She's correct but let me word it better. You need to feel her on a deep level. People come in different types. Some are not so in tune with themselves. Guid them, show the how, not by being the shrink, but through your body language, how you talk, show her where you are mentally, show her that other side where the grass is greener, and invite her in, don't force her. Show her the path,lure her in, let her take the steps she needs too to be there with you. Listen to Rammstein - Stripped. You'll
Personally I think she is a bit nuts, the level of love that she is talking about is on a deep spiratual lvl and to worship "The Feminin" like some sort of godess was a bit ridiculass.
This is the sort of feminist, new age love, deep spiratual desire or romantacised ideal speewed out by romance novels us "Normal" guy's have to contend with from "some" women who I beleave are just either insecure, been hurt in the past, living in some hollywood or disney fantasy world. I
These videos indicate to me that western society is screwed. The relations between men and women have been severed. I only see dumb women, who settle for a life of fun, no one wants to go the extra mile, struggle and build a better future.
She doesn't say that she wants nice guys but congruent guys, confident guys who knows what they want. What do you mean by "nice"? That term usuallly means boring, insecure about himself...
Amber Lupton really struck a point that totally resonates with my beliefs: personal integrity- set personal boundries that challenge you, make you stronger in all areas, and contribute to humanity in meaningful ways. it is important that you do not violate your personal boundries! we know that your personal integrity (your ability to make and keep promises) is like a muscle. when we build this muscle by living at our true edge, people (especially women) will be drawn to you.
one or two interesting points to take from this, but I think she just said the same thing from about 5 or 6 different angles. She didn't really get what the guys were asking her a lot of the time. kinda undermines her credibility to be able to teach guys if she doesn't quite get where they're coming from. I think she could have said everything she in about 5 minutes.
Each person sees everything a little bit differently - so in order for a LARGE GROUP of people to understand what you're saying, you're going to have to say it from different angles. Also, it's not just an issue of knowing, but understanding - and understanding always requires greater explanation.
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As great as all this stuff is, physical attraction is the number 1 most important thing that a woman and men look for. Everything else is nice, but physical attraction beats everything. Including money, and including confidence. Not all of us are blessed in this area, but I think a big problem is that most people don't try to improve upon things that we can control about our physical appearance.
All in all a waste of 50 minutes. Amber Lipton is telling us what women THINK they want, that women are very sensual, sexual, feeling creatures. We already knew that. The "comofrtable" posture she talks about is "comfortably strong." Meaning you're strong enough to sit comfortably, openly, confidently. At the end of the day women want strength, competence, confidence, and they want to feel like they're important to their man. This is stuff most of us knew already on an intuitive level.
1) Have a relaxed, comfortable, present, and strong posture that communicates awareness, health, and confidence.
2) Have a clear vision/mission/purpose in life and stand up to challenges on the path to fulfillment, as doing so will enhance your masculinity. Women should not be the end purpose of your life but rather adjuncts to help you get there. They will sense your passion and drive and be attracted to you for it.
3) Don't talk to women in the same casual and frank manner that you talk to your guy friends and expect to connect with them on a sexual level.
4) Women love sex as much as guys do, if not more. But that side of them is dormant most of the time and it takes a guy who knows how to flick her sexual switches to unleash it.
5) Women are indirect and intuitive by nature and they expect guys to be able to read their desires and intentions based on subtle cues and gestures. The more feminine a women is, the more indirect she will be. Don't try to find what's going on in her head by asking her directly, as this will force her to think logically and move out of a feminine sexuality state of mind. Instead, adapt yourself to being able to read women's subtle signals - it will be expected of you as a man!
So in summary, she brought up some great points. The only problem is that she didn't articulate them as well as I just did...but understanding women is part of skill #5.
Its about getting the right mix. She knows what women WANT. That doesn't mean you should give it to her all the time, knowing what a woman wants is the perfect way of playing with them about it. Give a little then stop for example.
So if women have a hard time "articulating" what they mean, doesn't it go to show that there may be a high possibility that what women "think" they want and what they really want are two entirely different things? lol Just a thought...
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DurexDurpaneu2 2 months ago
She's correct but let me word it better. You need to feel her on a deep level. People come in different types. Some are not so in tune with themselves. Guid them, show the how, not by being the shrink, but through your body language, how you talk, show her where you are mentally, show her that other side where the grass is greener, and invite her in, don't force her. Show her the path,lure her in, let her take the steps she needs too to be there with you. Listen to Rammstein - Stripped. You'll
DurexDurpaneu2 2 months ago
Personally I think she is a bit nuts, the level of love that she is talking about is on a deep spiratual lvl and to worship "The Feminin" like some sort of godess was a bit ridiculass.
