got worse he ran. It's not like his wife can control being bi-polar.

[SALASIE26]

The lady who wrote the letter has bad judgement. She decides to raise someone else children and not her own. She is selfish she just wants be with someone and the way she entered her relationship with this married man! Yes she did wreck a home when you meet someone the should be not married and stable. No one tricked her she tricked herself because she wants to satisfy her needs and neglect her child. The man ditched his wife who needs mental help to run off with you!

[KeeKeeAllNatural]

I feel sad...this is really sad.

[bkawiseone]

She sounds like one of those women who will put up with all kinds of crap and in the end be like "Well at least I got a man!"

[bnpearson1]

Right on sister! Stay in the Word of God so that you can continue to have an answer toward anything someone asks you! The B.I.B.L.E. basically stands for Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth! To God be the Glory sister and Amen! Let's keep this woman in our prayers that she will be delivered from being a foolish woman and become a wise woman!

[iAmSheera21]

You better say that Bronze Goddess! I mean straight foolishness!

[Nessa0482000]

"GOD don't bless no mess." I love it! I love for you that. I literally asked myself why did she send her daughter away for a guy and gave up so much, as soon as you started snapping.

[Reicya]

A-TO-THE-MAN!!!! There is nothing to add to this one! We'll be praying for you!

Shalom & Blessings!

[ReginaYvette]

Giiiirrrrl, You better preach that thing! " God don't bless no mess"! Make it plain Bronze Goddess, good job!

[ahabahshiloh]

this woman is simple and stupid. she needs to focus on raising her daughter and getting her mind right. u addressed the issues well though bg.

[TheBlackWhiteDog]

Usually, the clincher in my decision not to proceed has been meeting the husband. Twice, as a matter of chance I have come across the girl I liked who happened to be with her family. both the men I met happened to give me the nicest reception, and I immediately know I couldn't do it.

Because most of these started with women I worked with for a period of time, it was easy for us to keep a casual connecion that was pure. So we had no problem continuing to interact as professionals.

[TheBlackWhiteDog]

Seems like every opportunity for companionship I have had deteriorates, because the woman is still conjoined to another relationship in some capacity. Either she turns out to be married, devorcing (maybe), or trying to escape some posessive ex that she is afraid to or unable to cut ties with. In all of these scenarios, I have chosen to stand down, for my safety, and their respect.

I have been a skin's length away from commiting a dishonorable act and withdrew every time.

[TheBlackWhiteDog]

Spot-on take i think..

Here's her out: In hindsight, she realizes that she cannot break up a marrage union, as it is against the soverenty of the institution. Irregardless of her supposed mental state, there is an obligation that neither he nor she has severed as yet. And until that time, he is off limits. Tell him your true feelings. She goes back home and picks up where she left off refining her career choices. If the daugter is truely happier, leave her in their care while they rebuild.

[keyboardqueen100]

God Don't Bless "No Mess"

[mrswimberly08]

nothing good comes from adultery

[ilovemeu21]

wooooooooooooow that was an excellent response to that foolishnessss lol great job as usual

[carcina27]

Well said

[FLYYrasta]

at first I only watched your videos for your beautiful locs but after this strawberry letter, i am now hooked to all of your vids. you're very insightful and intelligent.

God bless you.

[kaliflower16]

Wait his family said its okay that she took the man cause his wife was crazy. What does she think they will say about her. This is a shame. No one thinks about what their actions does to the children, it's just about me, me, me. what happen to family values?

[kaliflower16]

This is a mess. I am so glad you kept it 100

[brnize1969]

WOW! It seems to me as if he knew from past experiences that she would just drop everything and come to take care of him and his children. He knew her better than she knew herself.

[Napisha09]

Being single and a parent I understand the need for companionship...But desperation is not a cute look on anyone. Basically she let this guy play on her long withstanding desire for companionship.he threw her the pity bone and she took it. Just because you're lonely, doesn't man you have to sacrifice And settle!

[RoyalEleven2]

*God don't bless no mess...*....BG>...i fall in love wit u and yur advice everytime i watch u!! keep doing yur thing!!

[SheritaBolasingh]

Wait, is that 1 dislike thumbs down given by the author of that letter? lololol Excellent vid BG!

[ItsSandyCheeks]

smh..smh

[LadyT7381]

TELL IT LIKE IT T I IS!!! IF THIS DON'T MAKE THIS WOMAN DROP THIS MAN I DON'T KNOW WHAT IS!!! YOU SAID EVERYTHING YOU HAD TO SAY WITHOUT CURSING HER OUT... BECAUSE THE AVERAGE WOMAN WOULD'VE SAID " YOU IS A DUMB BITCH!!!" I KNOW YOU HATE FOR PPL. TO USE THAT WORD BE YOU AND I BOTH KNOW MOST PPL. WOULD CALL HER THAT.. (SIGH) THE THINGS WE DO FOR LOVE.......SMDH... :-/

[kylahsmom1]

"when is wife is finished with it"...selfish..well said.. your response is so on point..she needs to let him go and then go straight to God for direction! AHHHHHHHHHHH.....folishness..t­he Bible says for any who lacks wisdom , ask , and you will receive it..my sister needs to be asking!!!!!

[kylahsmom1]

the title of this video is CRAZY..lol..foolishness is right!

[Wlk4acure]

when will we women learn to love our self. Why do we always blame others for our stupidness. when you learn to love your self we will not take second best. When will try to be the best mothers for our kids, a good mother will not give up her kid for a married man.

[ChooChoogirlelle]

HAA HAA! She thought she wanted him but when all his baggage became a reality, this love affair ain't smelling so sweet now...LOL Its just entirely TOO MUCH WRONG going on for this to work.

[Vurchoous]

Amen Amen and again I say, AMEN! you hit it right o nthe mark! not only that, but whats been erking me for sometime is the fact that these women and men are coming together and they think that God is going to bless them and blazey blazey but they never understand that God doesnt deal with confusion. Its confusion when a man who is married (even tho a divorce has been filed but still legally married) and another woman wants to be together! THATS NOT OKAY!!!! but you hit on point as always <3

[ilovecandles24]

Yes!!!!!! to raise his kids and to have sex!!!!! that's all.

[LovelyTrueRed]

BG.....I so feel you on the daughter issue. It sounds like she sent her child to live with her father because she don't fit into the new family. You can't build a strong house on the beach with sand...it will not stand. I hope she "hear" what your saying and move on.

[calmingspirit1]

Sorry for the caps girl.......this one touched a nerve!

[calmingspirit1]

Why would she send her own child away to raise another mans children.......SEE THAT'S HER PROBLEM RIGHT THERE!!!!!!!!!

[queenfee]

I know we dnt know each other but seriously you rock...You seem to be a wonderful woman. God bless you and your fam.

[AfroMohawkable]

As far as the restraining order, I had a bi-polar sociopathic friend that called the cops and put restraining orders on ppl if they so much as blinked an eye at her the wrong way.

[AfroMohawkable]

I dont think she realized how difficult it would of been to be with him...but sending her daughter to live with her father is prob the best thing, because you NEVER know what kind of mental area that little girl would be in. She needs to go back to her daughter. & keep her away from that "other" family. His kids are NOT her responsibility. Moving on!

[blackeee1]

So she traded in being a single mother of one....to a mother of three that are not hers. It doesn't matter that the lady has bipolar...she is still those children's mother and that man's wife. she should have waited until all of it was cleared up before moving her child away and taking on his. I wish her peace but she will not find any as long as she is with someone else's husband...not even in her dreams.

[MissNaturalMystery]

He didn't "trick you", he saw you coming! Men will ALWAYS do what you allow them to do. Your priority should have been your daughter. If he couldn't manage the issues in his marriage, why would you give up your child to put up with a man that can't get his stuff together? Shame!

[MimiDocere]

all I can say is . . . AMEN! "your standards are too low if he meets them." I hope she listens to your advice.

[MsRitaBoop]

LAWD! Too much DRAMA for me!

[CherishMyDaughter]

Man--I didn't even watch the video yet and the title has me flipping out....what????

[tuana1016]

You could'nt have said it any better Bronze Goddess. I can't understand why she sent her daughter away , and decides to take care of his 3 children, and your right ,she did choose a man over her daughter. And if he did it to his wife it will surely be done to you.