This is the sort of feminist, new age love, deep spiratual desire or romantacised ideal speewed out by romance novels us "Normal" guy's have to contend with from "some" women who I beleave are just either insecure, been hurt in the past, living in some hollywood or disney fantasy world. I
captmorgansarrr 2 months ago
She states the words "FEEL" & "HEARTS" way-way too much. She's only causing more confusion than anything else.
ogrish84 11 months ago
shes freaked,just like every woman.good lesson
91Tribual 1 year ago
These videos indicate to me that western society is screwed. The relations between men and women have been severed. I only see dumb women, who settle for a life of fun, no one wants to go the extra mile, struggle and build a better future.
romm95 1 year ago
I could listen to her talk all day. She really just has something about her that is amazing.
rring88 1 year ago 3
She doesn't say that she wants nice guys but congruent guys, confident guys who knows what they want. What do you mean by "nice"? That term usuallly means boring, insecure about himself...
Tuityxagi 2 years ago
if your wondering were i got this idea from, listen to part 1!
pyropunk665 2 years ago
Amber Lupton really struck a point that totally resonates with my beliefs: personal integrity- set personal boundries that challenge you, make you stronger in all areas, and contribute to humanity in meaningful ways. it is important that you do not violate your personal boundries! we know that your personal integrity (your ability to make and keep promises) is like a muscle. when we build this muscle by living at our true edge, people (especially women) will be drawn to you.
pyropunk665 2 years ago 5
one or two interesting points to take from this, but I think she just said the same thing from about 5 or 6 different angles. She didn't really get what the guys were asking her a lot of the time. kinda undermines her credibility to be able to teach guys if she doesn't quite get where they're coming from. I think she could have said everything she in about 5 minutes.
azzmaster7 2 years ago 2
@azzmaster7 Not really.
Each person sees everything a little bit differently - so in order for a LARGE GROUP of people to understand what you're saying, you're going to have to say it from different angles. Also, it's not just an issue of knowing, but understanding - and understanding always requires greater explanation.
theflyingjbird 1 year ago
Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.--
Robert A. Heinlein
Robikus 2 years ago 7
Relax equal to confidence
Tuityxagi 2 years ago
She sounds like a politician, not going a clear straight answer
raysim13 2 years ago 2
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As great as all this stuff is, physical attraction is the number 1 most important thing that a woman and men look for. Everything else is nice, but physical attraction beats everything. Including money, and including confidence. Not all of us are blessed in this area, but I think a big problem is that most people don't try to improve upon things that we can control about our physical appearance.
davedaddy101 2 years ago
All in all a waste of 50 minutes. Amber Lipton is telling us what women THINK they want, that women are very sensual, sexual, feeling creatures. We already knew that. The "comofrtable" posture she talks about is "comfortably strong." Meaning you're strong enough to sit comfortably, openly, confidently. At the end of the day women want strength, competence, confidence, and they want to feel like they're important to their man. This is stuff most of us knew already on an intuitive level.
fizzle32 2 years ago 4
i completely agree, but i add '
what women think and what women respond to are two completely different things.
koolever3 2 years ago
You missed the point.
theman4130 2 years ago
If you pay attention to all 5 segments, you'll see that she has a few excellent take-home messages:
LeCoq88 2 years ago 2
1) Have a relaxed, comfortable, present, and strong posture that communicates awareness, health, and confidence.
2) Have a clear vision/mission/purpose in life and stand up to challenges on the path to fulfillment, as doing so will enhance your masculinity. Women should not be the end purpose of your life but rather adjuncts to help you get there. They will sense your passion and drive and be attracted to you for it.
LeCoq88 2 years ago 5
3) Don't talk to women in the same casual and frank manner that you talk to your guy friends and expect to connect with them on a sexual level.
4) Women love sex as much as guys do, if not more. But that side of them is dormant most of the time and it takes a guy who knows how to flick her sexual switches to unleash it.
LeCoq88 2 years ago 4
5) Women are indirect and intuitive by nature and they expect guys to be able to read their desires and intentions based on subtle cues and gestures. The more feminine a women is, the more indirect she will be. Don't try to find what's going on in her head by asking her directly, as this will force her to think logically and move out of a feminine sexuality state of mind. Instead, adapt yourself to being able to read women's subtle signals - it will be expected of you as a man!
LeCoq88 2 years ago 15
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So in summary, she brought up some great points. The only problem is that she didn't articulate them as well as I just did...but understanding women is part of skill #5.
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LeCoq88 2 years ago
such a bullshit, women love assholes and bad boys, who is she trying to lie?
eternal6782 2 years ago 3
This woman just keeps repeating herself.
I'll take the last hour of my life back, please.
She is also contradicting what David is saying on almost everything.
kg4ghn 3 years ago 3
Its about getting the right mix. She knows what women WANT. That doesn't mean you should give it to her all the time, knowing what a woman wants is the perfect way of playing with them about it. Give a little then stop for example.
Tootzie 3 years ago
Not at all, it is about what you want out of life, how you two can enjoy eachother as human beings.
AWorthyPlayboy 2 years ago
So if women have a hard time "articulating" what they mean, doesn't it go to show that there may be a high possibility that what women "think" they want and what they really want are two entirely different things? lol Just a thought...
brkdaice 2 years ago 11
An indepth explanation that should be heard by both genders to understand how we perceive. Thanks
RedHeadNE 3 years ago 3