[MegaEvemarie]

I always say if you meet Mr. Right he will complement who you are at the time. As soon as you lose pieces of yourself to be with someone, it's wrong. I think he's had enough of the bipolar lady, maybe hit her or threatened her - hence the restraining order - and needed a nanny. You should never ever give up your kids to be with a man. As soon as your kid has a problem with your new man, you should end it. He found you as a family. He should be the one to leave. Blessings on you, BG.

[Nanadsyl]

Tell this stupid po chile to get her OWN husband the she wouldnt have to deal with the drama and baggage. This wife sounds like she would open some whoop ass on this girl. If she's bipolar she better watch her back! This guy set her up and will dump her also.

[tashnik]

Bronze Goddess you are such a breath of fresh air..i really enjoy your videos!!..thanks for keeping it one hunnid...

[mishelloren]

HOW U SEND YOUR OWN DAUGHTER AWAY TO TAKE CARE OF SOMEBODY ELSES KIDS.....TRICK PLZ!!.....

[luckyducky224]

Two words--he's married. I don't care what kind of excuses there are, if you don't have your house in order from jump, God certainly will not bless. Yeah, it looks like rainbows and butterflies in the beginning, but the devil knows how to do that. Get it together, for your daughter sake.

[JRenneaC]

Those 3 kids gonna make HER bi-polar too. Its too much baggage imo. Get back in your daughter's life fully! Kudos to the child's father and his new wife!!

[sugarfreenow]

complicated and confused

[averynurse]

I thought the letter stated that he convinced them both the mother and daughter to move in???

[5001Isaac]

Yes Please get out of that relationship and get your life together. What goes around may come back around. One day he may do the same thing to you and they will call you crazy and bipolar. What! Seriously you can do better for yourself and your child. She will remember that you sent her away for a man for the rest of her life because thats how girls are. Mend that before you lose that!!

[5001Isaac]

Yes Please get ut of that relationship and get your life together. What goes around may come back around. One day he may do the same thing to yo and they will call you crazy and bipolar. What! Seriously you can do better for yourself and your child. She will remember that you sent her away for a man for the rest of her life because thats how girls are. Mend that before you lose that!!

[KafuiSMC]

Why do people NEVER think of the worse before the good before taking actions in their life is beyond me. Your advice was right on point....the truth hurts and I hope she learns from this. Was he the only man in the world giving her attention and is that how low she feels about herself that she's ready to settle for less and to send her daughter away? Such actions have severe repercussions when it comes to children and RESENTMENT comes to mind. She cannot be serious writing to you Bronze

[blessedone337]

Married men are off limits and you can't believe anything they say. This person has to wise up and know he will do the same things to her as well. Why change your whole life for someone you can't give you his all. This is sad and I wish women wouldn't fall for this stuff...sigh...

[Smilez2569]

The very beginning of the letter she talks about how she was taking a break from men and then a past man came to light. That, to me, was her test to see how fully committed she was to taking her break. And your absolutely right about her daughter. That was selfish. I was a single mom and to me its a package deal. There is no breaking it up because what could you possibly say to your child? Straight foolery. God is not gonna bless that mess at all. She needs to pray and keep it moving.

[Geminellie06]

But she loves him! lol im kidding...btw. I love how u keep it so real, but yeah he has too much baggage if u ask me. I would keep trying if i was her :-/

[loveedigveggies1004]

I agree with what you are saying ... But , she chose to be used. when she found out he was married , she could have walked away cut her loses but she chose to covet another womans husband..... she said she broke up the home she and he will be held accountable.and bipolar is not KRAZY it is a mental disorder, that can be controlled with the proper medicine.. and even if she is bipolar what does that have to do with how her husband and his HOE treating her in this foul manner?.....

[graycious3]

married men are some of the most selfish-- he aint your spouse you need to be out -- confusion is work in progress  run girl run the childrens mother gonna be a part of their life what you a legal baby sitter bed warmer

[millyb83]

Oh and next time listen to your mother's advice.

[millyb83]

lol the foolishness of lust.I don't think he trick her she knew he was married and she knew he had three kids. She just thought when he left his wife he'd leave the kids behind to. She didn't expect to be playing mummy. Sending her own child away dumb!. Even if his wife is bipolar marriage is in sickness and in health !I fell for a married dude once but I never let it go nowhere because he was MARRIED and I didn't fool myself into the trap that this lady is in, you should have pulled back girl

[XPRESSNME]

Huh? How the heck do u send ur own flesh & blood away to raise someone else's children?! There is no way!! This is pure foolishness!!

[naturalminnie]

I just started watching Strawberry letters and I love your truth! Some people dnt know how to tell it, but ain't playing.

[TheLady2054]

i initially wasn't gonna watch this "buffoonery" or how ever the heck u spell it, but i just wanna reiterate what u were saying...she is not gonna be blessed with somebody else's husband in her bed and she can take that from a married woman. no one is pleased in this situation; not her, not him, not the kids (including her daughter), not his WIFE and definitely not God. she better get with the program before that bipolar woman have them BOTH on SNAPPED!

[Chasmofmisery]

this lady is kinda stupid. O_o love these strawberry letters! she needs to get her daughter back and live on her on

[Nee717]

wow she should haul ass back home and focus on herself

[Chasmofmisery]

love these strawberry letters!! 

[Mimi10283]

I thought exactly what you thought when you read the part about her sending her daughter away. NEVER!!! You go girl, keep keepin it real!

[maroze1874]

Imagine what her daughter is learning from her action...smh.

Drop everything for a man including your child happiness and stability.

Yeah, his family loves you because it less work on them with helping him with the kids.

[pomosoulbaby]

Girl, you went in on this Strawberry letter. You had me rollin with the "He will give you his last name, when his wife is done with it." You handled this topic to the fullest and kept it all the way funky!!!! Great Job!!!

[glamazini]

no.

[courtneyhhs06]

This video hit home... especially the ending, it was like BAM! I really hope she makes some better decisions for the sake of her daughter.

[barbiedefined]

being bipolar is not being crazy. this is not an old movie. medication can regulate that and shame on his family for encouraging this man to cheat on his wife because she has a condition. thats nonsense. the writer of the letter already knows what is up. she needs to walk away as soon as possible

[sisterhoodbookclub]

Hell to the no, homegirl in that letter is crazy herself...how she going to give away her child and raise his...It sounds like she's bipolar. lol

[auntay88]

COME INTO YOUR LIFE IN ORDER TO FILL THE EMPY VOID YOU FILLY WHICH JESUS WILL DO. THEN WORK ON BETTERING URSELF, MIND, SOUL, SPIRIT BODY AND CAREER (AS WELL AS UR RELATIONSHIP WITH UR DAUGHTER) THEN PRAY FOR GOD TO GIVE YOU UR OWN SINGLE MAN THAT U DESERVE TO HAVE AND WHO WILL TREAT U LIKE A PRECIOUS STONE AND NOT A PUSH OVER (AS THES MAN IS TREATING YOU...HOPE THIS HELPS XXX

BG UR LOOK GREAT PREGGY...LOL....LOVE THE EYSHADOW, TUT PLS.XOXO

[auntay88]

AND HIS MADNESS OVER OF HER DAUGHTER...NOW THAT HER DAUGHTER IS FACING PUBERTY WHEN SHE NEEDS HER MUM SSHE NOT THERE. I HOPE HER DAUGHTER CAN FORGIVE HER FOR THAT, COZ KIDS SEE THESE THINGS. SHE NEEDS TO HAVE A HONEST TALK WITH HER DAUGHTER ABOUT HER THE GIRL FEELS ABOUT LIVINF WITH HER DAD. AS FOR THE MAN...AS BG PUTS IT, HIS USING U YOU TOTALLY AND YOUR LETTING HIM...TRUST NOTHING GOOD CAN COME OUT OF BEING WITH HIM, LEAVE HIM AND GO BACK HOME START AGAIN, REPENT TO THE LORD AND ASK HIM INTO

[Celestialbody76]

Girl you could NOT have said it better. I felt like you were speaking my mind in this video. I hope you're feeling ok these days. Stay Blessed :)

[HISWil143]

Girl you handled this very well. This is one of my favorite responses. I hate a taker . . I used to date one and when you used that name, I started yelling, preach girl, you sho-nuff hit a nerve!

[pheonixphire]

respect the sanctity of marriage. even if a man dose not respect his marriage and tries to get with me..i have respect for the sanctity of marriage enough to turn down his advances. if she really loved him..she would have advised him to get his shit together and have more respect for her AND his wife..to end the marriage completely before tryin to start something new.

[auntay88]

AM SORRY B4 WE START SAY HOW BAD THIS MAN IS, SHE NEEDS TO KNOW WHERE SHE WAS WRONG. SHE WAS WRONG TO LIVE WITH A "MARRIED" MAN, EVEN IF HIS WIFE MAY BE BIPOLAR. SHE IS WRONG TO STAY IN THAT HOUSE RAISING 3 KIDS WHILST SHE SENDS OFF HER DAUGHTER. I THINK SHE NEEDS TO OWN UP TO HOW SELFISH SHE WAS IN HER DESPERATION TO NO LONGER BE ALONE, WHEN SHE SENT HER DAUGHTHER AWAY. SHE IS TRYING TO CONVICE HER SELF THAT SHE DID WATS BEST FOR HER DAUGHTER WHEN SHE KNOWS SHE PLACED THIS MAN HIS KIDS CONTINUE

[onofomi]

i dont know if you noticed but YOU GET MORE VIEWS FROM YOUR LOC VIDS

[atrienneyates78]

"God don't bless no mess"!..... SO ON POINT.

[cynmille2000]

SHE IS A HOME WRECKER AND DESERVE EVERYTHING SHE GETS, WHAT KIND OF MOTHER IS SHE! SHE SENT HER DAUGHTER OFF! SKANK, HOT H--. SMH. GIVE WOMAN A BAD NAME!!!

[pheonixphire]

@cynmille2000 she is asking for advice not judgment..im sure you can voice your opinion without resorting to school yard name calling...

[cynmille2000]

@pheonixphire LOL, SHE IS A GROWN WOMAN, WHAT ADVICE DOES SHE NEED? HOW NOT TO BE A HOME WRECKER? IM SURE SHE DIDNT THINK OF HER STEPPING INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN WAS OK. IM SURE IM NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO IS THINKING OF THIS. THERE WOULD BE NO WAY THAT I WOULD PUT A MAN IN FRONT OF MY KIDS. LIKE I SAID BEFORE SHE WILL GET EVRYTHING SHE DESERVES. ANYONE WHO SLEEPS WITH A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN WILL BE UNHAPPY AT THE END.

[myB2H2]

OMG BG, you nailed it! Hope Miss CRAZY FOR LOVE listens/reconsiders...

Let me repeat your words for her, "Ur standards are TOO LOW, cuz HE AIN'T IT!"

My prayer for her is that God shows her that it isn't selfish to love yourself...it is simply self-love which is imperative to any 'good' relationship. And, may He give her the strength to 'get out' and get her child back w/her!

[ccoleman0522]

this is the best strawberry letter yet!!! im so surprised that people are actually putting their lives in the midst of all of this madness and whats worse is this young teenage girl was sent with her father when she needs her mothers guidance the most! that is ridiculous... these children are being affected by the foolishness their parents put them through and it WILL affect them and they handle their lives in the near future *SMH*

[22frosty]

I am fairly new to your channel and enjoy the Strawberry Letters. However it seem as though its a pattern. Nothing but foolishness. Whats wrong with the women of today? I'm a single woman so I know the difficulty of finding a good man but dang must we stoop that low. The women in these letters are very simple minded and need to do a lot of growing up before being in a relationship. Respect yourself more. No woman deserves a married man. People, we have got to do better.

[ambi101]

you right... smh she was tired of being lonely and single and hooked up with this man out of fear of being alone and is willing to give up everything to please a man

[winterplayhouse]

God don't bless no Mess. That is the best line I have heard so far, and you ain't never lied. That is so true. If you make mess and foolishness your priority, how can God bless that. You are steady worrying about the mess and only more mess will follow. Blessing will only begin to come once you walk away from the mess, pray for forgiveness and allow the Lord to come into your life and repair all the damage that was done. Amen, you hit it on the nail.

[angeewells]

as mr. brown would say, "what the what!" in this day and age i see a lot of woman willing to give up there children for a man. pure d foolishness!

i think she is thinking about the situation after the fact. what is your daughter really feeling? i agree!

[MrandMrsT]

A 13 year old girl is not "raised". To ship your child off to her dad so that you can play house with a married man & his 3 kids is not what I consider being "good with kids". Hopefully one day your daughter will be able to forgive you for sending her away to be with a man - a married man no less. I do not doubt that your daughter is happy with her dad & step-mom since they are clearing choosing HER needs over their own. Get your priorities in order. Being single is not the end of the world.

[ambi101]

wtf is up with women messing with married men..smh damn save yourself the drama and either stay single or get your own man who's single..

[lovewillkillusall]

"Your standards are too low if he meets them!" That was the perfect end line for this video :) I admire your maturity and intelligence BG!

[Thykness]

@lovewillkillusall You took the comment right out of my mind LOL Very on point! BG is full of those priceless one liners! Gotta love her!

[TantraGal]

GOD DON'T BLESS NO MESS! CAN I GET AN AMEN! GIRL I ABSOLUTELLLLYYY LOVE YOU! REALEST CHICK! 

[yoey78]

"God don't bless no mess" well said!

[TantraGal]

@yoey78 haha I just said that!

[kymbo7k]

Love your passion and honesty...all done with class, and respect. Love the Strawberry Letter segment of your channel BG.

[sokewt]

Oh my Lord...



[queenTrdh]

Amen Amen!!!

[TheLovelyRANDOMNESS]

I WANT TO SLAP HER CAUSE YOU NEVER GIVE UP YOUR CHILD FOR NO BODY OR ANYTHING....walk away and get your child and let him handle his...

[TheMollyright]

God Don't Bless No Mess I gotta use that...this drama is too funny but sad too apologies are in order to her daughter and she is going to have to move on and learn to forgive herself for allowing this man to take over her life everything about this situation is unhealthy...she know she wrong and she was hoping you would treat her like a victim...no girl you are the source of your own unhappiness and its time to grow up ...we are all human and error but put your big girl panties on and fix it

[FistPumpSistah33]

AIN'T NO WAY!!! I wish I could have addressed this letter but you handled it well. Thank you for going IN on her.

[BronzeGoddess01]

@FistPumpSistah33 You can always do a video response. :0)

[winterplayhouse]

@FistPumpSistah33 I feel you with that one. I don't know how @BronzeGoddess01 did such a great job addressing all that mess.

[MosaicMaiden]

Weird, just thank goodness that the daughter has a dad that would take her, because this lady's priorities are totally off balance, the fact that she included the original wife's difficulties in her letter are proof that she is making excuses for the whole entire situation, that she has put herself in! I agree with you totally!

[TheMollyright]

Run Girl Run!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pwezzii]

"God don't Bless no Mess," lol I Love IT!!

[Dark0Malkavian]

Even still with the "bipolar" thing because that stuff just doesn't pop out of the blue. So, that should've been a clear sign right then and there. Then on top of that, she has the nerve to instantly take on 3 kids of who aren't hers but have the nerve to toss up her OWN child because that child wasn't happy? How do you think the three kids feel but yet you're STILL taking care of them?

[divasexy]

Ummm... there's no nice way to put it. She's an idiot. smh

[brewatch]

I agree Mrs. Bronze. She should have never sent her child away. What example is that to her daughter.

[calimermaid20]

how do i make a strawberry letter?? i need some advice

[braun3treasures]

@calimermaid20 just send a private message to BronzeGoddess01!

[Tay0307]

i dont even want to know...the title says it all!! lol

[BronzeGoddess01]

@Tay0307 Just go to my home page and send me a personal message. Title it Strawberry Letter.

[Tay0307]

@BronzeGoddess01 oops...i think you meant to reply to calimermaid20 :) but i may need to send you one myself! haha..

[BronzeGoddess01]

@Tay0307 My bad. Sorry. It's these darn chubby little pregnant fingers. :0)

[Tay0307]

@BronzeGoddess01 aww i hope the pregnancy is going well!

[msdena610]

#boobye she should have stayed where she was! That man indeed used her because he knew that she was in love with him at one point. Just my thoughts. And now that she sees who he really is she doesn't want him, but she has now given up her daughter, any other dreams (seems like) and almost her hope. I hope that she gets out of the situation and begins to do life on God's terms. So in short (lol) I agree with you.

[Shawnique35]

chile, she is dumb as a box of rocks...im sorry if that sounds mean..but how in the hell do u give your child away, your job (career), and stability to raise a married man's kids? GET OUT OF HERE...how are you going to justify this to your child later in her life? how dare u even RISK the relationship with your OWN child? This strawberry letter pissed me off.......she seems terribly simple minded to me.